Never get a tattoo without thinking. If itâs on my body permanently I want it to be meaningful because I will not be paying the cost of laser removal
Well, sometimes people can get tattoos cause they want to. Not all tattoos have to have meaning. People can get tattoos cause they think they are cool! And they would look cool too! I don't like how the tattoo artist treated her. No artist should say something like, "You want it there?" It's the person's decision to get what they want where they want.
@@winterfoxx3569 you missed the point; but I agree that not all tattoos need a meaning and that the artist was horrid for saying that. But not being able to have self control for tattoos is an issue
The one and only time I had an tattoo artist talk me out of something was the placement he said that on the hand well it was where my hand and wrist met the skin is constantly bending that it would look good for a few years than the lines would like start to blur out and I totally see that happening now with another tattoo I have
as a tattoo artist, I would never question somebodys choice or placement. and if a tattoo artist talks to you like that walk out and don't get tattooed. you deserve better than that
The artist didnât push her to get cherries, all they ask was you âwant it there?â She got freaked out and played it safe by choosing something everyone else was getting. This is why you shouldnât give a damn of what others think because a simple comment can have you paranoid about life decisions.
Girl, you're the customer. You can be assertive and change your mind without being disrespectful to the artist. This is you're body. You get the final decision what goes on or in it. You shouldn't feel obligated to get permanent art etched into your body to please others.
in case anyone needs a reminder you can ALWAYS stop a tattoo. whatever your reason is itâs enough. itâs your body and you have full control over what goes on it. also, tattoos only have the meaning you give them and it doesnât have to make sense to anyone.
I was about to say all this too. As well as what you mentioned about them having the meaning you give them. Now whether she likes it or not, it's still a quirky story and has meaning. She shouldn't lie and say its cuz she likes cherries as her fav fruit. Lmao kinda feel like this is a bait video tbh
@@kavishurethireswaran2748 I mean the action of stopping is objectively easier than the action of tattooing for the artist, itâs not like the guns move automatically. It would just be a matter of what theyâd be doing about the 1/3 of a tattoo making her hand look weird but it might just be up to her to have someone else do a cover up
A bad artist will not respect your choice. I have tattoos on my inner arms that a lot of artists deem are "facing the wrong direction". I get what I want because im living with them
For me I like one's with deep meaning but still whimsical. I only have one tattoo and it's the dragon age inquisition symbol. Seems silly to get a video game tattoo but it was a game that my sister and I really bonded over. So for my 27th birthday we got matching dragon age tattoos
It's not a meaningless tattoo It's a symbol of your spontaneous spirit and a reminder to stick up for yourself in the future so other people don't end up dictating your life!
My tattoo artist messed up and because he kept questioning me and pressuring me to change the design, I gave in. Was pretty upset when I realized, but that place isnât there anymore so it probably went out of business anyway
Never let a tattoo artiest coerce you out of what you want. And you can absolutely always tell them to stop if you donât want to continue. Edit: for some reason people canât comprehend my opinion above. Some people are taking huge offense to what i said and for what? This is my opinion. As a person who is covered in tattoos, and has personally experienced an artist trying to change an idea and placement then ended up not liking it. I would hate for someone else to have to go through that as well. Also, just because you donât agree with someoneâs post doesnât mean you need to berate them in the comments. Come on people, letâs do better.
Well no you canât youâre just gonna walk around with half a tattoođ I think the cherries are cute actually but I think the flowers would have been prettier
@@cloozy7318 he put the doubt in her head and questioned her decision. But thank you for picking apart the comment for one word I said. How bored are you?
@@nicoleayala4153 she could of stopped him while he was putting on the stencil, while he was pulling his first line. There were multiple spots where she could of stopped him. But thanks again for your unnecessary comment.
As a tattoo artist myself, I would've given you the darn flowers. It's your body, the artist's job is to make sure the design is placed well on your hand and to get the design there safely.
Exactly. You guys can give advice, of course.. But if someone really wants a tattoo on a certain place, it'll be their own decision. My tattoo artist is ALWAYS allowed to give me her advice. she is allowed to give her opinion and shows me her idea if she has one. But if I`d disagree and say no to her idea, she'd not argue and do what I`d tell her to do.
My tattoo artist doesn't questions me about where i want my tattoos he just tells me how long its going to be and if its going iver a scar he tells me its likely going to hurt more but otherwise he just does it
Tattoos donât need meanings, you can get whatever you want just because you like it and thatâs meaning enough. That being said PLEASE DO NOT let artists bully you into something you donât want or wouldnât like. Itâs YOUR body! Tattoo artists will occasionally tell you if something isnât possible or wonât look good. He didnât even do that just bullied you into a different tattoo! I think the flowers were beautiful, I do like your cherries too!
It didnât sound like the person was trying to bully her into a different tattoo just questioning if she wanted it there because since itâs thin and small it would have hurt or possibly looked a bit awkward for placement purposes. So the person was just figuring out if thatâs what she wanted, and I can see how she was like âuh, noâ because sometimes it sound as they are like YOU SHOULDNT DO THAT. Most people donât mean it that way just considering how it will play out in the end
Well⊠cherries mean something new. And the fact you got the tattoo spontaneously also brings about same meaning. So it can remind you to be brave, never be afraid to try something new. In Japan it also means good fortune.
I always thought cherries reminded people of virginity. I am today years old when I saw someone say it actually reminded them of boobs.. and I can't even see why too cause cherries aren't actually round they're heart shaped without the pointed bottom.
@@brattCatt_ it is, but rather than focus on virginity as a sexual innuendo we can see it as an experience. A virgin experience could mean a new experience, doesnât have to be pervertic/sexual; in my opinion đ like a metaphor.
You can ABSOLUTELY tell them to stop. This is forever. After theyâre done they forget about you while you have to live with it FOREVER. You donât want to speak up to your hairdresser or nail tech fine whatever, thatâs not forever , but a TATTOO artist, you better SPEAK UP no matter how intimidating they may look
@@shisuiuchiha1201 Obviously no. But like, the less they've already done, the less there is to laser off or cover up? Like, if you're lucky and regret it with only a few lines, those can be used for some other small tattoo that you actually might like.
Girl, you totally CAN tell the artist to stop even mid tattoo session ! Follow your intuition and never let artists influence you if you're not 100% on board with their advice. And if it can give any consolation, it really looks cool AND your tattoos don't have to have meaning to be amazing. But if you still don't like it, it probably shouldn't be too hard to cover or laser off if you'd like
If you do really hate it, thatâs actually the easiest kind of tattoo to remove. Itâll take a few sessions since itâs so fresh but because itâs all black, the laser will remove it with ease. It might be worth looking into if you find yourself continuing to not like it.
I got two tattoos similar in size, all black, regretted them instantly. Did my first laser session and it was a piece of cake! Never looking back. Should be done in 3-5 sessions.
To anyone who is considering a tattoo in the future: If a tattoo artist mocks you, makes you doubt your choice, or anything like tha, RUN FOR THE HILLS DO NOT LET THEM PUT SOMETHING ON YOUR BODY PERMANENTLY. A GOOD Tattoo artist should make you feel comfortable no matter WHAT. They should be encouraging and offer advice at the MOST (in terms of trying to make the placement look as good as possible). If you ever feel uncomfortable, anxious, or doubtful because of a comment the tattoo artist makes, do NOT ever let the artist make you feel anything short of excited and comfortable.
yesss it's okay to say no, it's okay to take a second and take control of your stuff. Your life is yours. Whether you're people pleasing or not, You Deserve Better and you're never an ass for leading the life you want/letting people know that. never. no matter what people say, it's okay to take your time and figure things out for yourself. if you're scared of rude criticism or belittling statements, just know that comes from their own irrational insecurities, and it's not your job to fix them. i know sometimes we imagine people are meaner than they actually are but whether they are or not love yourself enough. *cough cough* ok, i got carried away with personal stuff but if it helps anyone that's the pointđđđđ ps: this isn't abt anyone just my personal advice
gotten all my tattoos by this one girl purely because she encourages every choice and helps me when im undecided. find a tattoo artist you trust is all i can say
You can say stop, and there are so many talented tattoo artists that can work with what's there and change it to something you want. You can always say no :)
I stood up to my most recent artist and he did first sketch up... I had him erase everything and do it again with more specific details... my pickiness paid off because it's honestly my favorite tattoo â€
You absolutely can say stop even after theyâve started. At any point you can tell them, âhey I think I might have acted on impulse, and I donât think this is going to work outâ! Also please donât take off second skin like that đ« youâre supposed to stretch it off, not pull it down! ~ your friendly neighbourhood tattoo artist
U shouldn't regret a tattoo just bc it's meaningless some of the most beautiful pieces of art in the world are meaningless to the artist but in the eyes of the beholder you create a meaning over time and enjoy it for what it is to you trust me I've regretted tattoos that over the years I now love due to past experiences so just wait and don't let anyone change your vision bc flowers would've looked great there
If any artist that touches your body says that kind of thing, be it tattoo or hair or makeup etc, get up and walk. Now, if they are advocating for you ("that colour might not look good on you/your hair can't handle that and here's why" or "having a tattoo like this has this history" etc) that's very different, but you as the canvas ALWAYS have the last say. Signed, a hairstylist who always advocated for her clients.
my time working in a tattoo studio has taught me that you should NEVER be afraid to set your boundaries with an artist! i was fortunate to work with two really amazing and compassionate artists, but that also meant we heard a LOT of stories from clients that had been treated poorly and felt like they couldn't speak up. even if you're MID TATTOO, you can ALWAYS say stop. â€
The thing about tattoos is, they dont have to have this super deep back story. Tattoos are (but not just) for personal expression so if somebody asks why just say "bc i wanted to"
One thing you should know is NEVER let a tattoo artist second guess your option. If you chose a tattoo and they judge or try to change it for you instantly leave. They sneaky and they'll try to change it up mid tattoo and go "oh I thought this was a cool little detail"
Yeah thatâs what happened with mine. I ended up giving in and then finding out after-the-fact that he messed up and thatâs why he kept pressuring me to change it. Oh well. Not like Iâm gonna pay to get that part removed so itâs whatever
they didnt âdictateâ they literaly just asked where she wanted it and if it was a good idea to put it on her hand and she started freaking out grow a backbone and stop blaming others for your own bad choices because you couldnt figure out what you wanted
â@@foreverl0vingherIf the tattoo artist said it in a judging tone like she did, then he was completely judging her and her choices. This is a form of guilting someone out of it, especially those with low confidence. If it's a spot that won't go that well, a good artist will explain why and talk to you about where else you would like it. He wasn't being professional
U should have got a flower cuz it would have been cuter with the butterfly on the other side. But I mean u do have an option to take it off right. I mean itâs ur wish cuz it would hurt when u get it right ?
Stay firm with your decisions unless the artist has a valid reason behind their critique of placement or design. I have no clue why they would suggest you get something that you didnât even ask for âčïž
I think a possible reason he said âyou want it thereâ is because the flower seems to have a bit more detail and more intricate - hand/near hand tattoos donât last as long than other body parts. Iâve had this similar situation on my feet and I just said do it anyways. The cherry looks like such an easy cover up if youâd ever like to do so.
Tattoo removal usually costs $200 to $500 per session, so max, you probably spend $1500 to get it removed. Or you could get it covered up for a lot less.
A good artist could turn these into flowers easily. If you don't like them still, that's an option! Luckily since they're not bold heavy lines, and it's a relatively simple tattoo, covering it up with flowers would be done quite simply. â€
As a tattoo artist and shop owner: getting a free hand tattoo on the spot from FLASH was dumb. Do you know how many other people have that exact same tattoo? Way more than you want.
just a reminder tattoos donât have to have a special deep meaning related to the things depicted in them to be tattoos! they can just be fun things to remember an event in your life so even if cherries in general have no significance to you, the experience which you gained that tattoo from could! it could be a daily reminder to not care what people think and instead go with what feels right for you (if u do want a meaning to the tattoo that is). you can always get the flower somewhere else
Well thereâs also the fact that as a professional he has to take into account how a tattoo is going to look and wear down and even apply to a specific area on the body in the long run. There was probably an issue with the placement and the way the flower would have to be applied. He wasnât being needlessly judgmental, he was being professional judgmental which is his job. Yes, he probably could have explained better, but to be fair, she could have also asked. đ«€
He probably didnât even have a negative tone and was just making sure she was certain about getting a highly visible hand tattoo of fine line work that is going to fade badly
You can always say no - that's having the self esteem and confidence to listen to yourself .. and the joy of being free of the good opinion of other people.
If a tattoo artist judges where you want the placement obviously not when it comes to how the tattoo will stretch then you need to run. Donât WALK just RUN!
I mean this in the nicest way possible. No one cares why you got cherries tattooed on you and nobody is judging you for it. Theyâre cute and thatâs it.
Dont let others tell you what you want. That flower was perfect for that spot. The cherries don't look bad tho. You can cover it up if you really dislike it.
Getting any kind of flash/spontaneous tattoo is a riskier move for regret than a planned one - now factor in that itâs on your hand. It was a bold move from the start regardless of the design picked. Though of course impulsively going against what you originally picked for yourself did increase risk of dissatisfaction even more
As a tattooer this is my worst fear! We canât always tell what youâre thinking, speak up! I know some tattooers are judgy assholes but you need to advocate for yourself! Iâd much rather my client change their mind and tell me than have me work on and complete a piece that theyâre not happy with
Don't do flash. Go in with a plan, what means a lot to you, typically what means something to you won't be up on a wall for you to easily select. If something meaningful is available via flash, count yourself lucky but know that many others have the same exact tattoo though too.
Donât let others question your tattoos, including the artist. I have my dogâs initial on my wrist. The artist tried to convince me not to do it. I did it I like it. I love it.
not an artist but doing my apprenticeship rn, that was incredibly unprofessional of that artist, he should have never commented on the placement and should have made 1000% sure you were happy with it, I'm so sorry you had such awful experience, that should never be the case with something so permanent
I think itâs fantastic that youâre making a video warning people. This is actually the first video I ever saw where someone said they might regret their tattoo, but the reality is I have three family members with tattoos and they all regret them because sometimes what you want at 19 isnât a great representation of you even five years later let alone 20. All the moms right now with the tramp stamp and the playboy bunnies. How sad. I never want a tattoo, but I do think the only pretty ones Iâve ever really liked on people were when they do black flower sleeves. Personally Iâd rather get a house and a painting of flowers.
How can you be a people pleaser when it comes to something that will permanently be on your body? You gotta speak up and advocate for what you want girl!
Lots of people telling you what you SHOULD HAVE done... but doesnt help very much and I can only imagine how you felt! Thankfully its a simple tattoo and so small, you can easily have it removed and/or covered up! I also have a tattoo I regret but its bigger and with color.... wont be as easy and will take a lot of time and cost a lot to undo
The flowers would have been cute right there! Donât let others make you question your own self and intuition!
Girl where are your comments at?
@@kpopmultistan7289 idk what that means! Forgot to mention that the tattoo is beautiful regardless đ No regrets! YOLO
@@aliza7132 you had 1.4k likes but zero comments.
@@kpopmultistan7289 oh hah thanks for explaining!
@@aliza7132 no problem
Its not meaningless tho, now its a reminder to speak up for yourself and advocate for what you want.
good point!
omg I love that
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that tattoo will be a constant reminder why confidence and standing up for yourself is so important
Get it laser it off
Nice interpretation!
And that makes it not meaningless. Way to keep it positive.
Omg I love that! Idk why but this just radiates positivity, and made my dayđ§ż
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âi cannot say no to a tattoo on the spotâ was your first mistake
Never get a tattoo without thinking. If itâs on my body permanently I want it to be meaningful because I will not be paying the cost of laser removal
Preach
Well, sometimes people can get tattoos cause they want to. Not all tattoos have to have meaning. People can get tattoos cause they think they are cool! And they would look cool too!
I don't like how the tattoo artist treated her. No artist should say something like, "You want it there?"
It's the person's decision to get what they want where they want.
@@winterfoxx3569 you missed the point; but I agree that not all tattoos need a meaning and that the artist was horrid for saying that. But not being able to have self control for tattoos is an issue
DONT EVER let your artist talk you out of your choice. If they canât give positive suggestions they arenât an artist that should be tattooing you
Exactly the only time an artist should talk you out of your choice is if the location might be a health or safety issue
"I couldn't say no" ...... um ......
The one and only time I had an tattoo artist talk me out of something was the placement he said that on the hand well it was where my hand and wrist met the skin is constantly bending that it would look good for a few years than the lines would like start to blur out and I totally see that happening now with another tattoo I have
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âDonât everâ - thatâs simply not true. In most cases you should absolutley listen to your artist when they try to make you reconsider stuff
as a tattoo artist, I would never question somebodys choice or placement. and if a tattoo artist talks to you like that walk out and don't get tattooed. you deserve better than that
All good tattoo artist know to Atleast do that with names tattoos & depending on the circumstances sometimes even refuse
@@alexisrene5854 aint a name tho
Okay but I really don't think he was questioning her. He was probably just asking for confirmation
â@preeti "are you sure you wanna get it thete?" *insert raised eyebrow and curious judgmental tone and look*
Yeah but you also shouldnât get a hand tattoo if you have no other tattooed lmao a lot of artist wonât do it because youâll just regret it
NOOO THE FLOWERS WOULD HAVE BEEN SO CUTE WITH THE BUTTERFLYSS!!!
Or the other big butterfly
The artist didnât push her to get cherries, all they ask was you âwant it there?â She got freaked out and played it safe by choosing something everyone else was getting. This is why you shouldnât give a damn of what others think because a simple comment can have you paranoid about life decisions.
Transform it into something flowery!
Girl, you're the customer. You can be assertive and change your mind without being disrespectful to the artist. This is you're body. You get the final decision what goes on or in it. You shouldn't feel obligated to get permanent art etched into your body to please others.
I totally get her tho, i'd freeze too!!
id never have tattoo indecisively
Yeah but heâd already started
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in case anyone needs a reminder you can ALWAYS stop a tattoo. whatever your reason is itâs enough. itâs your body and you have full control over what goes on it. also, tattoos only have the meaning you give them and it doesnât have to make sense to anyone.
Plus it's way easier to add to and change an unfinished design than it is to do a cover up.
I was about to say all this too. As well as what you mentioned about them having the meaning you give them. Now whether she likes it or not, it's still a quirky story and has meaning. She shouldn't lie and say its cuz she likes cherries as her fav fruit. Lmao kinda feel like this is a bait video tbh
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@@kavishurethireswaran2748 I mean the action of stopping is objectively easier than the action of tattooing for the artist, itâs not like the guns move automatically. It would just be a matter of what theyâd be doing about the 1/3 of a tattoo making her hand look weird but it might just be up to her to have someone else do a cover up
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A bad artist will not respect your choice. I have tattoos on my inner arms that a lot of artists deem are "facing the wrong direction". I get what I want because im living with them
Now the tattoo symbolises being confident and sure with your decisions. †It looks pretty tho...
Tattoos don't always have to have the most profound deep meaning ever, they can just be fun and whimsical
Thats different for different people. For some that is fine, for others it isnt
For me I like one's with deep meaning but still whimsical. I only have one tattoo and it's the dragon age inquisition symbol. Seems silly to get a video game tattoo but it was a game that my sister and I really bonded over. So for my 27th birthday we got matching dragon age tattoos
for my birthday iâm getting two lil smiling bananas in cowboy hats >:)
Some have meanings while others are just plain olâ fun! Like Medusa, and the semi-colon !! I do believe thereâs both meaning and fun in tattoos!!
@@bugsarecool5555 thatâs adorable
It's not a meaningless tattoo It's a symbol of your spontaneous spirit and a reminder to stick up for yourself in the future so other people don't end up dictating your life!
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Exactly, she needs to turn it into something positive, a reminder to listen to her gut. I love your comment.
Or her passiveness and ability to be bulldozed about decisions in a momentâs time.
The cherry looks so oo oo good I love it it's just aesthetic â€
the flowers would have matched the butterflies perfectly đđ
Never let the tattoo artist make you question yourself, you know what you want and that's all that should matter
And for the tattoo artist to question her on where to put the tattoo is so unprofessional to be honest
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â@@tarawright1287how are you supposed to do the tattoo if you don't know where to put it?
@@cee4real.thereâs a difference between confirming the placement and judging the placement
My tattoo artist messed up and because he kept questioning me and pressuring me to change the design, I gave in. Was pretty upset when I realized, but that place isnât there anymore so it probably went out of business anyway
Never let a tattoo artiest coerce you out of what you want. And you can absolutely always tell them to stop if you donât want to continue.
Edit: for some reason people canât comprehend my opinion above. Some people are taking huge offense to what i said and for what? This is my opinion. As a person who is covered in tattoos, and has personally experienced an artist trying to change an idea and placement then ended up not liking it. I would hate for someone else to have to go through that as well.
Also, just because you donât agree with someoneâs post doesnât mean you need to berate them in the comments. Come on people, letâs do better.
Well no you canât youâre just gonna walk around with half a tattoođ I think the cherries are cute actually but I think the flowers would have been prettier
@@cloozy7318 he put the doubt in her head and questioned her decision. But thank you for picking apart the comment for one word I said. How bored are you?
@@nicoleayala4153 she could of stopped him while he was putting on the stencil, while he was pulling his first line. There were multiple spots where she could of stopped him. But thanks again for your unnecessary comment.
@@nicoleayala4153 itâs much easier to cover up a couple lines than an entirely finished tattoo
@@TheTruthHurtss of something as simple as asking if youâre sure that you want a tattoo for life then maybe donât go get one .
Ohhh no I feel you đ altho it's best to listen to ur heart đ„č
Hey! Donât be so hard on yourself. Cherries are good! â€đ
As a tattoo artist myself, I would've given you the darn flowers. It's your body, the artist's job is to make sure the design is placed well on your hand and to get the design there safely.
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Exactly.
You guys can give advice, of course.. But if someone really wants a tattoo on a certain place, it'll be their own decision.
My tattoo artist is ALWAYS allowed to give me her advice. she is allowed to give her opinion and shows me her idea if she has one. But if I`d disagree and say no to her idea, she'd not argue and do what I`d tell her to do.
My tattoo artist doesn't questions me about where i want my tattoos he just tells me how long its going to be and if its going iver a scar he tells me its likely going to hurt more but otherwise he just does it
Cherries represent purity and innocence whilst being the symbol of friendship so no, nothing is meaningless especially that tattoo đ
399 likes and no comments lemme change that
Not to be wired, but cherry also has a different meaning đ
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Its cute either of the drawings
*Keep up the amazingly fabulous work!*
Tattoos donât need meanings, you can get whatever you want just because you like it and thatâs meaning enough. That being said PLEASE DO NOT let artists bully you into something you donât want or wouldnât like. Itâs YOUR body! Tattoo artists will occasionally tell you if something isnât possible or wonât look good. He didnât even do that just bullied you into a different tattoo! I think the flowers were beautiful, I do like your cherries too!
yeah!!! im getting a hello kitty tramp stamp and a heart on my shoulder lol no reason at all just pretty
@@xx_iheartgirlz.mp3_xx i have a mermaid and a pinky promise! They have vague meanings but mostly just because I liked themđ
It didnât sound like the person was trying to bully her into a different tattoo just questioning if she wanted it there because since itâs thin and small it would have hurt or possibly looked a bit awkward for placement purposes. So the person was just figuring out if thatâs what she wanted, and I can see how she was like âuh, noâ because sometimes it sound as they are like YOU SHOULDNT DO THAT. Most people donât mean it that way just considering how it will play out in the end
This!!! I have 2 tattoos planned out with no meanings, I just like them :D
Exactly the comment I was looking for!
Cherries symbolize innocence, peace and fertility. It's actually really pretty :'
Also boobies
Love this! đ
Also good wealth
Who came up with that đ?
Also balls
No, you can probably cover that like with flowers or another design, but I would go to somewhere thatâs like really good with tattoos and cover-up
The butterflies could be going yo the flowers that would be so cute đ„ș
Well⊠cherries mean something new. And the fact you got the tattoo spontaneously also brings about same meaning. So it can remind you to be brave, never be afraid to try something new.
In Japan it also means good fortune.
Exactly
i need someone like you in my life lol
To me, cherries represent a certain organ used for feeding babies.
I always thought cherries reminded people of virginity. I am today years old when I saw someone say it actually reminded them of boobs.. and I can't even see why too cause cherries aren't actually round they're heart shaped without the pointed bottom.
@@brattCatt_ it is, but rather than focus on virginity as a sexual innuendo we can see it as an experience.
A virgin experience could mean a new experience, doesnât have to be pervertic/sexual; in my opinion đ like a metaphor.
You can ABSOLUTELY tell them to stop. This is forever. After theyâre done they forget about you while you have to live with it FOREVER. You donât want to speak up to your hairdresser or nail tech fine whatever, thatâs not forever , but a TATTOO artist, you better SPEAK UP no matter how intimidating they may look
yeah lets say half way through a tattoo "ohh nah actually just erase that real quick "
@@shisuiuchiha1201 Obviously no. But like, the less they've already done, the less there is to laser off or cover up? Like, if you're lucky and regret it with only a few lines, those can be used for some other small tattoo that you actually might like.
Good thing we dont live "forever" then
you didn't have to call me out with not speaking up to my hairdresser đâđŸ
Itâs NOT forever. Go to a dermatologist and have it lasered off.
I have a cherry tattoo too, and it's my favourite one! I got it for my dog though, who's name is Cherry. đ
Girl, you totally CAN tell the artist to stop even mid tattoo session ! Follow your intuition and never let artists influence you if you're not 100% on board with their advice.
And if it can give any consolation, it really looks cool AND your tattoos don't have to have meaning to be amazing. But if you still don't like it, it probably shouldn't be too hard to cover or laser off if you'd like
No hate to the tattoo artist! He did such an amazing job! â€ïž
Yeah itâs very cute! Maybe you would like it better if it was smaller? Like a mini tattoo lol!
He shouldnât have questioned your first choice. He was wrong for that.
Itâs looks so amazing!đ
Good tattoo, bad service.
But its so cute anyway
If you do really hate it, thatâs actually the easiest kind of tattoo to remove. Itâll take a few sessions since itâs so fresh but because itâs all black, the laser will remove it with ease. It might be worth looking into if you find yourself continuing to not like it.
I got two tattoos similar in size, all black, regretted them instantly. Did my first laser session and it was a piece of cake! Never looking back. Should be done in 3-5 sessions.
Plus it would be possible to go over it, itâd be kinda big, but i would think someone could do a coverup with flower(s)
@@bfso96 that would be very lucky because most tattoos, especially newer ones, will take a lot more sessions than 3-5
For what its worth, i think it looks really cute â€
flowers wouldâve been so cute with the butterflies. i canât believe you let that person gaslight you like that đ
The flower would have been so cute with the butterflies đ
Bruh donât make her feel bad
@@abboyaboyasheâs trying to be comforting
To anyone who is considering a tattoo in the future: If a tattoo artist mocks you, makes you doubt your choice, or anything like tha, RUN FOR THE HILLS DO NOT LET THEM PUT SOMETHING ON YOUR BODY PERMANENTLY. A GOOD Tattoo artist should make you feel comfortable no matter WHAT. They should be encouraging and offer advice at the MOST (in terms of trying to make the placement look as good as possible). If you ever feel uncomfortable, anxious, or doubtful because of a comment the tattoo artist makes, do NOT ever let the artist make you feel anything short of excited and comfortable.
yesss it's okay to say no, it's okay to take a second and take control of your stuff. Your life is yours. Whether you're people pleasing or not, You Deserve Better and you're never an ass for leading the life you want/letting people know that. never. no matter what people say, it's okay to take your time and figure things out for yourself.
if you're scared of rude criticism or belittling statements, just know that comes from their own irrational insecurities, and it's not your job to fix them.
i know sometimes we imagine people are meaner than they actually are but whether they are or not love yourself enough.
*cough cough* ok, i got carried away with personal stuff but if it helps anyone that's the pointđđđđ
ps: this isn't abt anyone just my personal advice
gotten all my tattoos by this one girl purely because she encourages every choice and helps me when im undecided. find a tattoo artist you trust is all i can say
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You can say stop, and there are so many talented tattoo artists that can work with what's there and change it to something you want. You can always say no :)
The cherries are really cute tho!! đ
Never be afraid to stand up to your artist. Not standing up to them is like ASKING to regret your tattoo.
I stood up to my most recent artist and he did first sketch up... I had him erase everything and do it again with more specific details... my pickiness paid off because it's honestly my favorite tattoo â€
@@MyKeturah I feel this and I hate the idea were being "picky" for simply asking for what we want and will live with forever. ):
Either ways THEY LOOK GORGEOUS ON YOU THOOO
I honestly think the flowers wouldâve been SOO CUTE. Maybe when you look at it now youâll remember to stay confident in yourself and not back down
You can ABSOLUTELY say stop. A good artist would never pressure you into anything.
You absolutely can say stop even after theyâve started. At any point you can tell them, âhey I think I might have acted on impulse, and I donât think this is going to work outâ!
Also please donât take off second skin like that đ« youâre supposed to stretch it off, not pull it down!
~ your friendly neighbourhood tattoo artist
Why should you not peel it back like that? đźJust curious. Iâve always peeled mine back.. oops đ
She doesnât want half a cherry
How do you stretch something off? Jw
@@cartoomist6548 it would be easier to cover up or remove in the future
@@geraldinelafayette1838 you pull up/back instead of up and off.
even if itâs meaningless to you itâs still super cute!! next time, try not to let anyone influence you (i know it can be difficult)!! đ
It ainât cute, it looks like, one of those wannabe tattoos.
Donât feel bad the cherries are really cute too. You still chose them. Done regret
U shouldn't regret a tattoo just bc it's meaningless some of the most beautiful pieces of art in the world are meaningless to the artist but in the eyes of the beholder you create a meaning over time and enjoy it for what it is to you trust me I've regretted tattoos that over the years I now love due to past experiences so just wait and don't let anyone change your vision bc flowers would've looked great there
As a tattoo artist, it's okay to take the artists advice, but don't ever let them talk you into something you don't even likeđ
If any artist that touches your body says that kind of thing, be it tattoo or hair or makeup etc, get up and walk. Now, if they are advocating for you ("that colour might not look good on you/your hair can't handle that and here's why" or "having a tattoo like this has this history" etc) that's very different, but you as the canvas ALWAYS have the last say.
Signed, a hairstylist who always advocated for her clients.
you ever think maybe he said it based on how small she got it versus how big it was intended to be?
@@shisuiuchiha1201 any professional artists would explain that. they would not say what he said in that tone.
OMGGGG DONT PULL DOWN PULL UPPPPP. it'll hurt a lot less and keep the ink in
Its cute though !! They did a good job on it!
my time working in a tattoo studio has taught me that you should NEVER be afraid to set your boundaries with an artist! i was fortunate to work with two really amazing and compassionate artists, but that also meant we heard a LOT of stories from clients that had been treated poorly and felt like they couldn't speak up.
even if you're MID TATTOO, you can ALWAYS say stop. â€
This is such an insane thought to me. Putting something on your body forever in a moment without thinking about it? Nuts.
You gonna half half a tattoo permanently
The thing about tattoos is, they dont have to have this super deep back story. Tattoos are (but not just) for personal expression so if somebody asks why just say "bc i wanted to"
I love youre videos đ†happy new Year
Tattoos donât always have to have a meaning behind them, you generally just could like the art and want to support the artist doing the work
One thing you should know is NEVER let a tattoo artist second guess your option. If you chose a tattoo and they judge or try to change it for you instantly leave. They sneaky and they'll try to change it up mid tattoo and go "oh I thought this was a cool little detail"
right!!! i know theyâre artists but man just stfu and give me what we agreed on
It reminds me of the tattoo artist that when the guy asked for a lion or something he added unwanted details
Yeah thatâs what happened with mine. I ended up giving in and then finding out after-the-fact that he messed up and thatâs why he kept pressuring me to change it. Oh well. Not like Iâm gonna pay to get that part removed so itâs whatever
I have 11 tattoos
@@daniellegoodwin8240and? đ€š
Weird, irrelevant flex lol, but hey- go off booboo
Never NEVER let someone else dictate what you put on your body. Unless they are a close to you and doing it with pure intentions
they didnt âdictateâ they literaly just asked where she wanted it and if it was a good idea to put it on her hand and she started freaking out
grow a backbone and stop blaming others for your own bad choices because you couldnt figure out what you wanted
Even then honestly
I feel this
â@@foreverl0vingherIf the tattoo artist said it in a judging tone like she did, then he was completely judging her and her choices. This is a form of guilting someone out of it, especially those with low confidence. If it's a spot that won't go that well, a good artist will explain why and talk to you about where else you would like it. He wasn't being professional
Unless it's Fauciđ
U should have got a flower cuz it would have been cuter with the butterfly on the other side. But I mean u do have an option to take it off right. I mean itâs ur wish cuz it would hurt when u get it right ?
Itâs SO cute I rlly like it
Stay firm with your decisions unless the artist has a valid reason behind their critique of placement or design. I have no clue why they would suggest you get something that you didnât even ask for âčïž
I think a possible reason he said âyou want it thereâ is because the flower seems to have a bit more detail and more intricate - hand/near hand tattoos donât last as long than other body parts. Iâve had this similar situation on my feet and I just said do it anyways. The cherry looks like such an easy cover up if youâd ever like to do so.
You shouldnât regret it bc it means devotion , passion and strong love
Tattoo removal usually costs $200 to $500 per session, so max, you probably spend $1500 to get it removed. Or you could get it covered up for a lot less.
A good artist could turn these into flowers easily. If you don't like them still, that's an option! Luckily since they're not bold heavy lines, and it's a relatively simple tattoo, covering it up with flowers would be done quite simply. â€
Girl, tattoos donât need a meaning, it can just be for fun too!
Right? My whole arm is covered in stuff I just think looks cool. Sad she didn't get exactly what she wanted because of someone else opinion though.
I have MORE meaningless tattoos
It's a learning experience. Tell everyone who asks the truth about it. You'll save at least one other person from this kind of mistake.
As a tattoo artist and shop owner: getting a free hand tattoo on the spot from FLASH was dumb. Do you know how many other people have that exact same tattoo? Way more than you want.
just a reminder tattoos donât have to have a special deep meaning related to the things depicted in them to be tattoos! they can just be fun things to remember an event in your life so even if cherries in general have no significance to you, the experience which you gained that tattoo from could! it could be a daily reminder to not care what people think and instead go with what feels right for you (if u do want a meaning to the tattoo that is). you can always get the flower somewhere else
Yeah my aunt has a meaningless hot dog tatoo, but she also has one of her dog
How dare heeeee? I hate that he made you doubt your own choice!
i mean he did no wrong, he was just warning her if she'll regret it in future
maybe he just kinda said it in a judgemental way which got her
@@Manu.b_07 but like it was a flower meanwhile a cherry could be interpreted wrongly
Well thereâs also the fact that as a professional he has to take into account how a tattoo is going to look and wear down and even apply to a specific area on the body in the long run. There was probably an issue with the placement and the way the flower would have to be applied. He wasnât being needlessly judgmental, he was being professional judgmental which is his job. Yes, he probably could have explained better, but to be fair, she could have also asked. đ«€
Also possible this bimbo jus has zero ability to think or speak using her brain
He probably didnât even have a negative tone and was just making sure she was certain about getting a highly visible hand tattoo of fine line work that is going to fade badly
The flowers would have been a better choice in contrast with the butterfly's
You can always say no - that's having the self esteem and confidence to listen to yourself .. and the joy of being free of the good opinion of other people.
If a tattoo artist judges where you want the placement obviously not when it comes to how the tattoo will stretch then you need to run. Donât WALK just RUN!
he literally just double checked you nut head
I mean this in the nicest way possible. No one cares why you got cherries tattooed on you and nobody is judging you for it. Theyâre cute and thatâs it.
Dont let others tell you what you want. That flower was perfect for that spot. The cherries don't look bad tho. You can cover it up if you really dislike it.
Yo the butterflies and that flower wouldve gone soo well y the heck did you let him do that to you
The flowers would of looked so cute bc the butterfly's are on the other hand
Girl they are so cute â€
Do u know what butterfly's mean
If you really don't like it then you can definitely cover it up! But it does look really cute đâ€
With how small it is⊠donât even ..go straight for laser removal lol
@@v3xxdd753 facts
No matter what it looks sooo good
NOO it so cute but the flower would have bin betterđą
Getting any kind of flash/spontaneous tattoo is a riskier move for regret than a planned one - now factor in that itâs on your hand. It was a bold move from the start regardless of the design picked. Though of course impulsively going against what you originally picked for yourself did increase risk of dissatisfaction even more
As a tattooer this is my worst fear! We canât always tell what youâre thinking, speak up! I know some tattooers are judgy assholes but you need to advocate for yourself! Iâd much rather my client change their mind and tell me than have me work on and complete a piece that theyâre not happy with
Itâs not even that she changed her mind but more that she felt pressured to change her original choice
donât worry about it! the tattoo looks great you donât have to lie to anyone! people get meaningless tattoos all the time!
Don't do flash. Go in with a plan, what means a lot to you, typically what means something to you won't be up on a wall for you to easily select. If something meaningful is available via flash, count yourself lucky but know that many others have the same exact tattoo though too.
*the tattoo artist watching this rn*
đ© on the tattoo artist, get the tattoo you want and don't let yourself get bullied into picking something you don't want đđ
Donât let others question your tattoos, including the artist. I have my dogâs initial on my wrist. The artist tried to convince me not to do it. I did it I like it. I love it.
not an artist but doing my apprenticeship rn, that was incredibly unprofessional of that artist, he should have never commented on the placement and should have made 1000% sure you were happy with it, I'm so sorry you had such awful experience, that should never be the case with something so permanent
itâs not entirely meaningless! itâs definitely a story to tell and itâs something you did on a whim while having fun :)
People with 3 tattoos..
"They all have personal meanings" â€
People with 14+
"This one is my favourite character from Harry potter, Crabbe"
I think itâs fantastic that youâre making a video warning people. This is actually the first video I ever saw where someone said they might regret their tattoo, but the reality is I have three family members with tattoos and they all regret them because sometimes what you want at 19 isnât a great representation of you even five years later let alone 20. All the moms right now with the tramp stamp and the playboy bunnies. How sad. I never want a tattoo, but I do think the only pretty ones Iâve ever really liked on people were when they do black flower sleeves. Personally Iâd rather get a house and a painting of flowers.
The butterfly looks cute
How can you be a people pleaser when it comes to something that will permanently be on your body? You gotta speak up and advocate for what you want girl!
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Get it removed girl! You should be able to speak for yourself, donât let people guilt trip you!â€
Lots of people telling you what you SHOULD HAVE done... but doesnt help very much and I can only imagine how you felt! Thankfully its a simple tattoo and so small, you can easily have it removed and/or covered up! I also have a tattoo I regret but its bigger and with color.... wont be as easy and will take a lot of time and cost a lot to undo
Don't regret it. think of it this way. YOU ARE THE CHERRY ON TOP!!
âi just- .. it just- the cherries are very questionable-..â đđ
girl that tattoo is so cute you shouldn't regret it
Donât feel bad. I have a rubber duck flash tattoo from when I was 18.
Girl, I'm a people pleaser too but I don't fuck around when it comes to something going on my body permanently