On Treating Women in Islam - Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan

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  • čas přidán 18. 05. 2017
  • One of the most misunderstood ayat of the Quran is in Surah An-Nisa. This is a classic example of how a passage, taken out of context leads to false claims against the word of Allah. In this khutbah, Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan stresses that we can't read aya 34 without considering what came before and after it. He teaches us that the idea of a man's ‘qawama’ over a woman has nothing to do with authority and everything to do with being a constant caretaker and supporter of women. We only need to look at the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and how he treated his wives to learn that hitting was never a part of it.

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  • @hafsahussein365
    @hafsahussein365 Před 5 lety +643

    I really hope I don’t end up in an emotionally/psychologically abusive marriage.. I pray my future husbands family are also good people. May Allah make me an exceptional wife who’s the coolness of my husbands eyes. Aameen

    • @ayansbusiness9323
      @ayansbusiness9323 Před 5 lety +4

      Ameen

    • @umfatima2810
      @umfatima2810 Před 5 lety +16

      Ameen Ya Rabbih and grant you a righteous children ameen

    • @detoxlady6777
      @detoxlady6777 Před 5 lety +3

      Hafsa.You poor thing. You will never be able to please a man. Islam is dead wrong. I left it or I would have been dead by now at the hands of my husbands family. In Pakistan a woman dies every day at the hands of her husband or her in-laws. Don't think you can make these people happy, you cannot. It is the religion of Satan.

    • @NaughtyTroll
      @NaughtyTroll Před 5 lety +19

      Detox Lady 😂😂😂😂😭😂😂😭😭😂😭 you’re a joke and a munafiq. I’m sorry but you can never bring Islam down.

    • @Lexcepcion
      @Lexcepcion Před 5 lety +1

      Detox Lady please listen before you comment. Thanks

  • @Mahirakhan-tu4by
    @Mahirakhan-tu4by Před 7 lety +583

    You're the only Pakistani scholar I know who doesn't turn harsh when say something about women.
    You really help me understand what Allah actually talks about women.
    Subhan Allah

    • @celestial5036
      @celestial5036 Před 6 lety +35

      Mahira khan check out mufti menk as well. He's an amazing scholar like him

    • @tabrazbaloch
      @tabrazbaloch Před 6 lety +11

      tariq jamil is also good

    • @tabrazbaloch
      @tabrazbaloch Před 6 lety +6

      Ethereal Fantasy mufti menk isn't Pakistani though.

    • @similenotsmile4983
      @similenotsmile4983 Před 6 lety +16

      Mahira khan- Well then just check out Arab or African scholars. There are so many. Don't focus on their race, just what they say.

    • @UA-ki1vg
      @UA-ki1vg Před 5 lety +21

      @True Observation I am not sure that you can back up women being compared to animals by Muhammad PBUH with anything authentic. The concept of a caretaker is related to chivalry, women can work in islam and they can consent to sexual intercourse. I am a muslim woman and I feel empowered by Islam, I am not a sex slave. My culture can oppress me but my religion does not.

  • @idrismj8073
    @idrismj8073 Před 7 lety +561

    Nouman Ali khan.... What a man. Always someone to look up to. May Allah continue to guide us all.

    • @msalum_
      @msalum_ Před 7 lety +1

      Idris Mj Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

    • @amc200555
      @amc200555 Před 7 lety

      Sometimes the truth hurts more than a lie.

    • @kazansami1
      @kazansami1 Před 7 lety +6

      We should always look up only to Muhammad (peace be upon him), because the person to look up to should be the best of mankind. Thank you brother.

    • @kazansami1
      @kazansami1 Před 7 lety +1

      Peace be upon you

    • @AA-wd3in
      @AA-wd3in Před 7 lety

      Sami Kazan stfu

  • @Ansariya
    @Ansariya Před 7 lety +271

    I feel blessed to be a woman. I will do my utter best to raise my sons to grow up to become real caretakers of their wife... in every single way. This should become commun knowledge, enough of the ridiculous way of cultural abuse of all women, mothers, daughters, sisters.... ENOUGH!!!
    Thank you Nouman for all your efforts.

    • @redmaple8304
      @redmaple8304 Před 6 lety +1

      You going to raise your sons to be like Muhammad? Muhammad hit his wife Aisha and laughed when Abu Bakr smacked his wives Aisha and Hafsa. -Sahih Muslim 4:2127 and 9:3506. Going to raise your sons to look down upon women as having half the worth of a man, who can rape their wife because there is no such thing as spousal rape?

    • @mohammadrizwaan1890
      @mohammadrizwaan1890 Před 6 lety +20

      You referenced 2 hadiths, the forst one 4:2127, The prophet here is not trying to harm aiesha or discipline her, the hadith clearly displays that Aiesha was simply playing and following the prophet and that is why it is narrated by her in sahih muslim
      Aisha reported:
      مَا ضَرَبَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ خَادِمًا لَهُ وَلَا امْرَأَةً وَلَا ضَرَبَ بِيَدِهِ شَيْئًا
      The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, did not strike a servant or a woman, and he never struck anything with his hand.
      Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2328, Grade: Sahih
      With the second source, The porphet i believe laughed at the spanking khaadiga's daughter recieved when he the prophet asked for money, so there was simply confusion here, Abu Bakr thought the daughter was asking for money, however she wasn't so it was a you could call a harsh joke, btw a slap to the neck is similar to when a mate slaps you on the back as tough love or whatever.
      Also the prophet asked both Abu Bakr and Umar to be kind with their daughters.
      A husband no where in islam can force himself on his wife. Pleases show me where you get this absurd claim.

    • @UA-ki1vg
      @UA-ki1vg Před 5 lety +2

      @@redmaple8304 Twins equate to two no? Women are the twins halves of men, doesn't two halves equal one? Men and woman are equal in the eyes of Allah but are created differently.

    • @redmaple3727
      @redmaple3727 Před 5 lety

      Well, it doesn't matter because your sacred Koran says wife beating is permissible in Koan 4,34. I quoted Sahih Hadiths too. Another Sahih Hadith shows that Aisha said she has not seen so much suffering as the believing women when Aiha saw a girl beaten green, and instead of Muhammad admonishing her husband for doing so, he told her to go back to him.
      Koran 2:223, where it talks about a woman being like land that he can have when and how he wants. And the Sharia Manual, Reliance of the Traveller, which is upheld by the prestigious Sunni University Al Azhar mentions that part of the marriage contract is to provide sex for your husband so even if she don't want to.
      And you don't respect women, even if you say a smack is okay. What part of no physical violence on a women do you not understad, Coward? Poor excuse.

    • @redmaple3727
      @redmaple3727 Před 5 lety +1

      Ulfah, what are you talking about, twins? The relationship of a man and womn as dictated in the Koran and by the words of Muhammad is that women is half the worth of a man, that their testiomny is half that of a man's and that she lacks intelligence and religion. Men and Women are only judged as equal on the day of judgement.

  • @safaaarabiyyah3902
    @safaaarabiyyah3902 Před 7 lety +362

    I wish I could have a father like him.

    • @ahmadnaqvi9939
      @ahmadnaqvi9939 Před 6 lety +30

      dont worry. you will have a husband like him...:)

    • @StudySavvyy
      @StudySavvyy Před 6 lety +1

      Can I ask you do u belive in men beating their women with toothbrush.

    • @princesszeldaprincess447
      @princesszeldaprincess447 Před 5 lety +3

      @@StudySavvyy
      It's not wrong what's wrong is when you beat your wife till she is black and blue which in Islam is haram(sin) for husband to beat his wife black and blue

    • @StudySavvyy
      @StudySavvyy Před 5 lety +5

      @@princesszeldaprincess447 yea right, but should a man beat her anyways be it even a toothbrush?

    • @MrAdhi-yz2fl
      @MrAdhi-yz2fl Před 5 lety +18

      @@StudySavvyy brother in islam husband have no rights to beat her wife because Hadith says best of you is those who best to his wife.

  • @sylargrey9444
    @sylargrey9444 Před 5 lety +38

    Without a single piece of paper to read from... this is true dedication to knowledge

    • @sylargrey9444
      @sylargrey9444 Před 5 lety +8

      @ interesting, I've never felt two feelings at once before. I felt both hopeful and sad at the moment I finished reading your comment. Hopeful, that one day you will come to realistic terms and notice how not one word you've uttered will ever compare to a word in the Quran, and sad that if you don't, you may forever regret you didn't, and abide in Hell, unless The Merciful has mercy on you. God is good...

    • @detective01holmes10
      @detective01holmes10 Před 5 lety +2

      @@sylargrey9444 after I read John Higgens comments, I am feeling the same. Interesting.

    • @sylargrey9444
      @sylargrey9444 Před 5 lety

      @@detective01holmes10 thanks detective

    • @detective01holmes10
      @detective01holmes10 Před 5 lety

      @@sylargrey9444 you are welcome

  • @lovethedeen7421
    @lovethedeen7421 Před 7 lety +125

    Subhanallah, everytime I listen to a Khutbah it's as if Allah knew exactly what my heart wanted to hear. I needed this. Shukr to Allah, Shukran Ustadh.

  • @aminataummassya5404
    @aminataummassya5404 Před 4 lety +64

    You can sense that he practices what he teaches, it's not just in the mind. May Allah keep him straight.

  • @dan1a_636
    @dan1a_636 Před 3 lety +34

    Finding this video means so much to me in so many levels. 3 years ago when I was 14 my dad would use this specific aiya to tell me how when I marry I need to be submissive to my husband, would translate the قوامون to men are superior and use that to reflect his relationship with my mother and how she fails as a Muslim women because she wanted a divorce. I was 14 and I didn't think about searching it up and making sure of what the meaning is behind it and took my father's word starting to doubt my religion and faith because of how he would talk terribly of my mother and use this to further his toxic point so we think that my mother was this horrible person and he was right to go live with him.

    • @Miha-dg3cs
      @Miha-dg3cs Před 5 měsíci +1

      Cristian here, i have stoped going to chirch when i lost respect for my father.
      He said the bible said children should respect and listen to their parants.
      But in a very intitled way, wich left a bitter taste in my mouth.
      We have similar stories of faults...

    • @abdurrahmanmubasher9385
      @abdurrahmanmubasher9385 Před 5 měsíci +4

      ​@@Miha-dg3cs You are right... People use religion to justify their horrible acts.😢 It's disgusting.

    • @avrilmcintyre892
      @avrilmcintyre892 Před 2 měsíci

      Take care and don't allow anyone to mistreat you. Escape the world is your oyster

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny8872 Před 7 lety +215

    so DONT hurt her, don't change her, DONT try to analyze and DONT expect more than she can give, smile when she make you happy, Let her know when she makes you mad miss her when she's not there- bob marley
    DIVORCED ADVICE-
    most men arent smart enough to realize the higher you elevate your women, the less available she is for other men, when you break her down, you make her accessible to anyone she thinks will treat her better.

    • @lookattheflowers969
      @lookattheflowers969 Před 7 lety +4

      Pique NY Don't doesn't mean when you don't get treated right you start raise your gaze an stare at other men?! Allah doesn't like divorces stop making it a Norm we are not the west with a disgusting 60 percent with woman who aren't sexually satisfied going to start sleeping around normalising divorce culture is not preferable

    • @PsiensGate
      @PsiensGate Před 5 lety +2

      @@lookattheflowers969 A Divorce is only permissible twice: after that, the parties should either hold Together on equitable terms, or separate with kindness.It is not lawful for you, (Men), to take back any of your gifts (from your wives), except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah.If ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah, there is no blame on either of them if she give something for her freedom.These are the limits ordained by Allah.so do not transgress them if any do transgress the limits ordained by Allah, such persons wrong (Themselves as well as others). (Surah Al-Baqara, 229)

    • @libertiemeh8116
      @libertiemeh8116 Před 4 lety

      Pique NY this is SO TRUE !!!

    • @melompat
      @melompat Před 4 lety +1

      Cant ask her to do anything. Than why married then?

    • @thesyndicate3859
      @thesyndicate3859 Před 4 lety

      Love this really, really smart. It makes so much sense.

  • @gulshanmukhtar9651
    @gulshanmukhtar9651 Před 4 lety +12

    When I fed up with all so called scholar of Islam I try to listen his lecture it's give me peace.thank a lot.

  • @nazibahmaimun7817
    @nazibahmaimun7817 Před 3 lety +11

    I Don't know why but after listening this khutba i can't stop crying. SUBHAN ALLAH. ALLAH IS THE GREATEST.
    and Nouman Ali khan thank you so much for explaining these things so nicely. May Allah bless you with peace and happiness and jannah.
    And i wish i can show this video to every man on the earth. I JUST WISH.
    May Allah forgive us for every wrong thing we did and we are still doing in our life.

  • @fatimahasan7710
    @fatimahasan7710 Před 7 lety +168

    is he the only one of his kind.....amazed by him....

    • @MuslimsDiaryDawah
      @MuslimsDiaryDawah Před 7 lety +2

      Fatima Hasan
      Assalamu Alikum!
      Hello Dear Muslim Brothers and Sisters!
      Please help us to Grow up this islamic Channel by Subscribe and Share. We all Muslims Should United for Spreading Dawah. May Allah bless you All. JazakAllah Khairan.

    • @arfaouisami2955
      @arfaouisami2955 Před 5 lety +1

      there is salahudin ibn ibrahim in aksa mosque but he speak in arabic :D

    • @eishakhan9222
      @eishakhan9222 Před 4 lety +1

      Seems like

    • @user-bi7jz3rc3r
      @user-bi7jz3rc3r Před 4 lety +1

      Zakir.naik
      1in
      0.6

    • @kashifaarahams3787
      @kashifaarahams3787 Před 4 lety +2

      Nouman Ali Khan is 1 of the best to listen to.

  • @abdelbaasit1
    @abdelbaasit1 Před 7 lety +38

    4:44 Powerful verse: الذين جعلوا القرآن عضين _"They took the Quran and tore it to pieces."_

  • @rosapeaceetloves6649
    @rosapeaceetloves6649 Před 7 lety +20

    ma sha allah . ramadan mubarak everyone. im a converted muslim but i am a sinner. im not the perfect example 4 a muslim woman. thats why hmdl the lectures of brother ali nouman khan and mufti menk help me to be a better muslim and help others to understand islam better im the right way. there is no culture difference in islam. its all about allah swt and his will for human kind. hmdl for the knowledge

    • @scenesmasher7835
      @scenesmasher7835 Před 5 lety +2

      Masha Allah sister you have Reverted back to Islam Allah is the most merciful the beneficent the All Almighty!

    • @unknowngirl191
      @unknowngirl191 Před 3 lety +1

      everyone is a sinner
      but give ur best and repent
      may Allah bless u andmake it easy for u :D

  • @user-hj4ue6pq7r
    @user-hj4ue6pq7r Před 5 měsíci +2

    Scared of marrying someone..now marriage is so scary..

  • @usmanfarooq96
    @usmanfarooq96 Před 7 lety +79

    Highlight of the week!!!! Alhumdulillah may Allah bless you o uploader and may Allah bless you random scroller!

    • @n2alps
      @n2alps Před 7 lety

      Screw You Google typical of NAK fanboy to make a joke dua

    • @msalum_
      @msalum_ Před 7 lety

      Screw You Google Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

    • @miketaylor6764
      @miketaylor6764 Před 7 lety

      ;)

    • @Whatyousee1
      @Whatyousee1 Před 7 lety

      SalamWithISLAM
      What wrong with you?

  • @masudurrahmanmamun7664
    @masudurrahmanmamun7664 Před 7 lety +43

    MaaShaAllah. May Allah SWT give you the great reward for your awesome advice, dear Ostadh.

    • @msalum_
      @msalum_ Před 7 lety

      mamun masudur Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @Abeliever125
    @Abeliever125 Před 7 lety +2

    JazakAllahu Khairan for uploading khutbahs every week.

  • @alib7489
    @alib7489 Před 7 lety +35

    Yet another remarkable, insightful and enlightening speech from brother Nouman. Rarely in recent years has a scholar provided such knowledgeable, well thought out commentary on social issues. Jazakallah.

    • @msalum_
      @msalum_ Před 7 lety

      Ali Bari Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @m0tiii
    @m0tiii Před 7 lety +5

    Wow i have never heard somebody gave dakwah as great as Nouman does in my country, Indonesia, wow. Prayer to you Nouman

  • @ayeshazaidi4318
    @ayeshazaidi4318 Před 7 lety +94

    God bless you Nauman for these beautiful khutbas you give. You are my sons age and I envy your mother for having a son like you!

    • @blackwhite3628
      @blackwhite3628 Před 7 lety +19

      +Ayesha Zaidi
      Like everthing good, let us say *MAASHALLAH!* The "envy" language is not Islamic way of appreciating something good.

    • @muhammeds7199
      @muhammeds7199 Před 5 lety +8

      Ayesha, you should appreciate your sons, because they are blessings allah has given you.

    • @FurieMarie
      @FurieMarie Před 4 lety +3

      Sorry, but that's not fair to your sons! Imagine your mother saying "I wish I had a daughter like that."

  • @lornilula4213
    @lornilula4213 Před 4 lety +18

    May all men and women be granted a beautiful marriage. May we all be granted a character befitting of Ummah of Muhammad. May we all be granted steadfastness in our pursuit for Iman and Allah's blessing.

  • @SidraNeelum
    @SidraNeelum Před 3 lety +8

    Your explanations bring so much relief to us! :')

  • @mayamoisherif2833
    @mayamoisherif2833 Před 5 lety +3

    JazakAllah khair Nouman Ali Khan!
    May Allah continue to increase you knowledge and faith. Ameen

  • @seharajmal3426
    @seharajmal3426 Před 7 lety +8

    jazakumullah khair. May Allah guide us all ☺

  • @S.B1989
    @S.B1989 Před 7 lety +44

    Al hamdullilah he repeats this subject and the aya's of the Quran. because without proper tafseer nobody will understand it. As a woman I feel special because God gave us women hope and our rights. Even if a man in your life mistreads you. Rabbi yadhina. Ramadan mubarak if you read this.

  • @Muslimah49
    @Muslimah49 Před 7 lety +20

    Alhumdullah, this brother is so enlightening. May Allah continue to bless him.

    • @jbhiyari
      @jbhiyari Před 7 lety

      Ameen

    • @msalum_
      @msalum_ Před 7 lety

      Hafeethah Rahman Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @sufism1516
    @sufism1516 Před 5 lety +6

    I ask allah to give Nouman Ali what ever he wishs in this Life and the next. Amin

  • @Celentano79
    @Celentano79 Před 7 lety +1

    MashAllah. Mind blowing Khutbah. Jazakallahu khairan.

  • @noufissaa
    @noufissaa Před 7 lety +3

    You explain the subjects so clear and you have sabr hamdulilah to explain it to us. Thank you very much, I really appreciate it. I hope insha Allah, that Allah will help you continuing and develop this sabr and knowledge. Shokran

  • @Adishvian
    @Adishvian Před 7 lety +7

    👍Jazakumullah khoyr ustadz nouman ali khan and Bayyinah team

    • @msalum_
      @msalum_ Před 7 lety +1

      Adish vian Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

  • @salmanqureshi3361
    @salmanqureshi3361 Před 6 lety +3

    So true
    this is such a misunderstood topic in our religion
    May Allah guide us all to the truth
    Ameen.

  • @nassira0508
    @nassira0508 Před 7 lety +2

    I'm so excited to watch this

  • @corleone4036
    @corleone4036 Před 7 lety +1

    Barakallahou fik nak for all the work you do

  • @MohammedAhmed-es2ie
    @MohammedAhmed-es2ie Před 7 lety +1

    *(ما شاء الله تبارك الله)*
    * Masha Allāh Tabaraka Allāh,* may Allah reward you, *brother Nouman,* the best.

  • @mrittikawahid7652
    @mrittikawahid7652 Před 6 měsíci +2

    May Allah bless Ustad Nouman Ali Khan. His ability to deliver the teachings of the Quran is outstanding ❤

  • @ZARCSTUDIO
    @ZARCSTUDIO Před 7 lety +1

    MaaShaAllah. May Allah SWT give you the great reward for your awesome advice

  • @angamnagam8741
    @angamnagam8741 Před 5 lety +1

    I can understand what u say clearly n am so thankful am imagining when rasul aleh salat wasalam talk he was clear n he show everything that even the people that they didn't see they can feel it like they see it mashallah

  • @smshamsulislam3691
    @smshamsulislam3691 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow!We need more on these ...most people don't talk about these matters...so please make more kutbah and videos 🙏

  • @xoOhGoshiRockxo
    @xoOhGoshiRockxo Před 4 lety +5

    I was so lucky to meet him. Great guy

  • @rashidaperveen7553
    @rashidaperveen7553 Před 5 lety +1

    most beautiful khutba that i have ever heard . Allah bless you more knowledge.

  • @faridullahkhan53
    @faridullahkhan53 Před 6 lety +1

    Jazakaullahu khairaan brother, may Allah swt reward you. Nice explanations.

  • @sokhnambaye6624
    @sokhnambaye6624 Před 5 lety +59

    I have so much videos of him and Mufti Menk to show my future husband inshallah before getting married if it ever happens haha

  • @sakinamir5089
    @sakinamir5089 Před 7 lety +6

    share this lecture..
    our ummah needs such knowledge such enlightenment both men and women..

  • @monamasood5895
    @monamasood5895 Před 7 lety +1

    nouman ali khan lectures are comprehensive and realistic. his way of delivering his lecture is very impressive intellectual and efffective.

  • @ameenajaidad7613
    @ameenajaidad7613 Před 7 lety +1

    Jazak Allahu khairan kaseera.

  • @mayainc120
    @mayainc120 Před 7 lety +1

    Jizakallah, Man you inspire me. May Allah bless us all.

  • @badesabamir576
    @badesabamir576 Před 7 lety +1

    JazakaAllah kher brother

  • @ushionagisa8104
    @ushionagisa8104 Před 4 lety +5

    Thanks a lot for this videos !!! Please please if it is possible activate the subtitles in more languages. Not just in English, add them in Arabic and more if its possible. Because this videos are so helpful and valuable that i would love them to touch the live of more people, people that doesn't understand English too. Thank you!!!

  • @TH-ir5yt
    @TH-ir5yt Před 6 lety +2

    ALMIGHTY ALLAH'S MERCY &BLESSINGS BE WITH U BROTHERS Norman & Mufthi Menk-ALMIGHTY ALLAH'S MERCY AND BLESSINGS Also on The UMMAH For having Speakers like U among Us.ALLAHUAKBAR !

  • @F.sweet1
    @F.sweet1 Před 7 lety +2

    Much needed guidance! Thank you!!

  • @adeelali8417
    @adeelali8417 Před 6 lety +1

    Sub'haanAllah beautiful lecture Ustad NAK.

  • @barakahaad6245
    @barakahaad6245 Před 2 lety

    Alhamdulillah when I heard this I got peace in my heart

  • @ijazzzali
    @ijazzzali Před 7 lety +124

    Who else felt very honoured hearing this? sisters?haha :P

    • @msalum_
      @msalum_ Před 7 lety

      Ijaz Ali Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

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      @nbaownage Před 7 lety

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    • @mariamohib6247
      @mariamohib6247 Před 5 lety +1

      but 1 in 100 of mengive this honour to their women ..

    • @siddiqah89
      @siddiqah89 Před rokem +3

      @maria mohib not true!!
      I used to think this too until I married into a very good practising family alhamdulilah, he has 5 brothers, all like himself, and brother in laws too, all mashaAllah treating us like queens alhamdulilah.
      V different from my own family.......

  • @SillyKoala
    @SillyKoala Před 7 lety +72

    Nowadays, men are not men anymore, and women are not women anymore, that's why they don't accept this beautiful ayah. May Allah protect us and grant us wonderful relationships where each one is good for the other and behaves according to what pleases Allah سبحانة و تعالى

    • @CathyKitson
      @CathyKitson Před 6 lety +3

      What do you mean, men aren't men and women aren't women? What are they, then?

    • @waifu_png_pl6854
      @waifu_png_pl6854 Před 5 lety +2

      yeah, depending on men is the best part of being a female!

    • @xadam1964
      @xadam1964 Před 5 lety +3

      Beautiful aya? For telling men to beat their wives?

    • @Leil2221
      @Leil2221 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@xadam1964No ayah say beat women.

  • @loubnakhedimallah4755
    @loubnakhedimallah4755 Před rokem +3

    I really would like to have Arabic subtitles for theses khotbah... it's so different in a good true way that I wish everyone could listen and understand this

  • @SoAS26
    @SoAS26 Před 5 lety +24

    Ikr!!! Men treat their wives horribly...I know wives who ask money to buy groceries ..to feed their own children and the husband is like..I don't know ...don't you have that property rent money from the property your parents gave you? They don't take care of the wives when they are pregnant . Like. WTH ...how are you people even human. It makes my blood boil.

    • @benmuftyy9109
      @benmuftyy9109 Před 3 lety

      I am a brother and you are right

    • @benmuftyy9109
      @benmuftyy9109 Před 3 lety +6

      The only good men are men that fear ALLAH THE ALMOGHTY

    • @fatimakhatri1687
      @fatimakhatri1687 Před 3 lety +3

      Thats y u know sister there is a hadees i have read..Hazrat Ali RA said When you marry..marry a man who is god fearing because when he will love you he will honour you and when he will hate you he will not wrong you...when someone truly fears Allah their hearts gets filled up with humility and Allah increases them in consciousness of Him so they are mindful of their words and actions..n when they get slip off as they are humans they humble down and try to apologise and look for fixing things up...May Allah make us good wives to our husbands and may Allah give us god fearing husbands♥️

    • @fatimakhatri1687
      @fatimakhatri1687 Před 3 lety +7

      I can understand dear My own father abuses my mother like anything thats so horrible experience...He keeps on taunting her that she didnt bring anything in dahez...N he makes us beg for every single penny even after having so much money kept in the cupboard..He doesnt Allows my mother to even take 100 rs without his permission..even for essentials n kitchen stuff he will ask ten illogical questions before finally giving money..he makes us cry for fees of our college..even during eid he dont spend on his family with big heart...May Allah swt guide all of us💖

    • @unknowngirl191
      @unknowngirl191 Před 3 lety +4

      @@fatimakhatri1687 sister, may Allah bless your mother with jannat ul ferdous and knock some sense in your father's head. May Allah protect u all ameen

  • @salihanazley
    @salihanazley Před 7 lety +2

    Such a beautiful explanation...

  • @TheTransliterator
    @TheTransliterator Před 5 lety +1

    O! our Ustadh Nauman Ali Khan!! May Allah Subhanahu wa T'ala & His beloved Rasoolallah Sallallahu alehe wa alehe wasalam be pleased be with you!!

  • @MostafaMansoori
    @MostafaMansoori Před 7 lety +2

    Nicely explained with amazing analogies.

  • @sahilashabnam238
    @sahilashabnam238 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for your clear explanation. I have a request to you, please make a video on the explanation of Islamic rules of property distributions .....there's so much misclarifications people keep on giving us....I believe it will be really helpful if you can kindly make a video on it ....as your way of explaining things is very straightforward. May Allah grant us peace and guide us to the right path.

  • @olimalargal
    @olimalargal Před 7 lety +1

    Very sensitive point...which is often argued...especially in this modern society.. misunderstood meaning of this aayah is criticized badly by falseminds...but ..Maa shaa Allaah...brother..!!!bi fadhli rabbina u pondered the criticism and makes us to realize the "mavadhdhathan and rahmah-bond"through this word of Allaah.The growing,constant love..(qavvaamoon).accepting the talents of other's (fadhdhalna)..good deeds ,piety... honesty.(saslihaath,qaanithaath, haagidhaath).these are the great secrets of the happiest marriage life...All. these diamonds are bounded in this aayath...now we see the glitterings of joy behind this..jazaakumullaahu khairan brother for tackling this sensitive issue and for making it as a crown of islam..!!

  • @redouanenaoui8422
    @redouanenaoui8422 Před 7 lety +1

    inna llaha ya7komo mayashaa . My Allah bless u Nouman

    • @MuslimsDiaryDawah
      @MuslimsDiaryDawah Před 7 lety

      redouane naoui
      Assalamu Alikum!
      Hello Dear Muslim Brothers and Sisters!
      Please help us to Grow up this islamic Channel by Subscribe and Share. We all Muslims Should United for Spreading Dawah. May Allah bless you All. JazakAllah Khairan.

  • @towardslight4475
    @towardslight4475 Před 3 lety

    I love his narration ...bcz he make us Understand easily

  • @exploringworld5860
    @exploringworld5860 Před 5 lety +1

    So so amazingly explained.. Masha Allah Masha Allah...may Allah grant you more knowledge so u can explain more ..masha Allah.

  • @daniyahzx
    @daniyahzx Před 5 lety +1

    JazakAllah khair

  • @omermobashir2528
    @omermobashir2528 Před 7 lety +1

    Jazakallah khair ya ustaz

  • @aldijanahelac4764
    @aldijanahelac4764 Před 7 lety +15

    Assalamu alaikum dear ones, I know there is another one similar speech given by Ustadh, I believe in Malaysia. You can look it up, left me speechless, it is called ABUSE OF WOMEN! And yeah, Ustadh, may Allah subhanahu wa ta ala bless you and keep elevating your status on both worlds, you are a precious gift *

    • @msalum_
      @msalum_ Před 7 lety

      Aldijana Helać Aslamualeykum, PLEASE check out and subscribe to my channel, for beautiful islamic content! jazakallah (:

    • @angeldelight55
      @angeldelight55 Před rokem

      Walikumusalam

  • @bishnugogoi9729
    @bishnugogoi9729 Před 5 lety +1

    Great explanation Sir...hats off

  • @ridwanseidu626
    @ridwanseidu626 Před 5 lety +1

    Jazaakallahu khair

  • @SHabi-jb6bg
    @SHabi-jb6bg Před rokem +1

    Thank you for your excellent lecture on this ayah, in which I found an extraordinary whole beauty reconciling mind and heart, feeling and reason.
    I also noticed where Allah said "Wa'dribouhonnah...", I don't believe that Allah means "hit them...". This word has many derivatives and meanings and its usage depends a lot on the context. I believe a simple and logical interpretation here in this ayah would mean "to withdraw from them and go on strike to talk to them, respond, listen, etc", until they admit their actions and sincerely ask for an apology. And Allah knows best. Thank you.

  • @mrsahmed6387
    @mrsahmed6387 Před měsícem

    Thanks Ustad to teaching the meaning this specific ayat.

  • @yourlocalisfp
    @yourlocalisfp Před 3 lety +2

    "...this is the part of the ayah that is subject to a lot of controversy..." MashaAllah, I didn't hear anything controversial when Ustadh explained it. SubhanAllah

  • @hajiranabi5283
    @hajiranabi5283 Před 7 lety +1

    very nice advice may Allah bless this young man with more knowledge which Will benefit the ummeh .

    • @asmaaalami6818
      @asmaaalami6818 Před 4 lety

      I would have loved if he give more élaboration and explanation of the part of beating women!! Dribohona means literally something différent otherwise God would never ask to beat women!!!

    • @salmanshaik3839
      @salmanshaik3839 Před 3 lety

      Ameen

  • @sadiamasood8729
    @sadiamasood8729 Před 5 lety +1

    MaShaAllah... It's always amazing that how he takes an ayah oh Qu'ran and explains it in a way that you fall in love with Allah and his words.I just feel closeness to Allah after hearing him.May Allah bless him♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @hajarichinti2301
    @hajarichinti2301 Před 11 měsíci

    may allah grant me and all the good girls well informed in deen spouses like this man here

  • @ayaali6158
    @ayaali6158 Před 9 měsíci

    You are one of the few scholars that I like to listen to them regarding woman talks in islam

  • @yusra9603
    @yusra9603 Před 7 lety +3

    Allah razı olsun

  • @Acek-tq2jv
    @Acek-tq2jv Před 3 lety +5

    O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will, and you should not treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the bridal money you have given them. And live with them honorably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and God brings a great deal of good through it. (An-Nisaa’ 4:19)

  • @user-yv7oi1ml1j
    @user-yv7oi1ml1j Před 4 lety

    الله یبارکلك ، i have been searching for explanation of this Ayah for Atheists PPL

  • @travelandwatchcouple
    @travelandwatchcouple Před 7 lety +101

    My dad needs to watch this

    • @travelandwatchcouple
      @travelandwatchcouple Před 7 lety +14

      my mum also needs to watch this

    • @muhammedabdullah2893
      @muhammedabdullah2893 Před 6 lety +2

      What exactly does ISNA do as an organization ??? As a Muslim growing up in the US for over 20 years...I find it hard to find any personal impact ISNA has provided for me. I think the problem resides within the lack of traditional scholarship ISNA'S board consists of. We need a team of leaders with refined souls to lead the Muslims of America. And i dont really see that with ISNA. Most people on the board try to comform with American values whilst leaving Islamic values. We are facing an identity chrisis as Muslims living in America...and ISNA is confusing the identities of many American Muslims. Id argue ICNA is doing much better work than ISNA is with a smaller team and following. What are your thoughts!??!
      JazakAllah Khairan

    • @LolLol-rr7mx
      @LolLol-rr7mx Před 6 lety

      Ufuk XiYiZi send it to him

    • @cocoberry6373
      @cocoberry6373 Před 5 lety

      RizeVize hi5

    • @UA-ki1vg
      @UA-ki1vg Před 5 lety +3

      @@azfarthakur7602 As a muslim from the UK I appreciate the dawah from the scholars and speakers from the US. If they are preaching Islam then how can they advocate to follow your desires? They focus on Islam not culture.

  • @barakahaad6245
    @barakahaad6245 Před 2 lety +1

    I really feel like crying 😭😭because I know how much Islam has shown women honor but a lot of men and women don’t see it❤️Alhamdulillah

  • @EhsanTabbouch
    @EhsanTabbouch Před 7 lety +6

    May Allah swt grant you more wisdom and more knowledge to translate the Aayat of the AlQuran alkareem as it should be translated , beautiful, pure, easy for the heart and mind to except and say" سمعنا وأطعنا غفرانك ربنا وإليك المصير

  • @malijan5599
    @malijan5599 Před 7 lety +1

    ameen... shukran

  • @sanfay5839
    @sanfay5839 Před 7 lety +21

    This needs to be in Urdu too!!! Please!

  • @sadaf-u-nisashakir6602
    @sadaf-u-nisashakir6602 Před 4 lety +1

    Well explained!

  • @misbahshaukat5935
    @misbahshaukat5935 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you ustad 😊

  • @rehananaheed7603
    @rehananaheed7603 Před rokem

    سبحان اللہ
    اس سلسلے کو جاری رکھیں دلی دعا ہے اللہ آپ کو کامیانی دے🤲🏽

  • @salamatuabdulghani2597
    @salamatuabdulghani2597 Před 7 lety +20

    may Allah reward you give you the best in this life and the hereafter.

  • @DifferentLiving
    @DifferentLiving Před 5 lety +1

    Good work brother

  • @haani4745
    @haani4745 Před 5 lety +1

    MashaaAllah

  • @anmolyasir3654
    @anmolyasir3654 Před 4 lety +2

    Assalam o alaikam
    Nouman sir!
    Plz make this khutbah in urdu please sir I request sir please
    U r doing the right thing sir
    Stay blessed
    Regards
    Anmol Yasir

  • @jane29jeng
    @jane29jeng Před 4 lety +11

    Where is the second part of this khutbah? Im literally taking notes. MashaAllah NAK is a great teacher.

  • @hawacamara8863
    @hawacamara8863 Před 7 lety +1

    hope i can see next part

  • @AyeshaKhan-zp3pr
    @AyeshaKhan-zp3pr Před 5 lety +1

    Subhan Allah....

  • @Najmalhulwa
    @Najmalhulwa Před 5 lety +13

    This is just beautiful,
    I’ve always found the word قوام fascinating, it does come from قام, to stand or قائم, the standing. It’s to do with rising up for something and is relative to family. If you’ve noticed in family, the woman is the nurturer and care taker and this comes with a consequence, the maintenance and finance of the family.
    This is default for a healthy fair society. It doesn’t mean a woman can’t rise up to her aspirations, it’s a basic standard to be applied regardless سبحان الله. A woman has no option but to do both parts in western societies with minimal ‘welfare’ care and even that’s becoming scarce now.
    It’s not equality but insane productive musculine obsession with superficial success and cross country competition and world domination. حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل

    • @hamdhasherief2058
      @hamdhasherief2058 Před 3 lety +1

      A woman’s man aim is to be a mother? Ridiculous.

    • @ayoutubeaccount8629
      @ayoutubeaccount8629 Před 3 lety +2

      @@hamdhasherief2058 If motherhood is not for you then that's fine. I think you may have missed the point

    • @brumbrum987654321
      @brumbrum987654321 Před 2 lety +3

      Being productive isn't a masculine obsession and neither is success. The way you've framed this is wrong.

    • @LeonEdwardsAesthetic
      @LeonEdwardsAesthetic Před rokem

      Western woman are misandrists

  • @malyuki39
    @malyuki39 Před 7 lety

    the besssst MashaAllah

  • @fazlinadams-waggie142
    @fazlinadams-waggie142 Před 6 lety +1

    Shukran Ustadh Nouman. This is so true, in today's modern society, many men expect the woman to contribute half towards the expenses of the home, food, children, education, transport, etc. And in addition tgey expect the woman to take care of herself. May Muslim men listen & accept the truth & be guided to treat women with justice, as the Quran explain it. May the mothers of sons guide them to treat their wives with kindness Insha Allah.

    • @CathyKitson
      @CathyKitson Před 5 lety

      Women have an obligation to contribute fully to the home if she has the means.

    • @hoda6244
      @hoda6244 Před rokem

      @@CathyKitson Are you Muslim?

    • @Leil2221
      @Leil2221 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@CathyKitsonNOPE.

    • @CathyKitson
      @CathyKitson Před 2 měsíci

      @@Leil2221 Why not? Are you saying women should not provide for their families if they have the means? That they should just leave them in want? That'd be unbelievably selfish and women love their families and would not allow them to suffer.

  • @toffahahloua6781
    @toffahahloua6781 Před 7 lety +2

    thank you for sharing .i never really understood qoran and now thanks to ustadh ali i am more and more interested .inna allaha la yooaabadou bil jahl .thanks again.please i have so many questions about some ayat and some words in the quran and i think that i am not the only one but also i am afaraid that those questions have already been answered or treated somewhere ,so in order to not bother ostadh ali ,is there any forum where we can find most of questions and answers?other than you tube?thank you.ramadhan kareem