🚨WAS I JUST SCAMMED BY VICTORIA MACLEAN?🚨

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  • čas přidán 22. 04. 2023
  • Recently I was part of a swap that I was co hosting called the Golden Egg Harry Potter Easter Swap. I want to make it clear that what I am about to talk about are my words, opinions, experience and story. Anyone who was part of this swap has no affiliation and/or influence on this video. I am not trying to cancel anyone nor am I trying to tarnish anyone’s “brand” but I am sharing this so that this doesn’t happen again. This video is about why I feel I may have been scammed by Victoria Maclean.
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Komentáře • 224

  • @MCdorks
    @MCdorks  Před rokem +62

    I want to say thank you to all who have given me so much support. Please know I have read your messages and stories and I can only say thank you for sharing. If you have not seen the video, please watch before commenting so you can hear my side clearly. Love and Lumos ✨

  • @kellyokrepkie5252
    @kellyokrepkie5252 Před rokem +46

    If she could leave her house to go to an event,she could have dropped off the box at the post office before she got to the event or she could have had one of her friends or family do her a favor and send it out at the post office for her. Where there’s a will…there’s a way. Sounds like she couldn’t care less. Thank you for sharing the messages and it looks clear that she was completely dodging sending out the package. This proves that she’s not as innocent as she claims she is. None of this would be going on if she just honored her obligation.

  • @MsRiaaa
    @MsRiaaa Před rokem +26

    She's a known bully and overall horrible person. Her brand is blocking everyone who makes even the tiniest criticism, then sending her minions over to harass.

  • @jameschadwick608
    @jameschadwick608 Před rokem +36

    She's scammed alot of people tbh, there's sooo many people with horrible story's about this woman, I've heard at least 8 different people who have said how awful and sly she is, what a shame she's allowed to do this within the potter world

  • @nerdyness
    @nerdyness Před rokem +29

    She is UNREAL! Over there twirling in her video but isn’t able to curate a box!? PUHLEASSSE

  • @LSAPC
    @LSAPC Před rokem +36

    I have to assume that as a part of the swap that she received a box too. Hearing that she's playing the victim makes me sick. She's not a victim, she's a thief. Your kindness and humility is amazing in the way you've handled this, but I can't help to not hold back. People that take advantage of others because they think they're special and can get away with it are the dirt floor of society. I'm truly sorry this happened my friend.

  • @potterpoppet5515
    @potterpoppet5515 Před rokem +47

    I am literally so proud of you Christian! ❤️ I am so sorry this has happened ❤️ xxxx

    • @pottergeek6077
      @pottergeek6077 Před rokem +3

      Yes, a shame other people didn't come out about her sooner

  • @ajdanceproductions7462
    @ajdanceproductions7462 Před rokem +18

    Shameful behaviour on her part. She owes you a public apology. I have no respect for anyone who scams people. Very disappointed in her.

  • @TheEmanueleCastelli
    @TheEmanueleCastelli Před rokem +9

    Wow, that’s sad! I thought I knew her but after this video… I’m disgusted!
    Thank you for this video and I’m sorry that happened to you, new subscriber! 💜

  • @NicolaRobinson19
    @NicolaRobinson19 Před rokem +35

    This is absolutely shocking, if she couldn’t do it, she should have returned her box. Not opened it and kept all that free stuff! I’ve been a Victoria subscriber for ages but I’ve just unsubscribed.

    • @tmariehickey321
      @tmariehickey321 Před rokem +7

      Sadly, me too. I don't watch her videos with sound because her shrill voice sets off my misophonia (sound sensitivity) but I would read subtitles. I just unsubscribed. I can't support anyone in the community who clearly neglected her responsibility to an agreement. She could have at least chosen things from her own collection of swag even if it didn't meet the rules...or even a gift card to wizard world store. So disappointed that she was so disingenuous.

  • @cherrywallis
    @cherrywallis Před rokem +165

    I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this, it was really unfair on you. ♥️ I personally cut this woman off years ago after inviting her into my own home (!!) to take her under my wing as a smaller creator to help her out, and then I was anonymously sent some really nasty screenshots of what she was saying about me and the Harry Potter community - without going into detail, it was horrible. 🥲

    • @NicolaRobinson19
      @NicolaRobinson19 Před rokem +41

      Wow, if Cherry Wallis is stating this comment! That tells you everything you need to know! So glad I unfollowed Victoria…

    • @HeleneSandy
      @HeleneSandy Před rokem +25

      Hello Cherry. With the reach you have would you feel comfortable doing a reaction video to this one. People close to me have been on the receiving end of Victoria's vile personality. I've been waiting so long for karma to get her.
      She's a bully!

    • @PracticallyNickiInEveryWay
      @PracticallyNickiInEveryWay Před rokem +11

      I’m so sorry this happened to you Cherry ❤️x

    • @rocknrollcat36
      @rocknrollcat36 Před rokem +6

      ❤❤❤

    • @annettemalaski1967
      @annettemalaski1967 Před rokem +12

      Cherry, we might not always agree on collectibles, but thank you for your truth. Your credibility lends strenght to this.

  • @fantasticreddinsandwheretofind

    Fantastic Video! Stating the facts and keeping it humble! I hope this is an eye opener for others along with an eye opener for Victoria! She has bullied and lied to so many people and enough is enough! Thank you for having the courage to speak up and tell the truth to the Potter Community! ❤⚡️

  • @BrittanysMagicTrunk
    @BrittanysMagicTrunk Před rokem +38

    Well done, Christian! I’m so sorry you experienced this, but you’re right! A commitment is a commitment! One’s kindness does not negate another person’s way out of their commitment. Thank you for sharing your story. Love you!

    • @judis6224
      @judis6224 Před rokem

      You all need to get your facts straight, Victoria posted why she couldn't do the Easter box because of her health,she is in the middle of doing a box,give her the decency and let her finish it,like she said her health comes first,can't wait,go to another utuber and don't be so rude.

    • @HeleneSandy
      @HeleneSandy Před rokem +4

      ​@@judis6224 why did she say her box was ready to go then? She has a husband and a children at home who could have dropped the box off at the post office.
      Christiann is not being rude at all. Victoria is a vile person. She uses people and then drops them when they are no longer of use. She's a bully and a scam artist.

    • @Magicalshopkeeper
      @Magicalshopkeeper Před rokem +4

      @@judis6224 😂😂😂😂

    • @judis6224
      @judis6224 Před rokem

      @@Magicalshopkeeper wow,how old are you?

    • @Magicalshopkeeper
      @Magicalshopkeeper Před rokem +13

      @@judis6224 regardless of my age, any normal person who has at least a few brain cells can see that Victoria was pushing this along with no intention of actually sending anything (and then sent something as damage control). Yes maybe she hurt her back, but not being able to create something handmade whilst still being able to go to London & the studio tour bouncing around, she is a compulsive liar.
      She could have easily scrapped the “handmade” part and sent something of her collection. There’s no way of protecting her from this. She has to own up to her mistake & apologise.

  • @tateaballard
    @tateaballard Před rokem +24

    This was a scam, and you hit it on the head when you said she signed up just to get free stuff and had no intention of following through with the commitments she made. I've heard horror stories about her over and over

  • @dianawonderwoman.3
    @dianawonderwoman.3 Před rokem +24

    🙌🏽 well said! I was already thinking she was full of 💩 when she unboxed her box from Mel.. and said she hurt her back still recovering but yet was able to move and sit up 🤦🏽‍♀️ I have back issues and trust me you wouldn’t be able to sit and open a box .

  • @raquellopez6194
    @raquellopez6194 Před rokem +14

    So sorry to hear this! I have unsubscribed to her channel. These people will never win in life. Thank you for sharing as I too will not be watching her channel anymore. 😊🙏🏼

  • @martinchester7428
    @martinchester7428 Před rokem +24

    She recieves patreon subscription money and i think she gets paid for events she does. She spread some vicious lies about someone i know

    • @HeleneSandy
      @HeleneSandy Před rokem +9

      People I know have been on the receiving end of her vile personality and been bullied by her. I'm so happy Christian has spoken out about his experience and I hope others now have the courage to do the same.

  • @JustSamiThings
    @JustSamiThings Před rokem +21

    At the end of the day she signed up for it. It’s not the hosts job to replace things that people cannot commit to. There was even a time where someone dropped out and Melissa asked if anyone else needed to, she could have at that point but chose not to. It’s not okay at all. I saw the comment from her friend about things that could have been a birthday gift and to me why would she not said my friends got me this like she has in other post when things are sent to her. The right thing for her to do is send something even if it fully didn’t hit the requirements she could have sent something at least, it’s truly unfair for people to act this way and it makes having swaps very stressful, don’t sing up if you can’t afford to do something, people respect it way more because hosting a swap and dealing with stuff like this is not easy what so ever. I’m truly sorry this happened!

    • @martinchester7428
      @martinchester7428 Před rokem +11

      Im not believing the cant afford it. In the last 12 months she has been to new york, scotland twice, italy and london at least 3 or 4 times. Recieves patreon subscriptions and grts paid to attend these meet and greets. If she can afford that i find it hard to believe she cant afford 75 dollars

  • @KayleighChristensen
    @KayleighChristensen Před rokem +27

    So sad that this all happened, but seeing everyone bound together to support you and reading stories from everyone who has commented is just shocking and eye opening. Karma sometimes takes her time but she always arrives xx

  • @LouisaRubyDDD
    @LouisaRubyDDD Před rokem +14

    Thank you Christian for talking about this. I have had smaller channels tell me that they would love to participate in box swaps but they don’t because of issues like this occurring. I’m sorry you experienced this.

  • @SimplyPotter
    @SimplyPotter Před rokem +25

    Good on you for sharing this! I’ve definitely been put in situations like this in the Potter community where I felt that I should share, but it’s always so intimidating to speak out (especially when it’s a larger creator). It’s an immediate subscribe for me! 👏

  • @lucyuceta4690
    @lucyuceta4690 Před rokem +21

    People should Not be part of an Event if they can’t afford it I wonder how would she feel if it was the other way around People don’t interact with this person !!!

  • @martinchester7428
    @martinchester7428 Před rokem +22

    3 patreons have commented on your friends video, they are strangely similar. Weird. Her daughter is also commenting. I did expect exactly that to happen. They dont want this video up because it exposes the teuth about her with evidence. Well done

  • @MarcGardner
    @MarcGardner Před rokem +29

    You're not alone. I've had issues with her as well. Not someone trustworthy or even that knowledgeable about HP stuff either. She is so full of herself and is just wrong about so many things all the time. She gets free stuff from people all the time yet just turns around and sells it. There's nothing special or great about any of her DIY stuff either. Her eBay seller history & feedback is quite poor as well. It's best to just never associate with that mess.

  • @Magicalshopkeeper
    @Magicalshopkeeper Před rokem +27

    Victoria, we do not accept you in the Ravenclaw house. Double it and pass it to the next house.

    • @Welshwizardingcollector
      @Welshwizardingcollector Před rokem +8

      Gryffindor don’t want her, passing it the next

    • @rainbowdash5614
      @rainbowdash5614 Před rokem +11

      @@Welshwizardingcollector Slytherin thinks she's a little too dark for even our darkest wizards. Hufflepuff might have to take one for the team here.

    • @annettemalaski1967
      @annettemalaski1967 Před rokem +8

      One of the McDorks, Michael, is a Hufflepuff, so I don't think so either! She is just out of luck! Send it to the Death Eaters.

    • @Dopeydora
      @Dopeydora Před rokem +2

      @@rainbowdash5614 no thanks, she's no Hufflepuff!

    • @martinchester7428
      @martinchester7428 Před rokem +3

      OH HELL NO! Even us death eaters have standards. DAMN id rather tbag a blender. The goblins can have her

  • @gemmabest6398
    @gemmabest6398 Před rokem +10

    Its sad that there are toxic people ruining the Potter community. People lose their humility. Influencers are not celebrities and begging feeebies doesnt look good. I took a step back from quite a few Influencers. It really upsets me as a disabled person when people make up illnesses and mental health problems. These big Influencers have plenty of money to buy massive hauls and sell on the free gifts they are given from companies. It makes me so sad to see this happens in the community. Its why i dont bother with CZcams anymore.

  • @vrod4900
    @vrod4900 Před rokem +13

    So sad! Who would dare scam a person as sweet as Christian?! The proof is right there in the texts, no need to say more. It is clear who is in the wrong..done. sorry you have to deal with liars and schemers, wish people would just stick to their word 😠

  • @OllivAmbersWands
    @OllivAmbersWands Před rokem +20

    All my love, lumos, and support to you! I’m so sorry about this whole situation. Responsibly and honor are so important, just keep your word. I participated in last Christmas box swap for Yule and had a wonderful time. Everyone knows the expectations and guidelines. You spoke well, and I’m sorry you experienced this, and to all else who have experienced similar from her.

  • @emilymmart9165
    @emilymmart9165 Před rokem +15

    I’ve been a subscriber and viewer of Victoria’s channel for a couple years now & when I watched her Unboxing of the Box Swap I was really confused by it because she said she couldn’t do the swap due to her back complications but it didn’t come across like she was all that sorry at all? Like she very quickly brushed over it like it didn’t mean much which I found odd. I then watched everyone else’s videos of the Swap and could slightly see the frustration from you that you hadn’t received your box yet & I thought it was SO DAMN kind of your friend Mel to send out another box for you, to compensate!! (Which of course she didn’t have to do but that’s a true friend!!). I kinda felt that there had to be more to it! Like Victoria gave off weird vibes like she had no intention to send out a box but was so happy to receive one herself?? If she couldn’t make it happen she should have pulled out. Simple. I’ve watched many box swaps in my time on CZcams and never had I seen a CZcamsr not send a box but so happily open one they had been sent and not be super apologetic or express when they will send theirs out/how they would resolve it yano?? She didn’t seem to fussed by it which came across to me in her video. I’ve been a viewer of her for a while so it was a bit confusing & left a bit of a sour taste in my mouth!
    Also, I understand that money is tight & some people can’t afford to create these expensive box swaps but she always had the option to opt out. Plus I know she said she wanted to make DIY things for her box but couldn’t because of her back and stuff so, surely when you realise you can’t do that, the way you wanted then wouldn’t you just think “well I best just buy some cool things instead” so it’s less stressful for her? She could have asked her friends or family to help with it - I’m sure they wouldn’t have minded! And she also gets sent A LOT of HP stuff, and is always selling some of her collection / things she doesn’t want/need or have the room for, I’m SURE she could have found some items she already has or has been sent that aren’t quite her cup of tea but are still cool & HP that someone else would love, like!! Idk!! It seemed so clear to me that there was very little thought or attempts to even TRY. 🥴🥴
    And reading all these other comments from people saying she’s always been rude, a bully and a scammer have really threw me! I honestly didn’t know any of this!!
    I’m sorry this happened to you & thank you for making such a mature, well thought out video! 💖

    • @witchyangelambience6112
      @witchyangelambience6112 Před rokem +3

      I’ve been a subscriber to Victoria for a long time and I had no idea she’s like this. I’ve unsubscribed and left her VA. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Lumos! ⚡️

    • @thelestrangelair
      @thelestrangelair Před rokem +1

      Yeah even if she didn't have any extra/unwanted new HP items that fit the theme, she could've sent extra to make up for that. Like okay I am ill, probably not so true, and broke, not so true if she's shopping, but I do have a lot of items here so I am sending you an HP box if not an HP easter box, but it's better than making you wait aand delaying this thing, so rather than the 75 dollar mark agreed upon, i am sending 150, cause you know she had that much stuff sitting around.Point is if you can't do the theme, sending extra is fair and makes iup for it and is far, far, better than not sending anything. Happy Easter? Not. Sad when people are successful and still are small enough to scamm smaller folk as it were. But shows you who the so called good guys are. Ha.
      Bella L

  • @essimom2
    @essimom2 Před rokem +21

    That really sucks that she did that to you. If she knew she wouldn't be able to fulfill the obligation she should've said something to Melissa and dropped out right away. Not leave you hanging like that. Health comes first I agree but she kept her other obligations and bought stuff when she said she didn't have money. Sorry that happened to you.

  • @clarissa1115
    @clarissa1115 Před rokem +13

    So sorry this happened to you. Situations like this are the worse but you handled this very well.
    A commitment is a commitment.
    Hope this doesn't happen again in future box swaps 😢

  • @katblack394
    @katblack394 Před rokem +21

    New subscriber here. I thought it was odd that she wasn't sending a box because her back hurt. She could've just asked her kids or husband for help, right? I don't get it
    Or a simple gift card? It was strange to me when I saw her open her box. I'm glad the truth is out! TFS!

  • @psmathwiz
    @psmathwiz Před rokem +18

    Wow, I'm really stunned and disappointed in Victoria! Thank you so much for your honesty, that took a lot of courage, I just started following you and look forward to seeing your videos. I also unfollowed Victoria and all social networks.

  • @hogwartsvault
    @hogwartsvault Před rokem +44

    She’s a horrible person, I got constant abuse of her, she would type in capitals😂 she would also demand people to unfollow other HP collectors, I also remember when she created fake accounts to slander every HP accounts, avoid her at all costs! Stay safe wizards xx

  • @MamaJPops
    @MamaJPops Před rokem +18

    Sorry this happened but you know I have dealt with this alot. If she had no money your right how does she afford other things. If she didn't send then she should have returned her box to who was running swap to use as a replacement or giveaway. She should not get a box if not sending one. Within a week of not sending she could have had the person filming to return the other box ..sadly not everyone feels commitments are important

  • @NorelleLee8
    @NorelleLee8 Před rokem +12

    Wow. I'm so sorry that this happened :(
    But i just want to say that you are handling this very politely and showing proof(pictures, screenshots etc). No one can say that you are lying or making things up. Melissa is such a great person and friend that she sent the box even she did not have to.

  • @Dopeydora
    @Dopeydora Před rokem +23

    I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. Sadly Victoria is well know for her bullying and lying, however, has so many people thinking that she's so perfect. Believe me her group of 'Victoria's Army' fanatics will soon be flooding here defending her with comments.

    • @Dopeydora
      @Dopeydora Před rokem +15

      @@monprice98 anyone who has been in the fandom over the last few years will more than like seen it or heard of it, especially those who used to know her really well. I personally know other influencers who are friends she has been a complete B@@ch too and tried to bully. Maybe you have not been privy to that? It is also not my place to name others, that is down to them to come forward. Plus with the VA coming after them on all their Social Medias it was a nightmare. However, there is evidence and maybe now that they are not alone it will come out in others coming forward!

    • @arihelloitsme
      @arihelloitsme Před rokem +9

      I'm happy to come forward!

    • @KayleighChristensen
      @KayleighChristensen Před rokem +4

      @@arihelloitsme please do!

  • @hungergames7fan13
    @hungergames7fan13 Před rokem +12

    interesting she made an apology video yet turned her comments off

  • @Caitlyns_Crafts_Collectibles

    Yeah this was just her wanting free stuff. She could've been injured and therefore it's understandable that things need to be postponed but that does not cancel out the obligations that were agreed upon beforehand. As awesome as it was of Mel to send you a box this also makes it unfair to her since she had to send two boxes with money out of her own pocket to compensate for Victoria's box. I've seen this too often in swaps before where people make excuses not to send or say that the rules weren't something they agreed to and that person simply gets banned from all future swaps. Good for you for speaking out and making others aware of this for any future swaps she may be in. Maybe we need to start doing background checks on people lol. Dont let any hate comments get to you Christian. You're an honest and ethical guy and we respect you for it

    • @BKPHIPPS4
      @BKPHIPPS4 Před rokem +4

      Background checks good idea!

  • @KamisCorner
    @KamisCorner Před rokem +13

    I’m so sorry this happened to you! 😢 thank you for sharing 😊

  • @alainasview268
    @alainasview268 Před rokem +13

    This is utterly insane. I really hope you get something! We signed up with the understanding that we would send something.

  • @DisneyMertz
    @DisneyMertz Před rokem +20

    Good on you for speaking your truth, and I’m sorry this happened to you. 🫶🏼

  • @monkeymoo617
    @monkeymoo617 Před rokem +17

    Good video I completely agree with everything you’ve said.
    I unsubscribed to her on all platforms what she’s done is awful in my opinion.

  • @TheTexasPotterhead
    @TheTexasPotterhead Před rokem +17

    Holy cow. I’m so sorry this happened to you.

  • @GamzDaProperPopper
    @GamzDaProperPopper Před rokem +9

    Very well said Christian! 👏 You supplied us with facts and proof of everything, and still wished her a speedy recovery. Yall deserve better! Sorry to hear, have a great day!

  • @annettemalaski1967
    @annettemalaski1967 Před rokem +12

    My first inclination was to give her a benefit of a doubt. But the next few days her videos showed how shallow that swap video was. You and I have mutual contact buddies. I chose to suport a buddy of my fellow TWT reps. I am on your side!

  • @nishakesterton9413
    @nishakesterton9413 Před rokem +8

    Hi. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I think you have handled this in a very mature manner and good for you for speaking out. We all have struggles in life but people are too quick to play the victim when it’s convenient to them and it’s not fair on you. You were more than accommodating and understanding. Sadly I think you were scammed. So great to see the Harry Potter community supporting you as the receipts don’t lie. I hope this comes to an amicable solution and hopefully Victoria does a little self reflection rather than getting defensive ❤❤

  • @brickyhallows
    @brickyhallows Před rokem +11

    I’m so sorry this happened to you! Life happens, its understandable, but her reasons and their timing just seem off when put into context. It was so nice of Mel, sending you a box! I hope you can continue to see the Lumos in this community, because it outweighs the bad by a *lot*. ;)

  • @crystaldavis4345
    @crystaldavis4345 Před rokem +18

    @MCdorks Good for you!! You did what others wouldn't do! I am sorry this happened to you! I have told people for years that she is scammer! Two of three years ago she did a GoFund thing to do on site location filming. Tons of people donated and she never did it. When called out she always plays the victim. Again I am sorry this happened to you! Harry Potter is about friendship and people coming together for a love of a fandom, not to bully or take advantage of one other. lots of Love and Lumos.

    • @HeleneSandy
      @HeleneSandy Před rokem +2

      Ah yes. I remember the gofund me scam. "Guys I'm at uni and I really want to go round the UK and film at me at the Harry Potter locations send me money so I can do it!"
      I've been witness to the vile bulling of this woman. I'm glad others are starting to see this woman for what she is. A bully and a scam.

  • @sharonwarejko5389
    @sharonwarejko5389 Před rokem +12

    So sorry this has happened to you. I hope she lives up to her obligations and sends a nice box to you.

  • @Welshwizardingcollector
    @Welshwizardingcollector Před rokem +19

    You have gained a follow from me. Glad to see the truth finally out there

    • @HeleneSandy
      @HeleneSandy Před rokem +7

      Thank you for bringing this video to my attention. One day you should share you're experienc with this woman!

    • @arihelloitsme
      @arihelloitsme Před rokem +8

      It warms my heart to see others who have been hurt by her sharing this and supporting each other.

    • @Welshwizardingcollector
      @Welshwizardingcollector Před rokem +4

      @@arihelloitsme I have tried but I didn’t have enough support. It kept back firing on me

  • @PracticallyNickiInEveryWay

    I’m so sorry this has happened to you. This is not what our community is about ❤️ x

  • @Ian_Knipe
    @Ian_Knipe Před rokem +13

    What she's done is absolutely outrageous, Why companies send her free merch is beyond me, it should stop and people should unsubscribe from her channel as I have done. She's obviously only out for what she can get.

    • @witchyangelambience6112
      @witchyangelambience6112 Před rokem +4

      I’ve unsubscribed, I had know idea she is the kind of person that she is until I’ve watched Christians videos and Dawsons videos. It’s crazy that this is happening..

    • @arihelloitsme
      @arihelloitsme Před rokem +5

      They mostly don't. She buys stuff herself and pretends she's been sent it.

    • @Ian_Knipe
      @Ian_Knipe Před rokem +2

      @@arihelloitsme You have to be kidding!!

    • @arihelloitsme
      @arihelloitsme Před rokem +2

      @@Ian_Knipe Honestly!

    • @Ian_Knipe
      @Ian_Knipe Před rokem +4

      @@arihelloitsme Good grief, it just gets worse!

  • @lucyuceta4690
    @lucyuceta4690 Před rokem +15

    This message of you Chris you said it well!!!

  • @wiktoriaholmstrom9013
    @wiktoriaholmstrom9013 Před rokem +15

    Thank you for keeping to the facts and not diving into emotions. This makes you believable. I've followed her channel for years, I have never seen your videos. However, if I had to choose who I believe it would be you based on everything I've seen of her at her channel. I stopped watching bcs of things I found not okay and I didn't want to endorse that channel (but I never said anything of course). I believe her self awareness is not the best, however, that is not a crime and if it doesn't hurt anyone, live and let live. But this seems to lead her to behave in an unexceptable way to some people, and THAT is not ok. It's obvious that you're not trying to start a war, which I respect. And I agree, just because someone else stepped in and sent you a box doesn't let her off the hook. She has said many times that there is no way she can keep everything she gets, so you could have gotten some of that. Lumos!

  • @BKPHIPPS4
    @BKPHIPPS4 Před rokem +17

    Christian - sorry this happened to you. Too many excuses. Sad! Don’t sign up for a swap if you can’t afford it. If I had a back issue you wouldn’t see me at some meet /greet or park.

  • @LukeAntunes
    @LukeAntunes Před rokem +6

    That sucks 😢😢 So nice that Mel sent you a box to make up for it!

  • @sharonspopsandplants359
    @sharonspopsandplants359 Před rokem +12

    I’m so sorry to here this that she’s been this way I think she needs to be left out of all future swaps 😢

  • @arihelloitsme
    @arihelloitsme Před rokem +35

    I used to run her "Harry Potter UK" page along with her and another woman.
    She is actually evil. The things she said in our private message group would absolutely shock you. She is a classic narcissist and has no emotional intelligence whatsoever - she doesn't care who she hurts or treats badly, as long as she gets her own way.
    There are SO many people out there who have similar stories about her. She's very well known for the way she treats others and it still astounds me how many people cannot ass straight through her.
    Everyone eventually sees though. I'm sorry this happened to you.

    • @pottergeek6077
      @pottergeek6077 Před rokem +4

      It's not just her though, her right hand is janice and she's been fighting her battles for years, those two together have bullied so many people and I'm so glad it's all coming out

    • @arihelloitsme
      @arihelloitsme Před rokem +4

      @@pottergeek6077 Oh absolutely. I used to feel sorry for Janice because I thought she was just a bit dim and couldn't see what Victoria was really like, but after all this time, she's still friends with her, despite knowing what she's like.

  • @glyndaa8319
    @glyndaa8319 Před rokem +14

    We’ll I unsubscribed real quick from her. I don’t like liars and thieves!

  • @issyburness3461
    @issyburness3461 Před rokem +8

    Good on you Christian. So many people, including kids, looked up to this person for many years but she is fake, greedy, deluded and completely full of her own importance (whatever that is!). You told everybody the truth and quite rightly so, it's not nice to be scammed and nobody should get away with it. Also the fact the person you talk about in the video has done so many other nasty things to so many people, it's not right and gives a bad name to Harry Potter fans who are not like that, most of us are just wanting to enjoy the experience of Harry Potter and all that goes with the magic of it, not be duped and lied to.

  • @LovingBeingNatural1
    @LovingBeingNatural1 Před rokem +5

    So sorry to hear this happened to you and to find out that you are not the first is truly disheartening. I wish you all the best.

  • @originalmollyrook
    @originalmollyrook Před rokem +11

    I'm so sorry this happened to you.

  • @bethanbailey3318
    @bethanbailey3318 Před rokem +5

    So sorry you have been through this.
    A commitment is a commitment, if she didn't have the money to do it she shouldn't have accepted the offer.
    I have only watched a couple of her videos but have always felt that she just likes to get free items.
    I understand having problems walking (having had 2 knee operations) but she has a whole family around her that could have helped put the box together.
    Melissa is lovely to have made and sent you a box so that you had something for the day ❤
    Hope it all gets sorted and she gets her act together xx

  • @deadtechzach3776
    @deadtechzach3776 Před rokem +33

    Folks, let me be blunt with you here as a person not in the HP fan community with no ties to anyone in this discussion...this was 100% a scam. Person agreed. Got the information several times over. Couldn't follow through on their end, so reasonable accommodations were offered time and again to remedy the situation. Very little was actually asked of her and the guidelines were clear when she signed up, but excuse after excuse was given. Like whomever you want and subscribe to every channel, but don't pretend this wasn't hardcore a scam!

  • @cloud__99
    @cloud__99 Před 21 dnem +2

    Just remembered this because she made a post yesterday that basically accuses you of pushing her towards s*icide last year. I think that’s an incredibly serious accusation to make. I was speechless. Looks like she really can’t let it rest.

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před 16 dny

      Looks like she can’t. It is what it is.

  • @Ladystarborn
    @Ladystarborn Před rokem +10

    I'm really sorry for this negative experience! This is not the standard we strive for in the Potter community and its incredibly disappointing to hear of these behaviours 💙💛

  • @theeclecticmemah
    @theeclecticmemah Před rokem +11

    Well done Christian! I am so sorry this happened to you! I think that she has a lot of nerve to say that because you received a box from Mel (out of the goodness of her amazing heart) DOES NOT release her of her obligation ESPECIALLY since she received a box! And, correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't she receive her box before she started talking about DIY items and her putting "her heart into everything" so she knew what should go into the box! *smh*

  • @siennad587
    @siennad587 Před rokem +8

    I’ve always found it curious no bigger CZcamsrs associate with her. Does anyone know if she collected money for the meet and greet I’m just curious. Your feelings are valid and I agree with you on the situation!

  • @gaynorandrews1684
    @gaynorandrews1684 Před rokem +10

    I follow a few influences and victoria is 1.
    As i watch a few regularly I'm happy to say I enjoy watching them but not really influenced by them.
    Your story has come across as very mature and shown you have acted reasonably and sensibly throughout.
    I've only looked for you now because I've just watched Victoria's apology to you and all concerned. I had no idea this was going on behind the scenes.
    You took every step I would've taken. And you showed courage in standing up for yourself in a way you can feel proud of.
    Your video evidence of Victoria is quite damning against her but I thank you for sharing.
    From an outsiders perspective (just my opinion where I'm happy that I know nothing more of the particulars ) it sound's like Victoria just let things get out of hand and wasn't concerned about her loss of control.
    I imagine you youtubers get trolled regular. Huge amounts of followers make you easy targets. So I can see paranoia clearly also played a part on her side.
    Thank you for posting this video and for telling your side with such clarity and maturity.
    Hope it all gets settled amicably. ❤ best of luck to you hun.

  • @jessicabones
    @jessicabones Před rokem +14

    New subscriber ❤ respect to you hunnie!

  • @charlieblossom5216
    @charlieblossom5216 Před rokem +9

    If she knew she couldn't do the box swap she shouldn't have agreed to do it. Yes she might nkt be wealthy but that is no excuse. Seeing Cherry wallis' comment makes me think i shouldn't follow her. Scamming isn't acceptable

  • @libbycooper7091
    @libbycooper7091 Před 2 měsíci +2

    A couple years ago, Victoria was having a opening of the history boxes for Harry Potter on channel. She ended up with several duplicates and was looking for a trade. I offered to trade with her. I sent mine but never received mine. Her response was I’m so sorry it must’ve been lost in the mail, and that she would look into it and I never heard another word from her. So I hear where you’re coming from and don’t blame if you’re being upset.

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před 2 měsíci

      Oh wow. Sorry to hear about that. I’m not surprised though. Hope you’re doing well. ❤️

  • @AHD4020
    @AHD4020 Před rokem +8

    Wowser I have unsubscribed from her more power too ya
    Seems heaps of people have had massive issues with her
    The box you got was RAD
    CHEERS from Australia

  • @Bigdog7499
    @Bigdog7499 Před rokem +12

    You 100% got scammed! Her back hurts and she swings this big box around, come back to mama js swap. We miss ya.

  • @morethanfavors
    @morethanfavors Před rokem +11

    I am sorry this happened to you.

  • @c-fensreserva5195
    @c-fensreserva5195 Před rokem +7

    Ohhh thats why it was odd that she had a video of the swap but didnt send a box in return , i didnt watch her video coz i think it was unfair..it was like getting free goodies

    • @Ian_Knipe
      @Ian_Knipe Před rokem

      She's all about the free stuff!

  • @gramalovespotter2460
    @gramalovespotter2460 Před rokem +10

    I'm so sorry this happened to you. I look forward to these events so much. I gave up on Victoria about a year ago when she became "Lady - of Wizarding World" and became nothing more than a big advertisement. I wish her well and I hope she finds her way back home to this amazing HP community.

    • @martinchester7428
      @martinchester7428 Před rokem +5

      Lady is a novelty and shes taking it seriously. And wizarding world she is not an ambassador of. She loves to say she is of everyone

  • @JAMIES_LIFE_101
    @JAMIES_LIFE_101 Před rokem +12

    Thanks for Sharing

  • @dreamersfantasy3254
    @dreamersfantasy3254 Před rokem +8

    I am sorry you have been scammed. I used to like her but she became imo big headed and bragged about all the companies she was working with. I unsubscribed to her after that. Assuming what she has said about her back and money issues are true, she could have paid you back in cash instalments at least to try something. To go on spending sprees and meet ups doesn’t give a good impression 🙁

  • @martinchester7428
    @martinchester7428 Před rokem +3

    I wanted to say another well done christian for standing up to her, it has since come to light of more wrongdoings by her. And she is desperately trying to save whats left of her so called career. The uk news now has the information to what she has done

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před rokem

      Thank you. I appreciate it.

  • @thelestrangelair
    @thelestrangelair Před rokem +7

    Well at the very least it shows her lack of respect for smaller channels, as if she feels she's doing you a favor to participate. However if she felt thusly, she literally shouldn't have bothered. She thinks she's all that, ego complex and undeserved. I can't get through a vid, she's too happy, so this is kind of gratifying for me tbh, but I am so sorry you were screwed over, it never feels good.
    Bella L

  • @korra3906
    @korra3906 Před rokem +9

    Hey 👋 What shelf’s do you use they look fantastic!!

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před rokem +1

      Hey thank you!! I believe I got them from Mainstay over at Walmart but years ago. They hold up well but if you are like me who likes to rearrange and move the shelves around, I wouldn’t recommend them honestly. They were fairly cheap which is why I bought them at the time.

  • @harmonydesroches
    @harmonydesroches Před 4 měsíci +2

    Here for the tea. Sorry this happened to you.

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před 3 měsíci +1

      No worries. That’s soo last year lol

  • @missjjshadow
    @missjjshadow Před rokem +5

    I’m sorry this has happened to you.

  • @nicolebrosi3564
    @nicolebrosi3564 Před 3 měsíci +2

    "75$ ? 75$ ! Here's 100$ does that cover it?!?!" TPB If you don't get the reference... im on your side ❤

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Lol thank you so much for hearing my side and watching it through!

  • @user-ib5en9yh2h
    @user-ib5en9yh2h Před rokem +8

    Да уж, я в шоке! Сообщество коллекционеров по Гарри Поттеру, ну казалось бы, место, где люди разделяют один интерес и помогают друг другу с контентом. И даже в этом сообществе есть своя крыса, свой Питер Петтигрю🙃 Очень расстроена, что нигде нет места, где можно было бы укрыться от таких людей.
    И конечно, это настоящий развод, можно было миллионом способов решить проблему. Не буду перечислять, уже много кто предлагал. Но отправить как минимум деньги и извиниться, это уж точно следовало.
    И вы серьзёно? Аргумент, что у неё нет денег? У КОЛЛЕКЦИОНЕРА? Может мне ещё воды и лекарства отправить ей, как детям в Африку?
    В общем, бумерангом всё ей вернётся.

  • @anne-marietownsend7497
    @anne-marietownsend7497 Před rokem +10

    I’m so sorry this happened. I do hope it was just a big misunderstanding as I do enjoy Victoria’s videos. I thought it was lovely of Mel to send you both a box but I do believe Victoria probably should not have opened it on her channel as she did not participate properly in the swap. Keep up the great work. ❤

    • @HeleneSandy
      @HeleneSandy Před rokem +7

      Hi. It doesn't appear to be a misunderstanding. It's very clear what was expected of the people taking part in a box swap.
      She stated in a message to the group chat that her box was ready to go, then she says she can't send it because of injury...but then she's posted video of herself a couple of days later.
      Christian reached out to her and she still didn't follow through on what she needed to do.
      VM has been vile to people I care about and I have seen first hand the awful things she has done.

  • @steimbergkarla-elena1983
    @steimbergkarla-elena1983 Před 3 měsíci +2

    She's not injured nor in any way shape of form ill she's just a ''woman'' who got popularity due to her getting in the Guiness Book of records for collecting HP things.She claims she is dislexic,her back injured,and autistic but she just craves attention...she's claimed working for WB for a while and stopped showing anything that was not officialy licensed on her channel....she has a regular job yet still claims to be a HP CZcamsr when she only posts once a week if even that.She posted a really Lame video about her 'Menthal Health' and having had ''suicidal thoughts'' In my personal opinion those who publicly say ''I've got suicidal thoughts'' are just whinning for attention and would never actually go trough with those ''thoughts'' she's just a 'person' who got popular sudenly and it got to her head and she thinks she can do or say whatever she wants.

  • @sonoa941
    @sonoa941 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I've unsubscribed- was sick of her treating CZcams like her own personal Facebook marketplace to sell overpriced free stuff she's been gifted to gain money

  • @XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx
    @XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx Před rokem +7

    Victoria McLean's channel had a good run 2009-2023

    • @martinchester7428
      @martinchester7428 Před rokem +4

      Pmsl. I think its honestly over for her

    • @XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx
      @XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx Před rokem +2

      @@martinchester7428 I feel rejuvenated after watching titled "the hardest video she's ever had to make" 😄😆

    • @martinchester7428
      @martinchester7428 Před rokem +4

      @Elite Snowman king absolute sham wasnt it. She was about as sorry as i am the prime minister

    • @martinchester7428
      @martinchester7428 Před rokem +2

      Update yep its over for her

    • @XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx
      @XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx Před rokem +1

      @@martinchester7428 what happened for this update to come about!?

  • @nicolebrosi3564
    @nicolebrosi3564 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Eww i just watched up to her opening her package... before even seeing one item I had to come here. I cant believe she uploaded smh... i remember seeing her for the first time, at the end of 2023 and was questioning why she was doing advent calenders soo early which turned me off already but... eww! Just eww! So sorry bro

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yea it was a disaster of a situation but thankfully we have moved forward from it. Hopefully others can learn from this.

  • @savedannette
    @savedannette Před 3 měsíci +2

    I believe in Karma and Karma will always come maybe not right away but it will come
    If you do Good: Good Karma will come
    If you do Bad: Bad Karma will come

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před 3 měsíci +1

      I completely agree with you. Thank you so much for the love. I really appreciate you! Hope you’re doing well.

  • @cobrakaiwizard9362
    @cobrakaiwizard9362 Před rokem

    Why was my comments deleted?

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před rokem +4

      I personally don’t recall seeing your comment prior to this one. If you would like to repost it you have the floor. Apologies for any inconvenience.

    • @MCdorks
      @MCdorks  Před rokem +4

      So I believe you replied to another comment that they themselves deleted

  • @XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx
    @XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx Před rokem +1

    If I just think outside the box for a moment here perhaps creating this Easter swap box had to be specifically made by the individuals involved in this event such as Victoria herself. and couldn't be handed to any other recipient due to breach of these rules. so when it was suggested that Natalie or Monica could take the reigns on Victoria's box swap perhaps that wasn't allowed. People have come out and said she's not sorry just sorry she got caught I still don't wanna believe these rumours of Victoria trying to sabotage these other Harry potter collector channels why are people saying these things??????

    • @HeleneSandy
      @HeleneSandy Před rokem +7

      Victoria messaged the group to say that she had finished the box, then she said that her back had gone and she couldn't post it. Then she said that she only needed to make hand made items (she didn't, it was very clear to all involved that there was a spend limit of $75.
      There is no need to think outside the box. Victoria is in the wrong and Christian has the evidence to back up what he is saying.

    • @martinchester7428
      @martinchester7428 Před rokem +9

      She had until the 15th to post it this supposedly was the day her back went, well she should have the box ready to be posted by that day anyway. Nope. She had 2 months to get it ready and she didnt. She also had multiple excuses for christian. She also took all the libks to the other creators off her video and tgen put free at the bottom. To make it appear free. She never had any intention of forfiling her obligations. This woman on camera is not the same woman when the doors are closed. Sorry to tell you but shes a narcassist, liar, and a bully. Immeadiately after that fake apology i heard she went on the attack again verbally. Anyone can support whomever they wish and we dont hold that against anyone. Just be informed of the truth, stay informed, stay cautious. We all know ever in the street some people are not whom they make themselces out to be.

    • @arihelloitsme
      @arihelloitsme Před rokem +8

      As Victoria had my comment deleted, I'll just repeat... We're saying these things because they're true.

    • @martinchester7428
      @martinchester7428 Před rokem +7

      @Ari boy oh boy if this pathetic response is what she will do because she cant handle a truthful comment. She definately wont be able to handle what happens next.

    • @arihelloitsme
      @arihelloitsme Před rokem +4

      @@martinchester7428 I know. I've just been talking to one of her ex-patreons. She really is a nasty piece of work!

  • @Nikki.White.934
    @Nikki.White.934 Před rokem +20

    @Mcdorks I'm so proud to be your friend, and that you shared this experience. I'm sorry you had to go through this, and take more time out of your day to make this video. Especially when the whole box swap was supposed to be FUN! Right is right, and wrong is wrong. This definitely needed shared. You're friends are here to support you!
    @moniceprice4918 People usually get very defensive, and angry when their wrong. Writing defensive comments under everyones messages for your mother, because she mostly likely won't respond shows you're doing her slander for her. You're coming off strong, hateful, and defensive. To tell Christian to go look in the mirror when he is talking about what he experienced. Wow! I think I would say that's RUDE. Also, to tell him to grow up!?!? Wow! What did he do wrong in this whole situation. Not one thing! Christian didn't assume anything about your mother's back, and even wished her well. Victoria is the one who posted those videos publicly. When someone says one thing, and then does/shows another it's very misleading. She had THREE MONTHS - YES THREE MONTHS to make (really buy nice items) for the box swap, but chose not to. When she started feeling like she was behind schedule, her back was hurting, etc. She could've changed her plans, and went ahead and ordered items for the box swap. She also could've sent a message saying, "I was planning on personally making some items for you because it's more meaningful for me, but now I can't do that. I'm going to order the items instead." This is the second year of this box swap, and previous videos are available on CZcams to be watched if she wanted even more references on how this box swap works. She definitely knows what boxes entail, and opens subscription boxes on a regular basis. She also definitely knows what goes into making a box, and knew that when committing. She agreed to send out a box, and should've done so. Mel, sent out two boxes, spending twice as much money than originally anticipated because she didn't want anyone left out. She didn't have to make a second box, but when you know someone is being left out, and you have a good heart, you step up. That shows how the kindness, usually goes in the community. However, there will be those bad apples from time to time who take advantage of a good situation. Mel, stepped up, and made sure everyone was involved. She probably didn't even think twice about sending the second box out either, because that's the good nature of the person she is. People's true personalities will show when given the opportunity over time. Victoria also had the opportunity when the videos dropped to message both Christian, and Mel and again apologize about not sending a box. She could've definitely stepped up and asked Mel what the cost was on the box she sent, and offered to pay her back. She could've sent thank you messages for helping her complete her obligations, and making a box for her, so to speak. However the opposite thing happened, she left the group chat. She no longer wanted to be involved. I did read every comment before writing mine, and it does seem that there is a pattern from Victoria that is coming out. It's time to take responsibility, instead of being aggressive.
    (As I was writing this Monica must have deleted her rude comment. I could'nt reply to the original comment.)

  • @Dan-hg7vx
    @Dan-hg7vx Před rokem +10

    So sorry this happened I’ll unfollow her now it’s so not fair🤍x