OMG Tony my husband does not have his own business, but he pays 100 percent all bills and taxes. Just like when he lived alone. Plus buys me a car, pays all insurance, all doctors bills, supports our two children, and we are not rich. He does not touch any of my money, does not ask to help with anything. And he is not sad in any way.
Seriously this man was hand picked by GOD to educate and elevate people especially women. I pray that God continue to Richly Bless him and his family. We appreciate you Tony. Keep doing the work of the Lord.
My thoughts every time I'm watching. Also, that he is blessed & clearly has a wonderful wife. 😊 They seem to be raising their kids so well too. It's inspiring. 💗 💡
Am telling you... when I said I ran the other day from one who bought up the 50/50 shit to me smh baby am glad I know better... A man is a provider PERIOD...
@@TravelsWithJamaicanBarbie I hate that shi*! So Pathetic! Like damn! You need me to help you pay the bills can't do it by yourself 🤔😩 I be running too especially when they talk about there job and how hard it is like 😒😩WTF! That his to do with me but he ain't Tired for Sex smh 🤦
@@latiaavril9424a man provides necessities like a roof over ur head food clothes on ur back nowhere in the Bible does it say he has to pay every single bill it says the wife is a helper n supporter so if u can u should be helping men aren't ur slaves they'll always have to carry the biggest burdens n put ur life n well-being before themselves as the leader so help n love ur man don't let him suffer in silence cause men do that they don't wanna put pressure on y'all n burden y'all so the only people they can get help from are other trusted guys n God
This message is spot on. I grew up in a household where my dad provided everything. He did not allow my mom to pay any bills bc he took the role as the provider. He would even tell me & my sister growing up to never let a man play us into settling for the 50/50 split. Of course he said we should ALWAYS have our own & to never depend on a man for anything just in case he tries to leave & use money over our heads. But other than that, he said a man who truly loves you will provide for you & the family. I believe it too. This generation is so twisted with its standards.. making it seem like a woman is a “gold digger” for wanting a man who wants to wholeheartedly provide without question. & I also agree that it’s rare to find men with your mindset Tony! Thanks for this message!
So true. I'm 41 yrs old and my parents told me nothing about the type of man that I should marry except that he should be Black. 😳 It took me this long, 2 marriages, & 3 kids, to figure out that I should marry a provider that has earned my trust & respect, that loves me, & puts God first. I will teach my kids better. I don't want them to have the same experiences that I've had. Period.
@@shanellem6310 ME TOO!!! I’m not playing with my life and possibly my kids life like that. It’s some horrible monsters out here! And I want to save my babies from any of that mess.
Tony, your wife is one lucky lady and I'm sure she knows it too. I wish I had been taught this when I was younger. I will definitely keep listening and pass on your words of wisdom to my kids. Thank you.
Men like Tony seem to be the next dinosaurs....extinct. The few men that I know who provide for their wives are then abusive and neglectful to their wives/marriage. Myles Munroe also gave a great sermon on the downfall of gender roles in the household and its ramifications. This is such a huge issue yet the world is ignoring it.
There are still many, but us as women are being raised to be masculine, and that repels a healthy provider man. When I turned on my feminine energy, provider men started to respond to that.
I actually agree with your stance that the men being the provider and paying all the bills. And I am a man, and frankly I make + inherit alot of money. However, the economics of the US have changed. Women in mass have entered the workforce. This has driven inflation adjusted wages sharply down because there is an oversupply of skilled workers. That means that a man earning a median wage makes significantly less (less than half) of what his counterpart did two generations ago doing a similarly skilled job. For your median family most men used to be able to meet this demand easily, for instance a factory job paid $75,000 in todays dollars from the 1950's. Now most men do not earn enough to do this. A simple thoughtless response would be he should make more money but that isn't a real answer at a macro economic scale. It is now a luxury to live on one income statistically. Also there is a double issue. Women's general modesty and the prudence of society used to regulate the top 5-10% of males. They couldn't go around being womanizers or perrenial bachelors because it was a stain on their reputation. Now your top 5-10% like myself and many of my colleagues that earn in excess of $500,000 simply will not settle down and unfortunately dominate a large segment of suitable women. This leaves an undersupplybof economically attractive men to women who are also interested getting married. I hope more women like yourself realize this. I explained it to a recent girlfriend. How many Masters degree, 5 inches taller than you, 2-300k plus earners, who are well adjusted, kind, and want to settle down and match your background / beliefs are there? 0.1%? This is a macro issue and the inflation caused by this to the average american household is now sticky as you can see in house prices and depressed wages. My 2 cents.
Tony if you had bought me a car I wouldve made a grand gesture like buying you or cooking dinner for you guys. That gift deserves something very elaborate.
In my humble opinion, Tony has learned how to copartner with God that is why he adores his wife and family because in the end it all points to devotion. Devotion to God and devotion to his family. That is what makes all the difference.
My father, uncle, grandfather paid the mortgage. The women paid the housing expenses that's utilities etc. and this includes groceries. They all worked full time jobs. Hey my dad wasn't a church goer, but was baptized in the church and chose at the age of 18 to no longer go to church. My mother took us to church every week. If we complain she go get our father to get us up on Sunday. I never knew why she use our dad a non-believer but he would say "I was a believer until I was 18 and no longer lived in my mother and father house. As long as you are under this roof you will go to church." Well we still going to church every week and a believer of Christ and his word. Just to say I am a 70's baby so family dynamics different. My father accepted Christ again in his life before he died 3 years ago. TG right men need to know you are a human being. My dad used to say that men these days are boys and looking for mommas. Only men see what other men are doing. Until women begin paying attention to what men are doing. You will be dating exactly Grown boys and women putting men in latest categories.
brittany hancock it will also be positive for the entire society as a whole ☮️ the more functional men are the more functional & healthy overall society will be ❤️ imagine all the destructive men (whether it's crimin., con-artists, dead beat "dads", broke users etc) would not exist but all or most men were real great men - how functional & safe & thriving the entire society/communities were as a result 🙏🏽🙏 That's why it's so important to prevent young boys from taking a toxic path it not only destroys their own lives but many other lives and next generations as well...& be careful that no older toxic men poison your son's minds either (mentally etc..) be careful of those destructive "influencers/role models" in your kids lives 🙏🏽
I'm old enough to remember when dating wasn't a battle field and love songs aka R&B were "in." Finding balance is clutch in dating and life. It's a marathon.... Peace yourselves and be encouraged❣️
I listen to Adore by Prince all the time, its one of my favorite love melodies. It keeps my heart from turning cold bc this new world thinking is quite depressing and I don’t want to become numb.
The men who want to go 50/50 on finances never bring up how hard it is to carry and birth a child. You never hear let's go 50/50 on carrying a baby. Saw how my mom went through the 50/50 life and it really turnt me off marriage. Her life was short because she was doing too much.
@@brittanyluvsyouso You think doing a few chores and cooking up a 15 minute meal is the equiavalent to working 9 till 5 ? Plenty of people in this generation live by them selves and have to do both. A house wife is just an overglorified maid.
I Thank God for you Tony. I am 48 years old and have never been taught most of the things that you are teaching us about men. I was talking to my niece today and everything that we have been taught has been past down from women who did the best that they could to keep their families together. They didn't have the knowledge that you are giving us. The knowledge that you are giving is PRICELESS! THANK YOU TONY! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Tony, my husband of 49 years passed away 2 years ago. He had the exact same mindset as yourself. He loved me and our family just as Scripture teaches ... and much more! I know many, many times he chose to forsake his own “want” so that our family would #1) always have all that we needed; and #2) many times what wasn’t “necessary.” He would have given his life for me and either one of our 3 boys.I had known him for 51 years. I know without any doubt our Father put us together! Thank you Tony for your strong Christ-like life and faith-filled messages. Some will listen, some will refuse the wisdom and insight ... remain faithful to God’s call on your heart. Many Blessings as you remain faithful to His Word.
I agree! It’s a six figure price tag on hiring staff and paying them to do ALL the jobs a woman does running a household. Loving and nurturing her husband and children is what can’t be outsourced-so that’s priceless
I can't lie when I hear a man is gonna be flawed I get very anxious ! Tony when you said "When you dealing with a man what you gotta understand is he gonna be flawed." I'm not saying he has to be perfect and neither am I but having to find out what those "flaws" will look like have me sitting at the edge of my seat. lool !
You’re right! Gratitude is definitely taught. My parents taught me and my siblings this through their behavior, so when I show extreme gratitude for small things, it often looked at as odd. I give and don’t expect much gratitude back because throughout the years I’ve learned that it’s not in most people.
Mannnn Tony! You're making it realllll HARDDDDD out here to meet a decent man, smh, Lol! You set the BAR HIGH!...I've been listening to you for about 10 years now and you have helped me through my last relationship which you actually answered my question on your "Talks with Tony" about 3 years ago. Listening to you, I realize it's grim out here for many of us single women who are doing "everything right" to be in a healthy relationship. I'm 40 years old, single, educated, no children and most men I meet feel that everything should be split 50/50 in a household like roommates🤨. I grew up watching my father being the Provider and paid the majority of the bills willfully and ungrudgingly and still... Tony, you truly have an old soul, lol...Fa real... because I haven't met any man within my age group who thinks anywhere close to you...I will continue holding the faith that I will meet a Good guy all around, Amen!🙏🏾🙏🏾
I have worked my whole life and honestly it's not hard for a man to provide. Single mom's do it daily. Motherhood has been the hardest thing to do in my life, not providing. And to not be supported especially with raising a man's legacy................. it's too much for a woman. I don't throw around the term man lightly. There's just not as many out here....plenty of boys. But they aren't making the leap when a woman enables by picking up the slack. He's not gonna pick up the slack for you. Stop the madness.
I feel you sis. This is the hardest thing I've ever done too. I though life as a woman was hard before becoming a mother. When that much pressure is on you sometimes your just grasping for a sliver of joy. It ca be really hard to grow anything good from the place. Only way how is God, for me.
Oh my, you hit it right on the nose. I've been going through this battle with my kids father. Finally from a male perspective that aligns with what I've been preaching for years. Thank you...Thank you for your honesty! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💙👑
Bro. Gaskins, with you as an example, you making it reaalll hard for men these days and I ain’t mad at it. We have raised our standards listening to you.
Thank you Tony Gaskin for doing what God called you to do. Tonys well will never be dry because he's following the will and direction from God for his life. God came that we might have life and life more abundantly.
Girl make it easy. Stop relying on your achievements to attract (men do this). Do your makeup wear things a man would never wear(dresses). And put it in your mind: my wallet does not exist around a man. Stop offering to pay any amount.
Mr. Gaskins, could you give me a priceless gift? Could you Pray for my husband's experience with Christ? I want him to experience His love to a point that he can begin to receive truths like these. Thank you!
I just want to tale a little time out to say thank you very much for your time to teach us women that didn't get taught this in our homes. Also, I want to say thank you to your lovely wife for sharing you with us. I have learned so much this year and last year. It is priceless. I am so grateful.
Wen I heard wat TG said in this video I just don't want any thing to do with a man because he makes so hard to live with him around him it takes a lot out of me as a woman an to me it's not worth it
Tony is fulfilling the Biblical command to love his wife like Jesus loved the church. It is heart warming to see how devoted he is to his wife and children.
Tony, you must be an example for all men out there how to be a true Man of God, a Good Father and Husband. May OUR HEAVENLY FATHER CONTINUE BLESSING ABUNDANTLY You and Your Beautiful Family IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!!! AMEN!!!!
Bless you, Mr. Gaskins. The AA community would decrease its problems by 40% if boys were raised like you are prescribing and men would live the same. We need to work on fixing ourselves.
If a woman bought me a car, I'd say “Thank you so much” at least ten times. That’s because I always appreciate what people do for me and I never take things for granted.
Thank you Tony. I appreciate this message so much because it touched on something close to my heart. As a RN in NYC I make a pretty good living for myself. I can more than support myself, I don’t “need” a man’s money. But... I know for a fact I want my future husband and father of our future kids to be a PROVIDER. These grown boys out her will have you thinking, I’m asking for the impossible, when I know what me and my future children deserve from a husband and father
You had best preach Coach Tony, Lord have mercy. Women wear a lot of different hats in Relationships of wife, mother, family, teacher church, coach/counselor etc. We are thankful for the words of life. This is food for life, teach someone to fish they'll be never hungry. Reason why I am following your blueprint right now Coach. Yes, take him to coach Tony, Pastor, Brother, Uncle, Father because a wolf will recognize another wolf. This was short, sweet & powerful because women don't always see the same as a man. Amen
Tony!!!! You are such a good man, Christian, husband, father, leader! I pray that I can receive a husband that's similar to you! Keep up the great work!
Wowwwwwww I really love your idea on how you and your queen appreciate each other. I respect that you put positive content that everyone can learn from in a relationship. Black men and woman need to stop the continuation of beating each other up for silly reasons. Love should come straight from the heart if that's a couple goal together.
I regally wouldn’t mind the way Tony and his wife handle bills and their lifestyles. I really feel that those things should be discussed early on. It’s really sweet how he spoils her keeps God centered, which is real marriage goals for myself💕
So on point Mr. Gaskins! So on point! And that'sall we need. Confident men that can take care of business and understand God's concept from the Garden of Eden with Adam and Eve.
Tony can you please hold a seminar for Men? My God, they will benefit from it tremendously and I have men in my family that can use it. They are LOST and looking for leadership and accountability, especially when they're not following God.
There is no measure to the weight of the value of the Woman..who comes from the Man!! The beauty of her reflection!! No competing!! Yass..Tony have you ever considered being a rapper? The way you flow with (thez hea wordz)..😅😅..You could reach alot of Kings w/broken crowns by dropping errything. you say to us to them!!! In their arena...(Good Gracious)!!! Ty brother Tony
This particular video is pretty amazing. And ironically, it's not really about the provider angle, even though that's what drew me to the video, since I'm a woman and it's what I'm supposed to look for in a husband. Plus you laid it out plainly, as there is a lot of arguments about this and people making it out to be transactional. It's more what you said, that we should be unconditional, we should be more forgiving, loving and caring, as how God and Jesus loved everyone. The way you put it was pretty thoughtful. It's what I felt I've been losing of late.
OMG Tony my husband does not have his own business, but he pays 100 percent all bills and taxes. Just like when he lived alone. Plus buys me a car, pays all insurance, all doctors bills, supports our two children, and we are not rich. He does not touch any of my money, does not ask to help with anything. And he is not sad in any way.
God bless him
Blessed sis! What a blessing!
God blessed family x
Congrats Sis!
Awesomeness
Talks with Tony is better than any show on television . Let me tell you.
Ok?! I stop watching Netflix when I see he’s uploaded a new video.
Amen
You better know it 😁
Seriously this man was hand picked by GOD to educate and elevate people especially women. I pray that God continue to Richly Bless him and his family. We appreciate you Tony. Keep doing the work of the Lord.
@@prettytaurus3671 facts!
Tony is a gem. He’s very rare. His wife, kids and his family are very blessed. This should be the norm. Thank you again and be blessed.
Exactly should be the norm but cheating is the norm so sad
Yes he and his family is
My thoughts every time I'm watching. Also, that he is blessed & clearly has a wonderful wife. 😊 They seem to be raising their kids so well too. It's inspiring. 💗 💡
Love yourself and Rub
She has my exact thoughts! I don’t want a man with the 50/50 mindset.
Am telling you... when I said I ran the other day from one who bought up the 50/50 shit to me smh baby am glad I know better... A man is a provider PERIOD...
@@TravelsWithJamaicanBarbie I hate that shi*! So Pathetic! Like damn! You need me to help you pay the bills can't do it by yourself 🤔😩 I be running too especially when they talk about there job and how hard it is like 😒😩WTF! That his to do with me but he ain't Tired for Sex smh 🤦
@@latiaavril9424 exactly girl.. shit let’s not be afraid to run ladies...
@@latiaavril9424a man provides necessities like a roof over ur head food clothes on ur back nowhere in the Bible does it say he has to pay every single bill it says the wife is a helper n supporter so if u can u should be helping men aren't ur slaves they'll always have to carry the biggest burdens n put ur life n well-being before themselves as the leader so help n love ur man don't let him suffer in silence cause men do that they don't wanna put pressure on y'all n burden y'all so the only people they can get help from are other trusted guys n God
This message is spot on. I grew up in a household where my dad provided everything. He did not allow my mom to pay any bills bc he took the role as the provider. He would even tell me & my sister growing up to never let a man play us into settling for the 50/50 split. Of course he said we should ALWAYS have our own & to never depend on a man for anything just in case he tries to leave & use money over our heads. But other than that, he said a man who truly loves you will provide for you & the family. I believe it too. This generation is so twisted with its standards.. making it seem like a woman is a “gold digger” for wanting a man who wants to wholeheartedly provide without question. & I also agree that it’s rare to find men with your mindset Tony! Thanks for this message!
YOUR SUCH A LUCKY BLESSED WOMAN 💕💕. To get that game so young could’ve saved me man omgggg. I LOVE IT girl 🥰
So true. I'm 41 yrs old and my parents told me nothing about the type of man that I should marry except that he should be Black. 😳 It took me this long, 2 marriages, & 3 kids, to figure out that I should marry a provider that has earned my trust & respect, that loves me, & puts God first. I will teach my kids better. I don't want them to have the same experiences that I've had. Period.
@@shanellem6310 ME TOO!!! I’m not playing with my life and possibly my kids life like that. It’s some horrible monsters out here! And I want to save my babies from any of that mess.
Tony, your wife is one lucky lady and I'm sure she knows it too. I wish I had been taught this when I was younger. I will definitely keep listening and pass on your words of wisdom to my kids. Thank you.
@@fitwitbrittbritt Yes. We have got to teach this new generation better.
“What a GOOD woman does is priceless.” !!!
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! MAY2021
Men like Tony seem to be the next dinosaurs....extinct. The few men that I know who provide for their wives are then abusive and neglectful to their wives/marriage. Myles Munroe also gave a great sermon on the downfall of gender roles in the household and its ramifications. This is such a huge issue yet the world is ignoring it.
There are still many, but us as women are being raised to be masculine, and that repels a healthy provider man. When I turned on my feminine energy, provider men started to respond to that.
Preaching!!!!!
@@genxx2724 Hi, I would recommend The channel "The Universe Guru" her tips are great for successful women :)
I actually agree with your stance that the men being the provider and paying all the bills. And I am a man, and frankly I make + inherit alot of money. However, the economics of the US have changed. Women in mass have entered the workforce. This has driven inflation adjusted wages sharply down because there is an oversupply of skilled workers. That means that a man earning a median wage makes significantly less (less than half) of what his counterpart did two generations ago doing a similarly skilled job. For your median family most men used to be able to meet this demand easily, for instance a factory job paid $75,000 in todays dollars from the 1950's. Now most men do not earn enough to do this.
A simple thoughtless response would be he should make more money but that isn't a real answer at a macro economic scale. It is now a luxury to live on one income statistically.
Also there is a double issue. Women's general modesty and the prudence of society used to regulate the top 5-10% of males. They couldn't go around being womanizers or perrenial bachelors because it was a stain on their reputation. Now your top 5-10% like myself and many of my colleagues that earn in excess of $500,000 simply will not settle down and unfortunately dominate a large segment of suitable women. This leaves an undersupplybof economically attractive men to women who are also interested getting married.
I hope more women like yourself realize this. I explained it to a recent girlfriend. How many Masters degree, 5 inches taller than you, 2-300k plus earners, who are well adjusted, kind, and want to settle down and match your background / beliefs are there? 0.1%?
This is a macro issue and the inflation caused by this to the average american household is now sticky as you can see in house prices and depressed wages.
My 2 cents.
Wow, Tony is the proof that God is real.
AMEN!!!
He really is. It’s just beautiful to see proof that God is real. That the impossible is possible. He gives me hope 🙏🏾.
To be a Woman is to be a multiplier we must be careful what we allow to be multiplied in us & around us 👸🏽! A good woman is to be treasured
“He’s gonna let you know if he can see the value of a woman and understand that a dollar amount can’t be placed on that.” TG
Love it!
Tony if you had bought me a car I wouldve made a grand gesture like buying you or cooking dinner for you guys. That gift deserves something very elaborate.
Because you have sense. A lot of people do not
People have turned away from God so they are thinking and working in the flesh.
@Joyful n Blessed I agree plain truth
Come on with the ACTUAL truth!
In my humble opinion, Tony has learned how to copartner with God that is why he adores his wife and family because in the end it all points to devotion. Devotion to God and devotion to his family. That is what makes all the difference.
Facts ❗️
My father, uncle, grandfather paid the mortgage. The women paid the housing expenses that's utilities etc. and this includes groceries. They all worked full time jobs. Hey my dad wasn't a church goer, but was baptized in the church and chose at the age of 18 to no longer go to church. My mother took us to church every week. If we complain she go get our father to get us up on Sunday. I never knew why she use our dad a non-believer but he would say "I was a believer until I was 18 and no longer lived in my mother and father house. As long as you are under this roof you will go to church." Well we still going to church every week and a believer of Christ and his word. Just to say I am a 70's baby so family dynamics different. My father accepted Christ again in his life before he died 3 years ago. TG right men need to know you are a human being. My dad used to say that men these days are boys and looking for mommas. Only men see what other men are doing. Until women begin paying attention to what men are doing. You will be dating exactly Grown boys and women putting men in latest categories.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 A man has to go through God to find you”.
@@antoinettesherrod1895 Wow.
My Dad is like this. He looks after my mum and treats her. They have been happily married 36 years, what they have is rare. They are truly blessed.
We're raising our sons to be provider!
Thats good. A man should be. For a good woman of course.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm going to teach my son this as well. That's the most likely way his future relationship will work out is if his wife feels cared for and secure.
brittany hancock it will also be positive for the entire society as a whole ☮️ the more functional men are the more functional & healthy overall society will be ❤️ imagine all the destructive men (whether it's crimin., con-artists, dead beat "dads", broke users etc) would not exist but all or most men were real great men - how functional & safe & thriving the entire society/communities were as a result 🙏🏽🙏 That's why it's so important to prevent young boys from taking a toxic path it not only destroys their own lives but many other lives and next generations as well...& be careful that no older toxic men poison your son's minds either (mentally etc..) be careful of those destructive "influencers/role models" in your kids lives 🙏🏽
Provide for Cardi B and Meagan type women ? Pass
I'm old enough to remember when dating wasn't a battle field and love songs aka R&B were "in."
Finding balance is clutch in dating and life.
It's a marathon.... Peace yourselves and be encouraged❣️
Exactly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
i listen to those songs at night & just think of the good ol days
I listen to Adore by Prince all the time, its one of my favorite love melodies. It keeps my heart from turning cold bc this new world thinking is quite depressing and I don’t want to become numb.
I miss the 90s love and early 2000s
ACCOUNTABILITY, INTERDEPENDENCE, INTEGRITY, WISDOM, LOVE.....
A man like Tony is so rare in this world. God bless you for all these videos you do for free for us.
The men who want to go 50/50 on finances never bring up how hard it is to carry and birth a child. You never hear let's go 50/50 on carrying a baby. Saw how my mom went through the 50/50 life and it really turnt me off marriage. Her life was short because she was doing too much.
I'm sorry to hear about your mom ❤️ most men don't want to go 50/50 on chores or cooking either so the least they should do is pay the bills.
@BLVCK LORD are you a woman?
@@brittanyluvsyouso Facts!
@@brittanyluvsyouso You think doing a few chores and cooking up a 15 minute meal is the equiavalent to working 9 till 5 ? Plenty of people in this generation live by them selves and have to do both. A house wife is just an overglorified maid.
@@xh56758 , yes? Real man will provide for their family and real women will care for the house. Its very simple.
I Thank God for you Tony. I am 48 years old and have never been taught most of the things that you are teaching us about men. I was talking to my niece today and everything that we have been taught has been past down from women who did the best that they could to keep their families together. They didn't have the knowledge that you are giving us. The knowledge that you are giving is PRICELESS! THANK YOU TONY! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Tony, my husband of 49 years passed away 2 years ago. He had the exact same mindset as yourself. He loved me and our family just as Scripture teaches ... and much more! I know many, many times he chose to forsake his own “want” so that our family would #1) always have all that we needed; and #2) many times what wasn’t “necessary.” He would have given his life for me and either one of our 3 boys.I had known him for 51 years. I know without any doubt our Father put us together! Thank you Tony for your strong Christ-like life and faith-filled messages. Some will listen, some will refuse the wisdom and insight ... remain faithful to God’s call on your heart. Many Blessings as you remain faithful to His Word.
Amen to this. God bless you ! . You both were blessed together in marriage and such love 🌷🌼🌸🌺
Gratitude does have to be learned. My overtly generous days are over.
Me too sister NO MEANS NO
I agree! It’s a six figure price tag on hiring staff and paying them to do ALL the jobs a woman does running a household. Loving and nurturing her husband and children is what can’t be outsourced-so that’s priceless
I can't lie when I hear a man is gonna be flawed I get very anxious ! Tony when you said "When you dealing with a man what you gotta understand is he gonna be flawed." I'm not saying he has to be perfect and neither am I but having to find out what those "flaws" will look like have me sitting at the edge of my seat. lool !
Right!!😂😂
The same as you are flawed, we are all flawed
You’re right! Gratitude is definitely taught. My parents taught me and my siblings this through their behavior, so when I show extreme gratitude for small things, it often looked at as odd. I give and don’t expect much gratitude back because throughout the years I’ve learned that it’s not in most people.
Mannnn Tony! You're making it realllll HARDDDDD out here to meet a decent man, smh, Lol! You set the BAR HIGH!...I've been listening to you for about 10 years now and you have helped me through my last relationship which you actually answered my question on your "Talks with Tony" about 3 years ago. Listening to you, I realize it's grim out here for many of us single women who are doing "everything right" to be in a healthy relationship. I'm 40 years old, single, educated, no children and most men I meet feel that everything should be split 50/50 in a household like roommates🤨. I grew up watching my father being the Provider and paid the majority of the bills willfully and ungrudgingly and still... Tony, you truly have an old soul, lol...Fa real... because I haven't met any man within my age group who thinks anywhere close to you...I will continue holding the faith that I will meet a Good guy all around, Amen!🙏🏾🙏🏾
Was headed to bed, and then I saw this notification ... 😍
its a serotonin boost 😳
He said they can't count that well 🤦🏾♀️ lol
Talks with Tony!!! Hey hey ❤
Tony your doing it Gods way brother! Bravo!! respect!
I have worked my whole life and honestly it's not hard for a man to provide. Single mom's do it daily. Motherhood has been the hardest thing to do in my life, not providing. And to not be supported especially with raising a man's legacy................. it's too much for a woman. I don't throw around the term man lightly. There's just not as many out here....plenty of boys. But they aren't making the leap when a woman enables by picking up the slack. He's not gonna pick up the slack for you. Stop the madness.
I feel you sis. This is the hardest thing I've ever done too. I though life as a woman was hard before becoming a mother. When that much pressure is on you sometimes your just grasping for a sliver of joy. It ca be really hard to grow anything good from the place. Only way how is God, for me.
Oh my, you hit it right on the nose. I've been going through this battle with my kids father. Finally from a male perspective that aligns with what I've been preaching for years. Thank you...Thank you for your honesty! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💙👑
Bro. Gaskins, with you as an example, you making it reaalll hard for men these days and I ain’t mad at it. We have raised our standards listening to you.
I love the fact that you tell her you love her out of the blue. You probably tell her 50 times a day 💖💖
Thank you Tony Gaskin for doing what God called you to do. Tonys well will never be dry because he's following the will and direction from God for his life. God came that we might have life and life more abundantly.
Girl make it easy. Stop relying on your achievements to attract (men do this). Do your makeup wear things a man would never wear(dresses). And put it in your mind: my wallet does not exist around a man. Stop offering to pay any amount.
Mr. Gaskins, could you give me a priceless gift? Could you Pray for my husband's experience with Christ? I want him to experience His love to a point that he can begin to receive truths like these. Thank you!
AMEN!!!
I just want to tale a little time out to say thank you very much for your time to teach us women that didn't get taught this in our homes. Also, I want to say thank you to your lovely wife for sharing you with us. I have learned so much this year and last year. It is priceless. I am so grateful.
Wen I heard wat TG said in this video I just don't want any thing to do with a man because he makes so hard to live with him around him it takes a lot out of me as a woman an to me it's not worth it
Tony is fulfilling the Biblical command to love his wife like Jesus loved the church. It is heart warming to see how devoted he is to his wife and children.
Tony, you must be an example for all men out there how to be a true Man of God, a Good Father and Husband. May OUR HEAVENLY FATHER CONTINUE BLESSING ABUNDANTLY You and Your Beautiful Family IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!!! AMEN!!!!
Tony we appreciate you and all the work you do and most importantly God appreciates you. Continuous prayers and blessing over you and your family. ❤️
Bless you, Mr. Gaskins. The AA community would decrease its problems by 40% if boys were raised like you are prescribing and men would live the same. We need to work on fixing ourselves.
Thank you for being the big brother Tony I never had. Blessings to you and your family!
Loving all the uploads. Thank you for giving us your time !
Man The Giving Humans never Get those things in Return. If someone brought me a Car I would be overwhelmed with Gratitude🙏🏽
If a woman bought me a car, I'd say “Thank you so much” at least ten times. That’s because I always appreciate what people do for me and I never take things for granted.
I love the way you take care of your Wife!! ❤️💕 Makes my heart fuzzy; and gives me hope.
We should start praising MEN who do treat Their wives as Jesus treated the church
I agree!! So many pastors don't know how to treat their wives.
Yasss
We should also praise WOMEN who truly follow Jesus.
Tony read my mind I was waiting for this all day!!!!!
Good evening ladies and gentlemen.
Tony: “ she’s a queen “
me: 🥺🥺🥺🥺 oh...my heart
Thank you Tony for doing what God God have given you the knowledge to share to the world.
Thank you Tony. I appreciate this message so much because it touched on something close to my heart. As a RN in NYC I make a pretty good living for myself. I can more than support myself, I don’t “need” a man’s money. But... I know for a fact I want my future husband and father of our future kids to be a PROVIDER. These grown boys out her will have you thinking, I’m asking for the impossible, when I know what me and my future children deserve from a husband and father
Thats why we are praying for YOUR family TG, because we love you sooo much!
YIKES! A text to thank you for a car is so UNGRATEFUL!!! I did not know gratitude wasn't natural to hoomans.
Here For It!
You had best preach Coach Tony, Lord have mercy. Women wear a lot of different hats in Relationships of wife, mother, family, teacher church, coach/counselor etc. We are thankful for the words of life. This is food for life, teach someone to fish they'll be never hungry. Reason why I am following your blueprint right now Coach. Yes, take him to coach Tony, Pastor, Brother, Uncle, Father because a wolf will recognize another wolf. This was short, sweet & powerful because women don't always see the same as a man. Amen
This video is beyond knowledge!! Now my goal for finding a mate is on another level. God Bless you Tony Gaskins. WOW!!
Tony, I go 10 years MAX younger than me in dating. I'm in my late 50's and I really don't do immaturity. It works out well for me like this.
This is it!!!! Tony you a real one! Thank you 🙏🏾 always gems 💎
OOOH this is GENIUS!!!! Predating coaching 🙌🏼
Tony!!!! You are such a good man, Christian, husband, father, leader! I pray that I can receive a husband that's similar to you! Keep up the great work!
Thank you for sharing your wise counsel. I wish most men thought this way.
Your kids are your legacy and your wife being at home to help them achieve their highest potential you can't put a price on that
Aww Tony I love the way, you love your wife and family. I need God to send me a husband with your mindset. Blessings 🙏🏽✨
Listening.
This is an EXCELLENT question because it is so prevalent! I don't know why men think this way...
Lets Goo!! Im ready!
God bless you and your family.
Wowwwwwww I really love your idea on how you and your queen appreciate each other. I respect that you put positive content that everyone can learn from in a relationship. Black men and woman need to stop the continuation of beating each other up for silly reasons. Love should come straight from the heart if that's a couple goal together.
One word to describe you Tony Gaskin, RARE.👏🏿
The blessed tribe 🙏 bless you and your beautiful family
So beautiful what you say abt your marriage commitment may God bless you with harmony and prosperity thanks for your videos!
You are so right. Thank you for your honesty.
To Have A Man That Values Me As Much As Tony Values His Wife Is A GOAL💜. We Need More Positive Examples Of Black Love!
Preaching nothing but truth!!
You sir made this topic make the most sense!
He preached that! 🙏🏽🙌🏽
I regally wouldn’t mind the way Tony and his wife handle bills and their lifestyles. I really feel that those things should be discussed early on. It’s really sweet how he spoils her keeps God centered, which is real marriage goals for myself💕
All these different termssss👀👀👀👀the eyes!! I agreeeeeee!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Tuned in!
I love it! Ty ❤️
So on point Mr. Gaskins! So on point! And that'sall we need. Confident men that can take care of business and understand God's concept from the Garden of Eden with Adam and Eve.
It's the upset my wife didn't have a fresh pair of blue blue jeans. This the energy I need.
A whole king🤴🏾
Your wife is very lucky!💜
BE BLESSED!!
Be blessed!
Sooooo gooooddd thank you Tony!!
You (CTG) are God Himself here on earth. When the Queen see you she see God. Selflessness! 🙏🏽❤️💪🏽
Tony can you please hold a seminar for Men? My God, they will benefit from it tremendously and I have men in my family that can use it. They are LOST and looking for leadership and accountability, especially when they're not following God.
Wondering knowledge to share with the young generation of men that can benefit off your thoughts and mindset. Thank you
“He may not know how to calculate the percentages”🤣🤣💀💀
I know this going to be and informative 🙏
It's amazing just how Sherry is a priority even in finance wow before himself TG🙌🏽🙏🏽
Thank you God Bless
God bless you and your wife 🙏
TONY you are a REAL MAN! It’s a decision and I hope your wife appreciates the God in you!!! You’re never go wrong in God! ✌🏽😍👍🏽🙏🏾
Come on Tony..With the Spiritual calculator!!! Know my Worth!!
There is no measure to the weight of the value of the Woman..who comes from the Man!! The beauty of her reflection!! No competing!! Yass..Tony have you ever considered being a rapper? The way you flow with (thez hea wordz)..😅😅..You could reach alot of Kings w/broken crowns by dropping errything. you say to us to them!!! In their arena...(Good Gracious)!!! Ty brother Tony
This particular video is pretty amazing. And ironically, it's not really about the provider angle, even though that's what drew me to the video, since I'm a woman and it's what I'm supposed to look for in a husband. Plus you laid it out plainly, as there is a lot of arguments about this and people making it out to be transactional. It's more what you said, that we should be unconditional, we should be more forgiving, loving and caring, as how God and Jesus loved everyone. The way you put it was pretty thoughtful. It's what I felt I've been losing of late.
I love to see a man taking care of his wife, especially now days!GOD bless...