SZA on The Grammys, Assessing Her Breast Cancer Risk, & Not Being a Nice Girl

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  • čas přidán 27. 05. 2024
  • In this episode, the groundbreaking four-time Grammy award-winning musical artist, SZA, sits down for a rare interview with SHE MD.
    We dive into a variety of topics, from SZA’s career and creative process to the heartbreak that inspires her music. SZA confesses that she often texts Dr. A at all hours for any and all ailments, before getting real about her family history and lifetime breast cancer risk. Dr. A offers insight into assessing your own breast cancer risk and the importance of early screenings.
    SZA goes on to dish about awards season, comparing the flawless Oscars to the more laid-back Grammys. She doesn’t shy away from investigating her personal challenges and triumphs. SZA gets introspective, opening up about her path to self-acceptance and sharing the ways she’s learned to integrate the necessary strength and protective edge that makes her, “not a nice girl.”
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Komentáře • 111

  • @prankswithmarcusgang9231
    @prankswithmarcusgang9231 Před 2 měsíci +267

    An underrated podcast got sza 😩😩😮‍💨

  • @cdothuncho7324
    @cdothuncho7324 Před 2 měsíci +220

    I love SZA so much! Her music has truly changed my life and she’s so real

  • @richardokosa3403
    @richardokosa3403 Před 2 měsíci +93

    The moment she said boyfriend my jaw dropped 😭

    • @AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti
      @AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti Před 2 měsíci +18

      Former boyfriend she was speaking in a past tense not present tense when she said that!! SZA is single and my future wife so there’s hope!! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @dunksby2146
      @dunksby2146 Před 2 měsíci +17

      ​@@AlysiaWilliams-oy5tishe keeps relationships private so you never really know and Google does not have all the answers when searched you never know and good luck on that wife thing keep dreaming kid.

    • @yungeen_boi
      @yungeen_boi Před 2 měsíci

      nah ong

    • @memecloude609
      @memecloude609 Před měsícem +3

      @@dunksby2146keep dreaming kid is crazy your prob a kid too 😭

    • @user-greatgordon
      @user-greatgordon Před 2 dny

      When does she say boyfriend

  • @jazmyneware8932
    @jazmyneware8932 Před 2 měsíci +30

    i love seeing her on smaller platforms. all platforms need quality guests, sza is the ultimate guest!!

    • @AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti
      @AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti Před měsícem

      FACTS!! It’s because, she’s a REAL PERSON unlike other celebrities that’s why I fuck with SZA heavy!!

  • @kylenskully
    @kylenskully Před 2 měsíci +96

    solana is just truly amazing and her energy and aura SO AMAZING !!

  • @rewindlly
    @rewindlly Před 2 měsíci +41

    i just love the way sza speaks

  • @esen9
    @esen9 Před 2 měsíci +70

    Also what she said about being a nice girl at her core but having to abandon that because it’s not a safe world out there for pure hearted vulnerable people, but knowing that she needs to integrate her protective shadow self with her light is EXACTLY my experience. It’s a Scorpio thing, it’s like that for most of us with a lot of Scorpio energy. Being nice isn’t lame, this world is not made for people like us. It should be safe for us to be naïve, but for as long as there are people who don’t move with integrity and are irresponsible with how they treat others and violate them instead, we cannot be naïve. We are innately as souls meant to be naïve because it is the purest, innocent energy, but Earth is ghetto. There’s ego and bad things, bad people and people who refuse to be and do better as they are obligated to.
    I get what she means about her mom making her feel like she’s not strong because she never really stood up for herself or put up a tough guard despite others always doing her wrong, but being non-reactive isn’t to be confused with weakness. Kindness is not weakness. Like I said, people take advantage of hearts like that and mistreat people and they are to blame, not the person who has the heart... We shouldn’t have to change because people don’t know how to act, hold them accountable to show up the way they should. This world isn’t made for us. But that being said, learning to have to adapt to this world by becoming combative or bringing that side you have within out is also a very powerful, necessary, strong, and beautiful thing that people shame. So just be you. I have always seen in life that people want you to keep the peace and accept things as they are because they don’t want to be inconvenienced and then they have the audacity to be mad at you and sh!t on you for shaking things up where it’s necessary to. My spirit isn’t here to accept bs, it’s here to destroy for the better world that needs to exist. I’ll never be a conformist, and I don’t even call that rebelling. Rebel against means to fight for something, so it’s like fighting our own right to sovereignty when sovereignty is our birthright?? It’s not something that should have to be fought for if it’s already ours. So it’s actually the conforming majority are the ones rebelling against themselves for a world that wants us to go against our inherent order.. I must say though that after so much betrayal, I‘ve accepted that I can never be fully safe to be myself with the world until the world changes, so it’s invoked a side of me that’s here to stay and I put the old version of me to rest. She’s there, but she’s just not showing up for anyone other than those I can fully trust and be vulnerable around. I refuse to blame myself, because I know I’m not the problem, and it’s devastating that people need to do what I do. It’s exhausting and draining like why can’t I just be calm why do people HAVE to be toxic and trifling where I have to go beast mode just to defend and protect myself in like any interaction. I don’t want to. Like it doesn’t even have to be a matter of setting better boundaries like people literally can’t go without violating you and your “easy to talk to friendliness” in even the most casual conversations and everyday exchanges... They HAVE to push you. I also think people with energy like mine tend to attract mostly energy vampires cuz it’s juice for them, so that’s unfortunate. As a woman, I carry predominantly feminine energy, but all my life, I’ve had to operate in my masculine energy and it really sucks for women because this is “a man’s world” that we’re expected to adapt to and navigate, which requires us to abandon our feminine energy and make it take a backseat against our will.
    Then she went on to say that you’re designed to be a certain way by the cosmos for a reason, to process and respond to this world in the way you’re uniquely meant to, and that the Universe doesn’t put something in your spirit for no reason, and that is the EXACT truth. It’s not only what helps us navigate this plane of existence with the souls that we have, it is also of benefit to the world with what you bring as that unique individual. Because the world needs what we provide as like a unique code that we individually bring that’s missing from the world.

    • @AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti
      @AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti Před měsícem +3

      That describes me PERFECTLY! Thank you for putting my inner most thoughts out to public!!

    • @esen9
      @esen9 Před měsícem +1

      @@AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti here to validate and amplify the feelings and minds of people like us! 🫶🏽💓

    • @paulinarojas6191
      @paulinarojas6191 Před měsícem +1

      thank you so much for this! i resonate and agree 100%

  • @jamie9058
    @jamie9058 Před 2 měsíci +63

    Such a huge fan of SZA. She articulates herself so well and is so inspiring. Seeing her live and listening to her music has truly changed my life for the better. I want to be like her when i grow up!!!

  • @natoriaannikey
    @natoriaannikey Před 2 měsíci +27

    Solana is just so pretty asf she always been icon she best at everything ❤

  • @user-xo8ve2ss3s
    @user-xo8ve2ss3s Před 2 měsíci +34

    Every time I see sza I just can’t stop smiling I love her so much ❤❤also underrated podcast

  • @mauhuff
    @mauhuff Před 2 měsíci +29

    Solana has been my fave artist since like 2014. Her music is ethereal but she also does cool shit like this which is why I stan. Thank you for bringing her on your platform to discuss important health/life issues. You all are making a difference and I salute you!👌🏿💯❤️

  • @kadinelindsayart
    @kadinelindsayart Před 2 měsíci +31

    I so so so happy that after years of hiding about her plastic surgery she’s finally being open, a lot of young girls are finally seeing that these surgeries are not a quick fix and have real complications.
    Excited to see SZA talk more about this, as a fan from abt 2013 it’s been jarring seeing her morph into a different person and essentially be gaslit by the new fans who just don’t know.

    • @cjjamal2803
      @cjjamal2803 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Why are you on every sza video being weird. She never lied or gaslit anyone. She didn’t address it until SOS.

    • @willsss2
      @willsss2 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@cjjamal2803that’s not at all what they said. Read more carefully next time.

    • @kadinelindsayart
      @kadinelindsayart Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@willsss2malheureusement, reading comprehension is at an all time low these days…

    • @nkerukabarrie9513
      @nkerukabarrie9513 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Saying she morphed into a different person is a bit much. Especially coming from a fan since 2013. Yes somethings about her appearance changed but to say morphed….. a bit cringe.

    • @kadinelindsayart
      @kadinelindsayart Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@nkerukabarrie9513 the definition of morph is « to undergo a gradual process of transformation », im literally using the word in context.

  • @dreamergirlbaby
    @dreamergirlbaby Před 2 měsíci +18

    I enjoyed this. I wish more celebrities would open up and talk about their health issues.

  • @nxomsa
    @nxomsa Před 2 měsíci +11

    She's so beautifully human, I love her so much.

  • @yoelp.5430
    @yoelp.5430 Před 2 měsíci +16

    solana is just truly amazing and her energy and aura SO AMAZING !! Such a huge fan of SZA. She articulates herself so well and is so inspiring. Seeing her live and listening to her music has truly changed my life for the better. I want to be like her when i grow up!!!

  • @Berns1234
    @Berns1234 Před 2 měsíci +6

    SZA validated my health anxiety! I love her so much 🥹🫶🏼

  • @esen9
    @esen9 Před 2 měsíci +15

    bruh. where are doctors like her for women's health!??!?!? every doctor i've had has been extremely dismissive and make me out to be crazy when i know something is up! one of them even put that i have "generalized anxiety disorder" just because i went to the doctor after a few years and had some concerns!! she had the audacity to judge me and label me as like a hypochondriac or something. i had it removed because i told them about my experience with her. then my blood results come back and she looked mad stupid then sending me for multiple tests so late!! i WISH they were about being preventative and "just in case you never know can never be too safe it wouldn't hurt to check better to check" instead of them being like "i'm not worried it's probably nothing"!!!!!!!!!
    omg and DON'T even get me STARTED on the ob/gyn i had!!! it was a TRAUMATIC experience, super unprofessional, inconsiderate, uncaring, i even fainted and they didn't care and took their time to bring me water..

  • @fernandoelbrat
    @fernandoelbrat Před 2 měsíci +5

    She’s so down to earth

  • @m.xavier724
    @m.xavier724 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Absolutely love her aura and energy man! Shes like sunshine in human form ✨☀️

  • @Zacharybilletter
    @Zacharybilletter Před 2 měsíci +3

    Any friend of SZA and cares for her well being is a friend of mine. I am now a fan. Thanks for taking care of my absolute favorite artist in this universe and seeing/understanding her😭 love u Solána for eternity and longer if I can💕 Diamond Gal

  • @indigobreeze6100
    @indigobreeze6100 Před 2 měsíci +11

    Loved this interview! So insightful

  • @MsKanella
    @MsKanella Před 2 měsíci +11

    Wow so informative and insightful!! I’m glad I’m here for the start of the podcast ♥️

  • @gummy416
    @gummy416 Před 2 měsíci +11

    PERIODDD ik this podcast will blowup and as they should. we need this for all women and all non-cishet men people 🤍

  • @thepynklady88
    @thepynklady88 Před 2 měsíci +4

    This is such a powerful episode, i LOVE this.

  • @luisiana.tesfaye
    @luisiana.tesfaye Před 2 měsíci +3

    loved this sm episode sm!!!!!!!!

  • @TheGlamorousLifeofNae
    @TheGlamorousLifeofNae Před 2 měsíci +7

    I love her so much! So happy she is speaking on this. 💖

  • @cybergloc
    @cybergloc Před 2 měsíci +1

    this interview was so amazing, i feel so well informed and was equally entertained!

  • @aysemilabarut733
    @aysemilabarut733 Před 2 měsíci +4

    wow this is a great idea! followed right after, thank you for educating us

  • @imamazinglyweird
    @imamazinglyweird Před 2 měsíci +4

    I love everyone in this interview. ❣️

  • @AjieA
    @AjieA Před 2 měsíci +3

    I love the energy and open conversation

  • @user-kt7bo3ko7r
    @user-kt7bo3ko7r Před 2 měsíci +18

    BOYYYYYFRIENDDD???? damn yall sb done took my wife!!!😕🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @keymango
      @keymango Před 2 měsíci +2

      Hold on miss girl you mean MY wife :/

  • @Yourrrr
    @Yourrrr Před 2 měsíci +12

    Great interview also @SZA definitely get in agriculture! I always enjoy any of SZA’s longer interviews because I end them feeling very introspective and enlightened. I’ve also been avoiding the doctors for a long while just because of past doctor trauma (also not having health insurance currently 😢) and in my 24 years have never even been to a gynecologist but this inspired me to start taking some step towards preventative care 🫶🏽

  • @tristangrajales1940
    @tristangrajales1940 Před 2 měsíci +2

    this was amazing!

  • @emanuelcarvalho8510
    @emanuelcarvalho8510 Před 2 měsíci +5

    44:25 - I had a good laugh here hahahahahaha

  • @aadaaezee8078
    @aadaaezee8078 Před 2 měsíci +7

    This podcast was so informative

  • @ToddHughlett
    @ToddHughlett Před 2 měsíci +10

    That’s a new side of her I’ve never seen!🎉

  • @saulb67
    @saulb67 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I love SZA !!! my favorite artist

  • @jermainejennings1514
    @jermainejennings1514 Před 2 měsíci +9

    I enjoyed watching every second of this!😊

  • @lynninfinite
    @lynninfinite Před 2 měsíci +1

    SZA is sooooo self-aware!! She’s so cuuute

  • @jor474
    @jor474 Před 2 měsíci +5

    YAYY I LOVE THIS

  • @tysonmclaughlin8840
    @tysonmclaughlin8840 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I’m in awe of this woman 😢❤ she is like ugh. Unexplainable 😅.

  • @ironicgambino8987
    @ironicgambino8987 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I love SZA! Her aura, her voice, her vibe , her songs ❤❤❤

  • @lizlrocks
    @lizlrocks Před 2 měsíci +4

    Damn, I wish I could afford these services.

  • @pirr1743
    @pirr1743 Před 2 měsíci +5

    this podcast is so good also sza got a mannnnzzz?

  • @troyblakejr4277
    @troyblakejr4277 Před 2 měsíci +8

    solana is just an amazing person i wish she do a vlog so we can get to know her more but oh well🤧🤧🤧

  • @hellyeah7331
    @hellyeah7331 Před 2 měsíci +4

    her style wow

  • @kaireehenning383
    @kaireehenning383 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Me too I love sza she cool

  • @chocolatesugar4434
    @chocolatesugar4434 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I respect SZA’s vulnerability ❤❤❤ us girlie’s need to see it ❤❤❤

  • @Hb.youtube
    @Hb.youtube Před měsícem +1

    Sza my musical inspiration 💙

  • @darii3523
    @darii3523 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Love SZA ❤❤❤

  • @Irisister
    @Irisister Před 2 měsíci +3

    Love them so kind love America

  • @danield4406
    @danield4406 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I saw SZA and I clicked so fast

  • @Kimik-oy4pc
    @Kimik-oy4pc Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love Sza.

  • @bv5365
    @bv5365 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I ❤ SZA

  • @anumsadi5246
    @anumsadi5246 Před měsícem

    SZA IS LITERALLY MY FAV PERSON IN THE WORLD (after my mom)❤❤💓💗💖

  • @user-zq5rv1xw4i
    @user-zq5rv1xw4i Před měsícem +1

    I knew i had something in common with this queen. What she said about being soft and the poison is so me.

  • @user-io2xg3ij6q
    @user-io2xg3ij6q Před 2 měsíci +3

    Soooooo good

  • @ponchi7928
    @ponchi7928 Před 2 měsíci +7

    haha i love sza so much she be all over the place lmao

  • @nanib00
    @nanib00 Před 2 měsíci +3

    this was nice.

  • @softdandiis
    @softdandiis Před 2 měsíci +1

    queen

  • @ItsAshley
    @ItsAshley Před 22 dny +1

    🪄🦂 soul sister 🧘🏾‍♀️🧿

  • @MariaBeatriz-if3ne
    @MariaBeatriz-if3ne Před 2 měsíci +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @amirblack6770
    @amirblack6770 Před 2 měsíci +3

    She is the female me omv ❤

  • @thatboymenace6716
    @thatboymenace6716 Před 2 měsíci +3

    How did she get a sza interview w/ 287 subscribers

  • @mimim1351
    @mimim1351 Před měsícem +1

    those women have no idea what sza was talking about when explaining her name.

  • @maroonhorizon1693
    @maroonhorizon1693 Před 2 měsíci +2

    who is she MD

  • @A-qe2eg
    @A-qe2eg Před 2 měsíci +4

    Omg she really is from the Suburbs lol

  • @user-zi9ii8ro3p
    @user-zi9ii8ro3p Před 2 měsíci +15

    DID SHE SAY SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND?! who??

  • @bhadbhussy
    @bhadbhussy Před 2 měsíci

    slayyy

  • @rizuejigu7402
    @rizuejigu7402 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Not her saying she's not a nice person

  • @MiguelGarcia-hd5li
    @MiguelGarcia-hd5li Před 2 měsíci +1

    SZA HAS A BOYFRIEND

    • @UghSiren
      @UghSiren Před 2 měsíci +1

      thats what i said i was like hold up

  • @lynninfinite
    @lynninfinite Před 2 měsíci

    THREE COLONOSCOPIES

  • @iamjayfill6992
    @iamjayfill6992 Před 15 dny

    How can a man get tested for these things

  • @Jacksmithstandby
    @Jacksmithstandby Před měsícem

    I love her

  • @SpecialKRNB
    @SpecialKRNB Před 2 měsíci +1

    SZA told me last night not to be so sensitive. I can't help it beautiful. You're the most sought after woman in this world right now. Can you blame me for being a little possesive and jealous?! By the way babe I love your speaking voice. Plus, you're a good girl not a bad girl. That's not even in your blood. You can't even handle half the things you claim to handle. Reassuring the wifey that's all. 😍😍😍🫣💐💐🫣