What kind of parent does this to their kid when he knows they’re footing the bill, not him? And, on top of that, he almost didn’t tell them! Dad has to do the calling or emailing.
No, no, no! Tell your Dad to get on the phone and explain he screwed up and they're only invited to the ceremony. He caused this problem, so he has to fix it.
@@axdie.b3llyou should never make allowances for strangers crashing your wedding, but if it’s family who were technically invited (just not appropriately-so) and the couple didn’t have the stomach to UNinvite them, this is a possible compromise. in a scenario where the relatives were closer-knit and did visit on occasion, a couple might be more hesitant to uninvite them. none of the options are ideal - i feel for the couple this is based on.
I was thinking the same thing, but it's easier said than done. If the original plan was to provide a meal, then presumably, the wedding reception will be taking place during a typical meal time. So, changing the reception from a sit-down meal to just appetizers and cake, would mean changing the time of the reception (and, in turn, the time of the ceremony, which is usually right before the reception), because it's rude to have a gathering during a typical meal time without providing a meal.
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I would be firmly dropping that responsibility into the lap of Dad.
Absolutely. Never occurred to this guy that each additional guest costs MONEY???
Great in theory but I personally I wouldn't count on him to follow through properly after a bone head maneuver like that.
Sit with him and watch him make all those phone calls!
@@rachelwhite2210 Yup. You broke it, you fix it.
Why cant the dad do the walk of shame and call them himself?
What kind of parent does this to their kid when he knows they’re footing the bill, not him? And, on top of that, he almost didn’t tell them! Dad has to do the calling or emailing.
Da, i love ya, but this is on you
Pony up the dough, or call em yourself
Oh good grief, dad's in trouble. 😅
Yep. Dad gets that responsibility. He created the problem and he gets to fix it.
No, no, no! Tell your Dad to get on the phone and explain he screwed up and they're only invited to the ceremony. He caused this problem, so he has to fix it.
Or... Change the menu to appetizers and pass arounds only. No entre.
they shouldn't change their wedding for people they don't even know and/or asked to be there...
@@axdie.b3llyou should never make allowances for strangers crashing your wedding, but if it’s family who were technically invited (just not appropriately-so) and the couple didn’t have the stomach to UNinvite them, this is a possible compromise. in a scenario where the relatives were closer-knit and did visit on occasion, a couple might be more hesitant to uninvite them. none of the options are ideal - i feel for the couple this is based on.
@@suzihoude OHH, tysm! i didn't see it that way! and agreed, the couple deserved better.
That might require notifying all guests that something has changed if it's already on the wedding website or invitation.
I was thinking the same thing, but it's easier said than done. If the original plan was to provide a meal, then presumably, the wedding reception will be taking place during a typical meal time. So, changing the reception from a sit-down meal to just appetizers and cake, would mean changing the time of the reception (and, in turn, the time of the ceremony, which is usually right before the reception), because it's rude to have a gathering during a typical meal time without providing a meal.