Dropping out of College was the Best Decision of my Life

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Komentáře • 147

  • @edwardgirard2545
    @edwardgirard2545 Před rokem +212

    College is not for everyone, but remember, some of the most successful people never went to college. Continue to pray that God will reveal the direction for your life. By the way, when I say that college isn’t for everyone, I say that as someone with a Ph.D. Go oats!

    • @chocolateoreo6489
      @chocolateoreo6489 Před rokem +1

      So true!

    • @Tt-dr2ld
      @Tt-dr2ld Před rokem

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    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +10

      WOW A Ph.D. 😳😳 BUT THANK YOU SO MUCH!

    • @edwardgirard2545
      @edwardgirard2545 Před rokem +1

      @Faith Hurley I know many people who have left the college experience and earn more money than I do. Best wishes in all your future endeavors.

    • @edwardgirard2545
      @edwardgirard2545 Před rokem

      @Faith Hurley I don’t think so. It is always good to have a vision for your life, but equally important to allow God to direct your talents so that you can become the best version of yourself.

  • @nkeyser5462
    @nkeyser5462 Před rokem +49

    You’ve got your whole life to figure it out. I’m graduating in my 50s!🙂

  • @joannajoy9554
    @joannajoy9554 Před rokem +63

    I am a firm believer in taking your time to figure out what to do. For me personally I'm going to college right after high-school because I feel that's what I need and I'm going for something I love. Many people I know are taking gap year to figure out what they want which I admire so much. I'm happy for you that you were brave enough to drop out and do what makes you feel the best. Someone can be just as successful or more without going to college.

    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +3

      Thank you so much Joanna!! I can't wait to see what's in store for the future!

  • @antidelusionalpeeps
    @antidelusionalpeeps Před 9 měsíci +5

    Trace, your video is so relatable. I dropped out of college two years ago for the same reasons as you, I hated the routine, it killed my creativity. And it was the best decision of my life. My dad had the same reaction as yours xD. I don't have it all figured out yet, I don't know how I'll reach my goals yet, but like you, I believe life is all about experiences, trying new things out, making mistakes, learning from them. My creativity has been insane since I dropped out. College definitely isn't for everyone. Wish you the best, and I'm subscribing to help you get to 100k!

  • @charplatt-miller3966
    @charplatt-miller3966 Před rokem +21

    Something I've had to learn is that you have to learn to live your best life in whatever way feels right for you. You should feel so proud of yourself for realizing what works for you! Life is one crazy journey of figuring out yourself, and you are on that track now!

  • @valeriaaguilar6900
    @valeriaaguilar6900 Před rokem +20

    Keep putting God first, and things always fall into place Trace! Love your recipes!

    • @Tt-dr2ld
      @Tt-dr2ld Před rokem

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    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +1

      THANK YOU VALERIA!!

  • @annacouwenhoven9378
    @annacouwenhoven9378 Před rokem +36

    OMG TRACE I literally just made the decision to drop out earlier this week😳 I have those exact same feeling about college and I’m glad someone else feels the way I do!! Also SHROMMY IS AWESOME

    • @Tt-dr2ld
      @Tt-dr2ld Před rokem

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    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +2

      HAHAH THATS CRAZY!!

  • @marcustheknight
    @marcustheknight Před rokem +8

    Glad to have crossed paths with you once or twice on campus! College isn't the path for everyone, and I'm super stoked to see where life takes you next, Trace! 🔥🔥

  • @brighamfinch1828
    @brighamfinch1828 Před rokem +5

    Miss you already! Im proud of you for knowing what is best for you. I'll never forget you, Trace!

  • @lfd3680
    @lfd3680 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The part right in the middle of this video where you said you felt like you lost creativity and felt like a watered down version of you’re self, YES! Yes yes yes. That is exactly my feelings right now. I decided not to continue with transferring after getting my associates because of this feeling. I’m so excited and scared for this new part of my journey. Thank you for putting this experience into words! You’re gonna do great.

  • @catalinaz90
    @catalinaz90 Před rokem +5

    That's good for you Trace! I also dropped out of college 10 years ago and it's wasn't my decision it's was my mom telling me if I wanted continue going to college, and I wasn't expecting for her to tell me, I couldn't answer her because I was in shocked and yeah it's just happened like that. But then later I realized that'd it was a great idea for me and my family was not happy, I was hoping for a positive responding but none. Especially my brother he pushing me to go back to college and I think he doesn't understand that college is not for everyone. God has other plans for all of us and he gave me a plan before my dad passed away a plan that I been keeping as a secret for nine years and I just finally told my mom about it (she was shocked and crying). Anyway I'm so happy myself but now I feel like wants to go back again and when I saw your video I couldn't believe that you dropped out again it's the best decision you ever made Trace!!

    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +2

      Wow, you are amazing Catalina!! You have been put through a lot of trials, but you have great joy about it all! GOD IS SO GOOD

    • @catalinaz90
      @catalinaz90 Před rokem

      @@tracesoatsYes Trace!! GOD IS AWESOME!!

  • @EB-dm9fw
    @EB-dm9fw Před rokem +7

    My younger son just dropped out off college, that’s why I’m on your channel. My 3 year college student oldest son is taking semester off. God help me🙏🏽

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Před 4 měsíci

      where is he now and what's he doing now

    • @EB-dm9fw
      @EB-dm9fw Před 4 měsíci

      My oldest son will graduate this year. And my youngest son is working on and off, but registered in trade school/ community college to pick up some classes. God’s will 🙏🏽❤️

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Před 4 měsíci

      @@EB-dm9fw oh ok but the jobs in trade school are very dangerous jobs and those working in trades are probably paid less than those who graduated from college

    • @EB-dm9fw
      @EB-dm9fw Před 4 měsíci

      I agree, but until he really knows what he wants in life, we want him to gain some kind of knowledge. ( by the way he is advanced in Math) he finished high school Math while he was in 11 grade. He wants to open up a business or be his own boss. That much I know. He hates the routine of working for some companies and not getting the freedom he wants. We just pray he finds his passion…🙏🏽 Thank you for responding 🙏🏽💕

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Před 4 měsíci

      @@EB-dm9fw If he's really this good at math he shouldn't have dropped out and continue his degree if his degree was a math related degree

  • @eyes1168
    @eyes1168 Před 10 měsíci +2

    aww what a sweet grandma

  • @mplum
    @mplum Před rokem +6

    It's a lot of fun to watch your videos, Trace. I was very close with your parents in high school. I spent many nights over at your mother's house, chatting and laughing. I practically lived there at certain points. So many good memories at your dad's house too! Sending everyone there a lot of love. Running around in a green field with your dogs seems like an amazing substitute for college. If I could do it all over again, I would definitely postpone college and would skip it altogether if that was where life led. Wishing you all the best and I am subscribed and watching and learning!

  • @andrewr3515
    @andrewr3515 Před rokem +7

    I’m glad you discovered it wasn’t for you early on. I went through 4 years (I had 1 year left before graduation) before I discovered I hated it and dropped out.

    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +3

      Hahaha that's dope! I hope you enjoy what you're doing now Andrew!!

  • @vvanessammarquez
    @vvanessammarquez Před rokem +4

    Best of luck!!!! I’m in the middle where I took a year off before going to college. It took my mom off guard at first but she felt better once I explained I was tired, BUTTT still wanted to work towards something (just not now lol) Now I’m loving my classes and feel motivated as to what’s next :^)

  • @Naturesdust
    @Naturesdust Před rokem +3

    Eeeeeeekkkk ..keeping grinding on that resume. Once you get to your thirties, it’s gonna hit harddd

    • @arelix6646
      @arelix6646 Před 7 měsíci

      Depends on what you do. A degree doesn't automatically show your worth.

  • @CuriousMarg
    @CuriousMarg Před 11 měsíci

    Love that you bring up the Lord in your content !!! It’s amazing giving glory to Him for your success!!! God bless

  • @marialuizabragasodredebrit8092

    dude, I got you!
    Last year I was in the second year of high school and in April I changed schools because mine was teaching poorly. At the end of the year my mental health was a mess and my parents realized that studies didn't matter if I wasn't with the one I really loved by my side. This year I went back to my old school and I couldn't be happier, and thats okayyyy!!! catch you dreams, peacee

  • @ChristinaPistone
    @ChristinaPistone Před rokem +2

    Good for you for following your dreams! More recipes for us. Fully support this decision :)

  • @MichaelaFlowers
    @MichaelaFlowers Před rokem +2

    I feel like all dads have that same ringtone loll 2:53

  • @alexadelanie6411
    @alexadelanie6411 Před rokem +4

    Shrommy is AWESOME! Good luck with whatever comes next for you Trace! Keep up the good work :)

  • @andrewyoken4201
    @andrewyoken4201 Před rokem +18

    College doesn't care about students' mental health. That's why courses are so hard and students, including me, don't understand what they're learning. Because that's the case, I'm planning on dropping out of college

  • @noraspears8608
    @noraspears8608 Před rokem +2

    Trace is goals

  • @lilymurfitt6187
    @lilymurfitt6187 Před rokem +7

    Shrommy is awesome. Also one idea if you’d be interested- my brother also dropped out of college after the first semester. The next year he went to YWAM DTS in Maui and it’s one of the best experiences he’s ever had. You do three months of training and then three months of outreach in smaller teams (each team goes to a different country). He has also made some incredible friends there and learned a lot about the Lord. I think it’s the perfect balance between not having any structure and having so much structure you dont have time to be yourself. From what he said it’s a ton of fun and there’s lots of shenanigans. There are tons of Dts through YWAM but some of them aren’t very good and can be corrupt, so just make sure it’s a good one. The Maui one was a good one. There are also some based on hobbies, like, there’s a theater dts, a cowboy dts, an art DTS, and they basically just incorporate those things into your relationship with God and spreading his word

    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +1

      YES!! I heard about YWAM that is sick wow thank you Lily! I need to look into it more

  • @xozero
    @xozero Před 10 měsíci

    i believe in you!

  • @douglaspierce3277
    @douglaspierce3277 Před rokem +4

    I agree with you that college is not everyone but it’s mainly a thing where you putting yourself in debt but honestly I would suggest you should stay in college to get a good education and it good lead you to a high paying job!!

  • @annaholyfield9463
    @annaholyfield9463 Před 9 měsíci

    I needed this.

  • @vinnies1991
    @vinnies1991 Před dnem

    Hi, I'm 19 and I really want to drop out tbh I will I just don't know when. This is the lowest I've ever been, unfortunately college is not the way I learn, all jobs in India hire people with a degree. I have recently completed my certification in digital marketing and e-commerce by Google so I'm hoping to get a job so I can drop out. If anyone is reading this I'm looking for a job with 300$ a month salary and 6 hours of working hours a day, 5 days a week. If any of you are interested in hiring me as a digital marketer or social media manager or any other role, I am open and available. Thank you Trace for posting this video. I don't know why people take dropping out in a negative way. You really expressed it right why some people want to drop out. A word from you would help. Thank you ❤️

  • @mikaelamartinez-qr6ze

    I liked the party of your no graduation at the end 🎉. A learnt so much tho you.

  • @phoebereed6011
    @phoebereed6011 Před rokem

    Your Shronny is an honest legend

  • @jewelysmith
    @jewelysmith Před rokem +2

    Respect!

  • @canooooo0387
    @canooooo0387 Před rokem +2

    Shrommy is awesome♥️

  • @snow.ep7
    @snow.ep7 Před rokem +2

    Shrommy is awesome! ❤

  • @begumurganc
    @begumurganc Před rokem

    Omg! Your grandmother was very beautiful cause she is still sooooo beautiful. Please share her younger photo

  • @jocostel
    @jocostel Před rokem

    Guys a legend

  • @gratitute1
    @gratitute1 Před rokem

    Good luck. I started following u now.

  • @bonniepearce5151
    @bonniepearce5151 Před rokem

    You have to find the best path for YOU. Prayers to find whatever God calls you to. It’s NOT an emergency, God’s timing is perfect. Wait on Him.

  • @annas4191
    @annas4191 Před rokem

    also, your dad seems amazing

  • @giants3545
    @giants3545 Před rokem +1

    Im starting college this september and to be honest im forced to go cause of my parents so if i dont like it im just gonna drop out

  • @jennawarnock
    @jennawarnock Před rokem +3

    shrommy is awesome

  • @787aida-rivers.a
    @787aida-rivers.a Před rokem

    you lucky u have a grandma

  • @kinggoose3910
    @kinggoose3910 Před 9 měsíci

    College is toxic my parents said I can't I never cared about it and I had a passion for the internet

  • @ggfgvvn.a.5752
    @ggfgvvn.a.5752 Před 7 měsíci

    In my first year and I’m miserable as fuck. But I don’t know what tf im gonna do if i drop out. I’m straight A’s and I’m being told to wait it out a bit but I don’t think I wanna do that.

  • @hetvihetvi2557
    @hetvihetvi2557 Před 9 měsíci

    sammeee i need this videoo thank you so much

  • @wheredidshego3271
    @wheredidshego3271 Před rokem +8

    Unless you got kicked out, failed on purpose, or are a bum, it’s okay to drop out-idk why being a dropout is such a stigma in the South. But nevertheless, you already have a career as an influencer and are snagging those sponsorships so is avoiding college debt such a bad thing 🤷🏻‍♀️.

    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +1

      Agreed! and thank you so much!!!!

    • @markpunla2191
      @markpunla2191 Před rokem

      It's a stigma for many parents out there man.

  • @yangelisha8417
    @yangelisha8417 Před rokem

    I feel you for real.

  • @ninjapirate123
    @ninjapirate123 Před 4 měsíci

    If you drop out of college where are you now and what are you doing now?

  • @cakeman8666
    @cakeman8666 Před rokem

    LET’S GO TRACE

  • @Maggie_crochet
    @Maggie_crochet Před rokem

    SHROMMY IS AWSOME!!!

  • @BrindhaJudithYeshvanthiPJ

    That's inspiring.

  • @buttonsjunior1131
    @buttonsjunior1131 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome!

  • @Superfastjellyfish669
    @Superfastjellyfish669 Před 2 měsíci

    If you don’t mind me asking how were you lonely? You were surrounded by so man new people

  • @meeee6170
    @meeee6170 Před rokem +1

    I love SHROMMY

  • @deandresisson2217
    @deandresisson2217 Před 2 měsíci

    Shout out Shroomy she’s awesome

  • @Dameng123
    @Dameng123 Před rokem

    Now I want to drop out of University

  • @teganhoran7749
    @teganhoran7749 Před rokem

    What's the plan now? Are you working and such?

  • @DanielGarcia-pw9oz
    @DanielGarcia-pw9oz Před 11 měsíci

    I was going to college also I regret going since I really was only going for my parents college isn’t for anyone and you def don’t need to go to have a good life

  • @jgp2006
    @jgp2006 Před rokem

    SHROMMY IS AWESOME

  • @meeee6170
    @meeee6170 Před rokem

    Good for you bro

  • @colinjackson9599
    @colinjackson9599 Před rokem

    Shroomy is EPIC

  • @annas4191
    @annas4191 Před rokem +1

    you're a smart smart being. colleges are pretty much indoctrination centres now. i dropped out of grad school last year. you have a bright future ahead, i'm sure of it!

  • @maleeshapriyanjana7604
    @maleeshapriyanjana7604 Před 3 měsíci

    I dont follow your religion or I dont believe concept of god. But anyhow thanks to god he has saved you.
    I wish this is your best achievement in your life.
    I feel same as you. I am in university ( In my country we dont call universities as college. Simply college is school here) and After I completing advanced level and enter university, I didnt got the life I was expected in my childhood, specially the life what others told me I will receive ( like my parents, teachers and former university students). So I am hopeless and with broken expectations. I is mentally and socially really so hard to face thing reality although I am an adult (only for age)

  • @tagamer1649
    @tagamer1649 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesomeeeee

  • @PandaDoesDesign
    @PandaDoesDesign Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome :)

  • @SyedNashim-tj9se
    @SyedNashim-tj9se Před měsícem

    But college as a young adults life is actually not fun because freedom is more responsibilities

  • @nannaboo
    @nannaboo Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome!!

  • @justtoni4152
    @justtoni4152 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome ☺️

  • @tiff-t9g
    @tiff-t9g Před rokem

    4:27 😂

  • @amberschulz525
    @amberschulz525 Před rokem

    shrommy is awesome!!

  • @marchymeow4584
    @marchymeow4584 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome

  • @abpic
    @abpic Před rokem

    shrommy is awesome

  • @babysynego
    @babysynego Před 11 měsíci

    shromommy is awesome

  • @gabem8714
    @gabem8714 Před rokem +1

    Subscribed just because you dropped out

  • @hetvihetvi2557
    @hetvihetvi2557 Před 9 měsíci

    thiss kind of video makess me feeel soooo bettter i just dont know i felt it is just mee it doesnt seem like my life wot they want my family the society wot about mee

  • @tagamer1649
    @tagamer1649 Před rokem

    Shrommy Is awesome
    Shrommy is awesome
    Shrommy is awesome

  • @kateanders4417
    @kateanders4417 Před rokem

    I’ve never related to something more

  • @WOOOOWWEEEEEEEE
    @WOOOOWWEEEEEEEE Před rokem

    W TRACE

  • @awxuh
    @awxuh Před rokem

    Y do u quit everything

  • @radiumlyte
    @radiumlyte Před rokem

    I've been getting closer to god recently, too.

  • @slavikboyko5815
    @slavikboyko5815 Před rokem

    What program were you trying to go for?

    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem +1

      I was thinking about majoring in CEI or communications!

    • @slavikboyko5815
      @slavikboyko5815 Před rokem

      @@tracesoats Oh wow, well I am too happy for you as well.

  • @robertocuevas2755
    @robertocuevas2755 Před rokem +1

    what were you majoring in?

    • @tracesoats
      @tracesoats  Před rokem

      I was just getting my Gen Eds done but I was thinking about majoring in CEI

  • @Celestia5782
    @Celestia5782 Před rokem +2

    It definitely sounds like you made the right decision for yourself. Most importantly, through this experience, you grew in the Lord. It often takes difficult times in life to help us rely on Him the way we need to. That's where He can shine the most.
    "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness." James 1:2-3 ESV
    "Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us." Romans 5:3-5 ESV

  • @nancyshounia6460
    @nancyshounia6460 Před rokem +8

    Why Dropping out college

  • @samu-chan
    @samu-chan Před rokem

    what’s a shrommy

  • @holtadams6750
    @holtadams6750 Před rokem

    i made it😎

  • @FinanceWageSlave
    @FinanceWageSlave Před 7 měsíci +1

    Funny thing is i don't got no white parents being that easy with it. So if i even mention it i would be torn apart from every single family member 24/7.🥲💀

  • @Eimear..
    @Eimear.. Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome!! 💗

  • @charlesbarone5543
    @charlesbarone5543 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome!

  • @WOOOOWWEEEEEEEE
    @WOOOOWWEEEEEEEE Před rokem

    SHROMMY IS AWESOME

  • @reeseerhardt7052
    @reeseerhardt7052 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome

  • @leahsydd
    @leahsydd Před rokem

    shrommy is awesome

  • @breannferguson3714
    @breannferguson3714 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome!

  • @ashy_knees
    @ashy_knees Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome

  • @maiya2323
    @maiya2323 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome

  • @swityswity4202
    @swityswity4202 Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome

  • @angel.manangan
    @angel.manangan Před rokem

    Shrommy is awesome

  • @meeee6170
    @meeee6170 Před rokem

    shrommy is awesome