How to find therian friends. Do’s and donts

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  • čas přidán 11. 07. 2023
  • Hello making therian friends is really hard since therians are really rare and mis understood.
    Its pretty dangerous and hard to find other therians so keep that in mind!
    I hope you enjoyed and found this useful
    This video is part of my series the therian den.
    Its a safe place for therians where you can do other stuff then quadrobics.

Komentáře • 588

  • @zysole
    @zysole  Před 10 měsíci +663

    What ive also heard about is to wear your gear on carnival or halloween. Its a good idea but i recommend putting a therian sign on your mask to be extra.

    • @sl3epystarz
      @sl3epystarz Před 8 měsíci +18

      wait u celebrate carnival too?

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +42

      Im dutch so yes

    • @sl3epystarz
      @sl3epystarz Před 8 měsíci +12

      @@zysole wait im dutch too!!!

    • @sl3epystarz
      @sl3epystarz Před 8 měsíci

      @@zysole I FOUND A DUTCH THERIAN YIPEEE S,DCJNWIJNDWIJNDE

    • @miaandeevee3608
      @miaandeevee3608 Před 8 měsíci +9

      @@zysoleI’m a bit Dutch and a bit aboriginal:)

  • @user-bz1ym1bs7x
    @user-bz1ym1bs7x Před 4 měsíci +66

    My territory is near a dirt footpath, and a few weeks ago I was sitting near my den by the creek doing some vocals and quads. I was doing all my normal stuff and then I didn't notice a boy walking around the bend. When I finally noticed him he was standing there staring at me, and I felt kind of startled and awkward because usually I don't let anybody know I'm a therian. He waved, and I waved back, and he asked me to show him how I did my howl and my quads and said that I was amazing at it. I said Ok, and we sat there for like, 10 Minutes just practicing and laughing with each other. Then he had to leave, and sadly I never saw him again.
    This will be a memory that I will never forget as a therian, and I wish more people could take the lead of this boy and just show some kindness to therians.

  • @velvemeen.
    @velvemeen. Před 8 měsíci +190

    I personally wear a little bracelet that says “therian” on it, most people don’t notice or really don’t care. Since most people don’t know about therians, I believe if you wear little accessories that only therians will most likely know about could help you find some therians (like it said in the video).

    • @Jayxize
      @Jayxize Před 7 měsíci +8

      Omg so do I!! My bracelet also has my theriotypes colour pallette!

    • @sunny_on_paws.
      @sunny_on_paws. Před 5 měsíci +2

      I do too!!!!

    • @whereslemons_paws
      @whereslemons_paws Před 4 měsíci +4

      my therian classmate noticed the symbol i drew on my hand

    • @kiybutterfly3663
      @kiybutterfly3663 Před měsícem

      @@whereslemons_paws omg! I hope you’re friends now

    • @RukaTea
      @RukaTea Před 4 dny

      My friend (who’s against therians n furries) asked what it meant and I went, “uh, I dunno I made this a long time ago, probably a demon slayer character??😅😅)

  • @k9_byt3zz
    @k9_byt3zz Před 8 měsíci +87

    hey, please dont discourage ppl from wearing gear in public!! of course, it should be done safely (only do it in very public environments, where there are a lot of ppl around, and its good to have a friend with you), but it can be really fun!! it is good to warn ppl that they might get weird looks or ppl might say weird things, or you might get filmed, but personally, i dont really mind that, and ive worn my gear in public a lot, and never had any major issues.
    posting your state/city online also is a good way to find therians, and safe, cause there's thousands of people in even the smallest cities, so there's no way someone will just be able to find you. just dont post your address.
    also, please dont call therians 'rare'. we're not pokemon, theres no way to know how many therians there are, cause some arent awakened, and some prefer not to tell anyone, which is fine ofc. calling therians rare is just kinda weird tho, tbh.
    this is not meant in a mean way, i really like the necklace idea, and videos like this can really help therians, but only if done in the right way. pls do some more research next time!! :3

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +17

      I did do tons of research. And i myself live in a place where there are kids that could film you. Therians are indeed not common though. There are many people in the world. Therians only make a very very small percentage of that. People can be unaware of kids or people that would want to film you. Posting abt ur state and city rl depends on where u live and how big it is. What i mean by therians being rare is def not abt pokemon. What i mean is there are very little therians in this world compared on how many humans live here.

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +8

      But yeah i myself im not a big fan of this vid and want to make a new one.

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +7

      Plus if u want to find local therians its beter to look up any therians --- if ur a bit older bc you can get actuall huge therian meets

    • @kandikid372
      @kandikid372 Před 7 měsíci +4

      i absolutely hate it when therians tell other therians to not wear gear in public

    • @mikatheperson
      @mikatheperson Před 6 měsíci +3

      Absolutely not. I find that a lot of therians are minors. It’s best to err on the side of caution and never reveal where you live. You put something on the internet, it never goes away. We need to teach minors internet safety!

  • @Peachy_Aki_XD
    @Peachy_Aki_XD Před 5 měsíci +26

    I was at school and I had a therian sign on my hand and a kid saw it and said "You're a therian? I am too!" Then we became friends.

  • @The_BMC_offical
    @The_BMC_offical Před 6 měsíci +14

    TO ALL THERIANS!!! on november 27th its therian day were therians do quads and vocals to find other theians you can were your gear if you have some and even draw the therian symbol on the back of your had to let people/therians know who you are! make sure to resay this all over youtube and tiktok so more people know! have a nice day!

  • @Arctictherian-ym9zd
    @Arctictherian-ym9zd Před 9 měsíci +138

    I have a mask bc i told my mom I was a furry (i am a furry and a therian) and she bought me the mask bc she thinks it's a cheap fursuit

    • @Arctictherian-ym9zd
      @Arctictherian-ym9zd Před 9 měsíci +18

      Yes I like my own comments bc I'm lonley as hell

    • @NorthJet
      @NorthJet Před 9 měsíci +9

      @@Arctictherian-ym9zddw i liked it

    • @Theo._.the._.flo0f
      @Theo._.the._.flo0f Před 9 měsíci +6

      Same

    • @Ki_trees
      @Ki_trees Před 8 měsíci +4

      Smart

    • @Theo._.the._.flo0f
      @Theo._.the._.flo0f Před 8 měsíci +8

      @@xXrandomsXx aw I have an idea you say you want to be (your theriotype) for Halloween and ask to buy a mask and stuff. For quads (if you want to do them) ask to go to a nearby park alone and pack your gear in a bag if you want then put a water bottle in the water bottle hole on the bag and say your going to the park same with vocals that’s what I do personally❤

  • @mulameow3209
    @mulameow3209 Před 8 měsíci +75

    I am an Ocelot therian, And I Caught one of my classmates doing quads once, and even DRAWING FURRIES!! So, I got the strength to Ask them if they were a therian ( Which is a bad idea) And they were not a therian, But Infact a Furry who likes quads, But its still really cool! Were very good friends now :D

    • @I-ArgueWithPeopleOnTheInternet
      @I-ArgueWithPeopleOnTheInternet Před 8 měsíci +11

      That's awesome! I would like to have a friendship like that lol

    • @taraseomalley355
      @taraseomalley355 Před měsícem

      I want a furry/alterhuman friend (im just a furry quadrobist but alterhuman friends would be pawsome!!)

    • @luhvwolf.
      @luhvwolf. Před 10 dny

      y'all I awakened in Feb 2023. In April 2024, I told my lifelong best friend. Shes one too! We've been friends since we were born and this information is crazy to both of us. We now do quads together, and there's a park nearby with a HUGE forest behind it. The rocks are giant and they hang over the rest of the forest, kind of like a loft made out of just rocks. It's our go-to, and I couldn't be more grateful to have a friend like her. 💗

    • @W31RD_P3RS0N_
      @W31RD_P3RS0N_ Před 10 dny

      Cool!! I think there is actually a label for that called otherpaw which means a person who strongly identifies *with* one or multiple animals but not as them. Like for instance I might wear gear and do quads and vocals but I don't identify as a raccoon. Strongly identifying with the animal means relating to it a lot in everyday life. Basically for anyone who wants to join the therian community but obviously cant or doesnt want to identify as an animal. Its fully optional to use the label though.

    • @mulameow3209
      @mulameow3209 Před 10 dny

      @@W31RD_P3RS0N_ Yes I know! I found Out About that!

  • @4ng3l-lvrr
    @4ng3l-lvrr Před 8 měsíci +45

    TIP: If you do use the therian sign. do not make a big deal if someone says ''omg its satans sign!!" ignore hate. they want a reaction. they are insecure and boost the algorithm actually if they comment.

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +8

      Yeah thats the only thing im afraid of

    • @Anythingispossibleifyoubelive
      @Anythingispossibleifyoubelive Před 4 měsíci +4

      That happen to me at school 😭 I told them that I prayed to God not the devil

    • @FoxTailNyx
      @FoxTailNyx Před 2 měsíci +3

      What if your mom said its the "satans sign"??
      she also prob doesnt know what a therian is tbh, and she hates the "Furry related crap" and my parents dont support at all, I just with I had a irl Therian friend who has supportive parents that lived in my area😭😭😭

  • @MOUSEBRAINED_MUSHR00M
    @MOUSEBRAINED_MUSHR00M Před 8 měsíci +59

    I have made two therian friends at school. How? Uh, I don’t really know. They just were like “I’m a therian do you know what that is?” And we became friends. Both of them said I was the only one in school who knew. So idk -

    • @calico.dancin
      @calico.dancin Před 5 měsíci +3

      Oh, my friend one day just sent me a message.
      Me: Bai
      Her:Bai
      a btw
      i'm a therian
      And then we called and I told her I'm too and yeah, now we do quads and voicals at school >:3

    • @MOUSEBRAINED_MUSHR00M
      @MOUSEBRAINED_MUSHR00M Před 2 měsíci

      @Thegaesilly yeah I wnna do that when my shoes are older

  • @macat3698
    @macat3698 Před 8 měsíci +47

    Another tip!
    I like to use some gloves I have, wich have a paw pads on them, to both express that I´m a furry and a therian. Most people won´t think a lot abt it, but therians or furries might keep an eye on it.
    If they ask you why you´re using it, simply respond with "I like them" or "It´s kinda cold today" or something else.
    It´s a quiet but noticeable way of showing that you´re a therian\ furry!

    • @R0tt1ng-away
      @R0tt1ng-away Před 4 měsíci

      Another thing, if someone asks why you have asks about the mark on your hand that is really the therian mark just say "oh this, it's from Harry potter, deathly sign i forgot what it's called" I've done this before so

    • @macat3698
      @macat3698 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@R0tt1ng-away Yeah, that´ll work too! They´re both very similar, and it´s a good cover up. Nice tip, thanks!

    • @R0tt1ng-away
      @R0tt1ng-away Před 4 měsíci

      @@macat3698 yesss

  • @CryptidChaoss
    @CryptidChaoss Před 8 měsíci +74

    Thank you so much for all the tips, it's really hard to find other therians, especially where I live. It's not safe to do most of the things in this video where I live, but the writing in chalk and necklace ones are my best bets! thank you once again!

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +8

      Its nice u got some ideas

    • @Quacky10
      @Quacky10 Před 7 měsíci +3

      ​@@zysoleI don't believe in the therian beleif, but i love and respect you guys so much that i started doing quads, can i still make friends who are therians as a person who just does quads?

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@Quacky10 of-course

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@Quacky10 theriantrophy aint a belief though

    • @haleysummers8268
      @haleysummers8268 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@Quacky10 yea its a identity more so

  • @peacefurs
    @peacefurs Před 8 měsíci +30

    1. Go to therapy.
    2. Ask if therapist has openly therian clients.
    3. Set up a duo meeting with any therian clients that may exist
    4. Friends
    This is how mine went
    Edit: since people are stupid, THERAPISTS WONT ALWAYS HAVE OTHER THERIAN CLIENTS. DONT BLAME ME. Also, this is NOT HATE. If you read the entire thing, you would know that this is how *I* made a therian friend.

    • @lavenderrrcucumberzzz
      @lavenderrrcucumberzzz Před 7 měsíci +3

      Wait- actually??

    • @peacefurs
      @peacefurs Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@lavenderrrcucumberzzz yup c:

    • @-catlove64-
      @-catlove64- Před 6 měsíci +1

      is this hate or? Cause I seriously can't tell

    • @w1ld_R0nn13
      @w1ld_R0nn13 Před 6 měsíci +4

      I’ll admit you had me at the therapy one💀

    • @peacefurs
      @peacefurs Před 6 měsíci

      @@-catlove64- no it’s not lol- it’s literally how I met my therian friend

  • @somerandomgirl2656
    @somerandomgirl2656 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Advice on how to meet online therians SAFELY:
    Just a point of view from someone whose been stalked, lives in a dangerous area for anyone (even people who don't stand out from a crowd, as there's a lot of violence in my town), studied the psychology and habits of criminal stalkers and how the internet is their biggest tool, and I've met up with a few people online and fully agree using an online presence to find friends is a good thing. Just need to be safe :3
    That said, public comments are NOT safe places to state any personal information including vague mentions to location. I've been found three times by people with malicious intentions from my art socials and Instagram, and the fact they used nothing but a state and my content (which I'm always careful with) to send me my own address was HORRIFYING! Big scary. Freaking gross. Didn't sleep that night.
    Therians, furries, and LGBTQ+ people are sadly targets by some really creepy, dangerous people. But that's okay, because we're smarter✨ just advertise that you're looking to meet local therians and ask to move details shared to dms ONLY after talking for at least three days online. Go over profiles and make sure they seem legit. Talk about boundaries and what you expect out of meeting someone online. And of course, meet in groups and public spaces, have your location turned on for your family and friends just in case, and don't get in anyone's car because they seemed alright after a few hours. I did that too...had to kick a guy in the face in his own truck after he wouldn't take me back to my car and got handsy.
    Meeting therians online is a great idea. Just know that stalkers can find you even without posting info sometimes. If you go out in gear, just know what areas have high crime rates and check for posted offenders living nearby. If someone films, keep your masks on and don't use your names. Most importantly (and surprisingly fun!) MAKE ESCAPE PLANS! It's always good to know how you're getting out when panic could make you freeze. Plan with your friends how you'd escape the area and get to safety if someone approached. I do this with my besty on trails and we end up looking around for short cuts, finding obstacles we could get around fast, and water to cross/where these places lead.
    I have been in SO. MUCH. DANGER.
    Please PLEASE take this advice.
    Also important, FACE TIME, VIDEO CHAT, IDENTITY CONFIRMING PICTURES. Never meet someone without both speaking over a video call. If they refuse to show their face, that's not safe. Doesn't matter the reason. If someone wants to meet you and won't show their face before hand, that's very sketch. Run. I don't care if they're nice, or have a good excuse, or their friends added you and seem normal. DON'T. EVEN. THINK ABOUT IT.
    Okay and that's how not to get kidnapped from someone who's already done all the wrong things ✨💛✨
    Stay safe!

    • @R0tt1ng-away
      @R0tt1ng-away Před 4 měsíci +3

      These are great tips! And it must be hard being stalked and I go you are doing well! AND WHY ARE ESCAPE PLANS SO KICK FUN TO MAKE! EVEN WHEN PLAYING TAG ITS FUN TO MAKE ESCAPE PLANS IDK😂😂❤❤❤

    • @4lmOnD_0nPxWz
      @4lmOnD_0nPxWz Před měsícem

      Honestly before i saw this comment i met my bestie online somehow following all these tips, now its been a healthy friendship for 4 or 5 months and weve been face timing, playing roblox, etc, we sadly cant meet irl, YET! At first our friendship was completely secret then she js told her parents and family she was on a call w/ me and my dad prob saw one day but he prob alr forgot, anyway, surprisingly she lives nears me!, ive also lived in dangerous areas, and well anyway weve js been friends for a while and somehow work it out bcz we're COMPLETE opposites- well not completely opposite- anyway sry for tmi-

  • @Livs_spacedragons
    @Livs_spacedragons Před 4 měsíci +5

    I have another tip:-the therian mark-if your ever in a store , (make sure you have a sticky note),go to pet aisle or arts and crafts aisle, draw the the Therian sign and stick it somewhere (make sure it’s hidden so workers don’t throw it away) , check it so see if there’s anything added to it.(I suggest to to do both aisles incase they go to one of them.)(there is chance that they will still be in the store)

  • @The_Infamous_Crew
    @The_Infamous_Crew Před 9 měsíci +81

    as a person that is a beginner therian but literally acted like a dog toward some of my friends and already showed my crawling on fours side, I see these tips very helpful ^^

    • @Twojelokalnefutro
      @Twojelokalnefutro Před 9 měsíci

      begginer therian? not to be rude but it sounds like you're a fake therian. . .

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +5

      Yeah

    • @The_Infamous_Crew
      @The_Infamous_Crew Před 8 měsíci +9

      @@Sproutfox ah sorry i dint know it was called like that but thank you for correcting me ^^

    • @CryptidChaoss
      @CryptidChaoss Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@Sproutfox I just recently found this out about myself too, thank you for the better vocabulary!

    • @Warrior_map_parts
      @Warrior_map_parts Před 7 měsíci +9

      aa I think your just doing quadrophobics? (this is not hate just spreading information) but being a therian is identitying as an animal spiritually, mentally, etc.An example would be for me I believe that I have the wrong body, kinds like im trapped in another body snd i can't escaoe rlly ig.A lot of misinformation is spread on TikTok and stuff that a therian is someone who wears gear or something but I'm a therian and I don't wear gear or do quads as they are only a way some people use to connect to their theriotype. But uh yeah just a note that a therian is not someone who just walks on all fours and wears animal masks and stuff.

  • @gr4veyards0uls
    @gr4veyards0uls Před 8 měsíci +14

    i recently found out one of my best friends is a therian, and im a lynx one, and we might do quads together sometime!! :D

  • @Puppet_Dragons333
    @Puppet_Dragons333 Před 9 měsíci +25

    My friend today found a therian im the halls of the school and I’m so jealous and I wanna meet her!

    • @Puppet_Dragons333
      @Puppet_Dragons333 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Sadly I have 2 buildings of my school and one building (the one I’m in) Has two different sections and she in the other section so I won’t be able to meet her..

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@Puppet_Dragons333 i also had a school like that but you guys can meet in outside time?

    • @Puppet_Dragons333
      @Puppet_Dragons333 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@zysole Sadly no because we have different groups of people for the separate parts of the building:(

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@Puppet_Dragons333 oh. Maybe after school

  • @Onesayaday_101
    @Onesayaday_101 Před 4 měsíci +5

    The thing is, I love in a village full of old people-

    • @iiwnvqt
      @iiwnvqt Před 23 dny

      damnn, mines a town and my country literally has super rare therians (somewhere in asia)

  • @Not_.star.umbreon-
    @Not_.star.umbreon- Před 8 měsíci +17

    My friend is a therian, we were friends before she knew that

  • @IremAnthem
    @IremAnthem Před 8 měsíci +10

    another thing: its kina random but if anyone asks what the therian symbol is than say its the thing from harry potter it looks similar so they wont question it and its an easy way to get out of potential trouble

    • @GrapeRobin
      @GrapeRobin Před 6 měsíci

      true but what if they tell other ppl that when theyre around n someones asking or in general

    • @IremAnthem
      @IremAnthem Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@GrapeRobin if more people think it's the Harry Potter symbol the better because if someone who isn't even a hater knows what it is they could tell others who could start something and a therian would know what it is

  • @paws-of-moon
    @paws-of-moon Před 8 měsíci +5

    My small neighborhood with only 10 houses is filled with a bunch of kind elderly people, some crazy suburban white boys, and a exorcist demon kid that lives next door to me.

  • @cr0wb3rry
    @cr0wb3rry Před 8 měsíci +20

    i live in a very racist, unaccepting town and go to a school thats the same, so i doubt ill be able to find any therian friends nearby but i always try and wear my gear in public where i can and go to public parks to do quads and stuff often so hopefully i might find someone! im getting my first tail soon so that will make things more easy for me than just wearing my masks everywhere

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci +3

      Its awful that your town is so racist i hope you can find some people like you

    • @hexxyhexxy
      @hexxyhexxy Před 8 měsíci +1

      Is that in Arkansas?

    • @ellie_thetherian
      @ellie_thetherian Před 8 měsíci

      same kinda ppl call ppl monkeys and all that

    • @GrapeRobin
      @GrapeRobin Před 6 měsíci

      well saying monkey isnt THAT racist i say it too as a joke and its an inside joke to me and my siblings too but yeah@@ellie_thetherian

  • @Fr34ksh0w_C1rcu5
    @Fr34ksh0w_C1rcu5 Před 8 měsíci +20

    I customized some shoes to resemble paws and have the therian and otherkin symbol on them, this can also help you find other therians/otherkin

  • @izz.da.rizzla
    @izz.da.rizzla Před 8 měsíci +15

    I have a cat therain friend at school, once school holidays are over I’m gonna try this! Tysm btw!

    • @char259
      @char259 Před 6 měsíci

      I’m a cat Therian too!

  • @Lynx.from.h3ll
    @Lynx.from.h3ll Před 9 měsíci +23

    another tip!!!!!
    coventions!! i made 10 therian friends by wearing gear to a con stay safe!

  • @auggie_on_paws
    @auggie_on_paws Před 9 měsíci +32

    therian in ohio here :)
    i'll definitely be making a symbol to wear with me! :D

    • @xX-PebbleDream-Xx
      @xX-PebbleDream-Xx Před 8 měsíci +3

      im from ohio too!! i wont share where bc safety and stuff but I'll make one too! It would be so cool if we see each other=D

    • @theoneandonlyspider
      @theoneandonlyspider Před 8 měsíci +3

      i hate that people who actually live in ohio or alabama get disrespect for it :/

    • @xX-PebbleDream-Xx
      @xX-PebbleDream-Xx Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@theoneandonlyspider yea=

    • @pouncerpaws
      @pouncerpaws Před 8 měsíci +2

      I'm from michigan!! ❤

    • @BeeOnPawz
      @BeeOnPawz Před 8 měsíci +2

      ​@@theoneandonlyspider
      i live very close to alabama, in north Florida, and ppl still say that I date my cousins and stuff :'(

  • @TennisBallFromTpot
    @TennisBallFromTpot Před 7 měsíci +6

    one thing is that i’m glad i started reading a book series, i found s9me9ne who read it, we are great best friends and it turns out she is a therian! though 8m not a therian, i’m passionate about quads, she does them too! :)

  • @snakez_pelt
    @snakez_pelt Před 7 měsíci +6

    BRO I HAVE A THERIAN SIGN IN MY HAND AND I GO TO SCHOOL EVERYONE GOES LIKE: oh! Bill Cipher sign

  • @rowanisafox
    @rowanisafox Před 5 měsíci +7

    Thanks! I'm still debating whether or not I'm a Therian (which, I think I am but I never have any wacky past life dreams or anything that people talk about so much) and I really could use some real-life advice from a Therian. Luckily, if I am one, it seems my other friend might be one too!

    • @aekie._.onpawzz
      @aekie._.onpawzz Před 4 měsíci

      to be a therian you dont need to have past life dreams or shifts :3

    • @Tealfierce
      @Tealfierce Před 4 měsíci +1

      Same- I think I might be an otter therian because I was like drawn to them recently, and whenever I see one I feel like that should be me- idk I’m still trying to figure it out

    • @rowanisafox
      @rowanisafox Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Tealfierce if you get animalistic urges then you are considered a therian (: if that helps at all

  • @_P0s3r_paw3d_
    @_P0s3r_paw3d_ Před 6 měsíci +6

    What i usually do is wear a hairclip of the therian symbol and i usually wear my gear in public places! Hope this helps some new therians

  • @FireBunnyOfficial
    @FireBunnyOfficial Před 8 měsíci +9

    I made my *First therian friend at school today!!!* I’M SO HAPPY :D

  • @Silver_untam3d
    @Silver_untam3d Před 8 měsíci +7

    i trusted my friend and told her i'm a therian and now shes bullying me :(

    • @ReaperMutt
      @ReaperMutt Před 8 měsíci +5

      Shes not your friend then. It may be hard to accept but if being a therian causes your friend to bully you, she wasnt really there to begin with.

    • @Silver_untam3d
      @Silver_untam3d Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@ReaperMutt ok

  • @robinerickson7119
    @robinerickson7119 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I randomly found out my friend and her other friends wich is a huge friend group are also therians in my area and that made me pretty happy bc of how “rare” being therian is

  • @user-xv8vi4re5w
    @user-xv8vi4re5w Před 8 měsíci +7

    the way I immediately clicked this tells me how desperate I am (I need more therian frens)

    • @ZeelynDaZee
      @ZeelynDaZee Před 4 měsíci

      I would definitely be freinds qwq (in I’m tn and there seems to not be any)

  • @Potato_Lord-No.1
    @Potato_Lord-No.1 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I'm a NY therian, trust me it's so hard to get therian friends..
    Hopefully I'll get one soon :)

    • @rivormist
      @rivormist Před 3 měsíci

      Same… I’m a NY therian too and I know it’s not safe to say that online but there’s a *lot* of people in this state.

    • @Potato_Lord-No.1
      @Potato_Lord-No.1 Před 3 měsíci

      @@rivormist true haha

    • @rivormist
      @rivormist Před 3 měsíci

      @@Potato_Lord-No.1 like- Times Square?! That place is crazy 😭

    • @Potato_Lord-No.1
      @Potato_Lord-No.1 Před 3 měsíci

      @@rivormist I don't live in NYC, just NY lol

    • @rivormist
      @rivormist Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@Potato_Lord-No.1 yeah same but I grew up in NYC I just moved to NY last year

  • @R4inb0WGUTZ_d0tz1p
    @R4inb0WGUTZ_d0tz1p Před 3 měsíci +2

    Not long ago I went to a ice skating rink and I was wearing a tail, and I saw someone else with a tail, and finally got the courage to ask them if they wanted to be friends- one of them is a therian and one of them is a furry, and we are now friends thankfully x3

    • @pancake-yum
      @pancake-yum Před 6 dny

      I want to do this but my parents won't let me buy a tail so I have to wait until Im done making one which is taking FOREVER and a TON of yarn but i'll do it

  • @_SilverTheFox_
    @_SilverTheFox_ Před 6 měsíci +2

    my mom hates all things therian but which the little signs and jewelry she just thinks it’s a sign and i wanna say thanks for this

  • @Jade_lovesthekrew
    @Jade_lovesthekrew Před 4 měsíci +2

    as a therian, this is so helpful! tysm!

  • @The-Bear-Girl
    @The-Bear-Girl Před 5 měsíci +3

    I think I got lucky lol as my sister is a therian and we like to goof around as Therians together lol

  • @scottfamily1684
    @scottfamily1684 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Im a newly awakened therian but i don't know how to tell my parents. I am also scared to tell my friends. Only my sister knows.
    I can't do quads in public because i dont have a mask and i can't go out by myself and I could get bullied.

    • @-Soiar-
      @-Soiar- Před 7 měsíci

      @scottfamily1684 so since it is near halloween and you don't want to tell them tell them that you want to dress up as an animal and than that animal can be your theriotype! also I made a mask outa cardboard and styrofome! Its simple and for the tail possibly use something long

    • @iiwnvqt
      @iiwnvqt Před 23 dny

      fyi , u dont have to do quads or wear gear (like tails, claws, mask etc) or have shifts to be a therian! (i'm not saying we can ''become'' one btw)

  • @Clouderz
    @Clouderz Před 7 měsíci +3

    i remember going to an amusement park for my birthday, my birthday is in october so there was a scare fest in the theme park and lots of people were dressed up. I saw one or two people with masks on that many therians wear and i wish i wore a mask… Or at least just talked to them. I wish i brought something to resemble therianthropy because i’m so desperate to have a therian friend.
    Sadly i don’t actually have masks or gear because i’m a shrimp therian, I’m not a mammal or reptile. So IDK what i would do tbh.

    • @GrapeRobin
      @GrapeRobin Před 6 měsíci

      just put gear and if they ask tell them ur a shrimp therian but tryna be noticeable to therians

    • @Clouderz
      @Clouderz Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@GrapeRobin I don't own gear and my family wouldn't allow me to wear any in public

    • @GrapeRobin
      @GrapeRobin Před 6 měsíci

      @@Clouderz i dont have any either and my parents dont support either

    • @Clouderz
      @Clouderz Před 6 měsíci

      @@GrapeRobin are you sure you don't have gear? 🤔...

    • @GrapeRobin
      @GrapeRobin Před 6 měsíci

      @@Clouderz it was for halloween and the tail is a keychain for my backpack

  • @miiqaa_x
    @miiqaa_x Před 3 měsíci +1

    I saw a vid on my TikTok for you page and it was one of those “find therians near your area” so I searched the comments and saw someone who was 30 mins away from me. We are both the same age, and we’re now good friends. We’ve also been planning on meeting up soon. Like in summer.

  • @ceilingfearsme
    @ceilingfearsme Před 8 měsíci +6

    Isn't number 2 a good way to get kidnapped too?

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci

      Yeah

    • @soggypotatochip
      @soggypotatochip Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@zysoleit depends though, usually there's no way to find your address

  • @Cosmopluto
    @Cosmopluto Před 8 měsíci +3

    MY BFF FOUNd OUT SHES A THERIAN TO! I’m a therian to so I’m super happy I have a bff who will understand me:) she’s a squirrel therian lol

  • @user-km1ut6kp3h
    @user-km1ut6kp3h Před 4 měsíci +1

    I drew the therian sign on my hand, someone saw it and askedbif i was a therian. I said yes and now we are good friends : )

  • @The_CrimsonAngel
    @The_CrimsonAngel Před 3 měsíci +2

    I think it would be almost impossible in my country, since I'm Latina, I mean, I'm from Costa Rica and I don't think they find therians here.
    And another thing, it's an experience today, today I told my friends about how I'm a Therian, I was very nervous but in the end they accepted me as I am

  • @kaalikas7245
    @kaalikas7245 Před 8 měsíci +3

    The "therian sign" is called the theta delta btw

  • @user-gv2pe1um7k
    @user-gv2pe1um7k Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hiiii this is super helpful I don’t have any Therians friends so it’s kinda hard to tell other people me experience when they don’t understand to much of being a therian

  • @tinydragongaming2496
    @tinydragongaming2496 Před 4 měsíci +1

    A tip for getting tails!!! Tell either a parent, grandparent, Aunt, uncle,guardian, etc that you saw a cool fashion style of clipping a tail to your purse /backpack and you really want one of those 'keychains' .
    Its how I got mine!!!

    • @iiwnvqt
      @iiwnvqt Před 23 dny

      XD i made my own tail and call it a keychain, but my parents dont know cuz i havent tell them yet (its hard to tell 'em cus my parents r asianically strict lol help)

  • @evie9587
    @evie9587 Před 6 měsíci +1

    When I first came out as a therian to my best friend (at the time) she also said the same. We started doing quadrobics club in school and had a bunch of people being mean and bark and us and stuff…

  • @croissant_is_better
    @croissant_is_better Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thanks for the tips buddy,I already have a therian friend and she gave me a necklace with the therian sign

  • @LovelyCat91819
    @LovelyCat91819 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I live in the middle of nowhere so a lot of those ideas don’t work, but the necklace does so thank you

  • @Socks_The_Shipper
    @Socks_The_Shipper Před 4 měsíci +2

    For the vocals one- I can’t do them (or I don’t want to) because I live out in the woods, we have a lot of animals out here and I don’t want to risk getting shot😅

  • @littlegalaxykitty5261
    @littlegalaxykitty5261 Před 4 měsíci +1

    My friend is a therian, and they've been wanting to make more therian friends. I think this video could help them a bit with that. Also, before anyone asks, no, I'm not a therian.

  • @user-xt9zw7hg3p
    @user-xt9zw7hg3p Před 6 měsíci +1

    All I had to do to find a therian in my country was look in the comment section of a french therian and I saw a girl commenting and apologizing bc of her french since she's arab. I checked her vids and she was indeed arab. So we followed each other and we're friends!

  • @randomwolf1374
    @randomwolf1374 Před 3 měsíci +1

    My step one: wear gear in public and collect Therians for the group chat.
    This is something that actually happens, I go to a trampoline park with my gear, and I collect a new one

  • @GummieSharkz
    @GummieSharkz Před 8 měsíci +1

    Also oml this creator is just amazing have y’all seen their other videos?!

  • @Em2theY
    @Em2theY Před 5 měsíci +1

    I drew the therian symbol on my hand for therian day and my friend noticed it. I tried to hide it, but she said that she was a therian too but my other friend wasn’t and she yelled in the middle of class “ you’re a therian?!!!!”

  • @OmniOrchid
    @OmniOrchid Před 4 měsíci +1

    I asked a friend from school if she was a therian and she said yes, she was actually chill about it lol

  • @xkero
    @xkero Před 7 měsíci +2

    thank you! one time i wrote a the therian symbol on my hand and someone was looking at our decorations and they were a furry quadrobist and knew what it meant! and ill defo try these aswell

  • @istanmymelody.
    @istanmymelody. Před 6 měsíci +2

    ive met 2 therian frens at school from this- also anone now any good mask sellers on etsy?(I needa new mask since some bullies poured water on mine D; anying have a good day/ night!)

  • @Bro_animation199
    @Bro_animation199 Před 4 měsíci +1

    thanks for this i didnt know how to make therian friends and now i know👍

  • @user-fw5ik6ti5z
    @user-fw5ik6ti5z Před 4 měsíci

    Wow! Im you 1k sub! Congrats!

  • @user-dn7jp7mo6l
    @user-dn7jp7mo6l Před 2 měsíci

    Tysm! This is a very good idea. In my class there are lots of haters, so I talked to them and saied, what therians are. Now there only are talking bout furries (I´m so happy about that). I have one therian friend in my village, but she doesnt likes to talk about theriotrophobie, but im fine with it :3

  • @Yourfriendlyneighborhooddemon1
    @Yourfriendlyneighborhooddemon1 Před 8 měsíci +1

    thank you so much for the tips :3

  • @MapleOnPaws13
    @MapleOnPaws13 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I think making a therian necklace is the best way to go
    I made one and wore it a few weeks ago and I already have a friend that is also therian

  • @coolguy1648
    @coolguy1648 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Having therian friends really make it fun and easier to handle shifts.

    • @Flake_And_Pizza
      @Flake_And_Pizza Před 7 měsíci

      yeah, mine help me with shifts and they helped me find out i was a therian and my theriotypes :3

  • @kritsufishtail1001
    @kritsufishtail1001 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I think this vid is good for all alterhumans in different ways,thanks

  • @bltfam666
    @bltfam666 Před 6 měsíci +2

    i figured out my friend was a therian because he had a mask that was the typical cat base mask but modified and a tail so I asked him if he was a therian and he said yes. also my other friend straight up told me she was otherhearted

  • @AsherOn_Pawzz
    @AsherOn_Pawzz Před 7 měsíci +1

    But what so i do if i know a girl in my dance class is a therian / wuadrobist, bc she did quads and curled her fingers when laying down then how do I ask her if / what she is?

  • @Thefoxwithrabies_
    @Thefoxwithrabies_ Před 5 měsíci +1

    A new Therian event is here! Vocals on the 4th of every month! this will help us find Therian friends in our area!

  • @Narci81
    @Narci81 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I remember going to a park and seeing something carved on a wall saying something like "any other furries?" and there was other carvings that said "Furry" with a cross on it.

  • @Charlie-tl9fp
    @Charlie-tl9fp Před 4 měsíci +3

    I tried to do quadrobics in PUBLIC
    I get weird eyes, but i didn't care i wish i had a therian friend do to quadrobics with me😢😢😢
    (i have a therian friend but bc she doesn't do quadrobics)

  • @allschlamer-iz4lj
    @allschlamer-iz4lj Před 6 měsíci +1

    At school i was teaching some of my friends to be more flexible and i decided to add quads and i explained it to my friend when i was teaching her and she said she had a lot of shifts and mentally thinks shes an animal! Its pretty cool since she already found her theriotype and i didn't 😭

    • @SalamiSofia
      @SalamiSofia Před 4 měsíci

      UR SO LUCKY CAUSE MY FRIENDS THINK THERIANS AND FURRYS ARE CRINGE AND STUFF UGHGHG I WISSHHHHH I COULD TELL THEM 😭😭😭😭

  • @Rose_Bay101_Fox
    @Rose_Bay101_Fox Před měsícem

    oh my gosh i met a fellow therian in my neighborhood today and i introduced myself and theyre rlly nice and i think we might become friends wish me gl

  • @Moon_Lover2024
    @Moon_Lover2024 Před 5 měsíci +1

    tried to shift before bed I played while playing "Therian hypnosis" (I think I am another kind most likely a human ) while breathing deeply I felt amazing lime at that moment I had ears til pike and I wanted to bark and jump I didn't know what happened could you help me?
    Also, I felt so strong like I was running after something but I didn't twitch or bark because it was late like 10:50 pm

  • @evilraccon
    @evilraccon Před 7 měsíci +1

    In the winter I wear catpaw gloves or in cold weather in general. Bc you could reply with I like cats or whatever animal the gloves are supposed to be

  • @A_Rainworld_Fan.
    @A_Rainworld_Fan. Před 3 měsíci +1

    I saw a person wearing a wolf mask walk past my house and now im really excited to know there may be other therians (or furries!) in my area!^^

  • @Blizzy463
    @Blizzy463 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Well i did mine accidentally dangerous bc the other dsy i was in the park doing my vocals and a group of teenagers came up to me and started laughing at me but that was when they were my age and one of them said “ STOP! Im just like her!” So them they rejected her ( fake friends) and we became besties =D

  • @babytherian
    @babytherian Před 8 měsíci +1

    Ty! This helped

  • @NicaBall
    @NicaBall Před 3 měsíci +1

    I didn’t get doing vocals in 4th day of month, what’s so bad about the 4th day?

  • @uuuuhhhhok
    @uuuuhhhhok Před 8 měsíci

    300th sub :3

  • @batteryacid__
    @batteryacid__ Před 8 měsíci +2

    theres this kid i used to be friends with in middle school and they told me they might identify as a therian and we were separated for like a year but now we're in highschool together and i really want to talk to them abt it because im desperate for therian friends- do you have any ideas for this? >_

    • @zysole
      @zysole  Před 8 měsíci

      Wel u can ask them about that moment and if they say they might have bin therian then they wil br supportive if they might be fake or just know how it feels and what it is

  • @chupz210
    @chupz210 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I think few people are therian in my country Vietnam :(

  • @CarmellowRandomStuff
    @CarmellowRandomStuff Před 8 měsíci +3

    0:23 I actually got filmed by some random person at the park after me and my cousin notice I stopped

  • @Coffee_bean1357
    @Coffee_bean1357 Před měsícem +1

    Before reading remember I am trying to get away from an emotionally abusive friend that is not a therian. Ok so there is this girl at my school and we confirmed with each other we are therians. She hangs out with another girl which I kind of know. I want to become friends with the other therian but idk how. I see her at study hall and I was thinking of asking if I could sit with her and her friends at lunch but I don’t want to be weird or awkward. I am also scared she will think the only reason I want to be friends is because she is a therian, I do want a therian friend but that is not the only reason! What do I do help 😢

  • @Mints_dragons
    @Mints_dragons Před 8 měsíci +3

    Im gonna wear my gear and get a new mask for halloween

  • @_your_mom_on_pawz_
    @_your_mom_on_pawz_ Před 4 měsíci

    Def trying these!

  • @user-tz8kt6ce8h
    @user-tz8kt6ce8h Před 3 měsíci +1

    At my school I have an outdoor classroom with a fire place, and lots of trails! ( it’s in the forest to ) if I make some Therain Friends I know we’ll go to the outdoor Classroom

  • @JackalTherian1
    @JackalTherian1 Před 7 měsíci +2

    My old class didnt know about Therians and i also didnt know... but they accept my shifts and animal side
    I always said I was half animal when I growled at them by accident... Now that I know about therian I know this is called a shift... Unfortunately I was never able to tell my old class i was a Therian,
    I am very sure they would accept me.

    • @GrapeRobin
      @GrapeRobin Před 6 měsíci +2

      lucky mines would bully me A LOT

  • @SapphiresworldBurley-is9zj
    @SapphiresworldBurley-is9zj Před 2 měsíci

    Thx that was helpful thanks

  • @ragana69
    @ragana69 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I did quads once in my school and i got filmed and cyber bullied and bullied irl so i can confirm do not say ur a therian or explain what it is to any1 in school all u should do to find an other therian is have a feather

  • @yatiri-does-quadrobics
    @yatiri-does-quadrobics Před 8 měsíci +2

    i never figured out what was wrong with me but i like when people bully me- i will definitely be doing the first and third :D

  • @ArubanAvgeek
    @ArubanAvgeek Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have 23 therian friends now thanks for da info

  • @ThatChannelJustThatChannel
    @ThatChannelJustThatChannel Před 3 měsíci +1

    So I told my friend that I was a Therian and they said they were too but just hadn’t told anyone! I now have a Therian friend!!! We have made masks together so yeah :)

  • @Chubby._.Trimalac
    @Chubby._.Trimalac Před 4 měsíci

    Hello,may I ask what was the game and the mask that you were wearing on Roblox?I would like to see them,tyy!!♡♡

  • @ItstherealHarleyz_world
    @ItstherealHarleyz_world Před 6 měsíci +1

    Yea, i was dumb, im new and i didnt thonk much abt this so i straight up told everyone at school im a therian, they bully me now bc they think im a furry bc they dont know what a therian is😭

  • @xero639
    @xero639 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Around where i live there is none and are people who will bully for it. (all my friends find Quads/being a therian cringe, so theyre no safe to ask. I asked subtly about opinions.)
    Ive sorta become desprate to find some, and i had worn a simbol i painted on a badge but someone (not allay on this topjc) was asking about it (basically just escalated to them trying to imadge search it with a photo.), i also looked fir discord servers ect but- yeah thay didnt work out and was ALOT of drama.
    Though this is a really nice video and there was more ideas to what i had originally thought of.

  • @weird_pebble
    @weird_pebble Před 4 měsíci +1

    I made a small therian pin with a clay kit I got for Christmas. I’m putting it on my backpack so other therians can notice. Hopefully no antis see it 🥲🥲🥲