This is real REAL. This is why I absolutely HATE the teen pregnancy shows, and the popular CZcams, Tiktok, and Insta teen parent channels. They make it look like it's all happiness and photoshoots. I know some teen parents make it, but statistically the majority don't, and it becomes a never ending saga of generational poverty. I tell my kids, all adults now, to get through school, get a job, go see the world, and then think about having kids. Until then wrap it, pill up, and the pull out method is nothing but baby roulette.
@@teiashort1451 If you still living with Mama, you shouldn't be a Mama. Unless of course you have a good paying job, and are equally contributing monetarily to the household.
My parents got pregnant at 18. They ran off, got married, THEN told their parents. It was so HARD, especially because, in the early 60s, people actively shunned you for it, but they made it. Mom says that they made it because they accepted that childhood, all of their dreams about college, travel, having fun and running around with friends, all of that, it was OVER. They were responsible for an innocent new life, so time to get to work. Dad got through college over the course of 7 years, and he credits his father's words for pushing him to fight on when things got tough: "You've ruined your life. You'll never amount to anything." We had their 60th anniversary party this summer. Dad runs his own business. Mom had 5 more kids. They got off to a rough start, but we had a great life BECAUSE of their ATTITUDE.
My parents became engaged after 4 months of dating and they told us that it doesn't work for everyone and they're right. Our parents were totally committed but the bulk of unwed single mothers remain in the same position.
When I started dating, my dad told me that he had 3 kids and if he wanted more he would have made them. He followed that up with "grandchildren are meant to be a joy, not a burden." Point taken.
Wish someone would've given a few of my cousins this talk. They just KEEP having babies with fucked up ass dudes and act like it's going to solve all their problems. Ridiculous.
I remember seeing the reality of this as a kid when I went to a lady who braided my hair and had a relative who spent her entire teenage years pregnant with a child and each child would be given to a different relative. She started having them when she was 13 and by 21 she had 7 kids. I did see her once since she was homeless and staying at the lady’s house for a bit and I felt so bad for her that I gave her a cupcake.
I would educate them on birth control options and abortion clinics. Let them know that there are other things they can do besides bring more children into this world.
My daughter is living her fabulous life at 29, not thinking about having any children. She remembers how hard it was for me raising her when dad opted out. Her friends telling her she's lucky she doesn't have children yet. All we can do is laugh. Luck has nothing to do with setting goals.
@@iwakeupandboomimarat If you decide to, just pick the right guy. I see some couples who do it the right way and it's still very challenging raising children today with everything going on. Then there's the finances. Who's going to stay home and take care of the baby?
@@sparkle3000 honestly i think unless i get an incredible job ill never be able to easily support a kid anyways, theres a whole ass housing crisis in my country lmao
I'm not sure if I'm supposed to laugh or not. This was actually some very good acting and I believed Jay was actually a mother with some good common sense.
Flawlessly done and hilarious. I remember having to tell my mom I was pregnant at 17 just about to turn 18. It was one of the Scariest moments in my life. My mom asked me was I sure and then just cried for a few minutes then came then questions. I now know why she was crying now that I have daughters. I had already graduated from high school and had started my first semester of college. But I had to drop out and work full time. Life was hard for me. I moved out and I got a low income apartment in a good neighborhood near my mom and a job. Worked and bought my own home at 23 yrs old. I didn’t have anymore kids till I got married after that. I was a single mom for for several years before meeting my husband and having 2 more with him. after I got married I finally put myself through college, started my own business and raised my 3 girls who all grew up well. No teen pregnancies one just graduated from college. I thank God for it all. He gets all the glory and my mom who supported me through it all. Thankfully she ran a daycare center. I was really really blessed. I instilled everything that I was not in my girls. They are so much better than me and i thank God for that too! 😊
This felt so real. And honestly everything he said is true. I wanna be a mom one day and I know how much of a big responsibility it is. I really hope girls who see this make the right choice.
@The Lovely Life Good for you! Doesn't mean it’s that easy for everyone, so people should be well-informed before making the decision of bringing another human being into this crazy world.
I'm Mexican and this is exactly what my mom said 💀 🤣 she said I love you and ill always be here for you but I am NOT BABYSITTING TAKE CARE OF YOUR OWN, GOD BLESS HER . IT MADE ME THE MOTHER I AM TODAY . RESPONSIBLE.
its because his acting skills are so good that we start to forget about the facial hair part. That's what good actors do. He's gifted with exceptional acting talent.
Momma right though. You wanna play like you’re grown, gone out there in the real world and be grown. I bet you that’ll give her a reality check. Tough love. I love that mom isn’t going to be letting her live home and take care of the baby while more than likely daughter gone be in the streets getting pregnant again. Nope!
@@arb6704 I don't get it. What's so creepy about it? Mine is okay with being called mum or mommy, but if I say mother she gets pissed...like the *no wire hangers" kind of pissed.
@@AnNeachDorcha you're generalizing. I call my mom mother all the time and she doesn't dislike it. Some women may dislike it but it isn't a thing that "black women dislike"
He can make me laugh and he can make me cry and not matter what he posts I always forget that this is one man playing multiple parts, I get so drawn in and emotionally invested. He’s a Genius.
🤦🏾i hate when adults say ima have kids in the future (even when i say i dont want to) . this is the reason😭i cannot take care of myself!! i cannot have a human dependent on me to live😭😭
Jay makes it so real, it’s unbelievable, terrific acting, this is a hard topic but everything the mom is telling her daughter is too real! Jay should have his own show for real!!!!!!
"Go to your temporary room" 🤣 Exactly! I have a 20 yr old daughter in college whom I scared with the reality of having a baby as a child by telling her everything I went through while pregnant with her at 17. If you're grown enough to make a baby, then you're grown enough to take care of it on your own. Great video and message!👏
@@ahtaystamcauther9376 You're probably speaking from a dependent's standpoint. Those who have actually raised children know what I mean. It's not abandonment. Its simply forcing them to grow up since they made a grown-up decision. I will help my kids any way I can but I will not become their enabler.
@@ahtaystamcauther9376 sounds a bit enabling to me. Setting her up to have as much free time as she wants (built in free child care) to have more babies.
No this is a completely irresponsible standpoint. Of course teenagers shouldn’t be having sex, let alone unprotected sex, but as a parent you shouldn’t just kick your child out for “being grown”. When you become a parent you sign up to take care of that child til the day you die not until they’re 18 or make a mistake you don’t like
I do too but at the same time...how tf can you not see the dysfunction? Yet blk Americans will deny time and time again we have certain cultural dysfunctions that we are outright normalizing in today's day and age...
Who da baby, boyfriend daddy???😂🤣🤣& You stl got a bald spot unda ur wig tho, WTH🤣😂🤣🤣SMH I swear he needs his Own sitcom cos it'll totally be a hit, F'real!!!💯🎬🫶🏽🤣😂🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😁🎉🎉🎉 #AndDaWinnerIz🏆
Jay, this is so true! You are so talented!!!! This video is so informative & I thank you for posting it. This video is a strong message for our community, showing that when it comes to having a baby there are a lot of things that need to be taken into consideration. It’s more to it than pushing it out! Bless you for this!
Watching this while eating breakfast with coffee...when she said 'Go to your temporary room...I spill coffee all over my counter "that took me out.. I hollered.
@@coffeeandcream4704 PERIOD preach that Is very true I would say the same If my child said that to me and she said she was grown people got they own place
@@xclusivemahje2961 also what you guys don’t realize is the parent has already raised children for 18+ years, at this given point most parents are getting older and can’t afford to take care of another child, or even babysit. And why should they? Yes, it’s their grandchildren, but as I said they’ve already been through it all, and they shouldn’t have to take accountability for their child’s actions. Especially if they’ve educated the child about this. Now I do admit that throwing the daughter out is a little harsh, but at some point the child has to grow up, they can’t sit there and be a burden on their parents. Whether they’re pregnant or not pregnant.
I sadly know someone who went through this. Thankfully she & her kids are ok but it sucks ass that they're connected to this shitty dude for the rest of thier lives.
Sex is a spiritual bond. Sometimes you can’t get enough and control yourself with that person in the bedroom even when they turn out to be a very bad person.
People don't educate themselves on the multitude of birth control options out there. They also aren't educated on abortions either. We fail to educate our youth and then they get pregnant. It is quite sad
Found her about 2 weeks ago. So hilarious. She has had me ball out in laughter in court. Crazy heffa got my phone taking away. I work with court system. Love and hugs. You make my day which means you make a difference.😘
Watching videos during work is not appropriate. If you don’t want to behave appropriately, court is the last place you should be working. How do you think the public is going to behave appropriately if the court staff is goofing off? Court and church are the only places left where any decorum is expected. It is not the damn circus.
My momma always said, "You come in through one door with that kind of news and you go out the other door, so be sure to have your bags packed before you say anything." It worked.
Everything she told her is truth facts! I just thank God my mother didn’t put me out with my two kids. I worked she babysat at night it was hard but I made it,with God’s help and my mother!💕
@@dyamondwhite3769 yes, my mom told me I’ll babysit for you going to work but not going out to party. I didn’t if I went to the movies or out to dinner I took my kids with me!
I had a mother like this, I hated her all through my teen years. We are "civil" now, but I can't stand her. "I shouldn't have told you anything" is something I said one too many times growing up.
@@Murdermagictricks She was toxic, manipulative, hateful, and abusive. Everyone says "you should love your mother just because she's your mother." or "your mother is allowed to treat you however she wants, but YOU have to love and respect her no matter what." No, it doesn't work like that. All that does is build resentment.
Yesssssss we need more messages like this....Preach. I love it, our young woman really need to hear this......the is Facts and the message is very true. Pls Queens life gets real when you include a baby that you are not ready for. Once that baby come, it's no longer about YOU!!! Pls make more videos like this.
I hope no one of our generation thinks their mamas are going to be like their grandmas because they are NOT 🤣 They don't have any time to sit at home and take care of babies!
Listen when I found out I was pregnant my mama sat me down looked me in my eyes and said" I would never let my grandbaby go to the state but he will eat ramen noodles and watch SpongeBob I've raised mine I'll just be watching yours" lemme tell you baby that right there was enough🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣
Let me tell you I was 27 when I found out I was having my daughter and I was still nervous to tell my mother. My mom is pretty psychic and she kept saying that she was having dreams that I was having a child. She didn’t want me to have a child by that person, but eventually my mother came around. To this day I don’t like asking my mama for help or a lot of things or even to babysit I’ll let her offer first. Young girls like they got it all figured out with so they become a mother it either matures you or does not. My mom respects as a mom and that’s what I love.
There's no way that Jay hasn't witnessed this situation in-person at least 50 times....whether it's one of his friends, family members or hell, maybe he just be looking through his neighbors windows and eavesdropping...but how else could he do this so perfectly and accurate?!?
Wow This was so real and heart felt 💯 like this is so true the things mothers have to go thru to raise there children because you wanna raise your kids to be the best they can and not make the same mistakes we have. Our children grow up and think they know it all and make decisions without thinking things thru.
This wasn’t funny, this was just really sad tbh. The amount of young girls that are probably going through this rn is heartbreaking. But I agree w the mother’s perspective in this video, y’all have to stop bringing these babies into the world when y’all are not in the right place in life to take care of them yet. This video should serve as a PSA to all of the youth finding themselves in this situation
Well, the mom made sense with some of the things she said, but how do you expect to raise a daughter who makes good decisions when you never set the example for her? This mother regrets sleeping with the father and isn't shy about throwing this in her daughter's face. Maybe had she approached this as a learning opportunity instead of a way to put her down she could have helped her make better choices. I know this is fictional but this is so relevant to what a lot of young women are going through. I just had a baby girl. She is exactly a week old today and I pray I never forget she didn't ask to be here. I hope that I help her to make good choices and when she doesn't, I am there to help her through the consequences she will face. No, the mother doesn't have to be the glorified baby sitter, but she also doesn't need to put her out either. And Jay, I just want to say that this clip speaks to your enormous talent! You are beyond this platform and I hope you can see that you have true star power. You deserve so much!! I don't think a 4 min clip has evoked such catharsis in me that I can recall! Im over here forming essays from this! 😂😂 Hats off to you!! So proud of you and all the work you do!
Jay is really such a good actor...the script for the multiple characters is so real..Lilly Singh has this type of talent..really hopes he gets a big break
“Go into your temporary room…” that shit took me out! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I came here to say the same thing. TEMPORARY 💀
Me too. That and when she listed "panties" as things she'll have to buy with that lil Wendy's check! 😆 🤣
Omg me too 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me too lmaooo
😂😂😂😭
This is real REAL. This is why I absolutely HATE the teen pregnancy shows, and the popular CZcams, Tiktok, and Insta teen parent channels. They make it look like it's all happiness and photoshoots. I know some teen parents make it, but statistically the majority don't, and it becomes a never ending saga of generational poverty. I tell my kids, all adults now, to get through school, get a job, go see the world, and then think about having kids. Until then wrap it, pill up, and the pull out method is nothing but baby roulette.
Just make abortion free and on-demand. Problem solved.
She is not a teenager she 21😂😂😂
@@teiashort1451 still living at home and no education or she’d have something besides a minimum wage job. not much better than a teen
@@teiashort1451 If you still living with Mama, you shouldn't be a Mama. Unless of course you have a good paying job, and are equally contributing monetarily to the household.
@@teiashort1451 with no job and still living with her mama. You never have a child while living with your parents or with someone else
My parents got pregnant at 18. They ran off, got married, THEN told their parents. It was so HARD, especially because, in the early 60s, people actively shunned you for it, but they made it.
Mom says that they made it because they accepted that childhood, all of their dreams about college, travel, having fun and running around with friends, all of that, it was OVER.
They were responsible for an innocent new life, so time to get to work. Dad got through college over the course of 7 years, and he credits his father's words for pushing him to fight on when things got tough: "You've ruined your life. You'll never amount to anything."
We had their 60th anniversary party this summer. Dad runs his own business. Mom had 5 more kids. They got off to a rough start, but we had a great life BECAUSE of their ATTITUDE.
My parents became engaged after 4 months of dating and they told us that it doesn't work for everyone and they're right. Our parents were totally committed but the bulk of unwed single mothers remain in the same position.
God bless
Love your story... what a great story of commitment and determination. I loved reading this ❤
@@ebonylady actually the bulk of MARRIED SINGLE MOTHERS REMAINS IN THE SAME POSITION AS SINGLE UNWED MOTHERS LETS BE HONEST
Praise The Good Almighty Lord, they made it through in King Jesus Powerful Name! Amen
"Momma, I'm pregnant". The 3 words no parent wants to hear from an unmarried teenage daughter. 😣
When I started dating, my dad told me that he had 3 kids and if he wanted more he would have made them. He followed that up with "grandchildren are meant to be a joy, not a burden." Point taken.
Marriage means nothing half of the time JMO
A teenage daughter is not suppose to be married
@@tivohs True.
Sum wrong with u. They don't have to be married.
Dear Jay Nedaj, I'm pretty sure you were a black mom in your past life because... all the expressions are spot on!! That "Oh lawd" gave me PTSD 😂😂
Girl that's called trauma...
He's remembering them faces VIVIDLY to deliver us these performances. 😂😂😂
Um, he’s mimicking the black mothers he knows in this life.
Even the gestures are amazingly on point
naw fr gave me flashbacks now I'm finna call my momma and cuss her out 😭😂
@@unbothered5240 trauma from the past lives 💀😭😭😂
Wish someone would've given a few of my cousins this talk. They just KEEP having babies with fucked up ass dudes and act like it's going to solve all their problems. Ridiculous.
Damn. Tragic
I too know people like this & it's just the worst. I'm like man, yalls kids gunna repeat rhe cycle if yall don't cut that shit out
I remember seeing the reality of this as a kid when I went to a lady who braided my hair and had a relative who spent her entire teenage years pregnant with a child and each child would be given to a different relative. She started having them when she was 13 and by 21 she had 7 kids. I did see her once since she was homeless and staying at the lady’s house for a bit and I felt so bad for her that I gave her a cupcake.
@@psychedelicpayroll5412 damn
I would educate them on birth control options and abortion clinics. Let them know that there are other things they can do besides bring more children into this world.
My daughter is living her fabulous life at 29, not thinking about having any children.
She remembers how hard it was for me raising her when dad opted out.
Her friends telling her she's lucky she doesn't have children yet.
All we can do is laugh.
Luck has nothing to do with setting goals.
good for her! im def gonna be childfree and hearing stuff like this rlly reassures me that not everyones gonna suck about it lol
@@iwakeupandboomimarat If you decide to, just pick the right guy.
I see some couples who do it the right way and it's still very challenging raising children today with everything going on.
Then there's the finances. Who's going to stay home and take care of the baby?
@@sparkle3000 honestly i think unless i get an incredible job ill never be able to easily support a kid anyways, theres a whole ass housing crisis in my country lmao
The man acting is so damn good that you forget all about the beards. Damn, such talent!
Yes, he's an amazing actor. Meryl Streep, move over, Jay is on the way. I say Meryl, b/c there isn't an actor as good as she is an actress.
Once you tell them you're pregnant.... IT'S OVER FOR YOU!
If you toooooo young yes that’s a problem
For real
@@Hearts202 abortion is the Awnser
YOU'RE DONE! 😹😹😹
@@mariengom4952 so you really gonna put her business online like that tho?
I'm not sure if I'm supposed to laugh or not. This was actually some very good acting and I believed Jay was actually a mother with some good common sense.
💯
Laugh! 😂
IkR? This MF can really act! One one these networks need to hire him
Until that baby is born! All that crowin is out the window
👏👏👏💯💯💯 agreed!
Flawlessly done and hilarious. I remember having to tell my mom I was pregnant at 17 just about to turn 18. It was one of the Scariest moments in my life. My mom asked me was I sure and then just cried for a few minutes then came then questions. I now know why she was crying now that I have daughters. I had already graduated from high school and had started my first semester of college. But I had to drop out and work full time. Life was hard for me. I moved out and I got a low income apartment in a good neighborhood near my mom and a job. Worked and bought my own home at 23 yrs old. I didn’t have anymore kids till I got married after that. I was a single mom for for several years before meeting my husband and having 2 more with him. after I got married I finally put myself through college, started my own business and raised my 3 girls who all grew up well. No teen pregnancies one just graduated from college. I thank God for it all. He gets all the glory and my mom who supported me through it all. Thankfully she ran a daycare center. I was really really blessed. I instilled everything that I was not in my girls. They are so much better than me and i thank God for that too! 😊
Skits with valuable lessons. Mama recognizes her past mistakes and she wants the cycle to stop right here. Bravo Jay! Love you ❤️
Wouldn't it have been better to stop it BEFORE it happened rather than wait until after the fact?
She should have taught her daugher about safe sex to stop it before it hapened though
Abortion services are on the way!
@@fubukifangirlher daughter is grown, her mom can only do so much. Kids/Adult will do whatever they wanna do regardless of what you teach them
@@Pink_pr1ncessOh? So you are admitting that discipline is useless then?
This man needs an Oscar, he's way too good 😂
Exceptionally good !
The accuracy
For real
❤
Yup. I've said this before and I'll say it again. This kid needs to be in Hollywood❤
“Who the baby boyfriend daddy”😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
😭😭😭
Lmao I thought I only heard that….. I’m like what ??? 🤣🤣
That is exactly what they are!! 😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽
Oh so I did hear it correctly 😂😂😂
Preach on mama Jay. “You must get this from your daddy and them cause I have some sense except that I $”?! him” lol 😂
This felt so real. And honestly everything he said is true. I wanna be a mom one day and I know how much of a big responsibility it is. I really hope girls who see this make the right choice.
@The Lovely Life Aww that’s so sweet! 🥰 It’s always been my dream to be a mom one day. Must feel amazing ❤️
@The Lovely Life Good for you! Doesn't mean it’s that easy for everyone, so people should be well-informed before making the decision of bringing another human being into this crazy world.
I would be on the other side of the universe if I told my momma I was pregnant 💀😭🤣
i wouldnt even be inside the universe
@@camskayzz5169 i would be gone
SAME
I’m 39 years old, and even my mom would have kicked my ass lol
@@kimsy520 dang
“you thought you ate… you really ain’t gone be eating..” 😂😂😂
LMAOOOO
I was crackin upppp😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
if some1 say this to me I'd cry lmao
@@kikiayo. 🤣😭🤣😭 omg
This hit home, as in real life. Young ladies. Break the cycle. Be brave, and be strong for yourself.
I'm Mexican and this is exactly what my mom said 💀 🤣 she said I love you and ill always be here for you but I am NOT BABYSITTING TAKE CARE OF YOUR OWN, GOD BLESS HER . IT MADE ME THE MOTHER I AM TODAY . RESPONSIBLE.
K so can we talk about how he’s completely believable as two female characters with the facial hair?
🤣🤣🤣
I PREFER IT.
its because his acting skills are so good that we start to forget about the facial hair part. That's what good actors do. He's gifted with exceptional acting talent.
It’s like he doesn’t even have it!!!!!
@@ashgreene4914 seriously he needs his own show
“Go on to your temporary room cause you ain’t go be here much longer” Damn 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Momma right though. You wanna play like you’re grown, gone out there in the real world and be grown. I bet you that’ll give her a reality check. Tough love. I love that mom isn’t going to be letting her live home and take care of the baby while more than likely daughter gone be in the streets getting pregnant again. Nope!
I closed my eyes and just listened. Each character is so distinctive that I
Would never guess it was the same person playing the mother and daughter.
Ohhhhhh Lordt....Momma done gave the entire rundown like a soap opera..."gone to your temporary room...you're done!!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The way she knew something was up when she called her mother 😭😭
Why do black women dislike being called mother? I thought it was generational, but now I'm not so sure.
Lol mines think its creepy
@@arb6704 I don't get it. What's so creepy about it? Mine is okay with being called mum or mommy, but if I say mother she gets pissed...like the *no wire hangers" kind of pissed.
I dunno
@@AnNeachDorcha you're generalizing. I call my mom mother all the time and she doesn't dislike it. Some women may dislike it but it isn't a thing that "black women dislike"
My mom told me all this to warn me before I got pregnant! She was sure to tell me not to leave my future baby with her, no babysitting! 😂😂😂
He can make me laugh and he can make me cry and not matter what he posts I always forget that this is one man playing multiple parts, I get so drawn in and emotionally invested.
He’s a Genius.
"Now what the hell makes you think you could take care of a other human being. When you can't even take care of your damm self"
THIS GOT ME DYING 💀💀😭
"You're done."
It’s funny but at the same time it’s a common saying lol
🤦🏾i hate when adults say ima have kids in the future (even when i say i dont want to) . this is the reason😭i cannot take care of myself!! i cannot have a human dependent on me to live😭😭
😩😭😭😩😭😭😭
my mom always says that to me when I say I wanna have kids in the future💀
How can he look so motherly with that beard???? He looks more like a mother than my own mother 😭
omg 😂
😂😂😂😂
Lol😩😂😂🤔😂 I’m screaming😭😭
Jay makes it so real, it’s unbelievable, terrific acting, this is a hard topic but everything the mom is telling her daughter is too real! Jay should have his own show for real!!!!!!
And he isn't even Italian or Greek! Dem wimminz got herz on dey chinz😂
(And can take a joke)
This about made me cry. Great actor.
"Go to your temporary room" 🤣 Exactly! I have a 20 yr old daughter in college whom I scared with the reality of having a baby as a child by telling her everything I went through while pregnant with her at 17. If you're grown enough to make a baby, then you're grown enough to take care of it on your own. Great video and message!👏
My sister got pregnant at 23 and came home. My mother wouldn’t just abandon them
@@ahtaystamcauther9376 She was still living with yall? I understand If she was looking for apartments If not then was she like looking for a Job???
@@ahtaystamcauther9376 You're probably speaking from a dependent's standpoint. Those who have actually raised children know what I mean. It's not abandonment. Its simply forcing them to grow up since they made a grown-up decision. I will help my kids any way I can but I will not become their enabler.
@@ahtaystamcauther9376 sounds a bit enabling to me. Setting her up to have as much free time as she wants (built in free child care) to have more babies.
No this is a completely irresponsible standpoint. Of course teenagers shouldn’t be having sex, let alone unprotected sex, but as a parent you shouldn’t just kick your child out for “being grown”. When you become a parent you sign up to take care of that child til the day you die not until they’re 18 or make a mistake you don’t like
I like how this channel is comedic and speaks on things that happen in the black community
I do too but at the same time...how tf can you not see the dysfunction? Yet blk Americans will deny time and time again we have certain cultural dysfunctions that we are outright normalizing in today's day and age...
@@sabir1208 fr! Preach!
@@sabir1208 they also don’t believe in mental illness 🤦🏾♀️
This depends on the family not the race.
@@calebjacobs1933 but I guess it’s mostly common with blacks over there
This! This is spot on!!! My mom had this conversion when I was 14... She was very clear with what would happen if I got pregnant..
The way Jay embodies all these characters is mesmerizing.
"Are you stupid or just slow? : Had me dying 😂😂
My mom used to ask me this all the time lmao🤭
I got a little bit of sense cause I messed with your daddy🤣
screaminggggg! 😂😂
Right!!!!😂😂😂😂
It hit too 😂 I started looking around. We can’t get this real this early in the morning 💀
"You still got a bald spot under the wig"
Lmao why is this funny
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Loooool
She got pregnant by a no good ass nigga
Jay has to be one of the most talented writer/comedian around. Bravo 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Who da baby, boyfriend daddy???😂🤣🤣& You stl got a bald spot unda ur wig tho, WTH🤣😂🤣🤣SMH I swear he needs his Own sitcom cos it'll totally be a hit, F'real!!!💯🎬🫶🏽🤣😂🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😁🎉🎉🎉 #AndDaWinnerIz🏆
He is so AMAZINGLY TALENTED. I'd pay serious money to see him live in a play, or better yet a movie.
Agreed 💐💙🦋🇺🇲
agreed on that
Same
Same
He and all his characters are destined for it!
When they start touching the appliances you know they mad/disappointed
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The universal sign for black moms 🤣🤣
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Jay, this is so true! You are so talented!!!! This video is so informative & I thank you for posting it. This video is a strong message for our community, showing that when it comes to having a baby there are a lot of things that need to be taken into consideration. It’s more to it than pushing it out! Bless you for this!
"Are you stupid or are you just slow?" TOO FUNNY! "you got that from your daddy's side! OMGOODNESS!
"you thought you ate? yo ass really ain't gon' be eatin', hell"
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3:04 Homegirl started twerking on the Microwave 😭😭😭😭
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You're done 😂
Somebody please give this artist a film deal! These vignettes are hilarious! 😂👏🏾👏🏾
Watching this while eating breakfast with coffee...when she said 'Go to your temporary room...I spill coffee all over my counter "that took me out.. I hollered.
I just love how the moma keeps it all the way 💯💯💯 no matter what!!!❤️❤️❤️
Yeah, bcuz putting your child and grandchild out in the streets is love .
@@xclusivemahje2961 this
@@xclusivemahje2961 if she’s old enough to have a child she is old enough to find her own place.
@@coffeeandcream4704 PERIOD preach that Is very true I would say the same If my child said that to me and she said she was grown people got they own place
@@xclusivemahje2961 also what you guys don’t realize is the parent has already raised children for 18+ years, at this given point most parents are getting older and can’t afford to take care of another child, or even babysit. And why should they? Yes, it’s their grandchildren, but as I said they’ve already been through it all, and they shouldn’t have to take accountability for their child’s actions. Especially if they’ve educated the child about this. Now I do admit that throwing the daughter out is a little harsh, but at some point the child has to grow up, they can’t sit there and be a burden on their parents. Whether they’re pregnant or not pregnant.
The mom telling the truth tho, why the HELL do people have kids with men that done them wrong
manipulative teen boys pressuring girls to do it with them
I sadly know someone who went through this. Thankfully she & her kids are ok but it sucks ass that they're connected to this shitty dude for the rest of thier lives.
Its call trauma bond
Sex is a spiritual bond. Sometimes you can’t get enough and control yourself with that person in the bedroom even when they turn out to be a very bad person.
People don't educate themselves on the multitude of birth control options out there. They also aren't educated on abortions either. We fail to educate our youth and then they get pregnant. It is quite sad
Found her about 2 weeks ago. So hilarious. She has had me ball out in laughter in court. Crazy heffa got my phone taking away. I work with court system. Love and hugs. You make my day which means you make a difference.😘
IKR !! I’ve been binge watching since yesterday
Watching videos during work is not appropriate. If you don’t want to behave appropriately, court is the last place you should be working. How do you think the public is going to behave appropriately if the court staff is goofing off? Court and church are the only places left where any decorum is expected. It is not the damn circus.
This guy just nails it. Laugh or cry…it’s how it really is. Documentary.
You can always learn something from Jay's channel and he makes it fun to watch also. Love ya Jay.
Minimum wage really ain’t gonna do shit. Not on top of the phone bills and groceries n crap 😭 why is this too realistic
FR the baby need somewhere to sleep a carseat and when they get older gotta pay schooling fees MONEY is key
Jay nailed it. What a good and wise video to see I commend you for putting this out. It is well needed.
My momma always said, "You come in through one door with that kind of news and you go out the other door, so be sure to have your bags packed before you say anything." It worked.
Yep, our parents told us that becoming a struggle single mother would only lead to a life of regret. It worked and we went on to do great things.
Everything she told her is truth facts! I just thank God my mother didn’t put me out with my two kids. I worked she babysat at night it was hard but I made it,with God’s help and my mother!💕
God bless you your kids and your mom! That’s love right there 🙏🏾❤️
@@dyamondwhite3769 yes, my mom told me I’ll babysit for you going to work but not going out to party. I didn’t if I went to the movies or out to dinner I took my kids with me!
@@meoshaarnold9497 where was the father of the children?
@@djuanaberuk9908 Good point. My parents told us that they would not raise our children because their job was done. We didn't bring home any kids.
I had a mother like this, I hated her all through my teen years. We are "civil" now, but I can't stand her.
"I shouldn't have told you anything" is something I said one too many times growing up.
Why did you hate her?
Toxic mom
@@Murdermagictricks How can you love someone that doesn’t love and support you unconditionally?
She wasn't supportive? Or wasn't loving?
@@Murdermagictricks She was toxic, manipulative, hateful, and abusive. Everyone says "you should love your mother just because she's your mother." or "your mother is allowed to treat you however she wants, but YOU have to love and respect her no matter what." No, it doesn't work like that. All that does is build resentment.
“Ok you ain’t gotta bring up the past.” People always bring up other people’s past. I felt that . 🤣😂😅😩
I just LOVE your skits..they are ALWAYS on point; true, funny, flashbacks of time gone by and lessons to learn. Keep them coming
That "oh my---huh-ooooooooooohh lord" hit me too hard pleeeease stop emulating my mama the shakin and everything 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣
Yessssssss I swear I be hurt 😭😩😩😩
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“Ya daddy side nem family”. 🤣🤣🤣 He is hilarious 🤣
This is the funniest sketch so far love it!!! That’s an old school black momma.
Jay, your insights into the complexities of family relationships is astonishing. The writing is only rivaled by your acting. Bravo.
I would be dead if I told my momma I was pregnant 🤰🤰🤰
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the “mother” part was so known to me i started laughing.
“I was gone wait till the end of the summer but now……your done, your done “😂
"You still got a bald spot under the wig!" Had me gone.
This skit was funny , but it had a lot of truth in it! Too many young girls make “grown women” decisions with “a little girl “mentality . Real Talk !
Yesssssss we need more messages like this....Preach. I love it, our young woman really need to hear this......the is Facts and the message is very true. Pls Queens life gets real when you include a baby that you are not ready for. Once that baby come, it's no longer about YOU!!! Pls make more videos like this.
Great Skit! GREAT Acting! Just Outstanding!!!❤❤❤❤❤
“You thought you ate….yo ass really ain’t gone be eating”
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😂”Ima support you, the way I can and the way I want to!”😂❤️
You know that he sat around and heard all of this as a child 😂😂 the accuracy
💯 This one can save a bunch of young girls unnecessary hardship and heartache.
I hope no one of our generation thinks their mamas are going to be like their grandmas because they are NOT 🤣 They don't have any time to sit at home and take care of babies!
Listen when I found out I was pregnant my mama sat me down looked me in my eyes and said" I would never let my grandbaby go to the state but he will eat ramen noodles and watch SpongeBob I've raised mine I'll just be watching yours" lemme tell you baby that right there was enough🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣
Gen X is a failed generation
give this man his own show!
😂😂😂😂 this is a gaaag! It’s so accurate. Smh “Go on to ya temporary room!” 😂😂😂😂😂
I hope that we see this talent on the Big Screen soon soon his generation and mines( ol school) will enjoy him. Great job 👏 👍 ❤
If they don’t give this Man an Oscar…I’m going to Boycott.He is Amazing 💜🖤💜
“and speakin of, have you been lookin for places to stay?” kicked her out so discreetly lmao😂
He plays the characters really well!! Your channel is one of my favorites!
That mother’s advice is very spot on.
You know the acting is top tier when you’re emotionally invested in the story. 😭
This was a very strong message and I felt it in my bone marrow
Let me tell you I was 27 when I found out I was having my daughter and I was still nervous to tell my mother. My mom is pretty psychic and she kept saying that she was having dreams that I was having a child. She didn’t want me to have a child by that person, but eventually my mother came around. To this day I don’t like asking my mama for help or a lot of things or even to babysit I’ll let her offer first. Young girls like they got it all figured out with so they become a mother it either matures you or does not. My mom respects as a mom and that’s what I love.
Momma's dangly earrings was it for me lol you always make me laugh!!
She (“mother”) actually took it quite well. Considering the circumstances.
Your acting is superb.
it's taken to a whole other level when she starts: are you stupid? are you just slow? ... 😭😭😂 loveeeee these skits omg x
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The "I'm stupid cuz I done f'd your daddy' had me rolling!
There's no way that Jay hasn't witnessed this situation in-person at least 50 times....whether it's one of his friends, family members or hell, maybe he just be looking through his neighbors windows and eavesdropping...but how else could he do this so perfectly and accurate?!?
I was thinking the same thing. While watching it I said he had to be a witness to several of these conversations lol
Life experiences. I seen this all myself too
@Charlie Taylor but he is young
Wow This was so real and heart felt 💯 like this is so true the things mothers have to go thru to raise there children because you wanna raise your kids to be the best they can and not make the same mistakes we have. Our children grow up and think they know it all and make decisions without thinking things thru.
This gentleman is hilarious! Besides, he is realistic with everything he says!
"Aint this the same one u had to slash his tires out cuz u had went thru his phone?" How she remember that 😂😂
im almost 32 , live on my own and pay my own bills with no children. I am still terrified of telling my mom im pregnant lol.
This wasn’t funny, this was just really sad tbh. The amount of young girls that are probably going through this rn is heartbreaking. But I agree w the mother’s perspective in this video, y’all have to stop bringing these babies into the world when y’all are not in the right place in life to take care of them yet. This video should serve as a PSA to all of the youth finding themselves in this situation
It was funny but the truth at the same time it’s reality
I love this skit. It speaks volumes of 💯truth.
After watching this I realized my mom is a black woman in an Irish body. MY GOODNESS did you get this down pat LMFAO.
*"I'm pregnant, Mom."*
For a second, I thought mama was reaching for a knife 🤣😭
These videos are like comedy hour public service announcements. Only this one was pretty serious. Excellent videos
This was comedic, but so real!!!
God job!!!
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Well, the mom made sense with some of the things she said, but how do you expect to raise a daughter who makes good decisions when you never set the example for her? This mother regrets sleeping with the father and isn't shy about throwing this in her daughter's face. Maybe had she approached this as a learning opportunity instead of a way to put her down she could have helped her make better choices. I know this is fictional but this is so relevant to what a lot of young women are going through.
I just had a baby girl. She is exactly a week old today and I pray I never forget she didn't ask to be here. I hope that I help her to make good choices and when she doesn't, I am there to help her through the consequences she will face.
No, the mother doesn't have to be the glorified baby sitter, but she also doesn't need to put her out either.
And Jay, I just want to say that this clip speaks to your enormous talent! You are beyond this platform and I hope you can see that you have true star power. You deserve so much!! I don't think a 4 min clip has evoked such catharsis in me that I can recall! Im over here forming essays from this! 😂😂 Hats off to you!! So proud of you and all the work you do!
“Are u stupid,or are u just slow” Lmaoao I’m dying😭🤣.
Jay is really such a good actor...the script for the multiple characters is so real..Lilly Singh has this type of talent..really hopes he gets a big break