Hell yes. Started doing this this year. Changed my life. I would also add to this to summarize. Don't use other people as a mirror, use them as a sounding board. A mirror is for looking into and observing reactions without engagement, when you purposely ask people these types of questions then you clearly set the expectation for others that you want their feedback. This is huge, don't vague, state your needs and intentions clearly.
Great video, our self perception is often more negative compared to how others perceive. However, it's our responsibility to be as we want to be perceived.
Self-perception is related to self-awareness, a corner stone for living with purposefully in today's interconnected world. Before going out and live with others, we need to learn to live with ourselves. There is no way around this. Thanks for sharing this with us, Brendon!
These are very important self reflection questions to ask everyday. 💫🌸🙌 thank you!! I recently did a video on rewiring our identity by asking questions such as; Who am I? Who do I want to become? And what’s most important to me. 👈😃 Brendon, great video (as always). Happy to be part of your community. 🌸
I am so happy, Brendon, that i found you toda through this video. It helpes so many Things to click inside me and to undrrstand the importante of the Real self-perception and the crucialness of always asking for sincere Feedback from others, no matter how good, impecable and proud of yoursekf you feel, there is always something you cozld get Vetter AT. 8 am Peter Ovcharov from Bulgaria, and IT is Wonderful honour to have the opportunity to have my first Meeting with you, Here in CZcams. Greetings, and Best regards for the end of this so exciting year 2020.
Intention: How do I want to show up? I can pick nuggets from the Charged Life Book. I think I will revisit it soon! I am beginning to show up now! Its time to show up!
Never wanna lead other people cause I growed up in a family that with controlling problem.i am afraid people feel me controlling.its a bit hard for me to balance.also.how to get over people who u like doesn’t like u back
Would also like to know more about that. I have ADHD, we tend to have low self awareness. Some people think they should give me feedback but it's often patronizing and unhelpful.
Great points!!! I’m listening, but wondering what is going on with the background? It’s playing tricks on my brain! It looks like a mirror, but there’s no reflection in the mirror, the floors are different, there’s a plant in one window and no plant in the other window. It would seem it is two rooms, but when you look really closely at the divider on the wall section between the two windows, it looks like a wall to wall mirror!! The designer in me is going crazy!! 🤯
Why would I care how others perceive me? You do understand different people will have different opinions of you , depends on their own view of the world, right? Also, what's considered negatives or positives would align to their own personal perceptions as well. I liked another video of yours, but this feels like "people pleaser" video, and that's never a good trait to have or develop.
What if you are perceived to be negative, or dumb, even though you are neither. You will never get promoted or even hired,and you will end up frustrated and resentful.
Hell yes. Started doing this this year. Changed my life. I would also add to this to summarize. Don't use other people as a mirror, use them as a sounding board. A mirror is for looking into and observing reactions without engagement, when you purposely ask people these types of questions then you clearly set the expectation for others that you want their feedback. This is huge, don't vague, state your needs and intentions clearly.
Nobody asks others who they think they are as a person, they get TOLD by people who they are. Stay true to yourself and FIGHT BACK!
Brendon I agree with Andrew Crockett.
There is no fighting back for me there is only let them have their way.
Great video, our self perception is often more negative compared to how others perceive. However, it's our responsibility to be as we want to be perceived.
*What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.*
I remember that quote! R.W. Emerson :-) Good one to remember!
Self-perception is related to self-awareness, a corner stone for living with purposefully in today's interconnected world. Before going out and live with others, we need to learn to live with ourselves. There is no way around this. Thanks for sharing this with us, Brendon!
So true...Know yourself first and own who you are before you expect otherwise from people
This man changed my life in 2019, i discovered another level of mentality by reading his book, high perfomer habits
These are very important self reflection questions to ask everyday. 💫🌸🙌 thank you!!
I recently did a video on rewiring our identity by asking questions such as; Who am I? Who do I want to become? And what’s most important to me. 👈😃
Brendon, great video (as always). Happy to be part of your community. 🌸
Thanks Brendon! Keep inspiring those who need it. Hoping to join your trainings soon. Be more blessed.
Perfect timing !! This kind of videos always show up when I need them the most!! Thank you !! You´ve helped me so much !
Yo Brandon, that's the best video you've made. I felt like I needed this words so much. Thanks, man!
I am so happy, Brendon, that i found you toda through this video. It helpes so many Things to click inside me and to undrrstand the importante of the Real self-perception and the crucialness of always asking for sincere Feedback from others, no matter how good, impecable and proud of yoursekf you feel, there is always something you cozld get Vetter AT.
8 am Peter Ovcharov from Bulgaria, and IT is Wonderful honour to have the opportunity to have my first Meeting with you, Here in CZcams.
Greetings, and Best regards for the end of this so exciting year 2020.
Thanks Brandon this video really helped me. I was not knowing my self for many years...thank you very add much.
Hi Brendon, great video (as always). Happy to be part of your community.
It's so important that your self-image is congruent with your self-worth
This guy is amazing!! He is the best I've ever heard 😍
Thank you sir. I am always like to watch your videos since 2014.
Love from Malaysia
Clarity and precision 🙂
Intention: How do I want to show up? I can pick nuggets from the Charged Life Book. I think I will revisit it soon! I am beginning to show up now! Its time to show up!
You're amazing you got what i think to myself and now i got the answer. I hope i can watch more your videos ❤️
Another AWESOME video Brendon!!! Keep Bringing the Joy!!!
Thank you Brendon
I never wanted to define who I am because the moment life has been defined and pre-defined, there will no longer be a me!
Great message. Brendon. Morning
Thanks for all the content!
Never wanna lead other people cause I growed up in a family that with controlling problem.i am afraid people feel me controlling.its a bit hard for me to balance.also.how to get over people who u like doesn’t like u back
You chose a great and different topic ! Thanks.
But, what if someone has a disorder that makes it hard to reflect and socialize with people? Then what is someone suppose to do Brendon Burchard?
Would also like to know more about that. I have ADHD, we tend to have low self awareness. Some people think they should give me feedback but it's often patronizing and unhelpful.
This was amazing advice couldn’t of said it better thank you
brutally honest
had to watch this for health class: brendon stop gaslighting me
thank you
Wow amazing, I loved how you explain this, thank you 😊
🙋Really Good!!!!
can anyone tell what is the name of background music...its very nice to hear.
Beautiful
My God, Brendon, that was 🔥🔥🔥
Very helpful! Specially from min 11.00 :) :) :)
Great points!!! I’m listening, but wondering what is going on with the background? It’s playing tricks on my brain! It looks like a mirror, but there’s no reflection in the mirror, the floors are different, there’s a plant in one window and no plant in the other window. It would seem it is two rooms, but when you look really closely at the divider on the wall section between the two windows, it looks like a wall to wall mirror!! The designer in me is going crazy!! 🤯
@@alexandraczeschlick9738 I do see that now that you mention it. Still, it is messing with my design brain!! :D
I needed this ! Thank you
Your a good motivator
Very informative video! The music is maybe a bit too high? Struggled a bit trying to focus.
Man I love you so much .
2:20 I love that
Hey can you make a video of losing weight with a diet 😆 what's your advice
First step, you should avoid all the food and drinks containing sugar.
Try intermittent Fasting
EYY!! EVERY DAY CLOSER TO 1 MILLION!! :D
Brendon 😇
good video though props to you man.
Are all these light bulbs on during daylight?
Why do you care what other people percive of you as long as your happy and your not harming anyone who cares.
Just be yourself
are you unhappy in your self perception.
Why would I care how others perceive me? You do understand different people will have different opinions of you , depends on their own view of the world, right? Also, what's considered negatives or positives would align to their own personal perceptions as well. I liked another video of yours, but this feels like "people pleaser" video, and that's never a good trait to have or develop.
"Some people major in minor things..." Jim Rohn
👍👍👍
Is it only me or the new editing style is not that pleasant to watch?
Hello Sir ..... i have problem with you .... please use simple english
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I don't agree! we should not care about how other people perceive us.
What if you are perceived to be negative, or dumb, even though you are neither. You will never get promoted or even hired,and you will end up frustrated and resentful.
why when talking are you looking somewhere ..else not on the camera, every youtuber does it these days, and it is quite distracting, sigh..