What Is Self-Care • In The Closet
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Cameron Esposito
@CameronEsposito
I thought self care was a code word for masturbation xD
John H PLEASE LETS MAKE IT A THING
Aleksandra Baryżewska ale to jest a thing przeciez
John H is it bad i thought the same thing
John H is that why you clicked on it?
CookieJarGirl 123 ob j gt u. Migrfr .u
Ijnu. #uyM:ojj:-C :O:'(>_
I absolutely love how this series is run by two cis lesbians, but they choose to actively seek out guests from more marginalized identities like bisexual and trans guests. I love how even though they are both cis, they make it a point to ask everyone's pronouns so as to normalize self-identification and not assume anyone's gender :)
Giuli M yes I agree! I'm just ready for these episodes to keep coming, haha!
CRosco1541 So what is gender? What are the differences between men and women? And how do genitals affect how men and women act? What about intersex people (people who were born with ambiguous genitals, reproductive organs, or chromosomes: for example, a person born with a vagina, internal testes instead of ovaries, and XY chromosomes. What gender would they be?) Also, do you think gender transcends culture? In other words, would people from different cultures see gender in the same way, or would there be differences? Like, how different is gender in the U.S. compared to Iraq, compared to Korea? Just trying to get an idea of how you view gender :) Defining terms is the most important part of having a productive discussion. If you would like, I'll answer my own questions to define my own terms too :)
Okay so "gender" does not necessarily go hand in hand with "gender roles" what one country expects out of a male may differ completely with another. In asking about intersex individuals I do not know a single thing about that, if you could inform me a little more on that I would be thankful. But I believe sex is biological and so is gender in my opinion. I hope to continue this discussion if you would have me.
CRosco1541 Just Google intersex! There's a lot of content about it on youtube, too
CRosco1541 could you explain more how gender is biological? I believe sex is biological but gender is not.
honestly having a dog helps SO much. what 2 years of therapy couldn't do my puppy did in 5 months.
I hate to be the one to say it, but please do not purchase animals for the sake of 'therapy'. A lot of people impulse-buy cute little animals and use this self-care stuff as an excuse. If you look after pets CORRECTLY they are an enormous amount of work and are actually very stressful (if loveable). However, if you already have a pet, or have been thinking about getting a pet for a long time and are in the position to look after one, then they might just be the greatest friend you ever have.
you literally were *the one* to say it. i have had pets my whole life and i know better than to get them "as a present" or therapy. i adopted my dog because i saw someone posting on twitter about her needing a home or otherwise they would have to put her back in a shelter after being on the streets for no one knows how long, and i was able to give her one. the fact that she helped me with my depression and anxiety came after, and i *without me realizing*, because i felt the changes after 5 or 6 months of bringing her home. but it is a fact that dogs do help a lot.
i know that your comment was with the best of intentions, so thanks anyway because you may help someone (next time try saying it in a nicer way maybe?) but i already knew everything i needed to know about having a pet and it's been great :)
kinda felicity i'm so glad that you adopted a dog and it had such a good impact on both of you
+Fkfdhfsdh Abdasjdas thank you! i am so glad too, it's been almost a year and i haven't regreted it not even once :)
kinda felicity mind in 1 week 😂
Am I gay? Straight? Anything? I DON'T KNOW AND IT'S TERRIFYING
AnnaLeo i feel you, honestly do what I did for the past 2/3 year; put it aside and don't focus on it. I only came to terms with it when my crush came out ngl, and still haven't come out to the majority of people
AnnaLeo I am in the same situation...
AnnaLeo it's okay not to know right now :)
you're awesome! thats the one that counts :) #DFTBA
Thanks for the lovely comments y'all :)
For the longest time I thought I was straight, and then I met this one person who changed everything, and made me realise that I could be bisexual. My world came crashing down around me, and I was happy that I was beginning to understand myself more but completely and utterly terrified about how little I actually knew about myself all this time. I eventually came to the conclusion that it simply doesn't matter to me whether someone id male or female, I am simply either attracted to them or not, regardless of their gender (I could well be pansexual, but I have never had a crush on anyone who wasn't one of the binary genders as they are so few and far between where I live, so idk as of yet!) But then, just as I was beginning to understand it and accept it, the election result happened and I lost all confidence in my self discovery again. And that's with me living in the UK, I cannot even imagine how terrifying it would be if I was going through this living in the US right now... For anyone who feels the same as me, you're not alone, please remember that. There are so many other people like you and me out there who are confused and scared by their sexuality, and maybe we'll never really have a definite label to stick to ourselves, but that's okay. Stay safe, stay strong and most of all, stay true to who you truly are. Love is love, no matter what form it takes, and that is something beautiful that nobody can ever take away from you ❤️💛💚💙💜
That was so beautiful! ❤️
this is my favorite buzzfeed series, with ladylike and try guys following close behind
Erica Bourland buzzfeed is cancer
VERITAS stop trying to be edgy
VERITAS Melanoma is cancer.
is cancer
ZozziGames buzzfeed is cancer
I have a pink snake like the one around Jens neck. Not like anyone cares
Smol Bean I care ❤
Smol Bean, this is a safe space. And we care.
Aw thank guys 😊
Your right I don't
Popular MMO's
My right?
I live in a closet......
AsianInTheCloset Nice to meet you, Mister Potter
Paranoid Penguin i really Want to give you 97462902 thumbs up because of your comment, but sadly, thats Not possible
Harry?
harry potter lived in a cupboard under the stairs, not a closet
if there's one thing Harry potter taught us, no-one should have to live in a closet (cupboard/under the stairs)
💛 a hufflepuff
Will you ever not have a side-mullet I AM SCREAMING 😂
Lillymacattack lol this is the only reason I clicked on this video, to have a better look at what the heck was even going on with her hair.
Lillymacattack she's had this haircut four years.
Jen R I love it tbh.
Lillymacattack I can't tell if you like it or dispize it
"I'm a comedian my pronouns are she and her" oh well you sound like a riot, nothing funnier than a politically correct comedian!
They literally have everyone who comes on this show say their pronouns.
Ben Macdowall She is hilarious... and definitely not PC
They get everyone to say their pronouns, I don't think she said it just from herself, I'm sure they asked her
TransBoiable And thank God they do too, otherwise I'd have no way of knowing what sex they are
Pronouns and sex aren't the same thing.
Has anyone else missed Jen soo much, love her!
I want to take Jen on a date. 😭
SAME! She is such a bean!!!
Don’t we all
Same but I’m 12!
Is that weird😂
@@theunknownbunny9285 same
Are there any other straight folks out there that are comfortable with their sexuality but love In The Closet anyway?
Moa Nilsson I honestly thought I was the only one
Moa Nilsson me!!
Moa Nilsson I love watching it too. Very informative & interesting plus I'm learning stuff. Win win!
kir57y82 Exactly!
Moa Nilsson
yes i am "straight"
i love the closet and thats where im stayinnggg
I have vivid memories of my mom telling me to close my legs.
Ethan Champion 😂😂
I love how there is a lilo dress in the background
I was staring at Jen shirt neckline all the time #gaylife
Kotryna Straigytė damn it after reading your comment I can't stop staring either!!!!! I'm so gay...😂
noah s and now I'm staring
noah s- SAME!
chocolate is always the answer her collarbones make my head spin tbh. Ah I love being bi 😂
I was trying hard not to stare
I want to come to hang out with Jenn and Nicki and Tegan and Sara and Cameron Esposito
Bluepony Count me in on that lol
Lexa deserved better
Olivia Searcy I'm still not over it 😢💔
Olivia Searcy THANK YOU.
I legitametly CRIED
Olivia searcy me neither
I haven't already watched the video so no idea why is Lexa here, but damn, SHE DESERVED BETTER #Clexa
YAAASSS MY 3 QUEENS. SLAY NIKI, JEN, AND CAMERON.
Do you think you guys could talk about being genderfluid and what it means? pretty please?
people; "you're not alone"
me: * remembers skam *
me: * cries *
"I thought what was going on in The Loo was really great"
*sad face from everyone*
"WAS really great"
*happy face from everyone*
Sidenote: Lexa deserved better
They mentioned the 100. That is my favourite tv show😁. RIP lexa ❤
merry christmas everyone ! i hope you all have an amazing day 🎄🍥🌟
Having a dog has helped me SOOOO much. I have a
100 lb. Akbash and a 60 lb. Pitbull.
I like Cameron, but I don't really understand her haircut
Карина Гладчук ?
Карина Гладчук "Side Mullet". Its a good haircut for when you want people to know you're a lesbian without wearing a "Hi. I'm a lesbian, ask me how" button.
I love her hair though! I freaken love her
The way jen's eyes lit up when she said having a dog 💗 my bby loves dogs so much
No matter what or who you are, there are always people who support you and go through the same things.
I want a collab with Ingrid Nilsen talking about femme invisibility! Please!!!!
Merry christmas to all of you! Remember to take care of yourself and others.
It's always Jen *&* Nikki. How can you split them up? Whoever gets only Nikki would feel guilty thanks to those sad, puppy dog eyes.
I thought "self care" was a euphemism for masturbation but apparently not
I love Jen so much, she is so adorable!
Saw Cameron Esposito, clicked IMMEDIATELY.
Therapy can be so helpful especially if you are in the closet because you can come out to your therapist talk to them about the struggles you are going through because you are in the closet and the best part is they can’t tell anyone because of patient confidentiality
Self care is dumpster diving behind a Taco Bell, finding a hot sauce packet, and then using a syringe to inject hot sauce into your bloodstream so you can meet our true lord and savior Cthulhu.
YAY! I love this woman
This series is amazing. Keep it going Jen and Buzzfeed!! ❤️
self care is going to a macys with a water bottle filled with crushed advil and vodka and drinking it all in one gulp
Cameron Esposito kind of gives me life cause she’s just so.... ughhhh yknow?? Like amazing af
Carmen and Jen in one video YAS 🙌🏻
I love this series. The episodes should either be longer or more frequent - I can't get enough!
For self-care I curl up with a blanket watching CZcams, reading fanfiction, take a shower, listen to music and just stay in a room all day to de-stress
Can we all agree to the fact that Jen needs her own channel?
Buzzfeed should create a channel that relates to sexuality. Like Trans, LGBTQ, Just plain sex etc... they could call it BuzzfeedRainbow!
I love Cameron Espisito she's so funny
By the way, y'all should read I'll Give You the Sun. It's a great book that really goes through the process of your personal journey. It's not always happy, but it has a happy ending. It's really helped me go through my coming out process.
1) I also literally thought rocks.
2) She just seems like a nice person.
CAMERON AND JEN IN THE SAME VIDEO...how did someone else see my heartfelt desire when I looked into the mirror of Erised?
*Brooklyn 99 fans* : Seeing Cameron Esposito
"Rosa's (ex)girlfriend with the leather jacket of S6 Ep14!!!"
I really love watching these, it's nice to see people talk about different aspects of queer life and self-care out in the open rather than just amongst me and friends. really opens up the conversation more
With the utmost respect to all my lgbtq friends, this helped me (as a straight person) a LOT. Thank you, guys, for posting this.
OMG YOU GOT HER INTO THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE IT, LOVE HER WORK!!!!!!
I binge watched this entire series today and I feel so close to the community and informed and happy and nice.
I love Cameron! and she low-key looks and sounds like she could be Jim Carrey's lost daughter xD
Yey! The real Carmen Esposito!
Love how Cameron's so positive
1:44 Whose hand is that in the corner? xD
tell me why Cameron reminds me of the lead singer of AFI
I thought she meant rocking climbing lol
I love watching in the closet! It's just so much fun to watch. So thanks Jen and Niki for making this series xx
I have become more fashionable when i started living in a closet 🤣
I really love how spacey Cameron gets :)
OMG Cameron Esposito and Jen in one video????
nOW WE NEED TEGAN AND SARA ON IN THE CLOSET NOWNOWNOW
camerons side mullet gives me life
Her hair reminds me of when Edward scissor hands gave everyone hair cuts
Please get Rhea on too. Love them both so much
One of the best in the closets so far. absolutely love you ladies. I'm not gay but your show still deeply speaks to me. hard to put into words so just... thank you. 💜
JENNY SCHECHTER GETS KILLED?!? I'm only in season 3!!!! OMG
Jenn is just perfect! ❤️
I agree about the 100 like seriously
Aww she's so cute. I love it when people don't know how to use snapchat. Someone show her and blow her mind.
Moment of silence for the Clexa ship that could have been....
Jen is my favorite!
Jen's so cute :3
I love that hair style Cameron has
Jen is so adorkable
This is the best! This combination, yes!
the green screen bother me and i dont now why it just in the background
My room is a closet no joke , I love this video
Best Christmas Present. Thanks Buzzfeed! :)
Merry Christmas buzzfeed🎅❄️🌨☃🌲
Jen is so adorable
Love this series guys. Much love, and forever an ally. 💜💛💚💙
My bisexual self in my corner: JEN PULL UP THAT SHIRT, STOP LEANING FORWARD, AND STOP BEING JEN, IMMA HAVE A HEART ATTACK
When she mentionned The 100!! Triggeeeeeeeeered
That haircut is so eye-catching. Jeez, caught me really off guard. Is it the asymmetry? Idk. Freaks me out.
UHHG I LOVE THESE THREE I CAN'T CONTAIN THE GAY!!!!!
Also, I just started watching Supergirl for JUST the gay stuff.
I LOVE BUZZFEED
A Starry Giraffe elvaluate your life
I'm not going to take advice from someone who can't spell EVALUATE.
your stepdad lol I mean you're here take your own advice
Ben Costello Cussing just shows your lack of vocabulary. How about you finish school and talk to me later.
jen😭you're great
her hair agitated me SO MUCH
Jen is such a babe
in the closet series is still better than 360 vids
I loved Cameron's hair and the Jen ruined it by calling it a side mullet, now I can't stop seeing it as a mullet
So proud that Teagan and Sarah are from my city. :) Calgary, AB represent!
I really want AmandasChronicles to be on this show :3
“Will you ever not have a side mullet?”
The side mullet is gone now
I'm not queer, but I like this series. I think I just really like Jen and Nikki
THE SIDE MULLET IS GODLIKE