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  • Why Social Media is So Toxic!
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Komentáře • 94

  • @Yabetcha84
    @Yabetcha84 Před 3 lety +89

    Whatever your political leaning may be, I am still unaware of anyone who solved the world's problems by complaining in the CZcams comment section or social media.

    • @Ilonamusings
      @Ilonamusings Před 3 lety +5

      😂🤣

    • @smokeeater1769
      @smokeeater1769 Před 3 lety +5

      Social media platforms are the new "water cooler" "Barber Shop" and "Lounge.

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 Před 3 lety

      @Josiah Galicia that’s you. That’s not everyone else.

    • @lifeisabadjoke5750
      @lifeisabadjoke5750 Před 3 lety

      Exactly arguing is pointless and a waste of life if both sides can’t come together to a solution.

    • @AnthonyAlvarado78
      @AnthonyAlvarado78 Před 3 lety +1

      😂 most people just use the comments to insult folks.

  • @michaelsmith5583
    @michaelsmith5583 Před 3 lety +32

    Gaslighting is a huge problem. Its bad when they dont even see the crazy thats around them.

  • @1hourdryfloors786
    @1hourdryfloors786 Před 3 lety +34

    I’m so glad i discovered this guy. What a blessing at just the most perfect time. I really needed to hear this guy speak his heart. Wow. Thank you

    • @grafando
      @grafando Před 3 lety

      I disagree with him on a LOT, but he is a blessing and awesome and actually caring. He is a very smart guy too. I needed his videos.

    • @happyfeet6751
      @happyfeet6751 Před 3 lety +1

      @@grafando just out of curiosity, what is it that you disagree on?

  • @k.embers
    @k.embers Před 3 lety +4

    Dr. John is the compassionate voice of reason we all need more in our lives. 💕 God bless this team.

  • @JourneyingWithJoy
    @JourneyingWithJoy Před 3 lety +1

    I remember your post John! And I loved it. I personally had to really place boundaries on what I was taking in on social media during that time and shoot even now. Thank you for always sharing your heart and don’t let those trolls stop you!

  • @Anabela2023
    @Anabela2023 Před 3 lety +2

    “We are going to talk because I love you...” Peace and Love 🙏🏾❤️
    Dr. John you are ONE OF A KIND AND WE LOVE YOU 😍

  • @flashthecorgi2053
    @flashthecorgi2053 Před 3 lety +6

    Love your show Dr. D the message you put out there is beautiful! No political parties are gonna solve these issues. Great job! I love how you handle ALL calls and talks with so much grace and optimism! I LOVE your show! Keep up the amazing work! Ramsey solutions is so lucky to have you! Great asset to the team! ❤️

  • @AC-qo8oq
    @AC-qo8oq Před 3 lety +1

    This was so good. Thank you for being there while I worked late on my work project on a Friday night.

  • @SuperWillAF
    @SuperWillAF Před 3 lety +9

    I did this with a coworker/friend. We didnt agree on everything and oddly enough he learned from me as i learned from him. If they agree with everything you say they are not your friend

  • @gensmyth8738
    @gensmyth8738 Před 3 lety +1

    Dr. Delony I love listening to you. It seems like you are always offering awesome advice

  • @coffeewithdee
    @coffeewithdee Před 3 lety +10

    Omg this is going to be a really good one!!! I can’t wait

  • @jpytvid
    @jpytvid Před 3 lety

    Keep up the good work JD! I Keep speaking love and Truth

  • @robertoramos8257
    @robertoramos8257 Před 3 lety +1

    Great show DeLony thank you!

  • @maeroe7719
    @maeroe7719 Před 3 lety +1

    You are a blessing. We really need to stop the hate.

  • @nicolesanchez9714
    @nicolesanchez9714 Před 3 lety

    I remember seeing your post and I loved it!! I didn’t read the comments because I knew it would be bad, but I love your honesty, I have been attacked on social media for a post I’ve made before and it’s very disheartening to see. I hate that our Country is so divided and they actually have no idea why. They think they know, and they have all the answers to fix it. So frustrating. Unity is definitely the answer, one day we’ll get there ❤️

    • @droptozro
      @droptozro Před 3 lety +1

      Can you explain how to unify with people who attack businesses, people, and burn cities down? Thanks.

  • @tonniareed8631
    @tonniareed8631 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you John. I am so over all this political divide. We can’t even have conversations anymore.

  • @SteveTheDrummer
    @SteveTheDrummer Před 3 lety

    Well said, hope you have a great weekend

  • @intuitive_duck
    @intuitive_duck Před 3 lety +8

    If you want someone to think differently, lead by example. Don't push, don't indoctrinate, don't shame, just be a good person. If you disagreed with someone & they were in your face about it, the answer will always be no. I could agree with you, & it makes me want to say no. Don't patronize me.

  • @candacelashae4236
    @candacelashae4236 Před 3 lety

    Dude...my husband and I love your Podcast. Stay true to yourself. You da best!

  • @kylerussell2336
    @kylerussell2336 Před 3 lety +13

    Breath of fresh air

  • @heydude7796
    @heydude7796 Před 3 lety +16

    You didn't take that opportunity to say "lions and tigers and bears, oh my," and I am very disappointed LOL

  • @gmbiasco
    @gmbiasco Před 3 lety +5

    "7 people and my mom" -- aka "my mom thinks I'm cool" :) -- I appreciate John making me smile

  • @cubs3072
    @cubs3072 Před 3 lety +6

    I hate it when people think an inauguration speech actually means something. What a politician does when in office is what matters. Hey John, you know how to tell if a politician is lying? Their lips are moving. This is elementary stuff about politics.

  • @danielchoi7108
    @danielchoi7108 Před 3 lety +3

    Just when I thought I wouldn't relate.. Dr. John pinned me with the intimacy issue.

  • @therocinante3443
    @therocinante3443 Před 3 lety

    I appreciate you brother, thank you.

  • @caitlinbures4802
    @caitlinbures4802 Před 3 lety +1

    And that is way I’m not on Any social media, I mean none! And never have been! It’s poisoning our society! I agree with your post. God bless you John😁

  • @marisolpooh1
    @marisolpooh1 Před 3 lety

    Love your shows John 😀

  • @tonniareed8631
    @tonniareed8631 Před 3 lety +8

    Oh John you are way more popular than you know!!!

  • @jkay07
    @jkay07 Před 3 lety

    Awesome show.

  • @marianemashkalo4182
    @marianemashkalo4182 Před 3 lety +2

    Loved the jokes as long as solid analysis and empathic advice :)

  • @ntmn8444
    @ntmn8444 Před 3 lety +1

    John, I loved your post from that day. I personally wrote how much I loved it. It was an inspiring message. I’m sorry people made it out to be political.

  • @socialmediamarketingtechni3064

    fantastic! 😊

  • @mickeymichelle9067
    @mickeymichelle9067 Před 3 lety

    Love him! He’s my friend. ❤️

  • @jessicablevins601
    @jessicablevins601 Před 2 měsíci

    Let's all stick our heads in the sand! Great approach! 🙄🙄🙄👍
    Seek out MANY news sources. Seek sources that you agree with, AND don't agree with.
    BE INFORMED!
    As much as possible anyway. Sometimes the mainstream narrative isn't remotely accurate. I don't care what someone believes in or not, I only care if someone is open to listening (not just hearing, but actually, genuinely LISTENING) to both sides of an argument before forming an opinion.
    That's what I respect, whether I agree with you or not.

  • @goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359

    I haven't watched the new local or national for over a year..don't miss it a bit..it's just so toxic ..I hardly ever get on FB..and when I do I feel like crud..the only thing I watch is CZcams and it's content I choose..it's so liberating..

  • @dhritikapoor2897
    @dhritikapoor2897 Před 2 lety

    The best way to make sure someone doesn’t agree to or even understand your point of view is to troll / abuse them on social media/real life

  • @dustinpetersen7730
    @dustinpetersen7730 Před měsícem

    Jack could have fit on the door, but it wasn't buoyant enough to hold both of them.

  • @maxxsrv
    @maxxsrv Před 3 lety

    Mad props on the Johnny Cash record in the background!

  • @eprofessio
    @eprofessio Před 3 lety +1

    I have gotten completely off Facebook as of November 2020 and I feel sooooo much better emotionally. I am still trolling CZcams however.

  • @HaloDaycare
    @HaloDaycare Před 3 lety +1

    Beautiful internet post!!!

  • @olivewoo522
    @olivewoo522 Před 3 lety +1

    I am this 49 year old woman without a husband. This is a great show. I think more ppl will call in with their honest questions. 🥰

  • @rory644
    @rory644 Před 3 lety +3

    Your husband has realised he has missed out on his life he's still a kid only 25 married & 2 kids, I feel very sorry for this woman she seems very mature but man stop getting married so young and having kids when you're barely adults yourselves!

  • @goodwolfproject6850
    @goodwolfproject6850 Před 2 lety

    I would love to see you get together with Sameer Hinduja and Justin Patchin to talk about cyberbullying. They literally wrote the book(s) on the subject. Dr. Hinduja comes from a mental health approach and Patchin comes from a crimson justice angle. Interesting stuff.

  • @Swimfit998
    @Swimfit998 Před 3 lety

    Hi John what address do i send my bill ? 😀

  • @truckingwithtobee
    @truckingwithtobee Před 3 lety +2

    Stop saying, you’re halfway home.🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @jamiestanley9234
    @jamiestanley9234 Před 3 lety

    Loooooove Social Distortion!

  • @k4949
    @k4949 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm all for people being nicer to each other, but I think John is a little naive about politics...

  • @AllThingsMoneyandTech
    @AllThingsMoneyandTech Před 3 lety +3

    People need to go through the process of forgiveness over these political issues.

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 Před 3 lety

      Absolutely! This is getting truly toxic.

  • @TheDriller100
    @TheDriller100 Před rokem

    2 years later, we see all the Jan 6 videos " .. the truth came out

  • @KidCity1985
    @KidCity1985 Před 3 lety +4

    Oh honey, you need to wake up.

  • @GardenerEarthGuy
    @GardenerEarthGuy Před 3 lety +6

    Delony For President 2024

  • @zacharycole8085
    @zacharycole8085 Před 3 lety

    3 wheeled motorcycle 🤮

  • @nemesis656
    @nemesis656 Před 3 lety +3

    I am debating deleting my Facebook account

    • @bestbudsourchannel4807
      @bestbudsourchannel4807 Před 3 lety +3

      Good call (deleting fb) 👍

    • @michaelescobar3746
      @michaelescobar3746 Před 3 lety +5

      Do it. Been gone since October 2020. Nothing of loss so far.

    • @droptozro
      @droptozro Před 3 lety +1

      I did it a long time ago. Best decision ever. About to do the same with this CZcams account I've had since 2006.

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 Před 3 lety +2

      Do it! I thought I couldn’t live without it, and I deleted it, and I found out I could! In fact, my life is better for it. I found out who actually cared for me and who didn’t. If the only way you can get people to care about you and talk to you is by posting pictures of yourself or posts about yourself on Facebook then they don’t care about you. Otherwise, they would text or call.

    • @mama2meditate375
      @mama2meditate375 Před 3 lety

      I’ve been off since July and it’s been amazing for my mental health. I highly recommend it.

  • @USA-GreedyMenOfNoIntegrity

    Calling out evil men or women publicly, in your home, workplace, government or church works. Do something. Stop being an ostrich. Hold people accountable for integrity.

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah, you might catch some people like that, but most of the time, you’re just ruining people’s lives over things you personally find offensive that do not merit such a result. Reality is you won’t like what everyone does or says, and same about you as well. Not everyone is going to agree with you on everything you say. But making people lose their jobs, their homes, all over something you just didn’t like, is it really such a worthy cause? I don’t think so.

    • @raiden031
      @raiden031 Před 3 lety +1

      Most of the time the calling out reflects more on the person doing it than the person being called out. And that's not a good reflection because they are almost always the evil one because their intention is usually to ruin people over petty things for their own ego.

  • @ladev91
    @ladev91 Před 3 lety +2

    America is angry

  • @Pznluv6
    @Pznluv6 Před 3 lety +1

    I think most reactions were from shock, especially since you know so much about so many things, that you were so unaware about the current events taking place. As a recent listener to your show I think I just feel confused and disappointed on your take on this. The cost of freedom is constant vigilance. You are grandstanding on how willing you are to listen to both sides but how willing would you be to let those people come in and run your house? We are in charge of our government and keeping it in check, not the other way around and need to be accountable to how we exercise that responsibility. Luckily we had our Founding Fathers take a stand against tyranny and not sit around letting it happen. It's also very contradictory that you qualify your answer that as long as they don't hurt your family which is exactly who I am trying to protect-my family . I'm all about love and forgiveness but also want to take care of those I love but putting policies in place for their best future. Maybe I'm most disappointed in Dave for putting you out there as a voice to be trusted and feeling betrayed. I don't think social media is the problem when it is allowing more voices to be heard, especially where free speech should be guaranteed, you just don't seem to have liked the responses. I'm so tired of the hypocrisy and virtue signaling and I am all on board with unity unless it's being used as a weapon to make everyone comply to un-Constitutional mandates. Also, you say you want to encourage critical thinking but are trashing those that are questioning the insanity of what is happening around them. Atleast you admit to your lack of interest and knowledge about this but I just feel so let down.

    • @amyengle355
      @amyengle355 Před 2 lety

      Couldnt have said it better! I'm quite shocked at the Pollyanniah view on this subject. Freedom is not free. This country was not founded by the faint of heart...and the statement about there not being any bombs disrupting the election was naive to say the least. And the whole conspiracy theory thing...ugg... I cant even begin to say how much I think is wrong with these thought. John, you're obviously a highly intelligent person and I love your show and you've taught me and many others so much. Please remember the country and the people that fought and died for the freedom to get that education and freely share your thoughts. It's under attack every day

  • @kennethscharnick1031
    @kennethscharnick1031 Před 3 lety +1

    I would not recommend inviting anyone over to your home until the pandemic is under control. Just my two cents . . .

    • @saywhat4537
      @saywhat4537 Před 3 lety +3

      Missing the point entirely ..

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 Před 3 lety +1

      @@saywhat4537 totally. Why are people like this? Ugh, it’s what makes social media so toxic.

  • @sackettfamily4685
    @sackettfamily4685 Před 3 lety

    It was an insensitive thing to say dr john. You have no idea what you've even done.

  • @ipadpro9580
    @ipadpro9580 Před 3 lety

    Social media is not toxic

    • @Pznluv6
      @Pznluv6 Před 3 lety

      Exactly, it is tool just like anything else and can be used for good and for evil.

  • @evaba5666
    @evaba5666 Před 3 lety

    Really boring , 16 minutes, so far, I hope it gets better

    • @HaloDaycare
      @HaloDaycare Před 3 lety +3

      Says more about you and your character to post this