ASMR Flinching in Front of Your Girlfriend F4A

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024

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  • @melisaamell
    @melisaamell Před rokem +241

    I have been experiencing violence for several years. and when someone is being nice to me ive never had that person but this kind of audios is really making me cry because ive never had that kindness from someone. and thank you so much for the audio its so cute

  • @snek9041
    @snek9041 Před 2 lety +771

    Snek did not flinch. Snek just was consuming innocent children's souls.

  • @bio9leader60
    @bio9leader60 Před rokem +33

    Finally, one of these that shows how easily flinching can happen after physical abuse.
    I flinch all the time for practically no reason. It doesn't need yelling, it doesn't need a tense situation, it can just be two people, cleaning a kitchen.

  • @Akiduy
    @Akiduy Před 2 lety +289

    I'm so pathetic, man.
    I'm crying over this just because I know that I'll never get to experience it in probably forever.
    I've been single my whole life. I know I'm doing something wrong I just don't know what it is.
    I'm getting old I should be over this by now and yet here I am, still looking and listening to these audios.

    • @oceanofgaming
      @oceanofgaming Před 2 lety +67

      You are not pathetic. The right person just didnt come along yet. Better be alone than with the wrong person

    • @trackerrzz_3130
      @trackerrzz_3130 Před rokem +19

      I think that’s where I’m heading aswell

    • @czb117
      @czb117 Před rokem +22

      I empathize with you man. It's been over 2 years since I've been on a date, prior to that I spent several years in a relationship where it felt like nothing I did was good enough. There are days, sometimes weeks, where I feel so empty and depressed because I lack the relationship I always hoped for.
      Personally, I cope by trying to channel my energy into other things. I exercise every day, I've been learning a new language, and teaching myself computer programming. My hope is that someday with a better career my living situation will improve and maybe I'll attract the right person. It'll often feel like my goals are impossible, but I try to make myself stick to my productive habits and hobbies even on bad days.
      I don't know if you're familiar with MatPat from the game theorist channel, but I've heard him speak multiple times about how he sees life as a spectrum from content and happy to interesting. It makes a lot of sense. I've seen a lot of people who already have their career, house, spouse, etc tend to lose interest in or not have time for their former hobbies.
      So with that, my best advice to you is for this: if your life isn't happy, focus on making your life interesting.
      Sorry for the novel length comment.
      Wishing you the best.

    • @Cod6NoobMw2
      @Cod6NoobMw2 Před rokem +8

      Damn that’s tough,

    • @Zhiel01
      @Zhiel01 Před rokem +7

      You can do it man !

  • @lynnix524
    @lynnix524 Před rokem +81

    videos are so nice, they dont judge you, they give you whatever u need to hear but its just a screen with sound, in the end, we got to look up from our screen, if u hv anything ur dealing with dont keep it to yourself, find someone u can talk to, if there is no one to talk to, its ok, stay strong, u got this ^v^
    sorry, take everything i said with a pinch of salt, but whoever is reading this, have a good day 😊

    • @takezolover
      @takezolover Před rokem +2

      your the sweetest person ever :(

  • @W04HXDD
    @W04HXDD Před 11 měsíci +20

    For anyone who sees this, just know that your loved deeply and ur very important for some people. goodbye lovely.

  • @angelofpain3890
    @angelofpain3890 Před rokem +41

    It’s nice to hear someone say this even if it isn’t direct thank you it helps, kinda needed it today

  • @mikehoncho81
    @mikehoncho81 Před 2 lety +35

    I have never heard/had this much reassurance in my whole life

  • @xandyreoch8d874
    @xandyreoch8d874 Před rokem +19

    Accidentally hurt a friend in a similar situation. Ive been beaten really badly before, and one time they reached out to pat my shoulder, and something just... flipped i guess. I slapped their arm away from me wayyy too hard and broke their knuckle, at the time i didn't realise it was them, i didn't feel like i was in the room at all. All i could see was something that happened before, when i "snapped out of it" i felt really awful, they would never hurt me, but i was just really afraid

  • @randomtube8226
    @randomtube8226 Před rokem +30

    That's the best girlfriend ever. It saddens me that I'm too unlikable and unliveable to be able to get a girlfriend like that in my life. Nobody knows that I exist, nobody will notice me gone. I'm forever single and dying forever alone 😞

    • @TheBrokenBerserker
      @TheBrokenBerserker Před rokem +8

      I fuckin' relate to that so much man

    • @danielk5489
      @danielk5489 Před rokem +4

      You're not alone bro

    • @robertlombardo8437
      @robertlombardo8437 Před rokem +2

      Well, consider this. Every statement put into words is evidence of a speaker. That means evidence of your existence is right here.
      Don't be discouraged, even girls as nice as this are only human. You just have to put yourself out there. Take good care of yourself, fix yourself up a little at a time and she'll come.
      It took time, but it worked out for me, eventually! 😊

    • @FinalCoolerdestoysEarth
      @FinalCoolerdestoysEarth Před 5 měsíci

      Real.

  • @maiwithanak4452
    @maiwithanak4452 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Mai did not flinch, i was committing tax evasion, and thought you were the IRS coming for my kneecaps

  • @EvanKaminski-y1i
    @EvanKaminski-y1i Před 7 měsíci +5

    Wow...here i am listening to this because im so alone and unloved... like c'mon how pathetic is this im just laying here and crying my eyes out because I'm never gonna experience this

  • @neurowolf7594
    @neurowolf7594 Před rokem +8

    Man false promises are hella comforting

  • @xxxtentacion983-w8e
    @xxxtentacion983-w8e Před 2 lety +38

    Just found your channel . And your videos are amazing . Lovely audio

  • @noholorust_
    @noholorust_ Před rokem +33

    my daily routine is simple I wake up and suffer.

  • @DawnD1shsoap
    @DawnD1shsoap Před rokem +22

    PTSD, anxiety, crippling depression! There is no question you should kill me! I want to be with Harambe I feel like shit every day! Do it by drowning under da sea!

  • @ShadeeDraws
    @ShadeeDraws Před 2 lety +15

    I can't relate, I'm the cleaning freak in my couple.

  • @SWAGBOYRETARD
    @SWAGBOYRETARD Před 2 lety +42

    i relate to this a lot

    • @ev2560
      @ev2560 Před 2 lety +6

      Sorry to hear that

    • @thyOG
      @thyOG Před 2 lety +3

      That's tough to hear I hope that you are doing well

    • @huddyshoodie8246
      @huddyshoodie8246 Před 2 lety +2

      i’m sorry about that

    • @Kanine80yt
      @Kanine80yt Před rokem +2

      I don’t think that’s a good thing

    • @goose4469
      @goose4469 Před rokem +4

      You forgot to go to the lake today, your sin is duly noted

  • @ShadeSerpent
    @ShadeSerpent Před rokem +13

    Don't try and tell me this isn't my first time with you, Loralie. Because it is.

  • @fushi5940
    @fushi5940 Před rokem +5

    I used to have a friend that would slap me for fun randomly for 5 years. Thankfully now I have better friends but have been left with a crazy flinch whenever someone moves their arm towards me. Just laugh it off before you get laughed at for it.

  • @jameshilton3769
    @jameshilton3769 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I flinch away from being touched on my face, on my chest, and on my back, that's where my stepmother placed the hate

  • @venomizedtoothless474
    @venomizedtoothless474 Před rokem +6

    I live in a household with a sibling who always wants to fight so I think it'd be normal for me to flinch so no big deal

  • @L4DN_VN
    @L4DN_VN Před 9 měsíci +1

    I would really need a girl like her

  • @jlh357
    @jlh357 Před 2 lety +8

    I was straight up tweakin

  • @ogjellydragon7908
    @ogjellydragon7908 Před 2 lety +42

    I would never date someone who would like someone like me.

    • @Dibious
      @Dibious Před rokem +2

      ?

    • @scorpyio8187
      @scorpyio8187 Před rokem

      ??

    • @ogjellydragon7908
      @ogjellydragon7908 Před rokem +3

      Basically whoever would want to date me is blind or crazy

    • @Dibious
      @Dibious Před rokem +2

      @@ogjellydragon7908 Why's that? What's so bad about you that anyone that loves you is either blind or crazy?

    • @ogjellydragon7908
      @ogjellydragon7908 Před rokem +6

      @@Dibious
      I swear every time I look in the mirror my reflection runs away. I'm so ugly my birth certificate is just an apology and don't get me started on my nose

  • @Cheese12098
    @Cheese12098 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Cheese approved

    • @Cheese12098
      @Cheese12098 Před 9 měsíci +1

      And cheese did not flinch cuz cheese

  • @kitty_drug8860
    @kitty_drug8860 Před rokem +7

    Trauma REHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE

  • @Ace-Trix
    @Ace-Trix Před 9 měsíci +1

    This is prob my biggest fear I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m scared of being hit and it’s a big nightmare of mine

  • @Stxrs11x
    @Stxrs11x Před rokem +1

    Man this really making me question alot of things......

  • @kabbakam
    @kabbakam Před 2 lety +6

    im so lonely

  • @ethanphillips6399
    @ethanphillips6399 Před 2 lety +18

    I have had really abusive relationship's

    • @airclean6585
      @airclean6585 Před 2 lety +17

      Sorry to here that, I’ll be praying for you Ethan

    • @DawnD1shsoap
      @DawnD1shsoap Před rokem +1

      I’ve had some too

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 Před rokem +6

    Alright, boys. Lets take a drink for every "hey!" and wake up in the hospital like the Chads we are.

  • @bill6
    @bill6 Před 2 lety +10

    👑

  • @drummernorrason
    @drummernorrason Před 6 měsíci

    Is it weird that ive never been abused but flinch when ever someone swings or puts their hands near my side of face

  • @jameshilton3769
    @jameshilton3769 Před 10 měsíci

    I flinch really bad

  • @-Lucifer__
    @-Lucifer__ Před 2 lety +3

    👋

  • @thisisyourbannedaccount9882

    4:55 to 4:58

  • @Fritzinq
    @Fritzinq Před 11 měsíci

    I can’t find any for childhood trauma man. All I got was an abusive stepdad

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 Před rokem +3

    Maybe I'm in the minority here, but the initial fuss would just make me feel worse. That alone would probably force me to freak out over it.

    • @nickabstract6774
      @nickabstract6774 Před rokem

      Yeah, but this is for comfort purposes. Irl I would have to distance myself for a bit

    • @Synthetic94
      @Synthetic94 Před rokem

      @@nickabstract6774 I hear ya. Honestly I don't think this conversation would ever have a chance. The loud, annoying, and demanding tone in the initial fuss was just turn me away so fast.

  • @user-up4hb4ei2p
    @user-up4hb4ei2p Před 6 měsíci

    😊

  • @Noursinette_
    @Noursinette_ Před rokem +1

    2:24 here where the drama starts

  • @Tufflewithyourballs183

    Piccolo

  • @Ilikeboys12223
    @Ilikeboys12223 Před rokem

    why does she sound like haily from tmf from @rosyclosy