Hello to whoever's reading this. You don't have to be perfect. You don't always have to get straight A's. It's okay to fail. Everyone makes mistakes. It's okay to cry. It's okay to shout. It's okay to express yourself. That's what makes us human. But, what's not okay is to give up. What's not okay is to believe all the bad things people say about you. What's not okay is to hate yourself. What's not okay is to not eat. You'll get through it, I promise. You have everyone here to cheer you on. I know times are tough and sometimes you want to give up. But you can't! You need to take back what's yours and be confident. The world isn't all sunshine and rainbows. People are gonna try to tear you down. But that's okay, let them try. But remember you are beautiful/handsome. You are smart. You are kind. You are confident! Everything's going to be alright. Just don't give up. I wish I could hug you all but I can't. So instead I'm sending virtual hugs *Virtual hugs* If you ever need someone to talk to I can give you my email, snap, or discord. But I have school so I might be late to answer. Don't give up!
True. And if your in any pain, or in tears, or sad, or just need someone to talk to, you can come here ❤️ your mistakes don't matter here. All that matters, is that your here with us. ❤️ Your loved, cherished, important, and needed ❤️ My channel is a safe place you can reach out if you need help ❤️ Please don't be afraid to reach out for help if you need it ❤️
I don’t like how I can be having a mental breakdown infront of someone and they will just say “shut up your being to loud just go jump off the roof of a building” and I have always said “ I’ve already tried jumping ,it didn’t help” I just don’t know what to do anymore
You know what hurts me? Is when people tell me im quiet and nobody sees me and when my own best friend calles me annoying and ignores me I WANT HER TO TALK TO ME NOT JUST IGNORE ME SHE DOESNT GET THAT IM HERE FOR HER
0:30 Childhood is something once its ruined theres no turning back Saying sorry doesnt mean anything!? When i was younger my mother always told me " Darling No one will ever love your an ugly child look at your sister shes an angel"
Well your mother shouldn't have kids if she treats you this way. And there are many people out there who love and cherish you! They don't have to be your significant other, but they care about you so much and you mean more than you think to them. You are beautiful in your own way and your mother has no right to say that. She's just jealous because you look better than she did at your age and you even look better than she does now. Your mother is choosing favorites and that's unfair. I dont want to tell you what to do with your family, but if you have any other parent or guardians and they are kind and caring towards you, try to build a strong bond with them. They will lift you up from that hole and help carry you through the storm. I will always be one of those people to help you no matter what. You are like my child. I care about you and want you to feel loved and cherished as much as possible ❤️
Not to disrespect you in anyway im sorry you went through that but what your mother told you when you were younger sounds like some shit you would hear in a my story animated video
@@Sickofurpoop True that my mother lost the right to take care of me and my sister now im living with my dad thats legit like saying upgrades people upgrades
*my mother would tell me she loved me, but with my middles brother "she'd hug him tight and say your a strong handsome and perfect and have a strong mind, you."* *she would compare me to my brothers all the time. They ar just her "perfect little angels."* *my mother would get them anything because "they worked hard".*
@@PookieandGator i didn't really like him back then because of course I didn't watch the other rest of the episodes nor knew what character development meant. I felt for him too
@@PookieandGator No because the writers could’ve had a spin wheel and whichever turtle it landed on would be the one who’d get bullied by the other turtles and it always bothered me especially when they acted like Ralph having anger issues was his fault or Donnie not being able to figure out something when he’s the one who’s usually doing so :|
I'm gonna vent a bit My mother has always tried to push me to be better, one day I came home excited because I got a B on a hard test and all she said was "nice but you could have done better", this really broke me because she has never told me she is proud of me even when I got a medal in a music thing I was doing she still didn't. The only person that said they were proud of me was my brother and when he said that I broke out into tears because that was the first time someone has said it to me. Another time I over heard my mom calling me ugly(and this was recent) the only one that stood up for me was my brother he knew I was awake in my room so he came in and told me I'm not ugly and she was just lying bc she is jealous, he really is my like my best friend. If you've read this whole rant ty I really appreciate it❤️❤️
honestly its sad knowing that so many people go through stuff that they shouldnt have to At first I didnt notice how much people go through this stuff because I dont so it was harder to tell
@@lornasis4520 right on point. Developed a whole lot of mental illnesses at the age of seven, got a lot more growing up. Still think I might have more incoming. I haven't even gotten better from one, now I gotta stress over getting even more. And it's ALWAYS gonna be my fault I have and keep getting more, from what I've been told.
@@--Crybaby-- well it is what it is sometimes. But don't be sad about it. It's something that is out of your control and that you should have nothing to feel bad for
I’m not sure if it’s normal or not- but why do parents always seem to not care about the oldest? I’ll tell my parents I hate loud noises and they brush it off and keep yelling. “Your getting a brother. That means more responsibility for “ All A’s but in math on my report card? “Your doing horrible we’re taking your electronica if you don’t improve.” They get two new loud puppies despite knowing I hate loud noises AND we have a very very loud big dog, a four year old who yells constantly, a 6 year old who can’t stop screaming if she doesn’t get what she wants and a new baby about to be born in less than a month. “Why can’t (sister name) have a few chores to?” “She’s much to young- besides you don’t do anything but stay in your room.” “Mom I got a good math grade!” “Oh cool..” “I’m pregnant!”
I'm not the oldest , and I always feel bad for him, so everytime I can I help him ( homework and chores mostly ) I always try to stay quiet to let him sleep a bit more , he deserves it
He might one day. But he probably will lose his chance anyways depending on what it was he did. But either way, I'm here for you and always will be ♥️ you are like my child, and I will take care of you
I relate to 6:51 and 7:14, I would like to try and talk to my family about it but all I get are disgusted looks and responses like “It’s just because your going through your teenage years”. I’ve been going through this for a long time now, and it’s currently not getting better.
@@Kira.joinedthank you, for even replying to this. I’ve gotten better with my family and I’m doing good! Still a little anxious around people but life is better now! I hope you are doing well also and I wish you the best!
Can I vent for a sec? I feel like family life is so genuinely important, and so often messed up. My parents both seem possibly homophobic (I’m lgbtq) and fight often with my brother. My oldest brother left for college and that really increased my depression bc he’s absolutely amazing and I miss him a lot. My other brother does drugs, vapes, steals money from my parents, and is just always rude. And instead of really trying to help him, my parents just yell at him and then complain that he isn’t getting better. And I don’t know how to help him and why does life have to be so stressful?!
It's going to be okay. Some of these things are out of your control and it will never be your fault. Things happen, and sometimes we just have to deal with it. We may not like it, but sometimes it's just what happens. But I'll always be here for you. And I'll always let you know how important, cherished, and loved you are ♥️ you can always vent here if you need to
Thank you for venting and i feel you and i can't say it's going to be ok cause you well that's not what u need rn u need someone to love u and care for u so I'm here if u need anything.
OMG MY OLDER BROTHER IS LIKE THE EXACT SAME he always steals stuff, from my parents and from stores, and me. Hes so disgusting. Some people you really cannot fix
music i know ig (some are in the bg) 0:01 - Hey Kids 1:11 - Never 2:16 - Jealousy,Jealousy 3:31 - Join Us For A Bite 3:45 - Are You Satisfied? 4:04 - Sugar Crash 5:03 - Washing Machine Heart 5:44 - Moral Of The Story 6:29 - Jealousy,Jealousy (again) 7:44 - Hey Kids (again) 8:44 - Michelle 10:08 - Alien Blues 10:24 - Freaks 4:19 - Juliet also,i relate with 6:11.sometimes i still question,did i leave them,or did they leave me.
0:50 if i’m right this one is Stressed Out by Twenty One Pilots :) 6:11 6:54 My Alcoholic Friends by The Dresden Dolls :3 (the first is sped up) 7:13 9:27 I Love You So by The Walters :> (the second is sped up) 8:16 Notion by The Rare Occasions :) 9:01 My Kind Of Woman by Mac DeMarco :D
around 1:16 : I used to be one of those people. As soon as the lockdown came I realized that it was too hard on me, then I started getting more laid back with school and my grades have gone down since then, I don't want to to either
I have a therapist friend and I want to let her vent to me bc she deserves that. She has it harder than me but still helps the people who have it even harder than her, even if they aren't kind to her. I love you E you're one of the kindest people I know
I'm sorry to hear that. If there's anything I can do to help you in any way no matter what it's for, please don't be afraid to reach out to me. I am always here and forever will be here for you ❤️
I know people go through this and I can’t really say I know how they feel cause people go through different stages of depression and/or any other mental illness at different times and I just want to say that you’re worth more than you can imagine, if you feel like anyone or everything is against you, just know there are people out there who don’t know you but love you, I love you!! This might not help or do anything at all but just know that I do love you no matter what other people think or say about you❤️ And I know it might be hard to do but please live your life the fullest! We only have one life (probably) Pog through the pain my friends❤️❤️
I'm sorry for everything your going through. But please remember you are an amazing person and we need you here ❤️ I'll always be here if you need to talk
@@kohik0 of course! I care about you ❤️ you are important! And if nobody else will say this, then I will. You are very important to me and I don't want to see you upset. I will help carry you through the storms
no ones gonna read this but im just gonna express what im feeling these past few 9 months 2021 was going fine, i was happy in my school, amazing grades, all my friends, we're all together, groups, living my best life. up until august 2021. just a clear introduction, there was this school my parents have been wanting to get me into for years, just because my sisters are in there, and just because my dad graduated there. but, i knew deep inside it was a harsh, strict school. which to myself, i am sensitive and need things to go easy on me, esp when it comes to school. what made me think that school is horrible is because my cousins (that i kinda dont really know that much) and my sisters who go to that school, have all given bad reviews about the school, and they say its really really overworking. my parents insisted. and kept trying to get me in the school. i disagreed, and decided to not try on the tests because i wanted the best for myself. yet until, i took the test again in july 2021. i actually tried on the test because my parents promised, "if i pass the test, they'll ______________________" i wont reveal what they promised because its something personal, but i promise you it was something that would change my life forever. so, i believed them of course, since they're my parents, and i actually tried on the test. later then, a weeks or days later (i dont remember) the results came in. i passed, and i was finally apart of the school. i was a bit worried about what would happen since i didnt have a good feeling about the school, but what kinda lightened my mood was the promise my parents promised me. so, a few weeks after i have been in the school, everything kept going downhill. this was what was happening: i felt as if everyone hated me since i was the "new kid", since its an old school, everyone already has friends failing the classes, getting horrible grades even when i try parents getting more strict because of my grades parents blaming me because of my grades loosing my friends from my old school since i separted from them and they found new friends felt like i was a worthless piece of trash in the school, and didnt fit into there, since everyone was smart and my mind was just still trying to process everything that just happened in the past few weeks. also, remember the promise i was talking about that m parents promised me when they said ill get into the school? yeah, what made things worse is that my own parents LIED TO ME and broke the promise. this wasnt their first time, but the only reason i actually tried on the test was because of that promise, you might be wondering, that promise might be something simple. but on god it wasnt. i cant reveal what it was because its personal, but if my parents didnt break it, i would have been the happiest person to ever exist, but here i am: failing school failing on my family failing on myself failing on my friends failing literally life if my younger self saw what i have become, she would have been so disappointed i became the person i never thought i would become im still struggling, really hard, im not good enough for anybody, and i cant talk to anyone cause people would just go ahead and think that im lying and just say "i hope you feel better again". like how tf is that going to help bro. i dont know how much longer im gonna be able to handle this anymore, please, just someone help. and i obviously wasted your time if you read this.
Hey, I read it all. And im sorry that you went through all of this, and still are. This sounds horrible. It does get hard and Im proud of you for being here. Just know that you're not a failure. I bet you've been through a lot. And never received the support you needed. Always being called out for the stuff that goes wrong, but never complimented for the stuff that goes well. Whatever it was that your parents promised you ,you will get it one day. You will. Don't give up, you're awesome💜
hello @Addylee Huigenbos, and @Vortte Voror i’m sorry i didn’t reply to you both at the time you posted your reply i was going through a lot those times, but now i’m starting to get happy i’m finally spending time with my family snd friends, with no worry. my feelings are still not fully fixed, but i’m doing better thank you both for your concerns 💕
You're not worthless and you ARE loved. I may not know you but I do care I feel genuinely sad for you and I will pray for you. I just want to give you a hug. Everything is gonna be okay
i read all of it. you’re good enough. you didn’t waste my time. you’re not perfect, no one is. not even im perfect. everyone makes mistakes. please, don’t cry. please, don’t commit. promise me. promise me you won’t sh. promise me you won’t give up. promise me that you won’t EVER stop loving yourself. if you already stopped loving yourself, let me get some bandages and we can bandage up your heart together. im so sorry you went through that. i can and will hug you through the internet. 🫂
I’m gonna vent here a bit. TRIGGER WARNING Everyday I tell people: “I’m fine” even when I’m deadass crying. I’ve been bottling up my emotions since I was 6 and even though nobody bullies me, I cry every night because of my own standard, my own guilt, my own pity, my own judgement. And it’s too hard for me. It’s like every night I put an extra 2 pounds on my shoulder and carry it until I can’t take any more pressure. Everyone at school thinks I have the perfect life becuase I have friends and straight A’s. But that’s not the case. I get called ugly all the time. And I also have thought projections. (Which is a condition where you think everyone can see/hear your thoughts) and hypersexuality and I’m SICK OF IT. IM SICK OF ALL OF IT.
I am late but I just realized I have thought projections too. Once you explained it, I was like "That is excactly how I feel!" I am always in class and I feel like everyone is reading my mind. I am scared to think anything other then what I want people to see me as. I am sick of it also.
2:36 I honestly relate to this so much. When I was younger I was silly, I laughed and played with other kids my age, I loved EVERYONE. But by the time I was seven I was pressured to grow up because of mental and physical abuse, if I wasn't good enough I was told that I was "useless", "such a bitch", "not good enough". So I tried to grow up faster, by the time I was 9 I was making myself lunch and breakfast (burn scars and cut scars still riddle my hands and knuckles), I was shoving my toys in the closet in garbage bags, I deprived myself of movies and things that kids all around me were still able to enjoy. By the time I was in the third grade I was so out of the loop of what was at the time modern culture, that I was ostracized and bullied. I kept my grades up, I worked hard, I never got in trouble, I was never TRYING to be the bad kid, but I was treated so poorly that when someone was cruel to me I was cruel to them.. I remember punching one of my bullies square in the face after she slapped me, because I was so sick and tired of her berating me and telling me to act like all the other girls, "wear dresses", "quit it with the jeans", "god your such a pain, why can't you be quiet like everyone else". And whenever I told my mom how much I didn't like this girl it was apparently MY FAULT that I didn't want to be like them and was getting bullied. I kept trying to be better but I was so tired of it that I stopped caring in middle school, I wasn't good enough, just not good enough for my mom. And now I'm not good at all. I swear, I get so angry people stay away from me, I threaten people with violence if they're even to close in my personal bubble. I tried to be good enough and it didn't work my whole life, so now.. I'm not good at all.
I relate to you a lot, dude..I hope it gets better for you, and that you can find a way to enjoy life, because living up to expectations rlly just isn't worth it. It's not getting any better for me, so I'm praying it'll get better for you. Venting on a holiday is so sad, I hope next time you can actually enjoy the holidays and get your mind off of the bad things you've experienced in life.
It is venting. It helps get things off of people's shoulders. It is allowed in my comments for all of my videos. If you don't like it, you have the option to leave my channel. People are allowed to vent on here and I'm glad they decide to do they can get things off of their chest or shoulders and reach out for help or feel safe here. This is a safe place for people of all kinds to vent
@@asherthewolfyt you never said that, its also not your content, and im pretty sure the people whos pain youre making content out of dont appreciate people trauma dumping on them. but ok!
I'm sorry you feel this way. Is there anything I can do to maybe cheer you up? Even if it's just a little bit? Because someone as important, loved, and cherished as you deserves to be listened to and cared about.
@@asherthewolfyt thank you! But I don’t really know what to do right now im just falling behind in school, losing motivation, and overall I feel worse than ever. But thank you :)
@@georgewashingmachine8121 Well I'm always here if you need to vent,talk, or just want someone to hang out and chat with. It doesn't have to be when something's wrong, I'm willing to chat all the time no matter what the situation! ❤️
The sad thing is that everyone relates to 6:11 so much even I do, I’m sorry who ever is the therapist Friend and can’t express there feelings. You all deserve so much better.
3:30 i agree with this so much. ppl in my school ask me why i always have it on. and the one time it fell off i felt so insecure and someone was staring at me :(
To whoever is reading: Your skin isn't paper don't cut it Your size isn't a book don't judge it Your heart isn't a door don't lock it Your life isn't a movie don't end it You're beautiful and don't allow anyone tell you otherwise..💜💙💛
Am I the only one who when someone sounds upsett whith me I get genuinely scared and when they ask you a question and you just start to stutter then just stair at the floor while replaying how they will hate you forever and spred rumors about you?
I’m gonna share an experience I’ve had... so I’m a little over weight and I finally stopped telling my self “omg you’re so fat..” I wore baggy clothes all the time but stopped. I had a crush on this kid named David and he told his friend group I was fat and I stopped going to school and when I showed up I wore baggy clothes I cried myself to sleep every night because of him. Moral of the story don’t let people define you, you’re perfect just the way you are. Be you and don’t let people change that :). Thanks for reading
i'm so happy you realized that you should be who you are. thank you so much for sharing your experience; it must've been tough. but you got through it!! i am proud of you!
nooo! you are good enough. you are more than good enough. don't bring yourself down because of what they say! you don't deserve the pain or trauma you're going through. you're the perfect person you can be at this time. 😁
The grade one and the being perfect ones are the the ones I can really relate too, I've also been not feeling good about my body, I've been skipping meals just to get skinnier and my grades are starting to plummet to the bottom again I ditched my best friend for grades and now my life is miserable + I have a eating disorder and I REALLY do wanna be somebody else.
venting a bit :) Once I was having a bad day, someone said “Hi how are you!” I just said “good” because I couldn’t straight up say “bad” or anything because I felt like it would be rude. I feel like I’m not good enough, I’m annoying and my mum says I complain a lot. I don’t eat a lot but I’m a little overweight, I hope it goes away.
..... Even after all if this has happened to me, I still smile.. And you know what, I may not be perfect for my mom..but at least I tried, Its like shes still here.... R.I.P mom...
Hi! I’m very young and still developing and I just need to vent to someone. Basically my entire life I’ve been fat shamed, bullied, etc. I learned to trust no one. And my own parents make me feel like I’m a dumb fat loser. I’ve always compared myself to literally any girl who walks past me. I always talk about how pretty they are and I’m not. But listen. I get it I’m someone you don’t even know! And I’m a minor. But you’re beautiful and no one’s perfect and just know I don’t know you but, I’m here for you.
I'm here for you as well! And you don't have to trust or believe me, and that's perfectly fine! You have your reasons just as I have mine! But please know I'm here if you ever need me and your always welcome to vent in my videos! < 3
@@asherthewolfyt thank you so much! I am happy that I may not know people online, but they’re better than the people I actually know. Thank you so much
the fact your parents are encouraging the bodyshaming is absolutely immature of them. they need to start respecting and loving you for who you are, not bully you for your appearance. you have a wonderful personality and are beautiful inside and out. don't listen to what others say, and don't compare yourself to other women. that'll only make you feel less self-confident. you *are* more pretty than them. you call us beautiful and all these kind titles, but not yourself? darling, learn to love yourself for who you strive to be and your generous personality. you are being the best version of yourself you can be, so don't push yourself too hard trying to be like others. make a change and be yourself.
No, it's not a problem please don't think it is. You aren't a problem, and you aren't worthless. You aren't fat, you aren't overreacting, and you aren't the bad guy. Please don't make your self feels this way. Please make sure to not over work yourself. ( Have a good day or night)
Anyone else have a sensory overload? Yeah.. it hurts. I wouldn't stop crying for a hour even after the noise stopped. Mainly because I try my best to socialize, but I get screamed at.(loud noises I could usually tolerate unless directly.) 9:05 meanwhile is my response to my family or anyone that judges me. A lot of my skills are lacking so some things for "regular" people may be easy for them, but is challenging for me. 6:11 I also had alot of friends leave me. Not to mention I had a REALLY hard start in life. Still living through the consequences. I hate it. I still live through the nightmares of R@pe. I was also bullied, too.
I relate to the social anxiety one.. bc I do hate myself and I always think everyone hates me.. but I also do have Sucidial thoughts.. (idk what else to say-)
All the tiktoks in this video that i can relate to: 0:01 0:12 0:48 (this video made me cry) 1:07 1:30 (also made me cry) 2:06 2:16 3:29 (especially the "all eyes are on you" part) 3:44 4:03 4:20 4:32 5:00 ( also made me cry) 5:32 6:13 6:27 (WATERFALL TIME!) 7:15 (still waterfall time) 7:41 (waterfall time part 3) 8:01 (waterfall time part 4) 8:16 (waterfall time part 5) 8:30 (waterfall time part 6) 8:53 (waterfall time part 7) 9:06 (waterfall time part 8) 9:26 (waterfall time part 9) 9:52 (waterfall time part 10) 10:07 (intense waterfall time part 1) 10:22 (intense waterfall time part 2) Man i just realized i need help
I cry every day night because of all the yelling now when someone yells at me I start to cry and I try so hard not too but in school it’s so hard but sometimes u have to push through and go on I can’t do anything but cry I can’t do any better when I’m mad I cry I get frustrated with everything, everyone that’s the problem with me I get my emotions get to me... especially my brother Emilio he messes me up he messes with me I so sick and tired I try to be nice but I just get so frustrated with him he always makes me cry I just get so made and start crying he messes me up...
Vent!! I didn’t know I would take the break up this hard honestly. But now I know how f*cking hard it is, turns out that whole year with her meant absolutely nothing. How could she let go so easily? And why for such a horrible reason, all I can think about is the fact that she would choose a girl she’s known for 2 months over the girl whose been loving her unconditionally for a year. I wonder if she’s sobbing her eyes out right now too? Or am I the only one who can’t get over the fact that I never really mattered. Right now I’m holding on to the first stuffed animal she gave me, the others I threw right in the trash. I know that this one is the only one I can trust she gave to me when she was in love.
4:32 really speaks to me, I can relate to it so many levels, I was bullied constantly every SINGLE day for years and I still do get bullied, NOBODY helped me bc I was/still is ugly, NOOND cared, they just told me to deal with it myself.. I NEARLY got suspended for standing up to myself around the second year of getting bullied, did anyone who bullied me got in trouble NO! they didn't, only I did for standing up for myself when I gotten P*shed up the stairs, P*shed down the stairs, people put gum on my hair, people P*shed me in the sh@rp bit of the pole where I was bl**ding, and had Bru!ses, people b@nged my head on the pole very h@rd, got c@lled names, gotten CH*cked and did ANYONE stand up for me?? NO! NOONE CARED!! sorry for the venting abit that wasn't even all of the bulling or even what happens to me but sorry for venting I just needed to get this off my chest
you're not ugly. they're all just too blind to see how beautiful you really are. people need to understand that appearances do NOT matter. it's all about personality. so don't be hard on yourself because of bullies. they're idiots and you don' deserve to be verbally or physically abused by them. never apologize for venting, you can at your own free will. whoever the principals of those schools you attended are, they're terrible at their job. you're supposed to go to school to learn and be educated, not shoved around like some object. the fact the bullies weren't punished and you were is absolutely insane. i can't do anything about it, but i do hope you're doing better. you should transfer to another school, heck another state! this is absolutely atrocious behavior.
(This is just me sharing my experiences and some TikTok’s I found relatable) 0:48 This commonly happens at my dads house and they treat it as a joke and laugh it off. My grandma got mad at me one time cuz I started eating a lollipop and she said “stop eating so much candy, your always eating sweets”
3:29 My friends are usually telling me to show my face in FaceTime or to send them pictures and when I tell them no they start trying to persuade me, me and my friend literally got into a argument about it but it’s good now cuz she apologized.
6:27 I’m always doing this, now everyone around me is telling me I’m going to fail. But it’s also cuz I’m really busy taking care of my siblings, although to them (my parents) it’s “not an excuse”.
7:13 This is always happening when I go out in public, I always feel like their severely judging me even though their strangers and they don’t know me.
I relate to the ones that are like talking about being a achiever. I got a 60 on a quiz before. Of course my family judged me and made fun of me for not being “smart” like my sisters. It hurt a lot because my mother would say when I ask her who is her favorite, “I love my kids equally!”. Even though she compared my grades to my other sister. She would sometimes say, “How come you didn’t get a good grade? Your older sister got A+ when she was your age!”. It hurt a lot because they obviously had a favorite but just lying to me so I don’t feel bad. She is a lovely person though.
I know it’s been 5 months but I just rlly need to vent rn. I just spent about a couple hours and a drawing, I showed it to my friends but. They said it looks ugly and I haven’t improved. And, I really wanted to learn art. I tried so hard, just to satisfy them. But, their my only friends and besties.. We made a promise as well, I feel so guilty thinking this and I’m really stupid for considering to abandon them. They vent to me, but when I want to vent to them. I feel scared, so freaking scared and I can’t anymore. They also have disorders like me, social anxiety, OCD, ADHD, and such. That’s why I feel so guilty, but I feel so .. so lonely. With my social anxiety I can’t do sh*t as simple as making friends. But even if I do, I end up losing them. I should really respect them because jokingly I said that “ur not nice” , they said they prevented a person from committing suicide. That sh*t hurt me because, my other friend. Who, who, who freaking wanted to commit told me. I gave them all my support at that moment yet, I couldn’t f*cling do it. ONE SIMPLE THING!!! I FEEL SO GUILTY. Suicide is not an option for me as well, I, can’t. I want to break into tears rn for all my mistakes that are MY FAULT, my freaking fault. I want to become a big vtuber/ gamer and a artist. And I have tried for SO. MANY. YEARS. And I still, can’t do s*hit .. ILYSM whoever you are, please. Don’t be like me .. < / 3
Doesn't matter how long it's been, your welcome and safe here ❤️ and I'm sorry you went through that's and it doesn't take just 2 days to improve over time, you will get better and I believe you are improving as you go on. I'm sorry for everything. Those friends may not be actually friends. And even though you may not even know me, I will try to be here when I can ❤️ your important and you don't deserve all the pain your going through. Yes, bad times may come, and some can come all at once and be very overwhelming. But it gets better. They are obstacles to help you get stronger and get better. It may not seem like it, but it will. I'm not going to say trust me or anything like that, as it sounds forced. And many people do not trust well, and that's okay. So just take my word for it, over time, it does get better. You just have to try and help it get better, and you'll get there ❤️ you can do it! I believe in you! Don't let anything or anyone bring you down! Your strong and can get through a lot! You have to believe in yourself as I believe in you! ❤️ Please don't give up! If you give up, you never give it the chance to get better ❤️ if you need anything, your always welcome here! ❤️ Your amazing, worthy of love, kindest, and deserve to be cared about. You are not worthless, or useless, or anything like that. Your amazing, and can do so much more than you believe you can! ❤️
Tysm.. I really needed that. I cry every day because of my stress so this really helped my. Again tysm, I bless you, your family and all the others. Ty
@@hikari143 no problem! In always here if you need it! And I bless your family, friends, anyone in your life your close to ❤️ if you ever need anyone to talk to, I can try to be here to the best of my ability ❤️
8:23 is painfully the same except it will be for hours on end, because past stuff gets brught up and once that conversation starts, its like reliving it all over again.
I wish i could't talk because i will always say the wrong things that it makes people sad and i wish i didn't say it. yea i'm smart and nice but i don't have friends. so why do i still try my best when nobody will see and care i just want people to understand what i have to do through. ugh i wish i could dieeee. im really bad person:( if you read all of this thank you i hope you don't have what i go through like ever and forever bye person:)
You are loved and cherished more than you think my child. Things may go wrong. And it's a part of life! Its normal. And I will be your friend if you don't have any! And I see it. And I care. Even if nobody else does. People may not exactly understand, but they try their hardest to be there for you. You are important to me. You are needed here on this earth. And if you left, people would be devistaded. And you may think your a bad person, but other people think your an amazing person! I am one of those people that think your amazing! I have depression and have had it for a couple years. I can try to understand what your going through, but may not entirely. But even after all of this, please just remember, you are loved, needed, and cherished. You are important to more people than you think. I will always be here If you need to talk ❤️ just dm me on any of my other social medias and I will gladly respond and help you! Please don't be afraid to reach out for help! There may not be many people, but I hope I can be one of those people to help you. And I promise I will try to help you as much as I can ❤️ Stay safe my child
@@asherthewolfyt TYSM i go through anxiety disorder and thank you for cheering me up ill always dm u if i feel sad even though i don't know where dm but thank you. iI hope you will also get out of your depression also thank you for being my friend. Stay safe also my new friend:) Plss makee more of thiiss
@@yoshilol5686 of course. I care about everyone. They are like my children. I care about them and want to make sure they feel safe, loved, important, cared about, ect. I want to be there for people who may not have people like that in their lives and/or need somebody in their life to support them when there is no ody else there. I will be that person ♥️
This is similar to the pinned comment: Your beautiful! No matter what anyone says! I'm the therapist of my old friend group yet i have more problems then half of them, but feel free to vent to me! I'll try my best to advise you but its really your choice what you would like to do with your situation! So your beautiful! You aren't perfect, Nobody is, Your amazing! Also please do not copy my older sister and attempt suicide, (she survived by the way) theres someone out there who cares for you! Like me! Bai
To all the people who feel like this, I’m sorry. I can also relate to this stuff. With me I’m always anxious and insecure and I care about people think, it’s really not the best, I wish for ur live to get better if u feel like this. Ilysm Y/N. 🤍
I imagine my younger self talking to me and I would tell her that she’s lied to and used. That she’s too young for those things to happen. And she has to protect her sister. That I’m sorry for not being brave enough to be what I want or deceive. I’m sorry that you have to relate. I relate too.
I’m going to give a vent. I don’t know how much longer I can live like this. My childhood is almost non-existent. I never traveled or went on vacation. I relied on shows. I’m always pressured. I get forced to do extracurricular activities that I NEVER wanted to do. I feel as if everybody is picking apart everything I do. I get pressured into getting straight A’s. No 98%, only 100%. If I don’t want to get yelled at, I have to lie. My parents always try to pressure me. I get told I eat too much. I’ve started to skip breakfast, barely eating my lunch. I’ve been running on very few hours of sleep. I can’t tell anyone about this because they’ll judge me or think I’m faking for attention. Im sick of it. I bottle up my emotions, even if it hurts.
Mind if I vent for a second? My dad grew up in a shitty household, and that made a big impact on his life. He was surrounded by abusers, and alcohol. So, when he had kids, he became just like his father. He would threaten to beat me and my brother if we had done anything slightly wrong. My brother Nicholas has autism. My dad constantly picks on him if Nicholas doesn't understand what he said, or other things. He is also terrible to his wife. I have tried to vent to my friends who say it's ok to vent to them, but they act like I'm an annoyance. I just want to feel happy when I go home at the end of the day. I get sexually harassed at school Aswell and I'm just so sick of it.
I can relate. My father is an absolute fucking mess up. He drinks. His mother barely even knew how to take care of kids. He drank for years, whenever he was high on alchohol he’d rant and even sometimes threaten me that he’ll hit me. Also whenever something is wrong with my mental health he says ‘ItS bEcAuSe Of YoUr IpAd’ or ‘Do YoU wAnT mE tO tAkE yOuR iPaD’ like. This man is making me so close to losing my mind. I am sick of my life.
I'd reply to this but I keep on pressing cancel instead of reply cuz I'm crying help, my parents weren't ever too abusive towards me, just their parents treated them like shit
Hello to whoever's reading this.
You don't have to be perfect. You don't always have to get straight A's. It's okay to fail. Everyone makes mistakes. It's okay to cry. It's okay to shout. It's okay to express yourself. That's what makes us human. But, what's not okay is to give up. What's not okay is to believe all the bad things people say about you. What's not okay is to hate yourself. What's not okay is to not eat. You'll get through it, I promise. You have everyone here to cheer you on. I know times are tough and sometimes you want to give up. But you can't! You need to take back what's yours and be confident. The world isn't all sunshine and rainbows. People are gonna try to tear you down. But that's okay, let them try. But remember you are beautiful/handsome. You are smart. You are kind. You are confident! Everything's going to be alright. Just don't give up.
I wish I could hug you all but I can't. So instead I'm sending virtual hugs
*Virtual hugs*
If you ever need someone to talk to I can give you my email, snap, or discord. But I have school so I might be late to answer. Don't give up!
this litterally made me cry- TYSMMMMMMMMMMM
;)
but I have to
Ty, I needed this
@@Forever_Lux I'm glad I could help!
“No one notice your tears”
“No one notice you sadness”
“No one notice your pain”
“But they all notice your mistakes”💔
True. And if your in any pain, or in tears, or sad, or just need someone to talk to, you can come here ❤️ your mistakes don't matter here. All that matters, is that your here with us. ❤️ Your loved, cherished, important, and needed ❤️ My channel is a safe place you can reach out if you need help ❤️ Please don't be afraid to reach out for help if you need it ❤️
This is so true ur perfect don’t forget that. Good luck in ur life!
I don’t like how I can be having a mental breakdown infront of someone and they will just say “shut up your being to loud just go jump off the roof of a building” and I have always said “ I’ve already tried jumping ,it didn’t help” I just don’t know what to do anymore
My 9yr friend mostly cries during sleep. This is relatable for him 😢
You know what hurts me? Is when people tell me im quiet and nobody sees me and when my own best friend calles me annoying and ignores me I WANT HER TO TALK TO ME NOT JUST IGNORE ME SHE DOESNT GET THAT IM HERE FOR HER
0:30
Childhood is something once its ruined theres no turning back
Saying sorry doesnt mean anything!?
When i was younger my mother always told me " Darling No one will ever love your an ugly child look at your sister shes an angel"
Well your mother shouldn't have kids if she treats you this way. And there are many people out there who love and cherish you! They don't have to be your significant other, but they care about you so much and you mean more than you think to them. You are beautiful in your own way and your mother has no right to say that. She's just jealous because you look better than she did at your age and you even look better than she does now. Your mother is choosing favorites and that's unfair. I dont want to tell you what to do with your family, but if you have any other parent or guardians and they are kind and caring towards you, try to build a strong bond with them. They will lift you up from that hole and help carry you through the storm. I will always be one of those people to help you no matter what. You are like my child. I care about you and want you to feel loved and cherished as much as possible ❤️
Not to disrespect you in anyway im sorry you went through that but what your mother told you when you were younger sounds like some shit you would hear in a my story animated video
@@Sickofurpoop no cap 😭😭
@@Sickofurpoop True that my mother lost the right to take care of me and my sister now im living with my dad thats legit like saying upgrades people upgrades
*my mother would tell me she loved me, but with my middles brother "she'd hug him tight and say your a strong handsome and perfect and have a strong mind, you."*
*she would compare me to my brothers all the time. They ar just her "perfect little angels."*
*my mother would get them anything because "they worked hard".*
I wasn't expecting a TMNT 2012 reference in the beginning, made me super happy!
Hply sHIT IT WAS FROM TMNT??? WOAH
Fr they all shat on Raph way too much
@@PookieandGator i didn't really like him back then because of course I didn't watch the other rest of the episodes nor knew what character development meant.
I felt for him too
@@PookieandGator Agreed
@@PookieandGator No because the writers could’ve had a spin wheel and whichever turtle it landed on would be the one who’d get bullied by the other turtles and it always bothered me especially when they acted like Ralph having anger issues was his fault or Donnie not being able to figure out something when he’s the one who’s usually doing so :|
I'm gonna vent a bit
My mother has always tried to push me to be better, one day I came home excited because I got a B on a hard test and all she said was "nice but you could have done better", this really broke me because she has never told me she is proud of me even when I got a medal in a music thing I was doing she still didn't. The only person that said they were proud of me was my brother and when he said that I broke out into tears because that was the first time someone has said it to me. Another time I over heard my mom calling me ugly(and this was recent) the only one that stood up for me was my brother he knew I was awake in my room so he came in and told me I'm not ugly and she was just lying bc she is jealous, he really is my like my best friend. If you've read this whole rant ty I really appreciate it❤️❤️
Your brother seems awesome!
I'm happy you have a good supportive brother :)
honestly its sad knowing that so many people go through stuff that they shouldnt have to At first I didnt notice how much people go through this stuff because I dont so it was harder to tell
I do and yes there are many people. It's actually quite common among teens and older people can develop it over time!
The fact it is not only teens it is also kids from 7 to older
@@lornasis4520 right on point. Developed a whole lot of mental illnesses at the age of seven, got a lot more growing up. Still think I might have more incoming. I haven't even gotten better from one, now I gotta stress over getting even more. And it's ALWAYS gonna be my fault I have and keep getting more, from what I've been told.
@@lornasis4520 or 5 years.. trust me. It's happened to me.
kids these days do it for attention
i relate to so many, especially the social anxiety/anxiety ones like 7:13
Awhwhwn, I feel for you. Good luck in ur life!
I also relate
4:19 the most relatable one so far
I agree. It's relatable to me as well
@@asherthewolfyt im glad im not alone, but im also sad that someone else goes through this
@@--Crybaby-- well it is what it is sometimes. But don't be sad about it. It's something that is out of your control and that you should have nothing to feel bad for
Yeah
Me when my mom is angry: “don’t cry you can cry later just keep it in”
Also me later: wait wtf I can’t cry, now I’m just angry
6:11 is the most relatable one for me so far
Edit: WOAH 100 LIKES?!?
Same
Same
Same 😞
IKR?
True.
2:28 im sorry but xiao and childe got me cracking up💀
edit: i use humor to cope with emotion dont come at me
what about zhongli💀 (also same btw)
Omg i use humor to cope too :0
LOL
@@bi_mothy4220 the grandpa💀💀
childe...
I’m not sure if it’s normal or not- but why do parents always seem to not care about the oldest?
I’ll tell my parents I hate loud noises and they brush it off and keep yelling.
“Your getting a brother. That means more responsibility for “
All A’s but in math on my report card? “Your doing horrible we’re taking your electronica if you don’t improve.”
They get two new loud puppies despite knowing I hate loud noises AND we have a very very loud big dog, a four year old who yells constantly, a 6 year old who can’t stop screaming if she doesn’t get what she wants and a new baby about to be born in less than a month.
“Why can’t (sister name) have a few chores to?” “She’s much to young- besides you don’t do anything but stay in your room.”
“Mom I got a good math grade!” “Oh cool..”
“I’m pregnant!”
My older brother(the oldest) is the favorite, yet he rarely gets attention.
This has basically been my life. Kinda glad to know I´m not alone there heh.
Always I never feel like I can talk everything I say gets forgotten or unheard
I'm not the oldest , and I always feel bad for him, so everytime I can I help him ( homework and chores mostly ) I always try to stay quiet to let him sleep a bit more , he deserves it
I’m the only girl and middle child so my mom thinks that it normal and good for me to do most of the chores.
0:30
I wish he'd actually apologize. Especially since I'm still in my childhood. I'm more forgiving now, apologize before you lose your chance.
He might one day. But he probably will lose his chance anyways depending on what it was he did. But either way, I'm here for you and always will be ♥️ you are like my child, and I will take care of you
Ahwwhw I feel for you, ur good enough. Good luck with ur life
I relate to almost everything..
Me too its sad how People who Are "Happy" say i understant how you feel or just Be Happy is it that hard!?.. Like yes its hard.....:(
Awhhh I know how it feels, I hope ur better now. Good luck with ur life
Same I'm crying rn cause I'm very sad and I'm upset .
@@eida0101 im sorry for that..
@@Kira.joined ty
6:12 is EXTREMELY relatable for me, I’m always the therapist friend or the “person you vent to” and nobody cares about MY feelings😞
You matter. I care about your feelings🥺💜 *hug*
Same
Awwhh, I feel for you. I hope ur better now!
I relate to 6:51 and 7:14, I would like to try and talk to my family about it but all I get are disgusted looks and responses like “It’s just because your going through your teenage years”. I’ve been going through this for a long time now, and it’s currently not getting better.
I hope it’s better now, im Late with this comment sorry. I feel for you, good luck in ur life!
@@Kira.joinedthank you, for even replying to this. I’ve gotten better with my family and I’m doing good! Still a little anxious around people but life is better now! I hope you are doing well also and I wish you the best!
Can I vent for a sec? I feel like family life is so genuinely important, and so often messed up. My parents both seem possibly homophobic (I’m lgbtq) and fight often with my brother. My oldest brother left for college and that really increased my depression bc he’s absolutely amazing and I miss him a lot. My other brother does drugs, vapes, steals money from my parents, and is just always rude. And instead of really trying to help him, my parents just yell at him and then complain that he isn’t getting better. And I don’t know how to help him and why does life have to be so stressful?!
It's going to be okay. Some of these things are out of your control and it will never be your fault. Things happen, and sometimes we just have to deal with it. We may not like it, but sometimes it's just what happens. But I'll always be here for you. And I'll always let you know how important, cherished, and loved you are ♥️ you can always vent here if you need to
Are you diagnosed
Thank you for venting and i feel you and i can't say it's going to be ok cause you well that's not what u need rn u need someone to love u and care for u so I'm here if u need anything.
OMG MY OLDER BROTHER IS LIKE THE EXACT SAME
he always steals stuff, from my parents and from stores, and me. Hes so disgusting. Some people you really cannot fix
@@asherthewolfyt Thanks! It’s nice to have support :)
music i know ig (some are in the bg)
0:01 - Hey Kids
1:11 - Never
2:16 - Jealousy,Jealousy
3:31 - Join Us For A Bite
3:45 - Are You Satisfied?
4:04 - Sugar Crash
5:03 - Washing Machine Heart
5:44 - Moral Of The Story
6:29 - Jealousy,Jealousy (again)
7:44 - Hey Kids (again)
8:44 - Michelle
10:08 - Alien Blues
10:24 - Freaks
4:19 - Juliet
also,i relate with 6:11.sometimes i still question,did i leave them,or did they leave me.
Pretty sure 4:32 is Back Out Days, I could be wrong though
Hope you’re doing alright by the way :)
0:50 if i’m right this one is Stressed Out by Twenty One Pilots :)
6:11 6:54 My Alcoholic Friends by The Dresden Dolls :3 (the first is sped up)
7:13 9:27 I Love You So by The Walters :> (the second is sped up)
8:16 Notion by The Rare Occasions :)
9:01 My Kind Of Woman by Mac DeMarco :D
@@transmasctsukasa yep, it’s Black Out Days by phantogram i think :D
thx everyone
3:00 is Deviltown, by cave town (I think it’s called Deviltown)
around 1:16 : I used to be one of those people. As soon as the lockdown came I realized that it was too hard on me, then I started getting more laid back with school and my grades have gone down since then, I don't want to to either
{ 7:13 }
Is the definition of my school and social life
{ 8:29 }
Damn- same
Wait if I relate to that and think the same way does that mean I have social anxiety?
I feel bad for u. Ur perfect! Good luck in ur life
1:29 poor barte
I have a therapist friend and I want to let her vent to me bc she deserves that. She has it harder than me but still helps the people who have it even harder than her, even if they aren't kind to her. I love you E you're one of the kindest people I know
Hope your friend sees this, ur friend is really lucky that got you
this is why comfort audios exist
Yh
2:27 I'm sorry but the fact that they are looking at GENSHIN IMPACT CHARACTERS IS HILARIOUS JFKJSDJFDHFJKD
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0:01 Raphael.... Yea i like it...a lot 😙👌🧡❤️
Something of it is me...like the first one or the last one and some others....
Manm never thought I would cry to this.
Sometimes the unexpected, suddenly happens. And it could be a good thing, or a bad thing. We just never know until we get to that point
Awhhh don’t cry, I hope u feel better now. Good luck in ur life.
2:20
Lemme tell you, my eating disorder literally ruined my middle school years. Shit crushes your spirit :/
I'm sorry to hear that. If there's anything I can do to help you in any way no matter what it's for, please don't be afraid to reach out to me. I am always here and forever will be here for you ❤️
@@asherthewolfyt oh thank you, luv! Same goes to you. ❤️
@@l514 thank you ❤️❤️❤️
noo not the bart audio bro. that episode made me cry fr
I know people go through this and I can’t really say I know how they feel cause people go through different stages of depression and/or any other mental illness at different times and I just want to say that you’re worth more than you can imagine, if you feel like anyone or everything is against you, just know there are people out there who don’t know you but love you, I love you!! This might not help or do anything at all but just know that I do love you no matter what other people think or say about you❤️ And I know it might be hard to do but please live your life the fullest! We only have one life (probably) Pog through the pain my friends❤️❤️
Thank you, this made my day! Ur perfect aswell
9:41....Thats wayyyy too relatetable
I'm sorry for everything your going through. But please remember you are an amazing person and we need you here ❤️ I'll always be here if you need to talk
@@asherthewolfyt Ty so much!
@@kohik0 of course! I care about you ❤️ you are important! And if nobody else will say this, then I will. You are very important to me and I don't want to see you upset. I will help carry you through the storms
@@asherthewolfyt youre seriously making me cry thanks so muchhh
@@kohik0 No my child!!! Don't cry 😭😭😭😭😭
5:14 gave me something very relatable….
5:30 is the most relatable tiktok I’ve seen so far.
Edit : the most relatable tiktoks for me is 6:11 , 9:50 , and 7:13
@@dizzy7466 I keep scrolling through the comment, and found no one saying they have social anxiety 😭, so I’m glad we can both relate ❤
There's one mitski song (I forgot it exactly) but it says something like that idk
I relate to them all
I feel for you, I hope u feel better now. Ur perfect. Good luck with ur life
no ones gonna read this but im just gonna express what im feeling these past few 9 months
2021 was going fine, i was happy in my school, amazing grades, all my friends, we're all together, groups, living my best life.
up until august 2021.
just a clear introduction, there was this school my parents have been wanting to get me into for years, just because my sisters are in there, and just because my dad graduated there. but, i knew deep inside it was a harsh, strict school. which to myself, i am sensitive and need things to go easy on me, esp when it comes to school. what made me think that school is horrible is because my cousins (that i kinda dont really know that much) and my sisters who go to that school, have all given bad reviews about the school, and they say its really really overworking.
my parents insisted. and kept trying to get me in the school. i disagreed, and decided to not try on the tests because i wanted the best for myself. yet until, i took the test again in july 2021. i actually tried on the test because my parents promised, "if i pass the test, they'll ______________________" i wont reveal what they promised because its something personal, but i promise you it was something that would change my life forever.
so, i believed them of course, since they're my parents, and i actually tried on the test. later then, a weeks or days later (i dont remember) the results came in. i passed, and i was finally apart of the school. i was a bit worried about what would happen since i didnt have a good feeling about the school, but what kinda lightened my mood was the promise my parents promised me. so, a few weeks after i have been in the school, everything kept going downhill.
this was what was happening:
i felt as if everyone hated me since i was the "new kid", since its an old school, everyone already has friends
failing the classes, getting horrible grades even when i try
parents getting more strict because of my grades
parents blaming me because of my grades
loosing my friends from my old school since i separted from them and they found new friends
felt like i was a worthless piece of trash in the school, and didnt fit into there, since everyone was smart and my mind was just still trying to process everything that just happened in the past few weeks.
also, remember the promise i was talking about that m parents promised me when they said ill get into the school? yeah, what made things worse is that my own parents LIED TO ME and broke the promise. this wasnt their first time, but the only reason i actually tried on the test was because of that promise, you might be wondering, that promise might be something simple. but on god it wasnt. i cant reveal what it was because its personal, but if my parents didnt break it, i would have been the happiest person to ever exist, but here i am:
failing school
failing on my family
failing on myself
failing on my friends
failing literally life
if my younger self saw what i have become, she would have been so disappointed
i became the person i never thought i would become
im still struggling, really hard, im not good enough for anybody, and i cant talk to anyone cause people would just go ahead and think that im lying and just say "i hope you feel better again". like how tf is that going to help bro. i dont know how much longer im gonna be able to handle this anymore, please, just someone help.
and i obviously wasted your time if you read this.
Hey, I read it all. And im sorry that you went through all of this, and still are. This sounds horrible. It does get hard and Im proud of you for being here. Just know that you're not a failure. I bet you've been through a lot. And never received the support you needed. Always being called out for the stuff that goes wrong, but never complimented for the stuff that goes well. Whatever it was that your parents promised you ,you will get it one day. You will. Don't give up, you're awesome💜
hello @Addylee Huigenbos, and @Vortte Voror
i’m sorry i didn’t reply to you both at the time you posted your reply
i was going through a lot those times, but now i’m starting to get happy
i’m finally spending time with my family snd friends, with no worry.
my feelings are still not fully fixed, but i’m doing better
thank you both for your concerns 💕
You're not worthless and you ARE loved. I may not know you but I do care I feel genuinely sad for you and I will pray for you. I just want to give you a hug. Everything is gonna be okay
I feel for u I hope u feel better now, good luck in ur life!
i read all of it. you’re good enough. you didn’t waste my time. you’re not perfect, no one is. not even im perfect. everyone makes mistakes. please, don’t cry. please, don’t commit. promise me. promise me you won’t sh. promise me you won’t give up. promise me that you won’t EVER stop loving yourself. if you already stopped loving yourself, let me get some bandages and we can bandage up your heart together. im so sorry you went through that. i can and will hug you through the internet. 🫂
I’m gonna vent here a bit. TRIGGER WARNING
Everyday I tell people: “I’m fine” even when I’m deadass crying. I’ve been bottling up my emotions since I was 6 and even though nobody bullies me, I cry every night because of my own standard, my own guilt, my own pity, my own judgement. And it’s too hard for me. It’s like every night I put an extra 2 pounds on my shoulder and carry it until I can’t take any more pressure. Everyone at school thinks I have the perfect life becuase I have friends and straight A’s. But that’s not the case. I get called ugly all the time. And I also have thought projections. (Which is a condition where you think everyone can see/hear your thoughts) and hypersexuality and I’m SICK OF IT. IM SICK OF ALL OF IT.
I hope ur life is going well know. If ppl don’t understand ur deppressed then they don’t desserve u. Good luck with ur life!
It’s gonna be OK
I am late but I just realized I have thought projections too. Once you explained it, I was like "That is excactly how I feel!" I am always in class and I feel like everyone is reading my mind. I am scared to think anything other then what I want people to see me as. I am sick of it also.
Same also even tho most people are nice to me it's just my own judgement and guilt that brings me down I can't remove it
2:36
I honestly relate to this so much. When I was younger I was silly, I laughed and played with other kids my age, I loved EVERYONE. But by the time I was seven I was pressured to grow up because of mental and physical abuse, if I wasn't good enough I was told that I was "useless", "such a bitch", "not good enough". So I tried to grow up faster, by the time I was 9 I was making myself lunch and breakfast (burn scars and cut scars still riddle my hands and knuckles), I was shoving my toys in the closet in garbage bags, I deprived myself of movies and things that kids all around me were still able to enjoy. By the time I was in the third grade I was so out of the loop of what was at the time modern culture, that I was ostracized and bullied. I kept my grades up, I worked hard, I never got in trouble, I was never TRYING to be the bad kid, but I was treated so poorly that when someone was cruel to me I was cruel to them.. I remember punching one of my bullies square in the face after she slapped me, because I was so sick and tired of her berating me and telling me to act like all the other girls, "wear dresses", "quit it with the jeans", "god your such a pain, why can't you be quiet like everyone else". And whenever I told my mom how much I didn't like this girl it was apparently MY FAULT that I didn't want to be like them and was getting bullied.
I kept trying to be better but I was so tired of it that I stopped caring in middle school, I wasn't good enough, just not good enough for my mom. And now I'm not good at all. I swear, I get so angry people stay away from me, I threaten people with violence if they're even to close in my personal bubble. I tried to be good enough and it didn't work my whole life, so now.. I'm not good at all.
I relate to you a lot, dude..I hope it gets better for you, and that you can find a way to enjoy life, because living up to expectations rlly just isn't worth it. It's not getting any better for me, so I'm praying it'll get better for you. Venting on a holiday is so sad, I hope next time you can actually enjoy the holidays and get your mind off of the bad things you've experienced in life.
you know, trauma dumping isnt cool.
@@bl1xtar388 soooo why are you on a vent video????
It is venting. It helps get things off of people's shoulders. It is allowed in my comments for all of my videos. If you don't like it, you have the option to leave my channel. People are allowed to vent on here and I'm glad they decide to do they can get things off of their chest or shoulders and reach out for help or feel safe here. This is a safe place for people of all kinds to vent
@@asherthewolfyt you never said that, its also not your content, and im pretty sure the people whos pain youre making content out of dont appreciate people trauma dumping on them. but ok!
Dang these are so freaking true-..
And whoever have this problem…just know your amazing the way you are!!!..-
this whole thing is my life
6:11, this is how I sometimes feels, with some of my friends :( and ive been feeling a lot of this in the video .
I'm sorry you feel this way. Is there anything I can do to maybe cheer you up? Even if it's just a little bit? Because someone as important, loved, and cherished as you deserves to be listened to and cared about.
@@asherthewolfyt thank you! But I don’t really know what to do right now im just falling behind in school, losing motivation, and overall I feel worse than ever. But thank you :)
@@georgewashingmachine8121 Well I'm always here if you need to vent,talk, or just want someone to hang out and chat with. It doesn't have to be when something's wrong, I'm willing to chat all the time no matter what the situation! ❤️
@@asherthewolfyt Awh thank you! It’s nice to know there’s somebody there :)
@@georgewashingmachine8121 of course! I'll always be here!
The sad thing is that everyone relates to 6:11 so much even I do, I’m sorry who ever is the therapist Friend and can’t express there feelings. You all deserve so much better.
I seen that avatar everywhere wowwww I love this
3:30 i agree with this so much. ppl in my school ask me why i always have it on. and the one time it fell off i felt so insecure and someone was staring at me :(
Same
To whoever is reading:
Your skin isn't paper don't cut it
Your size isn't a book don't judge it
Your heart isn't a door don't lock it
Your life isn't a movie don't end it
You're beautiful and don't allow anyone tell you otherwise..💜💙💛
Thank you
Even though that comment is cherry picked, i still appreciate you trying to help thank you
@@SingleIsFreedom YOU STOLE THE BAGELS?!
@@venthome9680 ye-
@@SingleIsFreedom AND I CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT?!
thank you so much i needed this to cry...
Am I the only one who when someone sounds upsett whith me I get genuinely scared and when they ask you a question and you just start to stutter then just stair at the floor while replaying how they will hate you forever and spred rumors about you?
i dont even get questions. But yes very relatable
I’m gonna share an experience I’ve had... so I’m a little over weight and I finally stopped telling my self “omg you’re so fat..” I wore baggy clothes all the time but stopped. I had a crush on this kid named David and he told his friend group I was fat and I stopped going to school and when I showed up I wore baggy clothes I cried myself to sleep every night because of him. Moral of the story don’t let people define you, you’re perfect just the way you are. Be you and don’t let people change that :). Thanks for reading
i'm so happy you realized that you should be who you are. thank you so much for sharing your experience; it must've been tough. but you got through it!! i am proud of you!
@@charlie9632 THIS COMMENT MADE ME CRY
@@francescasoldevere7297 aww!! i hope i made you happy!!! i wish you very well in life and i hope you have a wonderful day or night!!
@@charlie9632 you did!!! I wish you very well in life as well! Have an amazinf day or night too!!!!
@@francescasoldevere7297 aww thank you!! :D
I can relate to all of these so much, that i'm crying a puddle right now.
Awwh I feel for you, I hope ur better now! Good luck in ur life
It’s upsetting how relatable these are
I love vent tiktoks now. It's very comfortable when you let out your feelings 😁😁😁😁
ik its a vent but it was funny to see genshin references
at least that i know of
Yeah
2:40 I really felt that right into my chest
nooo! you are good enough. you are more than good enough. don't bring yourself down because of what they say! you don't deserve the pain or trauma you're going through. you're the perfect person you can be at this time.
😁
Ur perfect even what other says. I just know ur perfect I can feel it. I may be young but ur perfect. Goodluck in ur life
I can for sure agree with the one we’re it says you let your emotions get in the way
I like watching these compilations because thee is always like 1 I can relate to in the whole video
I can relate to all of these
Why. Can I relate to the first one
The grade one and the being perfect ones are the the ones I can really relate too, I've also been not feeling good about my body, I've been skipping meals just to get skinnier and my grades are starting to plummet to the bottom again I ditched my best friend for grades and now my life is miserable + I have a eating disorder and I REALLY do wanna be somebody else.
My life in a nutshell , thx for showing it
1:29 is so relatable.
venting a bit :)
Once I was having a bad day, someone said “Hi how are you!” I just said “good” because I couldn’t straight up say “bad” or anything because I felt like it would be rude.
I feel like I’m not good enough, I’m annoying and my mum says I complain a lot. I don’t eat a lot but I’m a little overweight, I hope it goes away.
oh, I hope your okay!! There are people to talk to if you want to vent!
I can see ur a kind hearted person. Ur perfect. Good luck in ur life.
Fr the first one expressed my feelings for me
.....
Even after all if this has happened to me, I still smile..
And you know what, I may not be perfect for my mom..but at least I tried, Its like shes still here....
R.I.P mom...
Hi! I’m very young and still developing and I just need to vent to someone. Basically my entire life I’ve been fat shamed, bullied, etc. I learned to trust no one. And my own parents make me feel like I’m a dumb fat loser. I’ve always compared myself to literally any girl who walks past me. I always talk about how pretty they are and I’m not. But listen. I get it I’m someone you don’t even know! And I’m a minor. But you’re beautiful and no one’s perfect and just know I don’t know you but, I’m here for you.
I'm here for you as well! And you don't have to trust or believe me, and that's perfectly fine! You have your reasons just as I have mine! But please know I'm here if you ever need me and your always welcome to vent in my videos! < 3
@@asherthewolfyt thank you so much! I am happy that I may not know people online, but they’re better than the people I actually know. Thank you so much
the fact your parents are encouraging the bodyshaming is absolutely immature of them. they need to start respecting and loving you for who you are, not bully you for your appearance. you have a wonderful personality and are beautiful inside and out. don't listen to what others say, and don't compare yourself to other women. that'll only make you feel less self-confident. you *are* more pretty than them.
you call us beautiful and all these kind titles, but not yourself? darling, learn to love yourself for who you strive to be and your generous personality. you are being the best version of yourself you can be, so don't push yourself too hard trying to be like others. make a change and be yourself.
@@venthome9680 thank you so much 💕
@@asherthewolfytur nit fat ur perfect and the if u think ur ugly ur wrong. Vent to me whenever u want. Good luck in ur life
Is it a problem that I relate to all of this? Because these are the things I’m going through or went through. And to let you know in fucking sucks.
No, it's not a problem please don't think it is. You aren't a problem, and you aren't worthless. You aren't fat, you aren't overreacting, and you aren't the bad guy. Please don't make your self feels this way. Please make sure to not over work yourself. ( Have a good day or night)
Thank you
These made me cry so hard
I cried making them. But sometimes, it's just better to let the tears out ❤️
@@asherthewolfyt yeah x
Anyone else have a sensory overload? Yeah.. it hurts. I wouldn't stop crying for a hour even after the noise stopped. Mainly because I try my best to socialize, but I get screamed at.(loud noises I could usually tolerate unless directly.) 9:05 meanwhile is my response to my family or anyone that judges me. A lot of my skills are lacking so some things for "regular" people may be easy for them, but is challenging for me. 6:11 I also had alot of friends leave me. Not to mention I had a REALLY hard start in life. Still living through the consequences. I hate it. I still live through the nightmares of R@pe. I was also bullied, too.
Yea...me too
Awhhh I feel for you, or it’s easy for me to say. Good luck in ur life perfect person
I relate to the social anxiety one.. bc I do hate myself and I always think everyone hates me.. but I also do have Sucidial thoughts.. (idk what else to say-)
Awhhh I feel for u I hope u feel better now!good luck with ur life
I hope u feel better and u are a blessing to this world.
All the tiktoks in this video that i can relate to:
0:01
0:12
0:48 (this video made me cry)
1:07
1:30 (also made me cry)
2:06
2:16
3:29 (especially the "all eyes are on you" part)
3:44
4:03
4:20
4:32
5:00 ( also made me cry)
5:32
6:13
6:27 (WATERFALL TIME!)
7:15 (still waterfall time)
7:41 (waterfall time part 3)
8:01 (waterfall time part 4)
8:16 (waterfall time part 5)
8:30 (waterfall time part 6)
8:53 (waterfall time part 7)
9:06 (waterfall time part 8)
9:26 (waterfall time part 9)
9:52 (waterfall time part 10)
10:07 (intense waterfall time part 1)
10:22 (intense waterfall time part 2)
Man i just realized i need help
Same
I am liking this artist's style!
2:37 and hey, Spinel from Stvene Universe :'0
Haha…..
*HELLO FELLOW STEVEN UNIVERSE FAN😃*
*IVE FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE*
I relate to every tiktok this has shown me
0:01 is relatable very much to me. that’s all my mom thinks of me
I can relate to it very much
Finally I found someone who goes through the same thing every single day
I cry every day night because of all the yelling now when someone yells at me I start to cry and I try so hard not too but in school it’s so hard but sometimes u have to push through and go on I can’t do anything but cry I can’t do any better when I’m mad I cry I get frustrated with everything, everyone that’s the problem with me I get my emotions get to me... especially my brother Emilio he messes me up he messes with me I so sick and tired I try to be nice but I just get so frustrated with him he always makes me cry I just get so made and start crying he messes me up...
Vent!!
I didn’t know I would take the break up this hard honestly. But now I know how f*cking hard it is, turns out that whole year with her meant absolutely nothing. How could she let go so easily? And why for such a horrible reason, all I can think about is the fact that she would choose a girl she’s known for 2 months over the girl whose been loving her unconditionally for a year. I wonder if she’s sobbing her eyes out right now too? Or am I the only one who can’t get over the fact that I never really mattered.
Right now I’m holding on to the first stuffed animal she gave me, the others I threw right in the trash. I know that this one is the only one I can trust she gave to me when she was in love.
Awhhh I feel for you, I may not know how it feels for you but I think I do and it’s hard. Good luck with ur life perfect person!
No fr like the exact same thing happened w my ex. Makes you wonder if they really felt what you felt the entire time 😕
Why are they so relatable...
100th sub
4:32 really speaks to me, I can relate to it so many levels, I was bullied constantly every SINGLE day for years and I still do get bullied, NOBODY helped me bc I was/still is ugly, NOOND cared, they just told me to deal with it myself.. I NEARLY got suspended for standing up to myself around the second year of getting bullied, did anyone who bullied me got in trouble NO! they didn't, only I did for standing up for myself when I gotten P*shed up the stairs, P*shed down the stairs, people put gum on my hair, people P*shed me in the sh@rp bit of the pole where I was bl**ding, and had Bru!ses, people b@nged my head on the pole very h@rd, got c@lled names, gotten CH*cked and did ANYONE stand up for me?? NO! NOONE CARED!! sorry for the venting abit that wasn't even all of the bulling or even what happens to me but sorry for venting I just needed to get this off my chest
you're not ugly. they're all just too blind to see how beautiful you really are. people need to understand that appearances do NOT matter. it's all about personality. so don't be hard on yourself because of bullies. they're idiots and you don' deserve to be verbally or physically abused by them. never apologize for venting, you can at your own free will.
whoever the principals of those schools you attended are, they're terrible at their job. you're supposed to go to school to learn and be educated, not shoved around like some object. the fact the bullies weren't punished and you were is absolutely insane. i can't do anything about it, but i do hope you're doing better. you should transfer to another school, heck another state! this is absolutely atrocious behavior.
Your perfect. I hope ur better now. Good luck with ur life!
(This is just me sharing my experiences and some TikTok’s I found relatable)
0:48
This commonly happens at my dads house and they treat it as a joke and laugh it off. My grandma got mad at me one time cuz I started eating a lollipop and she said “stop eating so much candy, your always eating sweets”
3:29
My friends are usually telling me to show my face in FaceTime or to send them pictures and when I tell them no they start trying to persuade me, me and my friend literally got into a argument about it but it’s good now cuz she apologized.
5:32
Every time I wake up and have to go to school, I’m always thinking this.
6:27
I’m always doing this, now everyone around me is telling me I’m going to fail. But it’s also cuz I’m really busy taking care of my siblings, although to them (my parents) it’s “not an excuse”.
6:52
My family is always doing this, their always comparing me and my siblings to other people or each other.
7:13
This is always happening when I go out in public, I always feel like their severely judging me even though their strangers and they don’t know me.
I relate to the ones that are like talking about being a achiever. I got a 60 on a quiz before. Of course my family judged me and made fun of me for not being “smart” like my sisters. It hurt a lot because my mother would say when I ask her who is her favorite, “I love my kids equally!”. Even though she compared my grades to my other sister. She would sometimes say, “How come you didn’t get a good grade? Your older sister got A+ when she was your age!”. It hurt a lot because they obviously had a favorite but just lying to me so I don’t feel bad. She is a lovely person though.
Awhhh I feel for u! I hope u feel better now, good luck with ur life
Why are these so relatable:(
okay i was getting a bit emotional but when I saw Xiao and Childe at 2:28 I laughed so hard
Yh, good luck in ur life!
Same💀
Realest
I know it’s been 5 months but I just rlly need to vent rn. I just spent about a couple hours and a drawing, I showed it to my friends but. They said it looks ugly and I haven’t improved. And, I really wanted to learn art. I tried so hard, just to satisfy them. But, their my only friends and besties.. We made a promise as well, I feel so guilty thinking this and I’m really stupid for considering to abandon them. They vent to me, but when I want to vent to them. I feel scared, so freaking scared and I can’t anymore. They also have disorders like me, social anxiety, OCD, ADHD, and such. That’s why I feel so guilty, but I feel so .. so lonely. With my social anxiety I can’t do sh*t as simple as making friends. But even if I do, I end up losing them. I should really respect them because jokingly I said that “ur not nice” , they said they prevented a person from committing suicide. That sh*t hurt me because, my other friend. Who, who, who freaking wanted to commit told me. I gave them all my support at that moment yet, I couldn’t f*cling do it. ONE SIMPLE THING!!! I FEEL SO GUILTY. Suicide is not an option for me as well, I, can’t. I want to break into tears rn for all my mistakes that are MY FAULT, my freaking fault. I want to become a big vtuber/ gamer and a artist. And I have tried for SO. MANY. YEARS. And I still, can’t do s*hit ..
ILYSM whoever you are, please. Don’t be like me .. < / 3
Doesn't matter how long it's been, your welcome and safe here ❤️ and I'm sorry you went through that's and it doesn't take just 2 days to improve over time, you will get better and I believe you are improving as you go on. I'm sorry for everything. Those friends may not be actually friends. And even though you may not even know me, I will try to be here when I can ❤️ your important and you don't deserve all the pain your going through. Yes, bad times may come, and some can come all at once and be very overwhelming. But it gets better. They are obstacles to help you get stronger and get better. It may not seem like it, but it will. I'm not going to say trust me or anything like that, as it sounds forced. And many people do not trust well, and that's okay. So just take my word for it, over time, it does get better. You just have to try and help it get better, and you'll get there ❤️ you can do it! I believe in you! Don't let anything or anyone bring you down! Your strong and can get through a lot! You have to believe in yourself as I believe in you! ❤️ Please don't give up! If you give up, you never give it the chance to get better ❤️ if you need anything, your always welcome here! ❤️ Your amazing, worthy of love, kindest, and deserve to be cared about. You are not worthless, or useless, or anything like that. Your amazing, and can do so much more than you believe you can! ❤️
Tysm.. I really needed that. I cry every day because of my stress so this really helped my. Again tysm, I bless you, your family and all the others. Ty
@@hikari143 no problem! In always here if you need it! And I bless your family, friends, anyone in your life your close to ❤️ if you ever need anyone to talk to, I can try to be here to the best of my ability ❤️
I hope you will be okay. Life is so hard and those “friends” don’t seem that real you should also drink water and relax hope you have a nice day
8:23 is painfully the same except it will be for hours on end, because past stuff gets brught up and once that conversation starts, its like reliving it all over again.
1:29 I felt this in school yesterday and I cried
hey sorry but whats the song in the second one? it's calming
I wish i could't talk because i will always say the wrong things that it makes people sad and i wish i didn't say it. yea i'm smart and nice but i don't have friends. so why do i still try my best when nobody will see and care i just want people to understand what i have to do through. ugh i wish i could dieeee. im really bad person:( if you read all of this thank you i hope you don't have what i go through like ever and forever bye person:)
You are loved and cherished more than you think my child. Things may go wrong. And it's a part of life! Its normal. And I will be your friend if you don't have any! And I see it. And I care. Even if nobody else does. People may not exactly understand, but they try their hardest to be there for you. You are important to me. You are needed here on this earth. And if you left, people would be devistaded. And you may think your a bad person, but other people think your an amazing person! I am one of those people that think your amazing! I have depression and have had it for a couple years. I can try to understand what your going through, but may not entirely. But even after all of this, please just remember, you are loved, needed, and cherished. You are important to more people than you think. I will always be here If you need to talk ❤️ just dm me on any of my other social medias and I will gladly respond and help you! Please don't be afraid to reach out for help! There may not be many people, but I hope I can be one of those people to help you. And I promise I will try to help you as much as I can ❤️ Stay safe my child
@@asherthewolfyt TYSM i go through anxiety disorder and thank you for cheering me up ill always dm u if i feel sad even though i don't know where dm but thank you. iI hope you will also get out of your depression also thank you for being my friend. Stay safe also my new friend:) Plss makee more of thiiss
It’s ok I deal with this too but we can go through it together and maybe it won’t hurt as much :)
@@yourrandomgirl maybe! :) Well, either way I'll be by your side to help you!
this video just exposed my life❤👏
8:12 is the one I relate too the most only the reason it happens is different and I’m getting signs of social anxiety 👍
For real tho,I feel like I'm never good enough
You are good enough! No matter what! You are loved and cared about! And if you ever need anybody, I'm here! I'll always be here!
@@asherthewolfyt I love that you are making sure everyone in the comments are ok
@@yoshilol5686 of course. I care about everyone. They are like my children. I care about them and want to make sure they feel safe, loved, important, cared about, ect. I want to be there for people who may not have people like that in their lives and/or need somebody in their life to support them when there is no ody else there. I will be that person ♥️
This is similar to the pinned comment:
Your beautiful! No matter what anyone says! I'm the therapist of my old friend group yet i have more problems then half of them, but feel free to vent to me! I'll try my best to advise you but its really your choice what you would like to do with your situation! So your beautiful! You aren't perfect, Nobody is, Your amazing! Also please do not copy my older sister and attempt suicide, (she survived by the way) theres someone out there who cares for you! Like me! Bai
Thank you, this made my day! Ur perfect
I literally started sobbing at one of these vids 😗
To all the people who feel like this, I’m sorry. I can also relate to this stuff. With me I’m always anxious and insecure and I care about people think, it’s really not the best, I wish for ur live to get better if u feel like this. Ilysm Y/N. 🤍
I really felt the first one
I can relate to 3:30 a lot.
Same :)
Facial dysmorphia be like:
Brain: “you your face is ugly af”
Me: yes indeed and I wish not to show it
Humanity: *show it moron-*
Same
8:36 Ow that is way too relatable...
I literally apologize for not eating…
I apologize for too much :(
@@thetaylorverse I get that, I apologise for basically everything. What's worse is that ppl get made when I do say sorry.
I imagine my younger self talking to me and I would tell her that she’s lied to and used. That she’s too young for those things to happen. And she has to protect her sister. That I’m sorry for not being brave enough to be what I want or deceive. I’m sorry that you have to relate. I relate too.
damn.. this video made me cry.
3:30 this is so relatable however when I took my mask off everyone made fun of my nose or my face in general so I still wear a mask
Dude that first one hits a little to hard…
Yup, and probably always will
10:22 that's the most relatable one for me yet... Heh
that first one is just me alone in my room talking to a mirror. i feel like the origin story of the villiain when i do that.
I’m going to give a vent.
I don’t know how much longer I can live like this. My childhood is almost non-existent. I never traveled or went on vacation. I relied on shows. I’m always pressured. I get forced to do extracurricular activities that I NEVER wanted to do. I feel as if everybody is picking apart everything I do. I get pressured into getting straight A’s. No 98%, only 100%. If I don’t want to get yelled at, I have to lie. My parents always try to pressure me. I get told I eat too much. I’ve started to skip breakfast, barely eating my lunch. I’ve been running on very few hours of sleep. I can’t tell anyone about this because they’ll judge me or think I’m faking for attention. Im sick of it. I bottle up my emotions, even if it hurts.
Mind if I vent for a second? My dad grew up in a shitty household, and that made a big impact on his life. He was surrounded by abusers, and alcohol. So, when he had kids, he became just like his father. He would threaten to beat me and my brother if we had done anything slightly wrong. My brother Nicholas has autism. My dad constantly picks on him if Nicholas doesn't understand what he said, or other things. He is also terrible to his wife. I have tried to vent to my friends who say it's ok to vent to them, but they act like I'm an annoyance. I just want to feel happy when I go home at the end of the day. I get sexually harassed at school Aswell and I'm just so sick of it.
I can relate. My father is an absolute fucking mess up. He drinks. His mother barely even knew how to take care of kids. He drank for years, whenever he was high on alchohol he’d rant and even sometimes threaten me that he’ll hit me. Also whenever something is wrong with my mental health he says ‘ItS bEcAuSe Of YoUr IpAd’ or ‘Do YoU wAnT mE tO tAkE yOuR iPaD’ like. This man is making me so close to losing my mind. I am sick of my life.
I'd reply to this but I keep on pressing cancel instead of reply cuz I'm crying help, my parents weren't ever too abusive towards me, just their parents treated them like shit
6:35 I literally relate to this one so much I. So bad at procrastinating🥲
*It’s sad*
1st one is very relatable