I love how you pinpoint the precise issues with a wardrobe, it's really instructive. I've been gradually letting go of items, but still not quite sure why I've not been able to sell a few pieces in spite not wearing them. This video is a combination of instruction and permission! 😂 Your decluttering videos are the best out there, really 🩵
This is so fabulous, thank you! I just moved to a new state, total lifestyle change, have a big beautiful dog pal Chester ( see photo) and lost a lot of weight after a very challenging two years of helping my mum and having gained a lot. I say all of this to say my clothes are too big and being the mom of an active golden retriever- finding my "now" style! This really helps me to go slowly and re evaluate before I invest :)
"You might suck in a blazer." Thank you for that! I've never worked in an office, and so many of these minimalist CZcamsr capsule wardrobes are earthy colors, buttons ups, blazers, and formal trousers... All things I don't like on me! I like comfort and at least some color (black, shades of denim, and lately fuchsia being my main colors!) - sweat pants, denim, floral embroidered leather jacket for special occasions, peplum tops to hide my diastasis recti (protruding belly from having kids - no one likes being asked if they're pregnant when they're not!) And these days - possibly thanks to your influence - turtlenecks!❤ Definitely need to get more comfy shoes tho. I have been a minimalist with shoes, and consistently only use like 3 pairs, but that means they'll get worn out quicker, so I need at least a couple more options.😊
You can pry my lacies from my cold dead fingers! I wear them on their own in my own space, underwear as outerwear sort of. I do agree though that they aren't meant to be worn under a standard clothing item, I don't need everyone and their grandma to know what I have planned for the evening 😊
Happy Aries season Patricia! The red ballet flats only make sense for you. ❤ you're not too old for TikTok honey. There's a lot of "adults" on there. I think we need more legitimate adults on TikTok. 😂
Patricia could you maybe include some ways or links people can use maybe in your next video or just ways to sell designer handbag(s). Please and thank you.
I smiled when you mentioned florals in the US. This trendy pattern may be bigger here in Palm Beach, FL than anywhere in the world and I am not a fan. Just…no. 🌸 love from FL.
Hi Laura - nice to see you here (I follow you on YT and IG). And yes, I concur with your sentiments.....I cannot imagine you in florals and neither would I ever venture down that road either! 🙂
Sometimes thinking of what you want to feel in the clothes helps. I after 3 months single after my narcissistic ex was arrested on domestic charges....I want to feel feminine but I am overweight...bad. thyroid finally diagnosed and runs in family. I want to be happy. I dug out my huge gypsy skirt black and although I did wear it to meet my ex it makes me feel feminine. He had me living in sweats, sports bras that were not flattering at all, these are not bra sizes, and men's boxer briefs. I found women's bagged underwear, Hanes fruit of the loom etc that fit but rubbed me the wrong way so I went back to men's but I forgot I did buy underwear by singles that do not have rough bands and need to find and put on. I am broke no money to buy more underwear, my bras are too tight, and the number is what I wore 50 lbs heavier 15 years ago. But I forget I have inflammation that affects my rib cage even. So I might not be that heavy anymore, the costochondritis, spelling may be off, is now an issue. Maybe more reason I need to feel feminine. Find pieces that help you feel how you want to feel. Want to feel more business and in control, find clothing more business like. Less feminine then stay away from skirts, you can still be feminine without them. Need comfortable more loose than tight. Thrift store clothing to try to find what you like and what feels good to you what helps you find that and if you do not like thrifted clothes use it just to find out what you are and then buy clothes that convey that, instead of wasting money searching. I have a skirt that came from thrift store once, but it was layered and the seams are coming apart it needs sewn. My sewing machine had not worked for years to reinforce those seams but it is supposed to work now, no idea if skirt is in my closet or if ex threw it out like he wanted too white denim layers, kept me very cool in high heat and kept mosquitos out as it trailed the ground...only issue I have with my 2 skirts...no pockets so as I end up getting clothes in future I want to A get skirts with pockets B find shorts I can wear under my skirts to have pockets for phone etc. Nice thing when younger was I could be out walking and it appeared I did not have it on me. But honestly for anyone clothes that convey feel. For my I am trying to find more feminine but also comfortable clothing. My chronic health means plus size and I hope if I find a new relationship I could burn tons of calories and lose weight, and the guy could walk with me to help. Trying to find free apps to help with exercise that I can do with a bad back, pinched nerves, low back hip pain. I belly danced in private along to a show that was on my satellite at the time, don't have the channel or show on cable, nor can I rotate my hips as easily as I could. I lost 100 lbs 15 years ago. Gained 35 lbs in 3 months in 2017, blamed on a med, likely my now diagnosed thyroid, I gained more weight during last relationship. I luckily had a test during weight gain spike. I need more movement but an injury makes it difficult, pinched nerves, chronic pain, add in adhd, motivation sucks, a partner helps, help regulate sleep cycle and patterns. I slept at night in the beginning of last relationship and was not suffering with insomnia until he started fighting yelling putting me down dismissing my adhd. I need to feel what he did not let me feel. Being plus size means sexy is out. I want to feel less fat. And maybe if I had money to go to thrift stores I could find stuff to help me feel more ME. But it really is a good way. Hopefully in cities that still have changing rooms to try clothes on, they eliminated them all here. I do not want to buy where returning clothes that do not fit means credit only to spend more money there.
Maybe you are not healing because you're trying to be who you were before. That person doesn't exist anymore, because there's a new you trying to be born. Breathe life into that person.
So you say she is trying to be her "old self" because of *checks notes*...Styling outfits or decluttering things that no longer get use. Uhm nope, these are both things valid things she has always done. Did you expect her to be a hoarder now?
@@mcexpresslearningthis is one of those people who are new to the channel or something & think they need to spew unsolicited advice on everyone in the comments section. A real keyboard therapist. 🤣🤣🤣
The best thing I did was minimize my color palette several years ago :). QUESTION! Vivaia shoes: true to size or half size up?!? Definitely looking at a pair. Thanks P🎉
I love how you pinpoint the precise issues with a wardrobe, it's really instructive. I've been gradually letting go of items, but still not quite sure why I've not been able to sell a few pieces in spite not wearing them. This video is a combination of instruction and permission! 😂 Your decluttering videos are the best out there, really 🩵
you are an artist in all aspects of your life.
This is so fabulous, thank you! I just moved to a new state, total lifestyle change, have a big beautiful dog pal Chester ( see photo) and lost a lot of weight after a very challenging two years of helping my mum and having gained a lot. I say all of this to say my clothes are too big and being the mom of an active golden retriever- finding my "now" style! This really helps me to go slowly and re evaluate before I invest :)
I'm going to rewatch this video when I declutter my clothing and shoes very soon 💜 the weather is finally getting warmer here in Canada!
"You might suck in a blazer." Thank you for that! I've never worked in an office, and so many of these minimalist CZcamsr capsule wardrobes are earthy colors, buttons ups, blazers, and formal trousers... All things I don't like on me! I like comfort and at least some color (black, shades of denim, and lately fuchsia being my main colors!) - sweat pants, denim, floral embroidered leather jacket for special occasions, peplum tops to hide my diastasis recti (protruding belly from having kids - no one likes being asked if they're pregnant when they're not!) And these days - possibly thanks to your influence - turtlenecks!❤ Definitely need to get more comfy shoes tho. I have been a minimalist with shoes, and consistently only use like 3 pairs, but that means they'll get worn out quicker, so I need at least a couple more options.😊
I suck in a blazer. I prefer cardigans. I don't like patterns. Wise advice.😘
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I definitely suck in a blazer.
You can pry my lacies from my cold dead fingers! I wear them on their own in my own space, underwear as outerwear sort of. I do agree though that they aren't meant to be worn under a standard clothing item, I don't need everyone and their grandma to know what I have planned for the evening 😊
I suck in a denim jacket, so every time I hear in a video it's essential, I'm like "shoo, shoo!" 😂
Happy Aries season Patricia! The red ballet flats only make sense for you. ❤ you're not too old for TikTok honey. There's a lot of "adults" on there. I think we need more legitimate adults on TikTok. 😂
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Great video! When you sell your DG handbag, would you please share the link? It is gorgeous ❤
Always so happy to see a new video. Thanks!
Oh thank you! Glad you find value here. 💙
Patricia could you maybe include some ways or links people can use maybe in your next video or just ways to sell designer handbag(s). Please and thank you.
Mary's Room CZcams channel is great for this. She sells & buys designer bags on reselling platforms specifically designed for designer bags.
@samurai9319 Awesome thank you for the information.
You look incredibly stunning!
I smiled when you mentioned florals in the US. This trendy pattern may be bigger here in Palm Beach, FL than anywhere in the world and I am not a fan. Just…no. 🌸 love from FL.
Hi Laura - nice to see you here (I follow you on YT and IG). And yes, I concur with your sentiments.....I cannot imagine you in florals and neither would I ever venture down that road either! 🙂
Is it true that Australia has the best coffee? :) I have that DG bag too. Stunning look. Def a tight fit though!
I think so! But I’m patriotic. So I’m probably biased. 😅
Free shoes! Who doesn’t love that?
Sometimes thinking of what you want to feel in the clothes helps. I after 3 months single after my narcissistic ex was arrested on domestic charges....I want to feel feminine but I am overweight...bad. thyroid finally diagnosed and runs in family. I want to be happy. I dug out my huge gypsy skirt black and although I did wear it to meet my ex it makes me feel feminine. He had me living in sweats, sports bras that were not flattering at all, these are not bra sizes, and men's boxer briefs. I found women's bagged underwear, Hanes fruit of the loom etc that fit but rubbed me the wrong way so I went back to men's but I forgot I did buy underwear by singles that do not have rough bands and need to find and put on. I am broke no money to buy more underwear, my bras are too tight, and the number is what I wore 50 lbs heavier 15 years ago. But I forget I have inflammation that affects my rib cage even. So I might not be that heavy anymore, the costochondritis, spelling may be off, is now an issue. Maybe more reason I need to feel feminine. Find pieces that help you feel how you want to feel. Want to feel more business and in control, find clothing more business like. Less feminine then stay away from skirts, you can still be feminine without them. Need comfortable more loose than tight. Thrift store clothing to try to find what you like and what feels good to you what helps you find that and if you do not like thrifted clothes use it just to find out what you are and then buy clothes that convey that, instead of wasting money searching. I have a skirt that came from thrift store once, but it was layered and the seams are coming apart it needs sewn. My sewing machine had not worked for years to reinforce those seams but it is supposed to work now, no idea if skirt is in my closet or if ex threw it out like he wanted too white denim layers, kept me very cool in high heat and kept mosquitos out as it trailed the ground...only issue I have with my 2 skirts...no pockets so as I end up getting clothes in future I want to A get skirts with pockets B find shorts I can wear under my skirts to have pockets for phone etc. Nice thing when younger was I could be out walking and it appeared I did not have it on me. But honestly for anyone clothes that convey feel. For my I am trying to find more feminine but also comfortable clothing. My chronic health means plus size and I hope if I find a new relationship I could burn tons of calories and lose weight, and the guy could walk with me to help. Trying to find free apps to help with exercise that I can do with a bad back, pinched nerves, low back hip pain. I belly danced in private along to a show that was on my satellite at the time, don't have the channel or show on cable, nor can I rotate my hips as easily as I could. I lost 100 lbs 15 years ago. Gained 35 lbs in 3 months in 2017, blamed on a med, likely my now diagnosed thyroid, I gained more weight during last relationship. I luckily had a test during weight gain spike. I need more movement but an injury makes it difficult, pinched nerves, chronic pain, add in adhd, motivation sucks, a partner helps, help regulate sleep cycle and patterns. I slept at night in the beginning of last relationship and was not suffering with insomnia until he started fighting yelling putting me down dismissing my adhd. I need to feel what he did not let me feel. Being plus size means sexy is out. I want to feel less fat. And maybe if I had money to go to thrift stores I could find stuff to help me feel more ME. But it really is a good way. Hopefully in cities that still have changing rooms to try clothes on, they eliminated them all here. I do not want to buy where returning clothes that do not fit means credit only to spend more money there.
Really how many people read so much just in a comment ?
Is this a new channel for you?
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Maybe you are not healing because you're trying to be who you were before. That person doesn't exist anymore, because there's a new you trying to be born. Breathe life into that person.
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So you say she is trying to be her "old self" because of *checks notes*...Styling outfits or decluttering things that no longer get use. Uhm nope, these are both things valid things she has always done. Did you expect her to be a hoarder now?
@@mcexpresslearningthis is one of those people who are new to the channel or something & think they need to spew unsolicited advice on everyone in the comments section. A real keyboard therapist. 🤣🤣🤣
Patricia you are so so soooooooooo inspiring for me🥹🥹♥️♥️♥️ you are my truly truly inspiration and I wish you have a blessed week ahead
The best thing I did was minimize my color palette several years ago :). QUESTION! Vivaia shoes: true to size or half size up?!? Definitely looking at a pair. Thanks P🎉
True to size on most styles, would go up one size on Margot 💙
@@patriciamycyk thanks. Those are the ones I’m looking at. That’s helpful.