Confidence and Fear | Shivani Patil | TEDxTCET
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- čas přidán 4. 11. 2019
- Shivani Patil is a fashion and lifestyle influencer and is also known for documenting travel on her blog. While she was pursuing a degree in mass media, she found a way to get a step closer to pursuing her passion and becoming a fashion blogger. She started her first blog "The F Drug" at the age of 18. Since then she has been associated with different brands like Skechers, Tresemme, Titan, Loreal, Abu Dhabi Tourism and more.
Shivani talks about the challenges she has faced as a person lacking self-confidence and how she overcame them. Her one small decision to sign up for a beauty pageant in college lead her to launch her very own fashion blog. She talks about how one should be true to the person they are and not drown in self-doubt by making comparisons with others. Shivani Patil is a blogger and a fashion and lifestyle influencer. She is also known for documenting travel on her blog. While she was pursuing a degree in Mass Media, she found a way to get a step closer to becoming a fashion blogger. Unknown to the industry, she started her first blog "The F Drug" at the age of 18. Since then she has come a long way and has associated with different brands like Skechers, Tresseme, Titan, Loreal, Abu Dhabi Tourism and more. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
introvert dont need to become extrovert you just need to be more confidence amd fearless
So ture 😇😇
They will automatically become extrovert then
@@busyhacker3286 you will still be introvert since you are not talking to many people but still be confident
@@akshaysomkuwar6644 for getting confidence..you need to do experiments..you need to get out of your comfort zone.. which means you have to talk to people .and because of that you will slowly become extrovert
@@akshaysomkuwar6644 there is a myth that extrovert people are confident.... Extrovert people talks so much but still they hide their weaknesses ...
Who clickd on video looking her beautiful face
Mee she's so beautiful
😉
me
abey saale
Me
if you think you are not confident enough, go to places you have never been before and watch people, spend some time there... it will change your thinking about the life and will boost your confidence
it will work... thank me later
Superb bro
Your right
Let me see
avin # how to convince ur parents for this? 🙃
@@sakshisrivastava4320literally i don't know.... but one who tries to find a way gets the way
The fact she was brave enough to get on stage says a lot!!! Blesses to this Queen!
Videos of people coming out and talking about their fears and insecurities is not only brave, but helps me feel less alone about my own problems. Bravo for coming out and also inspiring others in their own journeys of self-improvement.
cant order food
cant travel alone
cant answer unknown no.
yup she is talking about me in the video
Dude she is talking about her childhood
@@Muhammad_Hasan i know... And yup that's my teenage too!
About me.
So....now.... can you see some changes in your nature after listen her???
Stoo lying
Who is here to learn english ? 🙃
Mee too
Mee😊
Me👤
I am also
It's me ....😊
It fills so relatable when she talks about her fear of not doing small and easy things .
Who else thinks like she speaking about me while speaking about herself 😂 ?
Me😂😂
Me...
Exactly me bro
🙋🏻♀️
Me
I almost saw "myself" when you were talking. That's me, the anxious and scared teenager who pushes herself everyday to make small steps towards success.
Same here,
As I was listening her talk It made me realise that im not alone having these problems and we can get over them.
dont worry, u both are still a unsuccessful person
@@geniusvirtuoso3472 shut up!!
same here..
@@sajidsutar9631 same here
This is the first ever talk in which i could connect with each and every word said by her THANK YOU SO MUCH 🌺
I wonder why she would've been insecure of such a beautiful appearance... She did not deliver this talk much confidently, seeming nervous and even forgetful but she seemed to speak from her heart enjoying every bit of it...Applause!
I know it takes a lot of courage to go out there and speak your mind...you deserve a standing ovation!!!
Yes
1)Knowledge & Experience tells you what to do;
Confidence allows you to do it.
2)Confidence is about
Repetition,Repetition,Repetition
This applies to everything you do.
I am always really nervous in the beginning, but I keep repeating.
3)Confidence comes from hours and days and weeks and years of constant work,discipline and dedication.
So just kick or hit your goal or dream with confidence and nobody is perfect.
She's really Honest and looking more confident to talk about her non-confident personality.
This is the perfect example of Oxymoron.
Yeah 😬😬
Cuteness overload... Bala sentence sayad chhut gya h😅
Thanks girl to be here you proved that people like us can do something big even after this much anxiety.
Brilliant talk! So proud of you Shivani! 🥰❤️
You' re really fluent enough to handle a section like this. It's a Wonderful job.
Experience tells what you do , but confidence allows you to do it . I like this speech 👌👏. Thanx for this
She's literally saying everything I'm going through!
My mind: it's a waste of time
My heart:look at her
🐓🐔
Exactly ❤️
Ooohooo😆
As expected from people like u
The best line - Stronger desire to succeed or coming out of shelter one has, can certainly lower the fear and doubts. 💐😀
Hats off, I know it's hard to be the one you dreamt off, it takes a lot to be someone you always wanted to be.💓💓
Your hardwork speaks for you 🙌👍
It was a superb speech. Taking the stage itself shows how she got through her stage fear.
Reminds me of my school days when I felt under-confident in the classrooms. Now I'm working on my confidence that being an essential accessory for my life
"Don't be too hard on yourself". Great talk. I deal with this kinda issue you talked about. Also, you are very beautiful.
Seriously inspiring and motivating me and everyone
Thank you so much mam and tedx talk channel 😊😊
Be courageous and believe in yourself.
You'll be good no matter what you talk to anyone.
So, don't feel you're talking to strangers.
Focus on yourself and rest leave.
Thank you for sharing this it's just a small thing for some people but, actually who don't have can realise the importance of this and get encouraged.
Even I feel same like her. Really found helpful. Done awesome job Shivani👏👏
it was really good to know your story...because me being that shy person struggling to even say the attendance in class..knows how important self confidence is. thanks ..i am working on my this drawback too. maybe one day i will be proud of myself not because i am the bravest of all but being brave enough to overcome my fears that have given me just one thing..REGRETS!
Once I was like her same, now I feel better I changed lot, seeing my self new in my way.
It’s how the speech has to be ....great... I’m too an introvert and I could understand something from your life... I’ll wait for my turn to come for getting succeed and I’ll work for it ...
You have taken a major step Shivani. Wonderful talk. Very well delivered
Really happy to know that there are people like me😜😊
Right there are so many......
I'm also
❤️❤️❤️
Me too .....
Yes me too😅
Thank you Shivani to taught how to overcome from the fear..through your life journey..Thank you so so much
Superb talk Sivani Patil you give me so much confidence. Thank you.
It takes courage to come out and Speak truth in front of so many people.... n accept yourself...
You were amazing. You were confident. You have completely secured your confidence, becoz talking about your life story and your weakness in front of someone requires a lot of courage and confidence which can be seen in you🙂🙂🙂.
Seriously , I am also shy type of person. I also want to come out of my shell and break all the boundaries but it is quite difficult . But as you said take small/baby steps, so from today onwards I am gona take initiatives to be new/confident me. Hope one day I will be full of confidence like you.
"Whatever you want will happen ,it might not happen today but will happen some day" this made my day!
Absolutely True
True indeed
yeah
Appreciate your courage and honesty for expressing your weaknesses and sharing your experiences.
It will motivate many to try to do and be more than their present self.
Confidence are two kinds ...one is confidence in work and confidence in expressing things ....not everyone can have both
she just never give up..🔥
did whatever she wants♥
Most of the success stories are of girls, that i have listen in my life. And of course this talk was wonderful. I am watching this because my maam have told me to write a report on any talk show but i chosen this show because I am also who wants to over come stage fear and lack of confidence in me.
Thank’s for sharing…❤️Your Story…will help those who find this video….We all have our “Self Doubt”…at times…But we need to do something to Bring us out of it…
It's amazing and inspiring one.... Thanks a lot for sharing your journey with such a honesty n huge courage....
All the best for all your future endeavors
U r courageous no matter how much u hve fear or anxiety...it takes confidence to come n speak on tedx
Misbah
@@amirshahzadshahzad3418 1
God bless You Shivani :)
You are such an inspiration 😘
This is really helpful to us.. being professional businessman.....thank you so much for giving this tips..
Despite feeling nervous you expressed it so well.
It's very beautifully and heartedly spoken, nd m just feelings it's my feelings nd her words. Thanks for giving this talk, this helped me feel so good.
Literally, she is so beautiful by her pure confindence and glowing face❤.
Not everyone comes for the beautiness but some come for the knowledge and having confidence within which a person can face the world and get succeed in their life....
After achieving so much in her life she is still so simple and that's incredible Krishna bless her
Thank you,Ma'am...It's really inspiring to hear your thoughts and your journey. It'll give hope to millions in their darkest days including myself.
Such an amazing story..you poured your heart out and I’m going to go on a limb to say that this is going to help a lot of people..Kudos to you for taking the courage to speak your truth :)
How are gautam ..plss call me let reunite I just came back from US..call me first I hv something from u ..if uknow wat I mean
Great talk. Didn't thought I will watch the complete video but I watched 1.5 times.
This confidence is what I want inside myself also!!!
She looks perfectly beautiful...❤️🎖️❤️
If we have a great desire for success our confidence will increase and we need desire for our life path.
She was great.. Overcome from somthing is not a easy job...it easy comment to someones.. But being on the stage.. Nd speak for few min. Is the hardest part for person with phobia for public speaking. Proud of her. She was an example must say. I just can't able control on my fingers from typing. 🤞👏
You have grown so much. This is real success. God bless
Honestly a Sweet Doll,💝💝.We didn't Came here to prove Ourselves....
🙏
عغ٥افصغي٧ثنيتيييتتااا٤غنَ؛ تستساس
Your honesty is so appealing and beautiful! Thanks for sharing :)
What a journey of confidence from shy to confident.
This story touched my heart bcz even I was not good even studying.
TED and TEDx, the difference is becoming bigger day by day.
Your story
inspiring and motivating me thank you
Bravo for your Ted Talk and all of your accomplishments!
Yes you are right believe in yourself because if you have only one thing confidence then you will never fear in any kind of situation.
Keep doing what you love...you are great...👏❤
Lord she's too pretty!
Awesome speech...I too am taking baby steps to reach my goal.... thank you inspiring...
I truly liked her speech, though she was little anxious but it's great altogether.
It really takes a lot to speak on stage...!! I appreciate this step she took!! 😁👍👏👏👏
And here I am quickly giving up and not coming out of comfort zone😣
Thank you so much I also lack confidence you are very inspiring
Amazing honesty and message, God bless
Mam you are way more and more confident then you think.YOure not even ambigous even for one word and you had also not even shivered.When I started to take any group discussion talks i will tense a lot and my heart beat rises upto the maximum and i can also feel the pumping of blood and imagine how much speed it will be and the second one is im an introvert and i have so many talks and thoughts in my head to deliver speech but due to my tension and heartbeat,fear ill usually end up in saying very few than expected.Fear is the only thing which pulls me backward.
One of those talks where i really felt connected and in the ned motivated as well, because it just felt good to hear that I am not the only one who fears to do things in everyday life.
why her talk is so much relevant to my life
Girl you did so well...so brave of you to share it😘😘
Ur speech really inspiring me
Luv u dear 💖 stay blessed nd happy
change comes to who are willing not who are dreaming.
first successs step is to start without asking any permissions. just do it
compare [social media ] to your self with others to grow not to degrow.
be dare to do things.
these are the things i learn from this video
We can see the efforts you put for this talk! Way to go Shivani!
'Nobody is going to post their failures' GREAT LINES 🔥🔥🔥♥️
I know most of the guys came here to just see her.. I mean just look at her.. she's so pretty 😍
I'm same like you, I have been struggling with myself and other stuff for a long time ,don't know how long will it take to overcome.
Confidence is well enhanced when u grow up! Like she did
All u need to do is to believe in urself
*Everything takes time
Inspiring lecture.Thanks mam
first time I heard your voice... I thought one of the most youth motivational speaker Sandip Mahishwari sir are talking in front of me really ☺☺☺ it happened not only with me I think it's happened with another friends... yes or no 😌😌and thank you friend for your valuable time for sharing your speech with Us.... tnx☺
I don't know why but really can connect with this video to a huge extent 😊
cause you are confident enough 😕
Introvert..self confidence issue..selectively social..i can relate to all of those traits..you have expressed beautifully what people like us are going through and struggling to come out of it..
U are beautiful and expressive..even have smooth grip over english language which still a dream for many..including me..still u faced all those issues..i am an average looking person with poor communication skills..i can write english but find it really difficult when comes to speaking ..i always feel that everyone is noticing me in crowd..makes me conscious and nervous..anyway i have overcome greatly over those issues and still trying to get at better side..god bless you..keep motivating others..
It's even me exactly...but I'm trying to get out of it ...👆😊
@@dakshayaninati9133 thats great..nothing is constant..keep up the positive vibes..all the very best..
@@VaibhavSingh-lq2wn thank you so much 😇
Me too
Same condition of mine..I always feeling that everyone noticing me in crowd i m very scare and anxious girl , I m self doubted for everything
I also had faced same thing but still after joining the college . I decided to change ourself . I still work on it to make probably perfect 😇😇
heres my salute to u..... u did it better than others.
I can listen to u whole night without blinking my eyes even once....grt talk grt personality..
ohh man !! this story matches 10/10 with mine one.
The only thing which makes me think that no one hurts you in any way.because todays world is too fearless and dangerous.
I can bet this is one of the easiest ted talks on yt.everybody can understand it.
Shivani, you go girl! Proud of your strong will to overcome the fear in yourself. All the best in your future endeavors!
This is exactly the present situation that I have. Thank you Sis 😍
❤️ ur voice is shivering but u made it girl👍 love u and ur confidence
Way to go girl !!! Best wishes only cutie, really good talk.