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  • Hey ❤️
    #SouthAfricanCZcamsr #cultureshock #aupair#roadto2000subsribers
    This video Is overdue ! In todays video I’ll be talking about my culture shocks as a South African living in America !
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Komentáře • 209

  • @Qharisma
    @Qharisma Před 10 měsíci +15

    As someone who was born in America this video is hilarious. I've never considered how awkward it would be for someone from South Africa to visit America ... Now I totally understand.

  • @kaylalouw3041
    @kaylalouw3041 Před 2 lety +34

    1. Driving on the other side of the road
    2. People only speaking english and not vernac
    3. No taxis and south african cars, no cabs, mostly found in the cities
    4. Calorie counts on all food
    5. Not having petrol assustants at petrol stations (filling up your car by yourself)
    6. How expensive it is to do hair
    7. People don’t relax their hair
    8. Most foods and items are in family size/bulk size
    9. Tax not being included in prices
    10. At restaurants they don’t have cards machines, they take your card to the back and make the payment
    11. Metric systems not being the same
    12. Travelling times are different (for example in SA 30 minutes away is far but in america it’s not that long at all)
    13. No walls around homes or only fences and you see your neighbors all the time
    14. Adjustment of how you say words and using slang
    15. The amount of self service available in america is different from sa

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +3

      haha thank you so much for the summary 🥺❤️

    • @morenakhaya655
      @morenakhaya655 Před 2 lety +3

      🤣🤣🤣 thanks I won't watch da video

    • @rams228
      @rams228 Před 2 lety

      @@morenakhaya655 😅😅😅

  • @danellenoble6185
    @danellenoble6185 Před 2 lety +18

    I was Aupair coming from SA. Left 20 years ago and made America my home. Married and kids here. I too, had culture shock but I did adjust

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      Oh wow for 20 years ! where are you based now !

    • @danellenoble6185
      @danellenoble6185 Před 2 lety +1

      @@TimewithModiTime I'm in the Chicagoland area

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Před rokem +2

      @@TimewithModiTime you also need to settle there sis. SA is a nightmare especially with loadshedding and corruption. I'm also planning to move soon.

    • @Sky-dv8mj
      @Sky-dv8mj Před rokem

      ​@@asiphejohnson6543uyakuthetha ukuny nontroi

  • @Lindaaaaaaa2
    @Lindaaaaaaa2 Před 2 lety +18

    I’m in india from SA In India it’s insane the stare is too much😂😂😂love you sissy all the best watching all the way from India

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +4

      What are you doing in India and how is it for you 🥺

    • @stephanszitha8844
      @stephanszitha8844 Před rokem +2

      Lol i can imagine but you might have a cost of living advantage sometimes thats nice

    • @Lindaaaaaaa2
      @Lindaaaaaaa2 Před rokem

      @@TimewithModiTime I’m studying it been hell🤣🤣but I changed the state now I’m in Gujarati it’s better than Haryana

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Před rokem +1

      @@Lindaaaaaaa2 that's amazing sis. Please settle there or move to Europe because SA is a nightmare.

    • @j-groovy5339
      @j-groovy5339 Před rokem +1

      I experienced the major stares in India too, they stare like they are in a trance 😅

  • @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118
    @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118 Před 2 lety +137

    Please speak a bit slower😭😭😂hape o fast😂

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +11

      😭😭😭dude I promise you I don’t speak fast 🤣🤣do I speak fast in rl too ? 😳

    • @stonitangawizi1252
      @stonitangawizi1252 Před 2 lety +22

      @@TimewithModiTime I had to listen to you at x0.75

    • @tebohonaphtali7938
      @tebohonaphtali7938 Před 2 lety

      😂

    • @ladyvrega2670
      @ladyvrega2670 Před 2 lety +4

      @@TimewithModiTime first time here but yoo girl you’re running jooo slow down try to speak normal don’t run.

    • @kagontleserutle5775
      @kagontleserutle5775 Před 2 lety

      Yes u speak to fast,i can't hear u well#😂

  • @MJ31579
    @MJ31579 Před rokem +17

    I'd cry because of hair prices too 😅
    That is ridiculous
    In SA, for $90 you can get unbraiding, washing and braiding at a decent place

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před rokem +4

      This is why I cut my hair haha because no way I was over it 1🤣

  • @andreipretorius92
    @andreipretorius92 Před 2 lety +26

    Great video. How I miss SA people. Love hearing your voice and mixing languages 😂😂. I hate the imperial system, we are used to metric system. The card at restaurants always freak me out. I miss having walls between houses. You have great energy.

    • @andreipretorius92
      @andreipretorius92 Před 2 lety +3

      I also think the distance is weird. I complain driving 45 minutes and they think that’s nothing, it’s insane

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +2

      Girl there is no reason for them to be so extra haha 🤣🤣

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +2

      Its better in the city its not insane haha 🤣but in the Suburbs its just bad yoh it never made sense to me haha

  • @Nala-xf6rz
    @Nala-xf6rz Před měsícem +1

    Nah 'not seeing Quantums, GTI's and a lot of Polos on the road' is freaking hilarious as a culture shock

  • @tumelomojapelo5577
    @tumelomojapelo5577 Před rokem +11

    Mara I like how unique we south Africans are it's like we live in our own planet we love freedom in complexity and it's in our DNA...it's funny how we work well in groups...put a south African in any group you'll enjoy the attention he/she commands...Pride in public freedom💁🏾‍♂️ normally rea phapha😒

  • @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118

    Loved this!was super interesting to hear

  • @poetalegalis3635
    @poetalegalis3635 Před rokem +9

    Open a class teaching native South African languages, and solve the problem. You will make a lot of money with no competition. Blessings and one love 🙏🇿🇦🇯🇲🇬🇭🇰🇪🇿🇼🇬🇲

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Před rokem +1

      This might really come in handy hey. Zulu was recommended as an additional language in the US curriculum for those who wish to learn it a few months back. 🇿🇦

    • @gidi3250
      @gidi3250 Před rokem +2

      @@asiphejohnson6543 they do force the collage kids who is trying to turn basketball into a professional thing to learn a language and the instructors and coaches order them to learn Swahili.

  • @wmccormack4647
    @wmccormack4647 Před 2 lety +7

    Turning right on red depends on where you live. It can vary by state and municipality.

  • @simphiwembatha1039
    @simphiwembatha1039 Před 2 lety +16

    One that really shoooock me was the invincible fence for dogs.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +5

      Omg I forgot about that one 🥲it had me running so fast 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @caroline___
    @caroline___ Před rokem +2

    You have great energy. Love the video

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 Před 2 lety +4

    Okare you're in heaven! Haibo the lighting!

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +2

      It was doing too much 😭😭the lighting washed me the camera washed me kori bona!!

  • @comfortskha2600
    @comfortskha2600 Před 2 lety +3

    Lmao😂🤣🤣as for quantum and Polo GTI 😂🤣you cracked me up straight,I also struggled when I was working for United nation Hq

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      😂😂dude I can count the amount of times I see a gti haha !!

  • @ntivokhoza
    @ntivokhoza Před 2 lety +6

    Chile I giggled throughout the entire video 😭🤣.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +2

      It’s all the little things that will make you miss home 😭🥺

  • @erickwagithuku707
    @erickwagithuku707 Před 2 lety +3

    Hi modi I have just watched your video clip I felt the same way you did when I came to this country as an African student.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety

      haha and I am so sure that every state is different too !

  • @karabomasela5387
    @karabomasela5387 Před 2 lety +2

    Hahaha I was cracking up throughout this video, very informative 😂

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +2

      🤣🤣 still adjusting I think in the city its so different and I need to do a SF one haha

  • @tebohokibe7555
    @tebohokibe7555 Před rokem +1

    Gumba-gumba pack 😅. Nice video ausi. I think Quantums are SA style taxis, manufactured in Durban. If possible, try to be slower when you speak. All your points are nice. Speedpoint machine, etc. 👌

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 Před 2 lety +3

    the card payment part did it for me !

  • @khayalethumkhonza9964
    @khayalethumkhonza9964 Před 2 lety +13

    we must take 10 million south africans,, proper ones with maPara included,, we shall restructure america,,, this will go to history,,, cause mzansi is thee country of countries,,

    • @kobe8034
      @kobe8034 Před 2 lety

      How u going to do it tho??

  • @boitumelonokgipa6336
    @boitumelonokgipa6336 Před 2 lety +1

    Love your videos... Thank you so much for this 💕

  • @bongimemeza9959
    @bongimemeza9959 Před 2 lety +2

    We will miss you Mama, love from SOWETO

  • @incredibleconnections4980

    I've heard another CZcamsr complain and shocked by the braids prices.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +2

      It’s not cute at all 🥲🥲I know I’m a working hun mara ha ?!

  • @Thapppie
    @Thapppie Před 2 lety +5

    Enjoyed it ❤️. Time thing is almost like CT a 30mins drive here is not that much as compared to when I am in Limpopo it feels like I’m driving 2hours. 🤣
    Also Self service we have quite a number of self service stuff.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      When we are home it feels like forever!! It’s the mountains 🏔! That’s why 🤣🤣

  • @Gxamalaza
    @Gxamalaza Před 2 lety +2

    Wow. I just googled how much 90 dollars is in rands. Yeesh! Ayingeke, ngamane uyeke. 😆

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      it sounds and looks bigger in rands but in dollars it isn’t 😭

  • @cindyhayward2066
    @cindyhayward2066 Před rokem

    I adore your video because you speak fast and you haven't learned the habit of saying "like" before each word!

  • @bassie.sebola
    @bassie.sebola Před 2 lety +1

    notification gang 🥺😍

  • @bettyboo9786
    @bettyboo9786 Před 2 lety +17

    When you said nnete, nnete wow I enjoyed it. Motswana here in Toronto. Much love

  • @nosinkewana488
    @nosinkewana488 Před 2 lety +6

    USA is expensive, I was there for a short while. Even buying bread was shocking, normal bread for about R30 back in 2002. Then there's this tax thing. As for hair, I refused. Braids were going for thousands of rands back then. I kept relaxing my hair until I came back home. As for snow 🥶🥶🥶😭😭😭 then we got invited to a barbecue, and we thought of Madea's cookout. Was it not a vienna braai 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the disappointment... Americans though

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      the bbq part killed me oh no lol, if it was that amount back in 2002 I don't even want to convert it to now haha this tax thing us frustrating oh my goodness me !

    • @resegomolosiwa7659
      @resegomolosiwa7659 Před 2 lety +3

      Vienna braai 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tracywalker244
      @tracywalker244 Před 2 lety +2

      Trust me what you had was not normal bread 😂🤣

    • @JustMe-rl5ym
      @JustMe-rl5ym Před rokem +2

      Vienna braai!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @splashafrica
    @splashafrica Před rokem

    When you watch video and you here that "ja" it hits hard 🙂

  • @ItsEntleMwelase
    @ItsEntleMwelase Před 2 lety +6

    Love the video ❤️😌
    But I'm still surprised by the payment of unbrading & washing your hair 😱 R1 260 😭. USA is so expensive bathong. So now do you braid your hair?

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      Girl I was so upset Yoh I was mad ! I braided for my birthday ! And today I relaxed my own hair 🤣🤣the thought of braiding again at a salon makes me sad 🤣🥲

  • @FransHattingh
    @FransHattingh Před rokem

    Girl, you're from Centurion?! No way! 😲 So am I! 💜

  • @sagoralemel5492
    @sagoralemel5492 Před rokem

    Sounds like heaven 😍 ❤

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před rokem

      😂😂the safety>> (depending on where you are is great)

  • @lindanizulu9436
    @lindanizulu9436 Před 2 lety +1

    I love your Vlogs ❤❤❤

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 Před 2 lety

    I love the picture frame of you and your Ma 😍

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you 🥺❤️one of my favorite pictures ! It’s like she was there !!

  • @phindandabula6010
    @phindandabula6010 Před rokem +2

    My shock was how many black cars are on American roads, it's like everyone drives a black car, in SA we don't like black cars, it is an obvious difference.

  • @himynameisjumbo
    @himynameisjumbo Před 24 dny

    Next time please bring props. I want to see the Gimba food items.

  • @DibweDesigner
    @DibweDesigner Před rokem +1

    the petrol service and speed point is stressing me out huh! yuh

  • @vergespierre4271
    @vergespierre4271 Před 2 lety +2

    English is a derivative of Greek and Hebrew- we speak a derivative of our mother tongue ( hebrew- Aramaic; which is not a "white" mans language due to popular belief/lies)- its a way deeper history to us as "black" Americans. That's something most people don't know or care to know due to mental conditioning and lies. So we speak our language- also English is the number one business language around the world- so many people speak it abroad: plus we never learn or are encouraged to learn anything other than english

  • @busishauntelle
    @busishauntelle Před rokem +6

    The way I want to move to USA . I’m literally so tired of Asia😢
    Great video ❤

  • @thayandamkalipi4765
    @thayandamkalipi4765 Před 2 lety +1

    OOOO FAV 😍😍

  • @Emkayel
    @Emkayel Před 2 lety +3

    Is this video on fast forward?😄
    I watched it so fast🔥

  • @staciegreene2262
    @staciegreene2262 Před 2 lety +1

    SISSSSSS you are in Georgia 🥰🥰. We need to hang . I’m about 45-50 mins away from Atlanta.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      I dont stay in Georgia anymore I'm all the way in the West 🥺

  • @star_athlete
    @star_athlete Před 2 lety +1

    First one here 🥺🥺

  • @sylviagreybe672
    @sylviagreybe672 Před 2 lety +3

    America is one of the few countries to still use the Imperial system (there's only 2 or so countries that do). It is left over from when the UK controlled the USA. You'd think they'd want to get rid of it because of the UK colonialism connection, but no. They still insist it's the "best" system, despite the opposite being so obvious all the rest of the world has changed to metric. Funnily enough, even the drug cartels in the US use the metric system! :) Everyone knows the metric system is better because of it's simplicity and elegance. The US was going to change to the metric system in the 60s, but the next president came in and abolished the law that said they had to change before it was enacted.

    • @hcalo
      @hcalo Před 2 lety

      America is NOT a country... American are everyone that live in all continent... North, South and Central America... thank you

  • @alvinmarshall9446
    @alvinmarshall9446 Před 9 měsíci

    Wow you speak fast! Lol. Cool vid

  • @sabrinamadison8769
    @sabrinamadison8769 Před rokem +1

    Yes. The braids in the USA is crazy

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před rokem

      It makes sense to learn how to do braids but I’m lazy or to cut 😂😂

  • @mclaren_nkoana
    @mclaren_nkoana Před rokem +1

    The testimony I have the day I had to put in gas for the first time 😭

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před rokem +2

      I still struggle today and I forget which side I must pour the gas haha 🤣🤣

    • @mclaren_nkoana
      @mclaren_nkoana Před rokem

      @@TimewithModiTime 🤣🤣🤣

  • @LungileNgcobo
    @LungileNgcobo Před 2 lety +1

    ♥️♥️♥️

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +2

      Aww love it you’re always here ❤️❤️🥺thank you !

    • @LungileNgcobo
      @LungileNgcobo Před 2 lety +1

      @@TimewithModiTime you’re so welcome boo! I love everything about you x

  • @AFRICAGOODLIFE4993
    @AFRICAGOODLIFE4993 Před rokem

    Wow

  • @Lindo_Makhaza
    @Lindo_Makhaza Před 2 lety +4

    This scares me😭😭😭

  • @coodie_coco4754
    @coodie_coco4754 Před 2 lety +1

    it's giving accent❤️🤌🏽

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      dude I don't have one all the people around me are getting changing accents nna new 😭😭

  • @tylerdurden3722
    @tylerdurden3722 Před 3 měsíci

    Letting someone walk off to some backroom with my card is weird.

  • @adolfmudau9956
    @adolfmudau9956 Před 2 lety +1

    WOW.....chill ...your moving fast

  • @lethaboswafo9639
    @lethaboswafo9639 Před 2 lety

    I love ❤ your videos

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 Před 2 lety +4

    I’ve never seen a Quantum 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 SAME SIS

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Před rokem

    Can I please do a reaction video 😂😂😂🙆🏽‍♂️ Damn $90 for just hair 🤯

  • @harmtimmerman9309
    @harmtimmerman9309 Před rokem +1

    Dont't say robot, it is traffic light

  • @molamoalbertus1294
    @molamoalbertus1294 Před 2 lety +1

    You just spoke in my language Sepedi,where in SA are you from

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +1

      Family is from Polokwane and born and raised in Pretoria

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 Před 2 lety

    Speak on it!!!!

  • @ncedomagwebu7862
    @ncedomagwebu7862 Před 2 lety

    English is Vernac there.

  • @Oarabile__M
    @Oarabile__M Před rokem

    They way I want to come to the us😭😭

  • @michiiey_s4232
    @michiiey_s4232 Před 2 lety

    Please do more sit down videos

  • @kingnews23
    @kingnews23 Před 2 lety +3

    So undoing your braids and washing your hair cost was R1350 I can't deal.

  • @adolfmudau9956
    @adolfmudau9956 Před 2 lety +2

    America and common sense....hey

  • @phaphamaricky2674
    @phaphamaricky2674 Před rokem

    I wanna go to the United States but I'll keep my xhosa culture

  • @dawnmiller6899
    @dawnmiller6899 Před rokem

    My God time difference really? That’s worldly

  • @thinadlamini4671
    @thinadlamini4671 Před 2 lety +1

    😂😂😂... Quantums are a South African thing that's what makes us unique. 😌😌😌

  • @thaboturner1280
    @thaboturner1280 Před rokem

    people are leaving america n come to africa n you go there your really bold

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 Před 2 lety +1

    Americans don't do Vrrrpha's like us sis, they have a different version

  • @asiphejohnson6543
    @asiphejohnson6543 Před rokem

    You need to settle there sis SA is a nightmare especially with loadshedding and corruption. I'm also planning to move soon. 😊

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před rokem +2

      You see when you guys say this I feel a bit of stress and pressure because I’m like where must I go or stay haha 😂😂🥲🥲

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Před rokem

    Water pronunciation 😂😂😂🙆🏽‍♂️

  • @maburwanemokoena7117
    @maburwanemokoena7117 Před 2 lety

    Ke rata Sepedi sa gago. Hope you enjoy yourself there♥️

  • @vineshen3599
    @vineshen3599 Před rokem +2

    Yoh bra, why you speaking so fast? You got a rapping audition tomorrow? Sup from S.A👊

    • @kayteekon
      @kayteekon Před rokem

      She doe not speak too fast, it's jus you listen slow, lol just joking, she is a fast talker indeed

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před rokem

      😂😂

  • @tribalpeacock
    @tribalpeacock Před 2 lety +8

    How did you expect to hear African vernacular languages in America? Like duh!

  • @Emma-ey8cu
    @Emma-ey8cu Před 11 měsíci

    OMG slow down!!!

  • @sibusisoattiemahlangu7088

    Doesn’t venac mean language of the land???

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety

      This is the google definition it means "a language or dialect spoken by the ordinary people in a particular country or region."

  • @erickwagithuku707
    @erickwagithuku707 Před 2 lety

    Hi sis

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 Před 2 lety +1

    That’s why I do my own hair bcoz fok man

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety

      The ghetto with the prices friend 🙍🏽‍♀️🙍🏽‍♀️🧍🏾‍♀️

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety

      Yeah sure ! ❤️what would you like me to talk about 🥺

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Před rokem

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thisguy4505
    @thisguy4505 Před 10 měsíci

    Store employees cannot sit down 💀

  • @allysonvine
    @allysonvine Před 7 měsíci

    I love your video, but please talk slower... Whew

  • @FransHerbst93
    @FransHerbst93 Před 2 lety +1

    just talk slower next time please😅

  • @onicamatidze5547
    @onicamatidze5547 Před rokem

    are u treated like a foreigner there,do they call u names sista,just like how us South Africans treats others

  • @sekgabimasobe9690
    @sekgabimasobe9690 Před 2 měsíci

    Modisana you talk too fast slow down tog togi tog

  • @lianaburgers1770
    @lianaburgers1770 Před rokem

    Enjoy your video, just speak a bit slower....

  • @himynameisjumbo
    @himynameisjumbo Před 24 dny

    Spoil yourself with braids😂

  • @greensistaruns7209
    @greensistaruns7209 Před 2 lety

    Pfft speaking vernac your in USA . Hehe Cece wake up

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Před 2 lety +2

      Even when I see a Afrikaans person I get excited and I start speaking in Afrikaans lol !

    • @greensistaruns7209
      @greensistaruns7209 Před 2 lety

      @@TimewithModiTime hehehehe girl it happens to all of us.