[Q&A] Jealousy, Holiday Depression, Dealing with toxic family
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
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Always dropping wisdom, Weylie! I love you and will always love anything you post. ❤️
I love you Jenn 🥺❤️
Ahhh I can’t believe you feel that way about your videos and posting because I always look forward to your new videos! I’ve been a subscriber since the red hair! You’re doing amazing 🤎
I second this I was so sad when she stopped posting vlogs
I love that you have the courage to be vulnerable and talk about feelings and issues that can be hard to admit to so THANK YOU! Taking the stigma out of hard topics is where growth occurs. You’re killing it, can’t wait for the next video 💜
it must be so hard to be vulnerable, she's very brave
You’re actually one of the only CZcamsrs who I actively wait for videos to pop up. Keep loving and taking care of yourself weylie 🙏❤️
BB GURL YOU'RE KILLING IT!!! People unsubscribing or unfollowing have nothing to do with YOUUU! I think that everyone is just going through their own stages of life which lead them to follow or watch different things. Please never feel like it's related to the content you put out in anyway. I currently really appreciate your videos especially when they are lengthy because they provide me comfort when I'm working long hours from home so thank you!
After all these years, your videos are still the ones I look forward to THE MOST out of all the channels I subscribe to. Even though your videos may not be getting as many views as before, you still bring comfort and joy to a lot of us! CZcams is not an easy job and you’ve been rocking it for so long. I hope that you will see continued stability and more adventures in 2022!
i love her videos so much too, esp her chatty ones~
Yes I love her videos ! She makes it feel like we’re really best friends just hanging out and talking 🥰 I also love how weylie has always stayed so grounded unlike other youtubers that let this all get to their head right away !
@@stef.jane20 yes you can tell she's really down to earth :)
Always love your chatty vids, thanks for this relaxing video! Really needed it 🖤
Weylie, girl. Hope this reaches you...
... but I would be HEARTBROKEN if you stopped posting (not to say that you have to post for the rest of your life). I think your content is evolving in the same way you are, we're starting to see your interests as a grown up and your calm, animal-loving, and slow-living lifestyle. At first I felt I couldn't relate because my life is hectic as hell and your life is portrayed as calm and simple, but then your videos started to bring me calm and made me feel more grounded after watching your new content.
I think as long as you keep posting as authentic as you are, your new and old viewers will learn to love your content again and again. Do not give in just because you're not out here for the meaningless views, the clickbait, and the drama. Thank you for being who you are, at all times.
Some ways you've influenced my life,
- customize your life in a way where everything, large or small, brings you joy (ex. your vintage style kitchens, your extremely beautiful kitchenware and plates, or that crazy beautiful dog(?) crate you have in the background of this video)
- be who you are, be grateful for each day
- love who you love how you want to love them
- the importance and benefits of journalling and not losing sight of my creativity!
- go outside, be in nature, and bring your family (dogs, significants, friends) with you along the way
- be honest with yourself and others.
That's exactly why I love her videos! It brings me calm too.
Was scrolling through comments after I posted mine and just wanted to say that I love ur comment. Weylie has helped us in so many ways. Her fans/followers from what I can see are filled with such kind people.😊
This comment!!! 💜💜💜
The part about toxic family members and wanting them to change really hit home with me when you talked about it. It’s draining to want to change another person when the person in question don’t want to/try.
@Grabastick I agree that it really is draining! Rather than keep trying, I would say to stop having expectations and create boundaries. Realistically, most people won’t change so you gotta prioritize yourself first and just move out. If you keep allowing that toxic family member to mistreat you, then that’s just you disrespecting yourself as well as encouraging them. I am sorry you are going through that but be brave and act for yourself. You got this even when you think that you don’t!!!
aw weylie i just finished watching the video and i just can’t help how real you keep it still and how humble you are. despite you losing subscribers and viewers you still have us OG viewers! i’ve been here since your red head and tampon days LMAOO. you’re one of the few youtubers who i really relate too and because of you, whenever i’m down im like “i’m a bad bitch i’m a bad bitch mhm” so just know you have us with you til the end :D keep the videos coming miss girl!
In my 10+ years watching YT gurus, you're the only one who has remained humble and vulnerable. No cringey voiceover on top of sappy music, just honest heart-to-heart conversations. That makes you the most beautiful YTer in my book.
Despite your follower count or how many views you get, I genuinely find comfort in your videos and it even makes me feel nostalgic at times with the amount of years I’ve been watching you and how much growth I’ve had as a person and to also watch your growth as a viewer! I love your content and I hope you stay well and keep killin it like you always do 🤍
I was sad to hear about your loss in viewership. Weylie, I've been following you ever since I was a 15 year old, it's been 10 years and I can't imagine going on CZcams without getting updates about you. I believe that this year will come to an end together with the bad. I hope that you will have a blessed 2022! Thank you for staying true to yourself, I'll always remember the tampon video and the authenticity and love you bring to everyone here!
Once I let go of my expectations for people, even if it was for them to be kinder & more compassionate, I felt better. Holding onto the hope that toxic people will change will drain you emotionally and sets you up for hard disappointment. Once I understood that, I realized that when toxic/abusive people hurt me, it has NOTHING to do with me. Learning to not take things personally really lifted me and brought me peace and enlightenment. 🙏🏻
it's hard to let go but so freeing when you do
@@michellejy agree!!!! Hard to do, but not impossible! 😉
Omgggg yesssss!
Weylie,
I have been a long time, silent, follower. I felt like I have grown up with you. I went through relationships, school, friendships, etc with you. I hope you know that you resonate most with me because of your upbringing, your background, and so much more. I have been able to relate to you on so many levels. For example being Chinese and growing up with a mom who cooked mostly Viet food because of where they grew up. I always felt so different. So out of place. And then years ago you showed me that someone else did grow up the way I did. I love everything about you, your attitude, and your relationship with Wah and yourself. It is truly incredible to see how far you have come. Don't forget that although there are people leaving (maybe because they have grown like you have an no longer have the same interests) that there are people like me.. who are always silently and vocally rooting you on. ♥️ merry christmas to you and your family. Thank you for growing up with me
^^^ this part!!
Same here!!
She’s always felt like an internet sister/twin. We both had braces and longer jaws than we would like, her and Wah have been together the same amount of time as me and my fiancé, I actually understand the Chinese they speak so she feels like family 🥰
it’s been so nice to grow up together with Weylie. I’m a proud long time silent follower. Feels like I’m a friend just watching another friend do her thing!
Weylie! I feel like your content and your energy these days has been extremely positive, raw and high quality! Dealing with viewership seems so tough, but I assure you it is probably for other reasons that don't have to do with you at all! Your content is for sure not "wack"!! 💖
"it is not a bad life, it is just a bad moment" that part
Weylie! Please don’t ever be discouraged at posting! I love your videos and you are one of the very few youtubers that I literally feel happy and excited about every time there is a new video. Watching your video is such a therapeutic and healing time for me so hope you know this!
From teaching me to put in a tampon, to this video today. Weylie, you’ve been like a big sister! We all appreciate you endlessly.
You’re the big sister I always wanted ❤️ I started watching when you were in high school, and I was around 11. You’re one of only two CZcamsrs that I still watch from then! You inspire me to think more about animals and the environment and purchase things carefully. You were a major influence on getting me to go outside (I’m more of an indoorsy person) and start going on hikes. You always seem so content and help me realize that you can find contentment in any moment, even if it’s just gardening in the backyard. Your content always makes me smile and feel peace in this crazy world. I hope you don’t get discouraged with CZcams and Instagram! Your posts always make me happy 😇
Weylie, I've followed you for more than 10 years now and I've never left a comment (always a quiet follower). Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing how you feel. You are doing great with your content and I certainly look forward to your video every time, keep up the amazing work!!
Aw please don't ever be discouraged!! It may be a lower number of views but those existing views could be your most dedicated fans. I love watching you, I follow you here and on IG, and I watched every womn launch and wore your dakota dress to my company holiday party. Been watching you since high school. I'm so proud of you!
weylie, long time follower here, and i just wanted to say that i enjoy all your videos and instagram posts! You're growing and we all change as the years pass by, but I'm enjoying the content you produce and the vibes you give. In this fast-paced world, I love the focus you give on the small, yet beautiful aspects of life
Really appreciate your honesty and courage in publishing this Q&A. I seldom post a comment but just wanna let you know I really love your vlogs. They are always so calming and peaceful! Please don't stop making videos! I really look forward to them❤
Weylie, thank you so much for this real, open and honest q&a. Watching this really made me feel less alone in my struggles. You are the older sister I always wanted 😭❤️ Sending you lots of love and hope you have a lovely holiday!
Hey Weylie, it’s really inspiring to hear you walk us through your feelings about your channel. It is so important to remind yourself of your worth despite the numbers! I’m thankful for anything you choose to share with us here on the internet
I didn’t expect this to get so emotional 🥺 I’m sad to hear you feel that way about your videos sometimes. Thank you for sharing Weylie!!! I’ve been a long time viewer and I love your videos - it’s so great to see how far you’ve come and I’m excited to see where you’re headed. Keep it up! 🥰❤️
Please don’t stop posting! You’re one of the last few CZcamsrs I actually still watch and gravitate towards! Content and algorithm on CZcams just hasn’t been the same but I’m glad I still have you and Wah to watch 💕
Weylie, you're doing great girl! I have been following you for almost a decade now and I have enjoyed growing as a person with you! You definitely feel like an older sister I've never had, and I continue to enjoy your content. Keep doing you girl and don't let the negativity get to you. 💙
I've not watched any of your videos before, Weylie, but I was drawn here because the title of this video are things I've been feeling, and I really appreciated your candid, transparent, vulnerable responses, especially to the holiday/accomplishment question.
Weylie, I have been watching your videos for probably 5+ years, I saw your video pop up on my subscription box today and it just brought me back when I was a young girl watching your videos and inspiring to be like you, here iam 19 and I binged watched all of your current videos and I couldn't be any more proud and youre still my role model to today. You're like the big sister I never had and I truly appreciate everything you upload and you're the one person I truly watch on CZcams.
Vulnerability is such a beautiful thing. Thank you for always sharing your heart. We haven't met in real life but I consider you as one of my genuine friends. I've never had a sister, but so grateful that I grew up watching you, Sophia and Jenn! All the love ♥️
Aw it hurts me that people stop following when you try to do something great. I'm glad you are striving to be a stronger woman than you were the day before. Thank you for all you are doing, Weylie!!
I love how you keep it real and authentic, Weylie! Thank you for your honesty and positive vibes.
Gurrrll, you are glowing in this video! 👏🏻 Please drop an updated GRWM or makeup routine 💕
We appreciate you Weylie 🥺 I always get excited whenever I get a notification saying that you've uploaded.
Weylie you literally helped through so much with this Q&A. Please don't ever doubt your content! Thank u for your rawness
Weylie, I've been watching you for what feels like forever. Your videos always bring comfort and joy to my life. I watched your videos when I was writing my thesis (7 years ago I think?), when I lived in a different house, etc. It really feels like you are a friend who has 'been there' through all these different stages of my life. Thank you so much and please know that we love and appreciate you!
Weylie, you're like my sister in the internet, I always put on earphones and listen to your chatty videos to accompany my bus rides to and from work. You're doing so well and help us understand a bit more of this and that, pls keep doing this to share with us. I've been your fans ever since I started watching CZcams and will support you along the way.
I love the transparency throughout the entire video. This encouraged me!
Weylie thank you for sharing with us and letting us in. You’re such a powerful women. I hope next year brings you more followers and know that the good is awaiting for you. I’m one of many who believe in you! You got this!!
Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing your advice on here, always. I’ve been going through a super rough patch in my life and I needed to hear that it’s just in my head and I have the power to make it better. Sometimes the sadness just feels so big. Thank you so much.
i've subscribed to wahlie for quite a long time and i don't always watch every video, but whenever i do, i'm reminded of why i subscribed. thank you for your calmness and just reminding me that we're all just going through it and to just take a moment when we need it !!
i love that you've always been sincere and real with us, for years and years! your videos honestly feel like home to me, so thank you for being you - a creator who i treasure! 💕
My heart 😭❤️ I love your videos when I need some feel good content. I have watched your videos since the tampon days and I appreciate you like the older sister I never had. I hope I get to hear your voice for many more years to come! I also understand you need to do what is best for you and support that 💖 Thank you!
I really related to this video and have been dealing with insecurities, jealousy, toxic family members, feeling like I’m behind in life for so long. Thank you for bringing me some clarity ❤️ I love your sit down videos so much!! Keep it up 🥺
These videos are so comforting weylie. I can understand how you feel about losing followers when you post and getting in your head about what you're doing wrong. And it can feel personal, because this channel is about you and your life. Keep being open and keep sharing who you are... Be that person on social media that keeps it a human and connecting space. Integrity is so valuable in a world where everyone is trying to mask who they are. You will be rewarded for this in the long term
You and Wah are my favorite CZcamsrs! Your separate channels definitely shows that you guys work so hard on the content and I appreciate it sooo much! Like the quality is so good. I love the aesthetic and girllll, My sisters and I are always saying how much we love you and wahs videos and Instagrams. You guys put sooo much into it!
Thanks Waylie for the heartfelt sharing and honesty! Continue to be who you are and keep radiating❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your insecurities ❤️ so many of us deal with not being good enough and feel such shame about it. As long as we acknowledge it and aim to work on it is all that matters 💕
Just wanted to make sure to mention how happy your uploads make me. Some followers may leave but you’re definitely making the ones that stay very happy! Thank you Weylie
Your videos are amazing!!! I'm so grateful you're still posting 🥺 I'm usually a silent viewer for a long time but I really love your videos, personality, and words of wisdom ❤ I can't wait to see more!! 😊
Weylie, we all absolutely adore your videos and you’ve gotta keep going! Your videos brighten up our days and fill us with so much joy! Don’t feel discouraged❤️❤️❤️
I've been a fan since the tampon days and I love your videos! Please don't feel discouraged about the views/followers. We love you Weylie 🥺
hey weylie! ive been a silent viewer for so many years, i never comment but i always support from afar. i just wanted to say thank u so much for being so open with us. ive recently also realized my insecurities and how to help/cope with them. how im making myself unhappy with my own thoughts and the root of my depression right now. ive never struggled with anything mentally, but this is definitely the lowest it’s been. im really glad u talked about all this, it makes me feel like i have an older sister i can relate to :’)
Girl you are NOT wack, you’re amazing! Love your videos, your vibe and everything you do 💕
Weylie! I have followed you forever. I love watching you and you have an amazing personality. Sometimes people I follow get lost in the feed for me, but I totally support you and will never unsubscribe!!!
I watched your videos when I was in middle school and now finishing up college you’ve become one of my favorite YouTuebers! Over the years CZcams and its content has changed drastically and I feel like ppl change and evolve as well on the things they watch. And even you and your content has evolved so just keep making the content you love girl!! The content you make and are happy and proud of will bring in the ppl that appreciate and enjoy it so keep doing you girl bc we love you for just being and doing you Weylie! ♥️
thank you for this candid video. i’ve always appreciated that about you. pls post more and never allow the amount of followers to dictate how often you do! always love seeing you on my feed & subscription list. long time loyal follower here & i plan on sticking around forever💜✨love you Weylie, can’t wait to see what’s to come, xo.
Hey waylie. I've been following you since yearrrrrrs. Sometimes i neglected CZcams due to workload, but i keep retuning to your channel whenever i need to refresh my mind. Keep charming us. You are my go-to whenever i need a friend 💕
Have been a silent follower but I truly appreciate your new videos & style! I don’t click in immediately / whenever new videos are uploaded, but I‘ll watch them whenever I’m free. Keep doing more of what makes you happy, Weylie!
Weylie you're beautiful and amazing just the way you are. I look forward to every of your uploads and watch it while having my breakfast because your video makes my day! The first video I watched was Growing Up Asian American and I think you are honest, sincere and true to yourself, and that's what I like about you! Don't be discouraged to do what you want to because you will always have us to support you!
Giiiirl, seriously....you always know what to say to keep me watching you and Wah's videos.
you guys are already fun and just so relatable, and this is why i always look forward to your posts.
Weylie, thank you so much for being so human. I'm so thankful for just having internet connection and being able to continue watching your posts. keep it up and know that you just being you is really entertaining and fun already. I love how real you and Wah are with your video's. Artsy and Relatable. Thank you for this video about how to deal with your negative thoughts. I might try getting in to journaling. hehe 😌 Keep safe always and thanks for being a true fam! 💪✨
So raw and real! Thanks for sharing so vulnerably. Love you Weywey
I just want to say I've been following you for years now and I've never felt so connected with someone from half way across the world. You are such a raw and inspiring woman and I'm so glad you've always had the courage to share and continue to make content even through all the obstacles. It's easier said than done and you really should give yourself a damn pat on the back for all your hard work over the years. Just know those who have stayed love you for who you truly are ✨ Much love from your fellow Aussie 🐨
Ahh I love your Q+A’s! Love playing them in the background as I get ready hehe
Loved this video Weylie!! I’ve been a huge fan since the tampon video days 😂 I love your reminder about accomplishments. I used to think I had to do BIG things all the time but I’m slowly learning to be proud of smaller things and everything feels better when I do that. Sending you love and support during this time! ❤️❤️
Girl I’ve been watching you for years now and I still love watching your videos, It feels like we have grown together! To me you are one of the og’s!
Hi Weylie! I just wanna say that I've always been looking forward to your videos ever since I subscribed way back in 2014. I really, genuinely love your content and I've always thought of you as the older sister I never had. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest, it's something that I really appreciate from your videos. I hope you have a wonderful day/night! 💕
Weylie, I just want to say that I have loved watching your videos over the years and I have been watching and supporting your videos for over ten years now. They bring me so much peace and things I aspire for. I feel like I’ve grown with you while watching your videos. I feel like I can give some input into why sometimes I did not click on your videos and honestly it would be because sometimes I felt like your videos were so peaceful and perfect, and in that moment in my life I could not relate bc I didn’t feel like my life was peaceful or perfect/zen like your videos so it was like when I didn’t click it was when I didn’t feel put together so I wouldn’t click on yours at the time. But I want to thank you for being transparent and vulnerable with us, I still rock with you and will continue to! Been here since the tampon video lol, lots of love and peace to you Weylie 💛 you are a light in my world. Thank you.
Weylie, I really needed this. I have been struggling a lot this week. Thank you thank you thank you. Take care and I wish you so much love and joy 🖤💖
Please keep posting!! I always look forward to it and keeps watching old videos!!! your content really makes me feel at peace with whatever that is happening around me. Sending love!!
10+ years later, I'm still subscribed to you Weylie! You got me through some dark times of my life and I'm always thankful for that.
Really love this vid. So raw and real 🤍 I think you’re doing great and the mentality talk was something I really resonated with.
I love your videos and always look forward to watching them. Don’t give up Weylie! ❤️
I used to watch your videos a lot when I was younger- maybe 7-8 years ago, but I stopped for whatever reason. But recently I started watching your videos again this year/last year during quarantine and much prefer/LOVE the content you're uploading now! I feel like you might be losing followers but you're also gaining a new following of people that are watching your videos for the content you are uploading recently, which I feel is more true to who you are now. Hoping that you don't get too discouraged by this, Im pretty sure people are recognizing this and I feel that in no time your viewership will go up a ton soon :)
NEVER whack Weylie. Will always give you my time because you gracefully give us yours and you are always so candid and straight up telling us like it is and not what you think we want to hear.
love you weylie!! i always watch you when i am feeling low. thank you for being you!!
Thank you for always being so real on harder topics, But at the same time so uplifting ❤️
Please don’t feel that way about your content! I really love your videos and I needed to watch this today, it was so uplifting.
You always have the best q&as!! All these years and you still keep it so real and share so much of your personal experience, forever our online big sister💕💕
Aww Weylie! I am always so excited when I see you post new videos! Probably like everyone else here, with you I feel like I have a bestfriend to grow older and wiser with. You are so positive and always so light and peaceful. Definition of sunshine in human form. Keep being you. I love youuu ❤
You made me tear up a couple times with this vid. 🥺Thank you for your uplifting comments, rooting for us, and bringing wisdom🥰
Thank you Weylie ! I was feeling a bit anxious and watching your video helped calm me down. Keep being you and doing the things that make you happy.
you’re my most favorite youtuber ever!! seeing you grow and accomplish things in your life and being privileged to witness those is such an amazing feeling! been here since the tampon days! cheer up, Weylie!! 🤍
You’re one of the very few youtubers that I really look forward to watch every time I clicked into my subscriptions! I hope this encourages you a little! ✨✨
I love your videos Weylie! In fact I miss you uploading more frequently! You’re amazing and wonderful and so is your content! Please remember that 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Omg Weylie I love you videos though! Wish you posted more your my one of my top content creators!!!
I’ve been watching your channel for years and you are still one of my absolute fav people to watch!! 💚
You are and have been my favorite channel for years now 💜
Hey Weylie 👋🏻 I just wanted to let you know that I love watching your videos. I started watching WahlieTV vlogs during the pandemic and it really helped me get through rough times these past two years. I loved the channel so much that I stay up to date with both you and Wah’s channels now even though WahlieTV was discontinued. Your work is truly loved and appreciated so please don’t be too harsh on yourself. ❤️
Thank you for being vulnerable and creating such relatable and authentic content 💕💕
The videos where you just talk to us are my favorites! Happy holidays Weylie ☃️
hi weylie! just wanted to thank u for making this much-needed Q&A; everything u said resonated w me in some way. i'll definitely take the advice u said about how everyone has some good years and some bad years, and that u just need to keep moving forward :) even tho you're feeling down about the views, i wanted to let u know that you're basically the only youtuber that i've watched ever since i got into watching youtube, and even tho i've changed over the years (who hasn't ahaha), i've grown w u in the process, so thank u for that! hoping that the future is bright for everyone!
I subscribed your channel since the day I saw your yt video about your house moving. just wanted to let you know that you are doing amazing, you’ll never know how you have helped others, just by sharing your own genuine thoughts and experience. so focus on your sincere followers and faith will keep you going xoxo
We love you Weylie! I always get so excited when you post and I absolutely love your Q&A’s
Your honesty was very refreshing, thank you for sharing ❤️
Weylie!! Always been my favorite youtuber since the tampon video days. Whenever you post, you’re on my priority watch list ❤️❤️
I have loved every single video for years !! & all that you have to show & tell us! You’re truly inspiring you & wah !
Thank you for this, as always you’re always gonna be a big sister to me ❤️ You’re one of those people that I look up to and I will always be proud about that.