The dark side of being in an interracial relationship
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- čas přidán 9. 06. 2023
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As a black man I hope you both live long and happy lives.😀
Aw thank you, right back at ya!! 🤍
As an old white guy, I would stare at you two because I would be thinking...my god those to are so cute together. And they are going to make the world a better place.
Aww haha that is so sweet!!! Bless you ❤️❤️
okay jew lol
You should get away from your video games and live a real life. Join the real military...it will do you some good. @@PsyfadZ10
Interracial marriage does not erase racism nor make the world a better place, this is just ignorance coming from "color blind" white people who do not know the trauma experienced by non-white people and biracial and mixed race individuals.
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Me and my husband had to go through the dark sides of being in a interracial marriage because he's black and I'm white. He is my first love and we met in 2021 at a bible study group and we got married in 2023. I love our diversity of culture because he grew up in the urban neighborhood on the Southside of Chicago and I grew up in the northern suburbs of Winnetka, Illinois where all the wealthy people are at. I didn't care about because he was working class and I'm upper class, our love for each other was amazing. I took him to some spots in my neighborhood and he took me to some spots in his neighborhood especially that black owned donut place in his neighborhood. I really enjoy eating some Harold's Chicken for my first time with him. I'm deaf with autism and he's a hearing person. I could speak sign language and I have to wear cochlear implants on my ear so I could hear you. Me and my husband are happy for you Joshua and Alicia, don't worry about the backlash coming from people because it made you guys strong within your marriage, same as me and my husband. God bless and have a safe day!
What a beautiful story!! Joshua was born in Chicago and has family there, so Chicago is definitely high on our travel list! We are so happy to hear that the two of you are happily married and that your differences have only made you stronger ❤️ God bless
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I'm a white woman, and I've dated several Black men in my life. I've also dated Asian, Middle Eastern, and Latino men. I was always interested in the person inside.
The man I'm with right now is Black. We're old, but he's hot! He is the love of my life. I feel so lucky and blessed that he loves me.
Thank you both for talking about these issues. He's from California, and I'm from Boston. But we met in the South. And yes, we have been stared at. It is so ignorant and rude. When we go out to eat, and no one is staring at us at all, and everybody is just minding their own business, it is so refreshing!
I wish you both very long, happy lives. And yes, your babies will be gorgeous! My boyfriend and I wish we could have children, but we're too old! But everyday is precious!
I (Alicia) feel the exact same way! I could never fall in love with someone based on their appearance, it's their heart that does it for me ❤️ I'm so sorry to hear about your experience of being looked at... that is not fun at all. I also hope that you and your partner are able to adopt or foster or somehow parent even if it is not biological ❤️ Bless you guys!
So basically you are from the streets
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@@aliciaandjoshua
You're with a black male because you don't care about his skin color.
He's with you BECAUSE he cares about your skin color.
@julieontology7214,
You're with him because you don't care about his skin color.
He's with you BECAUSE he cares about your skin color.
Black males WORLDWIDE practice INTRA-racism and colorism against their own race of black women.
He will NEVER admit this to you.
He'll just gas-light you forever.
When you're a Christian and a follower of Christ, real love with a good soulmate doesn't have a skin color to it because me and my sister are black and married to white. We are married to them because my love for my wife is genuine and the love my sister have for her husband is genuine. We don't care about the backlash because our soulmate have our backs and we got theirs. I wish nothing but the best for you and your wife.
THIS comment is EXACTLY how we see it ❤️ God bless you and your sister's marriages 🙏🏼✨️
This is absolutely the truth. God created all people and Jesus’ grace and salvation is available to all who will come to Him, despite skin tone. There is only one race and that is the human race.
Amen to that brother
I love interracial relationships and marriages. It's good to see more black and white coming together instead of being divided like the media wants us to be because I'm tired of this racial division and stereotype in our society. I wish nothing but the best for you and your wife.
Thank you so much! We couldnt agree with you more!! ❤️
Hi I am from a mixed background. It is so beautiful to see you being from South Africa. I am also from South Africa, my mother is black mother and my paternal grandfather is Irish. I am so happy because I speak all black languages. I experienced racism from black people. We lived in Soweto, oblivious as children to racism. My dad suffered the most as he is very fair. We eventually had to move to an erea called Kliptown. That is where we were much happier.
Hello fellow South African!! 👋🏻❤️ I am so glad your family was able to move somewhere that is less racist where you can all be happier and safer! I wish you all the best 🥰
As a black man, I get asked "Is it true what they say about Black men". My answer is always the same "I dont know, I've never slept with one".
PERFECT RESPONSE 😂🙌🏼
There's nothing wrong with interracial couples honestly as long as the couple are good to each other, then there shouldn't be a problem because in the end of the day, they still eat, they still drink, they still sleep, they do whatever they want to do. In shorter words, they're still human that navigates through life like everyone.
Amen!! Thanks for watching 🤍
@@Pepper98776 yes! People keep forgetting that the majority (99%) of people are stupid idiots who are stuck in the stone age. we need to raise awareness abt this 🙏
@@Pepper98776only because of white worship, fetishism, and white entitlement.
@@veronicaana I assure you white women are more attracted to Africans than we are to them. Your mothers and grandmothers go to Africa to chase after beach boys then their grandkids remain in their countries talking about White fetishism on social media comments .
@@aliciaandjoshua
Black males WORLDWIDE practice INTRA-racism and colorism against their own race of black women.
But you think white people are the racists???
Blacks are basically a self-hating race.
Black males want mixed kids and white grandchildren.
Imagine a world where black males actually valued their own race of black women.
Imagine...
This white woman is clueless.
Now of course, I'll be called a "racist" for speaking the truth.
Respond to my comments.
We both know that you won't.
Wow, both of you look absolutely beautiful together.I am thankful that interracial dating and marriage is common and acceptable in today’s society. Both of you are very attractive people.
Thank you so much ❤️
Just discovered this amazing channel..oh God, I can't believe ive been missing out.❤❤
Aww you are so sweet! WELCOME! ❤️
I’m in a interracial marriage and I understand. But, my wife and I have never experienced these types of people. Because we think in terms of. This is our reality and I think when you think this way you tend to not see or meet these kinds of people. And I also think that a lot of interracial people manifest this environment. Change your thinking and your reality and your life will change. God bless you guys.
If you are a white man with a black woman, no big deal but if you are a black man with a white woman, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. And I say that as a black man.
As a Black man I never will experience this..Because I was taught to never Marry out side my race.Never produce Children either...
But at the same time people go do what they want anyway..But right now I have the Deal of the Century I'm single with NO KIDS 😂😂😂. This a True BLESSING for me💯💯🙏🙏
I like that you guys made this video because you’re addressing what you guys went through but all seriousness it’s like 2024 and people should just mind their business colour and rice. Doesn’t matter if you guys love each other.
You guys are beautiful together 🥹
Aw thank you so much Laila!! ❤️❤️❤️
So sorry to hear about what you went through, some people are so heartless! You both are so special to me,😍
Thank you so much ❤ At the end of the day we get more love than hate, so we are grateful 😊
i am in full support of this relationship i pray the best for you
Thank you so much ❤️
@@aliciaandjoshua don't listen to the haters
Glad there are people who get it. I’m thinking about starting a channel myself with the guy I’m dating. Honestly, I just see him as a person and he’s been the best partner that I’ve had. I never had a problem dating any race for that matter lol but sometimes people seem to have a problem when it comes to interracial couples between Black and White people.
You should totally do it! Yeah, its funny that people care so much about something that has nothing to do with them 😂
Please do not tarnish everyone with the same brush. You are a wonderful couple. Keep on keeping on.❤
I wish the best for you both. You are a proof that people can love and be friends despite outward appearances or the ignorance of narrow minded people. God bless you.
Thank you so much! God bless you too ❤️
@@aliciaandjoshua Thank you!
Just felt the need to comment how CUTE I find you two to be together. Adorable couple. I wish you happiness and success. 💕
Aww thank you so much for the love!! Bless you ❤️
Thank you for this valuable information, im falling into interracial relationship ,we have not told of the dark side , thank you wonderful couple
Congrats! The good FAR out weighs the bad, but its good to be aware of the things people might say so that it doesn't shock you when it eventually happens 🤍 Wishing you guys all the best!!
Very nice to see two well educated people talk about the realities that, unfortunately still exist. I'm a 58 tear old man that has parents similar in color to Joshua. I too, look more like Joshua than Alicia, in color of skin. I grew up in an area that was almost completely white. Fortunately, almost all the people in my area treated everyone nicely. But the fact that you are looked at differently still was the norm. It's tough to navigate, for sure, particularly in dating people of a different skin color them yours. When I asked a girl out and was turned down, you wonder if it was just because they weren't interested because of the same reasons they would be with a person with the same skin color as theirs? Or was it because of my skin color. I must say that I am not perfect and have my own personal preferences, when it comes to the women I'm attracted too.
I’ve Really Enjoyed Watching This..!!! ♥️ Thanks For Sharing.
You are so welcome!! Bless you 🤍
There is no dark side to interracial relationships. Just be true to each other and check the haters with wisdom and kindness....keep it moving.
I am Native American from rural AZ. The highest frequency of interracial relationships relative to population size occurs among Native Americans. It's rare to find a truly full-blooded Native American. The majority are part white. If you go to Oklahoma (Central USA), almost all of them are part white with a broad range of skin tones. Some are light-skinned and appear fully Caucasian. Others almost look full-blooded with the brown complexion and jet-black hair.
Given the history and my experiences, I have a more nuanced, case-by-case view in regards to interracial relationships. I am aware that some are positive with mutual respect. Unfortunately, I have also observed other cases where the "respect" factor is not there. In the latter, it usually involves colorism. The "colorism" is a form of discrimination within minority groups such that darker-skinned individuals can be ostracized or excluded. In interracial relationships, there are some (not all) where one person rejects his or her own community to date a white person. This does happen among Native Americans. I know it also happens among African Americans.
Examples of colorism include Tiger Woods, OJ Simpson, RGIII, Herschel Walker, etc. All have a preference for blonde white woman. RGIII and Herschel both impregnated blonde (dyed) female track stars from FSU. OJ was all over the media back in the 90s with his murder trial. I have witnessed such colorism in-person at a gym in FL. I once overheard a black bodybuilder who boasted in the locker that he "doesn't like bl-ck women". He was discriminating against women from his ethnicity while pursuing blonde white women from FSU. His lust appeared insatiable in that regard - lol. With that said, there are positive counterexamples. Not all interracial relationships should be assumed to be based on colorism. That assumption would be a form of discrimination within itself.
I empathize with you both. The racism you describe is horrible but does not surprise me. In 1987 when I was 18, I was in a shopping mall in Indiana and recall a young interracial couple with a black male and white female. They were about my age. I thought it was a positive relationship rising above the historical racial tension of the Midwest which had a plethora of white-flight suburbs back then. I noticed an elderly white female staring at them with disgust and extreme contempt. Then I saw two white supremacists confront and assault the two in full view of a busy shopping mall at rush hour on a weekday. The two white men were arrested and hauled away, but a shouting match ensued which was horrible.
In such racism, the slurs are common on social media. A common one is "co-l b-rner' or "m-d sh-rk" against the white women. There is a stigma that appears more covert these days. White men who would not outright discriminate against an interracial couple like those two men in 1987 may still express covert racism in the following way. If the interracial couple breaks up and the white woman moves on and dates other white men - the latter may reject her if it is found that she had dated interracially. I saw a YT channel of an older white female (blonde) who had mixed half-black children. She noted how white men who initially expressed interest would quickly withdraw once they learned she had half-black children from a previous interracial relationship. So, the covert racism is still commonly expressed in that way. Such men may not yell racial slurs in a shopping mall or assault an interracial couple. But when it comes to that decision point there can still be stigmatization rooted in racism.
As for me, I have dated interracially. I had a blonde white girlfriend in FL - a southern belle. Picture a big Apache Indian with a bodybuild of a college football linebacker with a feminine, petite blonde woman. Most of the time, the young adults of Florida did not seem to care. Occasionally, some young adults would stare but they seemed more surprised than hateful. But one time we were stalked by what appeared to be a racist sheriff. He kept posting himself around us while we were sitting at a busy outdoor set of tables of a Starbucks. There were many young adult couples - mostly white. But the cop was focused on us. He kept staring at me and appeared to want to arrest me. Then he went to his patrol car and drove closer to us and kept staring. My girlfriend didn't notice it but I did. Eventually, he drove away, but I really didn't like that. My view was that the white southerners had already intermarried with Native Americans for hundreds of years. So, the cop was kind of impractical in trying to "stop" interracial dating with Native Americans when it has already happened for so long that many white southerns have partial Native American ancestry. Examples include Elvis Presley (1/16 Cherokee), Heather Lochlear (1/8 Lumbee), etc. I had "white" coworkers with such distant indigenous ancestry. Go figure. To be fair, I know not all white cops are like that. I met many nice white cops in my life. But that guy seemed like a bad apple that day with his stalking.
As for an added dimension of racism, there are still white women who can be racist - even the young ones. Google "racist woman at Kentucky" and you will see a blonde white college female who assaulted a black female. I have seen clusters of young racist white women and men in Florida - the percentage is small and infrequent. But it can happen. They give off a real bad vibe and usually have racist gossip on social media private to them. Some of the racist women can hold "black face" parties at a sorority. But the percentage is small - it's just that when I am near them I can feel it. The acerbic tone of resentment gets obvious. So, I stay away. But most young Floridians were mellow and inclusive in my experience.
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My wife is an extrovert and I am an introvert. Since she likes to go out, I do take her out about once or twice a week. I don't like being stared at, but I guess it shouldn't bother me. When we are at home just her and me, there is no race, its just us and I love that
as long as you like each other. that's all that matters
This happened to me and my friend who happened to be half black in the U.S. I was very disappointed in the reaction of just spending time together in a platonic way.
My husband is half asian and for whatever reason he's darker then me but I haven't had any negative comments toward our relationship. Unfortunately though, I refused to agree that we haven't made strides in America in our justice system. In response, I was told because of the color of my skin I was responsible for the death's of African Americans and I needed to "stop killing them." This slander against people who are white is just as racist and comes from misplaced animosity.
It's very interesting how the darkness of your skin seems to play a role, its so dumb. Can we just get back to judging based on character not skin tone that would be great!
Agreed! Racism affects all races. We just need to be kind and appreciative of our differences rather than judgmental
@@aliciaandjoshua Absolutely, I wish you two a very happy life and I've really enjoyed your videos! The best part is God did not design us to hate one another but to love. ❤
Sometimes you dont know other people's backgrounds that aren't compatible with your identity its best to stick to your own and leave some people to their own.
Interracial love is beautiful
We think so too 🥰 Thank you Christopher
Great editing babe, I love this video and you ❤
Thank you my love ❤
This is a great vid ❤ it really gives ppl a good perspective of some ppls interracial relationships.
Thank you, we really appreciate it ❤️
Wish both of you the best then, the best part of it is that both of you are killing "Racism"which is "Good"and positive, congratulations 🎉 and continue "pumping up the jam"both of you are pioneers of "one world 🌏"
Thank you so much 🥹❤️
Welcome 🤗
Interracial marriage does not kill racism.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I’m Palestinian-Bulgarian from a mixed Muslim-Christian family. "Where are you from?" is always a difficult question for me to answer. I’ve never felt fully accepted in either the Bulgarian or Arab community and sometimes I've encountered racism and stereotypes about my background. Being mixed has its challenges, but in recent years, I've come to appreciate the beauty of it. I realized that being mixed is one of the main reasons why I get along so well with different people, regardless of how different they are to me, where they come from, how they think and which religion they follow. Being mixed is a true blessing that makes a more well-rounded and tolerant human being.
That is so beautiful that you have been able to accept yourself for being mixed and to use it as a strength! I pray our future children will feel the same. For us, religion and race are two very different things. We believe that regardless of race Jesus Christ is the only way and truth. Our children, even though they will be biracial will only have one faith to guide them ❤️ Thank you for sharing your experience, God bless you
@@Pepper98776You’re hurting racist. Go heal
I feel the same way, being from a mixed race is privilege. I get along with every one, because we have families from all sides of the race groups. When I see black people, I see my family, , also on the hand, when I see mixed race they are like my other family as well. I just love and enjoy every minute. People are ignorant sometimes.
Beautiful young couple. Cling together and overcome the ignorance of small minded people.
Aw thank you, bless you!
Well, that's very nice to hear that some men can actually do something about people dating outside in the rain
Love you guys.....❤
Love you too Kenny!
Much love and praise to you both.May the MOST HIGH cover and care for you.
Thank you so much! God bless you 🤍
Thank you for bringing this to our attention. Wish you everlasting happiness and protection from all the dark forces in the universe.
Aw we so appreciate that. God bless you ❤️
Some people also stare at people if they are overweight!😅 This people are very unhappy with themselves! I would just smile at them 🤣
Good bless you both & you are an example for young generations be strong 🎉
Thank you so much. God bless you ❤️
@@Pepper98776 if the thing u are most afraid of is marrying someone w a different skin color maybe u should see a therapist lol
@@Pepper98776 aw thank you bestie
I don't get when people judge others like this... Who the helllll careeeesssss why bother waisting your timeeee..... We have limited time on earth so why even??? Good video people are stupid end of story.
Yeah, I just always resort back to the phrase "hurt people, hurt people". When you are truly happy, being mean and judgmental doesn't come naturally. So I try to extend them some grace 😅... sometimes its hard but we try lol
Thank you for being such brave human beings and speaking your truth & telling your story… that’s absolutely devastating that you two had to go through all that😔 I’m so glad you found each other, bless you guys🤍
Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words 🥹 Even though some of the things we have experienced haven't been that great, it is a blessing to have a relationship that can make people second guess their judgments about the world ❤
Joshua MUST practice racial purity. Alicia is ruining our bloodline.
Yes it's ashamed I know a woman people following her in their car and hacking her phone only God can protect us.
Prejudice is what it is: you cannot afford to change every begotted ignorant mind. Can you imagine that question about how your kid will look like was considered normal conversation in royal family circles of UK about Meghan and Harry. No one asks such questions about couples of same race or ethnicity or religion😮
It is simultaneously sad and a bit funny to me that some people spend their energy concerned about what my kids will look like 😂
I am from Brazil and we have a low level of racism, so, here you would be a great and awsome couple. Your children would be loved and almost nobody or nobody would care about your private Life. Thank you for what you are doing.
Is it normal to see black men and white women in Brazil? (I mean if they are in the same income group)
@@donquixote3292 Totally normal. We have some questions related to diferent levels of education but the skin collor or race are not the main factor to prevent two persons of getting married.
I usually do not comment, but you both are soo sweet :) Wish you all the best!
Thank you so much! We really appreciate that 🥹❤️ Bless you!
Joshua looks nervous. Haha😂... Man, I suffer with that too
I'm Puerto Rican and my hubby is black. We went through the dark side of our relationship because we was childhood best friends. We was apart of the LGBT community lifestyle but we give up our lifestyle for Jesus. I rejected the gospel and didn't see him for about a year then we ran into each other again and I was ready to accept the gospel because he gave up his lifestyle when he was 20. We both are 24.
If two humans love each other, why would mean people dare judge?. Senegal, West Africa.
That is how we think too... we honour God, we honour others and we honour ourselves 🤍 Thank you for watching and supporting us, God bless!
I am so sad this is part of your story. Loads of love and care your way.
Oh and that is beyond UPSETTING about the website and so troubling on every level.
Thank you Amy ❤️ We really appreciate it. Sending love right back!! ✨️
Man, I’m sorry to hear that man. Racism and discrimination is not dead, I experience it as a black female in corporate America. Love you both and yes your babies will be drop live gorgeous 😂❤
So sorry to hear that you experience it too 😓 And thank you so much 🥰
BOTH OF YOU ARE so attractive and beautiful ❤️❤️. I can not imagine the kind of kids you will produce: your babies will be beautiful.
AW thank you so much, you are so kind!! We will find out in a few months what our baby looks like 🥹
Be fruitful and multiply
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I love this video
Is so informative
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Glad you liked it! Thank you for commenting ❤️
Me and my wife are in a interracial marriage because I'm black and she's Indian who grew up in southern India. Her name is Selciya and i met her at college and i repent of my sins because she was saved before me and i was Bible study partners.
I feel happy for you and your wife, I'll never have a woman in my life but I'm so happy for you I wish the best.
I'm Hispanic and have dated mostly White women and there's always looks, and some ppl that don't like it. To me the most passionate relationships I've had are with White women, she just seems to value me more for who I am, my brown skin color, my accent when it comes out, my heritage, the food lol.
Is it fair to say that the hate directed at BMWW relationships is exceptionally higher than what you see for WMBW?
If a person is onest he loves me responsible sincere there is nodiscomfort, less weapons more love. Keep it up a kiss to your beatiful boy!🥰🥰
I just read him your comment and he said "guess you better kiss me then" 😂❤️ Thanks for watching Sara
Beautiful couple 🙏🔥
Thank you! 🥹❤️
I am glad there are some people in support of this couple, as am I, but god DAMN there is a fucking clan meeting in the Newest First section of comments.
Don't let these jerks get you, Alicia and Joshua!
Some men are so deceptive, but I just have to be careful getting my man.
Live should be so much easier and all the people who want to harm you are wrong.
Love you both as people and as a couple. More power and love to both of you, from my experience I recommend please ignore those racist idiots.
Thank you so much Calvin! Sending love to you also! Haha yes, we think its ridiculous when people get angry about two different races accepting and loving each other... like, whats the down side of it!??
Actually I wanted to comment on this. So I’m a black man and I’m attracted to mainly three ethnicities of women. So I like Asian, White, Spanish women. Now all the ethnicities I haven’t mentioned are still beautiful women. Just because your born a certain race does not mean you have to date that race by default. Also when I do talk to different ethnicities I’m not focusing on that. I’m looking for hobbies, interests, likes, morals, long term goals, short term goals. Usually the race is last on my list. So if your a man or woman it doesn’t matter. Finding somebody that loves you for you. They will use shaming tactics, death threats or harass you if you date outside your race. As I’ve seen every-time a black man dates outside his race always some pushback . Saying things like you don’t love your self, mom, dad, community. Never in my life did I think genital police 👮♀️ 👮 existed but here we are. Luckily my mom and dad told me find someone who loves you no matter what skin color they might be. Plus the biggest part in all of this is I’m a grown adult I don’t need nobody permission to date another ethnicity. You can find love inside or outside your race. You choose and no race matters more than the human race cause we’re all human. Please forgive the long post but I’m happy for the both of you😇🙂.
Thank you for sharing that! I love what you said about the human race being the most important ❤️ bless you
@@aliciaandjoshua No, problem in my life I’ve met all different ethnicities all amazing i my view. I didn’t want to live a year ago. I’m still here trying to walk forward so in my life now all I want is peace ☮️ 😇. Bless you both 🙂
Spanish is a nationality. Asian and white are racial groups (Spanish from Spain is a part of the white race).
Just dont post your relationship online
For me, it was awkward to sit down watching movies with my family.
When they group up to watch a movie and a race situation comes up, they express their racist feelings out loud and I can hear them from afar.
When I watch a movie WITH them, they throw some little softball racist comments just to not offend me but I can see in their game.
When my Canadian girlfriend comes to watch movies with my family, my parents said "JACK". Nothing negative the WHOLE movie.
I watch a movie alone with my girlfriend and we end up watching black actors movie sometimes. Some are safe like: Denzel Washington, Wesley Snipes, Cuba Gooding Jr, Adrius Alba, Will Smith, Terry Cruse, Chris Tucker, Maybe Eddie Murphy etc.
But she feels uncomfortable and wants to change movies the moment it goes to: Eddie Griffin, Martin Lewis, Chris Rock, Kat Williams, Ice Cube, etc.
I’m Muslim woman and we don’t have issues to get marry with any race i went to date with African American guy everyone was staring at us that I’m white and he is black and I didn’t like that bcz we are human does not matter what’s your race. And in the end we decided to meet 2 time ❤🎉
The problem is: Some are only in IR relationships to prove something to the world or just to be rebellious or to charity date.
And some people hate seeing other people happy so they make up pretend reasons as to why people are "secrety unhappy" just to make themselves feel better
Gorgeous couple ❤❤
Aw thank you so much ❤️
I feel like people should be able to date & be with who makes them
Happy as long as both are treating each other right color has not mattered to me &
Shouldn’t matter
Agreed! 🙌🏼
I think USA and South Africa, for different reasons but because of the similar racial segregation that lasted for centuries, are the 2 hardest countries for IR relationships. This doesn't mean that in other countries racism doesn't exist, we all know that it is unfortunately a worldwide problem. But these two countries have the Guinness world record (of course, in a negative way). I truly hope things will turn better for the next generations
human beings resist, fear, and sometimes hate anyone who is not exactly like them. Even those who look alike and speak the same language will find a thing to disunite themselves and use it as a basis to hate each other. It could be as mundane as body height; shape or size of nose. In Rwanda, people who speak the same language and mostly look alike killed each other based on an artificial divide that was perpetuated by the Belgians during colonialism. People died solely based on whether their nose was pointed or flattened and if the nose was somewhere in between, their height was the factor that determined whether one lived or died!!! The Belgians used a classification that had previously been used to describe what kind of work one did in the Kingdom of Rwanda and they turned it into a thing that divided the people; 75 years after they had done it, those people killed each other based on the perversion of the Belgians. Whereas in predominantly white countries, you find racism against black people; in predominantly black countries you find tribalism and classism. In countries like China which never had racism, it is beginning to show its ugly head. Ironically, the only nation on earth where you are sure not to face racism is North Korea whose people are not yet fully exposed to the world. I have been to China and you'll only find an absence of racism in areas where they have not been exposed to westernisation: in such areas, you find that people are genuinely curious to find out about a person of a different colour without them bearing any fear or biases. From my observation, racism is taught.
"Concern are unnecessary" well said:
Being concerned of partners without any of the two involved have reached out to you for being in danger, is called inappropriate intruding.
Agreed!
I realy appreciate you guys because you decided what sounds you better ,and I would concern racism is only a crime or it is judgement saying God has made a mistake for creating diverse societies
Most people will act and claim that they’re ok with seeing interracial couples but studies show they are not. A study from the University of Washington showed that participants who were hooked up to an EEG machine would claim they saw nothing wrong with being shown pictures of mixed-race couples but nearly all of them had the area of the brain associated with disgust sensitivity firing off.
From my interracial dating experiences guys don’t like seeing girls of the same race with a man of a different race. Interracial dating is simply not worth it, especially considering that there enough troubles in maintaining and growing a relationship as is. Another problem with interracial dating is you have to be careful that the other person didn’t choose you out of a fetish because many people seem to date other races for what you are rather than who you are. It isn’t worth it long-term, I’m speaking from what the data shows and my personal experience
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Is it true?
Haters gonna hate!! Love your ❤ new sub!!
Aww thank you so much!! 🥹❤️
You guys seem like a great couple man. My girl and I which she is white. We been together close to a year now. And things have just been so damn lopsided lately because of my family. Mainly my mom and her rude comments about my girl. And honestly I love them both. But I would at least want them on the same page. My girl has clarified countless of times how she doesn’t have a problem with my mom. But it seems to always be my mom making the comments about her. Idk wish I ofc have a better way of fixing the issue. But like my girl mother said, it will be hard between the both of us due to the history of both sides and how others will view things of not being right. Considering her parents and family accepted me. My main supporter, my mom. Can’t even…yeah. The least I want her to do is try. But I’m dealing with a hard thing right now and don’t know what to do
I'm so sorry to hear that! It's hard when someone you care about doesn't like the person you are with - especially when its for something the person you're with can't control 😓. Just make sure to keep only telling your mom good things about your girlfriend and maybe give your girlfriend advice on ways to prove to your mom that being white doesnt automatically make you a bad person. Im thinking, cooking for her, cleaning her kitchen, buying her a really thoughtful gift. We will keep you guys in our prayers ❤️
Your mother is hurt and may feel like your choice means that you don't love yourself or the people who look like you. (i.e. her)
As a white male I think you are a nice couple ❤
Thank you 🤍
@@aliciaandjoshuaAnd I am not woke😊
I was walking with my wife and a young couple was walking in front of us. He white and she black. I said to my wife "look at the couple!" then the couple turned around. Then i said ,like we did 25 years ago. The two had to laugh, because I'm also white and my wife is black. We live in a village and fortunately there are no problems here. But we also live in Germany. One day WE went to America in vacation and need to write oure Race in a form. I ask the black officer " what do you mean?" Human? He looked at me. No your skin color. Okay. In Germany That is against the law. In America my wife went to an afrostore and i was waiting in Front of. Some ask me what i am waiting for and ask me If my wife is black. I was a litle Bit surprised and ask them. Is That Something Special to have a black wife?
For the Sex: my Friends asked me. I told them: Not your Business.
But the Friends of my wife asked too. How is IT with a whity and how Long.😂
I am so sorry to hear that has been your experience! A lot of people have no concept of boundries. Thank you for watching our video! It's so nice to get in touch with a couple who is in the same boat as us 😊❤️
Love you.🇳🇬
I been in a relationship with a white girl 13-15 years ago & I’m black
People where looking at us like insane but we ignore them ❤ & we keep kissing and loving each
That's so beautiful. Where do you live? ❤️
@@aliciaandjoshua Ottawa, Ontario Canada
I always dreamed to be married to a white girl and make my life with a soulmate
@@superchargedgamer1992see that’s one of the issues that permeates the interracial discussion…..you ‘FANTASIZE’ about being with a white person, not necessarily seeing that person as their own individual…you just care about them for the white skin the possess
@@roranoazoro6961White worship and fetishism is why many forms of interracial relationships are weird.
beautiful,stay strong black man , many white women
I’m so glad I left an interracial situation. Spare me that shallowness. I no longer want or need that in my life ever again.
Sounds like it was the person, not the skin colour that was the problem
@@aliciaandjoshuaDoubtful at least in the USA. Relationships between white women and black men have the highest failure rates. 200% chance of divorce, highest dv rates, 92% oow birth rates. Only white people that race mix are ones who have mommy/daddy issues or suffer from self hate.
@@Pepper98776 You can become a single Mother no matter the race because its about the heart.
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I have taken Sociology: Marriage and Family and there was inconsistent evidence of such a claim.
@@Pepper98776 You are just ignorant and truly racist though I detest how overused that word is in the U.S. There is no evidence that Africans are less than people with lighter skin. You need be discerning about a person's actions and heart behind it not their skin tone otherwise you will have some very serious disappointments in life.
I love both of you so much and 100% believe God has bring you together ❤ Joshua is the best son-in-law I cold wish for! And please give us grand babies soon!!!! I can't wait any longer 🙏🙏🙏🙏
We love you too mumma! Hahaha we shall see... 😂❤
Cute af dude and dudette
I don't get it? because the skin color is different people have an issue? What if a white woman gets very Tanned? is that an issue? They are simply a beautiful couple.
Thank you ❤️ We agree! The shade of your skin shouldn't be a reason to experience hate
Congratulations guys, make it work. I think being in another race it's not a problem as long as you attracted to each other. If we can look at this world we living is a test from God to see how much we love him by getting along despite our race, since he created us differently to any other creatures - He has given us wisdom and choices and discerning spirit to make the best decision to benefit us and Him. South Africa is home
Thank you! And we couldn't agree more 😊
They’re cute together
Aw thank you!
12:00...is it??????
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Both are beautiful ❤❤ i pleasure to watch you
Aw thank you so much!
Honestly I Am Not Nor Ever Been Interested More Comfortable With My Own Race However To Each It's Own Though Good Luck Peace
Wooooooow wife is from South Africa 🇿🇦 😍, im also from South Africa and I have a German husband. I can full relate to everything you mentioned. You guys are gorgeous. Can I ask how your parents reacted to you having a black boyfriend
Thank you so much ❤️ My parents were completely accepting of it! I did however have some more distant family members make critisisms of our relationship. However, it only took time for them to see how happy we were and how amazing Josh is until they felt ashamed of how quickly they judged. I feel happy that my marriage can make people change their negative views on an interracial relationship ❤️
❤❤❤❤ your parents are one of a kind. Have you guys been to South Africa together. Which country is more difficult to be in with your husband, for me its definitely South Africa. People are still quite judgemental. Me as a black woman People think I'm with a white guy to escape poverty, but you definitely have to just live your own life. I'd love to cross paths and have a double date, but is your instagram or Facebook. You can send privately 😊
@@aliciaandjoshuaStill Unnatural and Immoral
this is a big wow to see of a south african white woman... very rare like a welwitschia plant
In Africa they will stare at me all the time blacky is called natural racial community reaction
Is it true what they say about us black guys? Some of us are Crazy? 🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️ In a a very good way tho.
Good couple
Aw thank you so much! Bless you
"what's your kids gonna look like" the kids are going to be 75-80% wht, their gonna be wht as snow and get good tans
Our kids will be 50% caucasian and 50% african american 😊
@@aliciaandjoshuaI thought Josh is half white?
@@aliciaandjoshuano they will all look like african 😂
@@aliciaandjoshuaSo Mongrels
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Good luck in your relationship, very attractive couple 👍
Aw thank you so much! 🥰🫶