The Power of Emotional Intelligence | Travis Bradberry | TEDxUCIrvine

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  • Why do people with average IQs outperform those with the highest IQs 70% of the time? It all comes down to emotional intelligence. And unlike IQ, emotional intelligence is a choice and a discipline, not an innate quality bestowed upon the lucky. In this powerful and entertaining talk, Dr. Travis Bradberry, coauthor of Emotional Intelligence 2.0, shows you how to use this critical skill to your advantage.
    Dr. Travis Bradberry is the award-winning coauthor of Emotional Intelligence 2.0 and the cofounder of TalentSmartÒ¾the world’s leading provider of emotional intelligence tests and training serving more than 75% of Fortune 500 companies. His bestselling books have been translated into 25 languages and are available in more than 150 countries.
    Dr. Bradberry is a LinkedIn Influencer and a regular contributor to Forbes, Inc., Entrepreneur, The World Economic Forum, and The Huffington Post. He has written for, or been covered by, Newsweek, Time, BusinessWeek, Fortune, Fast Company, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, and The Harvard Business Review.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 273

  • @cgelmore488
    @cgelmore488 Před 3 lety +9

    With PTSD I didn't get into REM sleep for 45 years. I wake up refreshed when I do take night meds.

  • @mehnooshjohnston293
    @mehnooshjohnston293 Před 6 lety +64

    The Emotional Intelligent is related to the brilliant power of our minds as responsive beings. It creates reality of our desires and dreams. This incredible power is inherent to us and it’s insane the almost absolute control we have to create the realities we want if we just take ownership of it.

  • @IlyaZub
    @IlyaZub Před 5 lety +93

    To sum up.
    Three things to do as the speaker sad: control your stress, apply sleep hygiene, control how much caffeine you consume.
    Well, each of those are areas to research and try. Thanks for the valuable talk!

  • @nidac9420
    @nidac9420 Před 4 lety +40

    He explained the neuroscience part very well and this is a very informative video!

  • @bindur1765
    @bindur1765 Před 2 lety +22

    Travis we like to hear more from this. This Ted talk is a treasure ☺️, grateful that you shared the wisdom,Travis

  • @marcusmcknight6076
    @marcusmcknight6076 Před měsícem

    I was recently assigned to watch this video for class and I think those three steps for improving your EQ are wonderful. However, the unfortunate thing is for many industries (e.g. transit, logistics, law enforcement, etc) it's really hard to wake up at the same time everyday when your schedule changes daily.

  • @smily6781
    @smily6781 Před 2 lety +8

    EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
    Understand ur emotions
    Limbic system - emotional mind
    Rational mind
    Master ur emotions - it is base for everything
    Self awareness,stress undercontrol ( improve memory ) - cultivate the attitude of gratitude - lowers the response of stress
    Clean up ur sleep hygiene -melatonin
    Caffeine - reduce intake

  • @richardj.magoma7804
    @richardj.magoma7804 Před 5 lety +11

    One of the best presentation of emotional intelligence I have listened to, especially on the impact of sleep on bodily functions.

  • @guesswho49
    @guesswho49 Před 2 lety +1

    Finally someone who i actually wanted to listen too. Most videos are so boring cause of the tone in their voices but this guy made me really listen.

  • @winniew6742
    @winniew6742 Před 5 lety +3

    My uncle has just send me on a research on emotional intelligence..I can't just tolerate field work on my career path.I get so emotional, thanks for this.

  • @dr.anjuchawla2232
    @dr.anjuchawla2232 Před 5 lety +1

    First one of its kind on EI to my knowledge, so simple to understand, so concrete and complete! Thank you Travis!

  • @5MinutePsychology
    @5MinutePsychology Před 3 lety +10

    It’s all incredibly interesting! Emotional Intelligence has changed my life. Ever since I started working on it I feel as if I was reading a book which is invisible for so many people. I love! And I hope you love it, too.
    I am amazed that so many people claim Emotional Intelligence doesn’t exist.

    • @Arianhelm
      @Arianhelm Před 3 lety

      How did you work on your emotional intelligence? Any tips?

    • @5MinutePsychology
      @5MinutePsychology Před 3 lety

      @@Arianhelm feel free to check out a few of my videos about emotional intelligence. I hope you’ll find something informative.

  • @Aditya-gf1ww
    @Aditya-gf1ww Před 4 lety +4

    Hey! Thanks for establishing the link between sleep and emotional intelligence. Though not expecting a lesson on sleep, it was really a useful one!

  • @marklong3043
    @marklong3043 Před 5 lety +11

    I think having a good degree of self awareness and how we Interact with others is a must

  • @user-to5ok8ri9q
    @user-to5ok8ri9q Před rokem +1

    THANK YOU DR.Travis Bradberry!

  • @kareem9585
    @kareem9585 Před 7 měsíci

    1. Stress under control
    Strategy ... gratitude, walk, exercise
    2. Clean sleep hygiene
    Groggy..
    3. Low caffeine for sleep

  • @malinnohall3707
    @malinnohall3707 Před 2 lety

    Tarvis from the bottom of my heart, thank you. What you told me Is very use full information!

  • @misan9040
    @misan9040 Před 5 lety

    Great talk. Very useful advises, indeed a good way to maters emotions and improve EQ

  • @DeliciaTrini
    @DeliciaTrini Před 5 lety +5

    Great TED talk loaded with information! Thank you!

  • @upbornwoman9334
    @upbornwoman9334 Před 5 lety +1

    Useful talk for us in Jos, Plateau State, Nigeria.

  • @isnoopy1101
    @isnoopy1101 Před 6 lety +9

    Great talk! I agree! Emotional intelligence is a skill that we can develop and improve by learning and practicing!

  • @loriannkisiolek4108
    @loriannkisiolek4108 Před 6 lety +1

    A great listen and useful. Thanks!

  • @aminalovewaz
    @aminalovewaz Před 5 lety +85

    Okay, no more CZcams at night 😱 love EQ, my life has changed so much since I've started practicing it! Hope everyone gets to increase theirs as well 😊

    • @dg591
      @dg591 Před 5 lety +1

      Amiena Inspire

    • @lolo41645
      @lolo41645 Před 4 lety

      Congratulations

    • @unclesamdavid101
      @unclesamdavid101 Před 4 lety

      not easy though

    • @5MinutePsychology
      @5MinutePsychology Před 3 lety +1

      I work on mine on daily basis! Still not perfect, though...doesn’t need to be ;-)

    • @karrobat8260
      @karrobat8260 Před 3 lety +1

      How's that going for you now? Are you now one-year sober on CZcams nights?

  • @sugaboss
    @sugaboss Před 4 lety +4

    one of the best talk i've ever watch ... thank you

  • @andreic6250
    @andreic6250 Před rokem

    @12:30 cultivating attitude of gratitude

  • @codenameir1
    @codenameir1 Před 6 lety +17

    Amazing!! This was so helpful and relevant!! God bless this guy!

  • @robinuniyal7549
    @robinuniyal7549 Před 6 lety +7

    Came here from LinkedIn :) he is awesome ;)

  • @aishaibrahim9280
    @aishaibrahim9280 Před 4 lety +12

    Feels great to watch this as I am currently reading his book. Very valuable information in it and very simple to read through. It just flows and resonates nicely with what you know innately.

  • @youfunchen
    @youfunchen Před 6 lety +4

    Great story! I know much more about my brain after I watch this Ted Talk. I like how Travis present the idea of emotional intelligence and how he uses a lot of real stories to show its importance. When I saw the chart that EQ score will impact my pay, it get me thinking that I should really work on it. Overall, Great speak. I love it and I will share with my friends, so they can benefit from it.

  • @raycervantes6829
    @raycervantes6829 Před 5 lety +6

    12:50 ended his point and gave me confidence for my near future because i believe to a certain extent i have a relatively high EQ, but im also going to school for accounting and find that other qualities like emotional intelligence are key to creating great interpersonal relationships! Id like to someday be a leader of my community and workplace and with my knowledge and experience and consideration on the emotions of others, it’s inevitable not to succeed 🤫

  • @basic7485
    @basic7485 Před 4 lety +1

    Great talk. V. Interesting. Thank-you.

  • @SuperAnnabelle1000
    @SuperAnnabelle1000 Před 4 lety +1

    Excellent talk. Really informative

  • @Robson89almeida
    @Robson89almeida Před rokem +1

    His book is amazing. I strongly recommend it.

  • @dinasanor2147
    @dinasanor2147 Před 3 lety

    Very good overview. Thank you!

  • @alexiscarleton1529
    @alexiscarleton1529 Před 5 lety

    brilliant conveyance.

  • @rosebw1077
    @rosebw1077 Před 2 lety +4

    That was a great dude I really appreciate hearing that thank you very much

  • @GJKincses
    @GJKincses Před 5 lety +5

    Health and awareness levels will support you very day - " Emotional Intelligence should be incorporated in all company training modules in order to increase awareness levels, motivate and inspire the desire within, and on reaching out by helping others with a better level of understanding and gentle support initiatives.
    Our social and leadership skills will transform our genuine heart felt empathy to help break down apathy levels within so many others, and build far greater and more meaningful relationships within the working environment and community. - Thanks so much for sharing Travis we all need to reflect and practice every day.

  • @runesyadc
    @runesyadc Před 2 lety

    lately neuroscience attract me so much, video was a great composition about it, thanks a lot.

  • @deborrastorm2754
    @deborrastorm2754 Před 6 lety +16

    Emotional Intelligence to me is knowing what makes people emotional... and or stimulate them intellectually. But its also a talent I believe one is born with to be able to sense the unspoken emotions of any person... they meet. With this intelligence they are able to understand what that person needs,hates, lives or is afraid of. It is a sixth sence. You can try and study it from someone who was born with it, but I believe it's a hard thing to do. The closest you can get is to focus on being more actively empathetic. Being a Christain I believe only God can teach it to us truely. One can be charismatic, but that does not make them emotionally intelligent. I believe it's effectiveness comes intuitively .. giving respect to all in a social setting. Practicing it by going to a social setting talking to each individual alone, till you have spoken to each one. Asking them Questions about themselves.. why they are their... pick just one question. Then move on to the next person, you will learn so much. Also, when your with these people look them in the eye. Think to your self ..do I feel anything behind those eyes they are not saying. You will find walls, open doors, and deep rivers of complexity. People are very complex, but the commonality of our humaness bonds us basically. Focusing on staying bonded, leave when it becomes confrontational.

    • @Hooray110
      @Hooray110 Před 5 lety +1

      I think your words much more worthy and direct than this ted talk . thank you

  • @RonaldL.MAngela.vaught17HH
    @RonaldL.MAngela.vaught17HH Před 2 měsíci

    The Body is very adaptive to situations even if there is nothing extraordinary except your beliefs.

  • @user-eq6to1rg7c
    @user-eq6to1rg7c Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sonnybrown4758
    @sonnybrown4758 Před 6 lety

    This needs to be seen by more people

  • @thinkforyourself9846
    @thinkforyourself9846 Před 6 lety +3

    Wow! emotional intelligence , This is so true! Ever since I experienced an AVM rupture in my cerebellum. I have been forced into doing all of these. I know what is important now because of this, and giving back is one of them.

  • @RubinaMerchant
    @RubinaMerchant Před 4 lety +9

    Very informative. Thank you!

  • @spiritwoodlive5597
    @spiritwoodlive5597 Před 4 lety +3

    So excellent!!! Great information!! Thank you 🙏 and God Bless

  • @SunnyGirlFlorida
    @SunnyGirlFlorida Před 6 lety

    Great talk.

  • @aikishugyo
    @aikishugyo Před 3 lety

    Some gold in there, such as the alternative pathways which help to explain hunches and gut feeling etc., and some thought-provoking statements such as the separation of IQ, personality, and EQ. Jordan Petersen seems to disagree on that part, as I understand it. So food for thought there. Very interesting stuff!!!

  • @aishaibrahim9280
    @aishaibrahim9280 Před 4 lety +11

    Cleaning up our sleep hygiene is a huge challenge sadly - the only time many of us get to watch nice Ted Talks is the alone hour you have before bedtime. One day.......sigh....

  • @ezechukwuiroha8767
    @ezechukwuiroha8767 Před 5 lety

    Thank you

  • @allenculbertson8170
    @allenculbertson8170 Před 2 lety

    God bless you and thank you

  • @norshazwanibintimuhamadsha8694

    Greater talk!

  • @marklong3043
    @marklong3043 Před 5 lety

    Very interesting subject ..

  • @elonnemann
    @elonnemann Před 6 lety +9

    Great TED Talk on Emotional Intelligence.

  • @austint316835
    @austint316835 Před 6 lety +4

    Absolutely brilliant! Probably one of the best presentations I have ever learned about and im truly in disbelief, that at 50, this is the first time ive heard of Emotional Q, and I am incredibly grateful to have come across your talk! Ive already watched 2ce, shared 5x, and liked, of course, lol. Thank you for the info, lordy, lordy it explains so much, and it shouldve been taught in grade school - high school - or at university... its never been even touched on in any of my classes, at any companys, or professional positions I held!, YOU ROCK

  • @channerysunshine8939
    @channerysunshine8939 Před 5 lety +8

    Emotional intelligence is essential! Thanks~👍

  • @cathie223
    @cathie223 Před 2 lety

    Emotional Intelligence is a resource allowing adaptability and problem solving solutions; an inner strength to be like water in life’s ever changing currents and environments.

  • @mohammadmaniat1040
    @mohammadmaniat1040 Před 6 lety

    I love this speech

  • @tessatabanao7209
    @tessatabanao7209 Před 5 lety +1

    This is helpful.. Nice one😊

  • @rashifarsya
    @rashifarsya Před 4 lety

    I like how the tips are very practical

    • @johnrushasanuma7046
      @johnrushasanuma7046 Před 2 lety

      pole scare of border me cause u….I skin prepared cause he try to cut u with box cutter ,,,,,,,you punch me more and harder and easy then your classmate

  • @zibozhang2646
    @zibozhang2646 Před rokem

    Great speech 👍Very helpful 🙏

  • @hoanguyenfutu
    @hoanguyenfutu Před 4 lety +10

    I partly agree with him that good EI skills can help manage emotions well. However, for some people who have bipolar disorder, they find very challenging to deal with strong negative emotions. EI is not the magic button because an emotion can be manifested by various conditions that are out of our control.

    • @rosaartemisg5027
      @rosaartemisg5027 Před 2 lety +4

      I think a bipolar person is far more capable of establishing emotional intelligence because they can relate directly with all

    • @KellisonHering
      @KellisonHering Před 2 lety +6

      @@rosaartemisg5027 I agree. I have bipolar disorder and this stuff has helped me tremendously. I used to use my disorder as a reason I couldn’t do certain things and now I feel very empowered. I can finally use my bipolar disorder to my advantage.

  • @cwallace47
    @cwallace47 Před 6 lety

    Very informative!

  • @jenniferkelley1852
    @jenniferkelley1852 Před 4 lety

    This was awesome!

  • @natacouture
    @natacouture Před 6 lety

    fascinating!

  • @tricky_player2071
    @tricky_player2071 Před 3 lety

    thank you

  • @ThriftyDadCreations
    @ThriftyDadCreations Před 5 lety +1

    Amazing video! Thank you so much for sharing your view point on this. For everyone out there that has not read the book I 150% recommend picking it up and giving it a read. Go ahead, CZcams can wait while you finish the book ;)

  • @sheikabdulkaleem6487
    @sheikabdulkaleem6487 Před 4 lety

    Very very helpful

  • @thitrucphuongho4092
    @thitrucphuongho4092 Před 5 lety +1

    Great

  • @hapiearning5222
    @hapiearning5222 Před 4 lety

    Awesome

  • @myrnaalvarez278
    @myrnaalvarez278 Před 6 lety +1

    I do believe that when we acknowledge and celebrate our own personal power,power over our attitudes, our feelings, our behavior we anticipate confidently any situation toward us making them beneficial towards our growth..the choice is ours. I FIRMLY BELIEVE GOD gives me the power to face each new day gives me responsibility for deciding my own fate.

  • @MS-cv2nd
    @MS-cv2nd Před 5 lety

    Great video 👌🏻

  • @kev7355
    @kev7355 Před 4 lety +3

    Great presentation. I cut the blue light on my screen and I feel sleepy almost right away. Amazing stuffs

  • @mishelandme7527
    @mishelandme7527 Před 2 lety

    Good one!

  • @theathomas
    @theathomas Před 4 měsíci

    Excellent presentation! 👏👏👏👏

    • @rubicunduseratiudas1264
      @rubicunduseratiudas1264 Před 4 měsíci

      La "inteligencia emocional" es como la "leche de almendras" o el "chocolate blanco": simplemente NO EXISTE

  • @xxxxfatcatxxxx
    @xxxxfatcatxxxx Před 5 lety +7

    7:00 Personality traits are not set in stone and can be changed through hard work, there are several studies on the subject that prove this.

    • @georgiabification
      @georgiabification Před 4 lety

      Bubble Tea - thanks for mentioning this - it annoyed me that he was saying something so confidently that isn’t true.

  • @abdullahal-hazzani9882

    Pretty helpful

  • @rasheeda1303
    @rasheeda1303 Před 4 lety

    Blue light is dangerous thanks for confirming 😌

  • @user-dm1nb8ft3w
    @user-dm1nb8ft3w Před 4 měsíci

    A great video 📹

  • @mikeschmidt4959
    @mikeschmidt4959 Před 6 lety +12

    Eye opening indeed. Time for me to get off the computer after dinner!

  • @sabinem.6248
    @sabinem.6248 Před 5 lety +1

    A very interesting video! Where can I find the references? For example the Dutch research about the blind people who's mirror neuron system still mimicked expressions of the tv-screen?

  • @chrisnaden
    @chrisnaden Před 11 měsíci +1

    My man, you did a great job teaching this. I have a presentation tomorrow on Emotional intelligence. Thanks for giving this presentation.

  • @vgpracticalastrology2921
    @vgpracticalastrology2921 Před 3 měsíci

    At 6:43 you say "Personality is a stable set of preferences and tendencies through which you approach the world." This seems to be partial unless we accomodate 'Our personality as perceived by others'. It is difficult to modify but not impossible. It gets reinforced through years and so necessitate that an effective corrective modality be used.

  • @sherrillperez9796
    @sherrillperez9796 Před 3 lety

    Wow! Awesome info and presented in way that makes sense and gives helpful tools for improvement..

  • @markbeeman3093
    @markbeeman3093 Před 2 lety

    You're mapping and visualizing your future reality every second. It's not magic. Yesterday I visualized meeting friends in small town and watching a band. It was as imagined. Now I have to just tweak it for other things out of my comfort zone. It's almost 100% certainty at least 75% will happen as visualuzed. The other 25% I will do my best to make real but it's the pursuit of it that's fascinating.

  • @chrisw.4295
    @chrisw.4295 Před 3 měsíci

    I live in Maine and the days get very short in the peak of winter. The light spectrum outside also changes from a blue white to an orange red. I wonder if that produces more melatonin adding to some peoples depression or S. A. D. Syndrome.

  • @mirzamirza3035
    @mirzamirza3035 Před 3 lety

    Amazing :)

  • @asiba2
    @asiba2 Před 5 lety

    serious ideas

  • @davidmontgomery9194
    @davidmontgomery9194 Před 4 lety +1

    I've heard and read much information about IQ and that it changes over a person's lifetime, so I'm not sure that I agree with this speaker

  • @anthonymervin4499
    @anthonymervin4499 Před 3 lety +2

    I wish a video would be made on practicing emotional intelligence. I am still in the dark about what I can do to help myself.

    • @mro4440
      @mro4440 Před 2 lety

      It is about recognizing EQ examples in others and then practicing that same control in yourself.

  • @mitusima128
    @mitusima128 Před 3 lety +4

    I was expecting different methods to increase EQ. The first info is still helpful. Thank you👍👍

  • @kuliahfikram1132
    @kuliahfikram1132 Před rokem

    Good

  • @RonaldL.MAngela.vaught17HH
    @RonaldL.MAngela.vaught17HH Před 2 měsíci

    Crystallised can grow in new branches so it can change.

  • @monabond7627
    @monabond7627 Před 6 lety

    awww why is it not available? I feel as though I have missed out 8(

  • @diannamccann7338
    @diannamccann7338 Před 8 měsíci

    Sorry if I missed it, but how was the EI measured for the chart of job type vs EI?

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry21924 Před 4 měsíci

    I'm deeply impressed by this. I recently found similar material, and it was truly remarkable. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @vaniachaker7135
    @vaniachaker7135 Před 6 lety +16

    Interesting talk by Travis Bradberry. However, I would have preferred a greater explanation of neuroscience (such as Dan Goleman provides in his books) - for example, a bit more granularity and a fuller explanation of the limbic system and its role in "emotional intelligence"). Also, Bradberry references the term "EQ" which is not really an accepted term in the scientific community. In the books I've read on Emotional Intelligence (by Goleman, for example), I never came across the term "EQ" so I'm not sure where this reference in the talk comes from. I've only heard it as a "pop" term so (to me), references such as this undermined the talk a bit I (personally) prefer more precise and correct terminology.
    It might also be interesting to consider this issue from a psychobiological perspective - such as by analyzing neurological gender differences, particularly the anatomical differences in the brains of men and women. Women tend to have an increased lateralization of the brain hemispheres because of the markedly greater development of the corpus callosum (the band of fibrous nerve tissue in the middle of the brain that "connects" the two hemispheres. It is believed that as a result of this anatomical variant, women tend to have more stable emotions and decreased emotional lability. Women tend to be less quick to anger, etc. Therefore, it would be interesting to me to further explore causal connections between such psychobiological differences... (My undergrad studies began in psychobio with an emphasis on neuroscience hence my interest in this area.)
    I'd like to see Goleman's TED talks and compare the two. As an FYI, for those interested in motivational factors, I also very much enjoy the TED Talks by Carol Dweck (who's at Stanford - Go Cardinal!). I'd also like to suggest a TED Talk that delves into the reasons why women add greater value to upper-level management and organizational teams in terms of leadership, decision making, and managerial style. A greater representation of women in top tier corporate and business positions would only promote the American economy. It has been shown repeatedly that diversity within teams helps the entire team to thrive! - Vania Chaker @VMChaker

  • @kennethhayek931
    @kennethhayek931 Před rokem

    I love this little boy I’m best friends with his son

  • @rhondarose2583
    @rhondarose2583 Před 5 lety +3

    :)-LOOK@WHAT YOU DO HAVE,THINK HAPPY THOUGHTS&FEEL YOUR... LOVE INSIDE!

  • @belenaguilar1348
    @belenaguilar1348 Před 6 lety +4

    The emotional intelligence part is good. But the solutions: don't stress out, sleep more and don't watch TV at night... really? I need some useful things, what to think about, how to stop your emotions. please. thanks

  • @jessemarquez5916
    @jessemarquez5916 Před 4 lety +2

    Handsome!!!