She Says Relationship, He Says Situationship

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  • The plaintiff dated the defendant but says they broke up because the defendant wanted to add another person to their relationship. She loaned the defendant money for a party promotion, but he hasn’t paid her back, so she’s suing. She also claims the defendant recorded them having sex, causing her emotional distress. The defendant argues the money was a gift. He insists the plaintiff knew he recorded them having sex. He’s countersuing for defamation.
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  • @mscarter624
    @mscarter624 Před rokem +348

    You can tell she loves the sound of her own voice....

  • @brandoni241
    @brandoni241 Před rokem +343

    If you have to say you're a positive person 3 times in 15 seconds, theres probably more instances of that person not being positive...

  • @1eaglefan960
    @1eaglefan960 Před rokem +257

    Both of them made me sick! I'm glad this case is over! She talk too much and he lied too much!

  • @bossladylong
    @bossladylong Před rokem +227

    It’s something about her that ain’t really sitting right 🤔🤔

    • @FinDom1
      @FinDom1 Před rokem +44

      She talks too much.

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE Před rokem

      She a closet freak that don’t want nobody to know. And she’s full of herself.

    • @kimf442
      @kimf442 Před rokem +7

      @@FinDom1😂😂😂

    • @jasonboy9676
      @jasonboy9676 Před rokem +5

      Obsessed? Women can be that as well.

    • @MyLocsRock
      @MyLocsRock Před rokem +22

      Too much boasting

  • @mrshappilymarried1
    @mrshappilymarried1 Před rokem +36

    My grandfather always told us "Anybody that talks too much aint got nothing to say..."😂😂😂

    • @itsmejaneasek
      @itsmejaneasek Před rokem

      I feel like this... and I talk to damn much

  • @Itsalla_blur
    @Itsalla_blur Před rokem +77

    "She was looking into the camera. She was taking care of your little business." 😂😂🤭🤭

  • @shandreialanee495
    @shandreialanee495 Před rokem +59

    Her salon ain't licensed or it doesn't exist. Who would turn down free promotion on a national television show? 😂 For the reason that she said, nope not buying it 😂

    • @Lovelyinspo
      @Lovelyinspo Před rokem +2

      😂

    • @mistasofly
      @mistasofly Před 11 měsíci +4

      Exactly! Cuz if the man really wanted to find out where her PUBLIC business is he could do it.

    • @Capo_dadon918
      @Capo_dadon918 Před 8 měsíci +8

      She literally said she didn’t want to disclosed her salon the fact she suing him pertaining to a sextape she didn’t want ppl to be like yea girl we heard of your salon due to you suing your ex about a sextape 😂😂😂

    • @genesewatson648
      @genesewatson648 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@Capo_dadon918thank you cuz they don’t get it lol

    • @lifeof.jariya3307
      @lifeof.jariya3307 Před 4 měsíci

      She literally said for safety reasons are you dumb?

  • @majesticmcfadden8585
    @majesticmcfadden8585 Před rokem +81

    The whole case gave me second hand embarrassment 😅

    • @mtuck1993
      @mtuck1993 Před rokem +1

      Whole case made me cringed

  • @bhornannawindeedeigh5007
    @bhornannawindeedeigh5007 Před rokem +133

    The plaintiff is totally giving me the creeps. 👀🤢😫 She's too self-involved to even listen to the judge.

  • @karendorsey4780
    @karendorsey4780 Před rokem +50

    They both got on my nerves! She talking too much! Him thinking he’s all that! And he’s not ! Please go to the next case!🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @mtuck1993
      @mtuck1993 Před rokem +1

      Whole case made me cringed

  • @danielle5391
    @danielle5391 Před rokem +108

    Man...she is super annoying. I'm surprised he didn't get them out of there earlier.

  • @NKAB4
    @NKAB4 Před rokem +135

    I don't see how ppl allow themselves to be recorded during sex...bt the way JM mocked how she looked into that camera took me out😂😂😂...

    • @minae9935
      @minae9935 Před rokem +20

      You can hide cameras in all sorts of ways now. There’s even regular looking glasses that record. Maybe we should be more concerned about people who record without consent.

    • @NKAB4
      @NKAB4 Před rokem +21

      @@minae9935 she knew she was being recorded...

    • @muskegontribune
      @muskegontribune Před rokem +19

      @@minae9935 She consented and looked in the camera for a glamour pose

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE Před rokem +27

      @@minae9935 ain’t nobody recording on no James Bond glasses. She a freak. She sent him 🍑 pics talkin bout “I miss you” . She a super freak and knew that video was about to be mentioned that’s why she didn’t wanna tell the name of her business.

    • @NKAB4
      @NKAB4 Před rokem +3

      ​@@SRT_DRE James Bond😂😂😂...

  • @britmax5341
    @britmax5341 Před rokem +73

    Once she got exposed for willingly doing the sex tape all that positivity went out the window

  • @kevinbrown6072
    @kevinbrown6072 Před rokem +62

    When someone owes money all of a sudden it's not a relationship, we were just friends

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Před rokem +7

      Yup! all of a sudden she's crazy. Pay this Lady and move on

    • @curtiswhiteheadjr1322
      @curtiswhiteheadjr1322 Před rokem +3

      Brothas should know by now. NEVER, outside of a Birthday and be suspicious then, accept gifts from a sexual partner. Get it together, my Brothas. ✊🏼

  • @jazzyjennshighway
    @jazzyjennshighway Před rokem +56

    The way judge posed when he said “you was looking into the camera” 😂😂😂 im sorry Maime but you must’ve been all in the camera lens lol

  • @reggiewalker1241
    @reggiewalker1241 Před rokem +79

    He's so full of himself. You are not impressive at all in the looks department. He needs to be begging her back.

  • @marskeins
    @marskeins Před rokem +54

    Both of them deserve each other. They need to stay together. Don't need this toxicity running rampant in the community.

  • @moneka1030
    @moneka1030 Před rokem +8

    She was taking care of your “little business” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ezell928
    @ezell928 Před rokem +74

    We be waiting on these episodes like a dope Fien 😂

  • @SgtWaters
    @SgtWaters Před rokem +20

    All that talking about school, then inspirational story about why she got a criminal degree, then she ends up a nail tech🙄.

    • @y_e_i8213
      @y_e_i8213 Před rokem +2

      In her defense she said that she had a salon and was opening a second one.

  • @iluvcmarie
    @iluvcmarie Před rokem +18

    Anybody saying they are a positive person that much isn’t that positive…poor daughter 😩

  • @veronicaramirez1975
    @veronicaramirez1975 Před rokem +30

    JM was bothered by the plaintiff because she talked right through him, trying to brag about himself, and she didn't pay attention to him, so he wanted to kick them out real quick!

  • @ahairysituation9337
    @ahairysituation9337 Před rokem +4

    You can tell she never stops talking…ever.

  • @jassymac
    @jassymac Před rokem +26

    Her: sues for the sex tape
    Judge Mathis:“ ma’am you looking at the camera”
    Her: “ I’m not here for this”
    😂😂 why bring it up then. You got busted

  • @robinwaley6850
    @robinwaley6850 Před rokem +8

    She's one of those people who MUST have the last word.

  • @aprila6628
    @aprila6628 Před rokem +36

    Gosh she doesn't listen worth a damn! Yip Yap Yip Yap!! Good gracious! Smdh

  • @marilynmiller9730
    @marilynmiller9730 Před rokem +31

    Did he say he missed 🤔 the "Booty"? So disrespectful 😒.

    • @donte53moore
      @donte53moore Před rokem +16

      I mean she did make a tape and sent just that booty 😂 she disrespected herself please preach modesty to ladies.

    • @muskegontribune
      @muskegontribune Před rokem +9

      She texted him a photo of her backside

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 Před rokem +1

      She sent him a photo of her booty, plus she allows him to make a sex tape of her.
      Sounds like she's the disrespectful one.
      Stop giving these trifling women passes.

    • @Jmarie0134
      @Jmarie0134 Před rokem +1

      I mean that’s why she sent the picture 😂😂😂

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Před rokem

      He's a clown

  • @jazzyjennshighway
    @jazzyjennshighway Před rokem +23

    Something seemed off to me the moment she didn’t take advantage of the promotion JM was trying to give her , due to a man. Like her business wouldve been flooded if she said business name like what can THAT man do so bad 😂

  • @truelight3325
    @truelight3325 Před rokem +87

    The way she tried to lie her way out of that sex tape as if he exploited her was the most interesting part of this whole case.

    • @coreyanderson5563
      @coreyanderson5563 Před rokem +6

      Which women do daily. She clearly didnt care about sendin him to prison on a 'me-too movement' type lie

    • @malcolmthompson7769
      @malcolmthompson7769 Před rokem +4

      Interesting? Did you mean nauseating, evil, demonic, dangerous, low caliber...?

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Před 9 měsíci

      @@coreyanderson5563 On a different but related subject. Do you know the HIGH statistics of how men are involved or causative factors in the imprisonment of women?

  • @malcolmthompson7769
    @malcolmthompson7769 Před rokem +17

    She was completely aware that filming someone having sex, without consent, was a crime, and she had no qualms about blaming him for doing so.
    That is some evil schit right there.

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man Před rokem +38

    Claimed to be inspired by the Judge and history but didn't know the college he attended. Won't give the name of the because of the defendant but claims they were in a serious relationship? Ok. She also said she didn't come to disrespect him AS she tries to imply he has a small penis. Lied about the revenge porn claim. She mentioned the word investment originally regarding the $1500 which usually means a share comes from profits or revenue (based on the agreement) but apparently it was converted to loan based on his lie about it being a gift. These promoters be broke as hell but women falsely assume they make bank because they are so flashy. Definitely agree with the judgment.

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE Před rokem +6

      Damn this is spot on lol

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 Před rokem +7

      She probably lied about going to college.

    • @isiahwarner3087
      @isiahwarner3087 Před rokem +8

      Exactly!! She's so is so full of herself and all about her own self promotions!! 🗣 ⚖️

    • @itsmejaneasek
      @itsmejaneasek Před rokem +1

      You broke it all the way down to the basics🎉

  • @jennifergraham5801
    @jennifergraham5801 Před rokem +20

    Girrrllll stop talking about yourself😂😂

  • @thi-thi48
    @thi-thi48 Před rokem +99

    Am I the only one that could care less sometimes about the these back stories that the plantiffs or defendants tell?

    • @RacieRain
      @RacieRain Před rokem +3

      Same

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE Před rokem +9

      If you wanna watch drama-less court shows watch Judge Judy.

    • @highlander666
      @highlander666 Před rokem +6

      you are not alone, especially when they start going over their entire childhood and/or resume

    • @mitulu74
      @mitulu74 Před rokem +3

      Yeah cause she dragged it 😫😫

    • @thinkglobalactlocal4898
      @thinkglobalactlocal4898 Před rokem +1

      nope pure exploitation, and ghetto in a Suppose to Be Formal Entity of JUSTICE,
      however reality tv and entertainment purposes it does bring LAUGHTER periodic which sooothes the soul

  • @Jmarie0134
    @Jmarie0134 Před rokem +8

    Whenever they say they positive they never are 😂😂😂😂

  • @dollarperlike4087
    @dollarperlike4087 Před rokem +5

    Who would really sleep with the defendant?! The plantiff 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @leahnole9771
    @leahnole9771 Před rokem +9

    I understand why she is proud of all of her accomplishments, she should be. She has done and accomplished a lot. That aside, she might not hear it, but she likes to brag on herself repeatedly and talk about herself a lot!

  • @datruestory968
    @datruestory968 Před rokem +8

    Imagine suing someone and that person show's the judge a video of you slurping them 😭😭😂😂😂

  • @user-iv1yi6cz7o
    @user-iv1yi6cz7o Před rokem +10

    PUT THEM BOTH OUT QUICK

  • @TheSolitary1
    @TheSolitary1 Před rokem +9

    Does she listen at all??

  • @mx6467
    @mx6467 Před rokem +13

    He’s abit too sassy for me…

  • @claragray8786
    @claragray8786 Před 8 měsíci +3

    How judge Mathis looked at the camera and instantly said what he saw had me crying 😂

  • @sincerelyyourscg8562
    @sincerelyyourscg8562 Před rokem +34

    Waiting on a new episode to watch every day after work and in the morning before geading out 😂

    • @HanifBarnwell
      @HanifBarnwell Před rokem

      New episodes? Where’ve you been these are old episodes and the show was cancelled

    • @teannapayne3367
      @teannapayne3367 Před rokem +1

      Glad to know I’m not the only one watching while I get ready for work in the morning 🩷

    • @mitulu74
      @mitulu74 Před rokem +2

      Yasss makes my day at work/gym workouts go faster 😂

    • @Realist79
      @Realist79 Před rokem +2

      ​@@HanifBarnwell cancelled and was picked up by another network.

    • @HanifBarnwell
      @HanifBarnwell Před rokem

      @@Realist79 do tell, which network?

  • @Tiffany-fo4zj
    @Tiffany-fo4zj Před rokem +6

    She is so annoying, a big liar , I can see right through her lol. The defendant he’s a liar too

  • @lishabell9812
    @lishabell9812 Před rokem +6

    She grinding my gears😂

  • @tayharris6673
    @tayharris6673 Před rokem +4

    “I’m a positive person”
    *Falsely accuses defendant of recording her during sex*

  • @undertakerfanz628
    @undertakerfanz628 Před rokem +11

    She saying he's very short but he's also short and fat so she should have known that from the get-go 😁

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 Před rokem +5

      She's no runway model herself...lol

    • @undertakerfanz628
      @undertakerfanz628 Před rokem +1

      @@tom11zz884 at least we can see her face let's see yours you have no profile pic for a reason 🤮

    • @wadilotus
      @wadilotus Před rokem +3

      @@tom11zz884 she’s beautiful and he’s a zesty penguin.

  • @Wdyrockstar
    @Wdyrockstar Před rokem +14

    She’s narcissistic 😅

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Před 9 měsíci

      I am weary of people throwing around that word as a one-size-fits-all condition for just about every and any negative human characteristic.

  • @Aatv2
    @Aatv2 Před rokem +13

    When you say I’m done lmfao judge say it was you looking right up😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Kee191
    @Kee191 Před rokem +6

    He got sugar in that tank I bet he wanted a dude in the room with them 😅

  • @CliniqueP
    @CliniqueP Před rokem +1

    Not “ma’am you were looking up into the camera while you were taking care of his LITTLE BUSINESS “ 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @ashajeremiahqw8775
    @ashajeremiahqw8775 Před rokem +2

    Never let a man tell you he don’t want you more than once Judge Lynn Toiler

  • @mistasofly
    @mistasofly Před 11 měsíci +3

    She turns down thousands of dollars in free promotion for her business because she's afraid of HIM? But she wasn't too scared to drag him to court behind some nonsense. This woman is a liar, probably aint even got no business.

  • @jysonbird9464
    @jysonbird9464 Před rokem +2

    Did anyone else think it was weird how many times she mentioned her daughter?🤔🤔😂😂

    • @keera2487
      @keera2487 Před rokem

      Her daughter may be the only child so she’s probably used to always talking about her

  • @ROSEMOORE35
    @ROSEMOORE35 Před rokem +5

    Lawd bless the man that can deal with that motor mouth she don’t even talk to listen just talk to talk

  • @brandancharles3292
    @brandancharles3292 Před rokem +3

    The plaintiff must want a cookie for her accomplishments. She said the shit 12 times

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 Před rokem +4

    I hate when people talk to just talk.
    Damn Matt Horowitz over here patting herself on the back.

  • @A.Sagittarius
    @A.Sagittarius Před rokem +4

    Ppl b killin me...talkn bout, "lil situation" or "we weren't together" thts y relationships dnt work out, nobody wanna keep it real!! If u mad say u mad, if u thirsty get a drink🙄

  • @mistasofly
    @mistasofly Před rokem +6

    Went to school for Crimimal Justice, but now works as a nail tech? Shows you how useless those degrees are unless you plan on following it up with something else.

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 Před rokem +2

      She owns the business and her Daughter works as a nail tech

    • @mistasofly
      @mistasofly Před rokem +3

      ​@@khrisi9410 Nothing to do with criminal justice though. She could have saved alot of time and money going to college for that, and just did the nail stuff from the jump then.

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 Před rokem +3

      @@mistasofly education overall is better for society. Seeking higher levels of education encourages people to create better lives for themselves. So many uneducated people out her with nothing to lose. Investing in one's self is never a mistake nor waste.

    • @mistasofly
      @mistasofly Před rokem +4

      @@khrisi9410 Sorry, but going to school spending thousands of dollars to get a useless degree is a bad "investment."

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 Před rokem +3

      @@mistasofly it's really not when people segway into careers and businesses they love. Education is never a waste.

  • @Pinkgirlyyyy
    @Pinkgirlyyyy Před rokem +2

    Girl just get straight to the point 💀

  • @APandTC
    @APandTC Před rokem +3

    I can’t believe Judge Mathis saw her looking into the camera. I cringed 😮

  • @isiahwarner3087
    @isiahwarner3087 Před rokem +9

    6:46......At that moment I knew this clown waa going to lose this case. Both the plaintiff and the defendant are video sex freaks. She claimed to be this wonderful person, doing great things, but brings that crazy ish to the courtroom!! 🤡 ⚖️

  • @SupremeBytes
    @SupremeBytes Před rokem +3

    She’s on my damn nerves😂 - just give her the money mayne 💀

  • @jazminemorris8427
    @jazminemorris8427 Před rokem +2

    Lord, they gave me a headache 😂

  • @derrickjones6442
    @derrickjones6442 Před rokem +7

    She talks too much

  • @barbarapaton4005
    @barbarapaton4005 Před rokem +4

    The defendant has some perverted tendencies

  • @samanthadawson3973
    @samanthadawson3973 Před 9 měsíci +2

    You looked right into the camera knowingly😂😂😂😂

  • @bresymone8761
    @bresymone8761 Před rokem +3

    Whew they both irked my nerves 😫😫

  • @StaceyWatchingVideos
    @StaceyWatchingVideos Před rokem +2

    I can tell by Judge Mathis pose what she was doing LOL yeah, she knew!!! Cause ain't no way you don't see the flash in ya eyes like that 😂😂😂

  • @mariannehappiness2227
    @mariannehappiness2227 Před rokem +1

    Mr.DOLE said ;he was so short ???😅😂😅

  • @MyGoodenessGracious
    @MyGoodenessGracious Před rokem +2

    Why does she keep saying tht?😩

  • @BoomBap75
    @BoomBap75 Před rokem +1

    "I was saying that I Miss Da Booty "😂😂

  • @onejohnson7202
    @onejohnson7202 Před rokem

    He said 10-15 missed calls. She says that’s a relationship. 😂😂

  • @adrianknight1406
    @adrianknight1406 Před rokem +21

    Now Mathis realizes how it feels when he speaks over the litigants because in this instance it happened to him. Furthermore he fronts as if he didn't want to see the pictures on the phone but knows good and well he does.

    • @FlowerChild36
      @FlowerChild36 Před rokem

      Blah blah blah. Every post you make you b*tch and complain about Judge Mathis. Obsessed much? If you dont like him then dont watch his show. Its as simple as that...

    • @NickysWorld88
      @NickysWorld88 Před rokem +2

      😂😂

    • @gongzilla527
      @gongzilla527 Před rokem

      He's the judge dumb as s, his job is to talk over the litigants. You can't possibly be this stu pid.
      SMFH

    • @tosha0508
      @tosha0508 Před rokem

      He looked at it for 2 secs. Its not like he was trying to get a cheap thrill on TV and in front of a room of people

  • @molisnia
    @molisnia Před rokem +1

    You may not see him again in your life, but he will see you....😁

  • @QueenSheba43
    @QueenSheba43 Před rokem +2

    Both of them were so annoying 😂😂😂

  • @squawprincess
    @squawprincess Před rokem +5

    Notice in the beginning the plaintiff has everything written down and referring to her notes a lot!
    I don’t know about you but I don’t need to jot down my life accomplishments….I mean I lived it….🤷🏽‍♀️
    It’s giving me narcissistic traits.
    Plus they LOVE to hear their own voice….

  • @kgraves_80
    @kgraves_80 Před rokem +2

    I'm glad she got what he said he was going to pay back.

  • @janaventransom6354
    @janaventransom6354 Před rokem +2

    Why do some of our men think it's ok to get money from women? Saying it like it's a good thing.

  • @melval4135
    @melval4135 Před rokem +2

    She switched her story up about the home movies.

  • @NewlifeNewbeginnings2
    @NewlifeNewbeginnings2 Před 10 měsíci

    “your little business”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @harmonynature1418
    @harmonynature1418 Před rokem +1

    Why is the Plaintiff constantly repeating the same thing while explaining her side?? So annoying😒😠

  • @KimSoMe00
    @KimSoMe00 Před rokem +1

    If he wanted to find her and destroy her business he would 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ she’s annoying

  • @meeksluvspink9047
    @meeksluvspink9047 Před rokem +8

    You stop the relationship because you like MEN😒

    • @justvee83m37
      @justvee83m37 Před rokem

      Right. He wanted someone else in the bedroom and she made sure she didn't mention the sex of the person

  • @erica8165
    @erica8165 Před rokem +2

    She was inspired by her brother's incarceration to pursue a crimjustice degree but got into beauty business. Getting a degree for nothing is a waste of time.

  • @vanessakenney3144
    @vanessakenney3144 Před rokem +3

    Sometimes I think Judge Mathis is stuck in the 70's when it comes to what he thinks a relationship is.

  • @shelocsher2396
    @shelocsher2396 Před rokem +1

    Whew, chile! They’re annoying as hell!

  • @ShineForlyn777
    @ShineForlyn777 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Sis, remember you have a 17 y.o. daughter who will see this and learn of the decisions her mother made concerning private matters that are egregious and simply embarrassing. You said, "lesson learned..., sis"? Come on..... Aggghhhhh!!!

  • @Londynlife206
    @Londynlife206 Před rokem

    Judge was sick of them 😂

  • @reneaford6138
    @reneaford6138 Před rokem +7

    Wheeew Jesus she all over the place 😔😔🙄🙄 but beautiful woman 🥰💖 ole dude seem lil sus 😂😂

  • @nikkibarnzable
    @nikkibarnzable Před rokem +1

    I knew judge was over them two minutes in he just needed the airtime for the show cause he shooda dismissed this case ASAP

  • @kiatarobinson6306
    @kiatarobinson6306 Před rokem

    WAIT HE GOT A PHONE OR A LITTLE REMOTE 🤣 cuz that ain’t no dam phone he passed to judge Mathis 🤣

  • @Numiful
    @Numiful Před rokem

    “im a business man” 😂

  • @laceyfudge5748
    @laceyfudge5748 Před rokem +1

    Yeah the judge was right they talk too much😂

  • @lynnlynn7228
    @lynnlynn7228 Před rokem +1

    He putting me in the mindset of Curtis Payne 😂😂😂

  • @autumnparker7169
    @autumnparker7169 Před rokem

    “Taking care of your little business “😭😭😭😭😂😂😂

  • @lakiareed9725
    @lakiareed9725 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This is why I don't send pics to men or take videos with them

  • @thatbaldfisherman4980
    @thatbaldfisherman4980 Před rokem +2

    "I miss the BOOTY"!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @rob14roc
    @rob14roc Před rokem

    Y'all both need to go separate ways, period!!!!!

  • @dadabg8747
    @dadabg8747 Před rokem

    Taking care of your lil business... 😂 😂 😂 😂 Head must been crazy

  • @mkm6783
    @mkm6783 Před rokem +1

    Regardless of how JM personally feels about sex tapes, revenge porn is ILLEGAL. & the way he always ignores that in order to teach women a lesson is disgusting.