Parents Who Abused Me Until I Went to NC Contacted Me, Saying All the Physical Abuse They Did Was...

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  • čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
  • 00:00 1st story:
    WIBTA for losing empathy for my traumatized husband (u/Alarming_Ad_4419 in r/AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC)
    11:21 2nd story:
    I told my Dad I’d only let them back in my life if they apologised, this was their CRAZY response (coolfunkDJ in r/raisedbynarcissists)
    20:44 3rd story:
    Boyfriend put me down repeatedly during a party last night, and I haven't been able to sleep, don't know what to do, but I won't live like that if this is going to become a new thing.(u/cringingfrandbad in /TrueOffMyChest)
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Komentáře • 42

  • @punkatron4579
    @punkatron4579 Před 5 dny +45

    Story 2: Ah yes Bullshiticus 6:9 "Thou shall allow ones parents to mercilessly beat them because family"

  • @artificerdrachen6908
    @artificerdrachen6908 Před 5 dny +51

    Parents for story 2 are legitimately the dirt I walk upon, coming up with the shittiest excuses for abusing their kids. It's obvious all the abuse they received gave them brain damage because no nobody with a healthy brain would ever think like that.

    • @axinhedgelion8417
      @axinhedgelion8417 Před 5 dny +7

      It’s true that abuse victims become abusers themselves, and this is coming from someone who was abused, actively trying to break that cycle.

    • @nicksuazo4377
      @nicksuazo4377 Před 5 dny +5

      The moment I heard "Christians" and "God," I knew the parents were the kind who would forgive the most evil of acts from their families. They preach about forgiveness, but they still remember how bad their childhoods were. They offhandedly threw their trauma onto OP, saying, "We had it worse," and then proceed to guilttrip OP for the sake of the family. I would tell OP to get a restraining order, or at least hidden cameras and extra locks. These people sound broken, indeed.

    • @jinxiejae
      @jinxiejae Před 5 dny

      ​@@nicksuazo4377send the email to the pastor of their church.

  • @cameronmiyao2673
    @cameronmiyao2673 Před 5 dny +27

    Forgiveness and restoration? Op2's parents have a distorted view of religion if they think continuing the cycle of abuse is loving thy neighbour.

    • @ehtishamkhan2004
      @ehtishamkhan2004 Před 4 dny +4

      Always hilarious when people like these bring up points such as forgiveness and reconciliation and how it is wrong to cut off your family. But they always ignore the part in the religion where it says that abusing children is wrong. Hypocrisy at its finest.

  • @SnowyWolborg
    @SnowyWolborg Před 3 dny +4

    The fact that OP's father come from a generation we're parenting and abuse oftentimes when hand in hand, and _acknowledge_ this, but still inflicted the same thing upon his own son is proof that he is not even listening to the words coming out of own mouth.
    The simple fact of the matter is, some people just are not built to be parents.

  • @billjacobs2799
    @billjacobs2799 Před 5 dny +28

    1st story, end the marriage your husband is gaslighting and manipulating, you can do better than be a maid with benefits.

  • @jada2876
    @jada2876 Před 5 dny +21

    Going trauma for trauma with your own kid is crazy work😂😂😂😂

  • @M.W.2
    @M.W.2 Před 5 dny +18

    Story 2 is bonkers, the abusers who got abused but forgave and rug swept everything because religion and delusion and now expect you to do the same

  • @chocolatemonster07
    @chocolatemonster07 Před 4 dny +3

    I have never heard gaslighting as horrendous and blatant as i did in the second story, OMG

  • @the83rdtrombonist60
    @the83rdtrombonist60 Před 5 dny +23

    AND THERE WE GO!! OP in St 2 gets told he's not christian enough

  • @jemase7931
    @jemase7931 Před 4 dny +2

    The Joker. Now, he knows what he is like when he drinks. He needs to stop.

  • @sandbees597
    @sandbees597 Před 5 dny +6

    Third story, OP and bf is actually really wholesome. Glad they worked it out

  • @goodnightmyprince6734
    @goodnightmyprince6734 Před 5 dny +10

    Second story is in the UK, ASDA gave it away

  • @jorijoestar4998
    @jorijoestar4998 Před 5 dny +3

    s2 feels like a mirror of my own life.

  • @Midgetbear-nk1fe
    @Midgetbear-nk1fe Před 5 dny +3

    Ah, the " I had it worse excuse" only thing it proves that you are mostly likely a terrible person

  • @TheyCallMeJay
    @TheyCallMeJay Před 5 dny +6

    First story is kinda OPs word against his parents word, how are we supposed to come to a conclusion lmao

    • @sentinel_nightcrawler
      @sentinel_nightcrawler Před 5 dny

      It sorta confirms with their own creed, there doesn't need to be any conclusion.

  • @johnojeda3900
    @johnojeda3900 Před 4 dny +1

    Story 2: OP parents house almost the same backstory as the father of oral in more oral.
    Basically orals dad is physically abusive, narcissistic and attention-seeking whore. But in one of the episodes they show his backstory and we know why he physically hurt oral so much IE (a lot of spanking and hits with the belt) it's because of his childhood he was an attention seeking kid so he used to do a lot of pranks to their parents and literally he will get spanked by his dad, one day he said that he shot himself or stabbed himself and his mother had a heart attack and literally die on the spot so dad gets so angry that he said that "he's not worth his time" and just ignore him, oral dad literally was shocked and upset since he's not giving him attention not even physically hurting him anymore shots ignoring him like he doesn't exist.
    And so orals dad receive love in the twisted way.

  • @saundrahuff5870
    @saundrahuff5870 Před 5 dny +3

    Ok mom. You’re projecting your hatred of how you were treated on your own children.

  • @ethansuarez4726
    @ethansuarez4726 Před 2 dny

    Story 2: I can only imagine how God will punish them, not just for their abuse, but for lying and denying it, they'll plead that they were good but i would pay money to see how they'll react when God is the one who lays everything out and punishes them

  • @Thaddius0
    @Thaddius0 Před dnem

    i have a completely different read on story 2. my older brother in his 30s has wild made up stories about how our parents are abusers that I am 100% certain never happened. the worst he ever got was spanked when he hit me

  • @hawketailedfish
    @hawketailedfish Před 4 dny

    I had to pause during the second story bc oh. My. God.

  • @thousandyardgavri2785

    I would've told op 2s mom how she herself is the devil and so is dad...😂 I bet that'd trigger them

  • @YungOtaku
    @YungOtaku Před 5 dny

    Story 2 sounds like my dad 😅

  • @erickaennis2738
    @erickaennis2738 Před 5 dny +16

    Last story, screw your boyfriend's anxiety. Stop being a doormat. He's gaslighting the hell out of you. You are only a year in. Get out. He's only trying to save face. I hate when folks use panic attacks and anxiety as a manipulation tactic.

    • @devanjohnson3560
      @devanjohnson3560 Před 5 dny +4

      Do you actually understand that kind of axiety? The anxiety of being left alone and ignored by the people you love? He fucked up and knew it and was scared shitless about what he did thinking she would leave him, and not only did he acknowledge what he did wrong he agreed with the spouse and even gave up drinking. saying that someone should ignore anxiety is fucked, the guy literally is doing his best to fix what he did offering to apologize to everyone and to watch the movies with his gf.

    • @not_apong
      @not_apong Před 2 dny +1

      i’m sure you have a very warm and healthy relationship with friends and family

  • @musiclova6368
    @musiclova6368 Před 4 dny

    She was sa’d during therapy?

  • @longwaydown6959
    @longwaydown6959 Před 5 dny +2

    Second

  • @MegaHarvickFan29
    @MegaHarvickFan29 Před 5 dny +3

    First

  • @Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets

    Second story: dad brings up toxic masculinity and him being part of that generation.
    Fake story.

  • @pwstraw938
    @pwstraw938 Před 5 dny +2

    SECOND STORY THERES SO MANY FAMILYS NOW A DAYS GOING THROUGH THE SAME SHIT ME INVLUDED TO EVERWORD YOU MENTIONED.FUNNY HOW WE ALL THINK OUR LIFES ARE SO DIFFRENT FROM THE NEXT BUT NO WERE ALL THE SAME DONT FOLL YOUR SELFS WERE AALL SCRUED UP ONE WAY OR ANOTHER BUT LIVE IN YOUR DELUSIONAL MIND. ITS SAD NO ONE WANTS TO FIX THERE PROBLEMS IV TRYED NO ONE WANTS TO ADMITE TO THE BS.. LIFE GOS ON SAD BUT TRUE😢