How phones are ruining marriages | Passwords | Benjamin Zulu is ending relationships today

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
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Komentáře • 314

  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  Před 3 lety +13

    Do not forget to subscribe to our CZcams channel.. Click here to subscribe -- czcams.com/users/switchtvkenya

  • @MaggieKahbuu
    @MaggieKahbuu Před 3 lety +125

    This man is a gift of our time.

  • @kayshaddy
    @kayshaddy Před 3 lety +152

    "If the relationship is not happier than your single life, go back to single life "

  • @ajalahupfront
    @ajalahupfront Před 3 lety +26

    When Benjamin laughs it comes from deep down and his laughter lights up the whole room.

  • @ireanriyaitah9319
    @ireanriyaitah9319 Před 3 lety +22

    Mwikali is so lively.....she fits this show 💯.Zulu is my favorite....the chemistry of this two is amazing.Best show ever

  • @queenlyne2363
    @queenlyne2363 Před 3 lety +25

    Keep your partner from worrying...this got me thinking 🤔.

  • @dorrismakena6380
    @dorrismakena6380 Před 3 lety +12

    Kila siku nilikuwa nahisi nahitaji kuolewa b4 am 24 but since I started listening to Mr Zulu huh it's success first for me...his advice has changed my mindset aloooooot

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 Před 3 lety +2

      Me too,,I was planning to get married next month at 23years. His videos have really helped me and I've changed my mind completely yesterday

  • @techienomadiso8970
    @techienomadiso8970 Před 3 lety +12

    The wisdom in this man is on another level. Wow!

  • @hottest1
    @hottest1 Před 3 lety +22

    Watching this bright passionate man full of wisdom, Zulu talks the reality of life

  • @reginalangat5194
    @reginalangat5194 Před 3 lety +12

    Benjamin Zulu you are a blessing to this generation for sure.

  • @katekay5595
    @katekay5595 Před 3 lety +107

    If you can not trust me with your phone, I can not trust you with my life 🤔

    • @rhodahj7121
      @rhodahj7121 Před 3 lety +2

      Point taken

    • @paulyneMercyPaula
      @paulyneMercyPaula Před 3 lety +2

      Absolutely 👌

    • @jakobo2824
      @jakobo2824 Před 3 lety

      Nkt

    • @katekay5595
      @katekay5595 Před 3 lety +1

      @@jakobo2824 what with NKT😏 I just quoted what Zulu said 🙄

    • @jakobo2824
      @jakobo2824 Před 3 lety +4

      @@katekay5595 is your life equivalent to a phone..??? that response wasn't for malicious intent it's just that you shouldn't value your life with a phone. It's stupid. And that's exactly the thing that destroys relationships. You give way too much priority to things that don't really matter

  • @blessedmercy3036
    @blessedmercy3036 Před 3 lety +19

    Benjamin... I now have the wisdom. May the lord bring me my king

  • @thayu2821
    @thayu2821 Před 3 lety +21

    Honestly this was the smoothest😁 transition of hosts. I enjoyed Joyce and I totally still enjoy your hosting Mwikali.

  • @yasnyne
    @yasnyne Před 3 lety +51

    Daddy Benjamin, I wish you can sprees all your blessings to all African countries. At least this channel should be in all African countries, families, children , teenagers, adults, elders need to know of your existence because you can make a difference in their lives as you have made in many lives and relationships by changing mind settings. Thank you so much to your parents for creating you. You were born to do this work, you are truly blessed. Thank you ☺️

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 Před 3 lety +6

      Very true am above 40 and am learning alot. But thank God he has his own show now

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 Před 3 lety

      @@hellenwanjiku167 when is his show?
      He has really transformed the whole of Africa. Much love from 🇺🇬

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 Před 3 lety

      @@pamellanuwarinda7554 😀

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 Před 3 lety +1

      @@pamellanuwarinda7554 just Google Benjamin zulu show

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 Před 3 lety

      @@hellenwanjiku167 Thank you

  • @jacklinemuchoki4237
    @jacklinemuchoki4237 Před 3 lety +40

    It is true long distance relationships are not for immature people. I'm in one and silence is not allowed. You have to always communicate to make it work. 👌So long as you both communicate well, you'll be good.

    • @raelmumo396
      @raelmumo396 Před 3 lety +2

      Communication is everything.

    • @judynjerisilvanus6573
      @judynjerisilvanus6573 Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah am wedding on may have been in two years long distance rship it worked

    • @jacklinemuchoki4237
      @jacklinemuchoki4237 Před 3 lety +3

      @@judynjerisilvanus6573 woow amazing, congratulations on your big day 🎉🎉💃💃

  • @shadrackolepesi273
    @shadrackolepesi273 Před 3 lety +21

    Very interesting this man Zulu has all the wisdom

  • @nompumelelonsibande6856
    @nompumelelonsibande6856 Před 3 lety +14

    “I waited long enough to be sure with what I wanted. So you are not behind you are right on time.”😊

  • @presidentofkenya6896
    @presidentofkenya6896 Před 3 lety +12

    Mwikali's laughter timestamps: 2:57, 3:42, 8:04, 14:29, 17:55, 23:46, 27:36, and the biggest of them all 30:37

  • @keziahmwangi9920
    @keziahmwangi9920 Před 3 lety +6

    Aki mwikali your laughter is everything😂😂. The kind that makes others laugh too even when they haven't heard the joke.

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe Před 3 lety +15

    I love how Benjamin says "My girl". It sounds so sweet!😁
    Long distance communication is the mother of all communication🙆‍♀️ Please discuss it💯

  • @monic1594
    @monic1594 Před 3 lety +2

    I love how Mwikali says, "That's what's up!" anytime Benjamin hits a 'jackpot'.
    Her laughter is contagious too.

  • @teckie__songsofworship6680
    @teckie__songsofworship6680 Před 3 lety +14

    Wapi likes za Mr.Zulu he is gifted with wisdom and he really inspire the world

  • @zingimazongs274
    @zingimazongs274 Před 3 lety +11

    Ahhh Zulu... We're calling each other to breathe on the phone😂😂😂😂 that finished me

    • @lucynyamai6854
      @lucynyamai6854 Před 3 lety

      Yea when in a bad mood you breathe your silence and let it be...

  • @viviandorcas9125
    @viviandorcas9125 Před 3 lety +7

    I can relate to what Benjamin Zulu is saying
    Preach truth brother👐

  • @castormuthoka
    @castormuthoka Před 3 lety +11

    This man is always on point.

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness Před 3 lety +3

    Mwikali has a great voice. I can listen to her for 24hours

  • @sherryshazala7123
    @sherryshazala7123 Před 3 lety +9

    Mwikali smile ,laughters melts my heart ❤. Benjamin is always on point. Hio number hulala st/room 😂😂😂🔥👌🙏

  • @maggiedoublenofficial981
    @maggiedoublenofficial981 Před 3 lety +7

    Waah..you call somebody to hear them breath!🙆‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣 ZULU n MWIKALI u will kill me! Waah that just finished me...otherwise learning a lot from ZULU

  • @ivywamurwa6149
    @ivywamurwa6149 Před 3 lety +4

    Yesss can we please talk about long-distance relationships

  • @herlifeshow5453
    @herlifeshow5453 Před 3 lety +1

    Zulu, you are really an asset on our continent Africa. I really love this show. Greetings from Ghana

  • @shemmosoti2808
    @shemmosoti2808 Před 3 lety +35

    Have never understood how someone u call the love of ua life, someone who sees u nakedness, someone u call the father/ mother of ua child but u can not touch one's phone, very unfortunate

  • @zanelebuthelezi8732
    @zanelebuthelezi8732 Před 3 lety +11

    This also goes to relationships too its destroys it before marriage

  • @pendochristfarian2606
    @pendochristfarian2606 Před 3 lety +5

    U looking good benja, u too mwikali I'll never miss ua show guys u inspire alot

  • @vunenenthani6640
    @vunenenthani6640 Před 3 lety +4

    Benjamin is killing us with this suit aaah my Gad!! 😍❤️

  • @jemfridahanangwe1152
    @jemfridahanangwe1152 Před 3 lety +10

    Thank you Mr Zulu I just like this and av forwarded it to my Hun 😘 to watch it.

  • @nnekynathan
    @nnekynathan Před 3 lety +2

    Love it when Benjamin is on set. I have never clicked soo fast.

  • @yvonnemonde1307
    @yvonnemonde1307 Před 3 lety

    Changing one relationship at a time! Thank you Mwikali and Benjamin Zulu; we appreciate y'all and the much needed message!

  • @racquellek
    @racquellek Před 3 lety +7

    why is he so smart....just facts ontop of facts
    if you cant trust me with your phone then i cant trust you with my life period

  • @JumaTrojanHorse
    @JumaTrojanHorse Před 3 lety +5

    Benjamin Zulu: What a gem! 💎

  • @robertkorir2490
    @robertkorir2490 Před 3 lety +5

    Wow! What an amazing talks... indeed assumption and lack of communication are the number one relationship killers.we all perceive diffidently.we've lived different lives,we have different views...true love is born from understanding.
    ~Robert korir.

  • @natashaprossy4276
    @natashaprossy4276 Před 3 lety +5

    Long live Benjamin. Much love from dubai💖💖💖

  • @joyceruthi8438
    @joyceruthi8438 Před 3 lety +4

    The topic today is a wow factor. love your show guys.

  • @Brayn778
    @Brayn778 Před 3 lety +1

    Mwikali has a great voice, thnks benja am a victim of hiding phone

  • @tetelomampe3064
    @tetelomampe3064 Před 3 lety +3

    I don't know Benjamin zulu personally.. and I don't think I will ever meet him but hey this guy has become my life coach

    • @julietkasungwa6535
      @julietkasungwa6535 Před 3 lety +1

      He was always present in my school years and I can tell you He is the best mentor.

  • @abibena4364
    @abibena4364 Před 3 lety +4

    Benjamin is teaching us the meaning of genuine communication in relationships

  • @susanwangui4181
    @susanwangui4181 Před 3 lety +10

    😂🤣🤣🤣 can't wait for long distance relationship topic

  • @MultiKasuku
    @MultiKasuku Před 3 lety

    I have cracked it -- the details are in the business phone -- very smart

  • @blandinamnyinga8318
    @blandinamnyinga8318 Před 3 lety +47

    I don't have time snooping on my hubby's phone,as a wife I can know what goes on behind my back without checking his phone.

    • @stepmum2451
      @stepmum2451 Před 3 lety +1

      no u cant

    • @blandinamnyinga8318
      @blandinamnyinga8318 Před 3 lety +2

      @@stepmum2451 believe me there are so many ways of knowing that without bothering yourself with his phone.

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 Před 3 lety +1

      True u can know something is going on without the phone. May be someone may involve it for more evidences but u get to know even without a phone

    • @luminous3015
      @luminous3015 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank u ..my dear u're a confident woman

    • @rahab1918
      @rahab1918 Před 3 lety +1

      Very true am sure by now my husband thinks am a witch or something 😂😂

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness Před 3 lety +16

    I like how Mwikali doesn’t speak a lot of Swahili.

  • @enrietanyongesa8322
    @enrietanyongesa8322 Před 3 lety +3

    Mwikali looking good dear..The shoes eeeish

  • @peoplevoices5307
    @peoplevoices5307 Před 3 lety +7

    Benjamin Zulu,..live long my guy ❤️

  • @raelnzulu143
    @raelnzulu143 Před 3 lety +8

    Mm, at least am tuning one on one today, exited to be here 😀 👂# wisdom tips.

  • @winsomemorgan-mansour805
    @winsomemorgan-mansour805 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for your words of wisdom and understanding it's and eye opening.

  • @n.m6249
    @n.m6249 Před 2 lety

    Love him to bits, he is the Sthembiso Zondo of Kenya. South Africans especially Zulus will know what I mean

  • @valerieesther5549
    @valerieesther5549 Před 3 lety +1

    I love you Zulu, God bless you and grow you. Shouter please "maturity" "courtesy" and "secrecy! "

  • @mustang_wanjau
    @mustang_wanjau Před 3 lety +7

    My mentor is the best @Benjaminzuluke

  • @carolinekariuki9621
    @carolinekariuki9621 Před 3 lety +2

    Your have must be lucky to have you Bz wisdom on another level teach us more

    • @lornananjala9413
      @lornananjala9413 Před 3 lety

      a partner will password on the phone they are cheating have experience from my relationship

  • @beingkeemie26
    @beingkeemie26 Před 3 lety +21

    I just have respect for his wife... How can you marry psychologist? 😂😂😂.

  • @wanyinavybes421
    @wanyinavybes421 Před 3 lety

    Great topic😎 Zulu please discuss Privacy & Confidentiality some time. There are laws that exist to safeguard that at all levels. Hi ujinga ya people possessing others is unacceptable.

  • @blandinamnyinga8318
    @blandinamnyinga8318 Před 3 lety +8

    Zulu,call me so I can breath🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Ben this man😂😂😂😂😂😂am diying heyyyyy, how I love this Man frm🇹🇿🤣🤣🤣

  • @ciaraferguson7732
    @ciaraferguson7732 Před 3 lety +4

    He needs to give this advice to all the Bahamian man💯😫😩

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 Před 3 lety +1

      The Bahiamian had a good teacher Dr. Myles Munroe,,,,,check out his teachings please. I am a Kenyan I started watching his clips last year and I've also learned alot

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 Před 3 lety

      I count the Bahamas lucky for having him,,,

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 Před 3 lety

      It is so sad that doctor miles munroe passed away. May his soul rest in peace

  • @lilianasaba9846
    @lilianasaba9846 Před 3 lety +4

    I must watch everything I have been missing.

  • @puriekaiereetuh3545
    @puriekaiereetuh3545 Před 3 lety +1

    Aaaah now u r talking Benjamin.....wow..this is amazing.....

  • @stephenvodasalano4945
    @stephenvodasalano4945 Před 3 lety +1

    This guy is the best BENJAMIN ZULU 👏👏👍👍

  • @ciaraferguson7732
    @ciaraferguson7732 Před 3 lety +1

    You and preaching today sir. Facts 💯💯💯

  • @ireanriyaitah9319
    @ireanriyaitah9319 Před 3 lety +4

    Ya long-distance relationship ikuje...infact long-distance marriages...I can't wait

  • @dorcaskyai8250
    @dorcaskyai8250 Před 3 lety +1

    I never pick my husband's calls. That's kiddish. Pure and simple

  • @pasilisajerono7409
    @pasilisajerono7409 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for the teaching Benjamin and Joyce.

  • @suzanne6922
    @suzanne6922 Před 3 lety +7

    I remember my partner changing the password to a new one 🙄😏

  • @alooaaa22
    @alooaaa22 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow this is amazing, learning a lot thank you!

  • @akiaflorence2472
    @akiaflorence2472 Před 3 lety +1

    Much love from Uganda walai I complain to my boyfriend about communicating every day and sometimes using voice notes but he is not taking it serious and we are on a long distance relationship 😔😔😔

  • @brianmoiro2821
    @brianmoiro2821 Před 3 lety

    Benjamin i love the way u argue indeed you have changed

  • @tytypartridge3135
    @tytypartridge3135 Před 23 dny

    If I’m already thinking about looking at your phone then something is already up!!

  • @scolla81
    @scolla81 Před 3 lety +7

    My old relationship was so dramatic, it went more to tracking, i kept quiet and started building my strong me,the moment i got him cheating live i went completely, deep down him knowingly that he will apologise, this was like nothing was left for him, blocking him was the first step to keep off from him, now am happier than be4.

  • @evelynekebenei9266
    @evelynekebenei9266 Před 3 lety +1

    Mwakali laughter gives me confidence

  • @pwrhb
    @pwrhb Před 3 lety

    Benjamin is on fire, yes🔥lakini hii kicheko ya mwikali😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥eish

  • @avrilnanjala1041
    @avrilnanjala1041 Před 3 lety

    This is amazing thanks Benjamin and mwikali

  • @winsomemorgan-mansour805
    @winsomemorgan-mansour805 Před 3 lety +3

    I like your talk, my husband what ever change he get him always and is phone some time 12:00am to 2:00am and if I say anything to my husband about is phone he get upset and said it's is phone.

  • @ojlyttle5887
    @ojlyttle5887 Před 3 lety +2

    Benjamin 😭😭😭 if you do NOTHING... your woman will find SOMETHING if you give her your pin

  • @roseshiku1045
    @roseshiku1045 Před 3 lety +13

    Kikuyu men need to hear this

  • @ironscape7465
    @ironscape7465 Před 3 lety +2

    Stay true to your partner.

  • @Jessy-px4jc
    @Jessy-px4jc Před 3 lety +1

    My hubby is on social media throughout the day night. He even developed insomnia. He keeps is phone upside down always., he goes in washroom with it, he comments in fb in every ladies photo sweet names yet he has never commented on mines or even like. He has never put my photo or his children photo since we married. He has insecurities with me with my phone even he has hacked it. I cannot have any male number expect family. He calls even women in front of me. I wish the government could close down social media .we remain the way it was.

  • @ellyjoy7382
    @ellyjoy7382 Před 3 lety +9

    I can relate what you guys are talking about, I had married at 19yrs and we broke up last year after 10yrs of marriage all because of a phone

    • @patriceh8444
      @patriceh8444 Před 3 lety

      Jesus it happen to the best of us I dont think it's the phone it's the person who is having the phone secret.

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr Před 3 lety +2

      That person holding the phone is the problem

  • @shiftinggrades
    @shiftinggrades Před 3 lety +2

    AT 23:13 ZULU YOU ARE MISLEADING PEOPLE. RELATIONSHIPS HAVE CHALLENGES AND YOU SHOULD ADVISE PEOPLE TO COPE UP WITH THEIR PARTNERS AND NOT TO QUITE. AS WE GROW WE ENCOUNTER A LOT OF ISSUES AND WE ARE BOUND TO FACING THEM. IF WE FIND STRESS AT WORK PLACES SHOULD WE VACATE AND GET BACK TO UNEMPLOYMENT?

  • @richauntie316
    @richauntie316 Před 3 lety +9

    Uganda 🇺🇬 representative

  • @farhiyaali4844
    @farhiyaali4844 Před 3 lety +3

    Benjamin Zul😘 Always talking senses. Enjoying your shows big time.

  • @alicewagula4079
    @alicewagula4079 Před 3 lety

    Benjamin you are really good man ...

  • @jonahomari7726
    @jonahomari7726 Před 3 lety +9

    Wengine wamesave kama Mzee wanyobah😂😂

  • @C_Sonnie
    @C_Sonnie Před 3 lety +3

    Mwikali always hilarious

  • @brianmoiro2821
    @brianmoiro2821 Před 3 lety

    You have changed me and my view to relationship

  • @irenewambui4201
    @irenewambui4201 Před 3 lety

    Nice topic,,,have learn a lot ,,,,,

  • @joycemwangi9452
    @joycemwangi9452 Před 3 lety +4

    High maturity hapa

  • @carolkomen5305
    @carolkomen5305 Před 3 lety

    Am loving this show, more wiser

  • @eunicemulwa732
    @eunicemulwa732 Před rokem

    Apt ! Thanks

  • @pirimwangi8730
    @pirimwangi8730 Před 3 lety +2

    Akk Benjamin UV made my day....

  • @evalineakinyiouko8586
    @evalineakinyiouko8586 Před 3 lety

    This Wonderful!

  • @abigaelsamikwo6734
    @abigaelsamikwo6734 Před 3 lety +3

    my hubby is so insecure when he calls and u don't pick up will get 20 missed calls he never get tired calling

  • @claircherutoolinyo9977

    Benja chukua my hi five😍😍 umeweza mbaya

  • @missreche
    @missreche Před 3 lety

    I love Zulu advices

  • @lucynyamai6854
    @lucynyamai6854 Před 3 lety

    Those ladies who hit on this one man Benjamin Zulu are daring heee... Hee. Unless they go indirect Benjamin can chew them in broad day light. Benja we hukua na chills around admirers of female kind?