I've had this happen to me several times and I still don't exactly get it. I think it's because you show higher value by not really caring, it takes the weight off of her shoulders, and you're way different than everybody because 90% of guys are simps so you stand out.
to sum it up, if u show u don’t care about her it’s a signal to her that she has to prove herself to u in order to get a reaction. that’s why girls love nonchalant dudes.
It’s like a paradox bruh. Trying to get a girl to like you almost never works man it just don’t. Even if it does it’s gonna take time. It could take years. I talk to women when they talk to me. I might say what’s up or good morning, but I’m done initiating convos and stuff because they always take it as “oop is he hitting on me?” Like …. So I just sit back and they find ways to make conversation, and I keep my answers short but not like a robot. Still gotta show ya humor and personality.
Basically do this. Flirt and joke with ever women. Do it for the fun of it. Notice the ones who talk back and ask those girls out on a date. However, don't make it sound like a date instead make it sound like you are exploring the chemistry. If done correctly, the woman is going to pick you ask a bf. And other women are going to want you as well.
Im not even lying to you, i watched couple of your vids bout stop caring much bout girls, they actually pulling up to me or staring at me way more often and i could clearly see it in the corner of my eyes ( i did that alot b4) and it just bring me the feeling that "i positive that girl like me". Everytime i see girls bro, i started to act like im cool, like im grow up than the rest of those boys you talked before and turned out it just make the situation become weirder. But since then, i didnt even give a damn bout the way i act, i just acted randomly like how i used to do and BOOM, these girls laughed at me (not bc i acted like a clown or sum shii like that) and talked to me for like 5-10 mins ngl. Man you're legend, keep up tha good work my man 💪
Can’t lie, this has helped me. Growing up I always wanted to “prove” myself to woman, as if that’s what would get my a girlfriend. Watching your videos just helped me realize that “proving” something to someone who you don’t know is not really a good idea in the end. I went to a group hang out with some friends, and there was this girl hanging out with us, I had small talk with her, found out we had similar interests. But I never tried to “prove” myself and spend all my time with her, I spent my time pretty equally with everyone. There was another dude trying to flirt with her by singing and playing the guitar to her, and Well in the end after the hang out. She came to me and said hey we should hang out some time. So now we are on our way to a little ramen shop. My guys, best advice, it is what it is. Don’t chase girls, they smell desperate
If you dress well, wear dope Jordan’s it does make you look on point and gives you confidence I hope people don’t think looking bummy in the streets is better than looking weird or flashy because there is nothing wrong with dressing a certain way if it’s inside of you and want to express it, don’t follow a trend blindly if you can, but girls do pick up on you if you have a good fashion sense. But it’s not everything you have a be cool and then they notice the Jordan’s and kinda put the whole package together like they want to assess clout from you. Access your cultural capital
Most guys are nervous around women because that girl is the only person they’re talking to. At all. Get some bro friends, get some basic social skills and get something in your life that’s more important to you than the girl
@@curlyheaddeebo shits complicated i feel u bro, what helped me tho was just starting small convos with girls about some shit and that will help you get more confidence and skills talking to women
It reminds me an example in one our economics class: If I were to send a dollar everyday to your home it wouldn't have the same value as that when you earn it. But a dollar will also not have any value if the country printing it don't have no oil. Moral of the story: Value lies in the resource (fulness) and rarity. Also: height may be a plus but not the absolute. I am pretty short but got asked many a times by taller ones. True there were also who shamed me for my height but then I told them they were as fat as short I was and then they only got mad making a laughing stock of dem. One of them even scratched me and said I got more balls than she seen anyone. So we just need to be aware not try hards
Not really tryna disagree here. But this girl that I know and met, and we usaully see each other around the halls at school. She was contently having a lower energy around me everyday and I think its because I did not really give her any attention even though I was the first one to approch her. Also, not just this girl. The same thing happened with another girl. Not sure what I'm sepposed to do please give some advices.
Broski we know girls like flashy things. I put them always and get a lot of girls approaching Me. Guys clothing up flashy Don’t mean u trying hard. Put on you Gucci if u wanna. Good Video KAM As always
I just got approached in some baggy hoodie sweats and slides I’m school, I been wearing designer but a girl chose the day I wore a bummy fit to walk up on me tbh ion think it matters to a extent
@LyraTinashe tbh, he's low key right AND wrong at the same time. You DONT have to try to impress these 🐦 and what designer/shoes you have on don't matter. However, you DO need *bait* 👀👀👀👀, bait for one guy might be his looks🧔🏾♂️, might be physique 💪🏾 for another guy, or might be a flashy car 🏎️ for the NEXT man...EVERY MAN NEEDS *BAIT*. The bait will be the primary thing that attracts her to you, then you need to hook her with your personality/"game"/common interest... finally you keep her in orbit with GREAT SEGGS👀👀👀👀😏💯💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🧔🏾♂️
@@ghx5t__ you don't know how my mother looks like and why is you so mad about how i think another guy looks like most women finds Larenz Tate to be attractive guy so it's not like i was saying he looks like Shrek.
Yea but what if you wanna dress up like a G and wear all this fancy stuff for ur self, becuz u wanna match wit the famous ppl u idolize ? If u doing it for ur self first then it’s ok
“Just act like you don’t care and she’ll catch feelings” is one of those concepts I’ve heard for years but have never really understood.
I've had this happen to me several times and I still don't exactly get it. I think it's because you show higher value by not really caring, it takes the weight off of her shoulders, and you're way different than everybody because 90% of guys are simps so you stand out.
to sum it up, if u show u don’t care about her it’s a signal to her that she has to prove herself to u in order to get a reaction. that’s why girls love nonchalant dudes.
I’m not gonna lie,95% of the time Kam posts a vid it relates to me and he always has the right answers.
God is really using you Kam 🙏💪🏻
For I really couldn’t have been any luckier with his videos
patbat: chocolate man explains getting a girl is easy if you dont try
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We love patbat
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It’s like a paradox bruh. Trying to get a girl to like you almost never works man it just don’t. Even if it does it’s gonna take time. It could take years. I talk to women when they talk to me. I might say what’s up or good morning, but I’m done initiating convos and stuff because they always take it as “oop is he hitting on me?” Like …. So I just sit back and they find ways to make conversation, and I keep my answers short but not like a robot. Still gotta show ya humor and personality.
In Kams word's it's like a Catch 22🤣
Basically do this. Flirt and joke with ever women. Do it for the fun of it. Notice the ones who talk back and ask those girls out on a date. However, don't make it sound like a date instead make it sound like you are exploring the chemistry. If done correctly, the woman is going to pick you ask a bf. And other women are going to want you as well.
honestly I dont like girls unless they like me
For real. Either that or just focus on other things, women that like you will take notice. You won’t see it coming, but it does happen
@@mario125ww wise !!! Not too direct, but still making your point.
Im not even lying to you, i watched couple of your vids bout stop caring much bout girls, they actually pulling up to me or staring at me way more often and i could clearly see it in the corner of my eyes ( i did that alot b4) and it just bring me the feeling that "i positive that girl like me". Everytime i see girls bro, i started to act like im cool, like im grow up than the rest of those boys you talked before and turned out it just make the situation become weirder. But since then, i didnt even give a damn bout the way i act, i just acted randomly like how i used to do and BOOM, these girls laughed at me (not bc i acted like a clown or sum shii like that) and talked to me for like 5-10 mins ngl. Man you're legend, keep up tha good work my man 💪
Can’t lie, this has helped me. Growing up I always wanted to “prove” myself to woman, as if that’s what would get my a girlfriend. Watching your videos just helped me realize that “proving” something to someone who you don’t know is not really a good idea in the end.
I went to a group hang out with some friends, and there was this girl hanging out with us, I had small talk with her, found out we had similar interests. But I never tried to “prove” myself and spend all my time with her, I spent my time pretty equally with everyone. There was another dude trying to flirt with her by singing and playing the guitar to her, and Well in the end after the hang out. She came to me and said hey we should hang out some time. So now we are on our way to a little ramen shop.
My guys, best advice, it is what it is. Don’t chase girls, they smell desperate
Bruh u like gettin us on edge like crazy.... n facin thee reality like fr💨
Facts after facts. Love this channel, dont ever stop making videos
He low-key funny as hell
If you dress well, wear dope Jordan’s it does make you look on point and gives you confidence I hope people don’t think looking bummy in the streets is better than looking weird or flashy because there is nothing wrong with dressing a certain way if it’s inside of you and want to express it, don’t follow a trend blindly if you can, but girls do pick up on you if you have a good fashion sense. But it’s not everything you have a be cool and then they notice the Jordan’s and kinda put the whole package together like they want to assess clout from you. Access your cultural capital
This video deadass couldn’t have dropped for me at a better time
Eye contact can be your best tool (if used correctly) when having a conversation with a girl ..
Kam thanks for uploading such a great content❤❤❤❤
Straight like dat‼️‼️
Needed this video tbh
@PatBat69 buss😩😩
Most guys are nervous around women because that girl is the only person they’re talking to. At all. Get some bro friends, get some basic social skills and get something in your life that’s more important to you than the girl
This is my situation, it's just the making friends is hard asf. Thought it'd be easier bc we're guys but nah
@@curlyheaddeebo shits complicated i feel u bro, what helped me tho was just starting small convos with girls about some shit and that will help you get more confidence and skills talking to women
Having bro friends dont do shii
BOMBARDING US WITH THE VIDEOS EVRY DAY! Demon or Angel timing!
angelic timing
The worst that can happen is for her to say No!
It reminds me an example in one our economics class:
If I were to send a dollar everyday to your home it wouldn't have the same value as that when you earn it.
But a dollar will also not have any value if the country printing it don't have no oil.
Moral of the story:
Value lies in the resource (fulness) and rarity.
Also: height may be a plus but not the absolute. I am pretty short but got asked many a times by taller ones. True there were also who shamed me for my height but then I told them they were as fat as short I was and then they only got mad making a laughing stock of dem. One of them even scratched me and said I got more balls than she seen anyone.
So we just need to be aware not try hards
Best video on dating spot on
Just focus on your path and purpose and less on girls and watch them chase you, plain and simple, bruh
Mayne whatever
kam is my savior 🙏ive never related so much to a video
THE GOAT
You gotta put yourself out there first talk to them let them know you interested. You can’t just do nothing😭💀
After you show some interest show you exist at least bro damn then if they don’t show it back then you fall back obviously
Dats lame
Facts
Wisdom
Not really tryna disagree here. But this girl that I know and met, and we usaully see each other around the halls at school. She was contently having a lower energy around me everyday and I think its because I did not really give her any attention even though I was the first one to approch her. Also, not just this girl. The same thing happened with another girl. Not sure what I'm sepposed to do please give some advices.
here before patbat
Broski we know girls like flashy things.
I put them always and get a lot of girls approaching Me.
Guys clothing up flashy Don’t mean u trying hard.
Put on you Gucci if u wanna.
Good Video KAM As always
I just got approached in some baggy hoodie sweats and slides I’m school, I been wearing designer but a girl chose the day I wore a bummy fit to walk up on me tbh ion think it matters to a extent
@LyraTinashe tbh, he's low key right AND wrong at the same time. You DONT have to try to impress these 🐦 and what designer/shoes you have on don't matter. However, you DO need *bait* 👀👀👀👀, bait for one guy might be his looks🧔🏾♂️, might be physique 💪🏾 for another guy, or might be a flashy car 🏎️ for the NEXT man...EVERY MAN NEEDS *BAIT*. The bait will be the primary thing that attracts her to you, then you need to hook her with your personality/"game"/common interest... finally you keep her in orbit with GREAT SEGGS👀👀👀👀😏💯💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🧔🏾♂️
@@jackiechun5817 💯
W video
Sad reality but you should find something who matches energy and is consistent
Lemme see those emails shawty
All you need is the environment. It’s too easy.
It's like an investment to me SMH
12:40 how can a woman submit to you when you chase and therefore submit to her
💯🥇🏋🏾♂️🥊
Kam Harvey
Cam react to tyrese Gibson being a smip
ok
Just be yourself, and they will come.
Bro i never tried and never got a girl so it has nth to do with how less you try
9:20 the truth about
women
Bro, in them older videos, you look like a darker B.G. 🤣
Discord??
No sorry if you don’t try nothing is going to happen. I don’t agree with this at all.
Ion try but no bad chicks fw me so dis cap
after 5 months of watching kam, i just realized he kinda looks like lil uzi lol
A lot of people look like that now I don’t know why it happened to be too but that guy he had red shORT braids, so it was obvious
he looks more like Larenz Tate
@@bonorton5870 your mom looks like larenz tate
@@ghx5t__ you don't know how my mother looks like and why is you so mad about how i think another guy looks like most women finds Larenz Tate to be attractive guy so it's not like i was saying he looks like Shrek.
@@bonorton5870 i was kiddin chill
Kammie
Who tf us patbat
Patbat why was your Acc banned😅 every Kam’s subscriber knows you
Yea but what if you wanna dress up like a G and wear all this fancy stuff for ur self, becuz u wanna match wit the famous ppl u idolize ? If u doing it for ur self first then it’s ok