Babysitter Laughs After Killing Baby & Taking Lifeless Body to McDonald's
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- čas přidán 21. 06. 2023
- In today's educational true crime documentary, we're covering the case of Marissa Tietsort and analyzing it from a legal and psychological perspective.
Note for CZcams's review team, here is the context of the video: this is an educational documentary and authoritative news piece based on actual police documents and case files. Our team of psychology professionals analyze the interrogation footage from an educational perspective with a focus on psychology, red flags, and prevention. Our goal is to educate the public, inform our audience, and raise awareness.
Analysis team qualifications:
- Licensed Clinical Psychologist
- Licensed Professional Counselor
- Licensed Attorney - Zábava
Never let someone who's had 4 of their own children taken away and has a record of child abuse babysit your children
RIGHT!?! I was trying to figure out why Benson’s mom left her son with this psychopath!
She probably didn't know beforehand that's too red of a flag for her to have known and still accept.
She had a child still... this means that was cleared and checked to baby sit by professionals . Other kids whould have been taken for drugs or no money-home, thats the normal assumption a person whould make , not that she is abuser that the goverment knows and let her still do it to the next with no care
@@oumarathie8881 i'd know by that house. There's no way id leave a baby in that hovel.
This was mistake number one that I’m trying to figure out why the parents even allowed them to baby sit to begin with. (But maybe they didn’t know) This whole situation could’ve been avoided. But hey, what do I know
The more she *tries* to cry, the more she smiles
She's trying to squinch up her cheeks to force some tears out.
She is scary as hell. No feelings at all.. who even lets her babysit your child?!
My sister is like that 😕
😂😂😂 To your comment. Not the situation. It's so insane but I'm invested to the end.
dupers delight *
She had 4 Children taken away?? And then a Baby suffers a Fractured Skull?? I wouldn't trust her to watch stuffed animal!!
A fake cactus 🌵
😂😂😂😂 Exactly !
Well spoken
That’s exactly what I was thinking.
I don’t understand how anyone would trust their kids to someone who’s had 4 of their own children taken by services
I wouldn t trust her to walk free
How are they only going to give her 37 years in prison for killing a baby when she should be in prison for the rest of her life
Fr but it’s poor soul was not destined to even live a life
What a freaking monster …throwing the baby like that…..rest in heaven baby benson….
she won't survive prison, inmates don't like those who have charges to do with children
@@zachsilby4569sadly, they often put animals like this in protective custody.
be happy because in france it would have been 15years and you can leave before for good behavior
this is 100% Marissa's fault. But there's a lesson to be learnt here: never EVER let your kids be looked after by parents who have lost custody of their own children!!!
People lie.
And people always want to believe their friends/family.
I know someone personally who has custody of their children because the mother put them in danger - yet her friends and family all believe she is actually innocent. Even though the police and courts and social workers and doctors all say otherwise.
I'm glad you specify that, some other people on here are being horrible saying the mom is equally at fault. That's just not true.
That poor child didn’t stand a chance. Total negligence. I wouldn’t associate with someone like this much less trust them with my kid.
My general rule of thumb to allow someone to watch my kid is 1) do they have kids older then mine? 2) has anything bad happened to their children? Based on the answers is how I decide
I mean, you'd think
"don't let your kids be taken care of by people who wouldn't even take care of their own"
Would be right up there with the top five things parents should probably just know
I find it baffling that a couple that got their kids taken away and have 2 cases of potential child abuse against them were even allowed to babysit.
Well it’s not so much that people are allowed is it? Isn’t it just that people do things that aren’t officially supervised.
I'm sure they weren't obligated to tell the mother of the now deceased baby.
@@Grottgreta to be fair, should you be leaving your child with anyone you don't know well enough to know this kind of information about? Your infant at that? It is no one's fault but the perpetrators, but I'm sure this mother has learned an agonizing lesson.
Y’all are victim blaming her kids dead bro.
@@Outnumberedbykidsandcats exactly. It's so outrageous and unfortunate that people that shouldn't be watching children are often times babysitters or running daycares out of their homes. I've seen a few cases where the woman was babysitting in her home, then she killed a child.
It's too bad they are not self-aware and realize that they have frailties and childcare might not be the best option for employment.
"how do you think we found you"
I love that female cop, very calm but also direct
And that beast is having another child. Poor baby born in the system
1000% no bull shit
@@judymelchert3966 at least Adam will have custody, he doesn't seem to be a monster like her, he even said he told her he didn't want her to babysit when he wasn't around probably because he knew she was capable of child assault.
There should be a registry for child abusers like the Segs offenders registry. How do you leave your baby with someone who's had 4 of theirs taken away after a skull fracture incident? I'm sure Benson's mother wasn't aware of any of that.
That would be awesome but we have something in my state called CCAP (I'm sure other states have it just don't know what that's called) where you can search nearly any open or closed court cases. My kids are older but I'd definitely be checking that before getting another babysitter.
@23_Beans
There is one of qualified care takers. Just look up "childcare" and it is actually one of the first results. The government does inspections for daycares and lists what they find wrong and score them. But there is zero inspections required for in home daycares.
I refused to take my son to a in home daycare for that reason. Especially since the ones that volunteered to be inspected that were in the government ranking website had horrible scores. One had 12 kids watched by a single adult!
@angelagregory5306 some states don't have transparency for arrests or cases. Crazy to me, I get you don't want to sway a jury, but if somebody is bad news, we should be able to read the bad news.
***SEX*** it’s not a bad word. Get over yourself and say it.
I agree, but you can, and should do a background check on anybody who is going to be watching your children
The way she smiles and is borderline laughing while pretending to cry is downright disturbing
This woman is crazy
she looks like she's ready to start laughing the whole time. Please tell me she does not have a sucker mark on her neck
@@vicster52They mention the hickey at the beginning of the video, the mother brings up mentioning it, at the laundromat.
Absolutely disgusting!
right, this is so messed up and shows that she is cruel 💔
Her face when they told her the baby was dead is honestly frightening. Her attempt to pretend to cry through that maniacal grin was one of the creepiest things I've ever seen.
Yeah I was like hell nahhh!
right
Evil
Istg this was exactly what I thought she looks creepy and happy while attempting to cry
She began to laugh!
Finding your baby dead is the worst thing imaginable 😭 hearing her cry when she found him and tried to give him cpr ripped my heart out
Yeah, not the best mother, but the panic and loss is 😢
that captain graham was amazing at getting her to just tell him information. like his voice was so soft and comforting, wow honestly
Don't forget to invite us to the wedding!
That poor woman had to try to do CPR on her already cold child. What an unimaginable level of pain
Yeah it’s hard enough doing cpr anyway but when you know it’s never going to work, it must be so much harder.
Unimaginable.
I touched a dead body once, and it will haunt you. I can't imagine it being a child
i’ve always had a strange feeling when operators tell u to do that i mean i get it kinda but when does that actually help when a person is obviously cold and lifeless.. just unnecessary trauma super heartbreaking
Not only that, it was her own child as well. Imagine having to give CPR to your own cold baby..
There should be a registry for child abuse and neglect and anyone on the registry should absolutely not be babysitting or watching any children. Unbelievable. This is sad and it was preventable.
There is, it’s called a background check. The parents who allowed someone to watch their kids with child abuse convictions who’d lost custody of her own kids have failed as parents. It costs less than $50 on many websites to look up records on ppl. If you can’t afford to run that check, you can’t afford to have kids. Many places you can contact the county clerk’s office for access to public records for free or just the cost of printing the paper.
mrs.h2725 "if you cant afford a background check you cant a afford a kid" wow your so helpful lmfaoo nice insight
That is a great idea. Like the sex offender registry.
I wish
That's a great idea
The 911 operator didn’t even ask how old the baby was, which was a 2m old infant. It’s not like CPR on an adult, tween or teenager. Infant’s (and toddler’s) ribs are extremely soft & their lungs are extremely FRAGILE! Chest compressions are quick but shallow using only TWO (2) fingers (not palm of🤚🏼) pressing approx.2” down while counting 1,2,3,4 - 1,2,3,4 at normal speed and a few quick but shallow breaths like every 30sec. These breaths are over both the mouth AND the nose (not pinching nose like an adult). Breathes should be very shallow so there’s not too much air being forced into their tiny lungs. Think of a regular blow up balloon for a kids party. Then think of those really small H2o balloons. They’re only meant to take a small capacity of H2o b4 it BURTS! A small child, ESPECIALLY an infant’s, lungs are like the H2o balloon. Very small & only able to take a small capacity of air. The operator told her to hold his nose and didn’t tell her to do the small shallow breaths or the 2 finger compressions. The reason this is so important is bc full deep adult breaths delivered fully into a baby/infant can/will blow out their lungs. Their tiny fragile lungs can’t handle that large amount of oxygen from a full adult breath. Also, you can do this CPR on infants while laying them across one of ur arms (their head in ur elbow crook & butt in ur hand. This position makes it easier to deliver these life saving moves.
* I worked for paramedics for over a decade which is where I learned SO MUCH medical knowledge that I never would have had the opportunity otherwise. I’m also trained and certified in CPR, in which they teach this technique as well. So Please research & take a class!!! You nvr know when you’d be in a position to help your own or someone’s else’s child. 🩷🌹🙏🏼
That the dispatcher was telling them an incorrect way of doing CPR really up set me.
HOOOOLY BASED comment dude. 😅😅😅😅
Andddd this is why I did baby first aid before giving birth and plan on getting refreshers every couple of years.
These cops are SO patient
I literally went uh no?!! two fingers?!? Not a whole hand to chest compression.
The way she cries reminds me of a young teenager being caught smoking and crying, saying "idk how it got therereeeee" with the way her inflection and tone shifts up. Really sickening, given the context, especially how she just flips it off and on. Hearing her crocodile tears right after the actual mother's pain, is particularly rancid.
The fact that she could even eat while carrying around a deceased baby is sickening to me. Rest in heaven Benson.😔
yep, maybe had some sex at the hotel too. ppl are sickening
For some reason I feel like he might have been alive at McDonalds they're dumb but, I'm not sure they're that dumb. In the hotel room when they let them near each other and he's asking if I grabbed him or you there was some very suspicious looks and her immediate response that she grabbed him seems like a cover. They also had the time from fleeing the apartment to getting to the hotel and being at the hotel to try and solidify their story, which they still messed up a lot but, I certainly believe they are dumb enough to not be able to come up with coherent cover stories.
I have no doubt in my mind he knows more than he's saying at a minimum and he may have had direct involvement in the murder.
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The who thing is tragic, but that part is sitting with me. You have to be some kind of sicko to carry a dead baby around with you. WTH
Absolutely... So sickening and awful. What a disgusting human being. At 13:18 makes my stomach turn. She is heinous
I once sent my kids to a home day care that was run by a woman with excellent references. She was also president of the local home day care group that also recommended her. I walked into the place unexpectedly one day and saw her scream at and slap a child. I took my kids out immediately and got the help of our pediatrician to shut her down. This was in 1992.
Well that’s what happens when you through your kid in daycare with strangers
Damm I'm so glad u were there to rescue ur kids😢😢!!! Omg fuckin people!!!!!
Did you tell the childs parent
Yelling at a child is normal, kids can be monsters at times. And spanking is ok too, but not abuse or hitting them on the head or face. Spanking their butt is necessary.
@@diplorablehomemaker Some people have no other option. Also it is a DAYCARE. The majority of daycares aren't like this, it is a statistical anomaly. How are they supposed to know?
Weird how that cop made "Let me get away from this insufferable psycho" sound like "let me get you a tissue."
Her not being able to stop smiling when she found out the baby died because of her is the most terrifying thing I've ever seen in my life
Every time she tries to cry, she just smiles. It's horrifying.
Right?!? It’s so unsettling…
It's like a macabre grimace like something out of Insideous
Junkie grin. Some junkies lose so much self esteem from drug abuse they take their anger out on anything they consider weaker. Males on females, females on the elderly babies etc. Life's ugly for so many I'm afraid and she is a living reflection of it. The child was the beauty.
@@blairrobert3438 well put.
@@lolalala828 it's legit scary, I'm down in the comments to not look at it as much
Giving the deceased baby back to the mother is about the most cold-blooded thing I’ve ever heard! She cries the crocodile tears but she is a psychopath that needs to never care for another child again. RIP Benson. You didn’t deserve that, sweet angel.
like shes going to say "its just a prank bro"
She doesn't deserve to see light again after all the harm she has done to children
How did the mother not check her baby sooner or did the lady drop the baby off at laundry mat.
Your comment makes no sense she should never be able to care for a child again. Don’t you mean she should be in jail forever then how could she ever care for another child.
Benson’s mother doesn’t get a pass. The absolutely legendary intelligence she must have possessed to leave your baby in the care of a woman that has had all of her children seized by CPS. I can’t…
I wonder if it's a good idea to let a drug addict with multiple children taken by CPS and charges for abuse watch the most vulnerable person that exists?
Bingo
people lie and people tend to believe their friends and family
This lady looks like a demon when she tries to cry. Scary
She IS A demon
Why on Earth would anyone trust someone, who cant even legally see their own kids, with the task of babysitting?
Some people don't have a choice. Child care in the US is expensive, that means people even willing to watch them is a hope.
@@wodentoad1That's not a good excuse. Asking a responsible teen would be a better choice than this.
@@wodentoad1 The baby was far too young to be looked after by a babysitter.
Its possible they may not know
@wodentoad1 That's one lame excuse. Your saying that the only choice was to leave a baby with these monsters or nothing! I'll choose nothing and loose my job and find another.
She's laughing and smiling while being accused of killing a child. Wow, just wow. This lady is insane.
“I didn’t do it 😀”
She was basically fake laughing crying
My deepest condolences to heather,and her family!
it made me so uncomfortable to see it, you can see her trying not to smile the whole time, its so nerve wracking? to see, I feel for heather and her family, it was so heartbreaking to see the cctv at the start
i don't think she was laughing i know that she was crying damm this was a joke sorry For the misleading
Her story to hide the crime just shocked me. "I found the baby dead, don't contact authorities or the mother. Instead, I will go about things as normal and hand the mom her deceased child." What the actual heck? That is so messed up. That series of events shows how cold and heartless of a monster she truly is.
She was wanting the MOTHER to be the 1 who got in trouble for it.. which the mother should have never left her 2 MONTH OLD with this woman!! And she barely showed any emotion when HER BABY was discovered dead. Her sister was the only 1 emotional
the first 3 minutes and 10 seconds of this video is just completely heartbreaking with that cctv footage. it’s so painful watching and not being able to do anything.
The moment Adam said "she was abused as a kid, so she would never abuse kids" I felt a pit in my stomach. Unfortunately, abuse is often cyclical.
you so right man
Not every abused person becomes an abuser , but lots of abusers lies about being abused 😉
@@Xlbullymom its proven to be cyclical, that doesn't mean a lot of people don't break the cycle 🤷♂
I broke the cycle and fortunately many do
@@troywalt4834 👑
It's genuinely horrific how she "cries" and immediately gets distracted with a question, suddenly calm and collected and focused. Terrible liar and an absolute monster of a human being.
and most of the time when shes "crying" she is flat out smiling
Dude I noticed that when the cop said he was going to get her a tissue, she immediately stopped crying and said “okay”…🤮
She literally snaps right out of it too
I think she's very low IQ.
her cry is like a fake and forced emotionless cry with a creepy smile that she can't hold back.
Is it normal to pick child from babysitter and not check it? Like, here is your kid, don't touch him?
Right? Why wasn’t the mother looked at? The interview with the mother was off to me too… and there was a ton of the cop making of stories and spoon feeding it to this woman. Maybe shes not perfect but not checking on your baby for that long after not seeing all day is strange to me.. it at least should have been investigated as well.
Maybe she was told or thought that he was sleeping
I assume she was told the baby was sleeping and didn’t want to wake him unfortunately
If they’re asleep. Remember he was only 2 months old. All they do is sleep.
We also don't know what Benson's sleep habits were like. My niece was the WORST sleeper. She slept at the maximum for 2 hours at a time. I know that every time she did fall asleep it was "everyone shut up and don't move, she's actually asleep".
THIS IS WHY CPS CASES SHOULD BE PUBLIC RECORD! The mother would have never let that woman babysit her child if she knew the babysitter had 4 of her kids taken away. You don’t have to release the kids name but I should be able to google the woman’s name and see that she’s had 4 children removed from her custody.
they are public record and it's not hard to look up a person's criminal history. the mother was just shockingly negligent.
The mother and Marissa were friends. So she knew full well the kids got taken like that.
I think this is actually the most sinister police interview I've ever seen. The fact that anyone can chuckle about not doing CPR on a baby that died in her care is so horrifying. The fake crying is unbearable to watch.
You should watch the house of horrors with the mom who kept two of her dead kids in a freezer in the living room for over a year
@@michaelstrickland3235WHAT ??? 😵💫
@@michaelstrickland3235 that one was sad :( and the pain she inflicted on her 2 kids then stuffing them in the freezer for a year is unimaginable but the fact that she said she would do it all over again in a heart beat made my jaw hit the floor :(
@@michaelstrickland3235yeah, that one is awful. that "mother" was a complete monster.
@@michaelstrickland3235 heard of it! Although never heard interrogation from it
The fact that Marissa keeps smiling and laughing through this whole thing is absolutely chilling.
It makes me think it's Munchusens by Proxy which is a mental disturbance where a mother deliberately causes illness or injury to a child for the attention payoff of medical or law enforcements intense investigation and attention paid to unraveling the sequence. This is done repeadedly as is the case with Marissa.
@@doraexplorer8991Münchhausen by proxy.
I'm a german and i hate it to read wrong german words.
@@doraexplorer8991no this is physical abuse. Not medical abuse which is what your describing
She is totally selfish and doesn't care, just a disgusting person.
She is sick and mentally tormented
When told by the officer that the mom deserves to know what happened to her baby and Marissa responds with, "I know," that made me shiver.
Adam sounded legit. If he cleans, then thats left with Marissa.
Watching her go from pretending to sob, to checking if people are buying it, to nuetral expression, over and over again is pretty wild.
I see what you mean and it’s terrifying.
She’s like smiling and crying, it’s disturbing
@@victoriaredeker4366she’s tweaking
She’s literally laughing wtf
that's what i was thinking
Her face when she was trying to look like she was crying was beyond terrifying
Yes! I just commented the same thing. I just hated that face!!!
A monster wearing a person is what I thought of immediately; she couldn't hide that disturbing af smile
Agreed!
Demonic, in fact
daaaamn that was creepy
23:11 When you're talking to CPS and it gets so heated you have to take your shirt off.
The reality is. 9 outta 10 times cps is just exerting their authority over poor people who cant afford a lawyer, not saving a child like their righteous narratives they paint wants you to believe.
@@joncallahan8622 soooo how many times has CPS been called on you? next your gonna say divorce court screw over men LOL classic divorced dad arc
So you pick up your newborn from a sitter and dont check to see if its alive
Kiss it, poke its nose, tickle its hand, something to make it move....
Who tf just picks up their NEWBORN & never even looks at it to see if its breathing
Thats a lil weird
She’s had four of her own children taken by social services yet she is babysitting other people’s kids. WTF.
This. Plus other incidents. And isn’t even cpr certified.
Exactly what i thought... but hey, there's stupid people everywhere man, we should know that already and try hard not to forget it!
AND got pregnant again... Twice. AND she babysits children that she clearly don't tolerate. No idea how these people work.
Oh and don’t forget the drug problem. JFC
And currently pregnant
The fact that’s she’s smiling while talking to the officer and trying to horribly fake cry just pains me. She knew she killed that kid
FR. If you cut the audio, it looks like she’s having a good time.
That’s the thing that weirded me out the most. She’s trying to cry but has a giant grin on her face
Ikr? Her acting is so bad! She could’ve at least tried not to smile.
It makes me sick watching here smile the whole time. WTF is wrong with her....
@@Mysterious-Night easier said than done when you’re sadistic!
This whole video made my stomach turn. That precious baby, my heart hurts for him. And for the other children that were in her care.
And this is why NO ONE in my 4 children has ever been babysat before they can talk.
The question that kept pounding in my head was how could a mom leave her child with someone who was deemed unfit to take care of their own kids!
My question exactly that's all I kept thinking smh
Could be affordability and/or she never told her and previous interactions with the kids went fine.
That's why you background check.
This whole case sounds crazy. U can clearly see there is something wrong with her. How did the mother put the child in the car and buckle Benson in without seeing he was a different color and he was cold. He was a Caucasian child so he had to be purple. How did the mom not see that before getting all the way to the laundrymat. If I was the detective I would've taken another look at the parents also.
@@leesanurse6474You read my mind. Anytime I picked up my son, I would pick him up and give him cheek kisses and baby talk to him as I assume every parent does. There is something fishy about this.
When I was a kid my babysitter had a child pass away during a nap due to SIDS. Not only did she immediately call 911 and the parents, but she was emotionally affected by it for the rest of her life. Marissa's ability to be so casual and not have any emotional reaction to the situation is deeply disturbing
Was your babysitter a smoker? They now think that many SIDS cases are caused by cigarette smoke. Many are also caused by putting a baby on its stomach.
@@jamesbowman6925 There are also many cases with neither of those factors at play and it still happens. It's such a horrifying mystery.
I started babysitting a friend’s cousin’s baby at six weeks old and her previous baby had died from SIDS. I was so nervous and paranoid. Nothing ever happened thank goodness. I watched her until she was over a year old. I cannot imagine what parents go through losing a child like that. 😢
Wow! I’m so sorry for your babysitter. How unbelievably traumatic. (I realize The baby in your story passing is obviously horrendous for the parents.) I’m acknowledging the fact that your babysitter went through something awful as well. I hope she was able to accept it wasn’t her fault. This is a story that WIlL stay with me.
Whaf os SIDS
I can’t stop crying and don’t know why I even watched this whole thing having been diagnosed with post natal depression myself I actually can’t stop sobbing watching this. A monster is an understatement
Hope you’re doing ok ❤ It gets better and you’re doing your best.
🥺❤️
It’s ok love. I’m crying too. ❤️
How tf does this lady murder an infant and not get life without parrol?!?!
Her behavior alone speaks life-in-bars material. An absolutes selfish monster
Because she has a v
She has no remorse. She willingly went to McDonald’s with a dead baby, never called 911, never called the parents, handed the mom a dead baby in a car seat, immediately went to a hotel, unplugged the camera, and laughed throughout the entire investigation.
this is literal sociopath behavior. some people aren’t meant to be parents or anything.
She’s an absolute MONSTER!!!!!
So sick and not to be funny but I'm checking my child b4 I leave a daycare or SB house who watching my child that's just law
These are the type of people having a bunch of kids
And all that after she smacked the infant's head multiple times on or with something hard and killed him.
The shock on her face realizing she’s likely never getting out of prison is so weird to me. What an absolute pine cone
'What an absolute pine cone'. I'm stealing that...
@@sueredwood9369 I also stole it. Steal away
I've never heard anyone call someone a pine cone! I love it! 😂
@@flackojamess she looks like pinhead Larry 😂
Lmao absolute pine cone is amazing
I'm learning psychology observations and facts more and more because of the reasoning you're providing. THANK YOUUU!! ❤
behavior panel is another good one for learning how to spot things people don't even realise they're doing. I've learnt so much from them that i come back here and rewatch vids and get even more out of it than my first go
some of them are just bullshit analysis but some are good! don't just believe everything you see here
The way she smiled as she pretended to cry (no tears). This has turned my stomach. RIP sweet baby boy.
Every time she smiled I got chills it almost looked like she couldn’t hide how she truly feels.
Word. If ever there was a face that screamed _Don't trust me with your baby!_ it'd be Marissa's.
she was hsppy
Dupers delight! So sick
Her her smile was so evil I got the feeling that she threw Benson until she killed them, there was no trying to save him, she was frustrated and took it out on that little baby, and she threw him until he died. There was no trying to help him the ladies cold calculated and manipulative that's why she took them to McDonald's. And made believe everything was okay. She's right where she belongs.
I felt the same way, like she couldnt hold back her laughter
The way we deal with child abusers is so horribly ineffective, and has led to lives being lost.
I see no reason why there shouldn't be a registry for child-abusers, like there are for sex-offenders. They should have to place a sign on their front lawn, and have to notify their neighbors.
Agreed
Yup
I pulled my daughter from school due to her having issues with another student. It was a long process of meeting with teachers and liaison officers and yada yada. Finally I had enough, didn't trust the school caring for my kid so I pulled her. Started collecting her homework and schoolwork and turning it in each week and began looking for another school. Due to no school choice it wasn't easy. Long story short we found a great school and got her enrolled and I contacted the dept of education. Less than a week later they sent child protective services to our house. Come to find out the other student's aunt was superintendent. They filed a complaint out of spite. I had to prove we had food and a bed and they took my daughter and asked her all types of inappropriate questions about me and her "relationship". She was 9. I was mortified. I got a lawyer and we got everything resolved but for a few weeks I was scared they could take her and I couldn't stop them. Meanwhile people like these scumbags have multiple kids and get chance after chance after chance.... It's literally disgusting
Totally agree
@@Iburn247 That superintendent is a spineless little worm, undeserving of her position.
"I don't know"
*Slap* "how about now?"
Memo to new parents: 1. If the babysitter doesn't know CPR. ❌️
2. If the babysitter loses her own children to CPS. ❌️❌️
3. If the babysitter has been charged for an injury to another child in their care. ❌️❌️❌️
I'm sorry to the mom who lost their baby but your job is to protect your child and your lack of any due diligence is disgusting.
That woman creeps me out SO bad! She is what nightmares are made of! The wide vacant eyes, pretending to be crying but actually smiling and never blinking, all while being questioned about a baby’s death..!? She’s scarier than ANY horror villain EVER! I believe she is enjoying the whole thing.
Edit: I cannot believe she only got 37 years! That’s far from justice if you ask me. She’s vile!🤢
She is creepy! I would never leave my child with her. Don’t these parents see this. Who would leave a baby with her?
Yeah that smiling crying was disturbing
I can't believe she got pregnant.
you are beyond help
these facts astound me as to HOW those sisters knowing this woman, could EVER have thought a child was safe in her presence. even her face shows the signs of neurological damage from her drug abuse. we see it all the time. sometimes the drug test is just to confirm what we already know from examining a person. shes completely burnt out her brain for life
She looks crazy AF! I wouldn’t leave a dog with her, let alone my child. RIP Benson. You deserved better.
I was hoping that social services would not just take the baby. I was also hoping that they would take that poor kitty with them.
How did this freak get this far without killing a baby? We know she's done child abuse before, but what crimes did she get away with? She is truly a retarded psychopath. She has no remorse. She does not care that she killed baby Benson and she HANDED HIS CORPSE OVER TO HIS MOTHER LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED! It's bizarre.
Agreed. Rest in peace, Benson❤
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If everyone in the chat can see how crazy she looks and acts, why in the world couldn't the mother and aunt see it too??😢🥶
Honestly everytime I see this video and watch it, that girl does NOT scare me but she DOES annoy me everytime she smiles.
We need a database so that no mother gives their child to someone that has been arrested for child abuse.
I know this would never be legal, but not allowing somebody to have kids that has been convicted of child abuse probably is a good idea
@Mr_NB628
Something like that DOES exist. If you type "childcare" in any search engine, one of the first results is a government website for legitimate inspected, and ranked childcare businesses. Preschool, daycare, everything a parent needs verified by a government inspector.
Home day cares are NOT regulated. If parents only used ones seen by an inspector, their babies are safe
I think this woman is a psychopath. She is so detached from every bit of it. And the way she goes from fake crying to that crazy grimace, it's actually chilling
Yep, she is a monster and the women convicts are going to wipe that bizarre smile off of her stupid face. She lied every time she said something to the detectives. She probably beat that poor baby merciless. We know she's done it before. This time it ended up with baby Benson's death. Life without parole. I'd advocate the death penalty, but this country doesn't know how to implement it. She's better off in general population. Let them take care of her evil azz.
It's like she is not human!!!! No REAL emotions or energy a care about ANYTHING or ANYONE other than SELF!!!!! very DEMONIC!!!!!
My Braun can't comprehend the disconnect from emotions this woman has. Definitely a psychopath
Or HER BF DID IT
@@bambinaforever1402YES I THOUGHT OF THAT TOO
Did anyone else get extremely angry at how long she repeatedly denied hurting that child. I damn near broke my phone. Give them a raise because the level of patience is amazing.
Yes! And she didn’t even try to do cpr and had the audacity to smile.
I understand exactly, I would not have been able to sit in the same room as her hearing this nonsense
@@ironblazephoenix6214 for hours OMG! 🤦🏾♀️
That baby deserved so much better.. it's sad that there is actually morbid people like this still roaming around.
@@K33GANOFC much worse than this!
Her writing "I'm not a monster or whatever" says it all...
What kind of parent leaves their child with a drug addict who’s had almost all her children taken away by child services? Negligence on account of all the people involved in this sad story. At least poor baby doesn’t have to suffer a lifetime of living with absolute idiots who should never have had children
The mother and sister said they knew her for years and her behavior never came into question?! You could spend 5 minutes with her and see there is something not quite right with her. Rest in Heaven, Benson.
What's crazy, at the beginning they said they did notice something was off about her. Even demanded, "I KNOW Marissa". Not once from picking the baby up, buckling him in, driving him around without a peep, un buckle him, carry him in, placing him on the table nearly face heighth, did they not notice the baby having multiple head injuries, blue lips, not moving, cold..........
@@laurac5591 its almost like you don't want to wake up a baby at 9 of fucking clock because you like sleep. Do you know what a baby even is? Because you just said something truly ignorant. Oh she didn't check on her kid at 9 oclock becasue she was driving to the laundromat. Oh ill just check the baby while driving, youre a goddamned genius.
@@laurac5591 yep exactly. I don't know how a mom would not check the baby first after not seeing him for a while... Such a tragic & unnecessary loss of life.
@@DerDrecksack87I can totally agree. Like when I’m at work or school. My kids are with my mom not saying she would let anything happen. I am very observant and questionable. If any marks are in their face or legs or if they say somewhere is hurting. I want an explanation from them and of course anyone who was there at the time.
@@laurac5591You're absolutely right. This is very creepy.. The mother and sister must have known the baby was dead, how could they not know...?
I can feel the anger in that female officer's voice. Her professionalism is commendable. I couldn't do it. Her fake grief is infuriating.
She has an important job to do. All the positions, timelines, questions. She caught them and gave a great case to prosecutors and helped match up all the medical findings for the coroner. very good work.
yup! she was giving off mama bear energy for sure lol.
watching these cases as a psych student aiming to be a clinical psychologist just makes me feel sad and disgusted but at the same time, there's just more stuff to understand about these suspects and their motives and behaviors that you can't really control
I really have to hand it to any officer that deals with these heartless monsters, to interrogate them without showing their own emotions is just an unbelievable strength! God bless every officer of this country! 💕
The fact she’s laughing when she admits she didn’t try doing cpr on the baby is absolutely sick. And once she admits the truth she isn’t fake crying anymore or showing any emotion she’s so sick.
Disgusting. At that point I paused the video and looked for someone mentioning it. What an absolute monster. If hell exists, it's made for people like her
I couldn’t have said it any better
Yup. Cares more about smoking a fucking cigarette.
there's an inexcusable number of people who don't know cpr in this whole mess. gotta learn that as soon as you can manage a chest compression.
@@stevenunyabidness CPR on babies totally different as well. more people need to learn the baby specific CPR.
Looking at Marissa is like looking into the Devil.
She is FULLY smiling, while pretending to be surprised that she killed a baby.
is she smiling, tho? or is that just the way her face is? serious question. kinda sarcastic, tho
She looks evil
@@derekhammond8610I really think it's her face she's not smiling and yes she's still monster
A bad actress 😅
Yeah she’s a total freak.
Why on earth would you give your baby into her care when her own children where picked up by child protective services???
Literally, not to mom shame or whatever but a lot of the comments are defending the mom, saying she probably was lied to or she simply didn’t know. But like the mom has known Marissa for YEARS. There’s no way this wasn’t just blatant negligence on her part.
the crocodile tears are genuinely giving me secondhand embarrassment. she's hardly even trying
It must be so difficult to be an investigator in the interrogation room and not absolutely strangle the monster after seeing autopsy images of the victim.
Not the same when it’s not personal. I worked those jobs. Must fucked up thing I ever saw was a baby. Turn up into about 9 pieces.
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They want to prosecute these people, it would be thrown out of court if the police are shown to be mistreating suspects.
I said it must be difficult not to, not that they should strangle people, deservedly. I'm fully aware they're not supposed to strangle people in the interrogation room.🤦♀️
Was it an abortion?
WHO in their right mind hands over their child to a person that has their own children taken away from child protection service?!?!? The mind boggles!
Marissa seems HIGHLY manipulative, even Adam seems like he was manipulated by her, its likely since the mother knew her and also likely didnt see this side of her she was told someone fucked her (marissa) over
Right my first thought exactly.
Probaby the "mom" who wants to get rid of her child. It was said that she was often frustrated couse of the baby. Some lunatics should never have babies period, when some warm caring people can't have kids on their own...
How can one not immediately check their own baby after getting them from the babysitter.
people that are good at manipulating others into thinking it’s not their fault and someone else’s or something of the sort. it sounds stupid but it happens all the time
You drag an infant corpse into a McDonald’s! Jeezuz, wtf is wrong with everyone these days!
I’m a little baffled at how they didn’t notice the baby dead until the laundry mat. As a mom I always check my child’s breathing, getting my baby back, checking on his breathing would have been the first thing I do, thought this was something all parents do. What a horrible feeling for this mother 💔
That male detective is really good. He replicates empathy and understanding in a way that makes the perpetrator open up little by little
Yeah he 100% got her past her BS story. He was amazing
He's also the one who gives her the opening to it being an accident ... "Did you leave him for too long?" Sounds so innocuous. Smart.
@@jessifica That's a tactic to get her to admit she killed the kid. There's no accidental murder when you throw a baby. It was part of the "you're not a monster" approach
Oh yeah, fully aware@@jblps
@@jessifica haha sorry for some reason I misread your comment as sarcasm
Hearing the mother screaming in the beginning crushed me, and then to watch this woman laughing there about a dead baby, pretending she never knew it was dead, then admitting at the end she knew the whole time...Horrendous. Disgusting. Words cannot describe.
After the screaming, the poor woman then had to give her cold dead baby CPR :( Absolute nightmare
It's super sad that anyone could intentionally hurt a infant, Evan more so then to do it in cold blood and give the lifeless corpse to the mother. It turns my stomach. She deserved life in prison
@@jamiestewart48 it goes to show that even the mother was completely devastated, she tried her best to help her baby even though it was already too late
@@notpeachykeen6823 this is horrifying. my sponsor in AA just told me "God doesn't give us anymore than we can handle" then i come across this nightmare. there aren't words.
@@jamiestewart48just hurt me so much because she knew that that baby was dead and she gave the mother the dead baby 👶
The doctor interrogating her is so good at it. That's a flawless interview
Doctor?
@@Ancipital_ Yep there is a
forensic interviewing at a moment
How did Heather not realize her baby was dead when picking him up? Everything about this story is terrifying.
Her smiling during the questioning, smiling during the demonstration, smiling in her mugshot... like what is so smiley about a baby dying in your care?!
Demons smile like that.
Ong it’s grilled into my fucking mind I’ll never forget that like what kind of monster can have that mentality and I’m a complete bitch to most ppl but that’s a whole different level
I WOULD HAVE BEEN INCONSOLABLE! I've seen people laugh at very raw moments because they are nervous or don't know how to properly handle the expected emotion at the time, but this is clearly a case of I'm fucked, how do keep my bs from slipping out?
Drugs
The mugshot was cursed
Anyone notice how when she’s “crying” and they ask her a question, she’s immediately fine and answers like it’s almost a casual conversation? This lady is actually horrible
well she's crazy. she's not sane. this isn't a psychopath. this is someone with a different mental illness entirely.
thank goodness for bad liars. the ones who lie well probably kill far more people and get away with far more crimes
Using fake tears as a defensive mechanism is more common than you'd think.
She's been lieing her while entire life an mastered the art of it. She isn't crazy or doesn't have mental issues she is just an evil girl and she is a user. She probably been abusing children for a long time. Especially the fact that she had multiple men sending her money in jail. She knows exactly what she is doing. She is selfish and only thinks about herself. She is not sorry for what she did. Rest in peace little Benson and to the other children that were lucky enough to not die they are extremely lucky
That fake crying is hilarious.
So how in the hell can she babysit when her own are taken away. And a child had a skull fracture then another and now a dead baby! CPS SUCKS
Who leaves their child with someone that was currently being investigated for child abuse?
Jesus Christ 🤦♂️
That 911 call is heartbreaking.
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Yeah I had to skip it entirely
Didn't expect Insym here. I love your content! I showed your videos to my mother and she likes them too. She knows you as the "Are you french?" guy. ❤
Im glad i watched the first part without sound
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Dude, her face at 36:10 when they ask her if she did CPR and she smiles when saying no is chilling. This woman is soulless.
Man I just paused at that moment and had to check the comments. That's fucking scary inhuman.
It made me wanna throw up. Like I physically reacted to that. Her face makes me sick. Her behavior makes me sick. That part made me so uncomfortable.
Yes and then she remembered that she wasn't supposed to be smiling so she composed herself. What a clown.
i believe the memory of the visual from the moments she was jsut admiring what she had done, popped into her head for a second and she was kind of enjoying that. shes a sociopath. even from the descriptions of her behaviors and then allthe behaviors on bodycam she shows all the signs of being an absolute checked out lizardbrain subhuman at this point . she burnt out her brain with whatever her drugs of choice were. we see this in emergency room every single day. I can see them from a mile away
Then in the apartment when she's recalling what happened and smiles, next to the crib where she found him dead.
How the hell could they have not known about the fifth baby when she's standing there 8 months pregnant
They didn’t know the baby was dead until they had been at the laundromat for some time?
I am impressed by the female officer's ability to go from the autopsy of the baby to speak with his killer and keep her temper and disgust under control - most of the time
they have to act that way to manipulate the criminal and tell them everything.. I know that's so hard and that's why not everyone can be a detective.
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@@18aplateindoors there are 666 likes now and I dont want to ruin the demonic pattern
@@mahiryaprak Frankly they might also not be that emotionally invested, not that that's a good or bad thing. If every doctor had a breakdown every time they lost a patient for example we simply wouldn't have any doctors. I think being a good detective/doctor etc requires acknowledging that karma isn't real - good things happen to bad people and horrible things happen to good people all the time for no reason and often without any sort of closure. The woman is also clearly mentally ill, developmentally arrested and has a few infantile dispositions (the constant "promise" language for example). If you can't view it clinically you'll go insane at some point.
Both officers. Men get mad about this kind of thing too.
One of the worst parts about this is that this woman KEEPS HAVING KIDS knowing that she’s just going to ruin their lives and pump them through foster care. Absolutely disgusting human being.
That's women for ya
How she’s still having more didn’t she get locked up?
@@John-Doe-Yo You'd be surprised at the amount of inmates who still get pregnant while incarcerated.
@@fartingshartingpig5287oh, so women get themselves pregnant on their own, do they? 🤦♀️ So...in your mind, the "men" who impregnate them after already having a child/children removed from the home previously are just completely faultless? 🙄
@@blondepinkie3987you fell for a troll 💀
This is traumatizing. Not just for Heather, but for people watching this. The fact that she takes a lifeless body out to eat is beyond disgusting.
Honestly, I'm learning more about psychology on this channel than anywhere else.
Her transition (so quickly) from "normal", to laughing/smiling, to "crying" is sickening. This is the face of someone who has a fake conscience.
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Her "acting" is horrible
When I'm nervous I laugh cry. My son recently got his shots and I laughed at him crying then I broke down crying. So it's kinda normal when ppl are nervous or uncomfortable. Not saying she didn't do it.
@@texaskteaI feel like if she cried without a single tear I don’t even understand what your comments for lol
@@Tarasbasement I'm answering the original comment that some ppl do laugh when nervous.
HOW anyone who has had their own Biological children REmoved by Social Services, ends up CARING for other people kids is beyond comprehension but here we all are.
Their friends are compassionate people who believe their claims that the system is against them, they are misunderstood, have seen them be nice to children, etc.
Ikr wtf,and laughing when cop says did u think mom was gonna notice she laughs and smiles so sick
@@blender4464 Well THERE is a danger of "doing favors" for someone when youre not being truthful. Compassion for someone's lot in life should never supercede one's respect for the truth. yikes...
@@leeannwitt4968 yes, she is CLEARLY brain damaged from her years of drug abuse. Im a clinician by profession, I can tell by her eyes, there is significant damage. she has asymmetry in her face and eyes, that happens OFTEN from ODS or even regular use of multiple classes of drugs that cause neurological damage that can start to show on the outside, like in tardive dyskinesia asymmetrical facial features. it can look similar to the effects of stroke and is relatively doing the same thing. destroying brain tissue and disrupting the functions of the frontal lobe. damage to frontal lobe is what causes people to show no affect and not be able to plan or foresee the consequences of their actions. this is why addicts so often end up in prison for their actions. sad but i would never defend or offer to be an advocate for anyone like that.
Yeah No Crap So Wacko The World Becoming 😔😵💫
My wife and I tried for seven years before we had children. She lost 12 pregnancies in those years. Meanwhile, human excrement pop out one baby after another that they despise. Hope this woman finds Jesus.
It’s likely at her age she will die in prison. 37 years may not sound like much but with her extensive substance abuse I’ll be surprised if she makes it past 50 in jail. RIP Benson ❤️
The fact that when she was lying she was “breaking down.” But when she admits it she’s laughing and smiling is absolutely disgusting.
She is crying for herself!!
Psychopath for sure
The truth can feel liberating. The relief she felt must have been quite a rush.
She probably liked that. People like that are dangerous. Potential serial killers.
@@sharynkoren2054 she's not even really crying. no red face, no tears, goes back to happy smiling or acting casual right after. a fake evil pos
I'm not blaming the mother. This case should be a warning to all parents. If someone is accused of fracturing another babie's skull and losing 4 of her own children, don't kid yourself that she will treat your child any different. It's obvious Marissa can't control her frustration. What a sad case. My condolences to baby Benson's family.
i’m guessing they didn’t go around telling everyone that she was under investigation for such things, so unfortunately the mother probably didn’t know … i hope that’s the case anyway
To be fair there have been cases where sitters with perfect records have gone on to unalive kids in their care. Look at the case of the family nanny who the parents thought was perfect, the kids adored her and out of nowhere she slit the children's throats.
Plus, a lot of people think so lowly of CPS and believe they steal children for no reason. This could have been one of those situations where she convinced people she was a victim of the state and CPS stole her kids for no reason.
I'm more going with she kept it a secret, probably didn't tell the mom she had that many kids taken away or would just make excuses for why they weren't there during up & drop off, like maybe with grandma or something.
Then there's the possibility that the mom could have been so desperate for a sitter she really couldn't be bothered to look too deep into it. I hope this isn't so.
There's just so many things we don't know
*babies
@@vixxxenfoxxx3660 Yeah but "to be fair" 99.99999% of "clean" baby sitters don't have any problems. So yea, do background check people!
@@bbibbibu Even if the mother was on some level aware it was likely very downplayed or there was a personal leverage there (ie. recommendeation) which dissuaded the mum.
When the officer keeps saying “babies don’t just die” my heart is crying in SIDS 😭
Adam, after that initial blowup, seemed to come to his senses. There was genuine fear and horror when the officer told him what happened. He also said “this always happens when I’m now around, it’s why I didn’t want her watching anyone’s kids.” And that is very very interesting. It could be a CYA lie, but there honestly seems like a decent amount of genuine upset and frustration there. Makes me wonder the history of those other kids of theirs.