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- Dating Mexican women has been an interesting experience, to say the least.
In this video I’m going to tell you what it has been like dating in Mexico - and that includes both dating Mexicans and dating other expats like myself.
I’ll also be discussing cultural differences and how I’ve found dating Mexican girls to be different from dating American girls.
I moved to Mexico over 4 years ago but for most of that time I’ve been in a relationship with an American girl. However, for about the past year I’ve been single and it has allowed me to see a very different side of life in Mexico.
These are the problems and perks that come with dating in Mexico and dating Mexican women.
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ABOUT ME
I'm Jordan, an American living in Mexico with my Husky, Laska. In January of 2018 I left the US to start traveling Mexico. Since then, I've been making travel videos about my life in Mexico, travel tips, Las Vegas tips videos, and advice for those considering moving abroad.
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This is a very different video than what I normally post on the channel but it has been THE MOST requested one over the past couple of months. I promised you it was coming, so here it is!
LOVED this video!!!!! Thank you so much for posting it.
Wow!!!! You went through the same thing i did but here in the USA I was lucky i didn't end up dead in the desert in California near Nevada End all because of a super drop-dead gorgeous blonde
Great video, I would like to see more on this topic. I like how your channel is evolving
Haven't seen yet ...
That said, if she rocks, just say yes and set the tentative date a year from now. Spend all your time together. Get to know all her family and introduce her to yours. You'll know by then if it's going to work.
Loved this video. Your best one ever. I was captivated and cried laughing.
When I met my husband I knew only basic english. He got a dictionary , so we can communicate, after the first date he bought the same dictionary for me. That’s how we comunicate while dating. Two months later we got married and today May 7th we are celebrating 17 years of marriage in the beautiful Cancun. Was it crazy to marry a stranger after two months? Yes, but it was totally worth it. He is my whole world. Good luck finding your other half, you deserve it 😊👍🏼
What a beautiful love story 🥰🙌
I met my wife while she was in the US visiting her sister. I was living in Kansas at the time. I grew up in Southern California in various ethnic neighborhoods and was around Spanish a lot. If you asked me then if I spoke Spanish, I would have said "a little". Now I know, I spoke a few words and could conjugate present tense of the -ar verbs and that was is. Anytime I met anyone who spoke Spanish, I'd try to practice those same 12 words I knew. lol. I met my wife, who had just arrived from Mexico and began speaking to her. We had instant chemistry and a couple months later, we were a couple. That was April of 2007. Now, we've been together for 15 years, married for 13 and have two kids.
I bought two books since I figured it'd be easier for me to learn Spanish than her to learn English. I bought Barron's 501 Spanish Verbs and a Vox Spanish English Dictionary. We eventually moved down to Mexico together for a year and then returned to the states in 2009. The cultural differences are the most difficult, I think. But, she and I are kindred spirits and I couldn't imagine my life without her.
This is true love
@@sighermike please expand on the cultural differences. Thank you.
thats very cute
OMG this is so true!!! I am planning on moving to Mexico and I just got back from a week trip to Cancun and you're right - in Canada i cant get a date to save my life but in Mexico they treated me like i was a queen. They thought i was beautiful, bought me dinners/drinks, and ACTUALLY showed up!!! Getting ghosted in Canada is "normal" but not one person ghosted me in Mexico
I went to Mexico for a week in February and my first night out at a restaurant my waiter asked me if I was alone. I said yes and then he told me he has a cousin if I'm interested. In the next 3 days it happened 3 more times. It seems like everyone has an available cousin
Lmao what? Really? You kidding right?
Most likely wanted to see if you were interested in hiring a lady for the night. Even taxi drivers have the “cousins” but it’s just connections and they take a cut.
@@findyourwatchenespanol8157 No, it's so true
Lol you must’ve looked lonely
@@rebeccaortiz5544 I went there bu myself. Everyone needs some time alone occasionally
As a Mexican woman, I think if the girl you’re dating accepts you are seeing other girls, most of the time that means she isn’t serious. And if they invite you on a trip that may mean they just want to have fun, but you’re not suitable guy for them. Watch out. Good luck, and I hope you find the one. One advice…. Mexicans like faithfulness. Seeing many people at once is a big turn off if you are looking for a serious relationship.
Well that is just not true at all, cheating is at the order of the day in Mexico, lol. It is everybody vs everybody. They all say loyalty is a desired thing but in reallity everybody cheats here.
We all like monogamous relationships, unless we're freaks 😂
Mexico is similar to almost any other country. The US and Canada are the outliers.
When I met my wife , she didn't speak English , my Spanish was limited to Taco Bell , We just cellibrated 25 years of marriage . Good Luck .
😂 That's actually really funny! And congrats!!
lol i learned Spanish through my wife too
Same here, my wife spoke no English, and I spoke French. Somehow we muddled through and have been married for 42 years.
I have 6 years with this cabron lol. I had 1 year learning Spanish when I met him. He had extremely limited English. We had so many arguments and misunderstandings. Some cultural things I liked and some I didn't like. It took a long while but most of that leveled out. I don't think either of us thought it would work out. I still have problems with him. He still loves me. He's finally trying harder to learn English. I think we figured out he has a slight learning disability so it just takes him more effort to focus. Our relationship is in Spanish until I get mad or I'm tired and don't follow what he's saying anymore. 🤣
Sounds like you guys had a lot to talk about in the beginning
When I met my Wife 20 years ago, she only spoke broken English and I broken Spanish, but still communicated enough that we enjoyed each other's company and are still happily married.
Well I may be 68 and happily married but I found this to be SO interesting!! Heaven help me if I’m ever in the dating scene again. Great video, Jordan! Frank, humorous, interesting, and very informative! I look forward to meeting your girlfriend.
wifey reads that comment and you'll be searching dating apps.
Heaven help your wife now bro!
I love your candidness in this video! 🤣Glad you were able to dodge the Toxicas, and congratulations on your new relationship! ✨💖✨
Jordan, your filmmaking skills & helpfulness of your content keep getting better & better. I admit I was skeptical after your relationship split if your channel would still be worth watching, probably since I had gotten so used to the previous format. But it's been amazing to watch how you've taken the channel to a new place. Really appreciate you & the work that you do! 🍻
I appreciate that! Thank you!
@@TangerineTravels I agree, the channel got WAY BETTER!!
Yep, I was going to say the same things. I started clicking on the videos since Maddie was a short haired cutie, but fast forwarding to now, Jordan has really risen to the occasion and it is great fun to see where he's going. Keeping it real along the way. My initial thoughts on the sudden weekends away were of secuestadores using women to review shakedown candidates. I didn't date in Mexico when I have been there. Somehow I ended up happily married to an Americian woman. Very interesting to see what it's like for the single crew. Stay safe but have great fun.
Well said. Hated the break up but them both as individuals now
Great video. Can I ask what Camera/microphone are you vlogging with. Cheers.
It's funny how everyone in the US thinks every Mexican wants to go live there, that's only a minority and normally it happens with the people from small towns, I live in Mexico and have no intentions of going there, neither My family and friends. We're more worried about you guys comming to Mexico and making everything more expensive. Gentrification, but it's cool we just have to get smarter and work harder.
If your country has a reasonable construction regulatory environment then housing supply will meet demand. As far as I know, construction in Mexico happens much faster than Canada. We are taking about 400k immigrants per year but they are all degree holders and don't work in construction, and we have severe environmental and municipal regulations that stop the growth of the housing market. Don't follow in our direction.
This reminds me of Italy where dating is not a casual affair but about your destiny, your future. It's the first step in a commitment that inevitably leads to marriage and children. This is why the girls seem competitive. They're vying for that empty spot by your side for life.
It's a bit awkward culturally to say you're dating multiple people when they are seeing it as a unique experience and possibly the beginning of something greater.
is that italy today or way back when?
@@neomonkeyking then and now. Although now, couples are more receptive to breaking up. Nonetheless, marriage is often the only solution to leaving the house.
I appreciate your perspective on dating Mexican women. I agree with you, most young, educated middle class women are not interested in a visa or money. They look at you and see that you are attractive. Once they meet you they probably see that you are are also chill, sweet and interesting so any woman in the world would find that attractive. What is a red flag is anyone trying to move too quickly or tell you they love you without knowing you well. And this isn’t just in Mexico, it’s here in the US too.
Please stop this fairytale. Stop encouraging him. When these manipulationships end, and they will, women land on their feet. Most men end up financially ruined, alienated from their children, and devastated in other ways -- to say nothing about a decline in lovemaking, being given the silent treatment, putting up with her lying, criticisms, devaluation of your achievements, abandonment, and so on, after the honeymoon.
Most Mexican women that I’ve seen are interested in getting papers and guys with money .
I live in US and I dated a girl that after a single weekend she ask me that she wanted to have a baby of mine
I ran away so fast and never looked back LOL
@@omarhernandez9148Don't forget that many women don't want to simply "hook up." They desire to establish a home and raise a family. Many attempt to find a husband and father for their children through dating. But if you're not prepared to follow suit, you should either stop dating or do what you ultimately did. Hooking up is actually bad news. It hurts you both.
@@jolly7728 I get that, but the thing is that I'm not young neither was she, I already have kids of my own and so does she.... but even if we didn't asking someone to have your baby after only one weekend is a little too quick
I was in La Paz last year and went in to a coffee shop to charge my phone. This girl was staring at me for a minute and then struck up a conversation. After a bit she asked if I wanted to take a trip with her to Todos Santos. The whole time I got this strange vibe like she had different intentions. I couldn’t help but feel I was being kidnapped or something lol. She was flirting with this other guy before I got there so maybe it was her dating style or idk. When I said no she got very angry and didn’t look or talk to me anymore. I left the coffee shop, probably dodging a bullet.
Nah , probably she thought that by talking to you she already had control over you ,so she flirted with the other dude to see if you had INITIATIVE 😂😂😂😂 she was expecting you to go after her, nice donde btw😎
@@mimi7914 Or a kIdney
A woman asking a man out in Mexico is a RED FLAG! Mexico has a Madonna - wh..e complex regarding women. "A wanton woman" is VERY frowned upon.🤭
Plus it’s a 2h drive with a complete stranger. Could be pretty cringy.
I wouldn’t doubt she was part of an abduction. Glad you listened to your gut!
Dude, you’re kicking ass solo. I’ve been watching this channel for years and just wanted to say, great job!
I too am an American, only I work in the US and then go home every couple of months. I have lived in Veracruz for 17 years.
Anyways, keep up the good work, really love the videos.🙋🏽♂️
Really great video Jordan. As a single female in my late 40’s I have not had a good experience dating men in Mexico. I used PLenty of fish and messaged a lot of men. Many chatted with me for several weeks but when I tried to actually meet them they would either not show up or just stop messaging me. Expats were very reliable and did keep their commitment. Im a very educated woman with a really good career that pays me above average but I never met people in my same income category such as doctors or engineers. Not being in the same social class was an issue as I often felt the men were gold diggers looking for a foreign woman to live off! Glad all this dating paid off in the end☺️
You have a lot of courage putting this out, knowing how bent out of shape people can get about such topics, but you did it well. Not tacky or trashy but lots of fun. Loved the actors and silhouettes.
Glad to hear that you enjoyed how it was done! I was a bit nervous about posting this but if I don't take risks the content can get stale.
@@TangerineTravels I enjoyed it more than i thought i would 👍
I’m dating a Mexican girl and everything you are saying is dead on.
You gringos need to stay off our land. You guys corrupted your women with that liberal western bs, we don’t need you to come over here because you don’t want to date the women in your own country. Trust me “bro”, it’s a matter of time before you end up with a beat down and not knowing why. Also, quit moving into Mexico, we don’t need your inflated fake dollar making thing expensive over here for the locals.
Thank you Jordan ☺️. This video was so entertaining I could not stop watching 👀. You are a great story teller 🤣🤣🤣! I wish you well in your new relationship🥰
Thank you so much!! I'm really happy to hear that it was entertaining and engaging! With that said, I assure you that I'm not a great story teller, I just have a great editor! 😀
Wow,dating in Mexico during the beginning of the 1960's was so different! It now seems so superficial. I am so grateful to be married for 52 years to my husband who is from Spain. We lived and raised 5 children in Spain.I feel sorry for my grandchildren and the dating scene as it is today in the world and thankful that I grew up in a different generation. You always mention dating "beautiful women". Physical beauty does not last forever. If you marry only for a pretty face, eventually you will be disappointed.
"Qué superficial es ahora, antes no"
"Me casé con un Español"
jajajajaja señoraaaaaaa
Correctomundo...As a 75 year old man I say look for intellectual and emotional intelligence first and foremost.
In the long run those are the most important things to look for in a prospective partner.
And one more thing...never every under any circumstances should finance override other factors.
This video was so entertaining. Dating one person at a time is definitely the dating rule for Mexicans in my experience and the competition attitude is real along with moving fast in comparison to American dating norms. It’s not just Mexican women but guys too. I should know, I married one. 16 years and counting. BTW you are a “Bradley Cooper” in their eyes. Fair, blond, colored eyes, fit, are you kidding me, you’re a walking novella star. Being in a multicultural relationship is different and comes with its difficulties, it’s not for everyone, but we have loved the spice it’s added to our lives. Best of luck.
not in Chihuahua, Im from Chihuahua and this guy wouldnt stand a chance, and maybe only due to the citizenship
So pretty much you find one and lock it down. Then y’all walk around all jealous the whole time. I don’t understand why y’all think that just because y’all live faster doesn’t mean shit. Mexican machismo can’t stand it
It's underappreciated how challenging cultural differences can be. We all harbor ideas about how our partners should behave and integrate with our families and friends. Those ideas are ingrained deeply by culture, and they often go unnoticed by us until years into a relationship when conflicts occur...especially when children are involved.
Glad to hear you've made it work.
Yeah if you go south of Mexico City I think you can be their Bradley Cooper. Go to Oaxaca Guerrero Chiapas etc
@@findyourwatchenespanol8157 He doesn't need to go anywhere he already clearly said he has access to many beautiful Mexican woman right where he is.
Another fun fact about dating in Mexico, if you are an older attractive woman, you will have plenty of younger men interested in you..similar to dating in Europe. Unlike the U.S., where the focus is on speed dating younger women, here, young mexican males will seek out older experienced women! Señoras are considered to be less interested in drama, more financially secure and have more life lessons to bring to the table. ¡Viva Mexico! 😘
You could have just said MILF
thats super true in the bi or gay scene , most mex. men are secretly bi or willing, they vastly prefer older men even into senior years for the sexual and life mentoring. definitely mex prefer older~! in general. R, expat in Gdl.
Lol
Older women are more experienced in certain facts of life that younger women aren't. You all know what I'm saying.
Well guess I’m moving to Mexico 🇲🇽!!
The topics and your new style for videos is perfect. I'm really enjoying what you're doing.
I went to Mexico once and I had dozen of matches with beautiful women and I am not american but european. I also went for a date with one of them in just a few days I was there. In the US I can't even get any matches.
Its because you are a foreigner to them an exotic. I would probably get the same shit in Europe.
Stayed for the entire video, and it was totally worth it because the story not only got summed up, but there was a coda at the end that explained it all. Nice work, man. 🙌
Great channel! While I don’t want to bring negativity to your awareness, I think it’s important that you know that a guy in PV posted about being robbed of all his credit cards, passport, computer by a girl (and her crime ring?) from Tinder. She went to his place, offered him a beer, and the next thing he knew he was waking up to a nightmare where all his bank account passwords were changed etc. You seem smart, but I’d hate to see that happen to you!
Yeah 100% agree he has to be more street smart and not fall so easily for those girls .i recently had a girl that wanted to marry me so fast after only dating a month and right away I found out she wanted citizenship so I got rid of her.
Doesnt this happen in Vegas every day?
Very much like the robbing scams in Vegas. Jordan, sounds like staying off Tinder would be better.
@@luismedina530 i know right? How come gringos don't also "feel" the USA is dangerous?
They don't emotionally adjust their expectations of the USA, even after reports of Jeffrey Epstein, kidnappings in Disneyland, the BLM riots, etc
But a random crime happens in Mexico and now they don't even want to go to the oxxo lol
@@cryptolohy7290 Exactly
It sounds like your doing awesome. Seems like dating in Mexico is better for dating than the US. And who in their right mind would ever want to leave that beautiful country to come here ? Loving your videos and their content Jordan.
If your community gets a French guy, lots of the girls will want to date him, the new exotic person in your country becomes 20 times more attractive! as an American in Mexico yeah you’ll have your pick, don’t use them thou!
Me think exactly like you
I give you mucho hart for you❤❤❤
Well, violence is increasing again since 2009 🙄, the economy is always declining but yeah if you compare it to another Latin American country ,both Mexico and Brazil have the most “stable” economies
"Who in their right mind would want to leave?"🤔Well poor ppl in Mexico would want to leave, bc they could eventually have a better existence in the US. Mexico is VERY classist and veiled racism toward Indigenous looking ppl exits on certain levels as well. Also, there is no welfare. It's sink or swim!
@@maryannwaters339 I’m sure there are plenty of people who need help financially in Mexico. There are plenty of them here too, that need help. Leaving the place and people you love for the chance that you mite make it here or get some public assistance doesn’t sound very appealing. There a lot of things in life money can’t buy.
Interesting! I felt some big red flags when you said TWO of the Mexican women had the same MO: wanting to see the other girl's photo, putting the girl down, and then immediately asking you to go on a trip with them somewhere private. This sounds like a scam that's going on in Columbia, where the girls will go back to the guy's apartment and slip him a drug to knock him out. Then she and her friends rob him of everything they can. The worst part: many times they give the guy too much drug and he dies. BE CAREFUL around strangers.
No, I bet it's just jealousy and insecurity. One of them wanted to take him to a popular beach that's not isolated at all.
@@claucemicro1080 idk the taking a trip thing is pretty sketchy. Keep in mind that these aren’t girls he casually met going about his life, they were on an app, easy way for scammers to target
Dating sites are crawling with scammers and thieves.
I wouldn't advise to take anyone from a dating site seriously.
Dude chill out, the women just wanted to further the relationship, no criminal stuff most likely.
Even in Colombia, is dodgy areas and dodgy call girls or night club girls who do those things.
You went to dark and doomer hard core.
Are gringos so fearful?
Hahaha you are trippin'... Ive seen that kind of attitude a dozen times.. it means the girl thought that the one in the picture was as pretty or prettier than her.. so in her mind Jordan had already being tested and approved by another worthy woman..
Now she has to rush before she loses the advantage of knowing..
If the picture shown was instead of a "not so good looking female" the situation would be completely different.. as Jordan then has to prove his worth.
We aren’t gold diggers we care more about the heart and soul connection. We aren’t perfect that’s for sure but we do got your back we are down to earth and we cook delicious meals.
Of course not, you are paper diggers😂
Agreed but you forgot to mention possessive.
You Latinas are scary jealous.
Plenty of gold diggers in Vallarta. Trust me.
Pfft. Save that love for a man of color. No gusta blanco hombre.
LEYKIS 101 BOYS!!! NEVER TRUST WHAT THEY SAY!!!!
Hey man, sorry to sound paranoid but was it ever in the back of your mind that you might have been getting setup to get robbed? This isn’t because of Mexico. Your stories just remind me of my friend where she met a guy here in the states for a couple dates and she got ripped off , laptop stolen, clutch, everything gone when she woke up after their first night together and to be picked up from a cabin in Flagstaff cause he was her ride.
We like you. Do not disappear on us, please.
That is exactly what I was thinking. We were warned about this all the time when our ship was in San Diego, CA since we all wanted to go down to Tijuana.
@@Steven14-b8d Jordon wants a family Maddie does.not,Maddie was too controling.
@@steveandrews2234 Tijuana is like Chicago, this guy live nowhere near there, its a big safe country you are just focusing on one of the worst parts my guy
@@Samtino20 That is the point I was making. I used Tijuana as an example of one of the bad parts. There are many areas that are safe.
Great video Jordan...you are doing so well with your channel on your own we really enjoy your content and sending lots of love to Laska!!...Viv
This is just a flat out excellently produced video. Relaxed, very informative, and just exceptionally well done. Thanks so much!
My man! You bounced back like a champion. Respect!
Being a foreigner is a prop in Mexico. You’re an exotic man for women. It happened to me, being Mexican but born in the US, they show a lot of interest and want to know something new.
its the same everywhere... I'm in the US and all the women in my circle of friends swoon over any guy with a foreign accent. Being "different" is always a plus.
@@chandie5298 75% of the girls in my high school class were drooling over the new Australian guy who transfered junior year. Definitely true
being mexican being born in the us is no perk. your still mexican, only ones who want you are for papers
Yea the especially want your money and a ticket into the US
It's interesting if you are white men or a rich men
As the US descends deeper and deeper into the crapper, I would think that fewer and fewer people would want to come here. Mexico is looking better and better by the day.
america is not a welcoming place for the middle class...It is geared towards high and low(welfare)..Moving to MX would be smart financial arbitrage
Only if you can get paid in foreign currency. If you making pesos you are gonna struggle.
@@rexx9496 thats for sure. local peso salaries remain low.
Mexico has been in the crapper for a long time
As the US descends into the crapper. Could you elaborate? And what places are ascending into the??? For you?
As another americano dating/relationship for 4 years to a beautiful mexicana, one of the first spanish words that burned into my memory is the word, "celoso"... you will probably hear that word at least once in every conversation in mexican culture.
This was a very entertaining video, made me laugh several times. Keep up the good work.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Things keep getting more and more interesting in this channel👌
Dude, your channel is getting better. Maybe you should go out with more girls and tell us about the drama. 😂
😂😂
Right.... do a Mexican Novela 😜🤣
Latinas loves Drama by the way 😂😂😂
👍😁
Nooo drama.
More stories please, this was funny, witty, genuine.🤗
So many Americans have misconceptions regarding Mexicans or Hispanics in general. My wife is from Mexico City and we've been married for almost 11 years now. Very happy. Definitely different than dating American girls but for the better for sure. ;-) Thankfully my wife has been in the US since she was 18 and knows English but we travel to Mexico quite a bit. People should definitely visit other countries more and get rid of those misconceptions about other places or people. I wish you all the best with May and I'm glad things are looking up for you. ;-)
you don't know all American girls dork
can you share some of the differences between dating north american girls vs mexican?
Make a video interviewing a female ex pat to hear her comments about dating in Mexico...
YES!! PLEASE DO!
I agree!! That would be great!
Im a female expat i currently live in sinaloa id be happy to be the one interviewed haha
Well Stated !
Ex Pat ?
I hope you stay in Mexico for the very long term so we can see how your life develops there
I'm going to be honest. I stopped watching this channel for awhile, the break up was uncomfortable for me. I also thought Maddy (I might have this wrong) was the stronger personality of you two. However, I watched this video and it seems like you've come into your own and matured your approach to videos. I really like the change, I will continue watching. Keep up the great work!
She never gsve him a chance to talk. Nsrcissistic.
Maddie and this is not a criticism of her was very domineering and would take charge of most of the videos. She did most of the talking. Now Jordan's personality is coming across doing solo videos. I wish them both the very best.
Team Jordan all the way!
I like Jordons videos,always interesting,Maddie was too controling.
@@tarey05 true 100%
Glad you found a girlfriend because you're handsome, smart, funny, down-to-earth and I can tell you're a pleasure to be around! Wishing you much success in CZcams, Life and Love!
I am a 62-year-old ex-pat. I am a well-educated, retired US tech executive. I have lived in Mexico for 2 years. I dated a Mexican national for a year. I met her at an upscale barbershop near my apartment. It was fascinating and challenging. She was 55. I prefer to date women in my age range. I think you are correct in seeking professionals with an education. That was a problem dating a receptionist at a barbershop. Although my income is a fraction of what it was while I was employed, the income disparity in my relationship was another problem. Thank you for the great advice.
@@mimi7914 Likely she wasn't well educated, didn't have similar interests.
Curious if she brought her family around a lot? I heard when dating locals you’ll be around their family a ton
@@mtngrl5859 That was part of it. She is very smart yet uneducated. She liked to watch movies. RomComs. I like based on true life or drama. Small things.
@@nsanenthembrane She almost immediately brought her sisters to my apartment and I enjoyed their company. I was invited and attended many family events. It was fun. I would not be asked if her sons would be present. Just my experience and not meant to generalize.
@@mimi7914 I can only speak for myself. She was earning the equivalent of $500 US and her 33-year-old son allowed her to live in his nice 3 BR home. I was happy to fund 100% of our time together. It devolved. When shopping she would put things in my cart for her home and her son. Still, no problem. She would often tell me. "I don't see you for your money". I never said she did. Then she started asking for cash. I have always been privileged to share whatever I had with those I care for but when a relationship is based on me subsidizing someone it creates an unhealthy dynamic for me.
WOW! a fantastic and informative video. I have a Guatemalian wife but have dated one Mexican woman when we were separated several years ago. I'm happily married and a bit elderly but if I were looking to date Mexican women you would be my guru. Peace and I'll continue watching your vastly improved channel.
Been watching Tangerine Travels 🍊 for a long time. Really liking your new content! You’re killing’ it
I'm a 70 year old wheezing geezer college professor and certainly not any type of relationship expert, but I must share two thoughts:
1) If searching for a human toy, pretty might matter to you, although my experience is that humans make exceedingly bad toys. If however you are searching for a soul-mate for the long ride, nothing could be less important, in or out of bed.
2) If a potential love interest wants to take you to a private hideaway for five days after one date, its not just odd. It's life-threatening. The chance is more than slight that several large cousins with weapons will pay you a visit insisting on an undesired visit to an ATM. When courting as in life, you big head should be in charge, not the little one.
So does this mean you have six pack abs even though you don’t have a Ferrari or look like Bradley Cooper.
Hahaha! Depends how much licorice I've recently eaten
Jordan, maybe you have an expat female friend that can give a female's perspective on dating in Mexico, just not to leave the ladies out of the equation. Thanks
Yes! That would be great!
The thing is they are white. White in Mexico = wealthy, attractive, ext…
Add on that you are foreign aka. Exotic.
So you get that exotic appeal.
Mexican men like white females.
I happen to be half Mexican. Anglo mother and Mexican Father. My Dad made a comment to me sometime back. We were talking about dating and how Mexican women tend to go for lighter skinned, taller European looking men. He mentioned "mejorar la raza". Bettering the race. In colonial times there was a caste system that developed in the early Mexican society where whiter people were treated better. Indigenous people were not treated well. Even though we live in 2022 some of the remnants of that still exists. Mexican women definitely try to date up as much as possible and see young men from the U.S. as great potentials. Their biological clocks are ticking so it's no wonder by the second date they are scheming the romantic getaways and talking marriage.
This was a fascinating video! Thanks for being so open about your new adventures in dating.
women judge men by the other women they attract. If you showed a picture of a real dog to your date your status would decrease. If you said you were dating no one they would wonder what's wrong. The most attractive man is one with an attractive woman. They trust other women to find the alpha and then all get on board.
Obviously the girls he is dating are dating other guys as well, it’s not a one way ticket. Maybe he should beat her to the punch and ask to see pics of the guys she is dating first, and critique them
@@HamiltonRb i am not too sure what works for women works for men. Her showing pictures of her boyfriends might trigger him, harder for men to share. How many dudes on the soccer team?
Dead right!
@@gringo848 It is more of a bluff than anything just to see what her type is and if she is a ho or not
This is totally a normal thing! but specially with women! women usually like to see the other women on the competition with them! because that's what it's also all about! since it really is also a real competion! and our own judgement about them is also a good way for them to have us being judged by them! too! Therefore even our own mothers are normally interested on what kind of women are with us! and even they could change their behaviour or even their relationship with us! just based on that! on wether our own mothers like our women or not! Now I'm talking about my own experience and the experience of many of my friends but I feel that this is also the normal thing with all of us! We always judge and we also get judged for our own judgement! that's how it always goes! and the same thing applies not only in our relationships with women but also for any kind of human relationship!
Been living 20 years in Mexico as an expat. I totally agree with your description of the dating scene; and yes, I have found Latinas (not just Mexicanas) are very competitive. One thing that you need to draw more attention to is your target dating pool. I appluad you for dating women in your socioeconomic group - education level, economic stability, etc. If you tried to go lower your experiences would be very different. Also, if you try go higher you would have other experiences.
Finally, as I tell all men who have asked me, SPEAK SPANISH or LEARN IT. It is a very easy way to show sincerity and respect. True intimacy is impossible without communciation. Also, you cannot truly understand the culture and its nuances without speaking the language.
Good on you. Keep these videos coming. You will do very well given your approachable style.
is it true they gain a lot of weight when they hit 30?
Traditional Mexican women are ready to commit to an exclusive relationship and form a family well before they hit the wall. Unlike their American counterparts who want to hoe a couple of hundred+ men, and kill a few babies along the way, up until they hit the wall and then wonder where all the 'good $$$$ men have gone'...
Bro 20 years expat? That's an immigrant
I couldn't fathom not making an intense effort to learn Spanish, even if the girl I was dating spoke English.
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I think your experiences and description with Mexicans and American is spot on. I'm Mexican American and have dated American (both very Americanized Mexicans and all other Americans) and Mexican (born and raised in Mexico or born in US but heavily Mexican culture). Mexican culture, women EXPECT the man to pay for everything. American culture, women expect the man to pay but also expect that the woman will offer to pay. The woman will also likely pay for some dates after several dates while Mexican women expect men to pay for the rest of life. American women are indeed much more flakier and cancel far more frequently than Mexican. Mexican women do get far more jealous. Mexican women do expect to to only be dating you and not be dating others.
I haven't been on your site since you been single. & Wow. you're like a different person.. every thing has changed. your mannerism, your appearance & all for the better. you ooze confidence now.. happy for you.
Build a house together before you decide on your gf. Anyone can be a fun time at a restaurant or bar, it's a whole other ballgame when you have to solve a thousand problems together.👍
It seems to me like you have already goten to be married! or at least engaged in a long term relationship! 'cause you know better than most normal young people know about what this special suject really is! or about what it's all about in the end! or finally! or about what's really the heart of the matter about it! in the long term!
This is your most entertaining video yet😂 Tinder Platinum!😂😂 I'm not even past the 9 minute mark yet but had to comment. I'm still angry about you and Maddigold but keep putting stuff like this out and you're winning over my support for your single life😂🔥
Jorden is so lucky. Be careful with American girls.
When I was young i told a girl I loved her after about 6 weeks. It slipped out by accident. She got scared and ended it. Everything happens for a reason. I'm now with a beautiful filipina that treats me like a king. She is Mi Reina (my queen)
This was quite a detailed and informative video, thanks Jordan. I would love see more about this side of life in Mexico. More and more, dating in Mexico sounds preferable to what we have here in the states.
Funny enough, I notice many qualities you referenced among the first generation Mexican American women I've met over here.
Refreshing, straight-forward, honest, entertaining video.
Good for you getting out there and dating. I wish nothing but the best for you.
Just imagining a fight using google translate 😂
I met my wife in Tijuana,Mexico and she took me on a trip to her hometown a few months after we started dating but I did not meet most of her family tell the next time I went.We lived in Mexico four for years but in Tijuana so I could continue to work and do things in the USA.For the last 9 years we have lived in the USA and been married.Only one of her sisters has moved to the USA since that and her mom and another sister have visited us but a majority of her family has no interest in moving to the USA or in any rush to visit.I have also visited her home city of Monterrey,Mexico about ten times since I've been with her.My wife loves living in the USA and has no desire to move back to Mexico.But then again we live in San Diego in a latino area and can go to Tijuana Mexico a few times a month to do things.
Glad to see you’re back in the dating pool Jordan. Hope things work out for you.
Once again.. I’m here checking out your vlog while sipping on my coffee and having my breakfast
me too.
HAHA! I also lived in Queretaro (incredible - some of the best years of my life) and I had some of these experiences too ;) Getting introduced to someone's fiancée during or after the date is CLASSIC. Thanks for shouting out that the women are working independently and have their own lives/families in such a gentle way! Most of the Mexicans that I was friends with were similar :)
Met my husband in Mexico 3 years ago. I'd been in Mexico about a year. I don't think we ever discussed if we were seeing other people while we were dating but it seemed to be common sense we were exclusive. We lived half an hour apart and saw eachother almost every day. We got married in 16 months. I learned Spanish FAST. We used ALOT of Google translate. We speak almost exclusively Spanish in our home but also have our own kinda lingo with Spanish and English mixed lol. Some people ask my sister in laws what language are we using! My husband took me to the movies as 'friends' with my sisters. I loved it and he hasn't left my side since lol.
You should make some videos about living in Mexico 👍
That reminds me of a sweet Mexican girl that I dated in college. As soon as school was out for summer, she invited me to meet her parents at their house...
I am a television producer, your video format and editing are getting much better. The jeopardy story broken up, great technique, use it more. Where are you learning this? This is high level production. Someone who know what they are doing must be teaching you! Keep learning and improving! Great job! Also, I am a duel citizen born in US. You nailed dating Mexican girls!
Most of my CZcams viewing these days is spent watching the internet’s most popular and fastest growing channels trying to figure out what they’re doing that I’m not. That’s how I’m learning these techniques.
@@TangerineTravels nice, keep learning, the stock footage Broll is nice as well to eliminate your jump cuts. Use that more and try to get all your jump cuts out. I know it's not something that will neccesarily get you more views but you videos will be more enjoyable to your audience.
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I agree your story telling was very interesting.
Most of them want to have lighter skin, colored eyed baby's Jordan. Even if it doesn't work out They still win cause your child will be 1. A Dual citizen , US citizen automatically & Mexican and 2. ofcourse lighter skin and hopefully colored eyed children.
It's all about trying to better their offspring. You Could be a broke white, blue eyed guy and you would still pull all the lady's anywhere you go. Good luck glad to see you are getting to meet other women .
Mexico isn’t the US gringo. Beautiful is beautiful regardless of skin color.
@@vizsla8579 Jajaja No soy gringo, just an educated Méxican que esta muy conciente de lo que personas sin educación, desafortunadamente de rasgos indigenas y de bajos recursos sufren en mi pais y negarlo es simplemente ignorante. You calling me Gringo is definitely not offensive. Haz de ser un Chairo.
@@vizsla8579 he is right. In mexico they call it " mejorar la raza" a lot of mexican women want to have white kids. And if they have one they would treat their darker kids worst then the light skin one. And those are facts.
Dude you are a trophy to any of those girls don't be naive you are the best Lotto ticket for them
Its because he is white.
White in Mexico = superior genes.
Native/ indian, dark skin = inferior.
I am not joking.
@@11bsavage64not true
When I met my husband who is Mexican he spoke broken English and when we met broke broke in Spanish it was complicated to say the least but I traveled over to Mexico numerous times within two years and we made it work 17 years later and two children later we learn to communicate and we still switch languages sometimes even between sentences
So sweet 🥰
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It sounds to me like some of these well-educated, attractive, professional women are so desirous of having a boyfriend/husband material is precisely BECAUSE they are well-educated, attractive, professionals who many, if not most, Mexican men find intimidating.
beautiful video friend, happy to be part of this video, thank you
Dang, in the US, when someone is moving too fast.. it's a huge red flag.
Not single but this video was hilarious.
Very entertaining video, Jordan! Your editor worked overtime! Ja ja ja! Nice job!
My fiance left me recently for a MX girl he met there. They were engaged 10 days later. So I can relate they get in and manipulate to get what they want.
I went to Mexico I was married the next day to my first love of 13. It's love
That's so funny to hear your opinion about us (Mexican girls) thanks so much for this video. I am happy to meet my fellow countrywoman ❤️
Funny in what way? Do you think it is an accurate depiction?
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Jordan you mentioned Querétaro, Mexico City and Guadalajara for finding beautiful women in Mexico. Add Monterrey to that list. 😍
completely agree... I spent a month in Monterrey on a work trip two years ago and I was amazed at the volume of absolutely gorgeous women.
@@chandie5298 You find the Green Eyes in Monterrey.
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@@henryf5001 I agree about Colombia. Colombian women have a wide range of what ever you are looking for. All shapes and sizes.
Not a big fan of the Norteño culture of Monterrey, but there are beautiful women there also.
What a fun video! So happy for you Jordan!
Moving that fast with a stranger is not normal in any country, imo. I’m Mexican American, and I just think those women were interested in a visa.
My mom always said to me. Go look for girls in the church not in the bar. ( my mom was a very conservative Mexican mom ❤️)
While she might be right about the bar, I am not so sure about the church. .
Very good advice. You won't find a wife in a bar.
I must admit, Jordan... I was going to pass on this one but you pulled me in. Great observations on this topic. BTW your girlfriend is pretty. Is her mom single?
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Go dude. I hope you fine happiness in a relationship, obviously you have inner peace, without it no relationship will last.
Everything this fellow says is 100% true.
I first visited Colombia when I was 47 years old because I had learned Latin dancing and wanted to meet some girls I became Facebook friends with. After 30 days with gorgeous graceful feminine women, I realized that there was not a possibility I would ever date an American woman again.
Now, at age 61, I am moving to Ecuador and Uruguay to be with my South American girlfriend.
A great way to filter out the gold diggers and green card hustlers is to tell them up front that you are moving to South America to live, and that they therefore have no need for an American visa. That is the LAST thing these kinds of girls want to hear, and they will self-eliminate. Not a problem. dating sites have hundreds of Latin girls who are not flakey like American girls, and you can be sure they will show up to meet you and will often want a meaningful relationship with you.
Get yourself a round trip plane ticket to South America if you want to get away from the land whales and feminazis of the US. The rest of the world is still normal!
Wow... maybe the problem is not American women, it's you. You got someone with few choices to tolerate your disdain for regular women
@@gladlock it must be a sad life tobe bitter and lonely 😂
the rest of the world is not normal. for local man it is still as hell, if rich foreigners “keep busy” the otherwise nice woman
I'm really enjoying the direction your channel is taking.
Funny stories. I was single in Mexico & my 1st wife was from Mexico. It is a trip. Amazing women, and very different, many can be fiery. And YES.......can be very persuasive lol The people in Mexico in general are passionate and commited. Meet a BeAuTiFuL, smart Mexican woman & you are set. Cheers!
they cheat though, right? OR IS IT USUALLY RICH MEN
@@jeffc1736 not clear on your question. But in my experience & knowledge the women are 1000% commited, it's been the men in Mx. who cheat.....I saw it alot. And the women know.....& simply ignore it. Obviously not in EVERY situation.....but from my experience. Was that your question?
@@jeffc1736 what?!?
@@geogarcia4065 is it more cultural for these latin men to cheat, moreso, than European men???? Is Mexican culture more tolerant of spousal cheating
@@jeffc1736 I would not know. Cheers
Loved this. Great mix of entertainment and info.
I think you were always better than your ex and this channel is going the right direction, Good luck in the mother land my friend!
Getting better great video
I was not able to reply to the woman who was uncomfortable about your "pretty women' approach. Also a woman, but I found nothing offensive about this. I understand the visual inclination of men and have never found Jordan to be disrespectful to women as a whole.
The unfortunate truth is that when dating online it's almost all based looks until you meet the person. Occasionally you can get the idea that they're funny or witty based on their profile or messages, but in my experience, you don't get to know what they're actually like until you meet in person.
@@TangerineTravels exactly... on those dating apps, the girls are swiping based on looks as well....
@@chandie5298 It's the naturally normal thing to do. You have nothing else to go on.
@@Rhaspun agreed! It's completely natural for anyone to seek out those they are attracted to, and until you speak to them, their face and body is the only thing we know.
Everyone starts with looks. Hopefully they get beyond that when someone interesting comes along
I watched the video just for curiosity. I ignore if your dating assessment has more to do with Tinder than with Mexican women. I'm Mexican, and I'd never ask a person to see the photo of the woman he dated before. I think that's not respectful for any of the people involved. I would not say that most Mexican women act as if they were "competing" with other women for a man. For sure, that happens, but it depends on the kind of environment you live in and what you are looking for. In general, I didn't like this video. All I heard from you was about your experiences searching for beautiful women. Ok, appearance is important, I won't deny it, but it was weird for me to listen to how you focused on appearance throughout the entire video.
⭐⭐⭐⭐ Jordan, good video & information regarding dating in Mexico. Having said that, it's good seeing you more happy and enjoying yourself. However, take it slow when it comes to dating enjoy the ride. Stay Safe & Happy... Abrazos
You crushed! Hilarious and entertaining video with solid content.
Thanks, Oscar! Glad you liked it!
Be careful on those dating apps, there are people who are scammers on there.
What kind of scams? I haven't experienced any, just the occasional sex worker.
@@TangerineTravels They all want sex and money but some want to be paid for sex. Pay me now or pay me later
@@HamiltonRb incel talk. Learn how to meet better people.
there's more scammers in the USA
@@TangerineTravels oh okay here's more of the truth 😅
Hahah what an interesting video!! When I first started talking to the partner I have been with for a long time now, it was all through translate! Most of my fluency came from learning to speak it with him!
You are narrating so amusingly. You got me laughing throughout the whole video. I like how you make the viewers feel like they are old friends of yours. A very fresh piece of content this time! I have also had a guy asking me for a picture of a past date, but I think it was because he didn't believe I was dating. 😄 I have lived abroad, and I also had this phenomenon happening to me, where cooler guys paid more attention to me than in my home country. Still to this day, I can't explain why. And, about golddiggers, even though it is true that they may not be after money/citizenship, etc., it is also true that they may. Being independent women doesn't always mean they have no ulterior motives.