AA Speaker Pat A. - "Relationships and Sex in the Fellowship Workshop"

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  • čas přidán 11. 07. 2024
  • Website - www.aaspeaker.com
    Instagram - / aaspeakerdotcom
    AA Speaker Pat A. bas been married 3 times, is a marriage/family/child therapist, and gives great sex advice in this workshop on relationships, at an Alcoholics Anonymous Conference. She is a self-proclaimed blackout drunk, who is an expert at lousy relationships, and makes the commitment in this talk to show you how to have a compulsive relationship.
    While illustrating AA connections to psychology, she tells a story of when Bill Wilson went to consult with Carl Jung about the differences between women and men. She goes on to gives great advice about having sex with those in the fellowship, and how to handle a relationship if you have a masculine or feminine personality, but she warns to not get addicted to your partner.
    This is a longer workshop because Pat has a Q and A session from the audience at the 47:45 mark.
    · Do you agree with the logic or know the difference between the F and U, one-night-stands, affairs, and relationships? Do you think it would work for the masculine personality?
    · What if, despite your definition, I don’t know whether I am the feminine or the masculine?
    · What if the woman does not feel comfortable with sex until much later in the relationship, but the man is always frustrated?
    · I always want to be the feminine energy, but I always choose feminine men. What do I do?
    · I always want more than he does…
    · What if I’m not sure what I want from the feminine?
    · If you are the female and are paying the rent and taking care of the male how do you remain the feminine side of the relationship?
    · How does your horoscope effect your energy?
    · And more not listed here for space…

Komentáře • 27

  • @rachc2236
    @rachc2236 Před 6 lety +21

    Shes a legend...

  • @doreenkennie1714
    @doreenkennie1714 Před 5 lety +9

    Awesome work shop. #repeat

  • @terrycurtis9757
    @terrycurtis9757 Před 7 lety +23

    this is extremely excellent. weak on steps and traditions, but very powerful on expanding the basic premises of AA as it relates to one of our founders, Carl Jung.

  • @mattgraves3709
    @mattgraves3709 Před 9 měsíci +3

    This was so mind opening and just so enlightening. Holy smokes... Now I understand completely what the problem has been in relationships.

  • @BlackDragonStudios1
    @BlackDragonStudios1 Před 6 lety +7

    Interesting information. I identify with much of the speak. Thank you.

  • @jclay425
    @jclay425 Před 7 lety +19

    Very enlightening! This explains the ongoing chatter in my head. Also, it gives me greater insight into my quiet partner's mind and emotions.

  • @peterstrods5883
    @peterstrods5883 Před 6 lety +8

    Recovering from what .book says main purpose of book is to show others precisely how to recover from alcoholism. As for behaviors and attitude lol that is on going decision that I must work on everyday to be free from the obsession that insanity that mental twist to get fucked up again.

  • @susannec659
    @susannec659 Před 6 lety +17

    Does this apply to everyone or just people addicted to substances, or compulsions After listening to this a bunch of times cuz it was so great funny and informative, I heard the beginning again and wondered if this applies to everyone.

  • @susannec659
    @susannec659 Před 6 lety +7

    49:36 Narcissism

  • @susannec659
    @susannec659 Před 6 lety +7

    45:12 Q & A

  • @doeadare7316
    @doeadare7316 Před 10 měsíci

    Awesome

  • @glennward2227
    @glennward2227 Před 5 lety +4

    Brillant put in a hilarious way very funny

  • @yobitch3721
    @yobitch3721 Před 6 lety +2

    I had trust issues from the beginning even though I said I feel how I felt I knew it was some dishonesty on both sides

    • @themonkeysbollix4196
      @themonkeysbollix4196 Před 5 lety

      Both sides. Dishonesty and trust issues. Your talking about yourself here right...
      I know exactly the way you feel...

  • @yobitch3721
    @yobitch3721 Před 6 lety

    Really no question right now

  • @rachc2236
    @rachc2236 Před 6 lety +16

    Jekell and Hyde can't date Jekell and Hyde..!

  • @michaelgalvin1246
    @michaelgalvin1246 Před 5 lety +7

    I'm in recovery 18 year's, this would be okay for me when I was acting out sexually in addiction, she's talking totally on ego, I'm also a Christian the best way to look and change is to repent

  • @patrickmadigan5479
    @patrickmadigan5479 Před 6 lety +12

    This ain’t aa crazy cat lady

    • @vincentdavis48
      @vincentdavis48 Před 6 lety +7

      Patrick Madigan keep that mind closed . That's a spiritual principal , I'm sure.

  • @Annie-bu3lg
    @Annie-bu3lg Před 6 lety +6

    Some good nuggets but the male/female dichotomy and the insistent focus on heterosexuality makes this talk less useful to me personally.

  • @anthonyalves3993
    @anthonyalves3993 Před 5 lety +6

    only way to God who made this universe is through the Cross of Jesus Christ