What's ACTUALLY Making Men SO UNHAPPY? ft. Terry Real | Open Relationships Podcast

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  • čas přidán 6. 08. 2024
  • Our guest today is the INCREDIBLE Terry Real, World-Renowned Family Therapist, Best-Selling Author, and Personal Therapist to celebrities such as Bruce Springsteen & Gwyneth Paltrow! Terry Real has dedicated his career to helping people break through the barriers of shame, anger, and depression, fostering deeper connections, and healing in relationships, and we’re honored to have him as a guest on today’s hilarious and life-changing episode of THE OPEN RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST
    Chapters:
    00:00 - Show Intro
    04:30 - What distinguishes RLT from other forms of Therapy?
    09:08 - My Clients are Extremely Successful A-Holes
    14:15 - How Young Does the Patriarchy AFFECT Our Children?
    19:00 - Funny TRUE Stories from Terry Real
    23:30 - Self Esteem is MISUNDERSTOOD
    28:00- Individualism and Assertiveness
    33:00 - Why We Ask TOO MUCH From Our Relationships
    39:00 - Move from COMPLAINT to REQUEST
    45:00 - How Knee-Jerk Reactions Can Be Dangerous (Fight, flight, or fix)
    51:00 - Marital Hatred, Relational Shame, and Disharmony in Marriage
    58:00 - 3 Stages of Getting What You Want in Relationships
    1:02:00 - “Nice” Men with “Mean” Women
    1:08:00 - We Don’t ASK for WHAT WE NEED
    1:14:10 - We VOMIT All Over Our Partners
    1:19:00 - Boys and Their Mothers and the Patriarchy
    1:26:00 - Bruce Springsteen, Barack Obama, & Generational Trauma
    1:31:00 - Young Men Are DESTROYING the Patriarchy
    “Open Relationships: Transforming Together” is a new podcast aimed at helping people truly open up to one another and to themselves by digging into hard truths and varying perspectives. We offer expert-approved relationship advice to help you grow emotionally through sharing compelling stories, vulnerable discussions, and personal insights we hope will spark inspiration.
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Komentáře • 13

  • @willc.9687
    @willc.9687 Před 8 měsíci +5

    "Filet Mignon ambitions, but hamburger skills"!!!!!😲❤

  • @sabrinajames1650
    @sabrinajames1650 Před 8 měsíci +3

    WOW. Everything this man says is so beautifully spoken and resonant. I cannot wait to read his book. What a mind!

  • @BryonTango
    @BryonTango Před 8 měsíci +1

    This episode is SO GOOD, I love how calm and understanding terry is when he's breaking down really heavy concepts

  • @tinagrimsley6855
    @tinagrimsley6855 Před 8 měsíci

    The best gift you can give your children is a healthy you! Transform the legacy. LOVE LOVE LOVE

  • @AshleeThomas_9753
    @AshleeThomas_9753 Před 8 měsíci +1

    The approach to this conversation was so personable and relatable, I appreciate you bringing this topic to the table.
    It doesn’t have to be this hard- rock the boat-ROCK THE DAMN BOAT 👏🏻

  • @InfinityOnHannah
    @InfinityOnHannah Před 8 měsíci +4

    terry has such great advice 👏

  • @kaylacavanagh2834
    @kaylacavanagh2834 Před 8 měsíci +2

    love the personal stories! super relatable.

  • @deaunaroane1024
    @deaunaroane1024 Před 8 měsíci +9

    Literally criticizing gets me nowhere with my husband

  • @tinaenglandcolwell9230
    @tinaenglandcolwell9230 Před 4 měsíci

    wonderful podcast with Terry ya'll - I've subscribed and will listen now on your online Open Relationships Podcast! I have devoured Terry's Audibles, "US" and "Fierce Intimacy" I too love Terry's voice Andrea!!!!!!! I put my earpods in many nights and fall asleep to his Audible. My husband and favorite Neanderthal, is actually going to do the on line "Fierce Intimacy" virtual teaching from Terry!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @TheExplodingGerbil
    @TheExplodingGerbil Před 4 měsíci

    You won my attention when I spotted the cat!
    A great conversation; I came across you by happy accident - now subscribed.
    Will be reading Terry's book. Thank you and best wishes to everyone 👋, from rainy England ❤

  • @keithprice3817
    @keithprice3817 Před 4 měsíci +1

    i see when you are talking about these problems you seem to be mainly focused on the man be the bad person but everything you have said is true with my relationship but it is reversed . so not nice man with bitchy woman its nice woman with bad man i want to talk she will not

    • @TheExplodingGerbil
      @TheExplodingGerbil Před 4 měsíci

      So sorry to read this. I'm sure you are not alone in this heart- breaking situation. I hope you can find the inner belief to honour yourself and do what is best for you. We only get one life, friend. Sending gentle hugs.

    • @keithprice3817
      @keithprice3817 Před 4 měsíci

      @@TheExplodingGerbil time will tell but ive neve