Psychotherapist with Insatiable Desire for Sex Conspires to Kill | Michelle Theer Case Analysis

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Komentáře • 1,5K

  • @TheSahand68
    @TheSahand68 Před 2 měsíci +1491

    After watching this video and after following the horrific story on Ruby Frankie and Judy Hilderbrand I'm becoming increasingly aware that mental health professionals can be dangerously crazy. Having a licence in mental health doesn't automatically mean that the person is mentally healthy.

    • @danielkomorowski7966
      @danielkomorowski7966 Před 2 měsíci +51

      Hanable was a doctor of psychiatry

    • @jenniferfox6300
      @jenniferfox6300 Před 2 měsíci +67

      I just had my therapist end the session cause I had a question. I thought we were supposed to talk in therapy?

    • @swl9104
      @swl9104 Před 2 měsíci +22

      Hanable

    • @hydrostatic8048
      @hydrostatic8048 Před 2 měsíci +12

      Has anyone ever stated otherwise?

    • @hydrostatic8048
      @hydrostatic8048 Před 2 měsíci +79

      For you hannibal commenters, he's a fictional character.

  • @counterbalancelife4305
    @counterbalancelife4305 Před 2 měsíci +352

    She was actually dual certified, as both a Psycho and a Therapist.

  • @djt8937
    @djt8937 Před 2 měsíci +581

    Someone asks if they can borrow my firearm, that is registered to me, and it's hell no.

    • @Catherinzsl
      @Catherinzsl Před 2 měsíci +35

      Practice run: "Hey, are you using your handgun this weekend? Could I borrow it? I need it for.... a thing. I'll bring it back Monday - assuming it hasn't been stolen or anything weird like that."

    • @BokushingusKendoTV
      @BokushingusKendoTV Před 2 měsíci +17

      Right!!! Isn’t like borrowing a jacket!

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot Před 2 měsíci +12

      ​@@BokushingusKendoTV Borrowing a jacket is even weirder. Who calls up a buddy to borrow a mundane article of clothing?

    • @JMazzaTaz
      @JMazzaTaz Před 2 měsíci +9

      What about somebody that’s anonymous? Like me. Can I borrow it?

    • @BokushingusKendoTV
      @BokushingusKendoTV Před 2 měsíci

      @@ImNotaRussianBot you really wasting you time on this?
      Who makes a comment of this?

  • @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
    @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 Před 2 měsíci +433

    A good amount of people who become therapists choose that career path to try to figure out their own problems.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Před 2 měsíci +14

      And people who don't become therapists don't care to figure out their problems.

    • @williamrunner6718
      @williamrunner6718 Před 2 měsíci +5

      True

    • @lamulatonagrande9835
      @lamulatonagrande9835 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Amen !!!! I’ve always suspected that.

    • @nurse580
      @nurse580 Před 2 měsíci +18

      Absolutely true
      I am an RN, worked in a psychiatric Hospital with a lot of unstable people
      Psychiatrists had the highest suicide rate amongst professionals in Australia for a while & Im sure Nurses have a much higher rate as well

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Před 2 měsíci +16

      @@nurse580yup I'm a mental health nurse in the UK with bipolar disorder. With that comes my own commitment to my mental health albeit over here we suffer much vicarious trauma & appalling working conditions that's the main reason for our mental ill health; I've been off by far more with work related stress

  • @ethorii
    @ethorii Před 2 měsíci +591

    I turn heads too. People prefer to look away from me.

    • @petergianarakos4439
      @petergianarakos4439 Před 2 měsíci +35

      Awww, I bet that you are a fine person inside and outside. It's really the person you are inside that matters. Beauty and "handsome " fade all too soon. Never undervalue or be negative about yourself. ❤

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Před 2 měsíci +19

      Lol.

    • @nellybean69
      @nellybean69 Před 2 měsíci +14

      ❤ 😂

    • @russellgoulding4263
      @russellgoulding4263 Před 2 měsíci +28

      Eat your heart out Rodney Dangerfield.

    • @ethorii
      @ethorii Před 2 měsíci +26

      @@petergianarakos4439 It's just a play on words. I'm a smoke show.

  • @gauthamseran
    @gauthamseran Před 2 měsíci +319

    "The only involvement of a birthday was through the deployment of a birthday suit." Stellar writing.

    • @DAmore143
      @DAmore143 Před 2 měsíci +6

      🥊

    • @russes088
      @russes088 Před 2 měsíci +22

      This one got me so good!! Stone cold delivery as always- Dr. Grande has a PHD in comedy 😂

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Před 2 měsíci +7

      😂

    • @micnorton9487
      @micnorton9487 Před 2 měsíci +6

      COULDA BEEN BETTER lol,, I know it's warped but there should have been a lot more soldier allusions,, "John tried to be all he could be, assigning himself to duty with a real moving unit who kept his pecker hard and his powder dry, but when an enemy incursion happened he almost lost his little spitfire so he got a gun from Navaronne, but he went a bridge too far and ended up standing tall before the man, trading the sands of Iwo jima for a lifetime deployment in The stockade" lol.......

    • @aread7
      @aread7 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Awesome 😎

  • @dawndraper9371
    @dawndraper9371 Před 2 měsíci +462

    Dr. Grande needs merch that's says: "Mostly because of the murder part"

  • @lindareboh-king1064
    @lindareboh-king1064 Před 2 měsíci +739

    Proving. That a psychotherapist licence doesnt insure mental health.

  • @alukuhito
    @alukuhito Před 2 měsíci +78

    Imagine you join the military and the worst thing that could happen to you is to be killed by an enemy in a different country, only to end up being killed by your own wife in your own country?

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I stg, I think about stuff like this all the time. 😢

  • @naturalroyalflush
    @naturalroyalflush Před 2 měsíci +157

    Buying life insurance can be hazardous to your health.

    • @briant7265
      @briant7265 Před 2 měsíci +13

      A friend of mine was shopping for a policy, and they told him they wouldn't write a policy over a certain amount. They told him that insureds with policies over that have a disturbingly high rate of being murdered.

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Před 2 měsíci +2

      of course when trust goe's away!

    • @dwoodstwin
      @dwoodstwin Před 2 měsíci

      @@briant7265🧢

    • @ethorii
      @ethorii Před měsícem +2

      Having it bought for you is even worse.

    • @kathleensueoka3599
      @kathleensueoka3599 Před měsícem +1

      @@ethoriior the day you find out you have Cancer? Your husband hands you a life insurance policy that “just happened to come in the office mail” and told to fill it out asap. Nope!

  • @ea8269
    @ea8269 Před 2 měsíci +315

    Her poor husband was married to the devil.

    • @motowngirl5891
      @motowngirl5891 Před 2 měsíci

      That’s NOT marriage, the man is not even there
      It’s all stupid and unhealthy
      It’s been accepted forever, it should not be

    • @ivannovotny4552
      @ivannovotny4552 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @ea
      No, to nymphomaniac.

    • @superxorn
      @superxorn Před 2 měsíci

      I think they are refering to the homocidal aspect@@ivannovotny4552

    • @natas12rm
      @natas12rm Před 2 měsíci +1

      Am I?

    • @Brando-wc8fz
      @Brando-wc8fz Před měsícem

      @@ivannovotny4552That is disgusting. You are giving nymphomaniacs a bad name because of this monster?

  • @Dark_AbsoI
    @Dark_AbsoI Před 2 měsíci +186

    Usually with these older cases I grit my teeth cause I know the “she was free on parole after serving 3 years” is coming. I’m pleased to see they are both still rotting in prison where they belong.

    • @ew4932
      @ew4932 Před 2 měsíci +9

      Not with the sentences she has. Life sentence plus 13 years in North Carolina. I'm sure that we don't have to worry about that. Especially as she is extremely difficult in prison.

    • @jose2226
      @jose2226 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@ew4932wdym she's difficult?

    • @ashleylala4293
      @ashleylala4293 Před 2 měsíci

      You should look into the DuPont pedo case, very disturbing. Corrupt judge Jan Jurden gave that creep zero jail time because she said he “would not fare well in prison”. Unbelievable.

  • @HealingHappyAli
    @HealingHappyAli Před 2 měsíci +115

    I'm glad she didn't take the 10 year deal; she's the worst kind of evil betrayer. Her husband went to therapy and dates with her, had a good job, and didn't seem to notice what a POS she was. She never appreciated him. 😒

    • @iangallager4091
      @iangallager4091 Před 2 měsíci +12

      photos suggested he looked a really nice guy

    • @jillruben8924
      @jillruben8924 Před 2 měsíci +19

      They offered her only 10 years? Our Justice system at its best.
      Good to know she’s in for life.

    • @kylefaber5449
      @kylefaber5449 Před 2 měsíci +9

      Probably thought she wouldn’t get convicted. If she would have taken it she’d have been out 13 years ago

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Před 2 měsíci +4

      100% indeed!

    • @drkarats6147
      @drkarats6147 Před měsícem

      @@iangallager4091 Yeah and a PEDO XD

  • @aarondavis8943
    @aarondavis8943 Před 2 měsíci +166

    She could have just left him. There was no way an insurance company was going to pay a claim in a motiveless murder where the payee was having an affair, and the police were always going to discover the affair and therefore the killer. These two never gamed out how these events would transpire; they just engaged in some wishful thinking and then acted.
    What a pair of absolute knuckleheads.

    • @mikewood8695
      @mikewood8695 Před 2 měsíci +16

      yeah being a narc doesn't guarantee intelligence or wisdom!

    • @Bold11x
      @Bold11x Před 2 měsíci +9

      Exactly these people actually really believe they are above, and smarter than everyone else. So smart in fact, that they don’t need to plan too much or over think little details, because we’re all so small and ignorant that we’ll all be fooled. They believe we’re are foolish for following “the rules” because they have gotten away with breaking them every time….until they don’t, and it’s beautiful to watch them squirm and have to face their utter ignorance when they get caught. Jodi Arias comes to mind here

    • @BadForYourKidneys
      @BadForYourKidneys Před měsícem

      @@Bold11x very true, a narcissist literally cannot read the room.

    • @robynmarler1951
      @robynmarler1951 Před 19 dny

      Aaron it's all too often the case🙁

  • @shameronstar7220
    @shameronstar7220 Před 2 měsíci +428

    Poor Marty, he seemed like a stand up and handsome man and this is how he gets repaid for serving his country? SMH

    • @grbggaming6885
      @grbggaming6885 Před 2 měsíci +28

      Unfortunately it happens a lot to servicemen

    • @Tyler-vw9bh
      @Tyler-vw9bh Před 2 měsíci +66

      Unfortunately my experience in the military showed me that 90% of military wives don't view their husband's service (or mediocre paycheck lol) as sufficient motivators to stay faithful.
      The situation is made worse by the fact they live in a town that is 80% physically fit, testosterone-filled, lonely college-aged males. I learned to assume any woman within 20 miles of base was married. Even worse are the 'brothers' who couldn't care either way.
      I would say 80-90% of my friends' wives got caught cheating. I've never been married, I would like to be but that experience has made me very apprehensive/worried.

    • @perennialxennial
      @perennialxennial Před 2 měsíci +18

      In the military they call them Jodie's.

    • @gregevans6044
      @gregevans6044 Před 2 měsíci +6

      And he’s got your Cadillac. So, there ain’t no use in lookin’ back.

    • @augustek5382
      @augustek5382 Před 2 měsíci

      @@Tyler-vw9bh lol so just military wives that cheat but military men do not. Looks like the other cheater in this story was also a military man.

  • @JT1358
    @JT1358 Před 2 měsíci +72

    I worked in a pathology lab for many years. When phoning lab results to our psych wards we could never be sure who had picked the phone up at the other end. There's often a fine line between the patients and those staff in those places.

  • @pam7500
    @pam7500 Před 2 měsíci +56

    They both threw their lives away because of lust. I feel bad for her husband. He was innocent in all this.

  • @WilberforceWooster-uo2bl
    @WilberforceWooster-uo2bl Před 2 měsíci +121

    I don't know about turning heads, but her photos certainly turn my stomach.

    • @raspberrykitten6676
      @raspberrykitten6676 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Bertie!!
      👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

    • @iangallager4091
      @iangallager4091 Před 2 měsíci +14

      she had a very misty mirror in the bathroom and it told as many lies as she did throughout her life

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Před 2 měsíci

      made me turn away too!

    • @ashleylala4293
      @ashleylala4293 Před 2 měsíci

      Lol!

    • @MisterCaution
      @MisterCaution Před 2 měsíci +2

      Turned heads because it’s not often one sees a human face without lips.

  • @poetcomic1
    @poetcomic1 Před 2 měsíci +118

    How can you live with, sleep with, eat with, know a man for years and then MURDER him.

    • @tomz1daful
      @tomz1daful Před 2 měsíci

      Men are ruthless romantics trying to be practical, women are ruthlessly practical, trying to be romantic.

    • @ryanoneal8480
      @ryanoneal8480 Před 2 měsíci

      lol considering how often ppl murder their spouse im really not sure how youre surprised

    • @istudios225
      @istudios225 Před měsícem +11

      You easily can if you have no soul. It would be like brushing their teeth or deciding what to have for lunch. No conscience is involved because they don't have one.

    • @spiroclimb2523
      @spiroclimb2523 Před měsícem +14

      Definition of a pyschopath

    • @gr8-fun162
      @gr8-fun162 Před měsícem

      Easy. Just be a typical woman. Women do not love like men do, and are ruled by their emotions. Like children, they are fickle. Once they decide they are unhappy, the switch turns off and they have NO consideration of the man and what he has done for them in the past. It's all about how he makes them feel in the moment. Mix that with female hypergamy, and she will always figure there is a "better option" out there for her. She'll dump the current guy in a heartbeat and have no second thoughts about destroying him in divorce court, or in this case, ending him. Because they don't accept accountability, she will actually find ways to blame the guy and justify her behavior.
      All that stuff seen in movies and in stories about women being sugar, spice, and everything nice, is just a fairytale. Never forget that.

  • @karilynn3535
    @karilynn3535 Před 2 měsíci +69

    The arrogance of thinking you can get away with murder astounds me.

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes, it never ceases to amaze me that people think they’ll get away with murder.

    • @markhillary7402
      @markhillary7402 Před 2 měsíci +7

      And she’s not even an Israeli prime minister!

    • @michaelterango3074
      @michaelterango3074 Před 2 měsíci

      lol

    • @NathanHigger
      @NathanHigger Před 2 měsíci

      @@markhillary7402based

    • @Zach.3246
      @Zach.3246 Před 2 měsíci +3

      People get away with murder all the time…

  • @CB-ke9rs
    @CB-ke9rs Před 2 měsíci +41

    Therapists fall into two categories: those who obtain the education in an attempt to heal themselves or those who have a genuine desire to help others.

    • @Hithere-dc2qx
      @Hithere-dc2qx Před měsícem +1

      That is wise.

    • @tambourine36
      @tambourine36 Před měsícem

      Yes!

    • @EvelynTokamp
      @EvelynTokamp Před 2 dny

      It is easy to think that way, with no doubts involved @CB-ke9rs. Saves one a lot of brain work.

  • @littlemissliv100
    @littlemissliv100 Před 2 měsíci +45

    I like it when dr grande says “mostly because of the murder part.”

  • @margonaut
    @margonaut Před 2 měsíci +103

    just break up no need for these shenanigans

    • @lynnmartz8739
      @lynnmartz8739 Před 2 měsíci +13

      It sounds like she came up with 500,000 reasons when making her decision...

  • @SiganQ
    @SiganQ Před 2 měsíci +150

    Why can't I ever get the therapists that are sexually insatiable? I only ever get the sexually satiable ones and, often I find, they're already sated before I meet them. It's really sad

    • @banjopete
      @banjopete Před 2 měsíci +5

      All the ones I know are as Randy as Rabbits!

    • @fairy12324
      @fairy12324 Před 2 měsíci +5

      😂

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Před měsícem +1

      When I think about something that bothers me. I don't try to figure out why. I just stop.

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Před měsícem +2

      If you have a dog, talk to it. At least it will listen and it want give you bad advice.

    • @christopherlehnert7071
      @christopherlehnert7071 Před 18 dny

      @@ratdad48 14 years. THERAPY. a good cat. miss her

  • @Schnauzerpatrol
    @Schnauzerpatrol Před 2 měsíci +187

    Deployment of bday suit😂. You are a master of language Dr Grande

  • @DominicMagrinoMassageTherapist
    @DominicMagrinoMassageTherapist Před 2 měsíci +73

    Hi Dr Grande, don’t know if you read the comments but I wanted to say thank you. Watching your videos has helped me to recognize a lot of significant behavioral and psychiatric issues that are greatly affecting my life in almost every way right now, and if I look back they’ve always been there, its just I couldn’t recognize them. Because of you and your videos I’ve taken the steps to start receiving mental health treatment. I don’t even know how to thank you 🙏

    • @SpicyMango7
      @SpicyMango7 Před 2 měsíci +18

      From a random internet stranger: I’m proud of you 😊

    • @tanikajones6213
      @tanikajones6213 Před 2 měsíci +12

      This is amazing. I wish you all the best ❤

    • @briant7265
      @briant7265 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Best wishes, for sure!

    • @greatamericandreamrealtyli6583
      @greatamericandreamrealtyli6583 Před 2 měsíci +2

      It takes a strong person to admit that and an even stronger person to correct it. Best of wishes to you!

  • @p52893
    @p52893 Před 2 měsíci +120

    One look and I realize why I love my stamp collection.

    • @user-wr1yh2zw6l
      @user-wr1yh2zw6l Před 20 dny +1

      Do you really have a stamp collection?

    • @p52893
      @p52893 Před 20 dny

      @@user-wr1yh2zw6l just suggesting that human beans need hobbies, keeps um out of trouble

  • @adamantman3200
    @adamantman3200 Před 2 měsíci +61

    'I turn heads.', YES! But in which direction?

    • @tambourine36
      @tambourine36 Před měsícem +2

      Narcissism

    • @erikkibler3466
      @erikkibler3466 Před 17 dny

      average to below average women thinking they’re way more attractive than they are is a plague.

  • @tripledair
    @tripledair Před 2 měsíci +110

    Turns head…away.

    • @danielkomorowski7966
      @danielkomorowski7966 Před 2 měsíci +8

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @GeeBee909
      @GeeBee909 Před 2 měsíci +2

      The Exorcist comes to mind. Also, clearly she didn't have any mirrors in her house. She was "writing checks" that her body couldn't cash🤣🤣🤣

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Před 2 měsíci +1

      sure turned mine away!

  • @hrdley911
    @hrdley911 Před 2 měsíci +285

    Tip for a happy marriage: DON'T CHEAT!

    • @riblets1968
      @riblets1968 Před 2 měsíci +21

      That's easy enough to say, but there are two problems with this advice: 1) it ignores why people cheat in the first place and 2) even if the unsatisfied/marginalized spouse steadfastly refuses to cheat, he can still be quite miserable.

    • @donna119
      @donna119 Před 2 měsíci +46

      @@riblets1968Tell me you’re a cheat without telling me you’re a cheat 😂

    • @M.Kabane
      @M.Kabane Před 2 měsíci +19

      A "happy"marriage is based on several factors. Cheating is only the aftermath.

    • @SinisterScoundrel6562
      @SinisterScoundrel6562 Před 2 měsíci +25

      Or just don't get married. Saves health, money, and resources.

    • @Ann-sj4pt
      @Ann-sj4pt Před 2 měsíci +18

      @@riblets1968leave then.

  • @JustineBrownsBookshelf
    @JustineBrownsBookshelf Před 2 měsíci +20

    Our culture’s reduction of sex to recreation hasn’t served us well.

    • @marcoprolo1488
      @marcoprolo1488 Před měsícem

      Let's not exaggerate. It's fairly rare to end up that badly.

    • @JustineBrownsBookshelf
      @JustineBrownsBookshelf Před měsícem +3

      @@marcoprolo1488 No, what I said was an understatement. The number of ill effects from the Sexual Revolution are in fact staggering.

    • @marcoprolo1488
      @marcoprolo1488 Před měsícem

      @@JustineBrownsBookshelf Yeah, loads of puritans out there that want to control other people sexuality. I'll never understood why. I could not care less personally.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 Před 2 měsíci +37

    Your and your dog are so cute together. Yes, I watched the Factor commercial. And John didn't act alone. Michelle is where she should be.

  • @theglobalvagabond3074
    @theglobalvagabond3074 Před 2 měsíci +102

    The first problem is purchasing a Pontiac Firebird. The second is his buddy needs to be charged with stupidity. Who loans a deadly weapon to a friend??? SMH.

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Před 2 měsíci +2

      So who would one loan a deadly weapon to. An enemy?

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Anything can be a deadly weapon.

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Firearms in general shouldn't be accessible to the general public. Sure we have knife crime in the UK but thank God we don't have guns to contend with as well

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Před 2 měsíci

      @Tified96 Criminals don't give a shit about laws. Therefore, they will always possess guns. So your bright idea would be to disarm the law abiding general public and leave them at the mercy of an armed criminal. The authorities are always 20 or more minutes away but will arrive to draw a chalk line around your dead body. Very deep thinking you got going there.

    • @cg5648
      @cg5648 Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@Tified967, your knife crime is unbelievable. At least in America, as a law abiding citizen I have the right to carry a handgun for protection.

  • @emmapeel8163
    @emmapeel8163 Před 2 měsíci +61

    15:08 .. by far, the weirdest people i've ever met were psychotherapists, psychiatrists & their children.

    • @staciacrick3373
      @staciacrick3373 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Psychiatrists earn a medical degree while Psychotherapists can come from a counseling, Family and Marriage therapist with a PHD and clinical Social Worker. All have very different coursework. Psychiatrists aren’t focused on feelings/ emotions as much as the other degree’s.

    • @staciacrick3373
      @staciacrick3373 Před 2 měsíci +6

      Also, life coaches are not licensed, likely do not hold a degree in the Psychology or other therapy focus nor regulated by any professional board.

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I wouldn't put psychotherapists & psychiatrists in the same bracket; completely different mental health paradigms

    • @thecorrectoification
      @thecorrectoification Před 2 měsíci

      Me too!

    • @kevinowens6010
      @kevinowens6010 Před 2 měsíci

      Extremely bent. Married one and dated three. I don't do that behavior anymore.
      Many never fix their damage, but will jump in and screw you up with enthusiasm.

  • @lilacbazzi493
    @lilacbazzi493 Před 2 měsíci +49

    I hear that theres a good percentage of Psychotherapists that are truly mentally ill themselves that's why they're interested in psychotherapy to begin with. Except of course Dr Grande coz he's the best! His analysis is always spot on!

    • @PositiveMommaLife
      @PositiveMommaLife Před 2 měsíci +7

      Wounded healer theory

    • @felixjones9198
      @felixjones9198 Před 2 měsíci +11

      My former girlfriend was a family psychologist, she was good at her job, lovely to behold, but completely insane.

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I think people forget the sheer level of intellectualism it takes to be a psychotherapist & you have to go under continual therapy to practice legally

    • @geraldfriend256
      @geraldfriend256 Před 2 měsíci +1

      How about a couples counselor with kids and no steady relationship? They’re out there trust me

    • @reneelibby4885
      @reneelibby4885 Před 2 měsíci

      out of 4 - one was harmful and bAtsh*T

  • @festina_lente7655
    @festina_lente7655 Před 2 měsíci +162

    Martin Theer wasn't an enlistee. He graduated from the Air Force Academy and fulfilled his commitment to serve.

    • @andrews527
      @andrews527 Před 2 měsíci +4

      A noble set of junk.

    • @swl9104
      @swl9104 Před 2 měsíci +2

      What's your trouble?

    • @jbinmd
      @jbinmd Před 2 měsíci +12

      Yes, hard to go from enlistee to captain.

    • @joshuabekel9700
      @joshuabekel9700 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@andrews527???

    • @blainechild9068
      @blainechild9068 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@andrews527you've done nothing

  • @Somegirl811
    @Somegirl811 Před 2 měsíci +29

    How can these people even live with themselves.

  • @markferguson3745
    @markferguson3745 Před 2 měsíci +58

    Part of the reason that I changed my Psych major was realizing that the majority of my professors were mentally dubious themselves, in a few cases, perhaps dangerously.You often hear that those in the field became interested due to their own challenges and issues, and I've found that to be the case.Even in talking with less acredited counselors, I'd advise circumspection.I know several people who have been given heavily biased and poor advice that ultimately had a negative impact on their lives, and their mental health,- particulaly where medications were involved.
    Get a second opinion, and avoid those that champion specialized agendas.

    • @christinelee4780
      @christinelee4780 Před 2 měsíci +4

      I work in the university sector, and I came to know that a lecturer whose area of expertise was the dark triad of personality was also a sexual predator

    • @jeffrey501green
      @jeffrey501green Před 2 měsíci +8

      The majority of head-shrinkers are alot crazier than their patients....

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yup I hate the biomedical model of mental ill health sure psychiatry has a role but isn't the be all & and all

    • @oldrandon
      @oldrandon Před 2 měsíci

      I worked in a psych. department over 20 years ago as someone with only a bachelor's degree. The Ph.D. who ran the department was a total narcissist (and bigot). All the psychologists in the department hated him.

    • @chadx8269
      @chadx8269 Před 2 měsíci +1

      There are several Phd psychologist in Prison, one is in Florida name Touchton-Williams. They are crazy and known it, that why they study Psychology.

  • @karen-dh8dp
    @karen-dh8dp Před 2 měsíci +22

    As a side note, I loved the video of you with your dog, as you displayed the food. Both of you were looking right at the camera and both of you were smiling.

  • @tyrone4u559
    @tyrone4u559 Před 2 měsíci +29

    Never ever let someone back into your life or forgive them for betraying you; they will despise you for your weakness and continue to take advantage of you.

    • @kevinowens6010
      @kevinowens6010 Před 2 měsíci +1

      It's absolutely true.

    • @Malama_Ki
      @Malama_Ki Před 2 měsíci +3

      FACTS!!!! When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

    • @armynurseshark
      @armynurseshark Před měsícem +4

      That sounds harsh but it’s true- I learned the hard way

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Před 2 měsíci +46

    I remember when this happened. So Heartless. Rest In Peace Marty 🥀🥀🥀🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @pambennett3390
    @pambennett3390 Před 2 měsíci +25

    Thank God there are no children involved.

  • @blondefro
    @blondefro Před 2 měsíci +44

    Spoiler alert: does *not* turn heads

  • @notozknows
    @notozknows Před 2 měsíci +50

    Wow, I would be so mad at myself for turning down that 10 years instead of life.

    • @taydestiny38
      @taydestiny38 Před 2 měsíci +10

      It shouldn’t have been offered in the first place.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Yes, same. She was actually offered inside 10 years, so she probably would have been out on good behaviour much earlier.

    • @Seeker0fTruth
      @Seeker0fTruth Před 2 měsíci +5

      I’d be mad at myself for far more than THAT particular error in judgement…🙃

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Před 2 měsíci

      this is good example when your stupid and greedy!!!

  • @jdd3786
    @jdd3786 Před 2 měsíci +25

    It's crazy how all these stories that involve infidelity are exactly the same. Just the names and places are different.

    • @robinkuruda5249
      @robinkuruda5249 Před měsícem +2

      Exactly!! Man I am glad my wife just divorced me …I love her for that …

  • @enjoystraveling
    @enjoystraveling Před 2 měsíci +100

    Is an affair really worth all that prison time? Both of them were fools

    • @sheilagravely5621
      @sheilagravely5621 Před 2 měsíci

      She'll be getting a different kind of sex in prison.😊

    • @MarlinWilliams-ts5ul
      @MarlinWilliams-ts5ul Před 2 měsíci +3

      She had to have it. Now she's not getting any,

    • @Thatsinteresting363
      @Thatsinteresting363 Před 2 měsíci +2

      She’s not in prison for having an affair.

    • @tambourine36
      @tambourine36 Před měsícem

      Not worth it at all. Leave someone alone if you want someone else don't torture them. Let them move on and you take a hike. Should have gotten some treatment for nymphomania if she needed sex that bad and there was no love involved. Sounds like early childhood rape victim acting out with hypersexuality. Go get some therapy. Check your hormone levels. Poor self control. I guess there will be lots of opportunities in jail to counsel inmates or find lots of sexual partners. She's not well enough to help others and is clearly a predator who has shut off emotional and uses sex for her own gratification. See how it goes but hopefully she gets a thorough assessment.

    • @tambourine36
      @tambourine36 Před měsícem

      ​@@MarlinWilliams-ts5ulMaybe jail will be her next play spot😢

  • @lizmonard
    @lizmonard Před 2 měsíci +31

    In my experience, many people with mental illness/ psychiatric disorders are attracted to the psychology / psychiatric fields because of their own self obsession! My nursing course decades ago included psychiatric nurses who were doing required extra courses , and boy, there were some VERY strange ppl there! 😂

  • @marlaroberts2087
    @marlaroberts2087 Před 2 měsíci +38

    The guilty always have the same laundry list of evil attributes! Poor Marty!

  • @nhmooytis7058
    @nhmooytis7058 Před 2 měsíci +33

    ...”deployment of a birthday suit”...caught me with a mouthful of chicken soup 😮

  • @thesilversurfer7136
    @thesilversurfer7136 Před 2 měsíci +20

    Dr. Kenneth Pope did a study on psychiatrists and their patients in 1976. He found that a full 55% of psychiatrists emotions were just as skewed as their patients.

  • @25Soupy
    @25Soupy Před 2 měsíci +17

    After watching video after video I can't believe how many people don't just get a divorce opposed to murder.

  • @urielflames3799
    @urielflames3799 Před 2 měsíci +78

    Marty was a handsome good man. RIP Marty

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Před 2 měsíci +20

      I don't understand why people murder instead of divorce. It's unfathomable that they value money over human life.

    • @DonaldDump2024
      @DonaldDump2024 Před 16 dny

      Handsome and had a great career. They could’ve had a great life together. High school sweethearts. How sad.

    • @EvelynTokamp
      @EvelynTokamp Před 2 dny +1

      Good and innocent because he was handsome @urielflames3799? Playing devil`s advocate here.

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Před dnem +1

      @@EvelynTokamp lol Like beauty, handsome is in the eyes of the beholder. I personally wouldn't consider him handsome but that's me:-) I guess if one is attracted to the Tom Cruise type they might consider Marty to be handsome, but Tom Cruise never did anything for me. lol In saying that, your point is well taken, just because someone is beautiful or handsome doesn't mean they aren't evil and capable of murder. I remember seeing a photo once of an exceptionally beautiful woman who was accused of having her fiancee killed just so she could collect a sizeable insurance policy. I always wondered if she had gotten off based on her incredible looks. I never followed up on the case, but looks has nothing to do with it.

    • @EvelynTokamp
      @EvelynTokamp Před dnem +1

      @@dissidentfairy4264 Thanks for your reply 😀😉!

  • @JJ-ui4ph
    @JJ-ui4ph Před 2 měsíci +13

    I’ve never understood In cases like this why they don’t simply get a divorce. Instead of killing the person and potentially going to prison, why not just get a divorce? Another thing is how many men was she having sex with before she got married? It’s as if she didn’t understand what was being asked of her in marriage. She clearly wanted to have more sex with men after she got married. Why get married in the first place?

  • @tomnohmy1273
    @tomnohmy1273 Před 2 měsíci +10

    I would consider patreon but Dr Grandes voice causes me to fall asleep so I always forget.

  • @Ironboots123
    @Ironboots123 Před 2 měsíci +15

    I almost spit out the vodka in my mouth when you mentioned birthday suit 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @Candokettlebells
    @Candokettlebells Před 2 měsíci +83

    The birthday suit reference killed me 😂❤

    • @MiaQuacko
      @MiaQuacko Před 2 měsíci +4

      I thought maybe there was some sort of birthday cake situation but thankfully there wasn’t

    • @nickid5210
      @nickid5210 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I am in tears😅 ... lol it was tooo early in the morning for that play on words 😂

    • @MiaQuacko
      @MiaQuacko Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@nickid5210 the way how he just says it without ANY emotion cracks me the hell up. I would give it away and go on and on and on about it but he just drops the line in there like with ice in his veins lolol

    • @nickid5210
      @nickid5210 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@MiaQuacko Dr. Grande is the best, the videos are just long enough with enough information and you have to sometimes listen twice to catch his play on words lol😂.

    • @christopherlehnert7071
      @christopherlehnert7071 Před 18 dny +2

      @@nickid5210 and this one is the BEST of the best

  • @Gallop4Me
    @Gallop4Me Před 2 měsíci +16

    I always want to ask the guy in a situation like this, "Well, was she worth it?" 😮

  • @buzzcrushtrendkill
    @buzzcrushtrendkill Před 2 měsíci +23

    Anecdotal, but every person that I've known to study Psychology are ultimately motivated to pursue that to understand something about themselves.

    • @Catherinzsl
      @Catherinzsl Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yes, but I think there's a spectrum between wanting to understand and better oneself (and others), and being a manipulative, homicidal demon.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Which is actually very healthy and it's a shame more people don't want to gain insight and self-awareness.

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Před 2 měsíci

      @@24JJ821exactly. I'm a mental health professional with bipolar. Yes I want to enlighten myself and ultimately to pass that insight on to the young people I work with which I believe I do my best to do. It's shocking in society how surface level & unaware most people are. I had a lot to deal with re childhood trauma & also having bipolar disorder...The onus is on me to deal with those demons before beginning the process of helping others.

    • @buzzcrushtrendkill
      @buzzcrushtrendkill Před 2 měsíci

      @@24JJ821 there are others ways then to pursue degrees.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@buzzcrushtrendkill Yes there is, so why rubbish people who have degrees?? It's always people who don't have higher education who do that. Deal with your own insecurities and leave those of us with higher education alone.

  • @Paul-ou1rx
    @Paul-ou1rx Před 2 měsíci +14

    Once there is infidelity, the offending partner can be trusted to leave the room to make toast. Going out of town for an unknown classmate? Hell no.

  • @pearlsbeforeswine60
    @pearlsbeforeswine60 Před 2 měsíci +35

    Yikes, Dr Grande! That Factor PR photo of you scared the living bejesus out of me..I have never seen you smile and was not even sure you had teeth. I'm settling down now.
    And hello there, small white dog.

  • @virginialangford6257
    @virginialangford6257 Před 2 měsíci +30

    I quite admire your wife’s Easter rabbit salt and pepper shakers…she has a wonderful eye for home decor.

    • @totti.
      @totti. Před 2 měsíci

      He made it himself

  • @sophiaandre139
    @sophiaandre139 Před 2 měsíci +36

    Your dog is awfully cute!

    • @dallynutkat3252
      @dallynutkat3252 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I came here to say this. He / she is adorable 🥰

  • @twown
    @twown Před 2 měsíci +22

    Look how gently Doc stabs that Factor box.

  • @nataliapolova2850
    @nataliapolova2850 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Your videos are so peaceful! I wish they were a little longer but I'll just listen to them back to back before bed! Your voice is so soothing and the lack of background noise and music and sound fx make for an easy slumber!

  • @cobracommander8133
    @cobracommander8133 Před 2 měsíci +19

    I'm curious about the schools she got her doctrate and undergrad eduction from??

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 Před 2 měsíci +13

    For having a PhD, Michelle fortunately didn’t know how to avoid prosecution.
    (I love the Factor ads Doc cause I get to see the puppies 😊)

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Před 2 měsíci +24

    I love your sense of humor, Dr. Grande!🤣😂🤣😂

  • @Swansong321
    @Swansong321 Před 2 měsíci +52

    SO .. become therapists bc they've got serious issues themselves...mental health professional with mental issues are shockingly commonplace!😜

    • @crabofchaos7881
      @crabofchaos7881 Před 2 měsíci

      It's not shocking if you consider how many people experience issues with mental health. 1 in 8 people in the world live with a mental disorder, according to WHO. 12.5%, man.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Před 2 měsíci +10

      Very. You want to see sick? Meet social workers and therapists 🤯

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Před 2 měsíci +1

      So it's common for therapists to be narcissistic murderers? Lol.

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Yup when you work in the appalling conditions we work in & are overworked & the vicarious trauma we suffer it's hardly surprising

    • @yankeecitygirl
      @yankeecitygirl Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@Tified967 the pay is barely livable. It’s the heartless psychos who move up the chain that pull the big bucks. There are good people in social work and the mental health field, though. When you encounter them they are a treasure

  • @jacobhope6164
    @jacobhope6164 Před 2 měsíci +10

    I'm a psychotherapist, and I will say this much: I will not be becoming a supervisor for trainees, or associates like I initially planned. These new generations of therapists are just too much! I'll take a professorship instead, and start gatekeeping like nobody's business.

  • @sBaum
    @sBaum Před 2 měsíci +13

    The good old birthday suit bit got a good chuckle out of me

  • @tplummer217
    @tplummer217 Před 2 měsíci +23

    You couldn’t make up a better name for a home wrecker than John Diamond.

  • @drewintampa
    @drewintampa Před 2 měsíci +17

    Given the amount of adjectives Dr. Grande used to describe Michelle, I believe it would be safe to say that he is not her number one fan. =)

  • @sandrabaker1312
    @sandrabaker1312 Před 2 měsíci +18

    Dr Grande makes me laugh with his quirky comments 🤣.

  • @gabe_2544
    @gabe_2544 Před 2 měsíci +13

    I bet there was an uptick in online sales of men’s hairpieces. Those who couldn’t afford it or didn’t want to wait bought the spray.

  • @megret1808
    @megret1808 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Proves my belief that many go into psychotherapy as a profession because they feel uneasy about themselves and want to know why

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Před 2 měsíci

      Whilst this is true we have to understand that psychotherapy is a postgraduate masters degree incorporating a lot of philosophy, psychology etc; it's an extremely demanding course both academically & mentally plus you have to undergo consistent therapy yourself to practice. The vast majority of the population have trauma in some form indeed it's a mark of resilience- we need some trauma as a prerequisite for healthy development. At least they're willing to explore & face that trauma whereas a high percentage of the population walk around completely unaware & with little self introspection. This lady is indeed an exception to the norm in psychotherapy.

  • @coryskizm
    @coryskizm Před 2 měsíci +10

    Yoooo 😂😂😂the flip from the microwave meal to the timeline of the crime with that picture of Dr Grande smiling ,,,fucking took me out..😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭

  • @Angelica2020
    @Angelica2020 Před měsícem +2

    I went to HS with her. she graduated in my husbands class - 1988.
    I met her husband at one of the HS reunions. Very nice guy.

  • @Decgyrrl
    @Decgyrrl Před 2 měsíci +7

    A story as old as time, almost. Same crime, just different faces. Evil is always busy. I feel bad for her husband. Poor guy.🕊

  • @TheKatyPB
    @TheKatyPB Před 2 měsíci +14

    Your pup is adorable❤

  • @opium77757
    @opium77757 Před 2 měsíci +31

    Dr. Grande: Your channel is very entertaining & I look forward to "daily visitation."🎉

  • @ArtistFormerlyKnownAsShitlord
    @ArtistFormerlyKnownAsShitlord Před měsícem +5

    The irony of her requesting "Must be emotionally stable" on her dating profile.

  • @simonsmith7251
    @simonsmith7251 Před měsícem +3

    She's such a lovely person and shines a light on the mental health profession.

  • @thevaleyard69
    @thevaleyard69 Před 2 měsíci +81

    Over 6 feet tall and not balding. God i hope she falls for Danny DeVito

    • @ktkt9982
      @ktkt9982 Před 2 měsíci +3

      😅

    • @saraprva4172
      @saraprva4172 Před 2 měsíci

      Only if he identifies as Danielle DeVito & gets sent to female prison. Thankfully she won't be getting any "D" where she is serving her time

    • @pannamal5182
      @pannamal5182 Před 2 měsíci +2

      In prison

    • @Brendawallingbear
      @Brendawallingbear Před 2 měsíci +5

      Danny DeVito is not in prison and he has a really cute fun wife and they love each other.

    • @pannamal5182
      @pannamal5182 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@Brendawallingbear if Danny should identify as female she’s in luck I suppose

  • @ninehundreddollarluxuryyac5958
    @ninehundreddollarluxuryyac5958 Před 2 měsíci +11

    I knew the intro was an April fools joke because you rolled your eyes to your right instead of your left when you say "a situation like this". Your dog in the Factor commercial is adorable.

  • @MrJacktown5
    @MrJacktown5 Před 2 měsíci +13

    “The Deployment of a bday suit” doc, I wasn’t ready for that one 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀

  • @ceilconstante640
    @ceilconstante640 Před 2 měsíci +51

    Just another important reason to know the traits of a Narscissts and pay attention to red flags! And take your time to get to know someone. People with Michelle's traits will never make a good partner.

    • @hallowedmeadow4636
      @hallowedmeadow4636 Před 2 měsíci +3

      This comment is an important reason to learn grammar.

    • @JeannetteShoreland
      @JeannetteShoreland Před 2 měsíci +2

      Michael Dippolito would agree 5000%

    • @Hilz28
      @Hilz28 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@hallowedmeadow4636I've seen worse.

  • @dmr4450
    @dmr4450 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Those puns are pure gold, Dr. Grande. 😂 Makes me smile first thing on my timeline.

  • @LadyBabaji
    @LadyBabaji Před 2 měsíci +6

    That picture at the end of the factor ad of you and your white puppy, absolutely made my day! A picture of joy 🤩

  • @herewegokids7
    @herewegokids7 Před 2 měsíci +5

    "Mostly bc of the murder part" gets me every time 😅😅

  • @EB-wl9st
    @EB-wl9st Před měsícem +2

    My favorite part of today's sponsor and Dr Grande's videos is that I get to see the doggies and I get to see the bunny salt and pepper shakers every time. It's somehow familiar and comforting❤❤❤

  • @glendasully
    @glendasully Před 2 měsíci +15

    Marty was a handsome & successful man & was too good for the harlot. It's so sad he couldn't see that

  • @janetrogers4738
    @janetrogers4738 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Divorce never enters these peoples minds.

    • @ayomidel
      @ayomidel Před 2 měsíci +3

      There's no life insurance policy attached to that.

    • @janetrogers4738
      @janetrogers4738 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@ayomidel But there's no prison time attached to divorce Ty for the explanation.

  • @madelainepetrin1430
    @madelainepetrin1430 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Psychology attracts crazies. Not all of them are, but sizeable numbers are not quite sane.

  • @d.f.9064
    @d.f.9064 Před měsícem +2

    Having studied to be a therapist I can tell you MANY people get into the profession because they themselves need help. I confess I was no exception. Because mental health treatment is usually long and expensive, trying to cure yourself through self help shows motivation and initiative. I found, being emotionally damaged myself, I didn't like working with others with similar problems.

  • @alukuhito
    @alukuhito Před 2 měsíci +6

    Dr. Grande, can you analyze the case of Robert Pickton, the Canadian serial killer? Lynn Ellingsen was my elementary school classmate, but when she became an adult, she befriended him and became the key witness against him.

  • @chelseaavalos3402
    @chelseaavalos3402 Před 2 měsíci +3

    His smile in the factory ads always gets me coming back for another video

  • @rachaelb.
    @rachaelb. Před 2 měsíci +7

    I always laugh when Dr. Grande says, "...mostly because of the murder part."

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Před 2 měsíci +34

    Hope you can cover the Sam & Marilyn Sheppard case. Thanks for all your work, Dr.Grande.

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I second that I’m from Bay Village where it happened, born 2 years before . We lived 4 blocks away! Who do you think did it?

    • @rayross997
      @rayross997 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@nhmooytis7058 I am inclined to think Sam killed Marilyn and staged the crime scene. I watched a video where a former FBI agent said that F. Lee Bailey, while speaking to a group of law students had admitted that Sam was guilty. Bailey said he argued the case on the grounds that Sam did not get quote, "a fair trial". Maybe Dr. Grande can give his speculation on the case. Who do you think did it?

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@rayross997 well my dad who was best friends with the BV cop on the scene and saw photos said it was the then Mayor of BV Spencer Houk because he was having an affair with Marilyn. (The cop thought she was beaten by someone wearing brass knuckles). My mom’s hairdresser said it was Sam’s mother because she had bushy hair! I’m honestly not sure myself, but I don’t think it was the window washer which was Sam’s son’s theory. My dad felt Sam got railroaded by Louis Seltzer of the Cleveland Press. When I was in HS my guidance counselor lived in the former Sheppard house which I found creepy. It was torn down some years ago...early 2000s I think.

    • @raspberrykitten6676
      @raspberrykitten6676 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Definitely would like to hear about what might be happening in a case like this 👀

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@raspberrykitten6676 but only speculating 🤔

  • @debbiec4530
    @debbiec4530 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Awww gimme those bunny salt and pepper shakers! 🤠💕🐰

  • @KaraLey98
    @KaraLey98 Před 2 měsíci +13

    I have to wonder what kind of “heads” she turned..