Shenequa Golding Talks 'A Black Girl in the Middle,' 'Black Girl Math,' BBL's, Relationships + More

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  • @TheThirtyJourney
    @TheThirtyJourney Před 21 dnem +79

    16:36 “This world doesn’t know how to interact with introverts without taking offense.” Powerful statement and I definitely agree. Such an authentic and beautiful interview and I believe so many black women will feel seen! 💛✨ Definitely purchasing.

  • @drob691
    @drob691 Před 21 dnem +32

    I completely agree with how she broke down being an introvert.

  • @rwilli26rw
    @rwilli26rw Před 20 dny +4

    This is my first exposure to Ms. Golding. What a gem!! 🖤

  • @stephengiese7549
    @stephengiese7549 Před 21 dnem +28

    This lady has found her calling for sure! She is beautiful inside and out. She is an introvert and so am I. She speaks very well, looks at everyone when she speaks. She speaks about dealing with extroverts at a distance and so do I. Read this book.

  • @callmedora
    @callmedora Před 21 dnem +18

    She sounds like me. My friends are often offended by my need for alone time.

  • @gw2315
    @gw2315 Před 21 dnem +61

    Introverts United

  • @timscott5581
    @timscott5581 Před 21 dnem +14

    Yeah, she speaks like an introvert, so Am'I. She seems like a nonconfrontational person. Just a calm, thought tone of conversation. The thing that's concerning is,.. introverts, we tend to isolate ourselves a lot.

  • @melonnieali4113
    @melonnieali4113 Před 21 dnem +8

    I’m an extrovert and I don’t use people 😭. I respect my introverted friends by giving them space and going at their social pace. I also respect my fellow extroverts by exploring new places and experiences and talking about anything and everything lol!

    • @kimh9420
      @kimh9420 Před 20 dny

      Same...I think I'm in the middle but others would just see me an Extrovert.

  • @seanfrazier5571
    @seanfrazier5571 Před 21 dnem +10

    She mailed that 100%. This world does not know how to interact with introverts without taking offense

  • @getoffmygrass4857
    @getoffmygrass4857 Před 21 dnem +5

    A gorgeous natural sista❤

  • @ms.win_
    @ms.win_ Před 20 dny +2

    As an introvert, I truly enjoyed this interview. She is also low key funny 😂😂😂

  • @tonij6536
    @tonij6536 Před 21 dnem +3

    22:58 black girl math in action. Because it's like " I said what i said, and i deemed it serious" 😂 I'll get this book on audio

  • @brendamacklin6044
    @brendamacklin6044 Před 21 dnem +6

    Great interview.. I was so bless to have both parents in the home growing up and my father was a strong Black man and my mom was a strong, nurturing Black woman!

  • @Iyana215
    @Iyana215 Před 21 dnem +6

    I am such an introvert and felt the same way, when I would go to the clubs with my friends..

  • @gregoryjefferson6311
    @gregoryjefferson6311 Před 21 dnem +2

    That " TWOooo" came out like a Kevin Hart " Dayum !! " .

  • @TDott-vc7lj
    @TDott-vc7lj Před 21 dnem +7

    Great interview: I purchased 3 copies for 3 very different but very important young Black women in my life. And I’ve sent the link for the book to the people I know with daughters who could gain from these essays.

  • @moderngentlemen
    @moderngentlemen Před 21 dnem +3

    Such a great interview! As a guy and person of color, much of what she said resonated on a deeper level, especially how we are perceived in the public and the importance a father figure. Definitely one of my favorite interviews and I have no doubts that her book will be a runaway success.

  • @edra122884
    @edra122884 Před 21 dnem +6

    The HU homie! Congratulations Shenequa on your book!

  • @barbarachavis4270
    @barbarachavis4270 Před 21 dnem +11

    She looks very good to say she is about to be forty . She looks much younger

    • @Pou1gie1
      @Pou1gie1 Před 21 dnem

      As I get older, I am realizing that much of aging is about genetics and taking care of yourself. Some people just fall a part after their teens and 20s.

  • @Deonta-dw7ym
    @Deonta-dw7ym Před 21 dnem +5

    Don’t agree with some of it but respect it

  • @tamarapoindexter9482
    @tamarapoindexter9482 Před 21 dnem +7

    Maaaan this woman just broke down my entire life 😂 .. love it! I will definitely be buying this book

  • @shailatiara
    @shailatiara Před 21 dnem +4

    Shout out to Shenequa! We love a black woman who is true to herself. My message to her is: You are powerful and beautiful in your Essence without the revealing clothing and BBL. The God in you can be recognized. Thank you for being a role model for us Black Gworls ❤️

  • @user-tc9pt4df5s
    @user-tc9pt4df5s Před 21 dnem +4

    Shenequa is phenomenal!!!

  • @ApFree-yn6cd
    @ApFree-yn6cd Před 21 dnem +19

    I love Shenequa and her interviews. Check out her interview with the cast of When they see Us, phenomenal

  • @Anonymous-nz5kr
    @Anonymous-nz5kr Před 16 dny +2

    I Watched this interview once, listened to the audio book, and then watched this interview again. She’s a very thoughtful woman, she talks with grace and is learning to accept who she is. I learned about myself from reading her book.

  • @tacrewgirl
    @tacrewgirl Před 20 dny +3

    Great interview. Thanks for introducing me to this author.

  • @TerrellJByrd
    @TerrellJByrd Před 21 dnem +9

    She is as brilliant as she is gorgeous.. looking forward to reading her book.. always welcome a perspective even if it's not my own.. Keep shining Queen🌹🌹👑🌹🌹

  • @bobbywilsonfunfaithfamilymusic

    Shalom, WAKE THAT MIND UP! Thanks for sharing this conversation with Shenequa Golding, her story is dope! She mentioned "men washing the dishes after dinner, taking out the trash etc." It brought memories, from a child, the first thing after eating breakfast/ dinner was to wash the dishes and clean the kitchen. I've been married for 33 years, washing dishes, taking out the trash, cleaning the house, as the man of my house, no problem. Shenequa Golding, thank you, kudos.

  • @prettygirllay-dr9iq
    @prettygirllay-dr9iq Před 21 dnem +8

    She is soo stunning like omg!❤

  • @taracoach9351
    @taracoach9351 Před 21 dnem +2

    Great interview! I love that the fellas shared their experiences while listening as well. Shenequa shows wonderful conversation skills, humor, whit and great vibes. Gotta love an authentic soul when you see one ❤

  • @soul5548
    @soul5548 Před 21 dnem +4

    This was a very rich conversation, I will definitely purchase the book. Sometimes having the biological and/or stepfather in the home may create more pain and chaos. I think in many cases it may be a blessing in disguise when an unhealthy parent is not in the home. It is still a void nonetheless but only God knows what may have been avoided with their absence.
    Another point,
    My daughter prefers her ‘step’ father, (with no ill will towards her biological father) but he was not around since she was two years old, she has expressed to her dad (we don’t use the term step) that she has not felt a void like some women may feel because her ‘step’ dad occupied and filled that space so well she didn’t feel like there was a void in her life. Her father has never uttered “step” nor his family either and continues to provide for and give her unconditional love as his own biological daughters/her sisters. I guess it really depends on the person’s individual experience.
    I’ve read a book and listened to a profound Ted talk several years ago on the topic of introverts and their brilliance. However, I really enjoyed the way she shared her perspective on being an introvert it really resonated with me. 💎
    I look forward to reading the book.
    #lifelonglearner. #lovetoread

  • @noelwatson2237
    @noelwatson2237 Před 20 dny +2

    A great watch. Such a gift of a woman.
    Thank You ❤

  • @ap3stax
    @ap3stax Před 21 dnem +4

    N.V came thru with an AWESOME in-depth question (finally) 😁

  • @motif-music
    @motif-music Před 21 dnem +3

    Intelligence and beauty radiating from this woman!

  • @22Tee22
    @22Tee22 Před 21 dnem +7

    19:29 MY LIFEEEE 😩 she explained it perfectly

  • @qtinmemphis1969
    @qtinmemphis1969 Před 21 dnem +8

    Then you are told when you have kids...you'll get azz and hips..... 4 kids later I still don't have azz and hips😭😭😭😭

    • @elishagreen4423
      @elishagreen4423 Před 21 dnem +1

      Yesssss, I know exactly how she feels. I use to get teased for having a flat butt, but now I’m in my fifties it is what it is.

  • @Youtubehandler81
    @Youtubehandler81 Před 21 dnem +34

    Black Girls are Magical

    • @ShineAsTheSun-jb5bz
      @ShineAsTheSun-jb5bz Před 21 dnem +3

      How so?

    • @bellfaith1065
      @bellfaith1065 Před 21 dnem

      If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯

    • @bellfaith1065
      @bellfaith1065 Před 21 dnem

      If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯

    • @bellfaith1065
      @bellfaith1065 Před 21 dnem

      If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯

    • @bellfaith1065
      @bellfaith1065 Před 21 dnem

      If bw havent caught onto the race baiting propaganda by now, there's no hope. They distracting u all with race 😢& a false (blk grl mgic)sense of status so u won't realize wats really goin on...Jeff Bezos called bcuz there's agenda from high up looking 4 anybody willing to push the narrative💯

  • @brandongary8234
    @brandongary8234 Před 21 dnem +7

    The right people in your life can make you happy success and calm

  • @AtlLateNight
    @AtlLateNight Před 21 dnem +3

    Really enjoyed her honesty

  • @marqcollins1792
    @marqcollins1792 Před 21 dnem +9

    This lady will make this interview go great!!!

  • @MrRicardowill
    @MrRicardowill Před 21 dnem +3

    This again was a great interview by the Breakfast Club. I enjoyed it and I am going to share it on my platform to inform Black girls and introverts who are often misunderstood. Ricardo Authenticity Rating for this podcast 10 out of 10. There is no magic to the rating. I’m just an attentive listener to the podcast and try to share my honest opinion. I call out things that are red flags. I’m not always right, but I’m not always wrong. I approach listening to podcasts as a chess player looking at different angles of understanding. I’m not trying to fail podcasters, but I’m interested in uplifting podcasts. Great job guys.

  • @SmooveTV718
    @SmooveTV718 Před 21 dnem +4

    Idk who this woman is but I like her

  • @BigTicket1230
    @BigTicket1230 Před 21 dnem +3

    I love her laugh lol very familiar.

  • @themoviebrotha1033
    @themoviebrotha1033 Před 20 dny +2

    She is definitely a beautiful, articulate, and well spoken young lady..great interview.

  • @kwalker1127
    @kwalker1127 Před 21 dnem +3

    Great interview we all need this one !’n

  • @cydgotsomethingtosay
    @cydgotsomethingtosay Před 21 dnem +3

    Yesss!!! This resonated so much ❤️❤️❤️thank you for having her on

  • @jzana007
    @jzana007 Před 20 dny +2

    Really good interview…I see myself in her. Jamaican 🇯🇲 in culture, black introvert, etc ❤

  • @amairriddick1439
    @amairriddick1439 Před 21 dnem +2

    She was feeling dat boi DJ Envy, you’ll ain’t peep the energy

  • @cshowers
    @cshowers Před 21 dnem +7

    Our community is messed up I’m tired of these conversations where black women and men have unhealed trauma. You can tell dating her would be tiresome. I agree with Envy do what you enjoy to do and focus on the joy. Stop worrying about did that person reciprocate or not. Not everyone is ready for marriage which does take work. If you not ready to put in that work then just enjoy dating or single life.

    • @inglewoodjet52
      @inglewoodjet52 Před 21 dnem +1

      So healing and being in love is not an option? Push the healing already!!!!

    • @sidneytrowell7259
      @sidneytrowell7259 Před 21 dnem +1

      Not foundational black American she is Jamaican she said it

    • @cshowers
      @cshowers Před 21 dnem +1

      @@inglewoodjet52 not sure what u mean but work out all that trauma from past men or relationships and daddy issues. We have too much of this in our community where black folks aren’t interested in dating each other anymore. The current flex is to date outside our race which is sad

    • @inglewoodjet52
      @inglewoodjet52 Před 21 dnem +1

      @@cshowers I agree with the healing but both have to heal....then we can love each other properly. That's what I'm saying. Running to another race without healing is not the solution. I think we agree... lol I'm currently in therapy but I have yet to hear a black man is as well (as far as the streets). I ain't pointing any fingers but...... lol I love my black men but I'm not dating anymore unhealed one's. I am manifesting a husband, some of us want to spend the rest of our life with our best friend/lover. But believe me, I am prepared to be alone and happy.

  • @dianacharlesdouglas8846
    @dianacharlesdouglas8846 Před 20 dny +2

    I totally get the introvert good on doing what fun is supposed to be and being used by the extra folks.

  • @graceok8525
    @graceok8525 Před 21 dnem +5

    Such a great interview. Definitely going to buy the book ❤

  • @lanysiaharrison2406
    @lanysiaharrison2406 Před 21 dnem +2

    Best episode in awhile.

  • @Lord_Tien
    @Lord_Tien Před 21 dnem +4

    Powerful interview 💎 💎

  • @courtneyhogue4784
    @courtneyhogue4784 Před 19 dny +1

    Such a good interview. I’m looking forward to reading the book!

  • @Pruffin334
    @Pruffin334 Před 21 dnem +5

    Love this interview

  • @inglewoodjet52
    @inglewoodjet52 Před 21 dnem +4

    LMAO.... OK GOD I HEAR YOU!!!! LET ME STOP DRAGGING MY FEET AND FINISH MY BOOK ABOUT GROWING UP CURVY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY!!!! 😎

  • @jerryhartnett4694
    @jerryhartnett4694 Před 21 dnem +3

    I actually like this interview..this was good

  • @billy3603
    @billy3603 Před 21 dnem +2

    This was great. I want to read this book!

  • @oquendomelissa3699
    @oquendomelissa3699 Před 21 dnem +2

    Great interview 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @Shiya_Says
    @Shiya_Says Před 21 dnem +3

    Love her ❤

  • @Roxasthesupersaiyan
    @Roxasthesupersaiyan Před 21 dnem +10

    Im considering buying this for my girl, but i want to say; there are GREAT Step-Fathers out here, i was raised by them.

    • @JT-ef2qy
      @JT-ef2qy Před 21 dnem +1

      Don’t buy her that not the stuff I’d want my girl reading

    • @wills.9422
      @wills.9422 Před 20 dny +1

      @@JT-ef2qyfacts 😂.. gon have his girl break up with him for no reason and wonder why he acting crazy 😂

    • @JT-ef2qy
      @JT-ef2qy Před 20 dny

      @@wills.9422 🤣🤣

  • @Bolder_Lebza
    @Bolder_Lebza Před 21 dnem +2

    Great interview 🙂

  • @GCheff-ym4kh
    @GCheff-ym4kh Před 21 dnem +3

    She fine.

  • @mandingogrande9243
    @mandingogrande9243 Před 21 dnem +2

    Great interview ❤

  • @mckeewardiv6307
    @mckeewardiv6307 Před 21 dnem +1

    💚I love this young lady with every fiber of my being 💙 I clicked on this interview because I was like “who is this 28yr old BADDIE” ❤️ then as I’m watching the video I was impressed with her humility wisdom and humor 💜I wish her nothing but the best💚

  • @2centsfreelancer
    @2centsfreelancer Před 21 dnem +1

    Great interview 🔥🔥

  • @tristanstraker183
    @tristanstraker183 Před 21 dnem +5

    Beautiful woman

  • @rainwash1365
    @rainwash1365 Před 21 dnem +2

    I really enjoyed this

  • @AndreBoyd22703
    @AndreBoyd22703 Před 16 dny +1

    Hey Shanequa , it’s been a long time. Congratulations on your success!

  • @mauryabrown6949
    @mauryabrown6949 Před 20 dny +1

    I love this interview, specially her her ora

  • @BerryDivine33
    @BerryDivine33 Před 19 dny +1

    Getting the book!

  • @TheNYBully
    @TheNYBully Před 21 dnem +10

    She’s beautiful

  • @juliacox6036
    @juliacox6036 Před 21 dnem +3

    Just purchased in audible

  • @kerstienpope6539
    @kerstienpope6539 Před 4 dny

    Had to run this back!!!!

  • @Deonta-dw7ym
    @Deonta-dw7ym Před 21 dnem +2

    I like the interview

  • @ennisel
    @ennisel Před 20 dny +2

    18:12 -woaah... #ShenequaGolding is so right!!!

  • @UntamedAudio
    @UntamedAudio Před 19 dny +1

    This was a great episode! First time hearing about her. Can Men read and gain from the book as well?

  • @Charlise.Evelyn
    @Charlise.Evelyn Před 21 dnem +9

    “….with my soon to be 40 year old mind.” FORTY!? 40 isn’t old but sheesh…Where? 😍✨

  • @amaaddowdell1202
    @amaaddowdell1202 Před 21 dnem +2

    Great interview, you can tell DJ Envy doesn’t read shit 😂😂

  • @theworldsonheroin
    @theworldsonheroin Před 21 dnem +2

    Love this woman ❤❤

  • @deljean
    @deljean Před 21 dnem +4

    We have the same hair style lol❤

  • @cargolee9767
    @cargolee9767 Před 21 dnem +2

    Beautiful soul 💯

  • @venumscripts
    @venumscripts Před 15 dny +1

    YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, Go off Queen!

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 Před 21 dnem +8

    Love black girls

  • @MWhite-zj5zk
    @MWhite-zj5zk Před 20 dny +2

    she is gorgeous 🥰🥰🥰✨

  • @BackstreetswithCo
    @BackstreetswithCo Před 21 dnem +2

    talk queen !

  • @earthworldserver
    @earthworldserver Před 21 dnem +2

    sweetheart .

  • @thekenyangamer140
    @thekenyangamer140 Před 20 dny +2

    Go Queen ❤

  • @CountryGospel24
    @CountryGospel24 Před 20 dny +1

    That's right, thank God for what ami respects beautiful music, enjoy it and God bless you, oh and always, greetings from the United States to the world, good night.

  • @andruspatterson9382
    @andruspatterson9382 Před 21 dnem +8

    She’s beautiful 😊

  • @benfrazier8385
    @benfrazier8385 Před 21 dnem +2

    I hate that she felt she wasn’t pretty enough because of her butt, I think she is gorgeous and I hope people told her that growing up 💯

  • @donnettaj.7355
    @donnettaj.7355 Před 18 dny

    I feel so seen rn!!❤

  • @JEGlobalConcepts
    @JEGlobalConcepts Před 21 dnem +1

    Who else was waiting for envy one question 😂😂😂

  • @LaKae444
    @LaKae444 Před 21 dnem +1

    13:25 is a real thing!!

  • @rhapsodicchimera3861
    @rhapsodicchimera3861 Před 21 dnem +11

    The angry black woman stereotype is so annoying because why am i not allowed to experience emotion as just a human being. And its enforced from family, friends, accquaintances, etc. Its exhausting so now i just say what the hell i want to say. Receive it or not.

  • @dontwaittobegreat5808
    @dontwaittobegreat5808 Před 21 dnem +1

    🔥

  • @p.gizzle90
    @p.gizzle90 Před 20 dny +1

    I’m an extreme extrovert by nature. [If u believe in astrology I’m a Gemini~that says a lot w/n itself.]
    However, I’ve been conditioned as a child to be *_introverted~socially selective._* I’m literally the life of any party by myself. I just might not want to be around ppl. I mostly prefer to be home bc I’m conditioned that way. Family functions are the only functions that could get me out the house, but that too is a some time thing for me.

  • @BackstreetswithCo
    @BackstreetswithCo Před 21 dnem +1

    love us !

  • @ghariiscool
    @ghariiscool Před 21 dnem +3

    my God, she is a beauty..I'm in love lol

  • @HillaryClintonUSA
    @HillaryClintonUSA Před 21 dnem +1

    Don't blame them