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- Why don’t men care about pursuing women anymore...? I doubt it’s a genuine question.
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#men #chasing #women
turns out men have standards too....
Go figure, hey.
Selvfølgelig har vi!
I was just discussing this with a red pilled woman. I think men have boundaries with women more than standards for women. "No, I'm not going to love your family more than my family," "If you make me #3 in importance (after your family and your dog), that gives me latitude you won't recognize," "You want me to 'shine' instead of communicate directly, eh? Ok, whenever you do Danny Torrence, I'll hit up the bar for a few hours," "No, I'm not going to stop gaming, but I'll cut back some maybe. I play video games to escape, so give me less to escape from and I'll play less naturally."
Haha, yes they have
I have standards, they are very low. And even if I was looking which I aren’t, I wouldn’t be able to find somebody to make the grade.
The most radical thing a man can do nowadays is actually look after his own interest, before a woman's.
It's not a man can do.... It's a man HAVE to do! It's about sanity, his money, his TIME, his health
A naive fool puts his woman before himself.
It's not the most radical at all, but it's the most RATIONAL!!!
The self preservation is real..
Ayn Rand (a woman!) has a term for it: rational selfishness
One person I came to know recently just got divorced and it cost him around £500,000. He told me he got treated like crap by everyone except his dog.
I love dogs. The 4 legged ones of course!
Dogs are awesome.
I initiated divorce with my girl because I found photos of her sleeping with one girl and three guys and apparently 90% or so of my friends group don’t talk to me any more. And periodically people contact me to try teach me about virtue and tell me to get back with her.
@@averagejo1626 This is insane
Sometimes, the woman takes the dog, too.
My Father told me years ago...NEVER chase a woman or anything for that matter.
As things that need to be chased are trying to get away from you!!
"I'm sick of following my dreams. I'm just going to ask them where they're goin', and hook up with them later." - Mitch Hedberg
@@spiritlevelstudios it's interesting that we remember our nightmares a lot more than our dreams.
As a man, chasing a woman is a waste of time and resources.
@@ArthaxtaDaVince777 l think the economic freedom of women is trending more toward a tribal polygamous model clashing against the traditional culture. I would suspect this behavior has always laid dormant in women until opportunity allowed expression.
To be honest, time is the most important resource You could just waste for a mere women.
What to do then when u wanna be serious with one ? Wait for her ???
western society no longer supports the family unit, and you cannot support a large family with today's wages
@@nillynush4899 so pple are poor in the west ?
“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”
#YOLO
That is a great answer.
@@janealphabet4615 if you care for your woman long term you need also to take care of yourself because she will not take care of you. She will be busy with kids, etc. You need to be alive to take care of her :-)
Very well said.
So so true. Good wisdom Rafal!👍
The loner life is the best life , it feels great driving somewhere by myself and spoiling myself without having to worry or stress about making someone else happy and being in my space , i feel like i enjoy life more. I can breathe... I can.... enjoy my time, company, and peace of mind 😌
Exactly. Its gotten to the point i just get annoyed quicky if someone is in my space like that. Especially if they keep talking or nagging me about something.
Man this hit me in a real way today. I just got back from a week's vacation. It was a 12 hour drive one-way. Everyone always talks to me like the drive would be so terrible to do by yourself. When, in a lot of ways, the drive is one of the best parts. Quiet. Reflective. Calm focus on the task at hand, without any interruptions. 12 straight hours without speaking a word. It's just like you said - I can breathe.
@@literalvampirepotbellygobl5629 Hopefully you took a break here and there.
Last summer I spent the whole summer on my motorcycle traveling the US. I put 17k miles on the bike in 6 months. Every single mile by myself. Best summer of my entire life. I’ve tasted freedom. I will never willingly give that up.
I am one of the men who have stopped chasing. Who's with me?
I am!
Me too (No hashtag!)
Let's go brother!
With you 100%
You deserve this👑🤴
"A man is not going to invest in somebody that, at best, laughs at him or, at worst, hates him and blames him for everything." No words have rung more true to me on CZcams.
Thanks for the 1k likes.
Risky investment
If you invest , what exacly do you get ??? Sex ,sometimes?
Start chasing them again and they will complain "Why men are chasing us?"😁🤣
Exactly. As his statement about respect. No one is going to want to be with someone that treats them with severe disrespect.
@@FazeParticles it's not just western women anymore unfortunately for the rest of us.
When the fruit is rotten no one will pick it, surprise surprise surprise...
Good analogy.
LOL!! Amen!!
Now that Sir is the answer 100%
Robert Link Kelsey - I suggest it isn’t just rotten but rather it is and has been poison for over a century
Yeah that fruit has been injected with miles of Chad and Tyrone's DNA. It's so rotten it's infecting the tree lol
My divorce attorney was a woman and told me that men are fixers so they never give up on trying to save a relationship. I ended up being Homeless for that very reason. Once I quit being a fixer my life turned around and now gets better every day. Don't be a Fixer.
Yeah, it's not your job to solve someone's emotional issues. People have to want to solve them and be willing to work hard to do so; otherwise, there's nothing you can do to help them.
Bet your wife didn't end up homeless whatsoever...
@@TheJaybass32 Hi Jay, I gave her the house, she started dealing drugs to make up for my income, then was busted and lost the house. I was the "winner" I guess, I was gone before the final train wreck occurred. If things seem to be wrong they probably are, just walk away. I wish that I had realized THAT ONE sooner! LOL Have a Great Sunday Dude.
We have had a epidemic of female narcissism in the last 50 plus years.
My caring days have officially ended long ago
15 years ago, if I saw a woman at the side of the road, her car broken down, I would have stopped to help. Today, not a chance. And that view applies across the board. Let em fix it themselves. They're not worth the risk of a false accusation.
Me too, Rod.... Me too!!
Triple A exists for a reason, and I guarantee that bitch has a working cell phone, so drive on.
@cmtmj2006 don't. They made the bed, let them lie in it.
spoilers: she raped her car until it was broken
@cmtmj2006 had a similar experience in about 2007. Never again. Rude, offensive, presumptuous arses and that's towards someone trying to help. Screw that
Women: We don't need men we are strong and independent.
Men: k
What we should have done was remove the welfare/alimony/child support systems then. Turns out, women are a national tax drain upon Europe and the USA, meaning men make up for both themselves, children, AND women. But sure, women don't need us, lol
When was the last time you heard a mother teaching her daughter how to be a lady? I think I was in 3nd grade. A very long time ago.
Ok wommur
Wife during an argument: "I am woman. Hear me roar. I'm capable, strong, independent, qualified and I don't need your money or any man’s money." I need a man like a fish needs a bicycle. I can do it all and all without a man. I can have an exciting career (that normally just turns out to be a job I need to support myself) and be a mother. All at the same time without the help of any man.
Soon to be Ex Wife in divorce court: "I am unable to work, I can’t earn any money, I can’t make a living, I'm incapable, I am a helpless woman, I'm on the verge of starvation and I need his money or other men’s money through government handouts that men pay for in the form of taxes."
Yet she's still in a conversation with you to try and get your phone number? I mean if you don't need me why are we even talking?
I was just reading the story of Samson and Delilah and something stood out glaringly. Samson's entire downfall was trying to please a woman who was using the line "you don't love me!" in order to manipulate him. Delilah openly says this to get him to give away his secret so that she can sell him out to his enemies.
Any woman who uses this line is projecting because she is incapable of love herself. If a woman loves a man, she would be able to state in a positive way that he is good for her and would invite him to be with her more by making him feel loved. A woman capable of love knows that she has to make her partner feel loved in order to get what she needs. Only a woman incapable of love who is trying to manipulate a man even needs to fall back on the pathetic line that "you don't love me."
Seriously if you really believed someone doesn't love you, you would leave. No one should fall for that line, or its variation: "you just don't care!" Run from women who resort to these lines.
Great analysis... thanks for sharing 👍
The better question is who could love you.
Well, at least its not just me that views chasing women as embarassing.
@maoherrera73 why is it bad to have a kid? Kids aren't like women. ))
The modern woman is so brainwashed into believing that her just existing is so amazing and magical that they don't think they need to bring anything to the table.
Jarin Xeno true story brutal facts
yep.
BEST WAY PUT EVER!!!!
This, very much this!
Her: I want a man that is strong and kind and generous and educated and polite and makes good money and spends time with me and makes me laugh and loves my animals and my parents and will take care of me when Im old and and and.
Me: and what are you going to give this amazing man in return for all those amazing qualities?
Her: my vagina.
Me: but he can buy/rent one.
Her: its not the same, my vagina comes with feelings.
Me: as long as he keeps providing all those things?
Her: yeah.
True... For the most part they seem unable to be present and put attention to contributing to a successful relationship.
Men: What do I get for marrying you?
Women: I'm great
Men: So are steaks and hamburgers
@Jom James incel
@@TheRobochicken5494 lol
Benefits of Marriage
Regular sex?.... Um…. Well….. I think that would be a NO!
Clean the house?........... Of course not.
Cook?.................... Don't be sexist.
"Well, you get to be with me and buy me things to make me happy!"
"You get to be with me?".... she can't even get that right. As soon as she's got your sorry ass hooked and you are at work working your ass off earning money to support this little entitled parasite’s wants and desires that has wormed its way into your life.......... she'll be banging all the "bad boys" she really wants behind your back.
“You get to be with me?”… when you were dating her, she curled up next to you like a little warm purring kitten… now she’s always nagging and bitching at you to the point you don’t even want to be in same room with her.
Honey I am home from working in a hot sweaty factory/stressful office/customer service job all day breaking my back for you, where's dinner?..... fix it yourself, I already ate, I got tired of waiting for you.
Sex with you?..... I am tired......... I am not in the mood....... I have a head-ache......... we just did it last week, I am not expected to do this every week am I........ I thought you'd be over this by now......
@@TheRobochicken5494 "Incel" = Everyone on the internet the wee bitch still attached to his mother's tit has a feminine negative reaction to..
And beer
I know plenty of men in their thirties that aren't interested in having a consistent female partner. I don't mean the tap and dash relationships either. In fact a mate recently bought his first home; really nice place in a relatively wealthy area. Cars paid for and has plenty of time for mountain biking. Women ask him 'How are you still single?' He answers with 'Because I've yet to meet a quality woman'. He's instantly labelled as a misogynist, even though they'll happily give that ass up for a chance at his wealth.
I had similar conversations with women who felt a certain way when a man does not pay for her on a first date. They believe men should be traditional when it comes to romance. My answer was simple: traditional men go with traditional women. Non traditional women do not go with traditional men. It's very simple. Just as when sometimes you hear women complain 'why can't I get good men'. Because good men usually go with good women. Again it's that simple. You should see their faces and silence. But a lot of these entitled women lack self reflection.
Perfect haha
But it's so easy to get a traditional man as a hybrid woman. Be traditional when it's appropriate, and not when it's not. Women are flexible. Men are not, and don't understand flexibility. The ones that do, get the girls.
@@sarahrobertson634 In other words, becoming traditional when it fits women not vice versa. Traditional men prefer traditional women. Modern women prefer traditional men over modern men. Traditional men indeed can get all the girls and prefer traditional women. Every group seems to be happy with their roles except modern women. Traditional women prefer traditional men over modern.
I know your post is 3 years old, but as a woman, I agree with you. Having written that, I'm pretty traditional but I suppose that depends on what our definition is of traditional. For me, I think of my Grandparents. He was an engineer and Navy Officer, she was a nurse. She continued to work after they were married and he supported this although they didn't need the extra money. My Grandfather was loving and kind and respected her as his equal by all accounts, and in turn she respected him. I was lucky to have them as role models into my 40s! They didn't pass away until they were in their late 80s/early 90s. I saw them weather quite a few storms together and have always wanted a relationship like their's.
But some people look at traditional as meaning the man goes to work, the woman is home barefoot and pregnant and has no voice, and at worst us abused and cheated on. That's what today's extreme feminists would have people believe and I know that's not always a fact. Not only did my grandparents love and respect each other and treated each other as equals, but I also grew up witnessing his brothers and their wives and many of their friend's relationships too.
That's my idea of traditional - mutual love and respect, regardless of the smaller details like work or kids or who cooks and cleans. Unfortunately today too many people didn't have those role models that I did and are only out for what they can get - men and women. It's very sad to me. I was definitely born in the wrong generation. 😔
@@npkrn6764 this is true my Mum and dad Married 65 years and always stood by each other - I care for them now and dread the day they go from this world - one of the only pictures I have on my shelf at home is of my parents Married photo I look up to this and wish it could have happened to me
Bicycles don't chase fish.
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Brilliant. 😀
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@Joe Solo Yes, it really is!
I can testify before everyone that I don't care what women want, think, feel, or care about.
MGTOW SWORD not even Collingwood or fishing?
@humandxp .......dude, the only thing women are getting out of me, they've already swallowed.
@@donnahannaford6840 .......I have no idea what you are talking about.
@humandxp ......right on.
@@ragingsnakes1313 ......can't argue with that...🤣🤣🤣🤣
The good men haven't left. We've always been here. It's the women who have lost their way.
Women got the men they SAID they wanted🤷♂️
There's no reason to chase women anymore. They have now become competitors, not partners. So, why bother when there no point to it.
So many great comments in this video... including yours 👍
@@voiceofexperience Precisely Sir
That's 100% right. Previously, women hid their true nature and were accorded many, many "Free Passes" and "Tickets to Easy Street". Now, they still get those thanks to a completely gynocentric society in the West but have exposed their true nature for all to see.
Change will come.
But it will be slow and painful. OR if the lights go out, very, very quick and brutal.
Feminism is a woman's true nature brought to the surface. By exposing themselves, they made a key mistake.
I don't even think it's competition from woman these days its just that the playing field has been skewed so much in their favour that it doesn't even pay to waste the energy competing. Majority of companies have 'diversity hires' now mandated by government.
facts
chivalry is dead and women killed it. -- dave chappelle
Chivalry is actually between Men, women need something else.
@@falkenvir Simpery 😂
Im so glad that other man are opening their eyes. Don't let anyone play with you.
Women love the game. They also love men who don't care about them. I used to really care about and revere women, but it never paid off. Once I became jaded enough to stop caring, my phone started ringing off the hook. Trouble is, it wasn't a game and I wasn't acting a part. I truly stopped caring. A few hearts were definitely broken over the years and I feel no guilt, shame, or regret. I enjoyed the fruits of their game immensely.
"Why are women not like our grandmothers"?
They are! They just dont hide their nature that well.
Maybe. Or maybe theyre just adapting that nature to a different environment and not consciously hiding anything.
@@vlatkonedelkovski185 Thank you very much, Vlatko. I hope many men here read that and understand that. It's the truth!!
@Sandy V. Very true.
I think with people is like with bonsai trees. You should have good boundries when you grow up, so when later you are free to grow, you will more or less keep the right shape and don't grow into directions that would be harmful to you. Maybe the natures of our grandmothers were the same as today females, but because of this correct upbrining they "keep their shape" much better and maybe don't think about some things just because how far those thoughs were from their mental pathways.
A friend of my mother asked me:
Her: Why don't you marry?
Me: Not interested.
Her: Why, do you hate women?
(She was not even angry, the barb blurted out of her instinctively)
A slow condescending laughter started rolling out of me.
It's wondrous the level of serenity you can achieve when you can see the code behind their eyes.
Where devil cant get he will send a woman...old saying
i found out they say that because they think we are like them. even the who hurt you thing. its actually women who are capable of hating men who dont get married
This !!! Hahaha
@Franz Huber Precisely, a social engineer thrives in smoke and mirrors. Indifference disarms her and truth destroys her. Two anathemas that women will keep learning more and more in the coming days. It will all be our fault of course.
@@RG-ls2db Leaves the question "where are the real women then"?
Never mess with someone who is not afraid to be alone you'll lose every time .
"Men, come to Brazil; women over here are very chaste and marriage oriented..." then I woke up and laughed! 😂😁😂
You will always lose money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money. Subscribed.
briliant
Ouch. That's quite a bad inditement on modern women.
Great phrase for an epitaph right there.
Plural. You may lose some special woman for you. However chasing money makes more sense. Because not chasing money you will lose her anyway.
@fetty young maybe you haven't met some specials. For me it was maybe once in 6 years or so. yeah for others they just regular. I mean like special for me.
I like the restaurant analogy: "Stop blaming the customers when nobody is walking through the door"
Some of the healthiest places I've seen are dying while the shittiest most fattening places like McDonald's are thriving so idk, there should be more to food than just good taste, just like there should be more to women than just good looks
@@numba1jebac I mean Mc Donald's is much cheaper compared to most good restaurants so that can play a factor too I think
@@sammydray5919So lotsa ppl go for what's cheap n easy so they shouldn't entirely blame sluts when it doesn't work out in the end when they didn't have the guts to build themselves up to go after higher quality women. Just like fatties shouldn't blame McDonald's but themselves for not working out n investing in healthier food
Crazy how much sense it all makes. I'm muscular with 6% body fat n ripped abs, don't make lotsa $ but always pass by cheap ass McDonald's n make healthy homemade food n work out daily. Dating a humble introverted girl who's perfectly fine so far n with the mind of abundance I'll be jist fine even if 1 day she isn't fine. I'd never be surprised if I met a slutty girl who in the end turned out to be just that, not all of this is a surprise. Girl I'm with n the body I have aren't a complete shock n surprise, it has just bout everything to do with my actions
Men will avoid conflict by staying by themselves and not taking on the responsibilities of a wife/family. Not to mention the huge financial burden that comes with that.
"I don't hate you, I just don't respect you" The joker.
There's less demand for a bad product.
Family Stone .. used up jalopy
Beautiful response
Women: "Why wouldn't you want a Ferrari?"
Me: "Upkeep is too damn high"
I want a Ferrari. But a brand new one, not a high mileage one with lots of mechanical problems that will shit the bed and make a costly mess. No thanks, that car won't get me anywhere.
Kind of bold of them to assume they're as valuable as a Ferrari.
When you look at the social speed limit signs everywhere...going past the speed limits still gets you a ticket. With either a Volkswagen or that Ferrari.....Relationship...its going to cost ya!
Hm. Maybe she is Lamborghini but believes she is a Ferrari :-) And I want both. I just can't afford it. Only to rent for few days :-)
I'm kind of disturbed by the fact that most men here see women as something they buy. Especially a car (like wtf?!) that is just an eroticised servicetool for you? But there is also hope, because most of you at least see that women are no Ferraris, usually because they are humans not cars. They are fallible, they make mistakes, they adapt, they learn, they try, they hate, they love, they are much more like you (yes I mean YOU!) than you think! And I think just as women have wriggled themselves out of their menserving position, men need to free themselves from the womenchasing position. Dear men: Reach for that freedom, by forgetting "traditional roles" that are not only a slavecollar for women but also for you!
Freedom is extremely important. Not only, but also because it's the only way to true love. I don't want a woman that only loves me because I can fix her chair or protect her from something. I don't want a woman that loves my role as Killer/Protector, but I want a person that loves ME. But to get that you have to stop loving the role of Sexobject/Nurterer and start loving her as a person. So f*ck those stupid "traditional" roles!
I tell young men all the time, you are the catch. If a woman does not realize you are the catch then its her loss. Now you gotta conduct yourself professionally and personally in order to be the catch but it is a process every young man has to go thru. No woman is above you. That does not mean they are beneath, but they sure as hell are not above.
İ'm so glad to see men discussing these issues openly instead of being silient about the reality .
More of us should... men have been silent for far too long.
If a bull survives the slaughterhouse, it never forgets what the meat grinder looks like...
Damn😂
Good one!
Fuck yeah Vegan men are higher on the rating scale.
@@brunocbart2421 The fuck you're talking about?
Idk about that. Bulls aren't very intelligent.
When your distrust with women exceeds your lust for them then you quit chasing them and you experience peace. Direct your focus on your job and hobbies. Hang out with your bros. Date sparingly if you wish.
@Thursday Lane's #2 Fan Welcome brother, we've been waiting for you and have prepared a place at our table for you.
Please....... come in and join your brothers at the table and sit down. We will help you to understand what has been happening to you over the years and how to free yourself from the web.
Sombody once said "women are like shadows, when you chase they flee, when you walk away, they follow"
@O.H. for him above, not dealing with women is what brings him inner peace. It was always about inner peace
Truth
I have saved a lot of money by switching to MGTOW
For me and my experience, American women do not fall in love with men, they fall in love with love.
With cultural narratives. They want to 'win.' It's all about impressing everybody _but_ the man.
Was talking to a female I liked a while back. When we're one on one she's a total sweetheart. When other people are around she was cold as hell and acted like she didn't want me at all. Then she would play hard to get a LOT. I'm 32 so that's a huge turn off for me. When I stopped caring and backed off, she actually told me "A LITTLE CHASE WOULDN'T HURT". I chase NO woman. Either you want me or you don't. It's that simple. Especially when they're too busy playing hard to get and little miss uninterested.
The chase at younger ages like teen years is fine. But once you get about halfway through your twenties, it becomes an irritating distraction. By then one would expect that even women should be able to use logic and reason. I've often heard that women mature earlier when my observation gives rise to the notion that they stop maturing sooner.
I just got rid of a chick that was doing that stupid shit. You would think a woman in her 30's wouldn't be so childish.
@@ogchocolate93 I wouldn't think that. Most grow old, not up.
@@lochinvar00465 yes, I have heard that one get tossed about a bit: Women mature faster than guys. I think 'mature' is the wrong word, I was feeling 'age' was a better fit.
Similar story w a chick in her early 30's. I finally texted her the meme of "bitch please, I don't even chase my liquor." She hit me up a few months later; I had deleted her number and asked who it was. She told me, I didn't respond. If I do date, it's 40 and older - chicks who have hit the wall and know it and have made peace with it. They're rare, but they're out there.
Men aren't chasing because there's no security in chasing women nowadays. Even if you were to get in a relationship with a woman, there's no guarantee that she won't leave you tomorrow. Let's be honest with ourselves, most men, even among MGTOW, biologically and genetically crave women and would struggle to keep sober around women. I know it sounds a bit escapist, but it's a much safer bet for a man to retain his mental health and contentment by not chasing the proverbial tail, especially for those guys who can't say no around women.
It's just a simple cost benefit analysis.
Yeah. I'm only in I'm late 20s and had 2 ltrs. Both ended with me being cheated on and left. Looking back, we were just friends with benefits. I was the only one who actually wanted a real relationship. I don't have the mental or emotional energy to deal with women anymore. I'll talk to them when I have to such as at work, but I'll never date them again. I go to massage parlors for my sexual urges. There is only risk when dealing with modern day women and no benefit.
I couldn't agree with you more.
@@b-41subject57 Be careful, there's danger when dealing with hookers from massage parlors, you can get robbed, get arrested if it's a sting operation or worse, catch an STI. Stay safe bro.
Thinking Atheist thank you. I don't have intercourse at the parlors. Only methods using the hands. Still feels amazing.
Friends are always telling me
"Why don't you try and take that girl/woman home?"
and it takes everything to not laugh and say "Why?"
Yeah, take that woman home. Until she tires of you or you tire of her. Then you won't have a woman and you won't have a home either #DIVORCERAPE
uuummmm cus you will destroy your whole life if you do take her home
I do just laugh. People look visibly hurt when I laugh at them, "you'll get married/have kids someday", what an absolute joke!
Perfection is a myth. It isnt real. Each person, male, and female have flaws. It is a matter of admitting your own flaws and attempting to fix the flaws.
When men "chase" women, it's seen as "rapey" behavior nowadays. Men aren't playing that game. If a woman wants a guy, she will speak up. Men are tired of putting forth all the effort, and just getting smirks, disinterest, and rejection as a reward. If you want a guy, let them know. If you are at the bar and get all pissed when guys come up to you to talk....what did you want them to do? Wait for you to say something? Because you weren't saying anything. So men aren't going to approach you anymore. Congratulations, feminism. You dug your own hole. Now go lay in it.
This is probably to do with the size of the modern population. You used to go into a bar of about 30-50 people, a women would be approached by maybe one or two. Now you can go out for a drink with your mates and by the end of the night, you've had two guys shout sexiest chat up lines on your way to the loo, five guys grabbed your bum or breasts out of the darkness, four guys offer to get you a drink, a group try to chat you up when your quickly popping out for some air, and the more lost you get in dancing the more men approach you from behind. I know the women your talking about which get offended by your approach, but I can see why some women react that way. It's still a dick move but can feel like your being swamped sometimes and you just wanted an easy night out with your friends. No ones fault, just too many dicks in one room (woman and men), would make even the decent ones agitated. My partner and I are 8 years strong and simply starting chatting whilst sat down, took each day as it comes, simple. No chase, no game.
@@jiminycricket6428 Such behavior from men is wrong. It's sexist, rude, gross, and even illegal in some cases. However...it's worth noting that while it may be gross as hell....do you think it works on a lot of women these days? Just based on personal observations....guys arent dumb. They wouldn't act a certain way if it WASN'T working for them on some level. Men have become overly thirsty and bold....because they have to be. When they are calm, polite, shy, and respectful...women friendzone them.
Women: Why aren't men chasing anymore?
Men: You wouldn't get it.
@@osakanone When you see the truth, that kind of taunting doesn't work anymore.
Osaka I think you should have a sex change and become a women.
@@Ufu4847 lol
@@osakanone trying to use the standard feminine shaming tactics on men won't work here. Btw the only cucks are men who would waste time on trash like you.
@@osakanone
You should stop projecting your own detrimental ignorance, delusional BS, physical+sexual ineptitude, incompetence, and moral failings onto 'Western' and 'Westernized' men online. It's disgusting and unbecoming of you sweetie.
Everyone at the gym: "She's definitely into you", "ask her out", "don't be afraid", "she'll say yes".
Me: "why? To date a few months then she monkey branchs and then we'll have a bad mood around here, for what?"
Let's continue to be gym partners...
But most of them are blue pilled young boys. They don't get it... Yet!
Stay strong gymbro
@Franz Huber Yes. It's a strange mixture of pity and lust that seems to drive us. Or at least used to do so.
I was in a similar situation with a much younger coworker about 12 years ago. Friends and family told me I should take things to the next level, but I knew how badly things were likely to eventually go. Then I'd have endangered my career in a female-dominated field needlessly by not being able to keep my filthy paws off of my coworkers.
And then you’re opening yourself up to claims of “harassment” and social shaming for making a move, and the gym management is going to white knight for her to make themselves look good socially, which could result in your having to find a different gym all because of claims about her fee-fees.
😂 lmao because a bomb ass gym thot had been checking me out for a while, even strikes up a conversation. I was polite, answered her questions quickly and without meandering, and then moved on to a different location at the gym. I do the same every time a thot positions herself in such a way that you cannot miss her a** popping out of her one or two sizes too small of a leggings pair. After I'm done with my grad school this upcoming spring I'm putting together a home gym. Won't ever have to deal with that nonsense again.
"Where have all the good men gone?" "They are busy trying to figure out if there are any good women left"
Governments are being forced to address the issue. They very much depend on taxes paid by men between the ages of 24 and 54, working 12 months of the year. Millions upon millions of these men discovered staying single can give them a rewarding life with minimal work and therefore minimal taxes.
That's kind of not true.. As a singe head of household, I am taxed at a far higher rate than the breeders because I have fewer deductions..
Women: Why aren’t men chasing us anymore?
Men: hahahahaha
Women: what’s so funny?
Men: ..You wouldn’t get it
Oh my god..
Is it just me, or is it getting crazier out there
😂😂😂👍nice one
@Sumit Roy truth man.
@Sumit Roy For me it was better still. As a kid, I adored heroes. As an adult, I no longer saw the villains as villains.
I went out last night to a club. I like dancing...by myself. These 2 girls kept smiling at me...they eventually came over and we talked for about an hour. There were definite signs from one of them that I was in...touching, flirting etc. Anyway, I couldn't be stuffed...so when they said they were going to another venue, I just said "bye". The one grabbed my arm and kissed me and said that it was so good meeting me. It was clear that she was wanting me to make a move or at least ask for a number. I didn't. Why? I just can't be stuffed. My life is great and I am not making an effort to what will end up a shit show anyway.
@Franz Huber brutal! Zero fucks given (literally)
Same here. I don't go to clubs anymore but I do to concerts by myself, mostly indie EDM artists, and Reggae bands. I'm an average looking guy, but I like to dance. It's funny, when everyone is waiting around for the show to start, not one girl looks my way. But when the music starts playing and I start dancing, I get girls giving me attention. They would start talking to me, telling me they like how I dance, rubbing up on me, asking my name. But in the end, I can't be bothered to spit game or ask for their number. First of all, it's too loud to have a decent conversation. And second, I go to concerts or music venues to enjoy the music, not be distracted by thot's.
@Franz Huber Well played my good sir, well played my 😄😂😂.
lol Interesting. Be smart out there guys, dont let your dick do your thinking
Honestly I would have asked for the number because why not, but there would be a 80% chance I wouldn't call her. I just Idk even when i have the chance these days I find it hard to bother. I think it's because I can't see the interaction, and all that comes with it being worth it. She could be a great girl, but do I want to risk it that she's not type thing.
I'm in my late 20's. Never been a player or a chaser. Quite the opposite. I believe I have some issues with my self confidence. It feels uncomfortable to me to try and talk to girls I don't know. I feared rejection. And in some point in my life I thought I had to change that.
That's in the past. After some years single, saving money, living in peace, not worried about maintaining a relationship, learning about all these unfair situation men in the west go throught, I came to the realization I was in the best place I could imagine. Single, no children, no drama. Free.
I'm not worried about chasing women anymore.
The real man, I'm right here in keelby Lincolnshire living a full and content life with my faithful dog. I ask for little else.
It was the old fashioned folks that wanted their daughters to have a better than they had it and they gave us the women of today!
@Franz Huber To quote a line from a King Diamond song: "She's pretending as always!"
An old badass once told me the older you get, the more you realise you dont have to chase. If you focus on making your life awesome, women see that and come to you
You my man are a 💯 % correct this is scary true!!
@@tonykhan7212 Only partially. Yes women will flock to you when you have an awesome life, but not because they want you. It's never about you, only what you have to offer.
Accumulating wealth may lead to acquiring a bevy of admirers... but it’s not YOU they’re attracted to.
It’s very true. I’m not a wealthy man, but I live it somewhat nonconventionally, and women dig it. I have a woman, but I can tell other women find my life interesting. It’s not a perfect relationship, but she’s low maintenance and I keep her expectations low. Seems to work.
Did he have any advice about getting them to go away? That's what you really need if you are one of such divorce-worthy men.
01:13 "...you don't really care about the answer."
Megaton bomb of Truth, here.
I have always been cheated on, each and every relationship, I'm overweight, ugly and unappealing, why do I want to be rejected, I know that I'm ugly, overweight and old without having to be humiliated
If women can set a height standard, I can set a weight standard.
You can change your weight, we cannot change our heights.
You can wear elevator shoes just like women can wear makeup.
@@jebediahkerman8245 All the makeup in the world wouldn't do much if the weight is too high for that person's standards
Vlitra Gaia You’re missing the point
@@jebediahkerman8245 Clarify just to make sure were on the same page then
@@vlitragaia5969 lol no response
As women start behaving more like men, the men lose interest in them. Hardly surprising is it?
This video really speaks to my heart.
I feel like i'm getting less and less interested in dating and women in general, and this video perfectly explains why. Everything is about appeal nowadays, with social media and fashion and all of that. But the world that we live in right now demands for rationality and not for emotions. Affection and Sex just isn't enough of a drive anymore. Procreation has barely any relevance anymore, there are way bigger things to care about. it's not about: "who can i spend the night with and get a load off ,just to feel good for a night?" but "what are you contributing to the grand scheme of things?".
If you can't give me a rational reason why i should care about you, i simply don't see myself doing so.
A man who isn't respected in his own home, why would he try?
Even if he owned every last nail in it before meeting 'cupcake', it won't be his "own hone" for long....
@Faster Master Blaster I agree, maybe only with women under 70 except for women under 90. But yeah.
@Faster Master Blaster simply understand women are good for one thing. everything else a woman can do will be automated including sex. and soon even making babies will be automated which will make women beyond useless. imagine having a daughter within the 2020s and knowing she'll be made obsolete before she's 25. it's almost hilarious.
Exactly the reason I walked out. My ex-wife and daughters did precisely that.
The juice ain´t worth the squeeze anymore
And I'm not into rancid orange juice or oranges that are (now) half squeezed with fingerprints all over XD
This real man is enjoying life debt free in my custom home, driving my paid for cars, spending my money on myself.
"If you treat her like a celebrity.
She'll treat you like a fan" Rich Cooper
Many years ago when I was at a petrol station a woman had a tyre that looked half flat....so I put air in it for her,,,,,she made me feel like a creep....not even a thank you. That was maybe 30 years ago. I'll never forget it and I will never help again.
Did you ask for her permission before you did it?
Hey Jason, Let's say that I did miss the (or your) point, and that I do not know what the point is, and that I will never figure it out. Will you now tell me it? So that I may come to some form of understanding.
I dont think Arro missed the point at all. Ties into the entire comment section, lol
I take ur point there, but if you just did it without asking or saying something to her, shit i'd look at you wierd but yeh, fuck chivalry.
cCameron, that was a rude woman and she didn't have manners. She was not open hearted to recognize the good that you did for her. Don't let that one woman close off your heart from all of the good women, those of us that do indeed exist. I love good men, I value good men and love, absolutely love, when a man does a chivalrous act for me. We must value and honor the Divine Masculine and Feminine. Us traditional women are still around.
men are poorer than ever. We can barely afford to take care of ourselves, let alone anyone else.
Kinda true for everyone, not just men. The economy sucks rn
@@jaycampbell6402 well said.
Yep. You need to be crazy. Love makes you crazy. But you can't be always crazy.
Green Envy wow that’s sad.
I understand this 💯
I wish I had seen this video yrs before. This is so true. It accurately sums up mgtow. When people question me why I'm in my 50's single and childless, I'll just show them this video. THANK YOU huMan!
Women get offended when you ask what are you bringing to the table, yet they have a list of requirements and think their personality will pay the bills
"It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house." - Proverbs 21:9
"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies." - Proverbs 31:10
The bible is fiction
@@cabowabo78727 This verse isn't
Stop squabbling, we are men, take from it what is worthy, or just leave it alone.
Nailed it exactly 💯
None of them today have the virtues of those days
I think women assume that they're every bit as valuable as they always were, so they still deserve all the good things they used to get. Wives used to offer respect (social and personal), loyalty, children, submission and sex -- all things men value. Now they offer none of those things reliably, and often the inverse. And society itself offers none of those things reliably, and often the inverse. No wonder we're demotivated.
This de serves to be seen by everyone This is why relationships don't work no more
well yes ofcourse I was just going by the fact that women used to be way more respectful and had morals though than they do now
It wasn't all about money to them like it is now cus now unless your either a billionaire or your nothing
Excellent point. All that's offered today is empty bank accounts, instability, stress by the pound, other men's kids, cellulite, & shame.
Women want equality, but none of the hardship that comes with it.
Matched suicide rates, selective service for the draft, empty pockets, labor force, same amount of work fatalities, etc... want me to go on?
There was this woman in my country who was a firefighter and she failed the so called staircase test, in which you have to carry a fellow firefighter on your back up and down the stairs a couple of times. She just wasn't strong enough. She took that to the fucking court to make an exception, because... she's a woman. The court dismissed her bullshit. Want equality? Then accept equal treatment. It's human lives we're talking about here when you're in a burning building.
And i don't think they realize how serious the issue is...
Why would they care as long as they have Pimp Daddy Gov't as an extortionist acting on their behalf?
They don't think,just think of tha $$$$
"ESPECIALLY PAST 30"
I'm 64 and divorced for 5 years now. I go to the gym and I'm in pretty good shape, in fact people think I'm a fit and healthy 50 (thanks for the genes dad ☺).
But I look around and what do I see...a complete shit show. Fat, bad attitude, damaged, mental, entitled, snarky, needy, screwed up lives and finances...take your pick
I go to dinner parties etc and I see women watching me when they think I'm not looking. They're looking for someone but I'm not. I can see it in their faces, they expect me to show an interest. I'm friendly, humorous but never flirty. Why would I be?
They have nothing I want....and they know it.
Frequently some female friend/relative will say "We must find you someone".
I just smile.....and count the weeks until my next holiday.
Experience is the best teacher, isn't?
"Frequently some female friend/relative will say "We must find you someone"...
... yeah, they always want to find you someone when you're at the finish line :)
LOL, let those fat miserable cat ladies watch you and wondering why you are such a happy and enjoyable single person. They will never understand because they are the opposite. Keep up living the good life.
Great life right there, Eleven : Eleven.
you should be like: Just "one"? why not five?
This is a keen observation. Men haven't changed. We are only responding to the way our culture changed around us.
I quit dating. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
Why would I chase a monster? I'm enjoying my life and dont need someone to spend and waste my money, time, and patience. Then ultimately try to destroy my life.
It's like asking the traditional African hunter who used to hunt Kudu, why he's not hunting the local cows.
haha.
Why chase the sand that slips between your fingers.
Most girls I've talked to don't care. I definitely feel like I'm expected to do more for her than she is for me. But the moment I even imply that I'd like more than just some lackluster text conversation after weeks of doting and affection, even after the nicest dates. Afterwards, I feel as if I've given a child a treat, like candy or icecream, and not poured my dedication, my emotional vulnerability, and my money into an intended relationship that always winds up being no more than a fun time for her. We're play things for women now, because now they can pretend they don't need us while stabbing us In the back. They can have all the money, all the power, without having to put forth the effort and energy to have a genuine relationship.
"the juice isn't worth the Squeeze"
they may make a song and dance about relationships, portrait themselves as so mysterious when they really are not. because in the end we decide who to marry/give resources (money, access, social status etc) to. more men are breaking through that lifelong conditioning and resources are becoming scarce for most women. why give it all away to these bums? you can have a great life today as a man if you're smart.
Actionhanz@ - spot on. Why give your blood and treasure to bums?
I was young and stupid and dumb to the ways of the world. To every young man I say, stay clean and free and if you possibly can. Listen to a MGTOW or redpill YT clips every day to remind yourself and counter the mainstream B.S.
So true. I still believe men are living in the best era in human history, AS LONG AS THEY AVOID MARRIAGE.
The government and courts are nothing more than price fixing, letting the quality of the product deteriorate to almost nothing, because rigid pricing is maintained, regardless of product/service quality.
Avoid the price control of the marriage contract, and enjoy the frivolity of cheap and plentiful goods.
@@zenden6564 Yep, a lot of younger men are starting to take their daily dose of red pills like skittles. I know i do. Stay strong bro💪🏿.
@@ThinkingAtheist88 - thanks man 👍
@@Drizzly_Bear - always good advice, avoid dumb moves and make smart ones like leverage your advantage dynamically. Definitely do not march like lemmings over the cliff. 👍
Women what men to return to the Plantation. In a conversation, I had with a woman about a year ago she made a comment that men weren't Chivalrous my response to her was if you want men to be more Chivalrous women need to be more Virtuous. Needless to say, she didn't like my response.
Of course she didnt like it. That was a dose of cold, hard truth & reality--nothing pisses a female off more than the truth. They cant handle any concept that doesnt come from their delusional, fantasy-laden simple minds.
They look at chivalry as weakness and neediness
BIGSKY perfect response agreed
Leo De Leon they can never handle the truth gotta knock them back into reality with the here dumbass princess mentality problems
fattyjaybird facts smh that shit gets you nowhere in this era
Why deal with the drama, the constant demands, spending all your money, having to do everything she wants.
Peace and quiet and being able to just relax is such a better way to live.
"Why men aren't chasing?"
"Because we (male and female) are not water and spirit. Now it is just water and oil"
This one is definitely going in my favourites file! My mum died a few years ago.. and recently my dad found another female.. nice as pie at first.. until she got what she wanted. She sold her condo ( and I’m sure the money is in her account not shared with dad) she then moved in dads place and took it over.. you know that when dad passes he’s going to leave her the house, and not to his kids.. every time I see them now I watch her and listen to her shameing comments towards him.. it’s sad to watch a man let a woman rob him of his possessions, money and dignity.. he NEVER should have rescued her from her shitty life and let her move in.. she’s 69 and looks like an old potato sack.. he literally gets NOTHING from this relationship.. he’s even dropped his lifelong hobbies.. the worst part is that I think he’s completely blind to all of it
Man, that's hard to observe... let alone when it's your dad :/
Contact Adult Protective Services.
jesus dude. do something about it!
Several generations of "you've come a long way baby" has brainwashed women into believing they are better than their mothers. Men should want them all the more because of all the advances women have made. Well ladies, you liberated yourself from everything that made you valuable as a partner.
Good one!
An absolutely truthful video. You have identified the contempt that the sexes have for each other. Women have always considered themselves to be desired and wanted. Those days have gone, because they are not needed. Women have played their high cards, and now all they have left are twos and threes.
Barry Island The modern woman went all in on a K-Q high card and life beat them with a pair of 2s
Men have the instincts of a craftsman--in order to make a lasting product great care must be taken in the selection of raw materials. They have trouble finding quality material.
"Who hurt you?" isn't a question. It's a red flag that she's a psychopath.
It's women saying "Only a loser feels the pain of a broken heart."
"Why men are not chasing?" Because we don't want to anymore.
Because we are worried that if we chase you, we might catch you.
(and then we might catch Herpagonasyphilaids)
Because men are the prize, not the woman; society has it backwards fellas, that's why women want marriage so bad, they even use language such as "I got me a good one" (hence, the prize)!!! Somewhere along the line men just became simps and started chasing the women when really they should be chasing us if you realize the gender dynamics!
it's no longer worth the chase
@@sharkdentures3247 Popp would be proud of you
@@mercenarymike1397 Terrance Popp. . . a great man. So I thank you for the high praise.
The past 30 bit so true. Chasing is expensive & could become a life sentence. Men have finite time & energy & must use wisely.
It's been a few weeks since I decided to get off the dating apps and to stop chasing women. It's amazing how peaceful my life has been since
My descriptions of modern women for the past 10 years has been "Undiscovered celebrities" and "Working class royalty". You can only be knocked back and turned down consistently so many dozens of times and oftentimes in such mean, nasty and deliberately embarrassing ways throughout your late teens and all throughout your 20s before you just give up in your 30s.
"Undiscovered celebrities" haha you must live in Sydney too.
@@michaelgordon2723 Nope, Scotland.
Great sums
the mistake you made, was expecting to have any meaning or any sexual market value before your 20s.
men's sexual market value only starts to rise in between 23-27, that is when men's sexual market value starts. Before this time (within western society), you should completely ignore women and maybe even up until you hit 35. Once you're 35 makes sure you're in shape and have a high social economic status, when that happens almost no woman would want to pass you.
This is completely the opposite for women, as women's sexual market value very early on in their 16s and tops at around 26.
Meaning that when a woman hits 18, she has roughly speaking 10 years the time of finding a partner. where as men have that 10 years to establish themselves, and then find a partner.
Men focus more on what they need and women focus more on what they want
No wife, no kids, no dating, just me.
Lucky bastard!
@@user-kw5lk7kg2o Maybe. It was a conscious decision I made when I was 19.
MDM and a lot of porn
Sounds like a nice empty life.
That sounds like a shaming tactic.
Women can never love unconditionally, they only love you for what you can do for them.
So do not chase any woman, no woman is worth chasing
huMAN, you’ve hit it out of the park again!!
I have been chatting to a long time friend over the past week while I’ve been volunteering at my favourite railway, and he has managed to come to the same conclusions. By observation and listening to the lyrics of the classic artist of the 60s, 70s and early 80s.
He even told me that we where the enlightened ones for not taking the bate on the trap of a relationship.
Slowly the male is awakening one by one.