3 Habits High Quality Men Are Attracted To
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I just read this somewhere and thought it was great:
LOVE is: a natural attraction towards virtues!
If a person possesses several virtues, it's only a matter of TIME before the love will naturally form.
So it just comes down to each person working on their own character.
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I love that you applied Stoicism to your dating concepts. "They are the dessert, not the meal that will prevent you from starving." Indeed, not getting too attached to the outcome prevented me from sacrificing my inner peace any further. Thank you for this video, Brian!
But than dating isnt necessary and doesnt make sense and fun.
I want that banana that men would climb for, hahaha.😀 Ty.my friend.😊 good night.😴😘
Some dudes say sh like ya done fd up. That couldve been your golden ticket. I once heard a guy try to bait me. Something about me being a gold digger. Do these same males know how fn intolerable they r? Id rather od. And im not even an addict
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Around 2:40 is the main point of the video occurs.
1. Your not afraid to loose him. 2. Small Wins
3. Put him in his place
Thanks 😊😊
It hurts but i just did this. 30s and no sign of honest love
No, the video starts at the 0:00 mark, he develops his ideas before making the point. Patience.
Getting his attention isn't my problem...its keeping it. Men have such short attention spans these days.
Men who are not truly interested have short attention spans. Pace yourself.
@@catherineaubert2098 amen 🙏
They have short attention spans because there are a lot of women on instagram and tinder
@Lisa Tran watch Dr. Ramani videos, especially about twin flames, soul mates etc. If you hear these terms at the beginning of dating, it's a red flag, he's a toxic liar! . Watch out! He's probably a narcissist and you a codependent.
I really hate all this gender blaming. Women are the same way. We've all dated guys who come on too strong, too soon. Maybe they like us WAY more than we like them and it's annoying. You become less interested and less responsive to his advances. It's the sake for.men dealing with anxious women.
Men have 2 speeds as my mother used to say .... get you and got you, that’s the truth
Interesting 🤔
Meaning?
Lol I love that
@@shubhisharma4261 overdrive ... and
cruise control 🙄
@@jodyjackson5475
Means they want to conquer n then control u later?
Initially they want our attention and give us their attention,once we start giving them little attention,they need space 🤣
And they run away😅
Keep a little cool in your game ...always
People ALWAYS want the can hold for a moment, but then again is out of reach
Play to win pretty 😎
lol…
There is a fine line between giving just enough attention and smothering a man. A needy possessive woman is almost never attractive. Let him have time with his friends without texting him every few minutes, give him space and he will be more likely to want time with you and make you a priority. One of the things my bf told me attracted him to me in the beginning of our relationship was that I didn’t expect his world to stand still when I came over. I didn’t expect to be ignored but I understood that there would be times his children would need his attention, and when he was on-call, his patients would need to be more of a priority than I was, It’s just a reality, and I think it actually makes him want to focus more attention on me when I am there because I don’t demand it.
@@cmiller415 amen. I learned to do the same with my man and its a good feeling when he wants to focus on me without me asking for it
As a man, I can relate to them all, but especially the attitude. It doesn’t matter how good you look, if you have a bad attitude I’m long gone. But if you have a good attitude, it can compensate, especially for looks. And you will definitely stand out, because there are many women, with terrible attitudes
I only take both ... good looks with good character .... I don't understand at all why people compete with something like that .... Character is enough for friendship .... for more I have to focus on the body and the body Energy getting real pleasure .... everything else is fooling itself
what a relief to hear someone talk about attitude. im female btw and a truly genuine, great attitude (and not just when life is going our way) is quite rare in humans. i regularly keep mine in check and i have decided that will be my no1 requirement from a romantic partner. cheers
@@herrgegenwart5037 the body fades. So that concept will only grow with you if you can continue to appreciate and find beauty in a maturing body.
@@herrgegenwart5037 A Body without a spirit is not abel to send out energy. So concentation on flesh and bone will not bring you a lot of joy, I bet..
@@anjaknatz7157 a body without a soul is called a corpse ...
that's what I mean ... I don't see the competition, and I don't understand where this or that would be more important comes from ... the body is 100% an expression of spirit ... there is no distinction at all ... the expression of something is part of it ...
Brian I love this topic. I didnt realize just now that I have these 3 attitudes that you have mentioned. Now I am very much confident that I'm doing the right thing without consciously thinking about it!
Thank you!!!❤❤❤❤
2020 and men are still the prize
No...... they are not....you are!
The relationship is the prize, it is mutual or it is not healthy. Especially with women the nuances are as he describes.
you sound like a girl 🤣 @tos
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Smh...
Thank you for creating these videos Brian!!!! So much insight😭✨🙏🏻
Good stuff Brian! Thank you.
Brian. Your books and your videos have helped me a lot. To find the lioness energy inside me. This is a gift that I value a lot. Thank you for your love and respect towards women.
Sir, you are preaching! Yassssss!
I think this is your best video, yet. Very insightful
Love your information it’s right on. So much clarity. Can you give an example of calling the man out When they’re falling short or in the wrong Without having an attitude LOL
Such good points . Big Thanx Brian . Hugs from Belgium ; )
Your presentations are well done. Thanks.
Great input Brian!
I appreciate your Authenticity in your videos
Brian, my ex (still a friend, along with his wife) is Flemish with your same colouring and sense of humour. He’s a speaker too. I love how that makes me feel like an old friend is giving me advice. I think your style makes many people feel the same way when watching you. I appreciate you and your advice. PS read one of your books a few years ago. Time for another. Great work!
Brilliant video! Thank you
Superb advice heath thanks 😊
You give the best advice . Thank you!
Well said
Great info!!! Love it!!
Thank you for that helpful info! The guy I was crazy mad for kept telling me he didn't like my attitude. I thought he just didn't like my looks. Guess he was honest after all!😊
So sad we live in a world that women have to be taught just to be themselves,. to remember who they are and to assert that. Its pathetic. No one should ever dim their power for another-ever. And no offense to your vlogs but historically speaking, if you look far back, women were the matriarchs of all societies. My feeling is that you're referring to a new society of little girls, adult children, who frighteningly need the assistance of a very young male to teach them how to be women! So sad indeed.
Well said.
What the system is trying to do is to turn everything upside down to confuse people. So men feel like women and women feel like men at this point which actually goes against nature. It's designed to build insecurity. The truth is men are biologically hard wired to chase whether they're chasing an animal for food or female for sex and partnership. If you hear anything other than that then you know it's not coming from a truthful source. Have you ever seen a lion in nature chase his prey versus a lion in a zoo that's fed every day? The lion that's fed everyday forgets that he's a lion, he gets fat, lazy and has no interest in chasing anything anymore. He also loses his pride and joy! Chasing a man is robbing him of his nature. See what happens when women decide to let them chase again by not exhausting themselves trying to get one, what happens when men realize getting a woman isn't going to be easy. That's when the instinct to chase and behave themselves kicks in. They are primates!The drive for sex is so strong that it pushes them to chase and behave!!
I think no matter what just be yourself, as fake behaviour and a mask will fall off eventually and then it will be even worse that if you'd be natural.
My mother, luckily, taught me not to sleep with a man before you love each other. That rule still applies in my world. I've never been hurt by a one-night stand.
Totally agree! Well said!
Great speech
Finally a video I like.
Brian you're the best ❤️
I am baidido from Philippine @ working in Saudi Arabia,,, I like the way u xplained,, transparent n easy to understand n direct to the point
You are the best! Great advice
I love all your videos and books- your advice is so practical and on point! Thank you for all that you do
That’s what you want! Less time wasted
Men's psychology are Hardwork n complex . Have to keep them entertained to keep them..
Studying men is like a college degree.
great tips....thank you
Hi . I really enjoy your videos. Can you please make a playlist for all of your videos ? Then I can listen all 😜 thank you 🙏
You are so smart Geerd! (I think I spelt that right, I used to live in Holland: a great country and good down-to-earth people). Thank you for your videos, so sensible. You are a very nice person and very funny too! Juliet, a New Zealander living in London, UK
Pretty close, but it's Geert. Listen good around 1:27, he does put the emphasis on the "t" at the end. Plenty of Dutch people make all sorts of spelling mistakes between "t" and "d"s... so your score's 4.5 out of 5 or 9/10. Still great.
Brilliant ! Yes Attitude !
Spot on...
Ok gonna have to try them ? Ty
This was super interesting. Blessings to one of my favorite gurus 💖
Brilliant!
Thank you this video came just in time to send to a friend and I hope it helps her ❣️
Thank you 😊
Too bad men don't actually have THE COURAGE to be MEN and COURT when he is interested NOT PLAY A GAME
The new generation
Hell all generations these older men out here playing the same games.
Amazing 👏
You are SO ON POINT! Where have you been all my life Mr. Evolved.
That's the nickname imma give ya.😅
Ah. Born in Brussels ! The Hercule Poirot of dating and relationships. No wonder I love listening to your voice.
🤣🤣😂😭😅🤣 this guy is so funny! His stories and scenarios just kill me!😂
Wow, thank you!
Love your videos, they also made me laugh
1. Use your attitude to get his attention. Not even your intelligence, just you attitude. When he feels you're not afraid to lose him you will not only get his attention but his respect.
2. Small wins. Take your time, let him use his imagination. Don't play hard to get but be somehow hard to get. Make him earn the important things. He wants to feel he worked hard for you and he wants to enjoy that feeling of getting the reward.
3. Put him in his place whenever needed. They know when they should be put in their place. That way he feels you're not afraid to lose him and stand up for what's important for you.
I really like this dude. Hi brian your content is great ☺
Thank you
I’ve realised I’ve done all of this before I even watched this video but he still doesn’t want me in a serious way! He’s a narcissistic f boy. He does keep coming back to me however he jus wants to use me🥺😩he’s claiming he’s serious bout me but Ik he isn’t deep down! So unfortunately this video didn’t work for me!
@@AnnzzLyfe if your gut tells you he's a player, walk away. Block his number and social media and be done with him. You'll suffer a bit but at least you get to be free and can concentrate on other potential partners. Wasted years are not coming back, darling! Be strong!🤗
Lol I don’t have to pretend to not be afraid to lose him because I’m actually not... I know my worth... I know who I am and I know what I bring to a relationship. The right one for me will see that and we won’t need to play games.
Thank you!
*This* is a valuable video. The stoicism remark and all the ensuing detailing is indeed enlightening. I'm subscribing.
I love your videos and your books and feel so much more empowered than before and thats all to do with my mindset. I learned a lot of this from you Mr Nox and I am very grateful to you for your wisdom xx
Thanks 😊
Trust me, these tips really makes 100 % sense 💯
haha, read that as 'these lips really make sense' and agreed
@@JB-km1yk haha so funny 😂😂😄😂
@ThatOneGirl best of luck 💖💖
I have done all of them and they call me : COLD LADY. Hhhfffff... Is there no gentleman left in this world?
Lol same here.I have my boundaries up.No one has that much time to break it so they all go for easy one.I mean no gentleman left 😂
good for you
that is code for just wanting a shag
YOU NEED MORE COMMENTS !!!!! THANKS FOR YOUR TIPS ! KEEP MAKING VIDEOS , WE LOVE THEM AND WE LOVE YOU
I've watched countless videos and trying to get a man's attention long term is exhausting. I give up .... They are not motivated!
@@Alxamdulilah7 Agreed. Women please live your best life FIRST, then you can think about having a relationship. It doesn't make sense that you would attract the right man when you aren't even right yet.
It shouldn’t be this hard lol.
Hear hear! More power to us!
I have also watched countless videos and this one has the least waffle and is fast paced and witty.
Sorry not the video, I mean Brian Knox is awesome.
You are so right, and you dignify everyone. Thanks for this insight into men’s need to ‘win it’, it makes perfect sense! 🌸 On a side note, would you mind sharing the spelling of your real name?
Hey Jessica, his real name is Geert. It is a Belgian and Dutch name.
@@loekbrandts1606 🙂 Thanks!
Good question @JessicaLatorraca I thought you were Hungarian Geerta. I really like the examples you give. Top gun /Troy
Brain Nox ,good knowledge
My boyfriend he like it when I don’t pay attention to him
But don’t mean I don’t love him
I love my man also I want him to respect me and always
Thanks for another good advice
I love to see more of your videos
I was most definitely not attractive when I met my husband 😂😂 poor guy. I was kinda big,sweating a lot in my work uniform & didn’t wear makeup. Plus when the masks first started I also broke out a bit (we weren’t dating but he wanted to-true love). I did lose 30lbs within a few months just from work. I do want to lose another 20,get in shape,& be healthier. That’s for myself though,he’s always called me beautiful.
Aww ❤
@@lpsensei522 thank you. 🥰
We never ended up getting married or farther than just dating. Kinda brought up a couple times but we didn’t have the same view on it-he didn’t want to get married unless I got pregnant for him first (he asked twice and I said no).
@@momentsformoms9467 @momentsformoms9467 Oh my... I'm with you on this one. That sounds scary. 🏃🏃
@@momentsformoms9467 very smart choice you made. Well done.
I have a friend who was using an alias for the purpose of utube vids - as it's easier for people to say /understand..
Then he changed back to his real name and owned it regardless of how others thought.. now he is highly successful..
I like your real name better!
Hey Geert i like your video's!
Awesome!!!!
You’re awesome.
I love his funny side tho!
Do a video on married men and their idiosyncrasies, or help them realize we are leaving. And how to change how he talks to you, is it always about leaving?
Nice video
I have an Aquarius attitude and it works :)
Can you give some tips to my Cancer-being? 😂
Rasha KB cancers seem to be quite emotional. Show some attitude to your man. Show you can be strong. Don’t show any emotions until it really gets deep between you both can your comfortable enough to share. Wait till he shares with you xx
Same here 😌
@@dkxrasha Mirror him, treat him exactly the way he treats you.
@@mehenazislam9228 My boyfriend is an Aquarius guy and I am An Aries. It wasn't easy for me, until I started watching videos about Aquarius Men. It helps me a lot. He said he loves me but I do find it difficult to believe because of the way he detached easily. I went silence on him yesterday and he drove to my house, he told me to come out and check my post box that he sent something to me... Believe me... he was standing outside and I was shocked. Anyway I love him but I haven't told him because I don't want to scare him away. He is a weirdo, but I love his Humanitarian heart. That's what attracted me more to him.
I like your accent and tips...
Omg Brian ur SOOO FUNNY! FINALLY a man who can wake up entire neighborhoods lol! Ur advice is BRILLIANT! And SO TRUE! I'm doing this very effectively in my current relationship.
hi Brian what you said it's true thanks alot
PREACH!!! 🙏
I love your name! And I pronounce it perfect 👌🏻 hhhhh
Though I Am a Christian I also apply or I learn how to be stoic. 👍💪
U r so good
Just want to know why he sends me annoying messages 😒
I need to watch Top Gün again 😁
He really makes sense high quality men likes challenge
I m sooo early ❤️
Oh god ...I feel lucky ;)
And your amazing advice ❤️
Great speech lovey day Men and women all time join us
I feel like i am raising them... which is like a chore, i complement and flirt bcz it is in my nature, i am stern and bold and a bit shy, yet i seem not to find the right type, either they are depressed and want physical intimacy too early or don't know how to court properly or have communication issues. It is just frustrating, you see potential but they ruin it...
Exactly
Yeah great advise as always, and these three treats only appeals to high quality guys.
The bad quality one will run since they can't take advantage of you.
Or, they peter out b/c they aren’t willing to work for you. Likely not interested in a high-quality relationship in the first place.
@@jessicalatorraca8507 yeah exactly! they are the wrong ones anyway!
>_< seen it time and again
hahahaa you are so funny, i love your videos
If I have to limit how much i love someone to keep them around then what's the point : ( That's the opposite of being my loving self, loyal, and trusting they will love me the same.
Men don't like or respect all of that affection, honey. Go love and nurture your kids, family, pets etc. All of the fathomal love that you possess isn't all to go and dump off on a man. They don't want IT Or YOU if you're doing all of that.
@@contagiousintelligence5007 It's true. Wrong one or right. We have different needs. I'm sorry to all of the lovely women who this disappoints. I want more than anything for women understand this. You would be unstoppable 😌💞✨️
I don’t why i feel like ur words r true but they do not work , cuz all guys i met wouldn’t chase after anything if i act like so then they be like okay bye there r alot outside
You are so amazing
I lost it at "the monkey wants the banana!" Got a twisted visual and couldn't stop laughing. I get the message though. My monkey is only sweet to me after I break it off with him. Tired of this crap!
Sounds like “lovebombing”. Run for the hills
@@cassielee1114 yes an insane loop on repeat of insults and disrespect followed by semi apologies and attention seeking.
I'm going to stay by myself for an extended period of time.
@@natthebratster Forget that guy he sounds like a complete waste of time and a head case. #ThankYouNext
You're not just wasting your time, you're setting yourself up for mental problems. I'm 66 and I've seen it all. I once dated a man that made me question if the sky was blue if he said it was. Run. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200.
Hope you're staying strong and doing well ladies!!♡♡
how can this be kept up after years? is there any chance? how?
Never fight for his attention 🙏
You look like hiccup from how to train your dragon.
You’re hilarious girl
you got a point here :-)
He does!
Hahahaha cute
Ohhhh THAT'S why he looked familiar!!! 😂👍👍
What were the 3?
This sounds good but is it true?
i had done all these,, subconsciously without knowing ... :D
YOU ARE FULL OF WISDOM
keep safe Bryan!
Oh I know he's well pleased with himself when he's just right and has a little win,but I say you have to loose a little to win the war 🤭
Your really funny !!