She was “looking” through her bag for her phone like how I used to “look” through my book bag for my report card for my mom knowing damn well its in there💀
There could’ve been a number of ways she could’ve approached this and picked the worst possible way - the lack of self awareness displayed is astounding
@@ernimuja6991 I agree plus assuming this lady didn’t come straight from the 18th century, she should easily known how she would’ve come across by throwing wild accusation like that
This almost happened to me while I was working at a grocery store checking. A girl in her mid 20s approached my checkout line as I was finishing up the customer in front of her. She left the line to grab an item that she forgot, while leaving her her purse in the cart unattended. She came back a minute later and immediately checks her purse and looks at me hesitantly and asked me “where’s my phone?” I responded with a “like really stare,” shrugging my shoulders, idk. She began to get flustered asking me a again a few more times while looking around. She either believed that I took it, or felt that I was responsible to keep watch on her property. “I told her I don’t know, but if you aren’t ready to check out I need you to step aside so I can keep my line moving.” She left the store to her car and came back 5 minutes later, and tried apologizing. The only other words I spoke to her after that was “your total is $187.35” after ringing up her items. It’s sad, but when ever these situations occur I don’t even flair up and get defensive, I just nonchalantly state the facts and let shit play out. Although it is frustrating when you’ll always be looked at a certain way because your skin color.
The sad part is some black people would jump in on the bias (im really mean racist) person side for browny points, I was in a situation similar to this last week
Not reacting to them is the best response. Because they know they messed up bad and their prejudice was put on display for all to see, and even better: They know that you know it too.
Not reacting is those peoples kryptonite bro, because you not only didnt feed into it....but you stood your ground in doing so while helping another person before assisting them again. I've also had to do this as a cashier at a kroger affiliate. She was screaming at me for probably a solid five minutes, only to be gone for less than 3 before getting back in my line. I was helping the same person when she came back in and HE asked if she found her phone yet, she was eyeing the great buff job on the floors after that 😂I didnt get an apology, but that interaction had me busting up laughing when my line was gone lol
On the other hand most of the black people that steal from retail pull the race card to try to get out of getting caught. It sucks but it is what it is
Imma take it a step further. She targeted him from the beginning. She said he stole her phone and hoped the clerk would call the cops instead of handling the situation himself and when the clerk didn’t call the cops she started to panic and make excuses to justify her actions. The old white woman in distress technique backfired this time.
What people need to understand is that sometimes when a man is laughing, especially in a situation, he is laughing to keep from going straight the f off. Youve been warned.
Very very true. I’m a calm person and will laugh off most absurd things. But when the absurd things persist and my laughing no longer works (to cope) I get a little unhinged.
The number of times I've "lost" my phone while out in public and I've never thought anyone took it is too high to remember... my first thought is where in my bag did that phone go.... everyone knows handbags have black holes that hide everything and anything at any moment. I've searched my bag for things and not found them until I've emptied everything! And it is racism as she accused the man and not the woman.... I use to think racism didn't exist as much as it does until I hired a Filipino support worker and I've seen it happen to her before my own eyes.... when you are genuinely not racist you can't imagine other people being racist but once you see it you can't un-see it.
So you don't think it's possible she did look and overlooked it.. I know most people have done that before as well. She thinks her phone is gone. She thinks maybe that the guy was standing close enough that he could of taken it, she gets embarrassed when she finds it and doesn't know what to do.. the brain makes people do weird things in stressful situations that aren't always rational so she probably did stall after realizing her mistake to prepare herself for the humiliation/guilt of it especially if she know's she's being recorded. I know this because it's happened to me before. and your last statement works in the same way as a double ended sword.. once you have seen real racism you see it everywhere even when it's not there.
@@Pebbles803 and really it is just a lesson to all of us to stop and take a breath before we accuse anyone of anything on a hunch... most gut feelings are right but we do need to be careful...
I've been where this man has been. As embarrassing as it is to be in this position, there is a small satisfaction when you know you did nothing wrong, and that the person is about to look stupid.
Unfortunately, they don't always look stupid and people often believe their lies. Then you have to face the consequences of the lies. At least this man has proof on video and the clerk handled the situation well.
@@MorenaRose86 I was just gonna say, in this situation you are about to get proven innocent. But that won't always be the case where you can proven it so easily, and that's when it becomes a real problem.
@@MorenaRose86 I remember when me and my brother went into footlocker in the early 90s , my mom came and told us to leave , I didn't get it until my mom told the blonde cashier "I heard what you said about my sons!!" You told your coworker to 'watch them' you think you're slick " The guy who was also white said "I'm really sorry ma'am " he took the blame she just had the same look that Karen had when she was exposed My mom said later she heard him say "That's not right, come on"
You a damn fool. 'Satisfaction' means nothing when your pocket is empty. You shoulda taken their "mistake" all the way to the bank, but you'd rather have the SATISFACTION of having taken the 'high road', right?! Why do you need THEM to believe that you are a moral and upright man??? Aren't THEY the same people who falsely accused you??? Something is wrong you, brother. Don't you see that they NEVER EVER learn from these things??? The behavior continues on with some other brother who they happen across. Haven't you realized yet that all that 'take the high road' bullshit is a damn con?! They don't actually believe that themselves. They invented that for US! So we'd learn to take the shit they dish out and not make trouble. The only way they learn is when you hit them where it hurts....THAT POCKETBOOK. And seeing as how the wealth gap has increased drastically during the pandemic, our community should be considering all methods of closing that gap. You allowed their accolades and praises to cause you to miss out on a money-making opportunity, which could have changed your life and your family tree. Don't let it happen again!
I remember walking out of an electronic store when I was 17 (which had sensors at the front). I walked through with no issue and the security INSISTED I came back. I was confused because the sensor didn’t go off. I walked back and handed him the receipt of what I just bought. He was looking at it while checking EVERY single item I had just purchased. After he saw that everything was in order he actually seemed frustrated that I didn’t do anything wrong. He proceeded to ask me to empty my pockets! I went from calm to FURIOUS! I start going off at the guy and my parents came out of nowhere because they were waiting for me and were wondering why I was taking so long. As soon as my white Step Dad started going off at this guy, the security panicked and started apologising desperately and making the excuse they had a lot of theft recently. My Step Father called him a racist and some other bad words and we never went to that store again.
I got accused of doing something I didn't do in school all the time. I literally went to war with this teacher nearly getting me suspended. Even when the actual culprit came out and admitted he was the one doing it my teacher still wanted to suspend me because of how I behaved after getting falsly accused... So I can somewhat imagine how those situations feel like and I can fully understand when someone loses his mind over it.
I want accused on racial shit but I had the same thing happen to me. Such a shit feeling all you can do is hope the truth comes out. Unfortunately I did get suspended despite the teachers lying about checking the cameras fuck school mayne ofuh real
There was another lady who actually tackled a KID after accusing him of stealing her phone only to find out that she left it in an Uber. She was recently charged with a hate crime behind it. She blamed the kid because he was black. It was the only thing she had to go on. This stuff is crazy.
Her reluctance to give her number is all you need to know that either she knows what she's doing or being aware of the camera, she was afraid of the exact scenario that played out.
She wanted to delay enough to allow the guy get angry. If he did get angry then he is perceived as guilty and hiding something then the police would get called in.
@@georgeprecious1036 this is true, and I think it is ridiculous that just because you get defensive it means automatic guilt, if I am accused of something I didn’t do I get defensive to. Why does defending yourself from something you didn’t do get seen as guilt, people tell you to stand up for yourself then when you do you are instantly guilty and have to be hiding something or trying to deceive, it is a lose lose situation, I have been in this situation a multiple amount of times and it sucks.
I was the Karen in this video one time.. I accused someone of stealing my shit and i was wrong and i felt like an idiot.. It happens. Her body language and how she was speaking reminded me of that.. I don't think she a racist, she just fucked up. I think she seems genuine that she thinks the dude took her phone just based on how insistent she was.. and they started filming to garner attention online to shame her because they felt it was racial which is unfortunate. But maybe it was i wasn't there so i don't know but she seems believable to me. I know because i've been there. When they don't act guilty because they didn't take it she realizes that they could be telling the truth and then she starts to doubt and go into a social shock and then the embarrassment and guilt comes because it was in her bag the whole time. Pretty sure most people experience something similar to that before. It happens.. 🤷♂
@@Pebbles803 what the hell are you talking about? She clearly was not searching deeply in her bag , she did not want to give her number and made excuses that they could have muted it and that’s because she had realized she was wrong and the phone was in her bag. She had all the time in the world to accept she was wrong before they brought out the phone to start recording. She could have turned her bag inside out but she didn’t, also they started recording not to shame her you idiot but to protect the person she was accusing. If they were not recording the security at the place would have come to start harassing the guy already. Have you ever walked down a mall with black skin before? When you do, come back and defend her, ya prick. I don’t normally insult people online but you are just being silly here.
@@roc97 Yeah, vicious isn't the right word here. Strong-willed, confident, righteous - any of these are better than vicious which implies that she had evil intent.
I work in IT, and in my last job, I worked at a college doing support etc. Our man office was on the 1st floor of the main building, but I also had a satellite desk on the 2nd floor where the staff worked (so they could come to me with issues). I would often go between that desk and the main office throughout the day. We had a dress code of sorts (a branded polo shirt), but it was fairly relaxed, especially out of term time, as it was at the time, and as such, I was wearing a hoodie that day. This is an important detail. Anyway, on this particular day, I was on my way to the main office from upstairs and needed to pass through one of the many secure doors in the building. Typically you’d swipe your card to get through, something I had to do many times every single day, even just to get in the building. I approached the security door next to my main office and noticed another staff member who is never seen before going through. As he did so, he let some students through and was about to let me pass until he realised he was looking at a black guy wearing a hoodie, at which point he got confrontational and asked to see my ID. I told him I was also a member of staff but he insisted. I then told him that as his equal, I didn’t have to prove myself to him. I’d also been working at this place about 8yrs at this point and had never seen this guy before which meant he was a new member of staff. I pointed that out but he wouldn’t drop it so I just walked past him, only for him to literally follow me into my office demanding I show him ID at the top of his voice. It’s only when my boss approached, wondering what the commotion was and said “This is a joke, right?” did this guy realise his error and, in turn how stupid he looked. Now if this was his perception of a fellow staff member, imagine how he views his black students.
Most common traits of a karen Middle aged Mostly white Recently divorced Ræcist Bad haircut Has a kid who’s a delinquent Prone to an explosive tantrum Drives a European vehicle “Live laugh love” Wants to talk to a manager Racial profiling Hates skateboarding Smells like 3 dollar Walmart perfume Frequents Starbucks like it’s church Likes contemporary pop Has a clear phone cover with some fruity ays floral patterns Wears gym clothing even though they don’t work out Wears sunglasses that take about 75% of their face Owns a small dog Finally… is a genuine horrible person.
I respect the guy for staying calm. He'd have had every right to get cross but he stayed chill in the knowledge that he wasn't in the wrong. Good bloke
Woman ganging up on Karen’s is the only way to handle this. A guy can’t do it, come off as “misogynist,” but women can. Also they should do the same with radical feminist.
Bruv u stretching, like yea ppl have a propensity to use “misogynist” in every context now but cmon, someone telling a Karen off isn’t gonna be seen as misogynistic 😭u stretching now b
Nahnahnah Would got all up in her face The best way to deal with a dumb cunt Is to ruthlessly deliver unto her the wrong of the closest thing you can be to god
DOnt give A Fduck how it looks. These are strangers. Don't let them bully you. You friends and family know who you are. Give a women your mind and don't hold back. Make them eat their words, and fear ever doing shxt like that again. Men need to stop being so "understanding" of toxic AF women. No special treatments.
I remember being in college and my roommate and I went to a dollar store to get some supplies. As soon as we stepped in, I was told to take my bag off and leave it with the clerk, before I protested - my roommate (he's a few years older than me) - told me to just give them the bag. So I did. As they were pressed about us, out the corner of my eye I saw a white couple stuffing their bags with things, obviously stealing in plain sight, and then walking out - setting off the alarms. Guess who they decided to accuse of stealing despite JUST walking in the store?
Imagine walking past someone and getting accused of stealing something when you were just walking. I feel bad for that man and hope the lady that accused him gets fùcked by karma.
He needs his white, female friend/girlfriend to stand up for him because if he stands up for himself he could be seen as dangerous. That's the problem with our society today.
What exactly is there to "stand up" to? A woman panicked that misplaced her phone? He handled it it correctly by remaining calm and rational. He could have calmed down his girlfriend who is obviously brainwashed into believing everyone is a racist, but that's besides the point.
@@johnwayne4911 uhm a lot if whites are. Most of them are in closet racists. Ever since Trump, a lot of them show their true colors. I mean history explains that.
I think the only reason she didn’t pat him down was because she already found her phone in her purse like Aba said. She probably didn’t want to make it worse
@@crayothewarrior7713 NO!! She just wanted more people to believe her so she could pat him down or call the cops. She knew where the phone was the whole time. It's the entitlement to his space for me "apologizing" tf???
We’ve seen this situation too many times to not understand that racism is still alive and well. Karen trying to apologize makes it worse she knows how she looks she covering her back. 😂
IT is weird indeed. Everywhere I comment, people tell me how much they love me and my content. Sometimes IT is annoying. But right now, IT would be okay. So say something nice about my content, dear ima
@@Rieky22 you mean like the founders of black lives matter? 60 million in missing funds and three Mansions purchased in predominantly white neighborhoods. Sounds like a scam to me.
I relate to what abba said towards the end. I’m a big black dude and have to always make sure if I’m wearing a hoodie, my hood is down, my hands are out of my pockets, etc.
A few years ago, I was volunteering on LA skid row handing out water bottles to the local homeless. As I was grabbing more bottles from our team's cart, a security guard ran up, slapped my hand, and accused me (a black dude) of stealing water from a vendor.... I had never felt so violated. I'm not a really a blm supporter, I think the people running it are shady af.. but I can definitley understand how it came to be.
Thats so sad. Even if YOU think the people running blm are "shady" the movement itself is not. It's to bring light to situations like what happened to you. If we don't stick together, as you can see noone will speak up for us.
Because to delay the soon to come. They should have scared the hell of her to teach her a lesson. But now she is canceled and could lose her job. What an idiot.
After rummaging through her 👜, she realized the phone was in there way before it rang so she began stalling for time by pretending to claim that the ringer may have been turned off seeing that she was about to embarrass herself. What's worse was that she still continued with the false accusation knowing fully well they didn't do it!
@Russian Waifu then prepare to look stupid. If you’re gonna go ahead and accuse every black person of stealing from you, your IQ level has to be in the dumpster.
I’m surprised that woman didn’t say something like “I don’t know my phone number” when he directed her to entering her number. That humiliated apology would’ve had me telling her to go sit down somewhere.
We’ve avoided helping people get their stuff because we are worried they will think we stole if. So far 50/50. My girlfriend gave a purse back to someone and they looked at her like she stole it. Took it and didn’t even say thank you.
yeah! You won't believe what ahppened to me last sunday when I left my newborn and wife at home alone to save a lost dog I saw trought he window :(. But I did it for the dog obviously... sad tough
@FBI only certain groups can do that, as a black person stay away unless your in a safe area around your kin, its not worth the possible stigma because the story they fabricate about you will be a lingering fact
She absolutely realized it was in her purse prior to the phone ringing and after accusing the guy, and she kept on with the accusations instead of admiting she was wrong.......man....seriously.... Low life waste of air of a human being...
After rummaging through her 👜, she realized the phone was in there way before it rang so she began stalling for time by pretending to claim that the ringer may have been turned off seeing that she was about to embarrass herself. What's worse was that she still continued with the false accusation knowing fully well they didn't do it!
After rummaging through her 👜, she realized the phone was in there way before it rang so she began stalling for time by pretending to claim that the ringer may have been turned off seeing that she was about to embarrass herself. What's worse was that she still continued with the false accusation knowing fully well they didn't do it!
Situations like this give me intense social anxiety. I go out of my way to make it clear and obvious that I haven't taken anything from anyone. I guess a part of me fears how badly I would snap if I found myself in this situation.
and its sad because myself i don't feel like doing it. I went to a sleepover. Got accused of stealing. Now it didn't take long to figure out i only had my pajamas , my inhaler and my bottoms.
This is a common thing with younger ppl as well. I'm mexican and when I was in highschool, I would have ppl from stores check isles every couple minutes to make sure i wasn't stealing, or making me pay before eating at a buffet when everyone else would pay after.
I got pulled over driving with my black friend, we had his kids in the back seat. The cop didn't even ask me question about my driving or why he pulled me over. His questions were: how do you know him? Did you stop anywhere before leaving your house? Can you spell his name? I was fuming but didn't want to escalate anything, I just wanted him to let us go. Racial profiling is still the same to what it used to be, now people are little subtle about it. As an immigrant that survived ethnic cleansing, I understand what it means to be labeled as less than. And to see it in America bothers me. This lady in the video bothers me. Its not fair.
@@tiktokexposed898 he let us go after checking our IDs. He mentioned he stopped me because of minor damage on the driver side door. Which is not even a moving violation or reason to stop someone. This happened on 95 exiting Boston going south. State trooper.
@@AlenAbdula a staty huh? That shit happens state wide homie. Even here on the western side of the state. In my city it don't happen regularly but it does happen. But when it comes to staty's shits gonna happen.
You assume it was racial profiling, but for all you know that cop could have just dealt with a carjacking/kidnap case the other day, or a domestic case where one spouse decided to grab the kids and take off. Or maybe there was a suspect for something in the area that looked like the dude in the car. These guys deal with the craziest stuff, life and death stuff, the kind of nasty things we don’t even like to think about, so they look at things differently and don’t always prioritize feelings. Consider that before immediately assuming the worst kind of character in the officer. I’m not saying there aren’t bad cops, or stupid cops, but sometimes they have their reasons for being suspicious or aloof.
I can't wait for the news interview where she says " I've gotten bullied and harassed over this and those who know me know I'm not that kind of person" They all use the same apology template so often I'm surprised a paperclip don't pop up each time
What's crazy is my mother did the same thing one time she accused me of losing her car keys and we spent 30 minutes looking while she's yelling at me and trying to find her car keys. she then dug in her coat pocket and there they were. Mind you, she was wearing this coat
We drive parents to insanity. I remember my dad yelling at all of us for moving his glasses and he can’t see… all the time he’s wearing them on his forehead. WOW
I can't even imagine what it feels like to be in that man's position, not going to pretend I can. I can say that I've witnessed a similar situation, and thankfully the man accused was quickly proven innocent when the missing item - think it was her car keys - was found in her own pocket. As a bystander it is disgusting and embarrassing to witness, I can't imagine being the target of that.
I remember back in high school, I was heading home with my then white girlfriend. A cop pulled her over and said they were looking for someone. He then says to me, “I guess you just have that face, huh?” and my girlfriend was like: “what that BLACK face!?” In my head, I was like noooo, do not piss this man off; I just want to get home safely. I never go out in a hoodie and slides, because I don’t want to be profiled, and it was literally the one time I did for a quick trip to pick up food, and boom, I “match the description.” Smh🤦🏾♂️
Yeah, sometimes black is part of a description.. male also.. sometimes it's white and male.. or woman. A buddy of mind was felony stopped because he was a white male coming from the area of a bank robbery. The idea that using a description and checking is profiling as racism is insanity.
@@cocolokoflacco Why isn't the problem that so many people that may look like you are robbing? Be mad at them.. why not them? They are giving you the bad name more than anyone else.. I think it's stupid that we have races, but if your identity is your skin color then I'd say, be mad at them. I'm not mad at people who don't trust white folks to not be racist.. I'm mad at the racists. That doesn't mean I won't correct someone on the assumption based on group dynamics.. but I understand a cop has to look for someone and it's usually on very limited information. Usually, skin color, height and maybe some clothes, MAYBE. And let's be honest, there are many men who have even my skin tone and my height and my clothes.. so I can see how I could match a description.
If I was to play devils advocate, I would give Karen a pass for asking, but she was SO confident that her phone was stolen and not lost. It's remarkable. She's a demon.
Nah there is no devils advocate, you don’t accuse someone of stealing something without knowing with absolute certainty is something you don’t do. She legit wouldn’t give the number because she knew she was wrong, the dude completely emptied his pockets and offered for her to even pat him down, and she knew she messed up, so she tried to come up with any kind of excuse as to why it wouldn’t ring. She’s simply a horrible person, and she definitely just thought her phone wasn’t in her purse and instead of just double checking she instantly said that oh black person, must have stolen it. She is the kind of women that would falsely accuse someone of rape just so her daddy wouldn’t be mad at her for sleeping with a minority.
she 100% found it after she accused him and before she brought up the ringer not going off and didnt wanna back down, thats why she was refusing to give the number
I was in a similar situation as the lady. At the TSA the guy that got checked before me hurried and he packed my phone that was in one of the box alongside with my tablet. I panicked and asked him "excuse me me Sir I think you accidently packed my phone, can you check please". He went off on me calling me racist and that he doesnt steal...but I told him to calm down and please just check and I'll look in my bag too. And when he found my phone in his bag, he panicked even more saying "I swear I didn't mean to do this I don't steal"...he was really scared but I told him it's ok it happens, I don't accuse him of stealing. So actually I just thank him and walk away cause I was in a hurry to catch a plane too and I'm just happy I had my phone...cause my vaccination certificates and all the dokuments like online tickets are on there.
She knew she had it, she knew it was in her purse. She wanted drama and to cause problems. Soho Karen 2.0. Exactly why she was so hesitant. I definitely agree with both Aba and Preach. I will go even as far as saying she wanted to steal his phone. Soho KAREN 2.0: "My phones missing and it looks exactly like your phone, give me that phone or we'll involve the authorities" She was stalling cause she was busted. Everything she could do to not get caught. So glad she was dumb enough to get herself busted.
@@esmeabela9866 yup. But she's so stupid she couldn't think of a way to get out of the situation and didn't have the guts to own up to the mistake ASAP. Instead she doubled down.
@@Yvp13 some people double down to not get embarrassed from what I see tbh, either way if she did indeed notice it was there, it's an absolutely shitty thing for her to not say anything about realising it's in her bag and apologise straight away about the trouble she caused
I've had this happen to me at Gold's Gym when I was like 13 except it was an IPOD instead of a phone. Probably one of the weirdest NPC encounters I've had.
@James Lee 😂 I can't remember everything she said but she did say " Stop running away from me and give me my IPOD you little rat bastard" and I remember thinking I wasn't running away from her either I was just on a treadmill.
Racist people tend to be very stupid. I'm glad I never went through certain things as a black man, but having people ask me things and then asking them things was so funny. The way they got defensive off of me asking an ignorant question after saying something about black people and asking me something was funny.
Same thing happened to my brother when he was about 16 at a gym. The staff got involved as she was so loud & causing a scene, he was just wearing thin shorts & a t-shirt too, not like he had many hiding places. He was embarassed & cut his session short as everyone was staring at him after, as if she wasn't the one acting crazy! Thankfully my brother stood his ground & after talking to the manager (they went in thinking they'd tell him off but he was like I want to put in a complaint lol) they offered a free snack as an apology, which he accepted, but he said to change their policy about theft accusations would be the best result.
@@NotAnotherKuromi Yeah I definitely understand luckily I had my older brother with me because I definitely didn't have the communication skills as a child to really deal with that situation properly lol.
I worked 2 jobs and was going to school, I picked up my friend's grandmother afterwards to take her home. On the way back to my house I got pulled over in my purple PT cruiser and they said i matched the description of someone that just robbed a bank. Now officer, it 11pm and Im in a purple car wearing a Walmart smock. The harassment will never stop, and neither will the Karens
People do steal stuff from others, and it REALLY sucks being on the receiving end of theft, but you gotta be 100% about it before you point fingers at anyone. Getting accused of anything that you haven’t done feels extra crummy.
I’m so glad you brought up “perception is reality” bit because people don’t like to acknowledge reality. There’s how things “should” be versus what things are. We can help to make changes but it’s still a process. That woman though? She needs to keep moving and don’t acknowledge my existence. Surprised she didn’t call the wrong number just to make sure it didn’t ring.
Same, also imo we need to focus on realistic examples to be able to make positive changes. When people focus on unrealistic utopias it's just not helpful in any way. I've also found people like that usually are ignorant about how those issues actually affect people on the ground.
…wait wouldn’t calling the wrong number work against her since she needs to call her number to make the phone he has ring to prove it was actually her phone? Calling a different number would just help prove it is the man’s phone since it didn’t ring when calling her phone number. Besides that I agree with you on the other parts.
its literally called "hell is other people", no matter what you do or how you view yourself, you are forever a prisoner to how other people perceive you to be
The phone was right there she didn’t dig deep either she just dug on the sides, & those purses have 3 sections to them , she just wanted to make him look like a thief, and my thing about it is she targeted him if he walked behind her I’m 1,000 percent sure the ◻️👧 was right behind her friend/bf so why didn’t YOU question her AT ALLL SMH 🤢Its just disgusting that she think a apology justify her actions and it’s not okay and the fact it was right on top of the purse but before they called her phone and she said he only had the vape her whole facial expression changed
Didn't she accuse him because he had been standing behind her, and she thought she had left her phone on the counter? Not because he was black. Just didn't hear her mention anything about race, so makes me think she would've accused anyone of any race had they been standing behind her.
Used to work at a Home Depot. Saw a white dude roll up on my conversation with a black coworker and start accusing him of bossing people around (that wasn’t any part of the conversation) and I was baffled. I didn’t understand what was happening. It was like the white dude was delusional. People are nuts. On the flip side, I was accused of being racist when I couldn’t find a transaction on a customer’s card for a return. He was black and thought I was just giving him a hard time because I had some sort of problem with him. Turned out he paid cash for the merchandise and didn’t have the receipt. We still got him taken care of and I was professional the whole time, but again, I was just like what is going right now? Happens on both sides and it’s really unfortunate that there’s still so much tension and mistrust between folks.
I saw a guy in B&Q who accused the black member of staff being bossy too! He was literally the manager who was handling the return & he asked the white lower level of staff to go get the item off the shelf so he could scan the code. It took me ages to realize what was going on, as his responses were so ludicrous. I think A- the tosser customer assumed the white guy would be the manager not the black guy, then had a problem adjusting to reality. B- as you say all logic went out the window & he wanted to be able to make the black staff member the bad guy somehow, even if he was doing his job perfectly normally. My friend said the customer was probably embarassed but that doesn't give him an excuse to embarrass other people, make accusations or generally act like an entitled, bully.
I've been in a similar situation but with a native person when I was working at Blockbuster back in the day. Dude came in, wanted to pay for a bunch of stuff and handed me a tax card which we input the number in and set to no tax but it specifically just takes off one tax (as per laws) but he insisted he had a special card that took off ALL tax. I had no way to remove the other tax without a manager's credentials. The second I started to say "Ok I can't take off the whole tax myself, I just need a manager to do the rest" he absolutely exploded and called me a racist. I was like "nope, I just have no way to do that for you myself but my manager can". But he just kept going off. People are weird.
You can tell when she's sorting through the purse when she realized that the phone was actually there. Her eyes widen while she keep the lie going, until she is eventually exposed.
I’m in Sydney, OZ and I’m a woman. I’ve had a couple incidents, mostly from male security officers. I was leaving a Chemist Warehouse, the security was flirting with a woman at the door and I walked out past him. I must’ve taken 20 steps or so when he started yelling “HEY HEY HEY!! LET ME SEE INSIDE YOUR BAG- HEY YOU! WOMAN!!” I literally had to walk all the way back, with a group of people watching in anticipation. He looked inside, then walked away, no apology. These are ethnic men in security, usually Indian or Lebanese men acting as security. Many adopt stereotypes and prejudices about black ppl… not sure if it’s in their training to be extra alert, or they’re too influenced by tv & the media.
She didn't want them to call the phone because she had already found it by that point. But she also had already accused the guy, so instead of just looking a little foolish and saying, “My bad I found it,” she decided to look ALOTTA foolish. Sad just how common this actually is.
@Russian Waifu so lemme guess your a "supposedly Russian troll" here to stir racial division in America? I think you're just the typical racist Republican in sum poor red state lol
This ain't even a stealing situation I had almost 2 months ago, but my last boss after firing me through a text message at 9 something in the morning, she accused me of giving clients food poisoning and then said she knows "everything I did and was still trying to do" and to cease and desist contacting her. Bruh I knew this lady for 5 years and she was like another mother before I went to work for her. I legit was alright being fired, cuz I wanted to quit anyway from the environment at work, but when she accused me of shit, that was the thing that pissed me all the way tf off. She hit me up a couple of weeks ago saying she regrets ruining our relationship through business and she missed knowing how me and my kids were doing. I had nothing to say. There was this satisfactory feeling I got though cuz I knew the whole time I didn't do shit, and for her to have to admit that she fucked our relationship up, made me feel damn good. But there is no coming back from that.
When ppl say racism is still alive and well I know they must been under a rock or something. Racism from ppl will never leave it will always be racist things and people and any race can be this way
No racism isn't real that's just a label to put you in a box to divide and conquer...this is a battle between good and evil people, racism is just an illusion
Somethings tells me there is also something mentally deficient with this Karen. She doesn't appear to have all brain cells firing. Don't most studies show a strong correlation between racism and low intelligence?
Shout out to that clerk for mediating the situation without calling the police for no reason and the black guy had a much better attitude about it than I would have had. I glad the caught this whole exchange on camera to put this woman on blast
Ah yes another episode of “Karen’s in the Wild” In this episode we see the aggressive behavior of a solitary Karen at Spencers, as it searches for its next kill. An unfortunate couple happen to be on the menu today as Karen has an appetite for Black Male. The Karen leads with Acquisitions of theft, a classic hunting strategy, putting the couple in a tenuous situation, Will they be able to escape? Tune in for the thrilling conclusion. They escaped
I got accused of not paying for my McDonald's drive through order because I smiled at the second window. How would I have stolen anything? These drive throughs are set to trap you whether or not you order.
I was pissed when my old primary friend pulled the same shit. Got the entire class trapped during lunch break because someone stole his watch. Turned out the damn thing was in his lunchbox.
Disgusting. She absolutely either saw it after the accusation or remembered she dropped it in. That’s why she didn’t want to share her phone number. “He could have turned off my ringer when he put it in his pocket”. Huh 🤔. GTFoH.
My brother (64) looks like a homeless man with raggedy beard, work clothes, skinny and no care for what he looks like. He makes a lot of money and has nice things at home. He was in an accident and ended up in the hospital. The nurses treated him so shabbily, thinking he was a homeless man with nothing. We were able to go see him the next day to discover he was not given a room but tucked in a corner in emerg. Given food he could not eat as he was paralyzed and would not help him eat either. My sisters and I raised hell !!! When they discovered who he was they changed their ways to help him. This has been a narrative since I was a young girl. If you don’t look a certain way, your garbage. Plain and simple.
I don't trust hospitals, my mom and I had Covid, she couldn't keep anything down and became dehydrated, so my dad took her to the hospital to put her on some IV fluids, so she could actually eat something. Her symptoms were not severe, she just needed some fluids in her system. They ended up keeping her for a few days, leaving her alone without the IV fluids she needed. She essentially waited days in a freezing cold hospital and being given cold food just to be told she needed to go home and drink Gatorade. They hardly gave her any IV fluids, they just put her in a room and left, but they wouldn't let her leave. My dad was pissed. All of that b.s. for $10,000. Good thing they have good insurance. I believe most nurses are witches, very few actually care for their patients.
Some things never change in life, working at gas stations before I've had women like this pull the same thing on both customers and even me. Yes of course they found their damn phone in the purse. Never change.
@Russian Waifu funny how the crime rate stat stays the same yet arrests went down by 30% (when police started getting recorded) and most black people are never convicted of a crime. I wonder where this statistic comes from. Hm.
She was “looking” through her bag for her phone like how I used to “look” through my book bag for my report card for my mom knowing damn well its in there💀
Yea, she knew. She didn’t want to admit it.
☠️⚰️😂😭⚰️ hahahaha Fu*k*n Facts bruh Lmao ‼️
😂😂😂I know that feelin. You be Stalling like a Muthafcka
LMFAOAOAOAOAO NAH FR
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There could’ve been a number of ways she could’ve approached this and picked the worst possible way - the lack of self awareness displayed is astounding
"Hey I lost my phone, can you help me find it?"
Would've saved her so much face.
Honestly should’ve mugged her at the end
@@ernimuja6991 Yes. Right.
Smdh… 🤦🏽♀️ This is really sad fr.
@@ernimuja6991 I agree plus assuming this lady didn’t come straight from the 18th century, she should easily known how she would’ve come across by throwing wild accusation like that
This almost happened to me while I was working at a grocery store checking. A girl in her mid 20s approached my checkout line as I was finishing up the customer in front of her. She left the line to grab an item that she forgot, while leaving her her purse in the cart unattended. She came back a minute later and immediately checks her purse and looks at me hesitantly and asked me “where’s my phone?” I responded with a “like really stare,” shrugging my shoulders, idk. She began to get flustered asking me a again a few more times while looking around. She either believed that I took it, or felt that I was responsible to keep watch on her property. “I told her I don’t know, but if you aren’t ready to check out I need you to step aside so I can keep my line moving.” She left the store to her car and came back 5 minutes later, and tried apologizing. The only other words I spoke to her after that was “your total is $187.35” after ringing up her items.
It’s sad, but when ever these situations occur I don’t even flair up and get defensive, I just nonchalantly state the facts and let shit play out. Although it is frustrating when you’ll always be looked at a certain way because your skin color.
The sad part is some black people would jump in on the bias (im really mean racist) person side for browny points, I was in a situation similar to this last week
Not reacting to them is the best response. Because they know they messed up bad and their prejudice was put on display for all to see, and even better: They know that you know it too.
That sounds more like a entitled moron then a racist moron to me.
Not reacting is those peoples kryptonite bro, because you not only didnt feed into it....but you stood your ground in doing so while helping another person before assisting them again.
I've also had to do this as a cashier at a kroger affiliate. She was screaming at me for probably a solid five minutes, only to be gone for less than 3 before getting back in my line. I was helping the same person when she came back in and HE asked if she found her phone yet, she was eyeing the great buff job on the floors after that 😂I didnt get an apology, but that interaction had me busting up laughing when my line was gone lol
The amount of times this happened to me at a party is astounding. A phone/shoes goes missing everyone stops the party an blames us black kids.
On the other hand most of the black people that steal from retail pull the race card to try to get out of getting caught. It sucks but it is what it is
Then after they find out their other friend took it or they found it they wanna be cool with you like they didn't just show you, they don't trust you.
You need to spend less time around white people
Sounds fucked up
I wouldn't go to parties with those people. It's dangerous
“I pulled out my phone cause I knew this was gonna get stupid , really fast” 😂😂😂 great line
*Welllllllllllllll she's well aware of HER race of people*
She gave me hope that our world will eventually get better
Imma take it a step further. She targeted him from the beginning. She said he stole her phone and hoped the clerk would call the cops instead of handling the situation himself and when the clerk didn’t call the cops she started to panic and make excuses to justify her actions. The old white woman in distress technique backfired this time.
I looks like because the phone wasn't even hidden on her purse there was no way she missed that phone while looking for it.
You know what? I think you’re probably right.
That sounds like attempted murder. Lock her up!
The clerk should have called the cops so the lady would have looked more stupid.
@@radbunnie2297 nah the cops definitely would have attacked 1st ask questions later.
What people need to understand is that sometimes when a man is laughing, especially in a situation, he is laughing to keep from going straight the f off. Youve been warned.
Preach!! That is the straight truth.
Very very true.
I’m a calm person and will laugh off most absurd things.
But when the absurd things persist and my laughing no longer works (to cope) I get a little unhinged.
Facts
💯💯💯Not just men. People who know how they get when they pop off, do this.
So edgy
The number of times I've "lost" my phone while out in public and I've never thought anyone took it is too high to remember... my first thought is where in my bag did that phone go.... everyone knows handbags have black holes that hide everything and anything at any moment.
I've searched my bag for things and not found them until I've emptied everything!
And it is racism as she accused the man and not the woman.... I use to think racism didn't exist as much as it does until I hired a Filipino support worker and I've seen it happen to her before my own eyes.... when you are genuinely not racist you can't imagine other people being racist but once you see it you can't un-see it.
So you don't think it's possible she did look and overlooked it.. I know most people have done that before as well.
She thinks her phone is gone. She thinks maybe that the guy was standing close enough that he could of taken it, she gets embarrassed when she finds it and doesn't know what to do.. the brain makes people do weird things in stressful situations that aren't always rational so she probably did stall after realizing her mistake to prepare herself for the humiliation/guilt of it especially if she know's she's being recorded. I know this because it's happened to me before.
and your last statement works in the same way as a double ended sword.. once you have seen real racism you see it everywhere even when it's not there.
@@Pebbles803 There is a moment that she sees the phone in her bag... you can see it on her face. I'll check later and give you the time stamp.
@@Pebbles803 and really it is just a lesson to all of us to stop and take a breath before we accuse anyone of anything on a hunch... most gut feelings are right but we do need to be careful...
I've been where this man has been. As embarrassing as it is to be in this position, there is a small satisfaction when you know you did nothing wrong, and that the person is about to look stupid.
Unfortunately, they don't always look stupid and people often believe their lies. Then you have to face the consequences of the lies. At least this man has proof on video and the clerk handled the situation well.
@@MorenaRose86 I was just gonna say, in this situation you are about to get proven innocent. But that won't always be the case where you can proven it so easily, and that's when it becomes a real problem.
@@MorenaRose86 I remember when me and my brother went into footlocker in the early 90s , my mom came and told us to leave , I didn't get it until my mom told the blonde cashier "I heard what you said about my sons!!" You told your coworker to 'watch them' you think you're slick "
The guy who was also white said "I'm really sorry ma'am " he took the blame she just had the same look that Karen had when she was exposed
My mom said later she heard him say "That's not right, come on"
You a damn fool. 'Satisfaction' means nothing when your pocket is empty. You shoulda taken their "mistake" all the way to the bank, but you'd rather have the SATISFACTION of having taken the 'high road', right?! Why do you need THEM to believe that you are a moral and upright man??? Aren't THEY the same people who falsely accused you??? Something is wrong you, brother. Don't you see that they NEVER EVER learn from these things??? The behavior continues on with some other brother who they happen across. Haven't you realized yet that all that 'take the high road' bullshit is a damn con?! They don't actually believe that themselves. They invented that for US! So we'd learn to take the shit they dish out and not make trouble.
The only way they learn is when you hit them where it hurts....THAT POCKETBOOK. And seeing as how the wealth gap has increased drastically during the pandemic, our community should be considering all methods of closing that gap. You allowed their accolades and praises to cause you to miss out on a money-making opportunity, which could have changed your life and your family tree. Don't let it happen again!
small?
She wasn't searching her purse properly...you could see the moment when she actually saw that it was in her purse.
Approximately 0:08
🧢🧢🧢🧢 you can see the phone thru the bag. She was lying she knew it was in there
@@stbcurt4250 through the bag is OD 😂
Yup
I remember walking out of an electronic store when I was 17 (which had sensors at the front). I walked through with no issue and the security INSISTED I came back. I was confused because the sensor didn’t go off. I walked back and handed him the receipt of what I just bought. He was looking at it while checking EVERY single item I had just purchased. After he saw that everything was in order he actually seemed frustrated that I didn’t do anything wrong. He proceeded to ask me to empty my pockets! I went from calm to FURIOUS! I start going off at the guy and my parents came out of nowhere because they were waiting for me and were wondering why I was taking so long. As soon as my white Step Dad started going off at this guy, the security panicked and started apologising desperately and making the excuse they had a lot of theft recently. My Step Father called him a racist and some other bad words and we never went to that store again.
I got accused of doing something I didn't do in school all the time. I literally went to war with this teacher nearly getting me suspended. Even when the actual culprit came out and admitted he was the one doing it my teacher still wanted to suspend me because of how I behaved after getting falsly accused...
So I can somewhat imagine how those situations feel like and I can fully understand when someone loses his mind over it.
I want accused on racial shit but I had the same thing happen to me. Such a shit feeling all you can do is hope the truth comes out. Unfortunately I did get suspended despite the teachers lying about checking the cameras fuck school mayne ofuh real
There was another lady who actually tackled a KID after accusing him of stealing her phone only to find out that she left it in an Uber. She was recently charged with a hate crime behind it. She blamed the kid because he was black. It was the only thing she had to go on. This stuff is crazy.
Oh, we call her SoHo Karen. A&P have a video on her
@@Gchildwarrior isn't her and her mum also being in trouble with the law over other incidents?
@@MusMasi yep! DUI
It's been happening for centuries.
Thank the God's for smart phones.
@@EightFrancs Karens have gotten away with false allegations they make up on black people to ruin our day.
Her reluctance to give her number is all you need to know that either she knows what she's doing or being aware of the camera, she was afraid of the exact scenario that played out.
She wanted to delay enough to allow the guy get angry. If he did get angry then he is perceived as guilty and hiding something then the police would get called in.
Shame she didn’t retract as soon as the camera came out, could have saved herself a lot of embarrassment
@@georgeprecious1036 this is true, and I think it is ridiculous that just because you get defensive it means automatic guilt, if I am accused of something I didn’t do I get defensive to. Why does defending yourself from something you didn’t do get seen as guilt, people tell you to stand up for yourself then when you do you are instantly guilty and have to be hiding something or trying to deceive, it is a lose lose situation, I have been in this situation a multiple amount of times and it sucks.
I was the Karen in this video one time..
I accused someone of stealing my shit and i was wrong and i felt like an idiot.. It happens. Her body language and how she was speaking reminded me of that.. I don't think she a racist, she just fucked up. I think she seems genuine that she thinks the dude took her phone just based on how insistent she was.. and they started filming to garner attention online to shame her because they felt it was racial which is unfortunate. But maybe it was i wasn't there so i don't know but she seems believable to me. I know because i've been there. When they don't act guilty because they didn't take it she realizes that they could be telling the truth and then she starts to doubt and go into a social shock and then the embarrassment and guilt comes because it was in her bag the whole time. Pretty sure most people experience something similar to that before. It happens.. 🤷♂
@@Pebbles803 what the hell are you talking about? She clearly was not searching deeply in her bag , she did not want to give her number and made excuses that they could have muted it and that’s because she had realized she was wrong and the phone was in her bag. She had all the time in the world to accept she was wrong before they brought out the phone to start recording. She could have turned her bag inside out but she didn’t, also they started recording not to shame her you idiot but to protect the person she was accusing. If they were not recording the security at the place would have come to start harassing the guy already. Have you ever walked down a mall with black skin before? When you do, come back and defend her, ya prick. I don’t normally insult people online but you are just being silly here.
I’m glad that he had a equally vicious white woman with him. This could’ve turned deadly if the cops were called on him.
The white woman with him wasn’t vicious at all.
@@roc97 Yeah, vicious isn't the right word here. Strong-willed, confident, righteous - any of these are better than vicious which implies that she had evil intent.
@@BriseisMusic correct! Any of those adjectives that you used are correct but vicious is not one of them
No, vicious is the right word. Because if she was black most people would agree with you.
@@venuslove-i1v nah
I work in IT, and in my last job, I worked at a college doing support etc. Our man office was on the 1st floor of the main building, but I also had a satellite desk on the 2nd floor where the staff worked (so they could come to me with issues). I would often go between that desk and the main office throughout the day. We had a dress code of sorts (a branded polo shirt), but it was fairly relaxed, especially out of term time, as it was at the time, and as such, I was wearing a hoodie that day. This is an important detail.
Anyway, on this particular day, I was on my way to the main office from upstairs and needed to pass through one of the many secure doors in the building. Typically you’d swipe your card to get through, something I had to do many times every single day, even just to get in the building.
I approached the security door next to my main office and noticed another staff member who is never seen before going through. As he did so, he let some students through and was about to let me pass until he realised he was looking at a black guy wearing a hoodie, at which point he got confrontational and asked to see my ID. I told him I was also a member of staff but he insisted. I then told him that as his equal, I didn’t have to prove myself to him. I’d also been working at this place about 8yrs at this point and had never seen this guy before which meant he was a new member of staff. I pointed that out but he wouldn’t drop it so I just walked past him, only for him to literally follow me into my office demanding I show him ID at the top of his voice. It’s only when my boss approached, wondering what the commotion was and said “This is a joke, right?” did this guy realise his error and, in turn how stupid he looked.
Now if this was his perception of a fellow staff member, imagine how he views his black students.
Most common traits of a karen
Middle aged
Mostly white
Recently divorced
Ræcist
Bad haircut
Has a kid who’s a delinquent
Prone to an explosive tantrum
Drives a European vehicle
“Live laugh love”
Wants to talk to a manager
Racial profiling
Hates skateboarding
Smells like 3 dollar Walmart perfume
Frequents Starbucks like it’s church
Likes contemporary pop
Has a clear phone cover with some fruity ays floral patterns
Wears gym clothing even though they don’t work out
Wears sunglasses that take about 75% of their face
Owns a small dog
Finally… is a genuine horrible person.
Yo 💀💀"Wears gym clothes even though she doesn't work out"
Hey I wear sunglasses cover 75% of my face
They go to Starbucks WAY more than they go to church.
TO BE HONEST THO..... I'D STILL TAP THAT
if you're four of these things
You're a true form Karen✔💯
I respect the guy for staying calm. He'd have had every right to get cross but he stayed chill in the knowledge that he wasn't in the wrong. Good bloke
Can't match their energy or people might think you're coming off aggressive. Best to just laugh & be chill when you know you're in the right
It also makes him look like the better person, as a result.
If he didn’t he’d be on his way to jail no questions asked
@@bbbbbbb51 exactly as a black man you get aggressive it may cost your life
Only a petulant child would "get cross"
😂😂😂 she knew she done f*cked up when she hesitated to give the number.
If she walked back to apologize, she should have offered to pay for their goods 💵🧐
Don't want her money.
I remember when this woman accused me of stealing her wallet and said I had it in my pockets but I didn’t. I really had it in my jacket
You had me in the first half, lol 😂
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Woman ganging up on Karen’s is the only way to handle this. A guy can’t do it, come off as “misogynist,” but women can. Also they should do the same with radical feminist.
Bruv u stretching, like yea ppl have a propensity to use “misogynist” in every context now but cmon, someone telling a Karen off isn’t gonna be seen as misogynistic 😭u stretching now b
Nahnahnah
Would got all up in her face
The best way to deal with a dumb cunt
Is to ruthlessly deliver unto her the wrong of the closest thing you can be to god
@@tonybablony2041 In todays world it is🤣
A guy can’t? Says who?
DOnt give A Fduck how it looks. These are strangers. Don't let them bully you. You friends and family know who you are. Give a women your mind and don't hold back. Make them eat their words, and fear ever doing shxt like that again. Men need to stop being so "understanding" of toxic AF women. No special treatments.
I remember being in college and my roommate and I went to a dollar store to get some supplies. As soon as we stepped in, I was told to take my bag off and leave it with the clerk, before I protested - my roommate (he's a few years older than me) - told me to just give them the bag. So I did. As they were pressed about us, out the corner of my eye I saw a white couple stuffing their bags with things, obviously stealing in plain sight, and then walking out - setting off the alarms. Guess who they decided to accuse of stealing despite JUST walking in the store?
Imagine walking past someone and getting accused of stealing something when you were just walking. I feel bad for that man and hope the lady that accused him gets fùcked by karma.
He needs his white, female friend/girlfriend to stand up for him because if he stands up for himself he could be seen as dangerous. That's the problem with our society today.
Ppl are bitch made.
What exactly is there to "stand up" to? A woman panicked that misplaced her phone? He handled it it correctly by remaining calm and rational. He could have calmed down his girlfriend who is obviously brainwashed into believing everyone is a racist, but that's besides the point.
@@johnwayne4911 uhm a lot if whites are. Most of them are in closet racists. Ever since Trump, a lot of them show their true colors. I mean history explains that.
I don't think he needs anything
Oh yh definitely they wud hv blamed him for being "aggressive"
She looked like she actually considered patting him down. Omg 😲 😱
I think the only reason she didn’t pat him down was because she already found her phone in her purse like Aba said. She probably didn’t want to make it worse
She wanted to touch some BBC! Let's be real. For a brief moment she considered it.
@@crayothewarrior7713 🎯
@@crayothewarrior7713 NO!! She just wanted more people to believe her so she could pat him down or call the cops. She knew where the phone was the whole time. It's the entitlement to his space for me "apologizing" tf???
I think she likes him. Same as the apartment blocking lady.
Purses are blackholes, shit goes in there and NEVER comes out.
Major respect to that gentleman for keeping his cool and calmly laughing when he was vindicated.
The fact that she wouldn’t give him the number leads me to believe she knew she lost it but she wanted to blame someone else. Bizzaro world man.
Watch her rummage thru her purse and u can see when she realizes its in there. From that point forward she only half assed looking thru the purse.
*White People possess boring lives*
She was looking for ATTENTION and got it
She never lost it, she just wanted to start shit.
We’ve seen this situation too many times to not understand that racism is still alive and well. Karen trying to apologize makes it worse she knows how she looks she covering her back. 😂
IT is weird indeed. Everywhere I comment, people tell me how much they love me and my content. Sometimes IT is annoying. But right now, IT would be okay. So say something nice about my content, dear ima
I bet she’s the type to say black lives matter without meaning it
@@Rieky22 you mean like the founders of black lives matter?
60 million in missing funds and three Mansions purchased in predominantly white neighborhoods. Sounds like a scam to me.
So she should double down and not apologize 🤣
@@AxxLAfriku nigga what
I relate to what abba said towards the end. I’m a big black dude and have to always make sure if I’m wearing a hoodie, my hood is down, my hands are out of my pockets, etc.
A few years ago, I was volunteering on LA skid row handing out water bottles to the local homeless. As I was grabbing more bottles from our team's cart, a security guard ran up, slapped my hand, and accused me (a black dude) of stealing water from a vendor.... I had never felt so violated.
I'm not a really a blm supporter, I think the people running it are shady af.. but I can definitley understand how it came to be.
Thats so sad. Even if YOU think the people running blm are "shady" the movement itself is not. It's to bring light to situations like what happened to you. If we don't stick together, as you can see noone will speak up for us.
She knew it was in there the whole time. That’s why she didn’t give her number. She had to keep it going..
Because to delay the soon to come. They should have scared the hell of her to teach her a lesson. But now she is canceled and could lose her job. What an idiot.
After rummaging through her 👜, she realized the phone was in there way before it rang so she began stalling for time by pretending to claim that the ringer may have been turned off seeing that she was about to embarrass herself. What's worse was that she still continued with the false accusation knowing fully well they didn't do it!
@@user-mv7kh5sv9z Probably wanted to bolt cause she went to panic mode.
People like this drive me nuts. But eventually they get owned by others who see through there bullshit
@Russian Waifu that's how you end up in a situation like this then
@Russian Waifu then prepare to look stupid. If you’re gonna go ahead and accuse every black person of stealing from you, your IQ level has to be in the dumpster.
@Russian Waifu common sense somehow is much stronger
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@Russian Waifu you misplace you stuff and accuse people of theft? what a tool.
I’m surprised that woman didn’t say something like “I don’t know my phone number” when he directed her to entering her number. That humiliated apology would’ve had me telling her to go sit down somewhere.
everytime I lose something and look everywhere and still can't find it I always hold off accusing because I almost always end up finding it
We’ve avoided helping people get their stuff because we are worried they will think we stole if. So far 50/50. My girlfriend gave a purse back to someone and they looked at her like she stole it. Took it and didn’t even say thank you.
Yeah nah as a melanated person, if somebody drops or leaves something and I don't know them personally, I didn't see it. Walking right on by.
yeah! You won't believe what ahppened to me last sunday when I left my newborn and wife at home alone to save a lost dog I saw trought he window :(. But I did it for the dog obviously... sad tough
It is what it is. Don't show kindness for gratitude. Do it for yourself and you'll never be disappointed
That’s messed up.
@FBI only certain groups can do that, as a black person stay away unless your in a safe area around your kin, its not worth the possible stigma because the story they fabricate about you will be a lingering fact
She absolutely realized it was in her purse prior to the phone ringing and after accusing the guy, and she kept on with the accusations instead of admiting she was wrong.......man....seriously....
Low life waste of air of a human being...
After rummaging through her 👜, she realized the phone was in there way before it rang so she began stalling for time by pretending to claim that the ringer may have been turned off seeing that she was about to embarrass herself. What's worse was that she still continued with the false accusation knowing fully well they didn't do it!
You can tell she saw in the bag and did not know how to retract her accusation
If someone out of the blue accused me of stealing their phone I'd just leave and ingore them. Literally nothing good can come from engaging.
After rummaging through her 👜, she realized the phone was in there way before it rang so she began stalling for time by pretending to claim that the ringer may have been turned off seeing that she was about to embarrass herself. What's worse was that she still continued with the false accusation knowing fully well they didn't do it!
Yeah,there was that moment you could see it in her eyes,and later she pulled the phone from that same spot and actually quite easely
Situations like this give me intense social anxiety. I go out of my way to make it clear and obvious that I haven't taken anything from anyone. I guess a part of me fears how badly I would snap if I found myself in this situation.
Fam I definitely understand I avoid misunderstanding or accusations to a point it hinders by social activity severely
and its sad because myself i don't feel like doing it. I went to a sleepover. Got accused of stealing. Now it didn't take long to figure out i only had my pajamas , my inhaler and my bottoms.
Same here man I think god Is protecting from that situation because I am not the one.
@9BeastKing 😂😂😂
Rightfully so
How innocent people go to prison, when they would rather keep on with the lie than admit they're wrong.
This is a common thing with younger ppl as well. I'm mexican and when I was in highschool, I would have ppl from stores check isles every couple minutes to make sure i wasn't stealing, or making me pay before eating at a buffet when everyone else would pay after.
I got pulled over driving with my black friend, we had his kids in the back seat. The cop didn't even ask me question about my driving or why he pulled me over. His questions were: how do you know him? Did you stop anywhere before leaving your house? Can you spell his name? I was fuming but didn't want to escalate anything, I just wanted him to let us go. Racial profiling is still the same to what it used to be, now people are little subtle about it. As an immigrant that survived ethnic cleansing, I understand what it means to be labeled as less than. And to see it in America bothers me. This lady in the video bothers me. Its not fair.
what did the cop do after you answered all his questions?
@@tiktokexposed898 he let us go after checking our IDs. He mentioned he stopped me because of minor damage on the driver side door. Which is not even a moving violation or reason to stop someone. This happened on 95 exiting Boston going south. State trooper.
@@AlenAbdula a staty huh? That shit happens state wide homie. Even here on the western side of the state. In my city it don't happen regularly but it does happen. But when it comes to staty's shits gonna happen.
They don't see us as less. They jealous they not us.
You assume it was racial profiling, but for all you know that cop could have just dealt with a carjacking/kidnap case the other day, or a domestic case where one spouse decided to grab the kids and take off. Or maybe there was a suspect for something in the area that looked like the dude in the car.
These guys deal with the craziest stuff, life and death stuff, the kind of nasty things we don’t even like to think about, so they look at things differently and don’t always prioritize feelings.
Consider that before immediately assuming the worst kind of character in the officer. I’m not saying there aren’t bad cops, or stupid cops, but sometimes they have their reasons for being suspicious or aloof.
She KNEW it was in there. She accused him them found it in the bag and the double downed.
I'm really glad the cops weren't called. Could have been way worse.
I have had this happened to me a few times.
I also have been followed multiple times in stores and buildings, by people who actually are dusty
I can't wait for the news interview where she says " I've gotten bullied and harassed over this and those who know me know I'm not that kind of person"
They all use the same apology template so often I'm surprised a paperclip don't pop up each time
LOL! Spot on brother!
What's crazy is my mother did the same thing one time she accused me of losing her car keys and we spent 30 minutes looking while she's yelling at me and trying to find her car keys. she then dug in her coat pocket and there they were. Mind you, she was wearing this coat
Thats reg fam stuff dum dum lol this video is abt Karen's accusing strangers
We drive parents to insanity. I remember my dad yelling at all of us for moving his glasses and he can’t see… all the time he’s wearing them on his forehead. WOW
You could tell she already saw it and was hesitating about calling the number.
I can't even imagine what it feels like to be in that man's position, not going to pretend I can. I can say that I've witnessed a similar situation, and thankfully the man accused was quickly proven innocent when the missing item - think it was her car keys - was found in her own pocket. As a bystander it is disgusting and embarrassing to witness, I can't imagine being the target of that.
I remember back in high school, I was heading home with my then white girlfriend. A cop pulled her over and said they were looking for someone. He then says to me, “I guess you just have that face, huh?” and my girlfriend was like: “what that BLACK face!?” In my head, I was like noooo, do not piss this man off; I just want to get home safely. I never go out in a hoodie and slides, because I don’t want to be profiled, and it was literally the one time I did for a quick trip to pick up food, and boom, I “match the description.” Smh🤦🏾♂️
Fax that be their fav line. Cant tell how much times I was stopped because I "MATCHED THE DESCRIPTION OF A ROBBERY SUSPECT" SMFH
lol "Please do not aggressively defend me at this time" Maybe white friends / girlfriends need to have "the talk" given them on how to behave.
Yeah, sometimes black is part of a description.. male also.. sometimes it's white and male.. or woman. A buddy of mind was felony stopped because he was a white male coming from the area of a bank robbery. The idea that using a description and checking is profiling as racism is insanity.
@@cocolokoflacco Why isn't the problem that so many people that may look like you are robbing? Be mad at them.. why not them? They are giving you the bad name more than anyone else.. I think it's stupid that we have races, but if your identity is your skin color then I'd say, be mad at them. I'm not mad at people who don't trust white folks to not be racist.. I'm mad at the racists. That doesn't mean I won't correct someone on the assumption based on group dynamics.. but I understand a cop has to look for someone and it's usually on very limited information. Usually, skin color, height and maybe some clothes, MAYBE. And let's be honest, there are many men who have even my skin tone and my height and my clothes.. so I can see how I could match a description.
Seems like black guys get harassessed more with white women. Must like that harassment lol.
If I was to play devils advocate, I would give Karen a pass for asking, but she was SO confident that her phone was stolen and not lost. It's remarkable. She's a demon.
the devil doesn’t need any advocates
@@keebisking lol
The only advocate is that she's batshit crazy and probably has more than 5 cats at home and nothing else.
@@manuelper probably just lives with only one big 🐈. Her husband.
Nah there is no devils advocate, you don’t accuse someone of stealing something without knowing with absolute certainty is something you don’t do. She legit wouldn’t give the number because she knew she was wrong, the dude completely emptied his pockets and offered for her to even pat him down, and she knew she messed up, so she tried to come up with any kind of excuse as to why it wouldn’t ring. She’s simply a horrible person, and she definitely just thought her phone wasn’t in her purse and instead of just double checking she instantly said that oh black person, must have stolen it.
She is the kind of women that would falsely accuse someone of rape just so her daddy wouldn’t be mad at her for sleeping with a minority.
she 100% found it after she accused him and before she brought up the ringer not going off and didnt wanna back down, thats why she was refusing to give the number
If somebody stole your phone, they won't stand there and wait for you to discover you actually have it
Bro if i stole someones phone, im not sticking around.....
Self awareness goes a long way. It's not just about being cognizant of your own behaviours, but also about how those behaviours affect others.
and also about how people could perceive you
Can you imagine? The clerk telling them to calm down whenever they talked too
….I would have walked away laughing. They were too nice
As long as you know how to thoroughly search your bag - first....you'd be fine.
Black people handle being accused of a crime, better than these kids when you get their pronoun wrong...
I was in a similar situation as the lady. At the TSA the guy that got checked before me hurried and he packed my phone that was in one of the box alongside with my tablet. I panicked and asked him "excuse me me Sir I think you accidently packed my phone, can you check please". He went off on me calling me racist and that he doesnt steal...but I told him to calm down and please just check and I'll look in my bag too. And when he found my phone in his bag, he panicked even more saying "I swear I didn't mean to do this I don't steal"...he was really scared but I told him it's ok it happens, I don't accuse him of stealing. So actually I just thank him and walk away cause I was in a hurry to catch a plane too and I'm just happy I had my phone...cause my vaccination certificates and all the dokuments like online tickets are on there.
NAH YOU RACIST! (sarcasm)
Damn
oh no! not the precious vaccine documents! lmao
@@SobeCrunkMonster that's what you chose to comment on?!
@@SobeCrunkMonster in that situation they are precious. Wtf are you trying to say?
She knew she had it, she knew it was in her purse. She wanted drama and to cause problems. Soho Karen 2.0.
Exactly why she was so hesitant. I definitely agree with both Aba and Preach.
I will go even as far as saying she wanted to steal his phone. Soho KAREN 2.0: "My phones missing and it looks exactly like your phone, give me that phone or we'll involve the authorities"
She was stalling cause she was busted. Everything she could do to not get caught.
So glad she was dumb enough to get herself busted.
I think she lost it at first then realised she had it at some point in the encounter.
@@esmeabela9866 yup
@@esmeabela9866 then what was the point of accusing a stranger of stealing it?
@@esmeabela9866 yup. But she's so stupid she couldn't think of a way to get out of the situation and didn't have the guts to own up to the mistake ASAP. Instead she doubled down.
@@Yvp13 some people double down to not get embarrassed from what I see tbh, either way if she did indeed notice it was there, it's an absolutely shitty thing for her to not say anything about realising it's in her bag and apologise straight away about the trouble she caused
There needs to be some sort of punishment for falsely causing someone.
She didn't remember to cut off the phone ringer, yet accused him of cutting it off. You can't make this shit up.
I've had this happen to me at Gold's Gym when I was like 13 except it was an IPOD instead of a phone. Probably one of the weirdest NPC encounters I've had.
@James Lee 😂 I can't remember everything she said but she did say
" Stop running away from me and give me my IPOD you little rat bastard" and I remember thinking I wasn't running away from her either I was just on a treadmill.
Racist people tend to be very stupid. I'm glad I never went through certain things as a black man, but having people ask me things and then asking them things was so funny. The way they got defensive off of me asking an ignorant question after saying something about black people and asking me something was funny.
Same thing happened to my brother when he was about 16 at a gym. The staff got involved as she was so loud & causing a scene, he was just wearing thin shorts & a t-shirt too, not like he had many hiding places. He was embarassed & cut his session short as everyone was staring at him after, as if she wasn't the one acting crazy! Thankfully my brother stood his ground & after talking to the manager (they went in thinking they'd tell him off but he was like I want to put in a complaint lol) they offered a free snack as an apology, which he accepted, but he said to change their policy about theft accusations would be the best result.
@@gogomarioloshi I don't think my situation is racist as I'm an Irish man and it was a white woman who said it. I'm sorry you experienced that though.
@@NotAnotherKuromi Yeah I definitely understand luckily I had my older brother with me because I definitely didn't have the communication skills as a child to really deal with that situation properly lol.
People need to he held accountable for making false accusations
I worked 2 jobs and was going to school, I picked up my friend's grandmother afterwards to take her home. On the way back to my house I got pulled over in my purple PT cruiser and they said i matched the description of someone that just robbed a bank. Now officer, it 11pm and Im in a purple car wearing a Walmart smock. The harassment will never stop, and neither will the Karens
People do steal stuff from others, and it REALLY sucks being on the receiving end of theft, but you gotta be 100% about it before you point fingers at anyone.
Getting accused of anything that you haven’t done feels extra crummy.
Exactly. Accusations with evidence only
I’m so glad you brought up “perception is reality” bit because people don’t like to acknowledge reality. There’s how things “should” be versus what things are.
We can help to make changes but it’s still a process.
That woman though? She needs to keep moving and don’t acknowledge my existence. Surprised she didn’t call the wrong number just to make sure it didn’t ring.
Same, also imo we need to focus on realistic examples to be able to make positive changes. When people focus on unrealistic utopias it's just not helpful in any way. I've also found people like that usually are ignorant about how those issues actually affect people on the ground.
…wait wouldn’t calling the wrong number work against her since she needs to call her number to make the phone he has ring to prove it was actually her phone? Calling a different number would just help prove it is the man’s phone since it didn’t ring when calling her phone number. Besides that I agree with you on the other parts.
its literally called "hell is other people", no matter what you do or how you view yourself, you are forever a prisoner to how other people perceive you to be
The phone was right there she didn’t dig deep either she just dug on the sides, & those purses have 3 sections to them , she just wanted to make him look like a thief, and my thing about it is she targeted him if he walked behind her I’m 1,000 percent sure the ◻️👧 was right behind her friend/bf so why didn’t YOU question her AT ALLL SMH 🤢Its just disgusting that she think a apology justify her actions and it’s not okay and the fact it was right on top of the purse but before they called her phone and she said he only had the vape her whole facial expression changed
Exactly she was so sure HE did it why didn’t she question anyone else in the store including the friend?
@@Alecexo Agreed 🗣
This is the reverse of looking for your homework in your bag, knowing damn well it ain't in there.
Didn't she accuse him because he had been standing behind her, and she thought she had left her phone on the counter? Not because he was black. Just didn't hear her mention anything about race, so makes me think she would've accused anyone of any race had they been standing behind her.
Bruh they were just standing there with her without leaving, who steals something and just stands there, her brain was not present.
I love how Preach immediately roasted Aba after he lost the bet😂💀
It comes with victory among peers, that and you gotta get your jabs in
If I lose my phone…my whole purse is getting dumped out. I’m not just a casually glancing and moving my hand around in there lol
Ever walk out of a store without buying anything and instantly feel like you're being watched?
When you feed a Soho Karen too much they evolve into this final form
She got all the rare candies.
Used to work at a Home Depot. Saw a white dude roll up on my conversation with a black coworker and start accusing him of bossing people around (that wasn’t any part of the conversation) and I was baffled. I didn’t understand what was happening. It was like the white dude was delusional. People are nuts.
On the flip side, I was accused of being racist when I couldn’t find a transaction on a customer’s card for a return. He was black and thought I was just giving him a hard time because I had some sort of problem with him. Turned out he paid cash for the merchandise and didn’t have the receipt. We still got him taken care of and I was professional the whole time, but again, I was just like what is going right now? Happens on both sides and it’s really unfortunate that there’s still so much tension and mistrust between folks.
must be like your soul is slowly being crushed out of you to be working a job that requires the regular handling of NPC mentality and rudeness.
@@SobeCrunkMonster yea take it from someone who works for a bank and handles peoples money. Humans are fucking stupid and it’s scary.
I saw a guy in B&Q who accused the black member of staff being bossy too! He was literally the manager who was handling the return & he asked the white lower level of staff to go get the item off the shelf so he could scan the code. It took me ages to realize what was going on, as his responses were so ludicrous. I think A- the tosser customer assumed the white guy would be the manager not the black guy, then had a problem adjusting to reality. B- as you say all logic went out the window & he wanted to be able to make the black staff member the bad guy somehow, even if he was doing his job perfectly normally. My friend said the customer was probably embarassed but that doesn't give him an excuse to embarrass other people, make accusations or generally act like an entitled, bully.
I've been in a similar situation but with a native person when I was working at Blockbuster back in the day. Dude came in, wanted to pay for a bunch of stuff and handed me a tax card which we input the number in and set to no tax but it specifically just takes off one tax (as per laws) but he insisted he had a special card that took off ALL tax. I had no way to remove the other tax without a manager's credentials. The second I started to say "Ok I can't take off the whole tax myself, I just need a manager to do the rest" he absolutely exploded and called me a racist. I was like "nope, I just have no way to do that for you myself but my manager can". But he just kept going off. People are weird.
Everyone thinks they are being victimized these days. Sometimes they are. Sometimes they aren’t
You can tell when she's sorting through the purse when she realized that the phone was actually there. Her eyes widen while she keep the lie going, until she is eventually exposed.
She should have got arrested for stealing her own phone.
I was confused cause I thought this was a reupload- but this is completely different from the first time😅 this actually happens
Same
Preach dreads grew back really fast.
This video has to be old because Preach has cut his dreads.
Ohhhhh man it was in your purse all that time?! Que the unrelenting pettyness.
Lololol same
I’m in Sydney, OZ and I’m a woman. I’ve had a couple incidents, mostly from male security officers. I was leaving a Chemist Warehouse, the security was flirting with a woman at the door and I walked out past him. I must’ve taken 20 steps or so when he started yelling “HEY HEY HEY!! LET ME SEE INSIDE YOUR BAG- HEY YOU! WOMAN!!” I literally had to walk all the way back, with a group of people watching in anticipation. He looked inside, then walked away, no apology. These are ethnic men in security, usually Indian or Lebanese men acting as security. Many adopt stereotypes and prejudices about black ppl… not sure if it’s in their training to be extra alert, or they’re too influenced by tv & the media.
She didn't want them to call the phone because she had already found it by that point. But she also had already accused the guy, so instead of just looking a little foolish and saying, “My bad I found it,” she decided to look ALOTTA foolish. Sad just how common this actually is.
History repeats itself.
Watch her later get on tv with someone and drop a « Enough. The hotel lobby had my phone. ».
@Russian Waifu so lemme guess your a "supposedly Russian troll" here to stir racial division in America? I think you're just the typical racist Republican in sum poor red state lol
@Russian Waifu link?
@@zaheercharles487 Look at his account & banner. You want him to give you anything of value? C'm'on.
@@hiroshi7025 you're right. I definitely should've known better lol. 🤦
This ain't even a stealing situation I had almost 2 months ago, but my last boss after firing me through a text message at 9 something in the morning, she accused me of giving clients food poisoning and then said she knows "everything I did and was still trying to do" and to cease and desist contacting her. Bruh I knew this lady for 5 years and she was like another mother before I went to work for her. I legit was alright being fired, cuz I wanted to quit anyway from the environment at work, but when she accused me of shit, that was the thing that pissed me all the way tf off. She hit me up a couple of weeks ago saying she regrets ruining our relationship through business and she missed knowing how me and my kids were doing. I had nothing to say. There was this satisfactory feeling I got though cuz I knew the whole time I didn't do shit, and for her to have to admit that she fucked our relationship up, made me feel damn good. But there is no coming back from that.
She probably already felt it in her bag smh
Someone said “ she was “looking”for her phone in her purse like how I used to “look” for my report card in my bookbag when my parents asked for it.” 😂
When ppl say racism is still alive and well I know they must been under a rock or something. Racism from ppl will never leave it will always be racist things and people and any race can be this way
ESL?
I know right we’ve seen this story too many times to say it’s gone.
No racism isn't real that's just a label to put you in a box to divide and conquer...this is a battle between good and evil people, racism is just an illusion
Somethings tells me there is also something mentally deficient with this Karen. She doesn't appear to have all brain cells firing. Don't most studies show a strong correlation between racism and low intelligence?
This comment.
Tbh I’m more surprised that Spencers still exists.
Why?
LOL
What other store better capitalizes on midlife crisis?
In the 3 malls that are left.
Shout out to that clerk for mediating the situation without calling the police for no reason and the black guy had a much better attitude about it than I would have had. I glad the caught this whole exchange on camera to put this woman on blast
She didn't lose that big ass phone in that bag.
Ah yes another episode of “Karen’s in the Wild”
In this episode we see the aggressive behavior of a solitary Karen at Spencers, as it searches for its next kill. An unfortunate couple happen to be on the menu today as Karen has an appetite for Black Male. The Karen leads with Acquisitions of theft, a classic hunting strategy, putting the couple in a tenuous situation, Will they be able to escape? Tune in for the thrilling conclusion.
They escaped
Yo! 🤣 I heard Attenborough all through this!
Ha this is excellent!
Hopefully she learned an important lesson. Oh the embarrassment, on her part and she embarrassed him in front of his girl, wife whatever.
This was too damn 🤣 🤣
@@litjay7073 as soon as you said that I realised I was unconsciously reading it as if it was him. Well done 👍🏼 very well done
I got accused of not paying for my McDonald's drive through order because I smiled at the second window. How would I have stolen anything? These drive throughs are set to trap you whether or not you order.
I was pissed when my old primary friend pulled the same shit. Got the entire class trapped during lunch break because someone stole his watch. Turned out the damn thing was in his lunchbox.
Disgusting. She absolutely either saw it after the accusation or remembered she dropped it in. That’s why she didn’t want to share her phone number. “He could have turned off my ringer when he put it in his pocket”. Huh 🤔. GTFoH.
My brother (64) looks like a homeless man with raggedy beard, work clothes, skinny and no care for what he looks like. He makes a lot of money and has nice things at home. He was in an accident and ended up in the hospital. The nurses treated him so shabbily, thinking he was a homeless man with nothing. We were able to go see him the next day to discover he was not given a room but tucked in a corner in emerg. Given food he could not eat as he was paralyzed and would not help him eat either. My sisters and I raised hell !!! When they discovered who he was they changed their ways to help him. This has been a narrative since I was a young girl. If you don’t look a certain way, your garbage. Plain and simple.
I don't trust hospitals, my mom and I had Covid, she couldn't keep anything down and became dehydrated, so my dad took her to the hospital to put her on some IV fluids, so she could actually eat something. Her symptoms were not severe, she just needed some fluids in her system. They ended up keeping her for a few days, leaving her alone without the IV fluids she needed. She essentially waited days in a freezing cold hospital and being given cold food just to be told she needed to go home and drink Gatorade. They hardly gave her any IV fluids, they just put her in a room and left, but they wouldn't let her leave. My dad was pissed. All of that b.s. for $10,000. Good thing they have good insurance. I believe most nurses are witches, very few actually care for their patients.
Some things never change in life, working at gas stations before I've had women like this pull the same thing on both customers and even me.
Yes of course they found their damn phone in the purse.
Never change.
Yeah I have seen it happen as well.
People like this are the reason why you hear shit like "put on your white boy around here."
@Russian Waifu funny how the crime rate stat stays the same yet arrests went down by 30% (when police started getting recorded) and most black people are never convicted of a crime.
I wonder where this statistic comes from. Hm.
That’s not how I react when I loose my phone. She’s too calm…
I wouldn’t be surprised if accuser was with someone who was stealing.