Amanda Seales Has an Honest Conversation About the Hatred She Receives Online
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- čas přidán 4. 04. 2024
- Comedian and actor Amanda Seales joined Jemele to discuss her groundbreaking variety show, “Smart, Funny, and Black,” and why she considers herself to be a comedian first.
Amanda also talks about the final season of the HBO hit television show “Insecure,” what she’s learned from playing the character, Tiffany Dubois, and the “beef” between her character and the black sorority, Alpha Kappa Alpha.
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Prophets are never welcome in their home town Amanda. History will be kind, I promise you that. Many of us see you and are standing with you.
💯THIS
Love this!!! The first part of your comment has been on my heart for a while recently.
I don't think history should or will be kind to her. She attacked Tamir Rice's mother because Shaun King was using her dead son's name to raise money that wasn't going to the family to help them.
She said Jussie Smolett doing the hate crime hoax was "noble." Amanda spit in the face of actual victims of hate crimes by doing that.
These big names like Marc Lamont Hill and now Jemele Hill defending Amanda and not reading the articles that point out these issues, is some Candance Owens level grift at this point.
Amanda is ALWAYS on the wrong side of things. History is showcasing that she's not a good person and that's why people don't like her.
l am part of that number, so glad Amanda is being given space
Prophet???
"I would love to be loved by the people I love" THAT hit home for me! that's a deep dive right there
Except Amanda has a problem with respect and accountability. Every single person she has had a professional interaction with has stopped interacting with her. There is a reason for that. Also she falsely accused a black doctor of sexual harassment.
@@Freerider93both of these statements are untrue. Do some unbiased research and you’ll see what really happened vs. what you were fed and ran with.
@@tionak No, I'm not doing any research on this filth. Amanda just needs to get off social media and become a hermit, because she will NEVER be forgiven for attacking a black man with false assault allegations.
The problem is she is very condescending, and rude, towards people that politically disagree with her. When she speaks on social and political issues half the time she doesn't know what she's talking about. She has a, "I'm holier than thou" attitude and she takes zero accountability in her role of why people dislike her. Amanda Seales is no victim and she wants people like you to throw a pity party for her.
Sometimes loving someone is telling them the truth about themselves so they can grow and be better.
Engaging interview. Really happy to see other black creators standing with Amanda this week given the hate train of the last three weeks. 🙏🏾💜
I could watch intelligent Black women have real conversations any day 🥰 thank you both for your openness
😂😂 you are a great joke
That part
Right?! It’s refreshing to see. I’d rather see this instead of the “Sexyy Red/Suki/NBA Youngboy mindset” that I see going on currently in our community.
@@misunderstoodkjthey’re in the same boat, different type of toxic. Selling victimhood. Victimhood is the new currency
Seales is toxic but blames everyone else about how she’s received and like always y’all come to her rescue. Y’all are mistaken her fuckery for advocacy
THAT B IS CRAZY AND GOING CRAZY HER 15 MINUTES OF FAME IS OVER AND SHE CAN NOT 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣TAKE IT
I love that Amanda Seales is her authentic self unapologetically. Good on her.
As a female, a successful African American female who has decisive, thoughtful opinions but who has also been afflicted with the disease of “she thinks she’s all that” and on the other hand being a people pleasing person JUST literally just to so-called keep the peace, Amanda is my spirit animal in that I LOVE that she is brave enough, bright enough and candid enough to share her articulate opinions and still brave enough to take the shyt that comes with it, cuz that shyt is HARD. Her voice is musical, informed and, again, brave. And I think she’s doing what the God’s have appointed her to do. My best friend is a Cancer and I’m a grounded Taurean. So, whatever you do, Amanda, KEEP GOING❤️
Same! Being smart and a people pleaser is the worst. I’m happy she’s brave enough for all of us!!
Yeah go gurrrl. You just keep on falsely accusing Black men. Thats how you fight for the community.
Still waiting on that apology.
I think society just doesn’t value intellectual, independent black women. They’re seen as a threat, instead of an asset. It’s sad that our community is #1 at attacking her, when she’s always been for us. Unfortunately people don’t realize what they have til it’s gone, cause she’s definitely a gem.
yes
I think there are a lot of intellectual black women people value. It's just that Amanda has an issue with disrespecting people and relationships. She also has a nasty habit of making false accusations against people publicly like when she falsely accused Myron Rolle, a Harvard educated black doctor and former NFL player of sexual harassment. Amanda might be smart but she is not a good person.
I love Amanda, she is so smart and I love watching her.
@Freerider93 She didn't accuse him of sexual harassment. She stated that multiple women shared with her that he did so with them.
@@chiquitahodges You said that with your chest out like you said something. She directly accused him of being inappropriate in a phone conversation with her. That statement + saying 8 other women told you something is 100% an accusation from her directly. You can try to parse the words but everyone knows what she meant. Also when asked for more information on these 8 women she had nothing. No one ever came forward. Additionally Amanda says it's "low key noble" to lie if it helps your cause. No ma'am, please have a seat.
🙏🏽✊🏽to these 2 intelligent, unafraid sisters here.
Keeping women single and advocating for victimhood? These two women have been pushing fear for the longest
Victimhood is the new currency. Instead we should be pushing being resilience not “poor me”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No, I don’t think so it’s called Shit Diddy. Yeah, it was a lot of unbothered people and nobody opinions matter.😂 surprise!! because the other can give two F””””
I don't understand why the hate for Amanda Seales has become a thing. I love us but a lot of times U don't like some of us. We cap for abusers and problematic folks but hate the real ones. It's no wonder we are still behind. Hold your head Amanda
I don't like hee because she falsely accused a black man of sexual assault.
No people have a problem with her from what she did to that young black man. How you all for the black community and stand up for out black women and men, and turned around and accused and destroyed a black man life. Accused him of sexually assault, abuse ect ect then offered an bullshit apology, because you got caught lying. Also its not you say it's how you say it. Her approach is always aggressive, and if you don't agree with her she gets very very aggressive and speak over people. Also every project she have been on it has always been a problem with her. At the end of the day, if you always in drama and drama follow you everywhere you go, then you are the problem point blank period. Alot of people don't want to deal with her, because they see how shit goes when she's around, so they choose to far away from her.
@@Freerider93please do some research on this matter. You are like a parrot just repeating nonsense
I stand with Amanda and candycorn! 💪🏾 #weBuildDifferent
Yaaaas! Mix the candy corn with Spanish nuts and this will change your life🤯‼️
I love it too! That damn Brachs.
WORD!! Candy Corn is DELICIOUS!!!
Me too!! I love it! Brach’s is best. 🧡🧡
I stand with MYRON ROLLE
I don't know Amanda Seales but really her spirit and herself is beautiful. You can feel it shining through. Wishing her and Ms. Hill peace and happiness.
This was 2 friends sitting in my living room enjoying each others company!!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE it xoxo
I love BOTH of my beautiful black sisters! Good interview!!
Dispelling the shame!!! I am in tears right now. This is part of your philanthropy. Forever in the Seales Squad ❤❤
I’m still wondering what the hate is about. She voices her opinion and often times it’s in defense of the community. Is it just the typical “I don’t like her” hating? Or ….
Amanda is a light, and roaches don't like when the light comes. And there's a lot of trash defending the roaches.
Likewise. Always loved her and I love a black woman who loves black ppl the way she does. And how she is unapologetic about her views. Stand on that business.
Naw she came at Myron rolle crazy and made sexual harassment accusations that were patently false and based on hearsay. This among a few situations she interjected with knowledge that was proven false and messy. This type of behavior is dangerous and needed to be checked.
I don’t doubt she loves her people. I think what turns people off is her brash in your face “take it or leave it” personality. She has made valid points in the past. Her delivery sucks sometimes
@jman1562001 that's actually not what happened. Yall are either getting things from a wrong source or just don't have comprehension and critical thinking skills. I saw that whole situation play out in real time.
I stand with Amanda! It's bonkers how some black media outlets are portraying her! It is not uplifting and it's duplicitous! Stay strong Amanda! Side note... NO to candy corn🤣🤣🤣
Amanda, please don't let people take your joy and/or derail your destiny. Continue to do what you think is right for your community.
🤣 that doesn't pay the bills
From time to time, I have bristled or even vehemently disagreed with both of these women. And I respect the hell out of their talent and courage. People need to stop being so in their feelings and listen to understand. I appreciate this interview so much and wish both of them growth and prosperity.
Ms. Seales is giving us so much education, love, and truth. And those are bitter pills to swallow when you are not living in an open space that is clear. The backlash is boring and predictable and those folks thought they would be able to pull this sort of crap and it would be acceptable and guess what it backfired because she is not the enemy, she is not the problem. She is living and sharing and I am here for it. All of it; God bless her and keep her strong. The clowns will be clowning. ❤ Mad love to her.
unfortunately all that living and sharing ain't paying the bills lol!
@Freerider93 did she ask you for money?
Jemele thank you for this interview. 👏🏽👏🏽It just felt like two women have great conversation. I love Amanda Seales and all of her quirkiness and that’s what makes her unique. I love her comedic personality. You may not always agree with her; but at the end of the day she’s a Black woman and she deserves the same respect as everybody else as a human being!!
The problem is amanda doesn't respect other people.
Love Amanda. Hope she uses the negativity as fuel to continue to motivate not only herself but others. All that hate is coming from those who want to have people be seen as less than . Amanda is the one that pushes people to want more for themselves to think more of themselves to be seen equally. She's a leader among followers not easy sending you a lot of love keep it up
Unfortunately we don't need Amanda for any of that.
Brachs candy corns ARE THE BEST!!!
I second that motion 😂
And addictive
I used to love buying them on sale after holidays
I know I know, but Farleys will do in a crunch😊
Amanda shines brightly on social media, radiating beauty and passion. While her love for candy corn might not resonate with everyone lol , her journey through grief truly resonates with me. Experiencing gratitude and personal growth amidst grief is profound. Her ability to channel her grief into positive energy, empowering herself and others, is truly remarkable. It's a journey only understood once experienced. She's a special soul, transforming her grief into something extraordinary. And taking the responsibly to not bring children into a world that has not made it easy to be a mother or a child is actually a selfless act
Amanda is a brilliant creative and Artist. I hope that her amazing show Black Funny and Black becomes a staple in the broader consciousness of black culture. It's one of its kind and a masterpiece.
I have been sending messages regularly asking hopefully for a return of SF&B in da crib !!! Just the best show/learning experience/fun/joyful communion. She did say that she was working on that for this year. I’m ever hopeful!!!! She’s amazing in every way.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Unfortunately we'll never know.
I have also been waiting for her to bring back SFB. Bringing us black history facts in a fun way. I am still not over how much fun we had at her show in Baltimore few years ago.
Loved this. I fully rock with Amanda even if I don't agree with everything she says.
Sidenote - Jemele looks so so pretty with this minimal make up look.
Oh hush! There was NOTHING to love bout this interview. They addressed NOTHING!
It's crazy that this interview could have been filmed yesterday. People want to hate on Amanda because she is a truth teller.
Candy Corn lovers STAND UP!!
I LOVE CANDY CORN!!
SMH!
Only with peanuts.
Yes lol
Yes!
Will always stand, support and love Amanda.
She's a former childhood star survivor. Nobody gets out unscathed, I believe. It's a weird brutal reality/non-reality to grow up in. I grew up in Dallas in the 90s where there were a lot of opportunities and casting calls. I'm really glad my parents didn't let me have that experience.
Amanda.I stand with you.I don't understand all of this shit.You are the NEW black women the community is going after.
Don't let them break your soul.❤❤❤❤❤
I'm a Capricorn sun,Cancer rising,Leo moon. I"M ALOT ALSO.
LOVE YOU, Amanda.....
I guess she shouldn't have made that false sexual harassment accusation against a black doctor.
Jemele is my favorite podcast and interviewer. Her autobiography is a worthwhile listen. It makes her more endearing. ❤❤❤
Amanda you’ve probably seen this under every interview you do since I’m such a STRONG & staunch supporter of you- but please know that we love you!! Thank you for holding us strong, talented, Blk + proud women down! Sry to hear about your miscarriage. You are so beautifully human and being that that experience made you recognize how trivial all of this other stuff in life can be. As a human tho, I understand the feeling of wanting acceptance from your own but pls know that there are SO MANY ppl who do accept you and are grateful for you and all that you do. But one thing I’ve learned in life is that you have to be there for YOU & hold yourself down.. b/c if you don’t, no one else will, except for God. And all the acceptance I need is within him. If you’re happy within yourself and love yourself, no one could ever stop you and your amazing energy. WE LOVE YOU BOO 😘♥️
You miscomprehend sis. She doesn't want your acceptance. She wants access to Hollywood to make money.
@@Freerider93 And she deserves that & more!
I like Amanda seales a great deal! I loved her on insecure.. she is an incredible talent.. and when she says she loves black people I FEEL THE LOVE unlike a lot of these other black celebs..
Any black woman who is not afraid of the sound of her own voice, or has a moral compass that won’t allow her to bend to bs will encounter this form of hate from people who don’t stand in their own power…
I think what I didn’t understand about the recent situation is being the type of person I described previously, why does Amanda still care???? Go where the love is and don’t look back… the same celebs you wanna be in a room with are basically all going to jail..
Amanda my sister…we are the women that tell others they can’t sit with us… not the ones who worry about being invited.. we make our own tables and provide the seats… stand in your power and let the rest go…
People are just so threaten by her greatness and all she wants is for her community to be great🤷🏽♀️
Smart,funny and Black ❤❤
Both of you are TRULY ROYALTY!! Love 💕❤️💕
Great interview..Amanda you ROCK..BOTH OF YOU LADIES ROCK..❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love Amanda! She is always for the people! 🙏🏾🖤❤️
Yes yes yes, everywhere I see her, I click!!! Love you Amanda!!! Sending you all the lovely feels!!
I like that phrase "unbothered .
My new verb!!
It’s wishful thinking, if your alive, it’s bound to happen because your human.
She is a treasure. Thank you for interviewing her and giving all of us a chance to get to know her better..
I can absolutely relate. It’s tough to be a woman who stand by their ideas regardless what the masses think. Every single tweet I make turn into a hate fest because of my political orientation😅. After a while you build an entire system to avoid seeing the mean comments lol. I have a particular respect for brave women who stand by their opinions no matter how many people agree with them. SM is another level of peer pressure and it takes A LOT to stand your ground. Cheers to the Amanda Seales, the Candace Owens, the Omarosa, the Camille Paglia… it’s ok to go against the grain. It’s ok to develop and stand by “outrageous” ideas.
Love you so much Amanda!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
The problem with Amanda is that she fails to actually listen to WHY people do not like her and become likeable. She doesn't care to be a likable person. I see how she talks to people in her comment section. It turned me off just seeing it and I lost the little bit of respect I had left for her.
It's likely that people stand with her message but just don't like HER.
I used to be a brash person with pure intentions. I remember a friend telling me that I hurt their feelings and from that point I made it my business to consider my delivery because I cared about who I hurt.
She has no desire to adjust b/c she's always right in her mind, it seems.
There is another element to that. I don’t believe she is rude. She is passionate, confident and direct. If she was a man or spoke softly, there would be no problem.
I really enjoy this, black People hated Marcus Garvey…he went back home and his people threw stones on him, as a prophet you just have to find spaces that love you and do your work from there.
I think it was previously recorded, but I am still here for it. Great interview. Love me some Amanda Seales and Jemele Hill!! ❤❤
This was insightful and fun to get to know Ms. Seales a bit better. Thank you both. 🖤✌🏽
Thank you for this interview❤
Us grown, intelligent, self aware, healed or healing folks love Amanda Seales. Sis from one empath to another. I feel u! Keep on keeping on!!!!
I stand with you Amanda!😊
I don't
I AM YOUR SISTER, AMANDA AND I STAND WITH YOU AND THE SEALE SQUAD!!!
Amandas problem is Amanda.
"Why doesn't anybody like me? I'm AWESOME!"
Thats it right there.
The package! As I typed it she did it in the interview. America hates minorities speaking truth to power or even having an unpopular opinion; loudly. Certain groups hate not having rebuttals for intelligent retorts.
Poignant final statement. Thank you for uploading this whole interview. Black intellectualism is important to me also.
Watching this video on my birthday weekend was the best gift I've ever received. A BEAUTIFUL AND BRILLIANT conversation between two SISTAH's.
Here for all of this!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I rocks with Amanda Seales❤❤...love her love for learning, her honesty, knowledge and intelligence. I flag🚩 all the haters who dont have the facts correct about Amanda. If it didnt come out her mouth, its a lie!!!
#SmallDoses😊🔥
Thanks ladies. I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation between two of my favorite Black women. Continued success and blessings. 🙏🏿
Amanda talks about being well read on things so she should understand speaking up for her people will come with ruthless opposition.
She's so well read she defended Jussie Smolett's hoax as noble. People aren't opposing her because she's speaking truth to power, they're opposing her because she supports scammers like Jussie and Shaun King over actual Black victims. Nah.
she probably does understand it. it doesn’t mean she likes how it feels.
@@wahoo4uva definitely never said she should like how it feel. That’s valid but the way she describes the discourse is as if she’s surprised by it when history shows this is the response.
Perhaps her surprise is at the fact that we have moved any further at this point.
Enjoyed this very much.
Classic. Kicking it off talking about candy corn 😅
I don’t know too much about Ms Seale but I love her personality and spirit. ❤️
I LOVE this conversation!
I grew up on candy corns, I’m from Lake Charles, Louisiana and now reside in California.❤
I love Amanda, and I loved this interview. Great job Jemele.
and there lies the problem "folks be bothered with me for no reason" - theres always a reason. you may not understand it, and it MAY have nothing to do with you and more so projection- amongst other internal struggles on those people behalf, but there is always a reason... and continuing to act as if it just came from an empty grocery bag is gaslighting...most people dont feel this way about Tamika and her whole life is dedicated to US....you dont have to care, and tbh you shouldnt, IF you have no desires of changing yourself or growing from others perspective views of you, its spiritually taxing, but to complain or to voice aloud is to some what care......
shes not my cup of anything, not even my own spit to keep my mouth salivated BUT i clicked to give her a chance hoping shes done some self awareness after hearing peoples feedback because i will always support anyones advocacy work when it comes to our community, even if i dont support them as a individual in all other aspects BUT im a little glad she said this statement early so i dont have to sit through this interview of the same AS. i feel for her internal struggle,😢 the windows to her soul say a lot🥺, it makes me feel sad and i havent even had my lunch yet😓. still dont fk with her but its sad.
Jemele your doing great work!! Stay the course
Nice interview.. I Love this!
Great Interview fantastic conversation Jemele Hill where do I get one of those tee shirts 🌍💪🏾🖤✊🏾
Great interview...The truth is people aren't ready for the truth, being a truth teller makes people uncomfortable sometimes because when the truth is out they have to be accountable for their actions oppose to living the lies they tell themselves, that's why they get mad..Amanda speaks truth and I appreciate that!
It's sad that it's always our ppl that have to bring another person down we jone, we lie on eachother, just despicable ish ... I'm really starting not to like how ppl are in society it's saddening
Love love this interview ❤❤❤❤
Love both of you! You represent our community well…👌🏾❤️
It is ignorance she doesn't need to respond to; these people really don't care - it's the people she has impacted that truly matter at this very serious time.
Jamele, where did you get that shirt?
I Love Amanda and I Love This interview ❤ Thank You For This
I am locked in. When she said “I don’t like this world”…I knew that’s why so many come for her. Those people do love this sick world. My dear. Stay blessed by truth.
Love you Amanda Seales. Continue to drown out the negativity.
Holding you up in the community. Sorry for your loss.
Amanda, reminds me of an only child syndrome ,she has a strong case of wanting to fit in. My heart goes out to her. But out of all this I didn’t hear about her relationship with the most high GOD if she believes, she needs to find out who & why she’s really here.🤔 PS, don’t give up being a mother,it’s a gift from GOD.
Loved this interview. I respect and appreciate both women & applaud Jemele for standing as a friend and ally of Amanda. Much love Amanda, keep your chin up!
When we share our stories, we help each other heal. Thank you, Amanda, for always sharing sincerely.
What podcast episode are they referring to? The loss of her baby?😣😢 would love to go listen
Love both of you strong Black sisters. I am a 74yo Black woman, and l too love being Black and sharing my love with Black people even when they don't know how to return the love. Knowing that they more than likely don't love themselves or maybe so damaged that they may not have the ability to share the FREE COMMODITY! Please keep loving YOURSELF so that you can even extend love to others, even the damaged haters. Never saw
" INSECURE" but I appreciate your unapologetic love of your 'BLACK , light-skinned self. Please KEEP YOUR VOICE , share it with the world. It will be received when "dey reddy"...
Oh my goodness, I went to the website and all of the dates for this year have been canceled. Is she going to have the remaining dates? I would love to go to a show.
Therapy, Therapy, Therapy an apology to all you’ve offended and a great publicist…. You’ll be fine.
Good interview
I’m with Amanda all day everyday. Love you Lady Amanda ❤
People describe Amanda Seales as being a polarizing figure because she is an outspoken black woman. There have been black rappers or famous black men in America who have said or done some bad things whether it's toward women or people in general, but they are still well-liked. Those men don't receive any or little backlash from the things that they have said or done that some people may see as offensive. So this is sexism pure and simple.
I agree! It’s like how people praise Kanye, after all his fallen outs, but would hold a grudge towards Tiffany Hadish or Lizzo.
Men cover up each other. They enable..
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Jemele!! You ALWAYS bring it! Yeah, yeah sometimes I'm late because I have to be "ready" for : what IF they come at Amanda Seales and I don't like it? I'm so glad you didn't do that.❤ What a beautiful interview and interaction between sistahs. I ❤it and thank you BOTH!!!!!!❤❤❤
I complimented Amanda's acting (Insecure) on twitter after the first episode she was in aired.
She responded with a condescending, snarky retort.....to a compliment.
Amanda is Beautiful, intelligent , interesting and is truly an ARTIST. Acting, musical , comedic with a powerful social awareness , she is “ Relevant “. I wish Amanda would own the game and not play the game, realizing that truths are a construct and not a reality in her industry. Sometimes we need to get out, of our own way. Someone told this to me yrs ago…and they were absolutely right🤘🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿
I value her information and content. She is very smart and I hope she continues to give us information.
Stay true to yourself, Amanda. Keep up the great work!
People didn't just decide not to like Amanda Seales. People didn't just wake up one day and say we don't like her. She's obviously very talented and intelligent. But its also obvious that she has a hard time dealing with people. And at some point she has to own that she's played a part in that.
Thank you for loving Black people Ms. Seales! I'm sorry for your loss. Another perspective... Your public responses (in my anecdotal survey) are received as (intelligent, but) immature. You're missing the peace that usually comes from consistent practice and is reflective of expertise. You are brilliant and beautiful. It's my guess that if you were to step back and look at the ingredients (tools/resources you have) with peace, you would reflect that peace and see clearer. People need peace. Sending you encouraging love ❤
When was this filmed?... Wasn't Insecure's finale in 2021?
Yes, I think summer of 2021 based on the talk about the SFB show at the Apollo (which occurred Nov 2021).
What is up with CZcams running reruns??
I love y'all both, period.
Love you Amanda and Thank you🥰
At 24:10 discussing how Amanda is polarizing. I don’t see how people would think that she is. She speaks her mind and she is absolutely correct about the things she says
@@CONEvtV SHE Is!!!
@@CONEvtV You again!!!??? Amanda speaks what she knows i.e, lived experience, and she has a masters in African American studies, etc. While I don’t know everything she has said (I have other things to do, and others to listen to and watch) Amanda is not a wholly subsidiary member of corporate interests and speaks pure and utter facts. That’s why weak minded people have a problem with her
@@jeanc.5926 You again??? There’s a long list of weak people then. Everyone she’s worked with is the problem & not her. Okay. If you say so.
Truth and directness will always be at the other end of the spectrum of Mendacity covert moves. The road to righteousness is narrow but a lot of people wanna dance in a lotta truth adjacent lanes .
@@paulatrent60 truth adjacent is what one say when the actual truth is something that they can’t handle but can’t call it a lie
I absolutely love these two women!