Give Your PARENTS Another Chance
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- čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
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Want a better relationship with your parents? Here's some practical advice on how to make that happen. It won't be easy, but it will be worth it.
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TEEN BEHAVIOR EXPERT - JOSH SHIPP
For over a decade Josh Shipp has earned an international reputation as a teen behavior expert who can get through to any teen and and give practical strategies to parents. He's lectured at universities such as Harvard and Stanford on the art and science of getting through to teens.
Mr. Shipp is the author of "The Teen's Guide to World Domination", host of the TV Show Jump Shipp which gives people a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to live out their dream job, and host of a new TV Show debuting in 2012 from the executive producer of OPRAH helping at-risk teens turn their lives around.
He's worked with groups of parents, educators, and mental health professionals. Plus he has influenced more than TWO MILLION teenagers through his work.
He is a frequent expert on adolescent behavior for MTV, CNN, FOX, The New York Times, MSNBC, and countless other media outlets.
"Josh Shipp has the ability to get through to ANY teen and point them in the right direction. It's an incredible thing to witness."-Harvard University
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i cried....
thank you for showing me the truth behind a parent....
our relationship will forever be stronger because of this very video right here !
My mother passed away when from cancer. I only wish I could go back and change every stupid argument we had. To tell her thank you more. To tell her I loved her more. To spend more time repaying her for all the things she did by serving her the way she always served me and my siblings. Appreciate your parents if you have them. Many don't.
I've never yelled at my parents but I have said thank you
Thank you for reuploading this. I watched it a while back and was so inspired.
this was a very inspirational video that i've came across....it made me think about my relationship with my parents...what we go through everyday....and so, thank you for helping me realize whats most important to me...
You're a very clever man. The most valuable videos on youtube don't have many views. Like yours :)
I'm only 19, but I understood few years ago that parents along with my brother are the most important thing in my life.Afterall, the school passes, we change jobs, we meet new friends sometimes losing contact with our old ones, and parents are always with you. Why quarrel? If you're nice to them, they will be nice to you.If they see they can trust you, they'll trust you and let you do many things.
I was sent to your video by Josh Sundquist & Im so glad I clicked the link. I have a new appreciation of my parents. Sure we have had our hard times, but over all I have live a blessed life. Im in college now & miss them greatly but also am really glad to be on my own 2 feet. There are things I will do different with my kids when I have them, but I have some great role models. My family has been dealt some hard cards but we get through the times together. Im so glad to still have my family.
Josh;
I'm not sure if you remember but a year ago you spoke at my High School, Memorial composite, in Alberta Canada. All the things you said stuck with me since that day and I've been a huge fan of everything you do since. I found myself crying at the end of this video because everything you said got to me, it made me realize what I need to do in order to make things better. I just wanted to say thank you for being such an amazing and inspirational person, I aspire to be like you.
This made me cry.. I love you man thanks:)
Josh Shipp is awesome! Saw him at the National FFA convention. Best speaker I've ever heard. God Bless him!
this is amazing. I struggled with my relationship with my father for many years. It wasn't until I understood that my dad struggled with chronic anxiety and had his own history of abuse; that I understood why he was the way he was. He was always questioning me about what was I going to do if my car broke down or I failed school or I couldn't find a job. Now I know it was his uncontrolled anxiety and him growing up in a unstable home, but at the time I thought it was that he didn't believe in me. I still don't have the best self esteem because I've always felt unworthy or not good enough; and I also felt like that meant he wouldnt help if those things happened (which he always did). I am glad that I was able to forgive my dad and have a relationship with him before he passed away from colon cancer. I only wish I had done it sooner. I now see one of my stepchildren not have a relationship with their father and it breaks my heart. Not just for my husband who loves his children so much, but I know what it is like to regret later on in life when your parents will no longer be here.
We watched during class. The response was Great!
I love you video's. They help me a lot! :)
I didn't like this, I loved it! Very powerful message! I am going to find a way to work it into a lesson for my middle school students.
Josh Shipp,
WOW!!!! You are brilliant!!!
I also run personal development workshops but for teen girls, (called Free Spirit Girl) that I styarted when I was 16 years old.
It is so inspiring and exciting to see another young person so passionate about empowering young people.
Keep up the amazing work, you are a gift to this world.
My dad tells me I'm a conniving child who shoplifts, lies, and cheats his way through life. But I see myself different and so does everyone else. Always comparing me to older brothers who are failures. Say I'm just like them never going to succeed in life. Then I sat down and talked about it but not everything is perfect in this world right?
This video was so inspirational...i haven't been nice to my parents, they havent been nice to me, ive apologized, they've apologied, it isnt perfect. what you said really made me stop and think. think about how much they do for me, and how much they expect of me verses how much effort i put into things they drive me around for or how much effort i put into studying for school. it made me realize that unless something changes, it will always be like this. so thank you, for opening my eyes.
:') thank u josh ur the most inspiring person ever. I always just wanted to end it all bc of my parents and I used to cut myself. I talked to my father and found out y he is the way he is, my mother I tried but can nvr get through to her. My signature for my texts used to be "am I alive, if I'm dead inside", now it's "don't get bitter, get better".
You should totally remake some of these older videos! They are gold!
It's been 40 years since my Dad passed. I was a young (out of control) teen when he left. DearOlivejuice, your sentiments have been mine all my life. I do tell him, in my head. I pray somewhere in heaven he hears my words. He used to say, "I hope you have 4 girls worse than you". Well, I had 4 girls that were tough to raise, but I learned from many of his lessons (and mistakes) they have all become wonderful. Sending love from one who knows 1st hand your reality.
Josh Shipp = my hero in every way possible. Great vid, sir.
i have not seen my parents since summer, and everytime i talk to them in the phone something makes me angry, and now i realized that i am just sad that i am not with them and i dont have other way to express it. i just regret the decition of not going to live with them and everytime i talk to them i just want to be there and i cant and i get really angry at myself thinking that maybe i will never be with them again. is really sad and i cant do anything about it because im going to college soon:(
@HelpTheUnknown You are right, you can't control your situation, but you CAN control your actions. Then when you are eighteen, you can move out, and get a job, and pay your bills, etc, etc.
... and Josh, I'd like to thank YOU! I'm hosting a Mentorship Event tomorrow night in my hometown for boys. I will definitely share some of your wise words. Love you dude. Peace, Brodie
I wish I could've seen this video months ago before my dad passed away. ;_;
Ithankz for helping me my relationship with my parents
Really made me think and reality check myself, but I couldn't stop laghing at "your boyfriend named Antonio"
I'm in tears now, all my parents say is I don't even know you anymore
So then maybe you ask her what it is about your dad that contributes to the fights, and you take a hard look at yourself and ask yourself if there's any truth in what she says, and if there's anything you can do about it. If there's really not, then you know you tried. You could end up learning a lot about yourself AND having a better relationship with her.
Extremely cool!!! Thank you!!!
i was in foster caer as a little girl u should never take ur perents for granette just love and show repect to them and just always remember to love and respect them :P
They are solvable, my das had a similar upbringing, his dad left him and his brother with his neglective alcoholic mother, she gave away his brother when he was young years. On his 18th birthday my dad left home and joined the Army, he didn't see his mother for many years but he finally began to communicate with her again, I met her for the first time when I was 8, She regrets everything she done and has even reconciled with dad's brother and now they're both helping her deal with her alcoholism
I'm just speculating here, but what if you try to sit down and talk, and they just don't want to sit down because it'd be a waste of their time? Like, I once asked my mom on an ordinary day why we fight all the time, and she says it's because I'm just like my dad (who also fights a lot with her).
my father had a lonely abusive childhood. As a result because of my father i had a lonely verbally, emotionally abusive/neglectful childhood. I cannot forgive him for repeating the same patterns and never challenging his own chilhod and breaking the cycle. I am challenging my own past ia therapy. I broke contact with my parents in 2005. ?We didn't argue we wasn't allowed neither was cmmunication. Messed up. Not all parent/child relatiobships are solvable.
well said, Thank you.
ive been raped, ive been yelling by my family everyday, i get bullied at school and people say ewww to me. I AM NOTHING
Emilie & Aurora - You don't know me. And I don't know you. But I just wanted to ask something of you... It sounds like you are hurting a lot. Seek out somebody you can trust that you can talk to. A friend. A family member. A teacher. A school counselor. A therapist. Somebody. And talk to to them. I don't know you, but I also just wanted to say... You are NOT nothing. And I care about you.
@@librapaladin81 well, then youre my first friend:) i dont have a therapist and im sure my parents wont give me one, but thank u for the advice and help
im 12 years old and i get the same problems but when i want to say sorry i get this weird feeling i like hate them they just want to control me i hate it and what if they care about my future why just the qeustion why ? they tell me to do everything i get so stressed out i feel to suicide myself or just leave but the thing is im to young to leave like what would i do to get money out there my life is so hard i wish i could change my destiny
I can’t talk to adults it always goes wrong
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WHy so little views!!!!! GAAHHH!! This is exactly how I feel about thing, and try telling people. I just don't kw how to verbalize it, but now I'm showing everyone this video. It doesnt only apply to parents.
this is perfect.
I hate them, they call me fat, say i need to lose weight, they dont realise how much they hurt me, i cant talk to them and argue everyday, everythings going wrong and im gradully moving into my aunties house. im happy there, my little cousin and the best auntie in the world, i miss the best times when we got on and it has gone from bad to worse, i cant forgive or forget they pushed me too far, im moving out and the deadline failed, it cant be fixed
@tshirts91 I can see that silly, but usually big videos blow up in seconds. It's saddening this didn't.
and i wish i had better parents or even perfect parents if possible
My parents always say to me what happen to that sweet little girl. You are so disappointing
+Lara McBride That's not your fault. They are the ones who raised you. They are the ones that should be disappointed. You are only as great as the teachers you have in your life. Find the ones who show you your worth. You ARE a good person. Part of knowing that, is that you are here to make a better life for yourself by watching this video. Congrats to you and good luck with everything...
I told My mother, Look here, I've tried to get You to understand and I've tried with You time after time but I've failed with You, I told My mom and brother, look here, I'm so done, enough , no more!!!!
@KaitTate it was uploaded yesterday
U were at my school today at Jaystream Middle School :)
Wow!
@KaitTate don't worry, the views haven't updated yet, it takes a while :)
@maddie71364 care i ment
Yeah, how dare the call the cops on you! Can't you see that that might mean they care about you.