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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2020
  • Are You Letting Immaturity Hurt Your Relationships?
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Komentáře • 105

  • @xxkataxx22
    @xxkataxx22 Před 3 lety +69

    Finding this channel felt like finding a gem!

    • @grafando
      @grafando Před 3 lety +8

      This is VERY underrated and deserves way more attention. This guy is awesome!

    • @winsbeyond8295
      @winsbeyond8295 Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah. Dave Ramsey got a good crew overall.

    • @annstropes2236
      @annstropes2236 Před 3 lety

      I agree.

  • @laurenhayles1087
    @laurenhayles1087 Před rokem +7

    Tough topic to tackle, but I hope that no woman -or man- ever thinks that birthing children is the ‘one thing’ that gives purpose to their life

  • @shariwalker2964
    @shariwalker2964 Před 3 lety +37

    I love how you always suggest going to breakfast- you should call it John Delony Breakfast Club 😁

    • @cecileganel
      @cecileganel Před 3 lety +3

      I think it’s brilliant advice because the day is fresh. We don’t have the happenings of the day on our minds when having serious conversation

    • @marinusvanderlubbe7673
      @marinusvanderlubbe7673 Před 3 lety

      I just don’t want to be at the same restaurant trying to enjoy myself

  • @soinlove8306
    @soinlove8306 Před 3 lety +40

    When I was pregnant with my first baby I could tell one friend was happy for me but hurting, it took no effort to be a decent human and not shove it in her face.

    • @Angel-hm9so
      @Angel-hm9so Před 2 měsíci

      I was nursing a 3 month old while taking training. MIL would bring him to feed as needed. I was training along side a woman with a tragic story. I nursed in another room. I pumped well away.

  • @angelikalaser7778
    @angelikalaser7778 Před 3 lety +44

    I love how people mention vegetables when it comes to veganism, like other people don't eat them, like never. Guess what, fries are vegan as well 😂

    • @Angel-hm9so
      @Angel-hm9so Před 2 měsíci

      And a vegetable 😅

    • @flowersforme375
      @flowersforme375 Před měsícem

      A bean is a vegetable too! Let’s make chili cheese fries!🍟

  • @chvaunbarnes3495
    @chvaunbarnes3495 Před 3 lety +31

    I FREAKING love this show! I gave up love and hiphop Atlanta for this healing show! Best choice EVERRRRR

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    I cannot stop watching this channel. I love it! It's helped me so much in such a short period of time.

  • @karenkniffin2915
    @karenkniffin2915 Před 3 lety +7

    Dr. D, you are a such a gift! I am a loyal fan from here on out, thank you!!

  • @stephaniem2743
    @stephaniem2743 Před 3 lety +8

    Absolutely loving this show! John is a great speaker. Love his frank advice and how he seems to really care. Keep up the great work!

  • @rosesaurusrex7450
    @rosesaurusrex7450 Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you for making these videos, they're so very helpful!

  • @boxesbinslidsllc
    @boxesbinslidsllc Před rokem +3

    Emotional affair is still an affair.

  • @sarahbyington2440
    @sarahbyington2440 Před 3 lety +16

    i was the sister in law who was pregnant. i didn't know what to do. my sister in law just ignored me completely and refused to acknowledge the baby. i was stuck happy for myself but not a clue how to handle her.

    • @knowledgeiskey1319
      @knowledgeiskey1319 Před 3 lety

      you are the woman in the video?

    • @sarahbyington2440
      @sarahbyington2440 Před 3 lety +3

      @@knowledgeiskey1319 no, just a similar situation.

    • @knowledgeiskey1319
      @knowledgeiskey1319 Před 3 lety

      @@sarahbyington2440 ohh i see

    • @thiccpicc3255
      @thiccpicc3255 Před 3 lety +3

      Your sister in law has baggage and you don't. Congrats on your child. Remember it's not her pain that isn't being acknowledged; she's being juvenile and her behavior is awful.

  • @rosebud7105
    @rosebud7105 Před 3 lety +11

    Dr. Deloney, you’ll never see this comment, but I want you to know how thankful I am you took a call surrounding the topic of infertility. It’s not talked about enough, and so people don’t know how to respond to the emotion they’re feeling and experiencing. I don’t agree with everything you said, but you were wonderful and heartfelt with your answers. Just remember, not everyone has a story of adoption at the end of the infertility journey. Some of us will be childless not by choice for the rest of our lives. ❤️

  • @minervagalvez4748
    @minervagalvez4748 Před 3 lety +12

    Be a Mature Adult, and not a 5 year boy who throws a tantrum because their not playing your immature game of you have what I can't have!

    • @AMK544
      @AMK544 Před 3 lety +2

      Spoken like someone who has probably never experienced infertility.

  • @esequielsandoval2084
    @esequielsandoval2084 Před 3 lety +1

    Definitely subscribing to the podcast

  • @amberleeming9127
    @amberleeming9127 Před 3 lety +8

    The book Love and Respect is so great for marriage and getting out of that “Crazy Cycle.”

    • @AdultDrinks
      @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety

      Every guy is a immature child every woman needs praise this guy shouldn’t have a license. He’s no doctor he’s bias completely and Thoroughly

    • @benb7727
      @benb7727 Před 3 lety +4

      Shane Reyburn Why are you here?

  • @bennibao7583
    @bennibao7583 Před rokem +1

    Hearing Matt's call is literally the issue i deal with and i wish my partner was talking to John because im tired. 29:32

  • @lordcolinb
    @lordcolinb Před 3 lety

    Can't wait

  • @carosol07
    @carosol07 Před 3 lety +5

    Minute 11:06, EVERY MAN needs to hear that!!!

  • @humanbeing5396
    @humanbeing5396 Před 3 lety +3

    I just discovered I was being immature in relationships years ago.

  • @jmh1317
    @jmh1317 Před 3 lety +3

    Excellent👍

  • @bayonina
    @bayonina Před 3 lety +2

    Great video! This is perfect for my next VIDS👌

  • @u2nice3079
    @u2nice3079 Před 3 lety

    It's Lou-is-ville in Nebraska.

  • @jennynt1530
    @jennynt1530 Před 3 lety +2

    What is the book on anger?

  • @abirose4875
    @abirose4875 Před 3 lety +7

    Me after reading the title: yes
    Let’s see what the video is actually like then shall we 😜

  • @texasgina
    @texasgina Před 3 lety

    👈🏻Keto 🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @Kobi_J4
    @Kobi_J4 Před 3 lety +3

    Click on so fast !

  • @SimplyFitwithJay
    @SimplyFitwithJay Před 3 lety +3

    I really like this guy lol.

  • @CoFitnessTv
    @CoFitnessTv Před 3 lety +6

    Ive had 2 close friends that were struggling with infertility I told them to eat a lot of seafood oysters , sushi and it works trust me...

  • @esequielsandoval2084
    @esequielsandoval2084 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow this hit too close lol.

  • @joshuaodeneal3974
    @joshuaodeneal3974 Před 3 lety

    Me either

  • @candyluna2929
    @candyluna2929 Před 3 lety +2

    Nahh the one that the guy gets mad at the wife for correcting him, she also needs to back down. Let things gom

  • @angelikalaser7778
    @angelikalaser7778 Před 3 lety +5

    I feel compassionate with people who struggle with infertility, at the same time I want to tell them it is not their child, there is a reason God gives them children

  • @malika154
    @malika154 Před 3 lety +5

    It's Ra- Kim... but yesssssss!!!!

  • @GardenerEarthGuy
    @GardenerEarthGuy Před 3 lety +6

    My sixth ex wife was a vegan, couldn't stand her- definitely not marriage material.

    • @angelikalaser7778
      @angelikalaser7778 Před 3 lety +1

      Haha, you found aparently after the fact of marriage.

    • @GardenerEarthGuy
      @GardenerEarthGuy Před 3 lety +2

      @@angelikalaser7778 my ninth wife used to make vegan dishes, but she'd cook rare steak, too.
      Variety is the spice of life.

    • @angelikalaser7778
      @angelikalaser7778 Před 3 lety +1

      @@GardenerEarthGuy every side dish is vegan (potatoes, rice, pasta)
      But 9 wives? For real?

    • @GardenerEarthGuy
      @GardenerEarthGuy Před 3 lety +3

      @@angelikalaser7778 actually I'm up to twelve ex wives at the moment- variety is living...

    • @angelikalaser7778
      @angelikalaser7778 Před 3 lety +2

      @@GardenerEarthGuy ever thought about just not marrying? 😅🙈

  • @Yummy2u
    @Yummy2u Před 3 lety +2

    Rah-Keem? You definitely aren't a hip hop head.

  • @franklazarro327
    @franklazarro327 Před 3 lety +5

    Ho

  • @broadwellr9667
    @broadwellr9667 Před 3 lety

    The Louisville comment. Hahaha

  • @TheVitalover
    @TheVitalover Před 3 lety +21

    She clearly cheated lol

  • @minervagalvez4748
    @minervagalvez4748 Před 3 lety +8

    What a Selfish caller! You need counseling to cope with your wife not being able to have children. It's NOT everyone else's problem to continue to accommodate you! STOP YOUR BEHAVIOR!!!

    • @katepolley1889
      @katepolley1889 Před 3 lety +2

      There are WAYYYYYYY more situations at play than you realize. Nobody should walk on egg shells for personal issues and at the same time, it seems like their is a lot of family involved that may or may not be helping in infertility.

  • @MissyTC-86
    @MissyTC-86 Před 3 lety +8

    Also women are not out here just to procreate, if we don’t get pregnant we don’t sit around thinking darn, I am here for one purpose to have kids and can’t now I feel worthless. HELLO, what of the MAN IS SHOOTING BLANKS!! It’s not always the women’s fault .

    • @isabelatticus4039
      @isabelatticus4039 Před 3 lety +5

      It seemed like he was saying how his wife was feeling. That he missed and didn’t realize why it hurt her so.

  • @whitneyhollingsworth3647
    @whitneyhollingsworth3647 Před 3 lety +4

    Regarding infertility- John Delaney on the one hand good to have the discussion because this is a topic that is highly misunderstood by society at large, but to say “the one thing I’m put on earth to do” to make that comment about women is highly misogynistic and misguided. Consider not giving advise about something you don’t understand. Women have more value than bearing children, which only adds to the misunderstanding on this topic. Maybe consider telling the caller you are sorry they are struggling , and be humble enough that you don’t have advice but your thoughts are with him. Then encourage him with the remainder of your comments on how they can connect as a couple.

  • @Angela-ne9cy
    @Angela-ne9cy Před 3 lety +6

    "I'm a woman, I'm put on this earth for one thing..." ummmmmm yeah, no. We're worth much more than making babies. sir.

  • @Lil_Pipsqueak
    @Lil_Pipsqueak Před 4 měsíci +1

    um. women were not put here for one purpose only: to mother. i don’t think you’d say men were put here for one purpose only: to father. very questionable statement john

    • @mollysmom-bf1yi
      @mollysmom-bf1yi Před 4 měsíci +1

      Yes, heard that and went ‘yikes’. Bit of a one-sided view

    • @sanniepstein4835
      @sanniepstein4835 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Nature has only 2 concerns: survival and reproduction. We add the rest; it is not essential.

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +4

    Woman gets on says she’s been cheating while lying about not cheating, he has nothing bad to say just affirms her and says she needs to forgive herself... what
    This guy is the worst!!!!!
    Now he’s weaponizing the past????? Wow just wow

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +4

    Man- Hey I’m having a problem could you help
    Him - your a child! make sure you praise your wife
    Me- what a pos

    • @spiritsofthesky
      @spiritsofthesky Před 3 lety +2

      Don't like what John has to say? Don't watch. Dave isn't going to can someone because of some Yahoo on the internet.

    • @ryanspalding6252
      @ryanspalding6252 Před 3 lety +4

      Why are you so obsessed with him, like 10 comments are you kidding me? Stop acting like a child and move on, nobody is forcing you to watch his channel.

    • @AdultDrinks
      @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety

      Don’t like my opinions don’t read them nobody mAde you read the comments. This guy is the worst and I commented while watching because he was sooo awful and full of backhanded comments and terrible advice. This is no man to look up to or get advice from, you are worse off to have watched it then to have never seen this bias garbage

    • @ryanspalding6252
      @ryanspalding6252 Před 3 lety +4

      @@AdultDrinks You commented TEN TIMES kinda hard to avoid all your stupid comments.

  • @vinniedeluca2188
    @vinniedeluca2188 Před 3 lety

    This podcast would be really good if he wasn’t trying to be Dave Ramsey, just be yourself man because it is extremely obvious your trying extra hard to mirror Dave, Chris Hogan has his own show and he is completely himself which is very clear, you are not being yourself so hopefully some day you can

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +2

    She Paid penance... he’s violent
    This is trash

  • @MissyTC-86
    @MissyTC-86 Před 3 lety +7

    The comment about vegans was rude. Saying vegans think they are morally superior is rude. 1. Not all vegans try to get other people to be vegans, 2. Not all vegans go around telling people they are vegans, 3. Vegans are better for the environment so bless them for helping balance out the planet and one less customer to the the horrible, unloving meat industry 4. They don’t eat garbage meat full of antibiotics and hormones that you probably stuff your face with regularly and 5. Vegans who do it right eat VERY creatively and you can make truly amazing meals using plants, not just carrots and lettuce. That is so rude.
    LIVE AND LET LIVE. Don’t make fun of vegans, they make for a healthier planet, Jesus agrees.
    Meat doesn’t just kills animals it kills people by causing poor health. It shortens lives. Plant based eating will not shorten your life. So stop acting ignorant about it.
    I’m not a vegan but I am a pescatarian and I don’t eat eggs and dairy anymore because they feed pathogens and dairy is mucus forming. So cheers to
    your health, your gut, and your arteries.

    • @lmnop3023
      @lmnop3023 Před 3 lety +13

      Take. A. Joke.

    • @jessicah2345
      @jessicah2345 Před 3 lety +10

      Lol says vegans don't think they are morally superior and then proceeds to explain why they are morally superior 🤦

    • @SaystheTruth3
      @SaystheTruth3 Před rokem

      ​@@jessicah2345lol right?! 😂

    • @sanniepstein4835
      @sanniepstein4835 Před 4 měsíci

      Most plant crops are raised with the routine use of herbicides and pesticides.
      Grass fed meat is a green food, because hay is a perennial crop that requires no chemicals even on non-organic farms, and uses less fuel by needing no annual plowing and or any spraying.

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +1

    110% if it was a man calling he would have said well you need to realize how that was cheating and infidelity and you need to apologize to your wife and beg forgiveness! This man is a bad person

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +3

    Dave Ramsey get ride if this clown he’s bringing your brand down he is not a good man

    • @wardglowinski4710
      @wardglowinski4710 Před 3 lety +8

      Looks as though you have an issue with John. Seems like he is helping many people with similar situatuons. Would you like to talk about your issues? Do you have better guidance for these callers?

    • @angelikalaser7778
      @angelikalaser7778 Před 3 lety +8

      Boy, 10 comments? You are definetely too involved with this guy

    • @teev7
      @teev7 Před 3 lety +5

      @@angelikalaser7778 yeah I agree, and he also doesn’t realize that his comments are helping CZcams’s algorithm for Dr. John’s channel to gain even more exposure.

    • @TheNotSoFakeNews
      @TheNotSoFakeNews Před 3 lety +4

      @@wardglowinski4710 i would be willing to bet my house on this guy being a vegan.

    • @abbasjoy4785
      @abbasjoy4785 Před 3 lety +2

      He's probably hit nerves for you😂. If you're more frustrated than you should be, check yourself

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +2

    Dave get rid of this man

    • @teev7
      @teev7 Před 3 lety +6

      😂 why do you watch him?

    • @mariee.5912
      @mariee.5912 Před 2 lety

      Just go quietly

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +1

    I’m laughing at you not with you... who is this guy??? Not a therapist! This is wrong

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +1

    Of course he’s against a binary argument.... this guy has ideas that aren’t based in real life. Seems like he’s taught to challenge the man he’s never challenging women

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +2

    We need more masculinity not more pandering to women what is this guy talking about he does not live in the real world

  • @AdultDrinks
    @AdultDrinks Před 3 lety +2

    This guy is absolutely horrible

  • @rosesaurusrex7450
    @rosesaurusrex7450 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you for making these videos, they're so very helpful!