Does his education matter in a relationship?
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- čas přidán 12. 03. 2020
- So you're thinking of getting married and the man you love does not have the same level of education as you do. Does it really matter in the grand scheme of things? Must you have the same level of education to have a successful marriage?
Thank you very much. I am highly stressing with this matter at the moment. Now I feel a big relief after watching this. Thank You again. I have no words to thank you....
Yes it matters! You will be the breadwinner! These types of relationships are doomed. If you marry and divorce you will have to pay him ailomony.
It does matter. I found out the hard way. The things that interest me are related to education, reading. I can't have those conversations with him. Secondly he is shown insecurity as i am pursuing higher education. Most of the time I play dumb on so many things so not to make him insecure( by this I don't mean uneducated person is less smarter than educated person but there are things that the educated person might now better than the other and vice versa)
You said the truth
And u know it's also funny that men r so quick to diss a woman's education but forget that educated couples have a lower divorce rate than uneducated couples. I don't get why no one ever talks about that.
@@ethioluv1dalluS my habesha sis, do u believe these problems occur a lot in our habesha community(Eritrea&Ethiopia?
@@erigirl9358 Well for me when it came to my parents, my father had a Master's degree and encouraged my mom to go to school too.
This is so true
Ma’am I just want to say this video of yours is definitely the key point to any relationship. A lot of people overlook this point and therefore, end up in a relationship that might not even suit them from the very beginning. This video/explanation of yours needs to be seen/heard from more people. Thank you very much for this!
It's not a matter of respect. The issue is whether different levels of education bring about different ways of reasoning, different values and beliefs. Do these differences cause conflict in the relationship? I think the differences could emerge if one partner has high school, the other has community college, or one has community college and the other has university.
Thanks great video. Straight to the point!
Thank you. I am doc and my love has no college education. I am proud of him and don't see him at a lower level however I have noticed he is uncomfortable when people call me doc or gets uncomfortable in general. Is there any way I can solve this issue?
Very good response ma coz I'm also facing such situations and listening to your video now has given me more clarity.
Love it and Lots of love and light to you ❤️✨
stay Blessed
Well put, perfect
Great ma'am.... Perfect answer ...👍
Thank you so much it's a huge help to me
He pushes me to study more, he loves my educational achievement. But the thing is time matters. In the long run will it remain this way ??
Thank you so much
You forget to know that certain things change with time due to different influence on the relationship in the long run. I don't think it is advisable to marry a man less educated than you are especially if he doesn't have Soo much money already. Responsibilities in marriage is what exposes every bad things
Woooow. Thanks
It could affect communication.
Yes, it does. Education matters in all relationships. Is he interesting, do you respect him? Is he growing?
People like whoever they want to like
I agree with you FlowersForMe . His education and money has to match mine.
BW stop dating down. Date hypergamously! Divest from the Nonsense! If you marry him you will be paying alimony not him . WAke up!
But is a degree education? I know a lot of people that don't have degrees, but command knowledge in PhD level concepts such that they humble even those who pride themselves with said degrees.
@Sayin wat I could agree with that.
Not true, it is about reasoning and being able to grasp concepts. Certain things take proper planning and learning.