True. I think they r keeping their own laundry a secret. In any case it looks like they will make the marriage work. If i had capital i would give it to the wife so she can be the manager/accountant of his business. For unknown reason i want their marriage to work,
What is love when you are doing what it takes to become parents and you can not afford to be a provider, and choose to marry a woman who is not willing to participate in the provision
I know this in Alaba international since 1998 he's really a hustler am really sock to see this and seeing him in this condition, please (judge funmi) I will like to come in and see how I can help, Murphy writing from Sydney Australia thanks and God bless you and keep on the good work maa.
If he loved her so much, she wouldn’t have had to resort to leaving the home to see the errors of his ways. Staying out all night as a married person is disgraceful.
Who else watching with me,let's pray for this marriage to work. According to my observation the marriage is still good they love each other, only problem for them is financial crisis but God is always good I hope in his mercy this problem will be solved
The way she shakes her head, you the defendant will think she is your friend but she is playing you to get information from you. I just love the way she penetrates people even without them knowing. Her smile is so infectious, it will put you off balance. She is gifted, trained and experienced. kudos ma!
It's a great show. One advice please. The producers of this show should try to invite philanthropists into it. Either by initiating a fund where prospective philanthropists would contribute money into it. Then, also setup a panel that would select cases that have to do with financial issues, and the money would be donated to such case. This case is just lack of finance.
@@abdulrasaqoseni6843 Absolutely correct. Can only advise d court to lend out d money gathered to help dem set up a Buzz wia dey ld work n remit certain amts back: Daily, Weekly, Bi-weekly or Monthly pymt, t/b paying dem accordingly till maybe d buzz becomes theirs. Bless Up @Abdulrasaq Oseni.
It breaks my heart to hear children are out of school. I hope free education becomes a priority for the Nigerian Government. The woman is so hurt but she still respects him a lot. Men, good women are hard to find!
It actually depends on what you mean by free education. You hardly have public schools paying compulsory fees. People should also be realistic and plan their family well. The couple has 5 kids and the last one is 8 years which means that they had the kid 2 years after he lost his business. When the business was even bouyant, he didn't make effort to plan to build a house for himself. They were just making babies. They had 4 kids before the loss of his business. And they still had another one 2 years after! Some people contribute to their own pressures. People should plan for the rainy days. The man too doesn't seem to be pushing enough about improving his capacity to contribute to caring for the family. He was asked what his plan was and he couldn't articulate anything. And he started keeping late nights. As a responsible man who loves his family, a man should be able to take charge of his life and adjust to life changes. If a business isn't working, a man should luke for alternatives.
I love this justice court. Please all our philanthropist should contribute to the progress of this programme. From all the cases, it is very clear that poverty is the genesis of most problems
Eeya....I like the judge on how she handled this couple matter!!!! Love is sweet and it's even sweeter when EGO( money) is involved.... the guy should make effort and I pray things work out for him🙏🙏 Also people shd plan their family as per number of children to have. 👌👌
@@heathergardiner7013 don't know if u r from any where in Africa but what u said is totally unacceptable......reasons being he was not his parent to send himself to school.......if his parent were poor how is it his fault......if u r white privilege plse stop being disrespectful and naive on people culture and educational status......What r u after your big mighty educational background were u not thought to have respect and compassion towards other people, I can clearly see u r one of those trolls on social media and the judge of public opinion. English is not his first language madam English language.
I get it.one may be down emotionally but turn to each other for comfort which results in baby making ...it's normal.not thinking because the mind is clouded.God help them financially & every other way
Na wa o, you watched but was not attentive to all they said. The man was very okay financial before things turned ugly, it's not about the amount of children they are seriously down financially that he can bare take care of himself now, not to talk of a child.
I wonder why women will allow their husbands to be suffer and leave him when he finally get frustrated and they will now Tag him irresponsible YOU ARE A HELPER NOT THE FOOLISH ORIAKU THEY USUALLY CALL YOU
It is not about the numbers of children you can manufactured or bring to this world but it the quality of life you want for each of the children. It's only in Africa that they don't normally practice family planning. As a parent, you will be blamed for your incompetency to provide for the children.
He has been unemployed for 3 years. His wife has been selling pure water and mineral. So when do you think the guy should go look for job for stability for his 5 kids and wife?
@@NinaAce exactly. With 5 children that I'm quite certain she has sole responsibility of. The effort she's making should be a supplement OR he should handle the household and let her go out to get a full time job.
You guys have forgotten that this man has been taking care of them for like 17years, losing his business to ground zero alone has done something to his psychology as a man. He didn't do well to have not set up a business for the wife too so they can have something to fall back on now.
Awww they obviously still love each them 😂😂😂their case is my favorite. I pray he change and get a stable source of income likewise his wife. Judge Funmi you’re Awesome God bless you ma’am🙏🏽
Nigerians need to start using family planning! Plan your life and how many children you will have. Stop having so many children that you cannot take care of! Women , stop having so many kids. Use family planning.
Presently, Lagos provides free education to over One Million pupils/students in 1,010 primary schools with a population of about 497,318 pupils; 670 Junior and Senior Secondary Schools with a population of about 564,758 students and 5 Technical and Vocational Schools across the state.
We will love to have the account details of this couples, they still love each other but poverty is not easy to endure. I believe if they are financially stable, they won’t hv any problem
The truth be say these days most men for our obodo dey leave women to carry the full responsibilities. The women are suppose to be help mate not carrying the home wahala . Its really frustrating when a woman take both the man and woman responsibllites especially for a long time . The man should be ready to do anything for now to still maintain his role as husband and father not nessecarly eletecal business . I pray for their union and a great financial breakthrough to start their life again .
Let we Nigerians always learn how to control on how we bear children.everything is not government problem or village people,but common sense matters in Life.is not the number of children you have that guarantees your success. infact the More you have,the More responsibilities you will keep accumulating for yourself. you will see some family will sit down open their eyes and drop up to 5 or 8 children or even more, which they knew they won't be able to cater for.after the children will become wayward due to lack of no proper care from their parents.now their children are at home no school.Hmmm! it is well,I pray God help you people to rise back to your feet again.🙏🙏
Apart from that, nigeria is an entity is a destiny killer. Here where i am, their government give family mortgage and they will be paying little by little until 15 years
Government pls pls!! Nigeria problem is Government as its nw Government should give this family house children free education u ll see this family transformation 👪 💙 ❤
Presently, Lagos provides free education to over One Million pupils/students in 1,010 primary schools with a population of about 497,318 pupils; 670 Junior and Senior Secondary Schools with a population of about 564,758 students and 5 Technical and Vocational Schools across the state.
So the man should stop being responsible. He needs to have eauip her too in business. This is the danger with men who don't want their wife to work. There is nothing to fall back on.
Too many cases of people not being able to pay their house rents and too many children out of school in these big cities and most jobs don't even pay enough to even afford the rent. There is just too much suffering in Nigeria.
This one, there is love between the two of them but the problem is money. And the man is not serious. He is not focused and lazy. He needs to find some work to do and look after his family.
@@nanaok8070 he is not lazy. He is just facing financial challenges just like we all do. The problem is that the woman is not working. It is imperative for both couples to work ND contribute financial cuz of situations like this. At least until they are comfortable enough to leave on one person's income.
From the comments nigerian women protect your life n sanity by all means. ❤❤❤❤be safe cos these men are not it. OBAMA TWO KIDS,ALABA TRADER 7 KIDS. 🤣😂🤣
Problems in Nigeria they can give birth ohhh even tho they’re not working they’ll just give birth any how .. try to get a life with a benefit before just give birth any how don’t let children be part of your suffering pls
This is avenue where government and blessed people suppose to use as a means of assistance. For instance the Ministry that relate to family affair to safe millions of people so that there children won’t become problem to the nation later in future..!
The truth of the matter is that the man is a broken man because he is not able to take care of his family and this has affected him. Hence, the reason for staying out late. His wife never said he neglected his family when everything was fine. He is facing hard time. The court is putting him under a lot of pressure that can lead to a mental breakdown. This is just not about the man as the Judge said later in this case. The man loves his family and he is in pain that he cannot provide for his family.
@@kalimbaayinde25 you are not being "real", pray that you don't encounter serious challenges in your life. It's easy to criticise until it happens to you. And how are you sure that even his wife will be sympathetic and not put him under more pressure?
So your wife run away because there's no money and wants to come back when there's money.you love your wife but your wife don't love you.she don't want to suffer with you but she wants to enjoy with you.Lol some women makes no sense
He is a lazy man instead of him to go look for work he prefer to wake up in the morning go and attach himself with his friends and believing God for a miracle
Since she hasn't died, she will never be appreciated. The years and children she has raised don't count. Unless she dies in the marriage , tueh!!!🤢😫😴😴😴
The guy just dey look for where to deliver his few yrs loads of palp... Even girls nowadays no wan sleep with broke ass guy's. Nigeria wife no dey resist
@@ihemehelen1454 so he should marry her to add a burden to his life? Feed her cloth her, give and money and she don’t nothing? Why then should the man get married? And stick with her?
@@ihemehelen1454 marriage is a duty….. oh you want to be treated like our fore fathers treated a woman? Women then are virgins when they got married, they listen to their husbands, are submissive, obey and never ask for equality with the man!
Marriage is for better or for worst.And woman are help mates. Maybe if they agreed that for now until things are better financially, they come back together...one must plan but sometimes things do not always go as planned. God help us
Marriages are breaking, children are then apart because of the bad Economic position of the country, how aml wish the Government is watching this program,so that can see what families and the masses is going through. It’s very pathetic.
No body is above circumstance, rich or poor, it's not the man's wish to see his family apart and I blame the man for not been open to his wife enough, which lead to her decision of leaving, I pray God open doors of prosperity to this family in need.
@@josramsblue1 No one is above circumstances, very true, But plan acc. Have the amount of children you can afford to cater for and give them the best life possible.
@@Nikkygirlification there is nothing a person will eat and swallow his teeth, it is a fact that they have been married for a whooping 23 years, what acc planning are you talking about? After four grown children? Or are you saying four kids are too much or a poor man should not give birth again until he gets rich? This is a circumstantial situation that came in 3-4 years back.
@@josramsblue1 well obviously we see things differently, the part of the world i am at we plan. I'm not saying things do not happen. How many parents with the situation of things now can pay their kids tuition and fees without getting or asking for help from family members or government organizations? Things are even harder in Nigeria 🇳🇬, so my 2 cents anyways.
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Our government should work on a PLAN to provide free education for ALL our children. No child should be deprived of a quality education.
Agreed. Before coming to England I never knew there was such as think as school fees in most African countries, is madness.
Corruption, greed and self-centredness among our leaders and government won’t allow such, my sister
Education is free in Lagos state they don't have an excuse for not putting the children in school
Thy will start tomorrow
Free education would lift families out of poverty. The people should protest the government to demand this or they will never do it.
Endurance is what we Africans are known for. It is painful to see people go through situation and be happy. God bless this union.
this is the best judge with alot of compasion
This couple is trying their best not to air out all the laundry in court. They still love and respect each other.
I think they have a problem expressing themselves.English dey hard.lol
True. I think they r keeping their own laundry a secret. In any case it looks like they will make the marriage work. If i had capital i would give it to the wife so she can be the manager/accountant of his business. For unknown reason i want their marriage to work,
What is love when you are doing what it takes to become parents and you can not afford to be a provider, and choose to marry a woman who is not willing to participate in the provision
WE SEE CONSULT WITH GOD BEFORE WE MAKE DECISION AND DO NOT EXPECT HIM TO SIGN UP FOR SOMETHING THAT HE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH
I know this in Alaba international since 1998 he's really a hustler am really sock to see this and seeing him in this condition, please (judge funmi) I will like to come in and see how I can help, Murphy writing from Sydney Australia thanks and God bless you and keep on the good work maa.
Write directly to the program na....God bless u by the way
Kindly call +2348059837472
@@JusticeCourtTV Good day,how can I contact the justice court?
God bless you richly for showing concern to assist the family
God bless you for showing interest to help the family.
Mmmm the lady is a down to earth a first nigerian i have seen that is so calm and respectful
The man really loved his wife and this is the can of love every woman is praying for, May God bless him with a good job, Amen
Amen
If he loved her so much, she wouldn’t have had to resort to leaving the home to see the errors of his ways. Staying out all night as a married person is disgraceful.
Who else watching with me,let's pray for this marriage to work. According to my observation the marriage is still good they love each other, only problem for them is financial crisis but God is always good I hope in his mercy this problem will be solved
I pray wit you
Ur honour u are jst too matured indeed u are a mother n a judge n a counselor u are my rooe model
May God grant this man financial Favour to enjoy his family. God bless judge Funmi for the wisdom to bringing bringing families together.
Very lovely judgement
I am learning alot on this show. I want to see this judge funmi with a gift. Lovely woman
The way she shakes her head, you the defendant will think she is your friend but she is playing you to get information from you. I just love the way she penetrates people even without them knowing. Her smile is so infectious, it will put you off balance. She is gifted, trained and experienced. kudos ma!
It's a great show. One advice please. The producers of this show should try to invite philanthropists into it. Either by initiating a fund where prospective philanthropists would contribute money into it. Then, also setup a panel that would select cases that have to do with financial issues, and the money would be donated to such case. This case is just lack of finance.
That's what i am praying for.
You nailed it Nona!
And people will end up faking financial issues to a share.
@@abdulrasaqoseni6843 As much as I agreed, that shouldn't stop us from helping out
@@abdulrasaqoseni6843 Absolutely correct. Can only advise d court to lend out d money gathered to help dem set up a Buzz wia dey ld work n remit certain amts back: Daily, Weekly, Bi-weekly or Monthly pymt, t/b paying dem accordingly till maybe d buzz becomes theirs.
Bless Up @Abdulrasaq Oseni.
If there is a purse to make donations to cases like this, please share. Chai, hardship is just trying to destroy true love here. It got me in tears.
It breaks my heart to hear children are out of school. I hope free education becomes a priority for the Nigerian Government. The woman is so hurt but she still respects him a lot. Men, good women are hard to find!
It actually depends on what you mean by free education. You hardly have public schools paying compulsory fees. People should also be realistic and plan their family well. The couple has 5 kids and the last one is 8 years which means that they had the kid 2 years after he lost his business. When the business was even bouyant, he didn't make effort to plan to build a house for himself. They were just making babies. They had 4 kids before the loss of his business. And they still had another one 2 years after! Some people contribute to their own pressures. People should plan for the rainy days. The man too doesn't seem to be pushing enough about improving his capacity to contribute to caring for the family. He was asked what his plan was and he couldn't articulate anything. And he started keeping late nights. As a responsible man who loves his family, a man should be able to take charge of his life and adjust to life changes. If a business isn't working, a man should luke for alternatives.
I will keep saying it. Another plenty children problem!
They don't listen, they think God will help
My papa born 8 we know die
I love this show..
Me too
The true Lord shall bless your wisdom of keeping families together. Our Ancestors shall continue to grant you peace and harmony in your home as well
I love Judge Funmi. She rocks😘😘
My thought though
I love this justice court. Please all our philanthropist should contribute to the progress of this programme. From all the cases, it is very clear that poverty is the genesis of most problems
This is a profit oriented venture, philanthropist has little to no role to play. When you talk of sponsors, that is another topic entirely.
Poverty is a mindset. Why have so many children if you can't feed them!
Eeya....I like the judge on how she handled this couple matter!!!! Love is sweet and it's even sweeter when EGO( money) is involved.... the guy should make effort and I pray things work out for him🙏🙏 Also people shd plan their family as per number of children to have. 👌👌
I like it when the amiable Judge laughs😁
Omg i love this show
Nigeria ,poor people with too much children's .
You are one us,very poor and you are number 11 in your family
Your grammar is awful.Did you go school?
Them no di hear word with too many children
@@heathergardiner7013 don't know if u r from any where in Africa but what u said is totally unacceptable......reasons being he was not his parent to send himself to school.......if his parent were poor how is it his fault......if u r white privilege plse stop being disrespectful and naive on people culture and educational status......What r u after your big mighty educational background were u not thought to have respect and compassion towards other people, I can clearly see u r one of those trolls on social media and the judge of public opinion. English is not his first language madam English language.
Too much children? U r poor verbally
The problem here is financial. It is well. Nigeria!!!
Stop having plenty kids without financially doing well. This is the typical poverty problem in Nigeria 🇳🇬
I get it.one may be down emotionally but turn to each other for comfort which results in baby making ...it's normal.not thinking because the mind is clouded.God help them financially & every other way
@@terryemoorer296 that is why there is family planning options.
@@Nikkygirlification I agree
Na wa o, you watched but was not attentive to all they said. The man was very okay financial before things turned ugly, it's not about the amount of children they are seriously down financially that he can bare take care of himself now, not to talk of a child.
@@terryemoorer296 hmmm, talking from experience?
I wanna support this Family and many more. God punish “POVERTY “. The Presiding Judge 👩⚖️ should create an Account for this purpose, please.
Kindly call +2348059837472 so we can furnish details to you
I wonder why women will allow their husbands to be suffer and leave him when he finally get frustrated and they will now Tag him irresponsible
YOU ARE A HELPER NOT THE FOOLISH ORIAKU THEY USUALLY CALL YOU
Yes ooooo
A helper is when there is something to help you with not down cast.
she's helped him have children and raise them with him. Should she die????
She's an illiterate that doesn't know how to make money
The court is the university of life
I learn everyday here
I love judge Funmilayo so much
Love her temperament too
I wished dey can have such in all d 36 states in Nigeria many people going true alot in other state
It is not about the numbers of children you can manufactured or bring to this world but it the quality of life you want for each of the children. It's only in Africa that they don't normally practice family planning. As a parent, you will be blamed for your incompetency to provide for the children.
Great job...kudos to you ma @Judge Funmi Asaolu. May God bless you ma
One thing is constant , the issue of finance. Once the man lose his finance in the home, forget , the family can't be the sake again
Am pained seeing separation of couples especially the young ones. LORD prevail in all marriages especially because of the children involve😢
God bless you Judge Funmi....Thank you Ma'am
A woman who is not even financially supportive blames a man of irresponsibility. Which. Law says it’s only a man that needs to provide for the family
He has been unemployed for 3 years. His wife has been selling pure water and mineral. So when do you think the guy should go look for job for stability for his 5 kids and wife?
@@NinaAce exactly. With 5 children that I'm quite certain she has sole responsibility of. The effort she's making should be a supplement OR he should handle the household and let her go out to get a full time job.
She does some petty trade to put food on the table and I'm sure she's solely responsible for taking care of the five kids and house chores
The Biblical law
You guys have forgotten that this man has been taking care of them for like 17years, losing his business to ground zero alone has done something to his psychology as a man. He didn't do well to have not set up a business for the wife too so they can have something to fall back on now.
That's why women should do something, not when a man work work work and jst one fall the whole world will hear. This man is a good man.
May God keep them together! God bless Judge Funmi's wisdom
Awww they obviously still love each them 😂😂😂their case is my favorite. I pray he change and get a stable source of income likewise his wife. Judge Funmi you’re Awesome God bless you ma’am🙏🏽
Why this yeah? Judge Funmi, please teach them how to answer politely. Kai, you are really a patient judge.
This man go Dey do ITK well shouting yeah up and down
Aa in ehh
I love Judge Funmi Asade too much
Nigerians need to start using family planning! Plan your life and how many children you will have. Stop having so many children that you cannot take care of! Women , stop having so many kids. Use family planning.
Nigeria is just not working, how can the kids be at home because of school fees and we say that Nigeria is a country
Presently, Lagos provides free education to over One Million pupils/students in 1,010 primary schools with a population of about 497,318 pupils; 670 Junior and Senior Secondary Schools with a population of about 564,758 students and 5 Technical and Vocational Schools across the state.
Chaiiiiiiii, truly money answereth all things, that is all this family need. 🤔🤔
Ua right
Public schools at primary and secondary levels in Lagos are still free.
Your honour may Almighty God continue to give you more Knowledge and wisdom
We will love to have the account details of this couples, they still love each other but poverty is not easy to endure. I believe if they are financially stable, they won’t hv any problem
@justice court
5 children!!! I rest my case
Good counselling n judgement. Husband n wife stand together in good time n bad time
The truth be say these days most men for our obodo dey leave women to carry the full responsibilities. The women are suppose to be help mate not carrying the home wahala . Its really frustrating when a woman take both the man and woman responsibllites especially for a long time . The man should be ready to do anything for now to still maintain his role as husband and father not nessecarly eletecal business . I pray for their union and a great financial breakthrough to start their life again .
This man is not serious
Let we Nigerians always learn how to control on how we bear children.everything is not government problem or village people,but common sense matters in Life.is not the number of children you have that guarantees your success. infact the More you have,the More responsibilities you will keep accumulating for yourself. you will see some family will sit down open their eyes and drop up to 5 or 8 children or even more, which they knew they won't be able to cater for.after the children will become wayward due to lack of no proper care from their parents.now their children are at home no school.Hmmm! it is well,I pray God help you people to rise back to your feet again.🙏🙏
Apart from that, nigeria is an entity is a destiny killer. Here where i am, their government give family mortgage and they will be paying little by little until 15 years
Government pls pls!! Nigeria problem is Government as its nw Government should give this family house children free education u ll see this family transformation 👪 💙 ❤
Presently, Lagos provides free education to over One Million pupils/students in 1,010 primary schools with a population of about 497,318 pupils; 670 Junior and Senior Secondary Schools with a population of about 564,758 students and 5 Technical and Vocational Schools across the state.
Another Thing Causing Hardship In Most Cases In Terms Of Husband And Wife,Is Children That Can’t Be Cared For.
This woman should look for a job and stop putting pressure on the man
But she was hawking water and soda.
So the man should stop being responsible. He needs to have eauip her too in business. This is the danger with men who don't want their wife to work. There is nothing to fall back on.
Finances is not enough reason to live your hubby, better or worst sister pray him into wealth and stay with him
Why can't they move back to the village now? Something lagos might be too expensive for them. Is there anyway we can contribute for them please?
What a sensible person you are... Lovely
But this woman yeye o! Her husband hit hard times she leave am! Na wa!
This is a case of lack of money
Too many cases of people not being able to pay their house rents and too many children out of school in these big cities and most jobs don't even pay enough to even afford the rent. There is just too much suffering in Nigeria.
This one, there is love between the two of them but the problem is money. And the man is not serious. He is not focused and lazy. He needs to find some work to do and look after his family.
Lazy? For 20 years he wasn't lazy & just about 3 years he has become lazy. My friend let's think before we talk
@@Gregofoma Even three weeks is too long for him to be a lazy man, when you have a family. Three years! And you talk say I am wrong. Lazy Man!
@@nanaok8070 what is the definition of laziness.
@@toadeyemo Unwilling to work or use energy. Lazy man no go chop
@@nanaok8070 he is not lazy. He is just facing financial challenges just like we all do. The problem is that the woman is not working. It is imperative for both couples to work ND contribute financial cuz of situations like this. At least until they are comfortable enough to leave on one person's income.
May God bless this family
This is very complecating
Please God bless this family....
From the comments nigerian women protect your life n sanity by all means. ❤❤❤❤be safe cos these men are not it. OBAMA TWO KIDS,ALABA TRADER 7 KIDS. 🤣😂🤣
Free education is very important in this our Nigeria
Na money cause this wahala so oh. Bros try get a Job abeg... This ma God woman
Family plan is very important
That woman supposed to have been doing something like business to be able to help the husband in a time like this and not run away
But she said she was into pure water and soda drinks business
I love that they love each other this is ehy i would help him back on his feet
Problems in Nigeria they can give birth ohhh even tho they’re not working they’ll just give birth any how .. try to get a life with a benefit before just give birth any how don’t let children be part of your suffering pls
Honestly this is Africa's greatest problem.
Children are big investments
That's it, Africans especially Nigerian's like many children
@@ereworipre4187 true talk ooo
Judge Funmi is literally having to drag words out of their mouths... frustrating!
Wow
Husband and wife in love but money has became a problem
The Man run away due to the nagging of the woman because of the money
😅
This man is going through some stress.
Eyah am really feeling for them....I hate poverty
Awwwwnnn love nwantit🥰🥰 but both party need to find work and money
Is possible to get the contact of this man to help him financially in my own little way
Please contact the court
I wish I could help...I pray for you both...
This is avenue where government and blessed people suppose to use as a means of assistance. For instance the Ministry that relate to family affair to safe millions of people so that there children won’t become problem to the nation later in future..!
The truth of the matter is that the man is a broken man because he is not able to take care of his family and this has affected him. Hence, the reason for staying out late. His wife never said he neglected his family when everything was fine. He is facing hard time. The court is putting him under a lot of pressure that can lead to a mental breakdown. This is just not about the man as the Judge said later in this case. The man loves his family and he is in pain that he cannot provide for his family.
It’s still disgraceful. That’s why God bless him with a wife. To discuss his issues with. Not staying away. That solves nothing.
@@kalimbaayinde25 you are not being "real", pray that you don't encounter serious challenges in your life. It's easy to criticise until it happens to you. And how are you sure that even his wife will be sympathetic and not put him under more pressure?
I'd love to be part of this audience, what do I do?
Abeg GOD please provide for this man.
So your wife run away because there's no money and wants to come back when there's money.you love your wife but your wife don't love you.she don't want to suffer with you but she wants to enjoy with you.Lol some women makes no sense
Typical Nigerian mentality a woman is judged by the life of struggle love. Godforbid we enjoy life!😂
Subtitle is driving me crazy
I can't stop laughing, their have constraints d judge to also be speaking pigin English
He is a lazy man instead of him to go look for work he prefer to wake up in the morning go and attach himself with his friends and believing God for a miracle
This man is taking as if the reason he came to court was bc he want the judge to give him the capital for his business.
Dismiss this case since they don’t want to talk
She is a fair weather woman, she is a true 'Oriaku'.
Since she hasn't died, she will never be appreciated. The years and children she has raised don't count. Unless she dies in the marriage , tueh!!!🤢😫😴😴😴
Nigeria is a big failed country. There should be a provision for the citizen. Life in Nigeria is so hard for the common man.
The guy just dey look for where to deliver his few yrs loads of palp... Even girls nowadays no wan sleep with broke ass guy's. Nigeria wife no dey resist
What is now the use of the wife? A liability? She’s an helper! Why should all the burden be on the man?
@@getenlightened5871 okay after the help, still want the 100% submission our fore fathers enjoyed as sole providers?
@@ihemehelen1454 so he should marry her to add a burden to his life? Feed her cloth her, give and money and she don’t nothing? Why then should the man get married? And stick with her?
@@ihemehelen1454 marriage is a duty….. oh you want to be treated like our fore fathers treated a woman? Women then are virgins when they got married, they listen to their husbands, are submissive, obey and never ask for equality with the man!
@@getenlightened5871 the ish here is do u still deserve that 100% submission dear?
Marriage is for better or for worst.And woman are help mates. Maybe if they agreed that for now until things are better financially, they come back together...one must plan but sometimes things do not always go as planned. God help us
The problem is the man not the woman,sir focus in life
Do you want him to thief or what, Nigeria is not easy to get a job
What happened to his goods,? He only lost the shop and not the goods .because he didn't say the good got burned. Or how did he loose his goods?
Pls I want to be a part of your show your Lordship. Pls how can I ma.
Marriages are breaking, children are then apart because of the bad Economic position of the country, how aml wish the Government is watching this program,so that can see what families and the masses is going through. It’s very pathetic.
Both husband and wife should have good income and plan life before having many children and stop these nonsense.
I dont like many children indeed but it shows he could afford till things went wrong. Remember they are now married for whooping 23 years!
No body is above circumstance, rich or poor, it's not the man's wish to see his family apart and I blame the man for not been open to his wife enough, which lead to her decision of leaving, I pray God open doors of prosperity to this family in need.
@@josramsblue1 No one is above circumstances, very true, But plan acc. Have the amount of children you can afford to cater for and give them the best life possible.
@@Nikkygirlification there is nothing a person will eat and swallow his teeth, it is a fact that they have been married for a whooping 23 years, what acc planning are you talking about? After four grown children? Or are you saying four kids are too much or a poor man should not give birth again until he gets rich? This is a circumstantial situation that came in 3-4 years back.
@@josramsblue1 well obviously we see things differently, the part of the world i am at we plan. I'm not saying things do not happen. How many parents with the situation of things now can pay their kids tuition and fees without getting or asking for help from family members or government organizations? Things are even harder in Nigeria 🇳🇬, so my 2 cents anyways.
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