How to Tell a Soul Mate💫from a Karmic💫💥Relationship
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- čas přidán 11. 07. 2019
- Quick discussion about the difference between a #SoulMate💫💫relationship vs. a #Karmic📝💥📖 relationship. #twinflames
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I used to dream about constantly looking for him. We got together and 7 years later I'm sad but I love him enough to let let him go.🦋🦋🦋
Early last year I had a realization in my spirit for a couple months that my soulmate was looking for me. I was sitting in my car depressed and lighting it up to just calm my mind down and all of a sudden a shot of awareness came through me and the first thing that came out of my mouth was “your soulmate is looking for you” low and behold a couple months after some handsome gentleman found me. Contacted me and asked to meet me. 😂 and boy did I fight it but there has been no one that gives me the feeling of security love and protection like he does. Even though everyone seems to try and fight this love. I know what my spirit is telling me. And I will protect my love no matter who stands in our way
I have that connection with someone but I’m staying away because he’s known to be a player typical fuck boy . Baggage and bms obviously it’s a recipe for disaster but the universe keeps bringing him to me and I feel like we telepathically talk to one another . None of us had shared any feelings for me it’s a hook up thing but I feel like the both of us are avoiding the truth . I’m acting out on emotions and thinking about my past I have dealt with many dudes just like him and it never got anywhere it sucks cause I try to give people the benefit of the doubt but something about this guy tells me to give him a chance . But man he’s slow as hell . I know it sounds crazy but his eyes tell me he’s falling for me . Idk if we’re both scared of love but I haven’t had a connection like this with someone before especially we don’t see each other that much . I’ve been doing me tho I know love finds it’s way what’s meant to be will be but I’m not waiting for anyone I might be moving out of state but with this whole corona I’m gonna stay stuck where I’m at ugh ...
The guy I call my twin flame I met in 2014. I had this strong urge to love him and hold on so tightly while he embarrassed, abused, and insulted me repeatedly..,then got a gf (never officially made me his gf) anyway, in 2018 I told myself it’s enough & time to let go seriously.
I met a new love in 2019. In that one year we connected so quickly it was crazy. We had a baby, moved in together, but miscarried all in one year. We love each other equally and have grown so much within ourselves from this connection. He has his flaws but I thank God for him every day. ❤️
I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but your real twin flame would NEVER subject you to such abuse -- EVER. You seem to be associating sexual attraction with being soul mates, but that's not accurate, so the second guy isn't necessarily your soul mate, either. Once you build up your sense of self-worth you'll be able to tell the difference. My intention is not to be rude, only to shed light on the fact that too many women associate toxic relationships with "true love." Hope this helps!🦋
Harris Re-nee i am well versed in what a twin flame & soulmate is. YOUR opinion is that a tf would never abuse you. I have a different opinion. I never stated physical abuse. There are many other actions (& non actions) that I would consider abuse. I am not “associating sexual attraction with being soul mates”, beloved. I know who my twin is and I know who my soulmates are. You are no one to tell me who they are for me. You should worry about yourself.
Also, my self-esteem is at the highest it’s ever been in my life. I don’t foresee there being any higher level for me to go. I think you should again, mind your business before jumping to such wild conclusions regarding Ppls self worth. I respect your opinion but you should take yourself off the high horse of knowledge when speaking to others who may be more knowledgeable than you, and certainly in terms of their relationships. “Bad news” or not I don’t want him anymore lol. I’m not searching to make anyone my twin/soulmate. I’ve been searching to make myself whole and I’ve done just that and am now with the second guy - my soulmate. I’m enjoying being with him and so happy Universe pulled us together. I’m focused on mine, I suggest you do the same ☮️🤍
@@AngiePleasee No high horse, never said I was perfect. Just tired of seeing my own people stay in low-vibrational "relationships" and inadvertently hold back the evolution of the entire collective.😣 Nobody who has high self-worth would allow anyone to abuse them in ANY manner, be it emotional, psychological or otherwise. (The fact that you think one is worse than the other explains a lot.) You then bragged on having quickly met, moved in with, and gotten pregnant by another guy, whom you admitted "has his flaws". Reading btwn the lines speaks volumes...😓 Being from the hood, I've seen a lot of dysfunctional relationships misconstrued as love, sooo when the alarm goes off...📢🔔 In 2020 having babies without a ring just aint hot in these streets, sorry.🎯 The fact that you posted your story gives ppl permission to comment, that's just how the internet is set up, love.😵 I sincerely wish you all the best in life!🦋🌹 ✨
@@mellyberry4593 I already know all of this. But thanks
@@AngiePleasee you are FUNNY. I couldn’t imagine being so wrong, but thinking I’m so right.
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This was a good vid. I wonder can one have multiple soul mates??
N R R Thank You, and absolutely! Many soul mates. Only one twin flame.
Sucks i know my twin flame ..
I cant have him.
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That’s crazy lol I met my first boyfriend EVER in 2017 when I was working at a strip club one night. The sexual energy was crazy at first. We moved in together. Then it all went to shit lmao for a long time, and even this year, I stay depressed while the dude hits on other girls. But I finally realized that I learned my lessons and I feel a strong urge to let him go and move on. But homie won’t leave me alone 😤
You fine looking caramel
Impulses are lust and sex isn't love. What a mixed up world we live in. Holy cow.
Butta Pecanshan y’all need to looking to become a man’s BM and aim to become his , his peace of mind aim to build a family, traditions so that our generation to come will have an inheritance. Ase
You are definitely false, the family comes from us@@sunofshangoihate45thihated85
So true when you lock eyes you just feel or know
It’s crazy cause we saw each other never said a word to each other we just locked eyes for 8 secs and I haven’t seen them since that day but I carry them in my soul it’s crazy
You just read my relationship,you are always on point😘
OMG you just described my relationship with my husband & I. We are definitely a karmic relationship.
From how the Twin Flame term is used today, all of it sounds like desperation. Thats why I don't like it because TF term is over used.
Sammmmee! Truth!
It got all convoluted in me until I could see the light and then..A-HA had occurred to me. So moving forward into the light for me.
Because ppl use it without understanding what it actually is.
@@Simply_Savy I don't believe it is real period. I prefer the term soulmate. People have defined twinflames as someone who you love who doesn't love you back and is ignoring you and sometimes in a relationship with a whole other person. Twinflame is a term used to keep women hooked on a man who doesn't want them. A soulmate recipricates and is in an actual relationship with you. Twinflames are only in the connection in their heads, not reality.
@@Simply_Savy seriously, it was under a misconception of complete misunderstanding. Even now after the fact so to speak, maybe the best way to go is; each ones journey is unique within itself, being a collaborative effort of collective energies between to come together in a balanced higher level of light and love ...there in activation after consummated alignment, tools are made available to us for use in the world
idk..it just kinda fell out there
Karmic relationships sound a lot like codependency or toxic relationships. These are the terms we use in the clinical world to describe these types of relationships. They're very common. They're unhealthy no matter how you spin it. I've been reading a lot about Karmic, Twin and Soul relationships. There is a lot of overlapping. I'm having an issue with the labels. I think some relationships can grow out of a phase and into another. Doesn't always mean you're destined to be together or apart.
Maybe you just need to work on yourself and everything else will work itself out!
This was the type of relationship I had with my mother. I spent my life since I was a young child around 2 or 3 wanting her to like me, love me. She was sooo abusive emotionally, verbally and physically. And as an adult I longed for her and spent all my life achieving and accomplishing in my academic and professional life for her to notice me and love me. She recently passed on Christmas Eve and I then begin to realize the nature of our relationship. I love her but now understand.
Thank you for this lesson she and I had a Karmic Relationship.
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You are on point with this one, I feel my soulmate within the last month to now, as if we spend time together right now but never met and I know she is alright and I feel satisfied as if we have been in a relationship since Birthed
Oh yes. I was in a karmic relationship..... I hope to meet my soulmate in this lifetime if not it's fine too because I've always been a loner at least from my experience in this reality.
This video is perfect in the way you differentiate between the two types of relationships. Light & love. ❤️
You’re so beautiful Iya 🙏🏽
Thanks for the information.
Thank You. You too!💞
I appreciate you for being you my sister. You drop precious rubies everytime I allow you to speak to my spirit. I thank you so much for your wisdom. Love
Ur beautiful, and you described the situation thoroughly. Ty💙💚
You are doing great spirit work with your videos. Thank you for your service.
I love my soul mate to bits. We get one another but I really don’t want to be with him he doesn’t know how to love me.
Hmm..another country heard from. Love the speculation here. Ty!☀️
I love that you said the same moon . we have the same moon and sun sign.
I thank you for braking down the difference for people that my have been confused of the two. Be blessed and take care of yourself 😚😚😚😚
So on point😭💯
Thank you it was right on time and just what I needed to hear
Wow that's bang on :) thank you
Thank you for making this so simple and clear. Now I understand.
I have always attracted narcs. After the last one, I made the vow to do my inner work so it won’t happen again.
I like your channel. You post great content. Please don’t take it the wrong way but you are so beautiful,
Thanks
This was good information luv 🙏✊❤
I keep thinking you are Laura Winslow from family matters.😅👏👏🤗✌
Thank you my dear friend
Dang...this made me realize a lot
Thank you so much for really describing the karmic and soul mate relationship. I was wondering what I was dealing with in the past few days which is the karmic. I got rid of this person immediately and I knew this person was my enemy. I was in a hate/love relationship and it was very time consuming and very draining.
Very good information salute to you Queen
Thank you for this
This is true. I met someone in September of last year and as soon as we met in person (first date) he was completely drawn to me. He would sit and just look at me like I’ve known him. My spirit was completely at ease with him. Whenever I’d go to see him I’d be watch tv and see him staring at me in a daze. I told my BFF that It felt like his spirit knew me/recognized me.
Oh wow. Thank you.
Thank you Beautiful Goddess Queen
It was not a mistake that I came across this video. Wow!
You are All Confusing People More!!!
All Karmics are Soulmates!
Your child is a Soulmate
All lessons are Karmic.
You are talking about Codependency.
You can find that in Any relationship!
It’s just unhealthy.
SMH 🤦♀️
Exactly what I was thinking and I’m sick of this twin flame crap.
Hmmm....
I disagree. Although much of what you’re saying is true, I can easily look through my past connections and filter through who was a karmic and who was a soulmate. Sure there are lessons to learn with every relationship, but they don’t always have to be filled with toxicity or resistance. For instance, in one of my longest relationships which was overall decent, I knew that it became/was co-dependent, but it wasn’t karmic compared to the relationships that I was in before and after that, which were also abusive/toxic. And not everyone you are connected to is a soulmate, via your statement about someone’s child being a soulmate. Many people like myself (indigo children and the like) may have felt stronger connections to random people they meet in their life than they do with their own family members. That’s soul family. Parents are just vessels and not necessarily an indication of soul families, but a child being born in an unfamiliar family is a good example of karmic lessons they have to learn. Anyway I ain’t gonna completely knock what you’re saying but you shouldn’t do so either because many people like me have experiences that mimic this.
@@nonconformity_9368 But the thing is, if you are in a toxic relationship, it means both of you have internal work you need to do. Even if you meet a partner that's good for you, if you have issues like codependency individually, you can ruin the relationship. It's not about the relationship being karmic or toxic, but the two people in it itself. It just simply means those individuals have to do the healing they need to be together, or with anyone for that matter. If you blame a bad relationship on being karmic, then you wont do the work to make yourself better for the next
Kier L I’ll just agree to disagree. Again I agree that there are lessons to learn in every relationship, and also that it comes from both people. But the nature of how you learn those lessons and the intensity of them will usually determine whether it’s a soulmate or karmic relationship. One feels like the comfortability in exploring yourself. It’s expansive. With a soulmate you get to celebrate your positive traits AND evidently witness your negative traits. The other feels like learning by being burned, it’s restrictive. Sure a child could learn not to touch the stove because it’s hot either way, but with a soulmate you will feel and experience the warmth and you can understand the heat without having to touch it and be burned. I could recall just one week within a karmic relationship made me feel like I hated myself and that I was a terrible person just because I had imperfections. I suddenly wouldn’t leave the house or go anywhere because I was in this bond where I felt like I couldn’t breathe. It along with other things at the time is what I called my “Tower moment,” and it prompted my spiritual awakening. I was always a relatively self-aware and intuitive person, but there were certain cycles I didn’t notice. “Karmic” more often than not will have to do with cycles/patterns. Another way it could be illustrated is like our light vs shadows teaching us. My lessons with my karmic relationships never stopped me from learning/working on myself in fact it opened my eyes more and quicker. Nothing like the pain of being burnt to teach you to never touch a stove again. So again this isn’t everyone’s experience and I’m not glorifying soulmates but I know for me personally, there’s a huge difference.
great video n explains perfectly my first body (“Z”) that took my virginity I feel as if she my soulmate because she came into my life outta no where & everything added up about her she was perfect and me n her families knew each other before I knew her we cheated on each other & we never got mad at each other and for the first time out of any relationship I had we resolved it . She probably is the most loyal and understanding lady I’ve been wit in life she not toxic or anything she off in college in a diff state now so when she comes back n finish school ima seal the deal . But while I’ve been waiting on her I recently rekindled with this Latina female from high school I met after “Z” me n “Latina “ ended on bad terms in high school but i apologized then everything was smooth for a couple months then everything just turn toxic arguing one or twice a week then I just got to the point I’m tired of being on and off I love her and think of her but it’s best we don’t be together after watching this I believe she’s a karmic
I've had those karmic experinces they knew it too. Lol
THANK YOU.
Once again , you are right on time. I’m dealing with this very issue. However, whether they stay or go🤔.....
The relationship with my mother was heavy, chaotic, desperation, all of these elements that you are talking about. It’s like you were there in my life because you are speaking on all of it.
I definitely am certain I encountered someone that is my karmic relationship this year cuz the way that you described the toxicity that can come with a negative karmic type relationship it fits crazy well
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He is getting married he has issues ..I love him enough to let him go.
Peace😍
I was in a toxic love triangle a few years ago. It all started in a nightclub wow. Literally almost messed up me and my best friends relationship.
Yes sis all facts I’m sick of this!
You got the soul and I wanna mate lol when the creator gave out beauty, You got in the line that said super fine,Twice.
Been there done that
We are born on same day different moon 🌙 though lol thank great video!!!!
His moon and my venus are the same
Yes thank you just had to leave my karmic
And I can relate to Soulmates not needing to be together all the time, only when you want to be together. I hardly see them because I'm a lot more introverted, so are most of them 😂 wonder if when I'm going to date again ever going to see my partner because we don't have to, just choose so or to learn together
Reminding me of Hancock.
sounds so familiar
My mars is in scorpio and my venus in libra I seemingly attract the incumbered. Though I don't flirt with karma your brilliant lady.
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Bae and I are reversals of each other. I'm a Cap sun and Virgo Rising and he's the reverse. We aren't the same moon sign, but we are both water moon signs. Him Cancer, me Scorpio. I think it's possible that one person is more immature than the other in TFs or Soulmate relationships so healing can be done and normally the DF tends to be more spiritually connected than the DM. But, those karmic relationships are A LOT. Whew!!
My Twin flame and I are both Aries Moon, funny how you come with that. He showed me astrological birthcharts and asked my information. He was very intrigued by both of us having the same moon sign. I can hardly believe he lives together with someone else and isn't doing anything spiritual anymore(as far as I've seen him last couple of times, he was talking about non spiritual books)
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i thought their moon is in the other persons sun venus or mars and visa versa
Yep, we are TFs. DM Aquarius DF Virgo both Leo Moon. Our first meet was all eye contact we didn't say anything but knew everything. Yea, he left 3rd party then silent treatment. Me gurl dark night of the soul oohwee hurt. Im on the mend I forgive him. But now I'm making a career move to another State. He's got until my bday 12th to make a move. Wish him well😇 thanks for the clarification 👍
I agree with almost everything you said except the moon sign with soulmate connection. Moon signs is definitely a factor as far as emotional compatibility but I think the soul mate twin flame can show up more in the Axises ASC/DES MC/IC and VERTEX/ANTI-VERTEX, when you cross paths with someone who your axises are enterwined then you know your souls came in on the same frequency. Just my thoughts. But you are the real deal! I love your channel and your work! Peace and Blessings
Hmmm...excellent point made here. Ty!☀️
I feel I've ONLY had karmics😔😔
Same 😩
That's not a bad thing. Maybe you have lessons to be learned so you can wrap up the karmic cycle and truly call in a soulmate from a healed space. This is just my opinion. I personally have been going through this my whole life and at this point, I would rather a healthy relationship with self first before I be with anyone else. I'm in the process of moving out from my son's father after a hard self l/worth love lesson. Everything you gone through is not for nothing. All love hun!
@@nadiablake2967 I'm 32yld with no kids & I dont feel I've EVER had a real boyfriend or relationship. I wouldn't even be comfortable living with a man because I'm used to living & providing for myself. The people I attract always did me wrong 1st & I'd leave so I'm trying to figure out: what is the F***ing lesson ? I stopped dating at 21 & finally learned to love me at 30. What could possibly be MY lesson if all I do is get hurt? The healthiest relationship I've had was with myself & it started in 2018. However to be this old & have not experienced anything "REAL" makes me embarrassed, try explaining that to potential men. They literally think I'm ALWAYS lieing.
@@belizeanbaby reading this message is a beautiful testimony of what will come to you. I'm so proud to hear you have no kids. Be proud of this as a young woman. It's rare these days. And no shade to anyone who does as I do, but it's a healthier bond with baby when dad and mom are healed. I feel like it's coming to you. Question is.. do you believe it? I can already feel that you are the shit and you are beautiful and the people crossing you are not on your level. Don't settle. You will get what you deserve. I truly believe you will. And you gave me confirmation, I'm 35 by the way, that what we deserve is coming as long as we have faith and believe in ourselves. Be patient, it's coming.. maybe patience is the lesson ?! ❤
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My twin married a a karmic all money based
All of my relationships are very karmic 😕 #Saturninthe7thHouse
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I had a reading done and i was told that my spouse was my karmic soulmate is that even possible ?
Can it be both at the same time? Soulmate and karmic? You describe both and i felt both in one person
I haven’t met my soulmate
My moon sign is his sun sign?
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How about karmic soulmate?
I meet mine at Night it was crazy I thought it was fate they were jealous of me how are u jealous of a person u r sleeping naked next tooo ... I’m Over it !!!!
Some astrologers describe twin flames as people who are born at the same exact time.
its like 1 second
I met this guy on ig totally platonically, but as soon as we started talking I knew this man is supposed to be in my life. We became friends ans I felt a huge pull towards them. Completely platonic, even though I felt an attraction towards him even tho he was married. His marriage was up/down but I respect marriage and wld never insert myself. He doesn't hv feelings towards me anyway, it's just a friendship. We argue alot, yet we always keep talking. Neither lets go. When we argue, altho I know we'll get over it, I become sad crippled with anxiety and desperation that I may lose this person. I don't know how to define this. Karmic? Tiwin souls? Idk how they feel, these are just my emotions. Help?! 🤣
Can they both occupy the same space at the same time? Or it has to be one or the other?
Yes. Technically speaking it happens all the time if u think about it. It’s just not always on a romantic level.
So I don't have any soul mates 🤷♀️🤷♀️😞😞
This is just too confusing lol. This is just codependency not karmic. Any relationship can be codependent
Can a Karmic relationship exist between family members?
Yes indeed
That is definitely thought provoking. Thanks.
The wide world has linked, soul mates & Karmic relationships to only “ intimate romantic themes” but we can have them with friends & Family members. I agree with you it’s indeed thought provoking.
Absolutely... Both my parents and my sister are my karmics. It is exhausting 😅
What if we share the same day of birth?
So what is a divine masculine and a twin flame?What's the difference?
I believe a divine masculine and divine feminine energies make up the twin flame connection. A balance of both is needed in each person to feel oneness with each individual and together.
Huh?!!?
I accidentally helped someone that i think is my soulmate. We met while working. They told me i saved them. They told me they loved me. They got on their feet then they didnt need me anymore. Then come back and say they love me. It was really bad there was some abuse. It started innocent. They were never there for me emotionally. Why would god bring them into my life?
It was very intense.
But why don't we always end up with our soul mates..that's so sad😭😭
Who cares about defining a term. Just live life and love properly. This is the issue: OVERTHINKING! Been in a Karmic Relationship and that shit sucks!!!
Are you married or single?
Can the male be the devine femine ?
That happens ✨
So when you realise you've been in a karmic relationship, do you still stay till marriage? Or is it supposed to serve a temporary purpose - even if it was long term?
Can brother and sister have been a married couple in a previous life? I swear my husband and his sister seems to be envious of the person they end up being with.
Yes they very well could’ve been.
I think my bf and his mom were. They have a weird relationship and she doesn't like anyone elevating him or being loving towards him. Crazy and I'm sick of them
Here I am looking for supporting evidence as to why I need to let him go and how he isn’t my soulmate and then boom you’re talking about the looks and the same moon sign.
Too bad though, he’s done too much damage. That pride and narcissism can not be forgiven so he can be happy elsewhere.
Self respect is the only sign you should seek. Any other sign, like the same moon sign, will NEVER be as important... Take care!