Never let go of your friends during entrance exam preparation | Dr. Rohan Khandelwal
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- čas přidán 17. 08. 2023
- Post exam results, a lot of us stop talking to our friends, especially if they have got selected. In this video, I discuss why it's important to break the ice with your true friends, post the results and take their help in your preparation strategy for the subsequent year.
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The ones who have gotten a seat barely make the time to keep in touch. Even after trying to reach out to them they either seem too busy to talk or make excuses.
I think friendship is a two way street. If people forget their friends merely because of an exam then are they really friends? Life is also about changing and accepting that some people will move on and some will make time. The challenge is differentiating the former from the latter.
True. It also acts as a litmus test and tells you who your real friends and well wishes are
Thank you Sir for your kind words. I agree with you that if failed to an exam I should take it as lesson and prepare better also take advice to those friends who succeed earlier of me. I do believe to get degree little fast or any institute may not all , perfection comes from practice and guidance of best teacher like you.
Totally true sir friends help us to stay motivated and away from distraction. I and my roommate both cleared fmge july 2023 with same exact marks of 184 . Thank you for your throughout guidance sir regarding surgery and everything.
Your absolutely right sir , it’s happening with me
Once our friends get selected they don’t call us or talk to us they are happy in there life no matter how much time we wasted during our preparations bringing them out of the dull moments when they couldn’t study😢 sir what will you say about them??????????
It’s actually a two way thing. Somebody has to break the ice. Don’t hesitate in doing that
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@@lefthandedsurgeon ap kitne achhe ho 😢
Sahi h bhai, 😢
They are not your friends :)
Thank you for your suggestions always sir. I always get motivated by your words and explanation. I value and respect you opinions and follow it blindly. I met you at delhi smash surgery which made me boosted up of my endurance. Thank you for encouraging always sir.
I am blessed by having friends who call me in their busy R1 phase.
Asking me "abhe padhai kar Raha hai na achchhe se? Next yr seat leni hai tujhe, achchhi vali"
Guidance is secendary
Support is permanent.😊
Thank you❤
Finally someone said ❤
I didn't let go off a single friend cus I didn't have a single friend 😂
Welll said Dr.
Having right friends circle is very important human fact & sometimes we may find them only aft facing difficulty of different levels in lifetime.
What i believe is never drop out or discourage oneself & get depressed.
Always talk to someone in family and friends..
Drop out & depression is self destructive.. Pls help ur self❤
Stay positive in most dark days of life.. ❤
Absolutely
Very true sir , I am guilty of distancing myself from my friends. And I paid a price for it. I struggled for a few years. But now I understand the value of keeping such bonds.
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😢 I can totally relate
Thank you sir for your valuable suggestions. But, I feel there is no true friendship in this competetive medical life. All those who surround us are classmates not friends. Believing or considering someone as a friend always hurts at the end when unfortunately he get far more better branch inspite of far lesser marks just because of his quota.
I think no branch is better or inferior to each other all branches have their own importance mean a dr dr always need pathologist microbiologist a ent optha dr always needed a psyricist always needed
It happened to me, but the reverse way. I had everything planned upto the exam, that after it was done with, I was blank. I was totally burnt out, so I almost withdrew, and didn't contact friends as much. They thought I changed after the exam and getting the results. But nothing had changed between us, it was just my low energy that I should've communicated to them.
To anyone reading this- the way forward is good communication. If they're a friend, they deserve to know what you're going through. And don't be shy to take the first step. They're most probably feeling awkward too.
Absolutely! Thanks for sharing your experience
Aur agar dost ko matlab na rahe tooo? Ki bhai mera to ho gya tra tu jaan ,, fir??
@@rk_0903 ek baar try toh kar sakte hain. Fir bhi dost Aisa Raha, toh woh dosti nahi raha... Harsh truth... (Even I couldn't save one friendship after trying. But I saved the other 3 to 5)
@ArjunSingh-ke1oe bro, that's true.
Medico girls leave anybody who goes through failure. The extent of selfishness can not be hidden under the umbrella of excuses.
I have seen plenty of girl classmates, seniors & juniors who left their partners, as the guys failed to secure as good rank as them.
For us, boys, this entrance is way more than just an examination.
@@stockhome8391yes and so true it happens in our clg too they always prefer to date md ms resident rather than their own classmate for guidance and stability for their career
Thank you so much for your well concern.. Hope everyone should allert in this fact.
Now i am in India.. Where is your chamber located? Is it far from chennai?
Have always agreed with the wonderful advice you give Dr Rohan. But what u r saying is easier said than done. Humans by nature are strange. The superiority complex in the ones who have made it and the inferiority complex that seeps into the ones that don't, is like a natural phenomenon. Matlab ye to hona hi hai!!! Five years friendship just vanishes into thin air. Have experienced the cold shoulder myself when I couldn't make it and am guilty of doing the same to a dear pal sometime later. In hindsight, i really regret it. But at that particular time, we do not realise how wrong we were.
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Good afternoon sir, Final year medical student here! I'm having a hard time remembering the various classifications and guidelines. Could you suggest a way to deal with them?
We wanted to see the legends of surgery
Dr. Jai arora and you discussing a topic sir 😊
Jai sir and me play cricket together 😊
Sir, if it’s possible, please do share with us your experience of the preparation phase, the college life, how you were able to cope up with difficult times and rise to where you are today!
I don't feel like keeping Friendship with my friends circle during mbbs life because most have them have got their choice of clinical seat and I am still struggling with just MBBS degree. .. So it feels very sad....
Comment section realised me I am not alone😢😢🙏
I didn't got selected for MBBS though I gave 4 times ,still with just ray of hope keeps me alive ..I thought this happens with NEET UG preparation friends but when I gone through comments tears rolled down
I used to beg all my known friends who got selected either directly or indirectly answer is Study the way you do we didn't do nothing....
Stopped Even texting friends but still I remember them whenever I message they won't even check my message but will be available in online.🙏🙏
Horrible if there is next life I DON'T REQUIRE sometimes I pray to GOD , stop my breath itself during sleep 🙏🙏
Brother there's lot more reasons to live think about your loved ones and if you're giving next attempt in 2024 then all the best make your parents proud of you ❤❤
Please take care. I’m sure you family
Is there to support you
Universal feelings
Some relationships are like grannies knot...😂
U need to be a surgeon to be able to knot properly 😂