Reacting To Insane Fat Positive and Woke TikToks
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In this video we’re going to discuss what went down at the airport regarding a trans person and a Delta employee, and then we’re going to react to insane fat positive TikToks.
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0:00 - Intro
0:38 - Delta vs Trans
2:46 - 5 Identities
4:27 - Customer of Size
9:05 - Big Go Go Dancer
13:08 - Fatphobia Should Be Banned
16:43 - Fatphobia is Racism
19:13 - Fat Influencer
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You're speedily becoming one of my favorite Tuber's, Amir. Keeping doing your thing man
The woke losers should be your next video amir,they MUST be addressed the fan has hit the wall.
Hi! 🫶🏼
I just wanna let you know that even if you don't believe in Jesus.
Jesus is STILL coming back! He wants everyone to repent and believe on him to be saved from hell and get to heaven, I don't want you in hell thats why i sent you this...everyone is a sinner NOBODY does good, if u have lied u have committed sin, i have lied and committed sin,
Romans 3:23 - for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
When you repent, you turn away from sin, and change your mind about.
Jesus WILL accept you, if you choose him. So please choose him because God will judge everyone based on what they did in life!
Matthew 12:36 - “But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment.
you need to believe that Jesus died for your sins and was resurrected from the dead because he wants to save you from your sins! And cuz he loves you! Then you repent and turn away from sins its your choice to believe...
Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord
If you wanna accept Jesus you can start by reading the Bible 💗 no matter WHAT you did, YOU can still go to God!
Dude I'm a straight white man and I agree with you 💯. You're the truth.
Hey I left a comment on your video and a scam bot impersonating you commented on it. Might want to check your comments
Body positivity should be about the things you CANNOT change like your height, skin colour, facial features, etc.
I mean if you can't have a woman talk about their weight, then they should not have a man talk about their height... 😂
But the man part... They just neglect it, because being short man is literally NOT Attractive for them... And it's hard honestly, since when you are short, you'll get intimidated by some guys who are taller than you, because of their height...
But honestly, I don't care about my height tho, but some woman care more to height, but are getting angry when we are talking about their weight...
Because it is not attractive...
Funny how ironic it is...
And everytime when you read a wattpad... heck the leading man is 7 foot tall?! Like what the heck?
While me being 5.7, is like looking at the skyscraper to that unreliably tall... 😂
Ever sat next to a fat person on a plane? It's uncomfortable for both of you.
@@RTONL do you realise that you can loose weight but people can't just go "Time to transform!" And become a few feet taller? Hopefully you're trolling or parodying, thanks, have a good day. (Meant sincerely)
Disabilities too. But I guess not anymore 🤷🏾♀️
She can love herself as much as she wants, but she can’t force others to love her too.
This! 👆
Fr tho
but I wonder whatever she actually love herself or not.., with all of those demand of validation from other people..,
And what's ironic or hypocritical really, is that most overweight folk won't date another overweight person.
So much for _constructed beauty standards, self-love_ and whatnot.
That's really a big part of the problem, they're not actually about any sort of freedom they want to enforce thought conformity. Which, I mean, look from a religious perspective it is hard for me to talk about stuff like that because this is the drive of religious thought, that there's somehow some assumed objective true reality behind everything and that the best is the most purest application of that law, and that to deviate from it is to invite error and chaos therefore suffering, in a nutshell. Basically. So there's that, and it does suffuse the whole of conservativism but at the same time is exactly what makes progressivism so horrifying, is it's basically the same thing but taken to this really psychotic overdrive where it seeks to impose itself with a fanatical religious zeal but there's nothing behind it, there is no backing, there is no moral backbone, there is no logical center, it's just straight nihilism being cloaked as someone's vanity project and virtue signaling that is paraded around like it's "justice" and it isn't, it's the seeking of the imposition of nihilism on the brains of the masses.
I remember body positivty encourage for people who, for example, had a mastectomy, being short, having a flat butt, being under 6ft tall, having burn scars etc.
NOT encouraging high cholesterol and blood sugar levels.
This! It was about loving your body even the things you can't change about it.
It almost feels like they're mocking body positivity in a way
@kellharris2491 they think they can't change their weight. They say they eat less than thin people do.
It went so downhill...
Agreed. It was meant for people with physical disabilities and abnormalities and just people in general who think they’re not attractive.
I am overweight at the moment ... I was much more overweight untill my doctor sat me down and explained to me if I want to stay alive I must loose weight. If I didn't want my son to be without a mother and my husband a widower, I must lose weight. I am so thankful she had the courage to have that conversation. It's NOT fat phobia it's called telling you the cold hard truth. I am only about 50 pounds From my goal weight and more proud of my body now then I ever was when i was fat.
Your doing a great job and I hope your doing well, God Bless❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!!!!! live your best life girl. just eat a lot of meat and animal fats, avoid seed oils and carbs and ur grandchildren will thank you for it. it can be done!
🎉🎉🎉🎉wish you long healthy life full of 💕
Sending lots of love and hype your way!!!❤ Hope you and your son live long healthy lives ❤️❤️
Idk who you are but I’m VERY proud of you!! ❤ I’ve always been skinny because of my fast metabolism but I am also kinda lazy. The fact that you are so determined to lose weight for your family and yourself is actually inspiring, you got this!
That Delta employee should get employee of the year...but more likely, Delta will force the employee to take "training" to be a better, submissive employee.
Employee of the year, an excellent bonus, and two weeks paid vacation is what that Delta employee should get
I’d quit. 🤷🏻♀️ Employers can’t force inclusivity, that’s not how it works, and that’s not how you have an workplace that is open to all walks of life. No wonder people would rather be self-employed, myself included. 🙄
@shannahhaskell8093 nah, Delta's too busy giving the pilots outrageous raises...meanwhile who cares about the mechanics and other employees doing the actual hard work. (I use to think pilots were who mattered most...boy was I wrong. It's the mechanics keeping the plane from flying out of the sky.)
I think they fired him sadly…
@@Southernmommy533 actually Tommy had to take the video down because not everyone is insane thankfully
Being against a life-threatening condition isn't "phobic." It's called having common sense. 💯
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Deadass omfg 😭 im in the middle of chubby and thin, and i cant stand these obese ppl acting like they aint got nun wrong. Girlie go to the hospital please do some push ups or something, help yoself.
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“Common sense” ain’t common no more
Common sense is not politically correct, apparently, because the truth might hurt someone's feelings...
I'm tired of having to tolerate people's delusions.
This idea of treating fat people as though they're some sort of oppressed minority is absurd to me. Most Americans are literally obese!
right
Businesses are
giving these victim cards to most of the population…based on skin color, size, gender etc. making additional victims…does it ever end?
@@genevieve730 Exactly idk when it's going to end, either.
I only believe the people who have conditions that contribute to their weight should have some accommodations tho
@@hannahjones2510 Okay fair enough.
5:09 "...even on fully booked flights." That means someone gets booted from the flight so she can have two seats....
I've thought about this a lot. I figured they wouldn't boot somebody who already booked their flight ticket, but I do wonder if the way they're able to do this by letting these people sit in the row that has 2 empty seats for the flight staff in case of an emergency. During the last time I was on a southwest flight just a couple months ago with my son, I saw how there was a row with only 2 seats rather than the normal 3, and I wondered if it was available for passengers to sit in (it was a flight with no assigned seats, so passengers could sit wherever was available). When I asked the flight attendant, he informed me they're for staff in case of emergencies. So when I watched this video, and heard how southwest's policy allows for morbidly obese to get a free 2nd seat even on fully booked flights, I immediately thought that they must be able to accommodate these people by allowing them to sit in this row. If that is how they do it, it'd mean they are risking their staff's lives and safety and possibly the safety of the entire flight if an emergency did happen, just to let fat people have a free extra seat and help to basically reinforce them for being very overweight. I can't think of any other way they could do this aside from kicking off people who already booked their flight ticket. If it came down to this greedy airline getting as much $ as possible or putting people's lives in possible danger if an emergency occurred, I have a feeling they'd choose the latter and just hope that no emergency happens on one of these flights.
As someone who was formerly morbidly obese and is now at a healthy weight, I will say that these people are weaponizing their feelings of rejection and insecurity in order to gain some sort of power they feel like they have been denied. We are seeing it in other communities too. I was also ignored by most people romantically because I was big but I never blamed others for not being attracted to me, it was my fault. You can't force people to accept you. Accept yourself.
😂😂 wow
Good for you !
Their logic is basically "I hate me, but you're not allowed to hate me".
I think that's actually the underlying motivation for believing the ideological framework that they do. It's a greater incentive to believe that than to direct criticism towards themselves and maybe be hurt by it.
i went thru the same! congrats and keep on
If I walk into a Target and it's loud, and the carts are clanging, and there are a lot of smells, and people moving in unpredictable patterns, and all that is stressful to me because I'm autistic, does that mean that everyone in the store, or at least the managers and employees have autism-phobia? Or is it just that those things don't bother the vast majority of people, and I'm on the edge of the bell curve, and that is my lot in life? It doesn't mean we can't decide to make some concessions for people on the edges of the bell curve if it doesn't hurt anyone, but to call it a phobia when we don't, to demand federal action, etc. is just non-sensical. And autism is NOT something a person chooses, unlike being overweight (with very rare exceptions).
TALK YO SH*T 🤝🗣️
Exactly. That is a great analogy, it’s irrational for me to blame others for my own sensory issues, or any other issues. If I have a problem I’ll remove myself. Simple.
Great analogy, love this. This is what accepting yourself looks like
[Please don't forget about the medical + medication reasons for being fat!]
@@bluekitsvne that doesn’t make it impossible to lose weight, it makes it harder.
13:27 Girl really thought she was a Disney villain with that goofy monologue.. 😭
i got horrible secondhand embarrassment lmfao
did anyone else notice she's wearing an almost identical outfit to Candace Owen there?
It was so cringe
Fat positivity is the equivalent of eating disorder positivity. As a matter of fact, morbid obesity & food addiction IS classified as an eating disorder.
I developed anorexia when I was 9 years old and I battled it for over 10 years. If society believed that it is not only acceptable to have anorexia and/or bulimia nervosa, but was programmed to applaud it and call it anorexia positivity, then I (along with MANY others) would probably be dead by now.
edtwt is unfortunately a thing, modern society has been reprogrammed to celebrate and encourage pathological behaviours of all kinds, it's so sad to witness.
My mom died suddenly at 38 because of obesity complications. She wasn’t even that big. It can catch up with you faster than you realize.
I think that is one of the biggest issues of obesity. It can be somewhat less limiting when you are younger. But once in your 30’s most bodies will start crashing. The human body has its limits.
I'm 29 with heart problems.
Turning 30 is scary for sure 😢
Your heart becomes vulnerable. 💔
I'm sorry for your loss, may she RIP
I think that’s the problem when you see lots of obese people in their early 20s proclaiming that there’s nothing wrong with obesity as they don’t have any issues. It’s like someone that age who drinks excessively saying there’s no issue as their liver is fine. But of course the body can take it when you’re young but eventually it’ll catch up to you.
Sorry for your loss x
I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏽🕊️❤️🩹
my own mom is well on the way to that unfortunately. she is 50 and is already taking heart medication and had blood pressure problems, and these are just the things i know. god forbid what her doctor might be telling her behind closed doors. its so sad because one part of me wants to cut off emotional ties because i know i can't stop her addiction to food and why bother, but i also really want her to try to get better so she can meet my grandkids later in life.
its exactly like watching someone drink or smoke themselves to death and that sense of helplessness is there too.
It’s also always the ‘fat positive’ people preaching body positivity that shame thinner people for being thin!
Or shame other fat people for trying to lose weight. They treat you like a traitor.
@@birthemuller7310 exactlyyy like when they start going on a diet and start loosing weight they get mad and call them anorexic
Yeah, it just doesn't make sense. It's like they're saying "HA! It's YOUR turn to be ridiculed/shamed!!" Two wrongs don't make a right. Just like the whole racism nonsense rife in our country right now. Yes, America had an ugly past with regard to racism, but flipping the script as if to say, "It's YOUR turn now" doesn't make any of it better. Rise above, not repeat the same mistakes!
@@melaniex._1 OMG you went down from 450lbs to 400lbs? You anorexic traitor!
This 🎯 being 4’11 and 95 lbs, it’s always bigger women who feel the need to comment on my body the most. Someone told me they wanted to take me home and inject my veins with mayonnaise to help me gain weight 💀💀
The airport employee handled the situation like a king. He deserves a raise, lol. I would have lost my patience and probably my job. Bravo 👏
“How are we fat phobic because you’re not attractive” AHHHAHAH 😂
When did phobia change from being a deep fear of something to anything you don’t like?
The moment people forgot that -phonia is the actual suffix for things one hates.
Don't use it,if someone says your homophobic, just say I'm not afraid of gays. 🎉.
This generation is sensitive and ridiculous!
The moment it went from a technical term to the common vernacular.
@jaysmall5586 "Bad" still means bad even when people try to make it mean "good" in the common vernacular. Phobia means fear of. Granted, we often hate the things we fear, but "phobia" refers to the *fear* not the *hate* .
I am fat-phobic; I am *scared to death* of becoming fat. However, I don't *hate* fat people. See the difference?
If these activists are so comfortable in their skin, then why the drama when others refuse to buy into the delusion?
Cause they're not really comfortable in their skin. I used to buy into the fat acceptance movement, when it was still called body positivity. And it kept me in this mindset of victimhood and not changing anything. But no matter how much I said that I love myself as I am, I didn't really. Because being fat and watching your body fail at the simplest of tasks is not something that brings you happiness.
Because this generation has an external locus of control. They are too fixated on what others think and do instead of determining their own reality.
@@birthemuller7310I never say body positive = fat acceptance! Body positivity means the rail thin, anorexic, size 2 model isn’t the normal woman…the size 10-14 woman is the normal body and that is body positivity…think the obese highjacked that movement
Because it's all a farce! None of these people are truly happy with themselves otherwise they wouldn't try SO hard to convince you there's "nothing" wrong with them. If they were truly happy the way they are, they wouldn't need SO MUCH validation from others.
They’re not. When I was dealing with an ED and food restriction, I wasn’t happy either. But I sure told everyone I loved my body being “naturally thin” so I didn’t have to face how much everything hurt and make the hard journey to take back control of my eating.
"This shit don't make no damn sense." - good description man.
Off topic but there's something about his voice, so majestic, I could use it like my sleep podcast, no joke.
Watching Amir go through the five stages of deciding how he feels about something is goals
Ironic how the last stage is acceptance 😭😂
I got fat after my first kid. It never crossed my mind to blame others for my fatness. I never thought it was "violence" if someone made a fat joke. I never thought that I should get a free seat on an airline. Like wtf.
My doc told me straight to my face that I was obese, pre diabetic and that he was worried for me. Of course, this was back in 2005 when it was okay for doctors to be honest. Because of his honesty and caring, I lost almost 90lbs and am healthy again😊
That's great and I'm glad that you took advice and improved yourself instead of getting butthurt like most people nowadays. It's so refreshing to see rational people who welcome reason and rationality into their daily lives, especially in modern times.
I need advice on that. However my knee is injured. Do you have any advice?
@@taraellis8279 Hello🙂
Try water aerobics or swimming. There are also exercises you can do from sitting in a chair. Add ankle weights when you feel comfortable. Yoga/stretching helps me a lot with my back pain, bad knee and nerve damage. Stretching is one of the best ways to help your lymphatic system and blood flow, which in turn will help your knees.
Start off slow and just be consistent.
It was hard for me at first because I had a sugar addiction and was tired all the time. Even on days that you don't feel like doing anything, try just a few simple stretching exercises for 10-20 min.
You can do it for sure😊
@@zarrahprodan2180 i have to have reconstructive surgery on my knee is the thing and i want to just start getting fit after words. Im scared of over doing it.
@@taraellis8279 I'm sorry to hear that. I'm sure that's tough to deal with. I suggest asking about physical therapy afterwards and doing the chair exercises. A quick Google search or CZcams search should help.
You had me at “get your own airline. Do something.” Subscribed! 😂
I appreciate how calm and genuine this guy is with speaking his mind, but also in a respectful way❤
I think it should be the other way around. Before booking the tickets, you should have to agree that you fit into a single seat and if you don’t (and the flight is fully booked) YOU should be the person that gets kicked off the flight instead of squeezing over to the seats next to you. It may sound mean but if all seats cost the same, everyone should be equally as comfortable.
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Yes! But in this woke-brainwashed world, common sense is no longer “common” lol! I agree with you!
Agreed, you can't take a carry-on with you if it doesn't fit in that little "box" at the ticket counter, they make you check it if it won't fit in the bin or under the seat...why shouldn't that apply to people as well?! Same with rides at the fair, if you're not THIS tall, you can't ride as a matter of safety...shouldn't that apply to morbidly obese people too, is that not a matter of safety as well?!
As a former fat girl, I can tell you that Southwest has had this policy for yeeeeeaaaaars. They used to approach "customers of size" and say, hey you probably need a second seat, we'll give it to you for free. I was mortified when that happened to me, but I finally realized I needed to lose weight. Now, there are a lot more very big people flying and just expecting these accommodations EVERYWHERE which is disgusting! No one wants the fat girl spilling over into their seat, but if you're the fat girl that's going to spill over into the seat, you know that when you book the flight. Buy the second seat or don't fly. If you don't want to do that, don't fly or lose weight.
I used to weigh 320 pounds. Im 6'3 so i carried better than most, but i felt it. I've lost 110 pounds and it feels INCREDIBLE. Do it for yourself and for your health!
Good for you, it does make a difference
great job !!
Congratulations
holy shit well done!! how long did it take for you to achieve that??
@@kopokopo20 Thank you! Took me about a year, maybe 14 months. Ton of exercise, eating better and TONS of water!
Amir you are so funny debating yourself throughout this video and testing your own views with “is this mean? Am I wrong for this?” 😂😭 I love your energy
Lmaooo I be struggling
You just about made me spit when you said “where’d the MLK voice
Come from”??? Seriously, thought the same thing - she brought the preacher voice! 😂
I thought “fat phobia” was what anorexic/bulemic folks dealt with. It’s really taken on a new meaning these days.
Exactly! The first time I heard that term was as a person dealing with a food restriction based ED. I was literally afraid of any fats in food. Never in a million years would I have thought that term would become mainstream in a “fat positive” community.
Yup. If we go by the linguistic definition, fatphobia is the fear of fatness/being fat/gaining weight, as commonly experienced by people with anorexia, bulimia or other similar eating disorders.
Now, people just use the term "fatphobic" to refer to anything from small seats, to calories on menus, to doctors saying "you'd be healthier if you lost weight".
Basically the word has gone from actually meaning "phobia of fat" to a catch-all term to mean anything that doesn't support obesity (e.g. small chairs, gyms, societal beauty and health standards etc).
Fair point!!
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What hasn't
That Go-Go dancer expects to get paid the same as fit dancers but she fails to compare the amount of time, dedication, effort, discipline, and training the other performers put into their physiques. It’s like any other product, people pay more for a better kept product than one that has been neglected. They aren’t the same, you can’t expect to earn the same when you aren’t putting in the work.
I was thinking this too. For example, someone who has done pottery for decades would understandably charge a higher rate than someone who has just started. Just because two people are both doing the same craft, doesn't mean the value and skill of the craft is identical.
@@saskia9720 Exactly, and you’re willing to pay more for better quality!
The unhealthy food that they stuff into their faces is actually cheaper than healthy food. So it's costing me far more to eat healthy...
Not to mention the quality of the performance and not to be crude but most people would rather touch an inshape person rather than a fat sweaty person who's moving like human shaped jelly that's melting.
Agree 🤷🏽♀️
creators like you make me feel validated about certain opinions that i hold back because of fear of getting labeled as 'x-phobic'. thank you so much for your service.
First time watching you. Love you keep spreading the truth ❤️
I was almost 400lbs. In 2004. My mom died at 61. I have lost 267 lbs.
"If all bodies are good bodies, you wouldn't be dead."
Damn, Amir didn't come to play. XD
I am a nurse who is biased against obesity. What these people fail to realize is what a burden they put on the health care workers who will be taking care of them. It actually puts our health in danger because we have to left them in bed. I have had obese people ask me to move their foot for them or look at me, at 117lbs, and ask me to pull them up in bed. Really? You think I have the strength to pull up a 300lb person? I sometimes feel that obesity is even worse than smoking. They really need to get over themselves.
Good point, bless you for the work you do.
Dude god bless you. This was one of the reasons I got gastric sleeve surgery and went from 300 to 210. I don't want to be a burden!
obesity is worse than smoking because we have a million protections against smoking. a million warning labels about what it does, hard regulations on where you can smoke, and a general cultural undertone and smoking is really bad.
with overeating we have none of that, and if anything we now have people defending food addicts as they kill themselves. this is like telling an alcoholic he is totally in control of his actions and he is doing fine when its obvious he is one night away from choking on vomit
I’m a small nurse too, and the looks I have to try to keep off my face when some of these people demand I pull them up in bed? No!!!
They say „I don’t owe anybody health“ - but nurses do???
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I'm clinically obese. I accept myself and love myself for where I am right now, but it's because of my self-love that I want to change my body, because it very much IS a health issue.
I feel like if you DON'T love yourself and your body, there is no desire to work on yourself, and honestly, I don't think these people actually have self-love, for all they talk about it.
My man, you are always spitting the truth and still wanting to be kind to others even if you disagree with them. It is so refreshing in todays world. Love the videos you make.
I’m morbidly obese ( size 16) you told NO LIES ❤ it’s uncomfortable to walk up steps, my skin chafe easier, knees hurt, low energy , can’t fit onto rollercoasters etc. I used to be a size 22 but I’m headed to a 12, four sizes to go.🙏
Ooooooo. Good job so far. 😊 keep going. I went from a 16/18 to a 8/10. You can do it !
Omg any tips on losing weight I’m also a size 16
Hey Amir! Just wanted to say thank you so much, I discovered you recently and seeing a gay man with the same sort of thoughts as me has been such a saviour for my own mental health. I'm 16, and upon realizing that I'm gay I instantly felt a pressure to support all the insanity there is in this "community" (lol, community 🙄), but you've helped me realise I *can* be me and have *my* views instead of groupthink. I had thought my own beliefs to be discriminatory so I never said them out loud; but now I've realized that feeding into delision is the true wrong thing here. Thank you Amir! Greetings from Ireland, here's to all of us who're here and who *ain't* "queer" 🫶
Ayeeee, same here, welcome to the club I guess. 😂🤣
I love how you said “I’m 16, upon *realizing* that I’m gay…”
The ‘realize’ part is very important, because not only is it true, but also often misunderstood. When you’re little you’re drawn to some things more than others, perhaps sometimes you may even be curious about something, it’s just natural instinct. However it is very important to understand that having a ‘feeling’ about something is not the same as ‘understanding’ exactly what you’re feeling.
I remember I was more drawn to guys when I was a little kid, just being a curious little devilish child (lol 😅) but not once did I ever go “Hhmmm, I know what this is:
I’m ✨ G a y ✨
No. That sense of ‘feeling’ later developed into a sense of ‘understanding’ when I was in my mid teen years, but it took time for it all to sink in and for me to accept and make peace with it. It wasn’t not something I could control nor was it something I knew from the moment I was born.
The fact that you included that word…..👌🧑🍳
Love it. 💛
proud of u
same, but I'm a bit older, I felt super depressed that this was the community full of insane ideas and even saying that men can be lesbians and that women with a man that wears make up is a les relationship, made me hate being a lesbian
@@yourlocallesbian6448 Your sexuality isn't something you should hate or be ashamed of. Blame these people pushing the "woke" concept to such absurd proportions.
lots of love and support to you, stay strong
"There is something wrong with you, that is a medical emergency" Had me dying 🤣
You are not delusional, but an open mind that is appreciated. I wish more people had open minds and others be realistic.
You hit the nail on the head. I’m overweight and have been for many years. Not once have I been happy or accepting about it. I struggle with it and it’s hard for some of us, BUT that doesn’t mean everyone around us needs to make us feel better the way we are. Fat is NOT healthy and celebrating it is literally crazy. I don’t need people coming up to me and telling me to lose weight (fat people know they’re fat), but I also don’t need anyone telling me it’s okay. The word “fatfobia” is sooo annoying and this whole movement is literally CRAZY
You can do it!!!
I am with you. I always tell people " I own a mirror, I know what I look like, I don't need you telling me". What I don't like is that people lumping all overweight people into the same category. Same as the LBGT community, just because you are gay doesn't mean you are "XYZ". Just because I am overweight doesn't mean I eat bon bons on the couch all day, that I am a non ambulatory individual ordering burgers and emptying a buffet table. I work out every day and have most of my life. I do not eat much at all and prefer clean eating, but I, even with the help of my doctors and nutritionist, can't seem to loose weight. So it is not like some people are not trying, it is not an excuse, but if people do not want to be judged, then don't do it to someone else.
Everyone has something about themselves that they are insecure about. That’s part of being a human being and that is what people need to realize.
I'm overweight as well, and try to change my lifestyle and not get fatter from that. I don't want to be that fat I can't even wipe my own arse. Yes. I'm "fatphobic" for having priorities.
unfortunately there are people who need to be told it straight. my mom WILL not under any circumstances admit she has a food problem despite her being over 300 pounds most likely and honestly i've seen others like her too.
sometimes love is tough and even brutal, but sometimes the brutal truth is better than a comforting lie. not saying you are this type of person you are open about the problem but not everyone is so self relective nowadays
with great wokeness comes great irresponsibility!
😂 nice
Lulz. 😂
Be the best Spider-nonconforming-non-binary-per-person you can be!
@@classic.camerasHa!😂
👏👏👏👏 Sums it up perfectly. 😂
11:55😂 I’m dying. Just out here roasting people bruh
I recently stumbled on your videos, and I would like to say that I enjoy them. It’s quite refreshing to see someone just call it like it is. And a restrained yet professional and respectful way. Just tell it like it is.
How can they cry about "discrimination based on weight" while also accepting free additional seating on planes, which is an example of (positive) discrimination based on weight.
Either you want equality or not. You can't cherry pick and take the good discrimination and then vilify the bad discrimination. That's not how this works.
Equality: Make them sit in regular seats.
Say it loud for the feminists in the back 😂
feminism isn't tied to this. its the fat activists that abuse feminism. stop diminishing actual issues women face. @@tribecca4578
THIS PART
This comment should be pinned. It’s so good!!!❤
I’m really trying to lose weight but it is really hard.. my entire family is obese including my little sister and I’m trying really hard to change it but my parents don’t want it and keep discouraging me. Blaire White’s videos on the topic really made me realize how much I could change so I keep going. Now this video is here to keep me going as well. Thank you so much! The fat positive movement really is dangerous and gross i wish it was all just fake…
Best of luck on your weight loss journey!! Wishing the best for you and your family as you guys work on your health. Hopefully when they see your amazing progress, they'll become motivated or at least they will support your choices to do what you feel is best for your body and health
Good luck, you can do this as long as you don't give up! 👍
I used to be obese (I'm short so it didn't take much to cross that BMI line from "overweight" to "obese") but now that I'm finally a healthy BMI, I can say -- nothing tastes as good as being healthier feels!
There's a great guy Sean of Steel who I follow, he used to be over 600 pounds and he started his channel to keep himself accountable, and he has a great sense of humor, and also he understands how incredibly hard it can be to lose weight, but how great it feels as we get closer to our goal.
dont drink soda's or juice only water, eat on small plates to trick yourself into making smaller portions. avoid sugar
I feel for your struggle. I grew up with obese parents and it was always hard to change my eating habits when they didn’t support it. You can do it and don’t let them get you down. Focus on being an example that they will hopefully follow. ❤❤
If you can just take some news good habits, it will improve your health and confidence and that itself is very good. I am too in this journey, I hope you will reach your goals
Kudos for the first manager telling this person to keep it pushing or they can tango and he’s not gonna like it.
Every video you create is incredible - I've been catching up on some I had missed from your channel. I love how your videos and commentaries provide others with insight into what genuine self-confidence and a mature healthy mindset is; versus the external validation that many people believe is a necessity they are entitled to in every scenario. It's become so intense that grown adults genuinely believe they are justified in scolding and recording grown adults for a misunderstanding or not catering to their expectations; despite being as polite and apologetic as possible.
I started my weight loss journey in 2019, then regained what i lost during covid, and restarted last year and have lost 65 lbs thus far. I still have 30 to go but im so happy i never fell into the body positivity movement because i garuntee i wouldve stayed depressed and fat.
Wishing you luck with the rest of your journey!! Fighting!! 💪🏿
Wow! Great progress!
Congrats on dropping the weight and keeping up the effort. I know it isn’t easy. I myself used to be grossly overweight and eventually had a wake up call to drop the weight. And I ended up losing 80 pounds in a summer, and over 100 pounds total. I know it’s hard and some days the motivation just isn’t there, but keep it up the good work. Trust me when the day comes where you finally look in the mirror and see a skinny/in shape person staring back, that feeling is beyond priceless.
Congratulations! I was in the movement and it did indeed keep me unhappy and fat. It's toxic af!
I lost 100lbs and I’m so much happier. Body positivity is a bunch of bullshit.
I had a friend who would CONSTANTLY complain about how people would misgender him “ftm” all he did was wear guy clothes he didn’t even cut his hair or try to grow facial hair. But anyway back to my story the one day I went over to his house to hang out and he was so pissed off because an employee at some store called him miss or ma’am like 3 or so hours ago I just got tired of the complaining and I was just like “dude let it go get over it” and he just looked at me like 😮 I just looked at him and said “what? You don’t see me complaining when I just got cussed out by a customer. Man up bro” he got all pissed and was like “why would you speak to me like that omg” I was like “dude that’s how guys talk to eachother you’re a guy and you need to be emotionally strong enough to get over shit. It helps” that was 6 months ago. She switched back and when I asked her why she said being a guy sucks nobody cares about your problems. I was just like “yup”
I get called ma’am and miss all the time i’m a dude and as you said no one gives a fuck get over it part of the world is just not giving a fuck sometimes.
😂😂😂😂
I'm a woman and I have a deep voice, I get called sir sometimes. It hurts my pride bc its not something I can control, but I don't bitch and complain ab it. I just move on with my day
That's about the place I'm in. I'm ftm but can't go on T because of my health issues, so I get misgendered by basically everyone. And guess what? I don't say shit about it because I'm not delusional and don't expect strangers to intuitively know how I identify. I only ever correct people if they're a close friend who I've already come out to and if it happens a lot, like they're doing it on purpose. I'll often just let it slide because people forget and it's just not that big of a deal.
Personally I’m a girl with a deep ass voice, and honestly I don’t give two shits what someone calls me. Speak clearly in my direction and I’ll turn to see what’s up 😂
I found this channel yesterday and I am absolutely stunned at your honest videos just telling it like it is. SO REFRESHING! Please keep this up. I support all anti-woke content that I can find. The world has gone mad and we all need some sane voices out there. BRAVO Amir Odom!! BRAVO!
Amir... I want to give you such a big hug for putting this content out. Maybe it's because you say it just like I would say it. You are completely on point. Great job!
I must be racist. Whenever I watch Amir Odom's videos I don't see a person of color or black gay man, I see an intelligent human being who brings something to the table. Always good points as usual Amir.
What about tall people? People are born tall but they don’t get extra commendation when flying.
This! My whole family is quite tall and no one gives us upgrades for legroom!!
Oh yeah that's fair. I never thought about that before because I'm a hobbit. Yeah why hasn't anyone done something about that?
I just want to say that it’s so refreshing watching your videos. A lot of us are so tired of how far the pendulum has swung into delulu land and don’t wanna speak up because of being “cancelled”. Immediately subscribed!
you are very articulate and i really enjoy your videos! we need more people with this self-awareness and perspective!! keep it up ❤
6:00 she actually thinks airlines are public transportation? Last I checked all of the airlines were private companies, and you gotta pay private company prices for an airline ticket.
exactly!
And "public transportation" generally implies the price is accessible to the majority of people. I know maybe two people who regularly fly, and the only time I ever have was when I was a toddler.
Lol that's not what public transport means. There's plenty of bus companies that are private companies, they're still public transport. Planes are public transport
Fatphobia isn't a real phobia. The fear of being ate alive is vorarephobia.
I’m not irrationally afraid of fat people, but I am deathly afraid of public bathrooms…. 🚽
Shiiiit ig i got vorephilia 😭 pls tell me im not alone in tha
@@davemccage7918 that is a very reasonably phobia
@@davemccage7918 Because of what fat people do in them?
I've been fat, I'm scared of being fat again
I’m really impressed with you and your channel on a serious note. I love how you react to things but yet are respectful and understanding. You’re not mean about it your just saying it how it is. I’m actively dieting and working hard to lose weight. I’m not super fat or far from what I should be but I recognize it is a problem. I’m not trying to lose my weight and get fit for other people I’m doing it so I can feel good physically. These girls who get all heated and call it fat shaming are just extremely insecure. They know deep down it’s a problem but don’t know how to lose because it’s so hard. It’s easier to accept yourself and make it look like other people’s problems. They need to be supported not degraded, they need to understand that people calling them fat is not them really being rude but the truth. Society needs to start encouraging people to lose weight so they can be in a healthy range and live long healthy lives, not encouraging these people and saying it’s ok. These days people who are actually healthy are more frowned on and told they need to gain and people who are actively obese or overweight are treated ok. Fat and unhealthy is becoming the new norm and thats what has to change.
Jeezus how haven't I found you sooner?! You're hilarious and spot on! Keep telling it like it is. I love you! 😂
As someone who is clinically obese and trying to reverse that, all I want is for everyone to treat me with normal respect, either “eww lazy fat” or “fat-acceptance” side of the story cause the same amount of harm.
I’m just another human being who unfortunately has an unhealthy condition and trying to fix that. I’m no less or no more worthy compared to the others
No one here cares why people are fat or if they are struggling and starving themselves to be thin.. they don't care that it isn't a choice... They just want someone to throw tomatoes at and blame for "world issues". No one deserves to feel horrible in their skin, no one should take their life over their weight.. no one should be ostracized in this way.. but they'll never hear us. At the end of the day we'll just be forced away like always, hiding in our houses and never seeing the light of day.
Best wishes on your health journey 😊
I hope you’re doing well! Cheering you on ❤
I don’t know your situation exactly. But if you aren’t too big, and live in a good area, you could try cycling. Exercise in my experience is easier when you’re doing it for an explicit external purpose like going to work, or the store, or to visit friends and family. It sure beats hard to gauge internal motivation. When you exercise to get around you gauge success by asking yourself. Did I make it from point a to b and back, it makes it a lot harder to be demotivated.
I do it myself and have lost 20 pounds. And that’s just what shows on the scales. Given how much muscle I’ve gained doing it, I’ve probably lost even more fat weight than that.
Anyways good luck on your journey, and I hope my story is applicable!
Exactly! It's so hard to find a middle ground between people who look at you like you're disgusting and lazy and choose to be this way, vs the people who are fully committed to this farce that being fat is amazing.
If airlines can afford to give away free seats, they should be gifted to families that can't afford a holiday.
The company ought not to give for free a seat to someone who requires 2 because of being overweight.
Probably the same person could have gotten a non tourist seat that are wider that tourist seat and for a cheaper fee than 2 tourist seats.
Communism
11:49 poor Amir taking a moment, trying not to KO their movement, but Instead choosing violence 🤣💀
Thank you so much for making videos like this. It helps me to have compassion for overweight people to want to help them get out of that life style. plus you are truly a caring person to be making content like this to encourage people to have a healthy life style and to live longer.
Southwest Airlines is disgusting to offer free extra seats to “customers of size” but they charge for your 2yr old’s seat when they will likely be in your lap most of the flight! They won’t even guarantee your child a seat next to you once they are 13!!
Also my jaw dropped when I read Colorado to ban fatphobia, or what ever it said, I don’t remember I just remember it was cringe! . It was instant embarrassment for my state. 😑
We should encourage each other to live healthier lives, not by bullying, of course, but fat acceptance is encouraging self hate. That’s not love.
I live in Colorado too. It's ashame what's happening in this state.
I was born and raised in Colorado, left it 12 yrs ago, at the age of 47. It's not the same state, anymore. I miss the change of seasons and the mtns, but so glad I'm not living there now.
I've lost 120 lbs and it's about personal responsibility. One day, I started eating right and going to the gym regularly. Now I'm at my fittest, visible abs, fitness coach. It's a choice.
I'm eating a salad as I watch this. I had a greek yogurt parfait for breakfast. I could've eaten badly, but I didn't.
Me eating McNuggets: hell yeah brother. Don't worry, i only got the chicken nuggets, no fries. Only when I'm having a particular shit day. I generally stay away from McDonald's.
Exactly, it can be difficult but it's about realizing the choices you made led you to where you are, you are responsible for your own choices. Consistent small changes (as an example walking everyday or swapping ice cream for popcorn) will add up to big changes overtime as long as you are consistent then add on top of what you have already done.
@@GameExplorer0115 well you should probably stay away from it forever. Theres a video out there that has a warning on buying food from mcdonalds. And guess where this warning was stuck? On the window of a mcd drive-thru.
@@GameExplorer0115plus, we’re boycotting mcd and Starbucks. And more, actually. They’re literally funding AND feeding genocide/the soldiers who’s committing it.
@haaaam5170 I know. I go there like once a month, maybe even once every two months? (I had to think when's the last time i was there) I'm not eating it every day, that's for sure.
I've gotten in the habit of air frying my chicken wings. Because if eating wings was going to kill me at 40, then I'll gladly die. XDD
i'm so glad i came across your channel. you funny and real asf
All of this LOGIC in one place! Love it! Thanks for doing what you do!!!
Omg the gogo dancer was hilarious 😂😂😂 she's so close to realizing they were pity tips then took a hard left to make it a personal moral failure on the part of the patrons that don't want to touch her sweaty rolls lmao.
Yeah. You get money doing that by being attractive. The more attractive you are them more money you get. And most people wouldn't find her body attractive.
As someone who is overweight, this whole thing is really disheartening, I’ve been on a weight loss journey and so far have gone down from a 22 to an 18 and planning to keep going. (My ideal weight would be 12 or 10) and I remember when people would actually congratulate you on what you’ve accomplished so far and even give you tips and keep you on track, yet now a-days people discourage you from loosing weight and instead try to make you put even more on.
How has society fallen so far, essentially supporting and encouraging people to shorten their life span as well as put them self at risk for more diseases such as diabetes or even cancer.
proud of you ❤
A late congratulations to you. 🎉I also miss those days but I understand why it’s now “taboo” to compliment. It has to do with people with ED being complimented when they were starving 😅but honestly a “hey I love your new look” or “wow you look radiant” would be better than nothing at all
You're awesome, Amir! I love ya...
Thank you for what you bring!
Love your content!
You have such a great common sense!
I am scared to see how far it will go till people really start pushing back against all this BS. Also, it's not fatphobia it is thousands of years of human evolution to pick out the best mate that one person can reproduce with. The desire to pick out the best mate is deeply engrained in us. There is someone for everyone but not everyone wants to be with someone that is overweight. It's not a phobia it's a preference.
Apparently, preferences aren't allowed in the 2020s. lol
@@benadams3569 exactly 😑
Its not really evolution. Its not sexist if a female doesnt want to put money in the gstring of female strippers. Its not sexist if you give tips at restaurants to polite male waiters and not obnoxious waitresses. There are people who are attracted to fat people. This person chose the wrong place to sell themselves. Thats their own fault. Its like trying to sell chicken sandwiches at a vegan convention then complaining about how no one wanted to buy their food.
Unless you are the T in LGBT. Then you can have all preferences you want.
@@benadams3569
Well said. I mean ..a guy isnt going to want to move a flap on fat to enter you and a girl isn't going to want a big fat slob crawling on top. I know I'm not being tactful..but that's just the basic truth.
Michelle McDaniel is a recovering binge eater turned personal trainer who makes amazing videos dismantling the "health at every size" movement.
I love her. I started watching her a while ago and lost 60 lbs
michelle is AWESOME! I just want to be besties with her!
Michelle is amazing, I am following her since the beginning of her channel and she made me realize I have issues with food
When he left the desk I laughed out loud! Thank you for making the content entertaining while being serious about it!
As someone who use to be very overweight until I finally decided to make a change I agree with everything you said in this video and the fact that people don’t worries me
You are not being offensive or mean, you are speaking the truth. Thank you for making videos like this!
He was both actually...as a fat person I was offended
He was sounding uneducated, which comes off offensive. These people are severely obese, not overweight.
My guy went from "Language, Amir," to "This shit don't make no damn sense" in like less than 2 minutes. He is all of us. 😂
Oh my goodness I love how you are so honest this is definitely my favorite channel!!
YOU NEVER MISS!! I am so grateful that I found your channel, so many people need a wakeup call and you are that call!
Love that delta employee for standing his ground w these fools
How do you give someone an extra seat when the flight is full??? Are you going to make a normal size person get off of the plane so that an obese person can have 2 seats? Oh how I wish the airline would do this to me. I would sue them in a heartbeat for size discrimination. This world has lost it's damn mind. If you physically take up 2 seats then you need to pay for 2 seats.
This situation actually happened to a women with 2 girls. Flight company just stole one of their seats and told them they can't go together. Of course lady absolutely could not abandon one of the young girls in the airport or let them fly alone.
You deserve exponentially more subs. Amazing work
You are very cool. I'm glad CZcams had you on my feed
4:50 Oh. My. God. Thank you ! Every time people complain about not having fat privileges when it comes to flights, I can't help but think about the fact that I am a third of their weight, yet, if my luggage is 100g above the limit, I have to pay extra fees. They should actually be thankful they don't need to pay no extra money. If they get free stuff, I expect companies to have special prices for folks under 5 feet and 120 pounds. I'll call it the Feather discount 🤝
Bf works on the ramp. The issue with heavy luggage is not that it us heavy fir the plane, it is that ramp personnel has to carry it, lift it, and risk a back injury while doing that. Fat people have legs to walk themselves on the plane. I get the issue with seats, but bags are not a good example
@@alicianieto2822the issue with fat people is they literally can get everyone k*lled from their weight distribution. the baggage is weighed, the people are not. it's not like the extra money is going to the dude loading the bags just because he lifted a 52 pound bag vs a 50 pound bag. be real. flights have weight limits because it will make it crash if it's too heavy.
thank you for much for going into body positivity and how morbily obese people are hijacking it. i have scars, stretchmarks, acne issues, ect and hearing you say that's what body positivity truly is made me feel a lot better.
Fucking this right here, why is body positivity only about obesity, there are so many things that everyone struggles and deals with when it comes to their body. but no, those issues don't support the current thing.
Thank you for the work you do uploading your videos
Thank you Amir for making my day😂
As a fat person, I agree with you ❤ I got this way from depression and eating disorder, I know it’s not attractive and unhealthy. But I’d never act like these people it’s insane!!! Losing weight doing Omad and it’s going great cheers 🥂 love your videos
At least you admit it.
Same here! Wishing you a successful journey! If you don't mind me asking, what's omad?
Omad stands one meal a day. Its a type of fasting.
@@misshammer9960 thank you for this! I have actually tried this since I tend to eat lightly anyway but haven't had any success so far. I'll try implementing more fiber into meals though and other things that might help
@@murasakino101omad is no good for women, you can eat three meals a day and still be healthy and lose the weight, but fasting isn’t healthy for women’s bodies and hormones be careful.
I don't know if this is the same flight, but recently a women that was traveling with her daughter and daughter's friend posted a video that she got bumped off of a flight due to someone else taking the seat due to the "person of size" policy. This is after the three seats were already purchased ahead of time.
To be fair, I saw another video about another airline where big people could *pay for* a second seat and that's what this woman did. A woman with a little girl was having a fit because the woman refused to give up the seat *that she had paid for* for her kid.
@@rabbit_scribethat isn’t at all the same, one person was kick off a flight they paid for for no reason.
The other had a bratty kid. I have had kids cry to try to get my window seat even though I paid extra for it.
One is bad company policy the other is bad parenting
if you need 2 seats and there's only one left, too bad. you don't fucking fly. thats how it should be. jfc
when i had an eating disorder everybody told me: "Omg your body looks horrible and unhealthy, you need to gain a lot of weight!". It made me really uncomfy and sad but i knew they were just worried for me. But when i tell overweight people: " You might wanna loose some weight cause its rly unhealty and im genuinly worried for you" they often say your fatphobic or mean. And I never even told them that theyre body looks "horrbile" or "creepy" like people used to say to me, i said it in a nice and respectfull way because i know damn well how bad it feels when people are unsensitive about what they say. Still they wanna see it as critizism because they want to overlook the obvious fact that fat isnt smth "pretty" its something unhealthy that can make your life pretty much like hell. Its like romantising mental illnesses, what happend with this world and the people....
These people are dangerously delusional. I agree with you, down the line. However, I'll take it a step further - they need to be called out for it. We shouldn't have to feed their delusions, or be penalized for not pandering to them. I love your videos, thanks Honey!
They are actively distorting well documented psychological science and gaslighting future generations into thinking it's okay to hide from reality, just because it makes them "feel bad." Safe spaces, language policing, redefining relationships, pointless pastel colours everywhere, cancelling/reprogramming people that follow "the message", increasing agency of the state over individual lives. These are all bullet points from Huxleyan dyspotia. They are literally creating a FASCIST society in the most dangerous way. By sugar coating it in bright colours and fake smiles.
That does not help. I used to work with people with eating disorders, both by binging and by starving themselves. They are both really similar, and shaming will not help. Would you shame an anorexic?
It’s really odd to be called phobic on preferences to what someone’s attracted to. We’ve gone after what we like forever. This applies to other groups demanding to be dated when they aren’t what people are attracted to. 🤷🏼♀️
Love your videos! It’s good to know that I’m not the only sane person out there.
I never want your videos to end I be cracking up 💀
People NEED to push back because if you don't the narcissists will walk ALL OVER YOU! It's horrible
Hey Amir. It was touching to see you try to express your thoughts and worrying about being mean. You weren't being mean. It's mean if you say something to intentionally hurt someone. It's not mean if you are simply speaking the truth.
Keep speaking the truth Amir! Don't be afraid of being "mean," you're just speaking facts.
I love that this is the first video of yours I’ve watched! Immediately subscribed!😂