Look deeper -- write -- the wonders of writing | Nicoletta Demetriou | TEDxUniversityofNicosia

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  • čas přidán 8. 06. 2024
  • This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. Nicoletta Demetriou beautifully describes the wonders of writing. In this TEDxUniversityofNicosia talk Nicoletta, an ethnomusicologist and tutor in creative writing, explains exactly how to go about writing in our everyday lives.
    Nicoletta Demetriou studied music in Thessaloniki, Vienna, and London. Her PhD (School of Oriental and African Studies [SOAS], University of London, 2008) was in the field of ethnomusicology. Her research focuses on Cypriot traditional music, and particularly on how issues pertaining to ideology, politics, and identity influence the way traditional music is discussed and performed. She has also studied creative writing, specializing in life (auto/biographical) writing. Her current research is an attempt to bring ethnomusicology and life writing together, focusing on the lives of traditional music performers. Since 2012 Nicoletta has been a research fellow in ethnomusicology and life writing at Wolfson College, University of Oxford, and also a tutor in narrative non-fiction on Oxford’s Master of Studies in Creative Writing.
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Komentáře • 124

  • @Okpalaemmanuel25
    @Okpalaemmanuel25 Před rokem +8

    Thank you so much....I have struggled to be better in writing but have failed to cultivate the practice of writing always...I am even scared to go for a PhD program because of the fear of writing...I dread no more my journey to becoming a great writer starts today

  • @deborahchoma7096
    @deborahchoma7096 Před 6 lety +25

    Nicholetta Demetriou, thank you for your educated insights and thought provoking concepts for writing.
    Far from boring, your charm and vocals made listening a melody. You enunciated and spoke with clarity.
    As a writer, I have, for many years now, created the white space you mentioned, to write for fifteen minutes first thing in the morning.
    It is a superb suggestion. Thank you.

    • @Ramadmurthy
      @Ramadmurthy Před 2 lety

      I am extremely happy to reply to your comment. This is an attachment among the people of this amazing planet. We are scattered bodies but our souls all together. I just wanted to let you know my deepest feelings.
      Thank you very much. I look forward to hearing more from you.

  • @Ardasssha
    @Ardasssha Před 3 lety +10

    Thank you so much for this!! One of the best tedx talks indeed! I ve been writing a journal everyday for half a month now, and all of this is true! It does transform , help you connect to yourself and see what needs to be changed in your life. I re-read it sometime later and see how i progressed as a person (or regressed), how much pain i have or how impulsive i am. Such observations about myself help me to become my own best friend.

  • @ringmasterblaze
    @ringmasterblaze Před 6 lety +56

    That was a big exercise in high school creative writing. We started every class with 15 minutes of unthinking stream of consciousness freewriting. Similar idea to some artistic exercises where you draw without looking or without picking the pencil off the paper.

    • @enricobasbas7221
      @enricobasbas7221 Před 5 lety +1

      FortyNothing so you just write? You don’t read what you wrote? Or you don’t look at what you drew?
      Just a beginner’s question...

    • @enricobasbas7221
      @enricobasbas7221 Před 5 lety +1

      FortyNothing so you just write? You don’t read what you wrote? Or you don’t look at what you drew?
      Just a beginner’s question...

  • @A.G.Birajdar
    @A.G.Birajdar Před 3 lety +12

    One of the best talk I ever heard
    Calming
    Meaningful
    Helpful

  • @bang103tunedin3
    @bang103tunedin3 Před 5 lety +13

    This could be considered a form of meditation! Thanks for sharing

  • @marygracebanares3993
    @marygracebanares3993 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Nicoletta was able to point out the very germane concept of writing to my class. Such an enlightening talk. I am actually showing this to my students to inspire them to love and start writing on their own. Kudos to the speaker and thank you for sharing your experiences, too.

  • @dominiccruz1201
    @dominiccruz1201 Před 4 lety +4

    I really enjoyed the lecture on writing. Nicoletta explained the whole concept with great clarity and understanding. Thank You for sharing.

  • @ahmeds.mansour1293
    @ahmeds.mansour1293 Před 7 lety +33

    oh, that was great and very smooth and calming.
    great points, very beneficial. Thanks a lot.

  • @socalbro43
    @socalbro43 Před 6 lety +14

    I'm in! I love the idea of finding and listening to my own voice amidst all the "traffic".

    • @AnyaChuri
      @AnyaChuri Před 6 lety

      I too! Although I do know I am a tad naive!

  • @dougimmel
    @dougimmel Před rokem +2

    One could take the transcript of this and SAVOR each and every thought she expresses, which may populate each phrase or sentence with vast ideas that could lead one in many directions. This was a RICH discourse ! I found myself pausing it often, sometimes several times in one sentence.

  • @c.r.salvador2827
    @c.r.salvador2827 Před 6 lety +5

    I am so grateful for this.

  • @Locke_daisy3786
    @Locke_daisy3786 Před rokem +2

    This talk is fantastic and filled with such goodness. I write intuitively and in snail mail correspondence as part of my business. I consider snail mail correspondence (a different writing obviously) about holding space and choosing what to share with the other person. It is another mindful way of being aware.

  • @kavanshukla9083
    @kavanshukla9083 Před 4 lety +1

    Just excellent. Her every word is as good as a pearl.

  • @sandramalone3522
    @sandramalone3522 Před 3 lety +3

    She is so right. That's how I see it as the morning before I'm even totally awake I write and it's the best I've done.

  • @chinasacasmir
    @chinasacasmir Před rokem +6

    Up to this moment, I never actually thought there would be people who upheld this practice, I would ideally wake up in the morning, with the sole intent to just write anything, put it up on my blog and do so the next day. On some days it would be difficult, and others chill- knowing that people practice this very habit is really encouraging for me at this point in time.

    • @dougimmel
      @dougimmel Před rokem

      KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO !!!

  • @sabirhusain9162
    @sabirhusain9162 Před rokem +2

    I also think that I should write something every day at least for sometime but I find myself surrounded by strange fear of putting pen on a paper but after watching this information and transformative video I gathered courage to begin.
    I will continue until I feel some sort of miracles in my personal and professional life.

  • @inukmsk
    @inukmsk Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you, Nicoletta. What a lovely conference, very inspiring.

  • @r.mercado9737
    @r.mercado9737 Před 7 lety +2

    Listening, ahhhh! So true. I love it!

  • @Mskimberley81
    @Mskimberley81 Před 5 lety +2

    It’s so tricky to try and clear one’s mind and not write ‘so what am I going to write’ for example. Loved her delivery of this talk very much

  • @liteshable
    @liteshable Před 5 lety +4

    What a wonderful speech. Thanks for sharing the thoughts about writing.

  • @AmbiCahira
    @AmbiCahira Před 6 lety +75

    Here is a suggestion of a warm-up exercise. Don't do sentences, just let your hand do words. The and though dog dough then why so sow rake barn dog frog goat store clerk and so on. And when these random words have come out and warm-up is over you will easily start making sentences without much effort even if it is a sentence between the words or not. Removing the restriction of feeling like it must be sentences can make your mind go blank on where to start.

    • @louisam6126
      @louisam6126 Před 6 lety +5

      This is amazing exercise! Being a teen who is involved in writing in a foreign language, I always found it difficult to start to write as there's an idea, there is an inspiration but the sentenced don't come out easily, I'm either stock in the beginning or just can't express myself at all. this helped me, thank you

    • @AmbiCahira
      @AmbiCahira Před 6 lety +1

      Louisa M I am glad it helps you! Everything we do benefits from a warm-up!

    • @AnyaChuri
      @AnyaChuri Před 6 lety

      Thank you!

    • @alicehuijbregts
      @alicehuijbregts Před 3 lety

      Thankyou so much!

    • @zlizeko
      @zlizeko Před 3 lety

      I just cant understand how you can let your hands do words... I mean, all words come from mind. Isnt it just writing your stream of consciousness?

  • @timemixchine
    @timemixchine Před 6 lety +7

    I needed this in my life, thank you

  • @kpop_slay3837
    @kpop_slay3837 Před rokem +4

    I'm getting teary-eyed watching this, I am really having a hard time in writing my research.....

    • @dougimmel
      @dougimmel Před rokem

      You WILL finish it in your own time. Doctoral work is some of the hardest work there is.

    • @kpop_slay3837
      @kpop_slay3837 Před rokem

      Thank you so much sir, I have forgotten that I commented here when I am really having a hard time in writing lol (I mean it is already 7 months ago haha). Btw, I am now at my experimentation part of my quantitative research sir and I think I'll do better because of your kind words. May success be always with you sir, thank you so much again

  • @deborahchoma7096
    @deborahchoma7096 Před 5 lety +16

    Nicholetta,
    Here you go.
    The first fifteen minutes of an eye opening July 11.
    This a quiet intimate space where a cat and a son reconnect. Away from outside distractions, it's the beginning, a string of moments to enjoy. Routines reintroduce themselves, whilst the repeats play.
    What about today will set in motion or trigger the necessary changes to shift the same-old-same of expectations and disappointments?
    Much like a seesaw, I struggle with the vitality to do what I know, to be what I can, and reach a happy height of achievement. Then I hear an inaudible phrase, "Who you are is enough to be all that you are meant for today."
    And in this white space of writing intimate thoughts, I choose to be a gentle guide to myself and whomever shares the sacred moment of creating beauty and new beginnings.
    Today is the dew of opportunity, the fresh morning air of accessing thoughts and ideas; a string of fresh water pearls carefully gathered from the Sydney Harbor of my mind.
    Each pearl is uniquely formed, and I remind myself that my struggles are mine.
    But amidst the solitude of writing undistracted, I have already set in motion the creation of something beautiful, vulnerable, and innately raw.
    So what can I shift in this waterhole of thoughts? What will I find to day in the exercise of duty and in the reach of gratitude. My next act uncovers a heart that is simply willing.
    There's never going to be a day that presents itself as the perfect time to change my challenges. But the perfect opportunity is, in essence, what I create for myself today.
    One small shift is a start.
    Grateful in the blanket of peace; a cat called Abby, a vase of yellow roses, a blue and gold pen, a room that reflects taste, choice ideas, and surrounds me with beauty. I am grateful for health, strength, and solace. I am grateful for people in my life, my family. I am grateful for change and the string of moments, the cluster of decisions. The hundreds of steps I take today are going somewhere.
    I am not everything I need to be, but who I am is enough for today. I'm not a child who has no control. My body deserves the best, just as it were a quadriplegic with robotic legs.
    Healing to be happy is a process. It's a development of thoughts, ideas, and the input of loved ones who see more than you can. They simply sing the song in your heart.
    To new beginnings - available and ready.

  • @FleepFlop
    @FleepFlop Před 4 lety +2

    A calm talk amazing !

  • @SuperToxic00
    @SuperToxic00 Před 4 lety +10

    Her voice made me watch this video but its content made me finish watching it. Nice pointers. And so the writing begins!

  • @Manojkumar-tm9nh
    @Manojkumar-tm9nh Před 2 lety +8

    I am an artist and when I open the SketchBook I randomly make pencil strokes until I have something to draw, maybe that's what we need to do in this exercise as well

  • @sheeladas2741
    @sheeladas2741 Před 2 lety +1

    I got all you said.thank you.God bless you.

  • @tomsimpson197
    @tomsimpson197 Před 6 lety +11

    Even though I've heard this before I thought it was amazing. Loved it.

  • @angelamcclain7276
    @angelamcclain7276 Před 6 lety +5

    Great and inspirational! :)

  • @dannyasio8614
    @dannyasio8614 Před 3 lety +4

    I really love this talk. This is what I'm looking for. It inspires me a lot. I have many realizations now. I followed you in my twitter account.

  • @hamzatalib9926
    @hamzatalib9926 Před 4 lety +2

    That's true! beautifully explain mam..

  • @fatimaeliot9792
    @fatimaeliot9792 Před 5 dny

    موضوع. رائع .. .very interesting. subject
    Bravo .

  • @mindaugascechanavicius8892

    quite simple and true words. thanx

  • @learnandgrowrich1899
    @learnandgrowrich1899 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you this video is needed for me

  • @ishrakkhafagi984
    @ishrakkhafagi984 Před rokem +1

    Great and applicable

  • @astolenhotpocket13
    @astolenhotpocket13 Před 5 lety +3

    Connecting with yourself.. something I do to in order to come closer to who I really am. I wasn't aware that I needed to hear those words so badly that it hurt.

  • @sahiltodsam9609
    @sahiltodsam9609 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you

  • @77777aol
    @77777aol Před 6 lety +16

    In stating, 'the fear of being too close to ourselves' really depends on how we view ourselves. I reckon Nicoletta Demetriu, in her encouraging talk, means being too close to our critical self, or even too close to our public-face or mask. In an ideal scenario, we never need fear being too close to our true or authentic self, which is untrammelled and unfettered, free and wondrous. The 64,00 dollar question is 'how?' ! Certainly writing stream of consciousness helps, as Brenda Urland inspired in her seminal work, 'If You Want to Write'; published in the late 1930s I believe. Let's keep writing, free of self criticism; all the while reading good books ! Thank you ND.

    • @bsaunders
      @bsaunders Před rokem +1

      "I reckon Nicoletta Demetriu, in her encouraging talk, means being too close to our critical self, or even too close to our public-face or mask." I read the opposite -- that people are afraid of getting to close to the self that is not the mask.

    • @user-pb2kg1ng4g
      @user-pb2kg1ng4g Před rokem

      @@bsaunders Without doubt !

  • @rtj630
    @rtj630 Před 3 lety +1

    I completely get her writing ritual in the morning. Completely.

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant2394 Před 3 lety +3

    This is kind of relaxing

  • @GordonTillmanTexas
    @GordonTillmanTexas Před 2 lety +3

    Great presentation. Reminds me of Natalie Goldberg's wonderful book: Writing Down the Bones.

  • @suewatson647
    @suewatson647 Před 11 měsíci

    Inspiring, thank you.

  • @joaocongo2334
    @joaocongo2334 Před měsícem

    It should have more views!!

  • @subhadravm9973
    @subhadravm9973 Před 5 lety +2

    I'm going to try doing this...

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 Před 3 lety +3

    Beautiful amazing soul. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @nafeezabolia9724
    @nafeezabolia9724 Před 10 měsíci

    Very inspirational Thank you.

  • @leonzhu6505
    @leonzhu6505 Před rokem +1

    This speaker literally gives me ASMR with her voice.

  • @aartimav7743
    @aartimav7743 Před 3 lety +2

    Finally you able to hear your own voice 😇writing therapy makes you an angel 😇 💖

  • @peterv1806
    @peterv1806 Před 2 lety +3

    This is an excellent video, the message of which is exceptionally profound.

    • @dougimmel
      @dougimmel Před rokem +1

      One could take the transcript of this and SAVOR each and every thought she expresses, which may populate each phrase or sentence with vast ideas that could lead one in many directions. This was a RICH discourse ! I found myself pausing it often, sometimes several times in one sentence.

    • @peterv1806
      @peterv1806 Před rokem

      @@dougimmel - Well said. I agree!

  • @Manojkumar-tm9nh
    @Manojkumar-tm9nh Před 2 lety +2

    Amazingly convincing

  • @rajkumarjena20
    @rajkumarjena20 Před 3 lety

    Thank You

  • @aryavijaykumar4700
    @aryavijaykumar4700 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you all very much

  • @QuynhNguyen-fe3mr
    @QuynhNguyen-fe3mr Před 2 lety +2

    This speak helps me a lot, it showed me how to write better by starting a new daily routine. I have to write so much for assignments, about some topics but I scared of writing even though I love reading books. Thank you, Nicoletta Demetriou!

  • @timkerbashian3817
    @timkerbashian3817 Před 2 lety +2

    great new perspective on writing, especially like the notion of 'Writing Therapy', and perhaps the underlying benefit of improved memory recall and new insights - would like to know more about 'Life Writing'

    • @autumn5852
      @autumn5852 Před 2 lety

      Maybe you already know more, start the daily practice and find out

  • @tomughazhimo7412
    @tomughazhimo7412 Před 5 lety +2

    Wow just wowwwww!!!!

  • @socialmediasakini5440
    @socialmediasakini5440 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for such an inspirational and informative talk. We have learned from this great speech about how the writing itself can contribute to knowing ourselves better. The writing in essence is the best way of discovering and realizing our thoughts, feelings and personality as well. As far as I am concerned I should say that the abilitiy of the expressing yourself in writing better than your colleagues or other students do gives you gives you more confidence and big opportunity to success in every part of your life.

  • @AnyaChuri
    @AnyaChuri Před 6 lety +5

    I wonder why does this video have just '380' likes whereas other gibberish talks have aplenty! Thank you! Pen to paper - noted!

  • @RevivingElegance
    @RevivingElegance Před rokem

    I will start doing the daily writing ASAP

  • @TheChunder3
    @TheChunder3 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I found this most interesting. I’d love to know how the fifteen minute writing sessions actually translated into ‘knowing’ your own voice. How was the writing analysed to inform? Thank you for your insights. I write a journal every day and I’ve learnt something new from this.

  • @Tomiokasan99
    @Tomiokasan99 Před 2 lety

    Thanks .

  • @manikandanu1507
    @manikandanu1507 Před 4 lety +3

    Wonderful voice

  • @vijayarya9528
    @vijayarya9528 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank u all very much

  • @thedesibong
    @thedesibong Před 5 lety +4

    That was deep

  • @ishrakkhafagi984
    @ishrakkhafagi984 Před 3 lety

    Very good

  • @anitsingh483
    @anitsingh483 Před 6 lety +31

    Remember jack Nicolson in the shining ...he wrote every single day too!

  • @sfvtkjdrhhdweg3481
    @sfvtkjdrhhdweg3481 Před 3 lety

    I've been journaling since 2008.

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant2394 Před 3 lety +11

    "You don't care if you spell or not." I wish she was my English teacher.

  • @joshsblee
    @joshsblee Před 4 lety +14

    She is beautiful

    • @iflowlikewater
      @iflowlikewater Před 3 lety

      @@akshayadevi1220 did you recover from the stroke?

  • @jannarioo
    @jannarioo Před 2 lety +1

    I hope to hear my own voice too eventually!

  • @usham6199
    @usham6199 Před 5 lety

    Wtf where was I..lets think deeper into what shes trying to mean...best insight so far for me

  • @learnandgrowrich1899
    @learnandgrowrich1899 Před 2 lety

    I couldn't write continuously for 15 minutes, is it ok to take some time and let my mind wander somewhere so by this I can write my thoughts

  • @bariszj
    @bariszj Před rokem

    nicoletta

  • @chrisscott7545
    @chrisscott7545 Před 5 lety

    Writing by hand for me was slow to capture the idea in its time. Thats why i moved to key board

  • @monave2938
    @monave2938 Před 2 lety +2

    Funny, I started doing this not so long ago, 15 minutes. I right the dreams when I remember them, do you?

  • @johnsexton4250
    @johnsexton4250 Před 4 lety +4

    I'm involved in 2 disciplines that wasted a lot of my parents money because I didn't really want to study at University.

  • @Bushify13
    @Bushify13 Před 5 lety +5

    Unintended ASMR

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant2394 Před 3 lety +1

    That one lady; just in the audience on her phone.

  • @samcolgin
    @samcolgin Před 2 lety

    hello fellow Creative Writing students

  • @DanielGomez-le5wo
    @DanielGomez-le5wo Před rokem

    يجب عليهم القيام بتمارين البطن حيث يعمل الجزء العلوي من البطن. مع رفع الساقين ومحاولة لمس القدمين باليدين ومتغيراتهما التي تعمل بالجزء العلوي من البطن. سترى التحسينات بسرعة. هذا تمرين لعضلات البطن العلوية. سوف يقضي على الاكتئاب والقلق. كما أنه سيشفي عقلك. سيساعدك تمرين الجزء العلوي من البطن كثيرًا. و بسرعة.

  • @SpeakWritePlayinEnglish

    15 minutes a day will turn into hours as time goes by. ;)

  • @michaelm1238
    @michaelm1238 Před 5 lety +6

    Im starting to find the more I listen to people telling me how to write and what rules to follow I am becoming less creative and in a sense mimicking others who failed to do what I aspire to do. You cannot be taught to be a great writer it has to be within you.

  • @mylestelemaque2362
    @mylestelemaque2362 Před 3 lety

    The simplistic vision electrophoretically grin because bangle thankfully repair into a parsimonious leo. hard, unbiased search

  • @mohanraja5099
    @mohanraja5099 Před rokem

    Journaling find own mistakes

  • @SyeedAli
    @SyeedAli Před 5 lety

    Wait, she doesn't actually write...

  • @paulgee4336
    @paulgee4336 Před 6 lety

    Lovely much? 10 years ago she must have been something and a half.

  • @amituprety6631
    @amituprety6631 Před 4 lety

    A meditative experiment of GIBBERISH writing...

  • @YellowhatDick
    @YellowhatDick Před 5 lety +1

    THIS IS BORING! MY GAWD! I'm going to create a Patreon to fund a new lecture series called 'Topless TED'; That would have my interest!

  • @Djinga
    @Djinga Před 6 lety

    BORING, IRRELEVANT