Car Seat Headrest - "Drunk Drivers/Killer Whales"

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  • From the album "Teens Of Denial" out now and available for purchase: smarturl.it/Tee...
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Komentáře • 1,6K

  • @TheJuancapella
    @TheJuancapella Před 3 lety +1840

    I love how Will sings "killer whales" while providing us killer wails.

  • @employeetapesarchive8300
    @employeetapesarchive8300 Před 4 lety +2242

    there's all these people talking about depressing ways they heard this song, i just heard someone micspamming this on a tf2 minecraft server.

    • @avablobbity4757
      @avablobbity4757 Před 3 lety +64

      How tf do you make a team fortress2 Minecraft server?

    • @brendopls
      @brendopls Před 3 lety +113

      @@avablobbity4757 a tf2 server with a minecraft map, theres tons of them

    • @OlaftheGreat
      @OlaftheGreat Před 3 lety +22

      How does one find these unusual TF2 servers?

    • @jamvan1000
      @jamvan1000 Před 3 lety +5

      Minecraft TF2 trade servers are A1

    • @RiseOfAnarchism
      @RiseOfAnarchism Před 3 lety +63

      Idk how to tell you this bud but that's pretty depressing

  • @empy7937
    @empy7937 Před 3 lety +1599

    "you share the same fate as the people you hate" is so fucking real

    • @retardmode
      @retardmode Před 2 lety +52

      its become a question of "whos life gonna catch up to first"

    • @thomasgriffin8269
      @thomasgriffin8269 Před rokem

      You're delusional

    • @bananabanana-b2h
      @bananabanana-b2h Před rokem +3

      kills me every time

    • @TheBassBuzzer
      @TheBassBuzzer Před rokem +6

      Hurts in my whole being

    • @DroolRockworm
      @DroolRockworm Před 10 měsíci +7

      I used to think that. But then realized. This statement is like observing an electron. Just by doing the act, saying it, acknowledging it, observing it, it makes it not true, it makes you different from them, alters the state. So don’t worry, you’re good

  • @OlaftheGreat
    @OlaftheGreat Před 4 lety +2417

    I first heard this song when I was taking a shít five minutes ago.
    Memories.

  • @helpwanted134
    @helpwanted134 Před 2 lety +450

    “There’s no comfort in responsibility” that hit me like a sledgehammer

  • @HematomaFalafalPatrol
    @HematomaFalafalPatrol Před 5 lety +3115

    Three years ago, when I was extremely depressed, I would sing this in the car on my way home from a shitty fast food job at 3 AM. It was a really bad time and it kept me sane. I'm not a huge CSH fan but, thanks Will, you kept me sane

    • @zackeryr97
      @zackeryr97 Před 4 lety +19

      Hematoma Falafal Patrol hope you’re doing better man :)

    • @milandrakulic4965
      @milandrakulic4965 Před 4 lety +73

      ah yes, Car Heat Readrest, my favorite band

    • @davewhitaker7656
      @davewhitaker7656 Před 4 lety +3

      @Conor Winston shitty job squad

    • @davewhitaker7656
      @davewhitaker7656 Před 4 lety +12

      This hits hard now because I would listen to it in the parking lot while leaving at 11pm, my boss was an asshole but oh well, nothing is permanent,

    • @sietecarpinchos635
      @sietecarpinchos635 Před 4 lety +11

      same. Listening to it right now at my shitty job at 5 am

  • @alicehernandez8970
    @alicehernandez8970 Před 8 lety +3142

    I hate it when people say modern music sucks when there are artists like this out there.

    • @HelloInterloper
      @HelloInterloper Před 8 lety +263

      That's the problem, modern pop pushed onto us by mass media corporations suck. To find the good stuff, you have to actually look for it...

    • @jaidsalgado
      @jaidsalgado Před 7 lety +225

      HelloInterloper And it's not that hard to find it lol

    • @NKRevolution
      @NKRevolution Před 7 lety +7

      Alice Hernandez It is very frustrating

    • @Revealingstorm.
      @Revealingstorm. Před 6 lety +58

      jaidsalgado not hard at all. so many great bands out there.

    • @henrycurtis3652
      @henrycurtis3652 Před 6 lety +154

      The only people who say modern music sucks are the uninquisitive and the boring.

  • @fyodor2403
    @fyodor2403 Před 4 lety +450

    I love how everyone thinks differently about the same song. I suffer from anxiety and I blame myself for so many things. Sometimes it gets so intense that I can’t sleep. When I lie down on the floor in the dark, I listen to this song. There isn’t any empty words in this song. I feel like I have no control over my life, I try to change things but eventually I come back to the darkness just to admit that I’m a drunk driver. Today I was listening to this song again. When he said “it doesn’t have to be like this” I felt something in my chest. It was like deciding you’re not sleepy anymore and you can finally get out of the bed, be alive like other people. I’ve listened to this song so many times and this is the first time I felt something like this. I’m writing this while hoping that there will be a time where I listen to this song and feel alive. Deep down I also hope that someone else will read this comment and know that they are not alone. We will learn how to live, my friend

  • @vlixesispunk
    @vlixesispunk Před 7 lety +4056

    this is the future of dad rock

    • @SomeBF
      @SomeBF Před 7 lety +509

      holy fuck you're completely right this is going to played to so many kids in the backseat of long drives

    • @galvan1114
      @galvan1114 Před 7 lety +91

      the future is now....

    • @Anthony-mo9uc
      @Anthony-mo9uc Před 7 lety +85

      Ulises Rodriguez my dad started listening to them so u right

    • @skylersmallman4394
      @skylersmallman4394 Před 6 lety +75

      This IS dad rock, lol my friend’s dad showed me this song I love it

    • @johnpartington5910
      @johnpartington5910 Před 6 lety +54

      Who's the present? Wilco?

  • @LexAnderson
    @LexAnderson Před 3 lety +383

    Just realized this is going to be "classic rock" when my kid is a teenager.

    • @Rakesh_but_handsome
      @Rakesh_but_handsome Před 2 lety +6

      And maybe 90's hard Rock's gonna sound really heavy? 😂

    • @youngkob3408
      @youngkob3408 Před 2 lety +24

      lol classic rock will be the same genre I think, our generations music will definitely have formed a new subgenre of music, (think about it you can already see the idea when people say like (80s-90s rap, 2000s pop, mumble rap..) So yeah I’m my opinion classic rock won’t change , but I’m not sure what you’d call this genre, (if it were to be a new one) honestly I’d say this is more Indie but thats just my opinion lol. Shiii what yall think

    • @0heda734
      @0heda734 Před měsícem

      @@youngkob3408carseatheadrest is lofi rock/ alternative indie

  • @jujufeirrieo2836
    @jujufeirrieo2836 Před 7 měsíci +25

    Car seat headrest is for those people who don't always have a sense of home whether that be the physical place or the people around them, but they just make do with what they have until it feels right.

  • @neenlancaster
    @neenlancaster Před 3 lety +144

    I remember putting this on while dealing with my unmedicated, undiagnosed mood disorder. I constantly felt like life was just going to be a constant state of being depressed and losing everything I had accomplished in a matter of weeks. The line "It doesn't have to be like this" has a place in my heart, it helped me realise it really didn't have to be like that.

    • @aliway7037
      @aliway7037 Před 2 lety +8

      Haha it’s such a simple line but no one ever tells me that. It’s good to be reminded that life isn’t over

  • @emilyc9230
    @emilyc9230 Před 4 lety +342

    I've never even heard of Car Seat Headrest before why am I suddenly in tears

    • @allyski5914
      @allyski5914 Před 4 lety +64

      thats usually how it starts

    • @rizalfadil5430
      @rizalfadil5430 Před 4 lety +29

      The magic of gay furry porn

    • @sagemorgan7457
      @sagemorgan7457 Před 4 lety +15

      That's how we all got here lmao

    • @ColinClifford34
      @ColinClifford34 Před 3 lety +9

      Did I just find Grant’s sister in the comment section of a fucking Car Seat Headrest song

    • @Waltar100
      @Waltar100 Před 3 lety +7

      This is how the transfurmation begins ;)

  • @wheremakeysat
    @wheremakeysat Před 7 lety +2311

    This is the song that plays in a comedy when the protagonist realizes he was a dick and starts to change his ways

  • @ayal8842
    @ayal8842 Před 3 lety +644

    the only reason i want a driver's license is to listen to this while driving alone at night

    • @kyrinky
      @kyrinky Před 2 lety +22

      Drunk driving ;)

    • @vampedtone
      @vampedtone Před 2 lety +30

      @@kyrinky no

    • @wrinkleintime4257
      @wrinkleintime4257 Před 2 lety +8

      As someone who is 25 and can’t drive yet … this also makes for a great train/bus commute song!

    • @Hazelpupps
      @Hazelpupps Před 2 lety +4

      @@kyrinky IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE LIKE THIS KILLER WHAAAALES

    • @garfieldenjoyer2543
      @garfieldenjoyer2543 Před 2 lety +8

      Girly I don’t have a license yet and I play this every night when I drive home from work

  • @jamieday8546
    @jamieday8546 Před 2 lety +209

    I lost my ten year old tarantula to an act of negligence by an ex. She moved states with me five times, I raised her from a spiderling. She was the only thing I've ever loved, my baby girl and my road dog. I'm not sure I'll ever be the same without her. I miss you, bethyboo my babypoo.
    RIP Beth'tilac.

    • @sunnys0phia
      @sunnys0phia Před 2 lety +12

      I’m so sorry to hear that. Sounds devastating man :(

    • @PartnershipsForYou
      @PartnershipsForYou Před rokem +36

      I recently saw a kitten get hit by a car and it’s spine was basically destroyed. I went to a sewer tube to catch her because if she drowned I could never forgive myself. When I got her to the vet, they had to put her down. It was the most humane. She was purring and and looked at me when she feel asleep and didn’t come back. I called her Legacy.
      RIP Legacy. Sorry I couldn’t save you. I really did try.

    • @theaveragesquire
      @theaveragesquire Před rokem +18

      i read you lost your 10 year old kid to a tarantula, then i realized the 10yo WAS the tarantula

    • @melon2point082
      @melon2point082 Před rokem +1

      I hope your better now man

    • @jamieday8546
      @jamieday8546 Před rokem +4

      @@melon2point082 am girl not man, but I'm definitely not. I miss her every day.

  • @aubreypressley1450
    @aubreypressley1450 Před 4 lety +202

    I remember living in this abusive household where my aunt just yelled at me daily. And my cousin or some meth addict from the neighborhood came and stole from me. No one would do anything to fix it and my trailer was a trash heap because my grandma and sister were hoarders. And it was filled with roaches and rats. The toilets didn't work toward the end. The only thing that made me happy was leaving. So eventually I graduated HS and did it permanently. In a 6 month span after graduation I bought a car on my own, started college, and moved into an apartment.
    But during those times, sometimes when I look back, I recall finding this song. On most nights after discovering I'd just sit there numb listening to this song. I'd imagine it would get better.
    "It's too late to articulate it
    That empty feeling
    You share the same fate as the people you hate
    You build yourself up against others' feelings
    And it left you feeling empty as a car coasting downhill
    I have become such a negative person
    It was all just an act
    It was all so easily stripped away
    But if we learn how to live like this
    Maybe we can learn how to start again"

  • @alphadelfa
    @alphadelfa Před 4 lety +197

    I think this song may had gotten some inspiration from the 1977 film "Orca".
    In it, a sea captain accidentally kills a pregnant killer whale, while her mate looks on.
    The captain felt remorse for the incident, because he had been in a similar situation as the male killer whale:
    "I'd look him right in the eye.
    I'd tell him that the killing
    of his wife and child -
    - was a terrible accident.
    That I didn't mean it.
    I'd tell him I was sorry,
    and hoped he'd forgive me.
    I understand what that whale feels.
    The same thing happened to me.
    My wife was pregnant
    and drove to the hospital.
    A drunken driver hit her.
    He killed her and my baby.
    "

    • @athos9157
      @athos9157 Před 4 lety +35

      its inspired by the documentary Blackfish, about Tilikum, the killer whale that killed 3 people after going psychotic for being kept in torturous conditions. The idea of the killer whale part is to reflect killer whales lashing out to teens who do reckless shit to lash out agaisnt the world, like drunk driving.

    • @laylatovar866
      @laylatovar866 Před 3 lety

      Ohhh

    • @creativecredence850
      @creativecredence850 Před 3 lety +12

      @@athos9157 I don't care if that's true, OP's comment is way more beautiful as an inspiration.

    • @rezlogan4787
      @rezlogan4787 Před 4 měsíci +1

      These interpretations make a bunch more sense out of this song. For years the killer whales reference felt like a total nonsequitur.

  • @kirad
    @kirad Před 8 lety +303

    CSH is really killing it, keep it up with the Talking Heads style writing. lyrics like "notes in your handwriting" are fucking killer.

  • @aleclazenby5882
    @aleclazenby5882 Před 6 lety +570

    Coming to terms with my alcoholism, this is a tough track to ignore.

    • @walpole6322
      @walpole6322 Před 4 lety +31

      You can do it. You are strong enough

    • @atleastyoutried6868
      @atleastyoutried6868 Před 3 lety +23

      2 years. hope you're doing good brother

    • @FVnerd
      @FVnerd Před 3 lety +5

      Samee

    • @chloerobins4487
      @chloerobins4487 Před 3 lety +8

      good job, i hope you are still sober. my dad also struggles with it and he sadly shows no interest in changing but i will be glad to be there for you

    • @aleclazenby5882
      @aleclazenby5882 Před 3 lety +34

      @@chloerobins4487 Thank you and everyone else in this thread for the support. I'm sure it's hard to watch someone not want to get better. I've been up and down since I first commented this, but I'm currently 110 days without a drink, going to the gym, eating healthy, and doing my best to live my best life.

  • @kyleshitman458
    @kyleshitman458 Před 4 lety +80

    told my friend this was my favorite song, she said “well you’ve only listened to it every day for the past 3 years”

  • @legomaestro2079
    @legomaestro2079 Před 4 lety +60

    Carseat Headrest has taught me one thing, no matter how insanely bad you are feeling there is always one song on a random playlist that will speak to your situation true it's beautiful. People, if everything goes to crap please at least try to listen to a craptonne of music if you can. It's so worth finding that one song that speaks to you for your own personal reasons haha

  • @scottysols
    @scottysols Před 7 lety +84

    i love at the end of the video when it switches back and forth between the road and the ocean.

  • @jello-baggie
    @jello-baggie Před rokem +20

    epic rap battles of history drunk drivers vs killer whales begin

  • @walterleduy1165
    @walterleduy1165 Před 7 lety +1016

    "Killer whales" followed by some killer wails...

  • @niamhstimpson
    @niamhstimpson Před 6 lety +106

    I don't know why but his voice makes me feel safe

  • @markobarrows4304
    @markobarrows4304 Před 7 lety +928

    These kids are so good it gives an old hippie hope.

    • @nickpagano7134
      @nickpagano7134 Před 7 lety +2

      this is neo-new wave crap.

    • @nickpagano7134
      @nickpagano7134 Před 7 lety +2

      van Morrison, neil young, the beatles, tom waits.

    • @BiggyBoyB
      @BiggyBoyB Před 7 lety +92

      The longer you try and go against the grain, the bigger fool you'll make of yourself.

    • @jeffreyschooler6742
      @jeffreyschooler6742 Před 7 lety +11

      a lot of old musical style is coming back, it's great that it introduces us younger people to older similar music

    • @Heroicchampionundergod
      @Heroicchampionundergod Před 7 lety +31

      Nick R This is a song that is from today's era. I'm a huge fan of classic rock like you, but I also love this song. Maybe its just because I find it really easy to relate to the lyrics. oh well.

  • @servinupthesauce
    @servinupthesauce Před rokem +25

    my interpretation of this song isn't literally drunk driving, moreso that we are all "drunk drivers" of ourselves and lives, using substances to cope with the monotony of the daily grind we all find ourselves in. "trying to get home" to me is just trying to get through this life. and when he says "killer whales" its always after repeating "it doesn't have to be like this". Killer whales are one of the most intelligent animals on our planet, and we really don't know the depth of their knowledge. they've been known to play with seals etc, they hunt in organised packs, have their own communities and languages with different dialects between pods, and are intelligent enough to recognize humans from other aquatic animals. Idk to me hes screaming look how free the whales are, living and loving and enjoying the earth as its meant to be enjoyed, and it doesn't have to be the urbanized rat race we humans call "life" rn. anyway, i'm prob wrong and nihilistic but shouts to CSH for a banger either way

  • @brokensocialben2705
    @brokensocialben2705 Před 8 lety +760

    I can't stop repeat in my car and sing out loud. The end is absolutely epic. They looks like a mix of Modest Mouse, Strokes and Pavement. The future best indie rock band. Already my favorite.

    • @PsilocybeFaerie
      @PsilocybeFaerie Před 7 lety +4

      BrokenSocialBen you hit it right on man

    • @BillCash
      @BillCash Před 6 lety +8

      A touch of Built to spill too.

    • @Carehell
      @Carehell Před 6 lety +5

      Looks or sounds ? :p
      I can hear some of beck

    • @crustpunkjesuschrist
      @crustpunkjesuschrist Před 5 lety

      @@BillCash MM and BtS are similar. I love both, so that's good

    • @stacey_d
      @stacey_d Před 5 lety

      Yes! Pavement. and Weezer

  • @eyewish7203
    @eyewish7203 Před 7 lety +151

    This old rocker had to re-string the Strat after hearing this album. Inspiring. Will is an amazing talent. So much potential. This song is a classic.

  • @skeeter5076
    @skeeter5076 Před 3 lety +296

    this song is keeping me alive while i wait to get transferred from the er to the nearest psych ward. im 17 and this is the third time, but only this time have i bawled my eyes out like i am now. please, if you're concerned about a friend tell them you love them today.

    • @tayasmissing
      @tayasmissing Před 3 lety +18

      Well your now my friend and I love you

    • @skeeter5076
      @skeeter5076 Před 3 lety +9

      @@tayasmissing aww thanks. ily2

    • @user-bi7ce5lw4f
      @user-bi7ce5lw4f Před 3 lety +5

      Omg dude I was in the exact same position like a month ago too wtf. Except they didn’t end up transferring me to a psych ward. How are you now?

    • @user-bi7ce5lw4f
      @user-bi7ce5lw4f Před 3 lety +2

      @@skeeter5076 also I’m 17 too!! so many coincidences ong

    • @skeeter5076
      @skeeter5076 Před 3 lety +9

      @@user-bi7ce5lw4f im doing a lot better. thank you for asking

  • @garbagearchive
    @garbagearchive Před 8 lety +870

    instant classic

  • @craw_daddy97
    @craw_daddy97 Před 7 lety +755

    Reminds me of a more melancholic version of The Strokes

    • @gianco_97
      @gianco_97 Před 4 lety +40

      is more like weezer i think.

    • @caseys2698
      @caseys2698 Před 4 lety +26

      His music is truly unique, not a huge dedicated fan, but a friend is, and from what i’ve heard of his music I love its melancholy feel. Sounds sonically similar to the Strokes and other garage rock-y bands, lyrically like Sir Sly with its amazing introspective lyrics.

    • @wspann1967
      @wspann1967 Před 4 lety +8

      The strokes but good

    • @akwilson1676
      @akwilson1676 Před 3 lety +27

      His vocal reminds me so much of Julian.

    • @whym5780
      @whym5780 Před 3 lety +5

      @@akwilson1676 agreed, the voice is pretty similar to julians

  • @jimsabo1189
    @jimsabo1189 Před rokem +20

    What a lovely song about a serious situation. It provides reason, rationalization, and the subsequent distraction most people go through in a situation like this.

  • @katyacxy488
    @katyacxy488 Před 2 lety +12

    For me this song is about moving through life recklessly with negativity and resentment. Then realizing things can be different, forgiving yourself for everything and doing it differently.

  • @contestofnerds
    @contestofnerds Před 4 lety +50

    "It comes and goes in plateaus"
    Love it.
    3/17/20

  • @MegaSnippezz
    @MegaSnippezz Před 6 lety +160

    Last weekend I had my final play with my drama class before we all move to college and sway onto adult life, going our separate directions. We sat in the dressing room, talking absolute shit about life with this playing in the background dressed like greek gods for the play. What a moment that was.

  • @sophia_skip15letters
    @sophia_skip15letters Před 3 lety +253

    When I listen to this, I turn into that lonely 13 year old who doesn't know if she's going to make it past high school. The first chorus ends, and I'm back into the 18 year old who is afraid that there's no future for her. It doesn't have to be like this. I can and have made it through, and I will do it again. And you will too, I just know it.

    • @cc8070
      @cc8070 Před 3 lety +3

      moggs me

    • @LeftHans2God
      @LeftHans2God Před 3 lety +7

      Fuck, man
      Edit, by which I mean I feel ya
      Edit, edit, by which I mean its gonna keep getting better

    • @rkats7529
      @rkats7529 Před 3 lety +2

    • @user-lz3gm2fq8e
      @user-lz3gm2fq8e Před 3 lety

      I'm in a similar situation to the one you're in from what I can tell, and I know it will get better! We do have a future and we are gonna build it! I wish you the best! It won't be easy, but it will be!

    • @user-yj2bt2ic9x
      @user-yj2bt2ic9x Před 2 lety

      hey. i’m a lonely 13 year old who doesn’t know if she’s going to make it past high school, but i know everything will be ok and you’ll have a future. things come and go but that doesn’t mean they’re gone forever. i hope you know you have a future now. 💗

  • @alwaystiredboy
    @alwaystiredboy Před 7 lety +2784

    now this is the kinda hipster garbage i love. A++

  • @galvan1114
    @galvan1114 Před 8 lety +25

    the best, last two minutes of a song, ever.

  • @professorsucc2255
    @professorsucc2255 Před 3 lety +85

    My dad suffers from alcoholism and so did his father and his father’s father. I’m scared to even try a drop of it because if I do, my fate from them is inevitable. There is some sort of optimism to this song that feels sad. I’m going to try to be my best, I hope you all do as well! I hope you all find happiness, no matter how mean, shitty, and awful you’ve been. We all deserve another chance.

    • @MajarHagard
      @MajarHagard Před 3 lety +3

      Go listen to "stop smoking (we love you)" and "High to death"

    • @nothankyouthanksforasking
      @nothankyouthanksforasking Před 3 lety +4

      Genetics can be a bitch. I've figured as well I'm not risking shit and made it through life without a drop of alcohol just fine, so will you. Easiest decision was to never lift a glass, so there's never a bottle that will need to be put down. All the best to you

    • @euchrideucr0w
      @euchrideucr0w Před rokem +1

      Hope you're doing well two years later, stranger ❤

    • @Elaine-oo4qp
      @Elaine-oo4qp Před rokem

      Do yourself a favour, never touch it. It's a disease that only worsens. Sending love.

  • @wolfzilla8973
    @wolfzilla8973 Před 2 lety +21

    I remember when I was almost 18, my parents got into a huge fight in the car, it go so bad we almost got into an accident. The lyric “it doesn’t have to be like this” always gets to me because of that.

  • @deliakail2334
    @deliakail2334 Před 8 lety +381

    this is so beautiful i cry

  • @marilynortega1825
    @marilynortega1825 Před 8 lety +626

    they performed this at pitchfork today and it was HOLY! people were even throwing inflatable killer whales around lol

    • @creamfury
      @creamfury Před 8 lety +8

      fuck

    • @namepending4585
      @namepending4585 Před 8 lety +3

      wat?

    • @hadenclaire
      @hadenclaire Před 8 lety +10

      > Actually being AT something pitchfork-affiliated

    • @ckcost8714
      @ckcost8714 Před 8 lety +51

      +Haden Odom 4channing not on 4chan...

    • @gerryclemons9654
      @gerryclemons9654 Před 8 lety +5

      I was there for that set first thing Saturday morning. I had no idea what the killer whales were about until now.

  • @jjetsam8739
    @jjetsam8739 Před 3 lety +34

    absolute anthem for when youre borderline and ruining your relationship and you can feel it happening

    • @potterluke2461
      @potterluke2461 Před 3 lety +1

      @@z96109 it's a real personality disorder dumbass

    • @jjetsam8739
      @jjetsam8739 Před 3 lety +5

      @@z96109 you don't know the first thing about me or my relationship, do not assume things, thank you

    • @jjetsam8739
      @jjetsam8739 Před 3 lety +8

      @@z96109 again, you quite literally know nothing about how i handle my disorder, i was just making a joke. sounds like YOU have some issues you need to sort out bud

    • @goatdeer8403
      @goatdeer8403 Před 2 lety

      ​@@z96109"The fuck do you know about diagnosing you dumb fuck" - Ghandi

  • @drainedeyes4268
    @drainedeyes4268 Před 4 lety +59

    One of the best examples of emo/indie/bedroom rock. He hit it perfectly with this song. It pleads for me to listen and empathize. That's the core of what makes "emo" or whatever style you call this, the way it makes you listen.

    • @kasperdomagala7031
      @kasperdomagala7031 Před rokem +1

      "Real Emo" only consists of the dc Emotional Hardcore scene and the late 90's Screamo scene. What is known by "Midwest Emo" is nothing but Alternative Rock with questionable real emo influence. When people try to argue that bands like My Chemical Romance are not real emo, while saying that Sunny Day Real Estate is, I can't help not to cringe because they are just as fake emo as My Chemical Romance (plus the pretentiousness). Real emo sounds ENERGETIC, POWERFUL and somewhat HATEFUL. Fake emo is weak, self pity and a failed attempt to direct energy and emotion into music. Some examples of REAL EMO are Pg 99, Rites of Spring, Cap n Jazz (the only real emo band from the midwest scene) and Loma Prieta. Some examples of FAKE EMO are American Football, My Chemical Romance and Mineral EMO BELONGS TO HARDCORE NOT TO INDIE, POP PUNK, ALT ROCK OR ANY OTHER MAINSTREAM GENRE

    • @foreheads766
      @foreheads766 Před 11 měsíci +4

      ​@@kasperdomagala7031ah yes the only real emo is with no evolution of the genre, at a very specific time, in a specific place and can't include lyrics about feeling like shit or be pretentious. *insert overly poetic rites of spring lyrics talking about in how much pain he is here* Your gatekeeping is so awfully cringe.

    • @kasperdomagala7031
      @kasperdomagala7031 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@foreheads766 you just got copypasta'd

    • @foreheads766
      @foreheads766 Před 11 měsíci

      @@kasperdomagala7031 I am gonna pasta your mom or something

  • @talonmadc
    @talonmadc Před 5 měsíci +3

    i dont really fw this genre of music at all but when i was in rehab they had a night where somone played songs over the speakers that meant something or whatever and i was just so fuckin miserable i sometimes come back to it to remind me how shitty life is using

  • @myles6917
    @myles6917 Před 7 lety +217

    I'm glad their getting more attention, love this band

    • @oliverislost
      @oliverislost Před 7 lety +16

      milez the caption chronic they're means they are for future reference

  • @shanearnold7781
    @shanearnold7781 Před 8 lety +403

    Indie rock lives

  • @chey7601
    @chey7601 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I love you cshr

  • @krissycrossy
    @krissycrossy Před 2 lety +10

    my brother used to play this song all the time when I was a little kid. he was still in high school and my mom and I used to pick him up from school. he graduated college and now im here to re live the good times from back then. great song :)

  • @sharifmahabuba8556
    @sharifmahabuba8556 Před 8 měsíci +6

    i have found that everybody just likes this song without exception. i even sang it at KTV in China and everybody was singing along to chorus, it is just universally catchy

    • @sharifmahabuba8556
      @sharifmahabuba8556 Před 8 měsíci

      even my tone deaf russian friend loves to belt it out IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE LIKE THISSSSSSSS

  • @cygnusfloyd
    @cygnusfloyd Před 7 lety +446

    I really like the song but I'm crunching numbers over here to discover the correlation between drunk drivers and large oceanic mammals. My efforts have yielded insubstantial results...

    • @travis7346
      @travis7346 Před 6 lety +10

      @Patrick Star says the guy responding to a year old comment lmao

    • @UserName-pi9no
      @UserName-pi9no Před 6 lety +1

      @Patrick Star Yeah! Why do you smell feet? You aesthetic mind is unreasonable.

    • @everythingiseconomics9742
      @everythingiseconomics9742 Před 5 lety +3

      It's been over two years and I still want to know.

    • @atrijitdas1704
      @atrijitdas1704 Před 5 lety +56

      the movie Blackfish is about captive killer whales and that is what Will is referencing, is what i read. It's a depressing documentary and shows how the whales suffer because they're kept in cages (or something like that. haven't seen the movie)
      Of course, they don't have to be kept captive. "It doesn't have to be like this"
      also i guess you could compare those unfree water animals to the condition that someone leaving a party intoxicated, heartbroken, and unable to find his keys is in

    • @everythingiseconomics9742
      @everythingiseconomics9742 Před 5 lety +1

      @@atrijitdas1704 I've seen the movie (on netflix in 2013 or something). It's about Sea World.

  • @ghoste_girll
    @ghoste_girll Před 4 lety +34

    Takes me back to the days where i was in a really dark place almost to the point where i thought suicide was my only option, "I'm only trying to get home" , "it doesn't have to be like this" makes me tear up even if the song may not fully fit, but even so this one song held my back through it all (':
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    It's 2022 and i feel things beginning to feel dark again but im not going to let it take me.. I'll take this just as like from the whole beginning

    • @manelperes9019
      @manelperes9019 Před 3 lety +2

      So glad you're in a better place now! I hope you have a wonderful day! 💕

    • @junomoono2417
      @junomoono2417 Před 9 měsíci

      hope youre ok, are things better now?

  • @slamthegorebong
    @slamthegorebong Před 5 lety +48

    s/o to everyone trying to change for the better

  • @deferredsun2
    @deferredsun2 Před 3 lety +21

    this song calmed me from a weed brownie panic attack in the backseat of a reckless driving stoners subaru

  • @chloeb9273
    @chloeb9273 Před 4 lety +61

    anyone else here after watching Adam Driver dance to this song? its beautiful music none the less!

    • @mindymenear5092
      @mindymenear5092 Před 4 lety +6

      He's the reason I looked up song an now I can't stop listening.. lyrics idk can hit an come across various ways. Well done!! Love it

  • @gingerdude55
    @gingerdude55 Před 6 lety +39

    This is such a masterpiece. Really helped me jam through my feelings. I've been desperately trying to stop the self destructive, reckless behavior of someone I love. It feels like he's just dragging those he loves down with him because he can't love himself. I'm trying to be the voice in his head. Trying to get him to realize it doesn't have to be likes this.
    Love yourselves. And love this band while you're at it. Cause they're fuckin rad.

    • @mursslmachine9105
      @mursslmachine9105 Před 5 lety +1

      GingerBreaddd55 i hope i love myself like i love this band

  • @gracefarmer3834
    @gracefarmer3834 Před 8 lety +301

    it's impossible to stop listening to this song, I think

  • @earl3736
    @earl3736 Před 2 lety +7

    This never fails to make me feel nostalgic. Can't believe it's more than 6 years since this was released. Seems like yesterday. I wanna go back.

  • @EntheogenShaman
    @EntheogenShaman Před 8 měsíci +5

    This song played right before I got my first DUI 7 years ago.

  • @seanold
    @seanold Před rokem +7

    This song is so simple, but it is an earworm. My wife is hating me randomly belt out, "Drunk drivers, drunk drivers, it doesn't have to be like this x3, killer whales, killer wha-aaaaaales!" Its also amorphous, whenever I try to put meaning to the words I change my mind on the meaning

  • @usernametaken4023
    @usernametaken4023 Před rokem +8

    It really isn't too late. I feel such a strange a calmness when listening to this.

  • @salvadorpraxis
    @salvadorpraxis Před 3 lety +25

    I can feel my beard growing when I sing to this

    • @struppimax
      @struppimax Před 3 lety

      Congrats, you have been in a meme!

  • @a.st.r
    @a.st.r Před 8 lety +89

    I can't believe Teens of Denial it's already out, I've been waiting this for so long... GOD I CAN'T BREATHE

    • @PseudoDeBase
      @PseudoDeBase Před 8 lety +28

      If you can't breathe you may want to see a doctor.

    • @roryl7811
      @roryl7811 Před 8 lety +2

      shh

    • @namepending4585
      @namepending4585 Před 8 lety +11

      Are you holding your breath, holding your breath, hold your breath...

  • @roycrowley2674
    @roycrowley2674 Před 25 dny +1

    I cant believe how great this album is. Man talk about being stuck with genius will you are blessed brother

  • @sahanavica.5574
    @sahanavica.5574 Před 5 lety +16

    I was 100% relating to this song when it came out. I was stuck in a stressful job, feeling quite lonely and had been so busy I hadn't even had time to properly process breaking up with my girlfriend at the time. It was a time that I was taking the gamble and sneaking in that extra drink before going home after hanging out friends, knowing I'd still be a little bit tipsy but preferring that to taking the lonely drive home while completely sober. Hearing this song made realise how miserable I was feeling, and helped me make some steps towards changing things for the better.

  • @bladeroberts1690
    @bladeroberts1690 Před 2 měsíci +2

    This song hurts me so much , a girl i loved and cared about a lot used to sing her heart out to this song , it really reminds me of her and the time we spent together it meant a lot to me , i miss you Ophelia and it kills me knowing we’ll never be together again

  • @MysticAngel12
    @MysticAngel12 Před 7 lety +33

    It feels like this song is the anxiety of not having control over life. Perhaps the love that is not lasting. Or just apathy towards the negative things that pass.
    I do not know why I feel so connected to his voice, his words, this song... I just want to cry and tuck this song under my pillow.

  • @elicantwell
    @elicantwell Před 7 lety +5

    3:03 that little bit of lead guitar sends shivers down my spine

  • @brokersoup
    @brokersoup Před 5 měsíci +3

    I need this guys voice bro

  • @kook1843
    @kook1843 Před rokem +5

    Genuinely the most emotionally touching song I've ever heard

  • @aldwinh9418
    @aldwinh9418 Před 4 lety +15

    I am currently suffering “the big sad” right now and while watching Watcher with ryan and shane and jon ranking fastfoods. Somewhere in the video, shane mentioned this artist Car Seat Headrest. I searched this up and just listened to this song(now). I realized that it fits right into what I feel right now. “We’re all just trying”.

    • @lukascustoms601
      @lukascustoms601 Před 3 lety +1

      Shaniac or Boogara?

    • @user-rn8li1ug1j
      @user-rn8li1ug1j Před 3 lety +1

      I'm here for the same reason..

    • @aldwinh9418
      @aldwinh9418 Před 3 lety +2

      @@lukascustoms601 boogara lmaoo

    • @aldwinh9418
      @aldwinh9418 Před 3 lety +1

      Damn. Its been 4 months already. I even experienced rejection weeks after my problem at that time.

    • @aldwinh9418
      @aldwinh9418 Před 3 lety +1

      @@user-rn8li1ug1j I realized that things do get better somehow if you just do what you want to do in life and do your best for it. Goodluck! :D

  • @simpbelius
    @simpbelius Před 2 lety +7

    I was just searching on google about headrests for cars and got this, not complaining tho

  • @inafridge8573
    @inafridge8573 Před 4 lety +9

    I love the double entendre- "I'm just trying to get home"

  • @bubble.productions
    @bubble.productions Před 4 lety +38

    Lyrics:
    In the backseat of my heart
    Our love tells me I'm a mess
    I couldn't get the car to start
    I left my keys somewhere in the mess
    It comes and goes in plateaus
    One month later, I'm a fucking pro
    My parents would be proud
    Or fall asleep on the floor
    Forget what happened in the morning
    There are notes in your handwriting
    But you can't make it out
    We are not a proud race
    It's not a race at all
    We're just trying
    I'm only trying to get home
    Drunk drivers, drunk drivers
    This is not a good thing
    I don't mean to rationalize
    Or try and explain it away
    It's not okay
    Drunk drivers, drunk drivers
    It's too late to articulate it
    That empty feeling
    You share the same fate as the people you hate
    You build yourself up against others' feelings
    And it left you feeling empty as a car coasting downhill
    I have become such a negative person
    It was all just an act
    It was all so easily stripped away
    But if we learn how to live like this
    Maybe we can learn how to start again
    Like a child who's never done wrong
    Who hasn't taken that first step
    We are not a proud race
    It's not a race at all
    We're just trying
    I'm only trying to get home
    Drunk drivers, drunk drivers
    Put it out of your mind
    And perish the thought
    There's no comfort in responsibility
    Drunk drivers, drunk drivers
    It doesn't have to be like this
    It doesn't have to be like this
    It doesn't have to be like this
    Killer whales, killer whales
    It doesn't have to be like this
    It doesn't have to be like this
    It doesn't have to be like this
    Killer whales, killer whales
    Here's that voice in your head
    Giving you shit again
    But you know he loves you
    And he doesn't mean to cause you pain
    Please listen to him
    It's not too late
    Turn off the engine
    Get out of the car
    And start to walk
    Drunk drivers
    Drunk drivers
    Drunk drivers
    Drunk drivers
    It doesn't have to be like this
    It doesn't have to be like this
    It doesn't have to be like this
    Killer whales, killer whales
    It doesn't have to be like this
    It doesn't have to be like this
    It doesn't have to be like this
    Killer whales, killer whales
    Ahhh
    Whales, ah
    Whales, ah yeah yeah
    Whales, oh oh oh oh oh

    • @vibacourtney-battista6918
      @vibacourtney-battista6918 Před 4 lety +30

      Thanks so much I am blind and therefore I cannot read the lyrics they put in the video but this helped me a lot

    • @layom444
      @layom444 Před 4 lety +1

      Lmao what the fuck

    • @greeneggs5826
      @greeneggs5826 Před 3 lety

      @@vibacourtney-battista6918 but then you couldn’t read this comment-

    • @hasbroclankus6190
      @hasbroclankus6190 Před 2 lety

      @@greeneggs5826 there are multiple ways to read comments for the visually impaired

  • @Lilagrace326
    @Lilagrace326 Před 4 lety +12

    I know that this song could've been a typical "woe is me I'm in my 20s and I don't wanna grow up" song but it's so much deeper than that. This song is applicable to anyone especially ppl going thru a lot of crap that life can throw at you. At least for me, this song is helping me get thru my dad being in the hospital and being in an abusive relationship with my mom.

    • @actuallyhappened129
      @actuallyhappened129 Před 4 lety

      That sounds really tough and my heart goes out to you, music has personally helped me through so much and I'm glad it's able to bring some support for you. Sending love

  • @MLSoll
    @MLSoll Před 7 lety +67

    this song is a journey AMAZING

  • @kirared1984
    @kirared1984 Před 7 lety +6

    My friends and I turn this on in the car almost every time we're together, get our harmonies together, and have a jam. It's extremely fun, but I can already sense the nostalgia it's going to cause when I'm in college in a few months. I love my s a d f r e n s. I'll never forget all of these memories with you guys. I already miss you listening to this song and you're three classrooms down from me.

  • @1293jessica
    @1293jessica Před 4 lety +3

    I remember when this video just about first came out because I saw it probably in late May or early June of that year sitting on the front steps of my porch with my crush and now boyfriend of 4 years. I had always had a crush on him since we were in kindergarten together, which we are both now about to be seniors in college. He has been my first and only boyfriend, the one to show me the first of many things and one of those things being Car Seat Headrest. I liked this song as soon as he showed it to me that night, I loved the typography of the video and the winding never-ending road because I was always waiting and curious for something that never came. I can remember loving the chorus but never understanding the lyrics until looking it up much later. I remember how confused I was at the time because I couldn't figure out if he liked me or didn't like me. We were a couple that had a very slow burn at the beginning. Hanging out more and more, and texting and talking all the time but we never called them dates or our "boyfriend" or "Girlfriend" until after the fact. I was always questioning myself and him but I was also so excited and so astonished at what was happening. (I was convinced at the beginning, like the first month or 2 it wasn't going to last because it was just too good to be true lol) This band and this song has become our song which is pretty funny considering the subject matter is the least bit romantic, but that is perfect for us because we love the angst and the sadness and the all-around alternative style CSH is as a band. We got to see them live and for free (woo!) during their tour for Twin Fantasy 2018 in Chicago. The naked Giants were amazing, the crowd was so interesting and funny to observe since half the people there were die-hard fans and the other half were randos who had no idea what was going on lol. Every song was a blast, played amazing, and performed wonderfully, but when they got to Drunk Drivers that was it. He and I held each other and sang together, and danced together. and when the chorus hit, I couldn't help but cry because I was just so happy, we are so happy. CSH is such a funny band for me because it has held me at my worst moments of hormonal imbalanced induced depression, starting a long-distance relationship in the wake of starting a college career, Almost loosing said relationship, like many of you, dealing with shitty jobs with shitty people wishing I could be spending the time I'm not in school with him rather than at work. While they have also been there for me at some of the most memorable moments too. Young summer love, beautiful car rides, even the goodbye off to the first year of college was christened by this song and that was such a raw and powerful moment of real love and sadness and fear, but also support for one another taking big milestone steps in our lives. This song and this band has in my mind so defined this very bizarre, beautiful, and young adult life of mine and I truly want to thank Will for being a part of my life in this way.

  • @eyewish7203
    @eyewish7203 Před 7 lety +9

    I'm not a hippie, but i've been plenty drunk.. This is an amazing tune.. Toledo is a genius. This band gives me hope.

  • @leomullen3
    @leomullen3 Před 7 lety +88

    Sounds like a modern slowed down version of The Kinks. And I mean that in the most flattering of ways. Maybe it's just the vocals

    • @Loftur1172
      @Loftur1172 Před 6 lety +2

      Leo Mullen totally agree with you

    • @glennpagemusic
      @glennpagemusic Před 6 lety +2

      Leo Mullen It always comes back to the Kinks! Love them.

    • @MrShahid0072
      @MrShahid0072 Před 6 lety +2

      Vocals sound like Julian Casablancas

  • @bienzoo
    @bienzoo Před 3 měsíci +5

    ME AND MY GANG STRUGGLING THROUGH DEPRESSION WITH THIS ONE WE ARE ALL GOING TO MAKE IT OUT OF DEPRESSION
    ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @You_Me_Dancing
    @You_Me_Dancing Před 2 měsíci +2

    My dad was killed by a drunk driver when I was two, I often ask myself if he (and my mum) would be proud of me if they actually *knew* me.

  • @spanner4778
    @spanner4778 Před 4 lety +247

    This is what weezer could hav become if pinkerton was well received

    • @michaelhurd4362
      @michaelhurd4362 Před 4 lety +16

      That's some damn truth, I was thinking the same thing

    • @jeffreymichael2778
      @jeffreymichael2778 Před 4 lety +10

      that makes me sad to think about

    • @White_Ivy_
      @White_Ivy_ Před 3 lety +4

      Well now I'm thinking gif my old friend would've liked Car Seat Headrest, since they adored Weezer

    • @YouTubeAIbot
      @YouTubeAIbot Před 3 lety +12

      Us: so weezer could you try and make music like this?
      Weezer: best I can do is pacific daydream

    • @Aleph-Noll
      @Aleph-Noll Před 3 lety +1

      @@CZcamsAIbot >:(

  • @floatfacebook2013
    @floatfacebook2013 Před 7 lety +1

    this is ok reminds me of the good old drink driving days man we had so much fun

  • @jaywolf9038
    @jaywolf9038 Před 3 lety +5

    The kid at guitar center put me on

  • @Hour24
    @Hour24 Před 7 lety +244

    *actual lyrics that fit with the song*...KILLER WHALES

    • @mattheworsie9907
      @mattheworsie9907 Před 7 lety +53

      roseteeth Pretty sure killer whales is supposed to represent police cruisers because they're black and white like a kill whale

    • @mdaily318
      @mdaily318 Před 3 lety +3

      @@mattheworsie9907 there are like a million and one interpretations of the lyrics and tbh all are plausible and make sense.

    • @weirdskyreallyweird.5519
      @weirdskyreallyweird.5519 Před 3 lety +14

      @@mattheworsie9907 Someone above had a good take. Apparently Will Wrote the song after watching blackfish, a documentary about captive Killer Whales that killed their trainers. Killer whales don't naturally kill humans and rarely if ever do so in the wild. They only seem to do so under great stress and poor conditions. The album is called "Teens of Denial" meaning the metaphor could be that teenagers only act in the irrational and sometimes cruel ways they do due to their stressful enviroment.

  • @dennischary1197
    @dennischary1197 Před 8 lety +18

    Other posters have noted the similarity between Car Seat Headrest and bands such as Weezer,Pavement,GBV and The Ramones among others;to which I might add that I hear a hint of Sonic Youth and,surprisingly,The KInks,especially with the vocals.

    • @freddyboombatz
      @freddyboombatz Před 7 lety

      I thought the Kinks right away!

    • @Tauva
      @Tauva Před 7 lety +4

      i notice the similarity between car seat headrest and my DICK

  • @tiernanmosher
    @tiernanmosher Před rokem +6

    My friend recently told me I should listen to this. No regrets :)

  • @usedfuzzbox
    @usedfuzzbox Před 8 lety +24

    Found some tracks then albums on CZcams, but hard to get a physical copy. Then Teens of Style came out Sept last year. Looking forward to this next release!

    • @PJRobertson
      @PJRobertson Před 8 lety +2

      +usedfuzzbox they're all free on bandcamp

    • @Jambi14
      @Jambi14 Před 8 lety +2

      $9.99 on bandcamp.

  • @frederikschumacher6152
    @frederikschumacher6152 Před 7 lety +7

    It comes and goes in Plateaus...
    Pure genious

  • @SunnyvaleTrailerParkSupervisor

    thank you bbc6 music and Car Seat Headrest. another song that hits you in the stomach

  • @nastarrrrr
    @nastarrrrr Před dnem

    I don't listen to this band as much as I used to because I'm in a better place mentally now, but I still love this band and this song.

  • @GspeedR
    @GspeedR Před 8 lety +12

    Great tune...My 'old school' ears are hearing harmonies that Ray Davies would probably be proud of.

  • @dereinarmigemasseur
    @dereinarmigemasseur Před 2 lety +4

    Yesterday me and a friend tried vrchat for the first time and there was this guy on the stage in black cat all by his own singing this song. So we listened to him and as he finished we kept telling him songs that he would actually look up and perform for us.

  • @Flooperfrizzle
    @Flooperfrizzle Před 7 lety +270

    First kiss with my girlfriend to this song and I don't think it could have been more perfect. We were friends for so long, and I told her we couldn't talk anymore because I had feelings for her and they were unrequited. The next day she followed me to my car and told me she was sorry it had to be "this way." I told her I heard a good song and wanted to show it to her. We kissed, we kissed at 3:21, It was amazing.

    • @bmgag19
      @bmgag19 Před 7 lety +53

      shit like this is what life is all about in my opinion; doesn't matter how wealthy, poor, or talented you are, these are the moments that matter.

    • @chaseelder9413
      @chaseelder9413 Před 6 lety +16

      Bryanbadcompany The King just wait till you walk in on her getting blown out by your friend. Oh young love.

    • @lot4960
      @lot4960 Před 6 lety +10

      gay

    • @nolanpestano1798
      @nolanpestano1798 Před 6 lety +8

      my man. live life

    • @horsemadpb
      @horsemadpb Před 6 lety

      @@nolanpestano1798 ❤️

  • @nirvanakamala2809
    @nirvanakamala2809 Před 4 lety +8

    This song means soooooooooooooooooo much to me

  • @cloverheart
    @cloverheart Před 3 lety +3

    this is the kind of music that you can't help but get up and dance along to

  • @champagnedreams9326
    @champagnedreams9326 Před 7 lety +1

    Said same thingwhen posting/recommending this video on Facebook-
    you can chill to it, party to it, imagine it as the background of your life narrative, cruise to it, and write a term paper about it
    Can't beat that combo. perfection