HOW MY MOM FELT ABOUT ME MARRYING A BLACK GIRL

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  • čas přidán 12. 09. 2020
  • For the first time in a long time, we have a Simas’ mom joining us as a guest on our videos! Today, the conversation will be in a q&a format but mostly about how my mom felt about me marrying a black woman from Jamaica. At the time, this would be more or less how my mom feels about my girlfriend, who happens to be a black girl.
    Avri is the one asking the questions, so you won’t see much of her but Simas’ mom aka good gyal Esma is handling all the questions. We started with Lithuania, where Simas’ family came from, then moved on to life in Trenton, NJ, the first place where Simas’ family lived in since moving to the US.
    Eventually, we moved into more personal questions: Simas’ interracial dating history, why he chose a black wife, how many girls he’s dated and so much more. We also learn how Simas’ family in Lithuania and Sweden thought about our marriage too. There aren’t too many Lithuanian-Jamaican couples out there.
    Interracial marriage is not very common in Lithuania because there are not many foreigners living in Lithuania, especially from outside of Europe. Seeing people that are black or darker complexion is still fairly unusual in some parts of Lithuania. However, with the economy and freedom rising extremely rapidly, more and more people from all over the world are moving to the Baltics (Lithuania, Latvia and Estonia). Things are rapidly changing and the population is becoming more and more diverse.
    Some people also asked questions about Simas family: is he an only child? Why is he an only child? Why did you come to live in the US? What was the situation like in Lithuania then vs now? So many questions, so little time! Maybe we will have to make a part 2 of this video. This is a part of our international interracial family vlog! It's family-friendly and educational about our life abroad in the US.
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Komentáře • 457

  • @AvriSimas
    @AvriSimas  Před 3 lety +102

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    • @cynthiajonas7848
      @cynthiajonas7848 Před 3 lety +5

      Beautiful picture

    • @merlineduffus7279
      @merlineduffus7279 Před 3 lety +5

      Lovely family

    • @j.oreardon9426
      @j.oreardon9426 Před 3 lety +6

      Please support this wonderful couple for any amount you can afford! They bring us joy and entertainment, so this is how we can show our love and support! My best wishes to the whole LitJam family

    • @kiriforever1
      @kiriforever1 Před 3 lety +1

      (

    • @msshygirl1015
      @msshygirl1015 Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks for the shout out. Love your channel. You never disappoint me with uploading weekly.😊👍🏽

  • @ivylind.5072
    @ivylind.5072 Před 3 lety +148

    Our children have to marry and date who they love we are not the ones who is going to live their lives . As long as they are happy then i am happy .

  • @dollfaceddiaries
    @dollfaceddiaries Před 3 lety +86

    Sima's and his mom look like brother & sister . His mom is very open , honest and down to earth .

  • @breadbutter4221
    @breadbutter4221 Před 3 lety +81

    I like how Simas said he felt he could relate to Avri because they have somewhat similar backgrounds, they both are immigrants, have hard working parents trying to do their best, studying and both having a drive to achieve the American dream. I've never really thought of that before.

  • @TheDelaveaus
    @TheDelaveaus Před 3 lety +107

    When i met my mother inlaw for the firat time i didnt speak any frech at all i spend a few weeks with her and when it was times to leave we huged and cried the connection was unbelievable without language....love knows no boundaries, love you both.

    • @esternwairimu4959
      @esternwairimu4959 Před 3 lety +5

      Love have no boundaries ,and love don't know colour ,😘 love it's love ❤️

    • @reneed9607
      @reneed9607 Před 3 lety +2

      @@esternwairimu4959 I taught my best friends mother to drive she is Korean and spoke no English she passed her test 😊

  • @nelliecurrie5625
    @nelliecurrie5625 Před 3 lety +52

    Great mother/son relationship! You can see how much your Mom loves you Simas by how she allowed you to make your own decisions. Avri is a wonderful young woman

  • @margiecocks934
    @margiecocks934 Před 3 lety +42

    "as soon as everyone saw you they didn't want to let you go." That's huge, Avri once you have a place in the matriarch's heart nothing or no one can take your blessings. You are loved. And you also got your soul mate Simas

  • @j.oreardon9426
    @j.oreardon9426 Před 3 lety +243

    I LOVED this video! Please,express my sincere gratitude to Simas' mother for taking the time to speak with us. I am older and faced a much different response to the young lady I first dated. It changed my relationship with my family and the course of my life. God bless both of your parents for being so open and loving that all they cared about was their child being happy with a good person. I write this with tears, but I enjoyed every second. My best wishes to you two forever

  • @rocheldobson8165
    @rocheldobson8165 Před 3 lety +76

    Beautiful Couple ❤️ Simmons Once U Go Black U Never Go Back 🤩

    • @redsteddi
      @redsteddi Před 3 lety +7

      LoL that's one from my youth 😅

  • @ggunnz8621
    @ggunnz8621 Před 3 lety +61

    I loved the honest answers that your mom gave. She was a bit camera shy but that understandable and she looks just like Simas, May you continue to grow strong in love and respect for each other,

    • @williamjohnson3301
      @williamjohnson3301 Před 3 lety

      I love everything about jam people I hope I will have one of them In my life as a wife

  • @tamaraanderson6793
    @tamaraanderson6793 Před 3 lety +63

    I really appreciate the honesty. Love has no boundaries. Can simas mom get any cuter.

    • @mauricehenry7393
      @mauricehenry7393 Před 3 lety

      As long as my son live with a woman and happy it's OK but it as to be a (woman)💙💙🙏

  • @glenmcdaniel
    @glenmcdaniel Před 3 lety +75

    You do look like your mom. Kudos to her though for being open-minded and progressive in her thinking. She is from a racially-monolithic country, so the presumption might be that she is not open to racially (or even ethnically) diverse relationships. So great that she is. Awesome family. You should do the same sort of interview with your mom, Avri.

  • @melonymanns9901
    @melonymanns9901 Před 3 lety +88

    Simus looks like his Beautiful Mother. She could honestly pass as his older sister. I Love ❤️ all your videos!!!

  • @elizabethwalters9521
    @elizabethwalters9521 Před 3 lety +137

    Avril is very intelligent smart beautiful inside out .

  • @TheMckinsons
    @TheMckinsons Před 3 lety +33

    Wah gwan Simas mom.
    Thank you for being honest x
    Thank you guys for covering this... it's great to have open discussions like this

  • @paulamckenzie2356
    @paulamckenzie2356 Před 3 lety +80

    Avri is a very bubbly girl anyone would like her.

  • @schlonmartin8336
    @schlonmartin8336 Před 3 lety +18

    Simus, your mom is so sweet and honest with the questions Avris is asking her. 😊

  • @TheDelaveaus
    @TheDelaveaus Před 3 lety +20

    Avri is lovable snd warm its easy to like her, and yall this shes gorgeous on camera meeting her in person us twice as good the camera does no justice and her smile is everything, love me some avri.❤❤❤❤

  • @jacquelinegrayden4706
    @jacquelinegrayden4706 Před 3 lety +9

    You have the best mother in law ever, I just love her vibes. She raised Simas right.

  • @SunFlower-yz2qk
    @SunFlower-yz2qk Před 3 lety +7

    Simas’ mom was open-minded and honest with her answers. I laughed at how Avri pressed hard on Simas about the other girls it was too funny. Love you guys.

  • @sandrareid9033
    @sandrareid9033 Před 3 lety +76

    Hey guys you are absolutely gorgeous I am a Jamaican too who is also married to a Italian American and we di have a great relationship so I wish you both all the best in all your endeavours that you pursue have a great day and I do look forward to seeing more of your videos.

  • @SimoneandPat
    @SimoneandPat Před 3 lety +26

    Twins!! You’re mom is such a sweetheart God bless her!

  • @amandajones39
    @amandajones39 Před 3 lety +20

    I was a secret viewer but I'm coming out... love you guys.

  • @hotarugracequeen7349
    @hotarugracequeen7349 Před 3 lety +2

    The love, respect, and ease of communication among you three are simply fantastic. Keep setting a great foundation; Jamaican sistah here. so proud of you and your focus.

  • @sharonabraham3676
    @sharonabraham3676 Před 3 lety +22

    You both have beautiful Mothers. Love them both. Blessings to everyone

  • @valeriebernard7116
    @valeriebernard7116 Před 3 lety +17

    I applaud both of you tremendously. Love is color blind. No one I responsible for the actions of one’s heart.

  • @micahcjames
    @micahcjames Před 3 lety +7

    I got so excited when I saw that Simas is from Lithuania! I visited in 2017 and was supposed to go last month but the trip was cancelled because of covid. 😔 What a beautiful country! 🇱🇹 And what a beautiful couple. 💛

  • @simplynancy374
    @simplynancy374 Před 3 lety +45

    Simas had black girlfriends before Avri?😲😲😲I'm shocked!(clutching my pearls)I guess the saying 'once you go black you never go back'is really true🤣🤣🤣
    I love you guys.

    • @redsteddi
      @redsteddi Před 3 lety +5

      Omy Fab Nan I haven't heard that saying in years... LoL

    • @esternwairimu4959
      @esternwairimu4959 Před 3 lety +1

      Don't be shock 😄 love it's love their is another white men who dated black girls all time ,and he married a black woman ,now they have 3 kids ,
      And they own their utube channel with millions of subscribers , and millions of views

    • @simplynancy374
      @simplynancy374 Před 3 lety +1

      I know.I just thought Avri was his first black gf.

  • @alene6579
    @alene6579 Před 3 lety +3

    This was a good video, getting to know his mother and her feelings about your relationship. Beautiful!🥰

  • @merlineduffus7279
    @merlineduffus7279 Před 3 lety +8

    Troublesome Simas with his mom 🤗🤗taking off her glasses 🤗♥️

  • @breadbutter4221
    @breadbutter4221 Před 3 lety +8

    Simas is the Male version of his mother. I like her honesty. I also like this video

  • @edithmartin8233
    @edithmartin8233 Před 3 lety +22

    Simas really looks like his mom

  • @Dmudahy
    @Dmudahy Před 3 lety +30

    Aka Kuliegirl. Great Q&A Love his mom. I met my husband at 19 also and we are still together 40 years later 🙏🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽😍

  • @ruths365
    @ruths365 Před 3 lety

    enjoyed this interview and love Simas' mom. This was great. Now let's see an interview with Avri's mom.

  • @winsomepowell5072
    @winsomepowell5072 Před 3 lety +11

    Simas mom: respect your children who they choose ❤

  • @yvonnegrant6481
    @yvonnegrant6481 Před 3 lety +2

    Big up to Sima's mom when she said it her son life she respect him for loving a black Jamaican girl all the

  • @kiriforever1
    @kiriforever1 Před 3 lety +4

    You guys have great individual energy & together you are the ‘bomb’. Yes, Mom & son look very much alike, no doubt about who the Momma is. Moms is a good ‘egg’ to participate in your blogging. I enjoyed the sweetness & honesty that all three of you shared with us. Simas is blessed with great loving parents. Simas & Avir are both really smart young people, with a good head on their shoulders. You are & will be blessed with a long married life.

  • @merlineduffus7279
    @merlineduffus7279 Před 3 lety +25

    Bless up 🤗🤗💯everyone, u both make a wonderful couple

  • @kenieshabrown-russell2366

    This was so enjoyable! Keep doing more videos.

  • @shanicegordon1935
    @shanicegordon1935 Před 3 lety +7

    New sub here....you guys are so real an relatable... I'm literally watching all your videos one after the other.... thanks for sharing your journey◉‿◉

  • @AltheaHewitt
    @AltheaHewitt Před 3 lety +8

    Hey guys. I always be checking in when I can and always love your content.

  • @ShantellTT
    @ShantellTT Před 3 lety +2

    Such a beautiful couple...Your mom is such a welcoming mom💕...I just found this channel and I am inlove already I had to click the bell..Nuff love from JA🇯🇲

  • @moniquelindsay-johnson6908

    Simas, you're mom is really sweet and seems to be a cool mom. I pray God continues to strengthen and bless your family.

  • @Geekmedia_
    @Geekmedia_ Před 3 lety +1

    Love your mom Simas. Very honest and I’m glad they embraced your wife

  • @winsomepowell5072
    @winsomepowell5072 Před 3 lety +8

    Special bond between son and mom

  • @olgamartha5727
    @olgamartha5727 Před 2 měsíci

    Just realized that Simas looks like his Mom. This video, in my opinion, took some courage to undertake. Kudos to you all. ❤❤

  • @lorrainefoster-powell5823

    Well said simmas on your last answers. Beauty is skin deep, which is a lovely way to put into perspective.

  • @badniss336
    @badniss336 Před 3 lety +30

    Love has no color........Am I the only one looking at Avri in the mirror? Or, Y'all did not see her, and is just listening to her voice?

  • @RukiaBlackBlazer
    @RukiaBlackBlazer Před 3 lety +1

    It's a testament too the goodness of Simas family that you Sis, never knew that they were shocked by his final pick of a mate. Awwww good people, they care about his happiness than making you feel any kind of way/unwelcome in their family... Tops...👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿✌🏾🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @monicahansle2266
    @monicahansle2266 Před 3 lety +13

    That was ackward ....🤔🤭😃, Simas mom: what’s wrong with him enough 🤣🤣🤣.. mom is a beautiful person, she loves you for who you are, not what you looks like.. love has no color 👏

  • @peasikumoja6746
    @peasikumoja6746 Před 3 lety +8

    Wishing y’all a great life! Health and Wealth!

  • @kelleshamorris-adams9640
    @kelleshamorris-adams9640 Před 10 měsíci

    Lots of humour. You made me smile. Thanks tor being authentic. Enjoy your family.

  • @laurenthompson569
    @laurenthompson569 Před 3 lety +4

    So cute, to beautiful hearts joined as one. Mom look like she is very sweet as well, be blessed

  • @charmainewilson-eze6183

    A wonderful mom. Wishing you all happiness, joy and long lives together!

  • @lookingup7638
    @lookingup7638 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful video! Beautiful Momma! Beautiful couple! First time watching! I think I'll subscribe.

  • @wesleyrattray4236
    @wesleyrattray4236 Před 3 lety

    Very open minded and candid. Very good.

  • @maryflowers4731
    @maryflowers4731 Před 3 lety +8

    Guys what great video, Sima your mother is very lovely person!!!

  • @tracyannbrown364
    @tracyannbrown364 Před 3 lety +6

    First time commenting...but watch you guys all the time just love how you guys flex nuff love 🏝

  • @tobby6312
    @tobby6312 Před 3 lety

    I have been thinking about you both! I am glad you are all doing well. Good to see you ❤.

  • @lottripple3
    @lottripple3 Před 3 lety +8

    Happy Sunday to you all.

  • @arlenesmall3741
    @arlenesmall3741 Před 2 lety

    I’m playing catch up. Love your vlogs.

  • @stephaniegreene539
    @stephaniegreene539 Před 3 lety +12

    Simas mom looks like him, I really enjoyed the video. both moms are cute. 🇬🇾🤗🌹

  • @lisafrance6019
    @lisafrance6019 Před 3 lety +14

    I really enjoy this ur mom is so loving

  • @lisaj3915
    @lisaj3915 Před 3 lety

    Enjoyed the video. Nice to meet Simas mother.

  • @steffyandy3284
    @steffyandy3284 Před 3 lety +1

    I have been following you guys, I think you guys are perfect for each other and I wish you nothing but the best.

  • @foxydlao264
    @foxydlao264 Před 3 lety +8

    Nice in law.... I love your mom Simas. She is so cool...

  • @joslynlancaster9842
    @joslynlancaster9842 Před 3 lety +15

    I really enjoyed this video.I don’t post often, but I have been watching your videos from the beginning👍

  • @dalimcmahon2003
    @dalimcmahon2003 Před 3 lety

    You both have good caring parents. That’s a blessing.

  • @annemariearrington1968

    enjoyed the visit for the first time what up from california will check back to see what is going on stay safe one love

  • @cherylfenton5390
    @cherylfenton5390 Před 3 lety +7

    Simas your mom is so sweet & funny.😊.
    It was nice of her to share. She seems to be very straightforward.
    I enjoyed this Q&A.🙂❤

  • @svc6550
    @svc6550 Před rokem

    I like that the mother was honest, it’s not an easy topic

  • @mariamasipa4197
    @mariamasipa4197 Před 3 lety +21

    Simas mom is very honest I love her thanks momy

  • @Harris-Smith
    @Harris-Smith Před 3 lety

    Big up to Simas mommy. Simas and his mom looks so alike. Like the candid nature of the conversation. And mom allowing her son to make his own choice.

  • @theplatenakfamily
    @theplatenakfamily Před 3 lety

    I know someone that looks very similar to Simas... It's crazy how much they resemble each other actually. Lol But I am glad that your families have so much love and respect for your decisions. You both are so fortunate to have such cohesion amongst your families with your relationship status and overall. Great subject! Thank you so much for sharing that perspective with the world.

  • @JustShannaBE
    @JustShannaBE Před 3 lety +10

    They say love is blind... I'm of the belief it means that love doesn't see colour, race etc. Not the physical surface stuff.

  • @angelalumwai6164
    @angelalumwai6164 Před 3 lety

    Definitely, Simas and his mother resembled very much. His loving, demonstrative relationship with his mother is a good indicator of Simas making a excellent husband.
    You both have beautiful, fun and loving relationship, which I have previously said.
    I hope it last a lifetime.

  • @aleyshastanford6453
    @aleyshastanford6453 Před 3 lety +2

    Loved this ❤❤❤❤

  • @charjhean2011
    @charjhean2011 Před 3 lety

    Honesty is what I got from his MoMA. As long as my child is happy I am good. I also like Simas answer in regards to liking and appreciating her as his partner by the similarities that they shared. Stay in Loveand be Blessed 💞

  • @pwellington767
    @pwellington767 Před 3 lety +2

    I love viewing what you share with us. Remove skin colour from the equation and we are really the same.Keep spreading love and understanding. And Avri, how are your medical studies getting on? Please press on: I think you will be great.

  • @kindnessducuray2656
    @kindnessducuray2656 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you so much mom you’re the best❤️❤️💕

  • @cherroxanne1339
    @cherroxanne1339 Před 3 lety +2

    Lovely video. God's continued blessings over you all!! 💕👍🏽

  • @tracydlu530
    @tracydlu530 Před 2 lety

    I like your explanation Simas, it's so true.

  • @francesiadams7723
    @francesiadams7723 Před 3 lety +5

    I love you both , I like both of your accents I missed Georgia she can sure nuff cook and has a funny sense of humor. I like Simas parents also

  • @catherinewilliams815
    @catherinewilliams815 Před 3 lety

    Avri and Simas you guys are great. Keep loving each other. God bless.

  • @maffangel6256
    @maffangel6256 Před 3 lety

    Simas is a very kool and down to earth type of guy, I have nuff respect for him
    And his mom is really nice

  • @crich14ify
    @crich14ify Před 3 lety

    Really lovely and honest q and a x

  • @sandraperry6454
    @sandraperry6454 Před 2 lety

    I just tuned in You guys are so cute 🥰 Simas is s great guy!!

  • @americannativeindianjamaci4971

    I am a new subscriber I love this channel they are so adorable together.As a biracial couple..And Scott Mom is so supportive..May Jah Jah Bless them🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @joyt9389
    @joyt9389 Před 3 lety +1

    Hey guys, my husband and I have been watching you since a few days now. We love you both. Yaadies of course but lives in NJ.

  • @marvinb832
    @marvinb832 Před 3 lety +31

    How did Avri's mum feel about Avri marrying a white boy?!

    • @kimbronicelooking839
      @kimbronicelooking839 Před 3 lety +3

      Most times black guys mum always get more happy when their son or children get marryin to white ,we all no that

    • @tb8363
      @tb8363 Před 3 lety +1

      I bet the next video will tell us :) I hope so anyway.

    • @esternwairimu4959
      @esternwairimu4959 Před 3 lety +9

      @@kimbronicelooking839 not all their are also black families who hate interracial marriages

    • @GodYourHighnessYourMajesty
      @GodYourHighnessYourMajesty Před 3 lety +5

      Great question! People act like marrying white is some form of come up🤦🏽 raCoon energy💯smmfh

    • @vickiematias3922
      @vickiematias3922 Před 3 lety

      @@kimbronicelooking839 I have 5 sons and I gave a damn who they dated and married,as long as they have respect for each other

  • @janicegriffith4844
    @janicegriffith4844 Před 3 lety

    This is my first time watching your videos, I love them I must say

  • @okosobi44
    @okosobi44 Před 3 lety +20

    You two are a lovely couple, Colour doesn't matter and both Mothers are awesome. 😍 😍 😍 😍 ♥ ♥

  • @julietbennett121
    @julietbennett121 Před 3 lety

    Simas, I love your answer to the final question. Two working parents without lots of wealth from different parts of the world came to the USA with the same goal in mind (the American dream). Their children found each other felt in love, working hard and supporting each other. Color should not define love. Love is love. Money should not define love. Love is love. Too many Americans are caught up in wealth vs poor. Sometimes a person may find their true love in college, on street, on the train, online dating but because of race, status, wealth parents don’t accept. Thanks you Simas, Avril and your mom for doing this blog.

  • @andreaebanks1349
    @andreaebanks1349 Před 3 lety

    New subscriber. Love you guys. I am from Jamaica as well❤️

  • @Fishinghawk007
    @Fishinghawk007 Před 3 lety +1

    You mom look really young. This is the second video I'm seeing very good so far.

  • @lurleenfrancis797
    @lurleenfrancis797 Před 3 lety +1

    Honestly Simas you and your mom looks like Brother and sister. Just like Avri and her mom looks like sisters, 💜you guys keep doing your best.

  • @IamaDesignerOriginal
    @IamaDesignerOriginal Před 3 lety +11

    Simas and his mom look a lot alike wow

  • @soniaunstoppable4862
    @soniaunstoppable4862 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes. He has a young looking mom. Love you guys.

  • @hyacinthwright1326
    @hyacinthwright1326 Před 3 lety

    Avri!!! Simms mom is so honest,she tell the other girl later alligator 🐊 no sah

  • @judithharrison6181
    @judithharrison6181 Před 3 lety +2

    Simas you do look like your mom. I am glad you just want your son to be happy. That is a blessing, since the World has so many racial issues. Stay safe and happy and healthy.🙏🏽👌