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The past few weeks have been quite the journey for me. On Friday, August 12th, I received my first round of chemotherapy at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota.
I knew my hair was likely going to start falling out within the next few weeks, but I wasn’t quite ready to completely let go. Instead, I decided to have a little bit of fun! Two hair cuts and shave later… here we are. ❤️
I hope you enjoy going on this journey with me, and maybe I can even inspire some of you out there who are going through the same thing. My best advice: embrace the change, appreciate your natural beauty, and remember - it will grow back (or so they tell me 😅).
I honestly thought losing my hair would be way more emotional, but I think the fact that I was able to accept it in stages really helped. It also helped to have my number one partner in life, Brian, by my side the entire way. And there in the end when we knew it was just plain old time to shave it off.
Thanks, as always, for the continued support. Some days I wake up wondering how on earth we got to this point… but I am also thankful every day that I have such an amazing community rallying behind me.
For now, I keep looking in the mirror and saying “I’M BALD!” But… I do have to say, it’s so much easier to maintain. 😂
PEEF, Hope & Love,
Jessica 🧸❤️🧸💚🧸💜
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The past few weeks have been quite the journey for me. On Friday, August 12th, I received my first round of chemotherapy at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota.
I knew my hair was likely going to start falling out within the next few weeks, but I wasn’t quite ready to completely let go. Instead, I decided to have a little bit of fun! Two hair cuts and shave later… here we are. ❤
I hope you enjoy going on this journey with me, and maybe I can even inspire some of you out there who are going through the same thing. My best advice: embrace the change, appreciate your natural beauty, and remember - it will grow back (or so they tell me 😅).
I honestly thought losing my hair would be way more emotional, but I think the fact that I was able to accept it in stages really helped. It also helped to have my number one partner in life, Brian, by my side the entire way. And there in the end when we knew it was just plain old time to shave it off.
Thanks, as always, for the continued support. Some days I wake up wondering how on earth we got to this point… but I am also thankful every day that I have such an amazing community rallying behind me.
For now, I keep looking in the mirror and saying “I’M BALD!” But… I do have to say, it’s so much easier to maintain. 😂
PEEF, Hope & Love,
Jessica 🧸❤🧸💚🧸💜
You look beautiful!!!
I really admire you embracing this hair aspect. I never could. It was one of the worst parts. Mine mostly fell out on Christmas Day😵💫
Jessica, even bald, you are beautiful. Your eyes are even more stunning. I really love the way you look. Very cute!
Now you can wear that adorable beige bonnet you bought! It will keep your head warm. Your the best!!!!
Hahahaha. I’m sure it IS easier to maintain! I’ve always had this curiosity of wanting to bald myself! At least you have nice ears! Mine stick out.😧 I’ll look like Dumbo if I do it. The bald look brought out your pretty eyes. Don’t hide under the hats unless it’s cold. You look great.👍🏼🙂
Brian said, "You always look cute. Now you look cute with a hat on." Hug that man for old Granny. 💙💙💙
She hugs me all the time, Granny. 😀
Jessica, your husband is a gem!! Prayers sent your way
@@KrocksInTheKitchen i love the short one best!! please stay strong as u are, u will be fine
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Totally honest opinion here-the shorter your hair, the cuter you are. You really rock the bald look, IMO. Even so, I can only imagine hard this is. Always in my thoughts as you go through this difficult period in your life.
I 100% agree! It looks sooo freaking good
I agree.
I love the short hair and 'bald' look.
Agreed! She is adorable!
When I was treated for Hodgkins Disease during the winter of 1970 I too lost my hair. One spring day I was especially down - sad that cancer had taken so much from me, a 23 year old newlywed. I was blessed to have a young husband, very much like your Brian and one day , I remember how he lightened the mood when he said “Come outside with me. I will water your head and maybe that will help your hair grow.” Of course it did grow and came back thick and with the same natural curl. I wish that for you, and most of all I pray for your complete recovery and a long life like I have been blessed with despite that rough start.
Yours was a good story to share!❤️♥️😘
How lovely 💕💕💕
“Do you still like me? - I love you !! “ omgosh guys , this was so powerful and beautiful. Jess, I loved the short hair on you, it highlighted your face and those beautiful blue eyes even more. Fear nothing because God is with you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Jessica: "What do you think?"
Brian: "I think..no matter what happens, I'm gonna love ya."
❤️😭 So beautiful and affirming.
He's a keeper!
They are such a beautiful, loving couple.
Jessica, very few folks can have the incredibly positive attitude you and Brian have. God bless you both. Prayers sent your way
I am shocked I thought the shave was not going to look good it did not change your good looks .I am happy for U.You look BEAUTIFUL
I cried as your hair was being shaved, but your eyes, your smile, your positive attitude, your perfectly shaped head made me smile, knowing that you will be fine. I love the idea that you tried two shorter hairstyles so that you know that you look great with both lengths/styles. The love that you and Brian share is remarkable and will get you through this ordeal. ❤️
I loved all the styles you tried. When I had cancer, I took a “Look good feel better” class offered by cancer society. Might check it out, if you haven’t already. It was taught by beauty school teacher. We got free cosmetics, and showed us how to tie scarves, etc. They recommended wearing big earrings to rock the bald look. It took cancer to get me to try short hair, now I won’t wear it any way but pixie. Praying you have an easy time with chemo, and full recovery! The WFPB can’t hurt! You got this!
Hi Jessica, my name is April. I’m 49. I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer in early 2022. Before chemo I got my hair cut very short like your 2nd cut and then at the end of July after approx the same amount of time after you started chemo mine started falling out. I sat here for a few days running my fingers through it before I finally buzzed it all off myself. It’s weird when I catch a glance of myself in a mirror. I’ve chosen to wear these (I call them gypsy head scarves) that I found online and when the weather cools down I’ll wear beanies. My story is long but suffice to say in late April after my exploratory abdominal surgery/omentum & lymph nodes removal the surgeon couldn’t perform the radical hysterectomy because it had spread into other places in my pelvis, my uterus had fallen onto my bowel and everything is all stuck together making it dangerous. I have a very rare blood clotting disorder so after surgery had to go daily for weeks and weeks to have my blood tested first thing in morn and then have a few hours of fibrinogen replacement at the same place I have chemo now. Then my huge abdominal incision got infected and had to do 2 rounds of Keflex. This delayed chemo for me until July. I had already knew it was in my cervix and one ovary before surgery and they did all the scans but I guess it took exploratory surgery to really see the state of things inside. Friday I get scans to see if it’s shrinking and Monday is my 4th round of paclitaxel & Carboplatin. If it’s shrinking they will be able to perform the radical hysterectomy in November. After every chemo treatment I am hardly able to walk due to neuropathy in my lower legs (I’m type 1 diabetic). I never felt the neuropathy before chemo but week 3 after is my best week and I catch up on laundry! Sorry this is so long! I want to say wow you look awesome with short hair and bald! You have such a cute face and beautiful eyes! I’ve worn short hair for years now and I love it! Take care!💓
Please..take care and God bless you
Awww Thank you for sharing. You have been thru a lot. Good Luck with your journey 🙏🏼
Love to you, and good luck.
God bless you! For all you have, and are going through, you are positive and encouraging. You are in my prayers. You got this!! ❤
I'm praying for you!! Thanks for sharing your story with us. You've got this. God bless you from grandma Katie in Oregon
I started crying when Brian was shaving your head, because I was feeling your sense of loss and the reality of what you are going through. I still am in tears. But you are handling all this so well, and I am so glad Brian is such a rock there for you. You both are incredible for sharing your journey with us. Thank you so much. So glad you like your hats. I see people in them all the time, so you will blend right in when you go to the store.
I can’t believe you didn’t cry. I cried for you. The green hat is totally you!
When my wife started her chemo she asked me to shave her hair off just to get that part of the process over with. We put her hair out in the backyard for birds to use as nesting material. She also got a beret to keep her head warm - we lose a lot of heat from our heads. Your hair will grow back - curly at first.
Jessica, now we get to see your beautiful eyes and face all the more!
This must me such a difficult and scary time in your life, but…I have faith that you will be well once again! Keep the faith!
I swear Jessica, you are absolutely beautiful, you look great no matter what. I continue to pray for you and thank you for including us in your journey and allow us to be with you throughout this.
Brian - that was a beautiful comment you made telling her that no matter what happens with her hair you will love her. I'd give the world to have a man loving me that loved me no matter what. Also, the full removal of hair gives greater emphasis to those beautiful eyes so wear the full loss of hair with pride because it highlights your beauty!
Honestly for me having my husband finally just shave off all of my hair was a relief. I felt like it was torture just watching it fall out. I wore hats all the time, my parents bought me a beautiful real hair wig and it was so uncomfortable. My advice is be sure that’s what you really want before you spend alot of money on one. Everyone that I know to this date didn’t like them. I actually think you had a great idea to go shorter and shorter giving you time to adjust. I went from long to none in 10 minutes. You are going to be fine, you have the best attitude going into this journey. Just take a breath, it’s ok. My prayers are with you❣️
Similar experience . Good advice. Sending caring hugs your way.
Me too….I kinda enjoyed being bald….I wore caps at first and then I just rocked my baldness 😄
I had a tee shirt that said “My Oncologist Does My Hair”. My oncologist got a kick out of it. 😊 you are beautiful girl and you’ve got this!! Prayers are coming your way daily.
My hair fell out with chemo too, including eyebrows, eyelashes, etc etc. But my skin became really soft. Yes everything grew back and I'm still here 15 years later. It was worth it. Sending love and prayers.
Love the fact you basically just took that power away from cancer by controlling when and how you would change that part of your life for now. Seeing you enjoy the hats was fun too. Nothing but love and prayers for you❤️
When my best friend's hair started to grow back, we both cried because we were so happy and relieved.
Everyone here will gladly cry happy tears with you when your hair starts to grow back. ♥️
I went through the same thing when I had breast cancer treatments back in 2010. It was one of the hardest parts emotionally for me. One plus for me was was when it grew back there was no gray in my hair. That may be something for you to look forward to….and when it grows back it comes in really fast. Thinking of you and saying prayers for your speedy recovery. You got this!!!
You're so brave to share this journey with us. I was crying when Brian was shaving your head.
Stay strong and I pray you recover soon.
Me too!
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Shaving one's hair off is actually something I recommend that most people do at least once in their lives. It is both intimidating and liberating. Of course, one hopes it is not in response to illness . . . but you guys seem to have a great attitude about it :) Celebrate the freedom from that care -- for a while!
I'm crying as I'm watching your video. I remember when I looked at my bald head, it was the one and only time I cried. I said to myself "this breast cancer and chemo must be really really serious business!" I decided to stay grateful that I had good doctors and good insurance. I also had a good job waiting for me when I finished my treatment. My husband and I had enough income so that I could take a year off and did not have to go back to work during treatment. Not everyone is that fortunate. God bless you Jessica and Brian.
Don’t worry about hair loss. it will grow back . I had my hair cut short after first chemo. A few days later I was taking a shower before going to work. All of sudden it started falling out in large clumps. My husband got the vacuum cleaner to get rid of all the loose hair. Good thing I had one of those beanies to wear. Ask hairdresser on how to treat your scalp .
Honestly, you are GORGEOUS! The attention is drawn directly to your gorgeous eyes and perfect smile!. Thank you for giving us the privilege of sharing your journey withyou. I promise you are in my prayers! Believing with you for complete wellness - between the amazing doctors, God, your positive attitude and Brian - you've got this!
I agree
Absolutely!! Your beautiful baby blues are incredible, without your glasses we get a sneak peek. The photos with your mom are treasures. You really have a beautiful peace about you. Heal well my friend.
Yes, it really makes your lovely skin shine, and your blue eyes really pop. It's great!
I cannot tell you how proud I am of your strength. I absolutely love you and I am so proud of you!!! You are gorgeous bald or with a lot of hair! Sending prayers and hugs.
Are you her relative? She is adorable
@@sl4983 no, but she feels like family .
Your mom is adorable. Cherish her, I miss my mom who I unfortunately lost to cancer. I hope you have many many more years together!!!
I just went through this with stage 3b ovarian. As of now I am NED and my heart goes out to you so much. So many of us know how this feels and we want you to know you are not alone. The amount of solidarity I feel for you is just bursting my heart. I wish I could reach through the screen and hug you. It's going to be okay. You are strong, gorgeous, and a fighter. It won't be easy. It's going to be the toughest thing you ever do and the amount of bravery you need is mind boggling. Take one day at a time. Feel every emotion. Laugh. Cry. Scream. Repeat. Ask for the magic mouthwash for your mouth and throat. Ask about taking Claritin for the bone pain (trust me, it helps). Try baby wash and coconut oil on your scalp because it can be sore and tender. A soft beanie will help when you sleep. Also... my eyes and eyelids bothered me so badly during chemo. I would get big styes from the clogged oil glands. Amazon sells these great eyelid wipes that helped. Mineral oil will help if they get too dry and it's hard to see. I wish I could just send all of what I learned in some crazy brain dump to you. Just take care of yourself! Things are going to start tasting awful so have some hard candy to suck on! Just keep going! You got this!
The mom haircut was literally adorable on you. I hope you're doing well.
God Bless you Jessica! Hair does not make a person , your heart does...and you are beautiful inside and out. Thank you for being brave enough to share your journey with us all....praying for your journey and your recovery!
You will rock the baldness! I too lost my hair from chemo...it was like overnight, started shedding like mad. I would get in the shower and coat my hair with conditioner and come thru it with a wide tooth comb. That became to much and I was Sooo tired of hair shedding everywhere went that day and had it buzzed. You will have your moments mourning a little bit for your hair loss and other times where it's a relief.
A nurse helped me when i had to get rid of my hair. Its so strange but once the sick and dying hair was gone i felt invincible and stronger than ever. You go girl and you look beautiful !!
I hope it’s ok to say this but gosh you look amazing with a shaven head - I wish you didn’t have to go through this journey, of course,but you definitely rock this look and you took control of the situation with such dignity and humour that I am in awe - I cannot express how much I admire your attitude ,I know we can’t underestimate the severe ups and downs you’ll privately travel through but please know that you are rocking it- you look so modern and it really does show of your beautiful eyes - I’ll be honest I’d never noticed them before but as soon as you had you first really short hair cut,like your Mam,they just seemed to sparkle- much love and prayers for you both from Southampton, England x
Looks adorable,praying for you on this journey.Cancer survivor myself.💕💕💕
You are darling!! You totally rocked each hairstyle, and because of your pretty features, look beautiful without your hair. Prayers as you continue your journey!
I watched my sister shave her head after it started to fall out. This brought back those memories. You are a strong woman, and you are married to a strong man. Sending love and hugs to both of you.
Also, during Covid I had my husband give me a buzz cut because all the salons were closed. It grows back! You are a beautiful person no matter what! It might even grow back curly!!!
I love the 12:25 pixie style hair cut, when your hair starts coming in again you're going to rock the short styles!!!!
It looked like a very intimate moment between you and Brian when he was shaving your head. I think sharing all of this helps you stay lighthearted. You two are so good for each other and will be an even stronger couple when you are all through with this phase of your life and can just go back to wondering what recipe to film!
Jessica, you can be a “hat” model!!!! You have such a great-shaped head! You looked great in all of your hats! I never realized this before, but hats and glasses together seem to balance each other out. Plus, if you do lose your eyebrows, nobody will notice because of the frames on your glasses.
Your positive attitude and wonderful husband are both great for healing. Thanks for this latest update. Hugs and prayers from Arizona. ❤️🐾🌵
You are so amazing Jessica - and so is Brian! I am smiling and crying at the same time watching Brian shave your head! I did the same thing when I was going through chemo for breast cancer 17 years ago! I had a short-ish haircut first, then went shorter, then said to cancer, “I’ll decide if I’m bald!” And my husband shaved it off with our dog clippers (I don’t recommend the dog clippers btw 😂!)
Your courage and bravery and how you are sharing it with us is helping a LOT more people than you know! 🤗
Kudo's to you both for having the courage to document this. I think a lot of us who may not have experience with this directly (myself included) can easily take it for granted what goes on during a cancer diagnosis and treatment. I do know several people who have gone through it. Sending you both hugs and love.
So sassy, so cute! You rock it all. Long, short, no hair and hat. It’s all beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
Your bravery and ability to put this out in the video world is an encouragement. Lots of love and prayers continuing as your journey continues.
I felt the whole range of emotions watching this entire video. You actually look super cute bald! Brian is wonderful as always. Thank you for sharing every bit of this. You're a hero!
I know it can sometimes be difficult to stay positive in the midst of this, but you're doing so well. A friend of mine who shaved her head during chemo found that she really enjoyed wearing scarves on her head in the cooler months, and she had fun learning new ways to tie them as well as matching them to outfits. She actually ended up keeping her head shaved the summer after going into remission because she liked how cool it kept her!
We love you guys and are with you (quite literally) on this journey!!!! 🤍
Love to you and yours on this journey!
Sending love and care to you beautiful lady.
"Do you know what you're doing?"
"Yeah, I do this to my face all the time."
I laughed so hard, I scared the cats.
You guys are beautiful. We love you!
PS: Those gorgeous eyes really pop, now.
A Mayo Clinic commercial came on and I said to my husband "if I ever need care for cancer that's where I wanna go. Jessica is going there to get cured". I don't know either of you but I love you both. Stay strong! 💚💚 (Jessica...you look fantastic in all of those hats!)
I LOVE your hair short! Definitely rock it when it grows back! Keep staying strong! You got this girl!
I don't know why, but we women are so invested in our hair, even when we just let it go do what it wants. You are courageous for sharing this part of your journey. And you have found 1 or 2 hair styles for later. And btw, you have a nicely shaped head!
Sending ❤️.
I can tell Brian is trying so hard to be strong for you. What a love story you guys have!
You’re a beautiful brave funny kind woman. Wishing you all the very best on this journey. I’ve loved all your videos and admired the wonderful dynamic between you and Brian. Love from Adelaide Australia 🧡
My first thought with your hair shaved is “boy, her eyes are so blue.” You really see you! I think you look cute although I got choked up on your behalf.❤️ The pictures with your mom are so beautiful.
I love your love for each other and so glad to see how much you support one another. 💕
You are still adorable. Now the focus is on your pretty eyes and great smile.
So glad that you have so much love and support through all of this.
Jessica This was me 20 yrs ago. I never wore a wig or a scarf. Had many tweens and teens tell me I "rocked" with my shaved and then bald head. I just owned it and you can too.It's a lesson in impermanence and how unimportant things like hair are. My partner was also very supportive-this is the important stuff. You are still you . At some point this will be something that happened to you along time ago. Honor yourself and your process!
Y'all are just crazy in love, & brave for each other, and doing so much to raise awareness by sharing this rollercoaster with us. It's like an amazing virtual "toolkit" to the world, showing us what to expect & how to deal with it - if/when this affects us/our loved ones. Gratitude & Prayers sent your way 💐
I could feel the emotion I was seeing in your face and couldn’t help but cry. You are beautiful with and without hair. It amazes me how much we hide with our hair. Your eyes and smile just pop now that you have no hair. Keep on fighting and thanks for sharing this with us.
So, Jessica, you have now discovered that you are beautiful with short hair, shorter hair, no hair, and with hats. Your spirit and hope shine through. Prayers that your journey will bring you good health and exciting tomorrows.
Holy cow Jess. I love the short cut on you. How adorable. It's so flattering on you. God Bless and my prayers are for you and Brian.
The way EVERYONE around you looks at you 🥰 ESPECIALLY your hubby and your momma!! We are ALL so very proud of you.....
You two are the cutest couple, and I’m so glad you have each other as you both go through this. Sending all the positive vibes and prayers I can your way!
Your ability to smile and be full of joy is wildly admirable! You two are awesome!
Adorable….I lost ALL my hair at 30…not from cancer…alopecia universalis….my older daughter has cancer and her chemo hair journey has been all over the place, depending on her chemo cocktail….you are brave and beautiful inside and out….your good, supportive hubby is wonderful! My son-in-law is a light in my daughter’s life….sending healing hugs..🥰☮️🧘♀️🦋💜
HI. Been a silent follower for a couple of years now. I went through this myself back in 2016. I had breast cancer...6 rounds of chemo I'm fine now. :) My BFF and I made a party out of the day I shaved my head. We did several styles, even a mohawk before shaving it down bald. We were drinking and it was fun and what I needed. I knew it was just hair and it would grow back. I miss the days of being bald and being able to get ready in 15 mins. However, I'm glad I have my health and all my long hair back now. And I'm not so scared to cut huge amounts of length off my hair now like I used to be. Your health will be awesome again soon and you will have your hair back before you know it. You seem to have a good attitude. And THAT is the best medicine. STAY POSITIVE!! Positivity does wonders for your mind, body and soul. Sending you AWESOME POSITIVE VIBES. :)
I actually loved the freeing feeling when I shaved my hair off after 3 weeks of chemo. I had fun with scarves and hats! Never wore a wig! Then Enjoyed the journey and stages of playing with it as it grew back! Yes, it will grow softer and healthier than it’s been in years! Wear big earrings!
Jessica, I cried for you. But then I saw your beautiful eyes and your true beauty without your heavy hair. (Your hair is thick!) You are stunning! After you get comfortable with the situation, let the hats go and rock those baby blues! (Both haircuts were adorable on you. The short cut really opened up your face and freshened your look.)
Dear girl, my heart goes out to you. I was in your shoes 3 years ago, I did the cut, then after the second round of chemo, I took my electric razor to the leftover. You have a beautiful head shape, and fortunately, I do, too. My hair came back very curly for the first year-year and a half, and the last 10 months it has returned to my ‘regular’ hair texture. The had a wig similar to your cut and loved it, too. Every week, you are one week closer to being healed. Prayers for your peace of mind.
Last September, I was diagnosed with Leukemia and started treatment almost immediately. I’ve always had beautiful, thick, long red hair and it’s been part of my identity as long as I remember. I’ve lost my hair twice since then, with my initial treatment and then as soon as it started to come back in, I had my stem cell transplant and lost it again. Six month post transplant, it’s finally coming back. I don’t wear a wig, and have only worn a hat when I had to go out into the Michigan cold last winter. You get used to it. Yes, when I look in the mirror, I am constantly reminded that I’m in the club no one wants to be in, but it definitely beats the alternative.
Best wishes for a full and speedy recovery! ♥️ from Melbourne Australia
My sister lost her hair during chemo, and it came back thicker and curly, hope you have the same luck. Praying for a complete recovery, bless you and Brian.
I really admire you, Jessica, for sharing all of this with us. It must take a great deal of courage. You're so brave, courageous, and classy. I loved both shorter hair cuts. Both were really cute. And you don't have an ugly head! You're rocking those hats. And Brian, I'm so glad you're there to support Jessica and simply love her.
I’m not gonna lie, but I cried…. I feel like you guys are family, even though I’ve never met you. But you are a strong woman! For sure. You are an absolutely beautiful person inside and out! Brian is an amazing husband that loves you unconditionally! God bless you both! Praying for you! Hugs 🤗 Cindy💕
I love the short cut! I lost a lot of hair from my autoimmune disease but when it grew back it was curly. Sending lots of love and prayers to you both💜🙏🏻
Cancer : Class of 2016 My oncologist told me it would fall out over the course of 3 or so chemo's. It was falling out in clumps, in 12 days, I was literally afraid I would go to work, and have no hair by the time I left 8 hours later. I was shaved on a Friday evening by a lovely hairdresser who also had a wig shop. You are handling it like a champ. I had a beautiful wig that I wore for exactly 20 min, and never had it on again. ( I hear that's a common thing) Invested in tons of hats ( got some as gifts) . My favorite was Chemo-sabe, I got from etsy. ( I'm showing my age) . The lovely hairdresser said it best. It's a year and a half investment of time. My hair did not all together come back. 50% of it, never grew back on the crown of my head. Not going to lie, when I say I was pissed. My permanent hair is thinner. I was angry about this for a year or two, tried different treatments, then finally accepted my fate. You my darling have lovely thick hair, and you will probably never know the difference. Headcovers unlimited has the softest hats, I loved wearing them. You got this.
This brought back memories of me shaving my son’s hair. His eyebrows fell out too and we had so much fun drawing on new eyebrows. I was terrible at it. We had a good laugh though.
I have a pixie cut and I love it! I’ve always had short hair so…whatever cut/shave you have you will rock it! Never let your hair define you! You are beautiful no matter what is on, or not on, your head! All the best, Jessica!
You are so strong Jessica! You are an inspiration! I’m so in awe of the way you handled the hair thing. What a great idea to play around with styles before losing it. You looked beautiful every step of the way! Continued prayers for a complete recovery! 💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I'm only half way through. Having ones hair fall out is a big deal because it indicates change. Your stunning blue eyes, beaming smile with enviable teeth and kind heart that you show us, totally outshines your hair regardless of its length, style or hat. Your hair is the picture frame that barely keeps the picture in its rectangle. I'm further through the video. The photos with your mother are very special. You look like a rock star with the shaved head. With the hats you look like a 1920s model. Just missing the tassels. Time to go dancing.
I just wrapped up my chemo from breast cancer. From one beautiful bald-headed woman to another, you've got this! It's only hair and it will eventually come back. 💞🤗💞
You look great - and got rid of the hassle of it falling out everywhere, especially in your in-laws’ plumbing!!! Cancer related hair loss is so tough - but cancer also teaches you - day 1 - about big picture. My emotions land on my hair loss some days, but really, t’is the least of my problems…
You’ve got this, Jessica! The daughter of a good friend of mine had Ovarian Cancer in her early 20’s. Now, 15 (or so) years later, she’s happy & healthy with 3 awesome kids! She still rocks a shorter hair style (like the second one you had) and it looks adorable on her, just like it did on you. ❤️
I could feel your emotion with the actual shaving. I can’t imagine how hard all this is.
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Your eyes really stand out with the bald look! They really are beautiful!
I am 16 years post chemo for breast cancer & lost mine while hospitalized for a lung infection. I remember it coming out like yours, in handfuls. Soon as I got home, I called my hairdresser & told her it was time for the shave. I got a wig so I wouldn't scare kids at work (nurse in a clinic) and frankly hated it so only wore it when necessary. I do have one bit of advice. When not wearing a wig, now that it will be getting cooler, be sure to wear a hat or some other head covering. I was shocked how cold my head got when it was bare. Good luck with your journey. Your hair will grow back.
You look good. I lost my hair to alopecia universalis 15 years ago. Sometimes wigs look so much better than my real hair. You can change them up and be blonde one day and brunette the next. I order inexpensive ones from Paula Young. Still get plenty of compliments on my wigs from people who don't know they are wigs. You got this. It will be okay.
I have alopecia universalis also. I tried wigs, but they didn’t look right on me, but I’ll look at the Paula Young ones. And yes, she has got this x
Awwww, Jessica. You are adorable in long hair, short hair (loved that first cut w/bangs) and no hair! You're handling it all with the best attitude. Sending lots of 💜💜💜.
The first cut made you look older, the third one was the cutest. Your bald look is actually nice, especially with the glasses on. I shaved mine bald as soon as the shedding started. Watching clumps of hair being pulled creeps me out. I LOVED the feeling of the shower on my bald head.
Sending all the hugs and support. I’m from Southern Illinois about an hour south of St Louis. Praying every day for you and Brian ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You looked absolutely beautiful in every hairstyle!! They all fit you so well!! Your attitude and approach to this was amazing! Keep fighting! You've got this! We are praying!! 🙏🏼❤️🤘
Jessica and Brian, you both are the epitome of beauty. It radiates from you and is inspiring to see. Praying for you both.
its all about the love...its not about the hair !! you are both immeasurably adorable.... hair or no hair !! blessings... praise our creator and our savior !!!!
Wow, Brian. I sat here and cried when you said, “No matter what happens, I’m gonna love you.”
You are beautiful! You’ve taken your hair journey with Grace, grit and lots of tenacity. Bald is the new sexy. Jessica you are so loved and the strength you’ve displayed is beyond amazing. Continuing to lift you and Brian in prayer as you continue this journey.
Now you can rock some awesome earrings! You did so well to not cry when it was happening. I know we were all crying for you. God bless you and heal you.
I still remember the night I did this so very well. That was three and a half years ago, I'm all healthy, and the hair is back. You're doing great! So brave of you to share this with the world. Yes, I only wore hats. The wigs were just too uncomfortable on every level. You're in my prayers. Blessings.
You rocked your short haircuts and having no hair! Both you and your Mom have beautiful eyes! Love how positive you are and how you find laughter even while battling cancer. I will continue to pray for you each and every day.
You are so incredibly brave. Sending out positive energy, prayers and love.
Your strength through this journey is inspiring ❤️ Me on the other hand, crying like a baby when Brian was shaving your head! Keep fighting the good fight Jessica!
Not everyone can carry off a bald head and still look so cute! You’re rockin it , Sweetie!! 🙏🙏
You and your mom have beautiful eyes!
I have been through 39 surgeries since may 2018. It taught me that I never knew how strong I was until strong was the only thing I had left to be. But I also learned that part of being strong was allowing myself to laugh, cry and even throw a fit from time to time... That takes strength as well. I lost my leg in November and now I am back to figuring out how to find my new normal.