Valentine's Day: Big Deal or Not? -- Back Porch Bickerin'
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- Matt and Calli get really passionate about their topics in this episode of Back Porch Bickerin'. Navigating the truths, desires, and societal pressures of the Valentine's Day, these two Southerners really put things in perspective.
#itsasouthernthing
Most romantic day of the year in my wife's book, February 15th, when all the Valentine's candy goes on sale. She'd be angry if I paid full price.
That's how I think. I like your wife. We could be friends.
I'm the same. If we do anything for Valentine's day, we do it after. After 10 years together, I'm a cheap date.😂
@@HG-gj9lh 42 years for us. If you think you're cheap now, just wait.😂😂😂 Better a cheap date than an easy one, I guess.
@@reneemulherin2899 😂 I think you're on to something!
To be honest if be annoyed if my boyfriend payed full price for Valentine's day candy too.
“I WILL FIGHT YOU ON THIS PORCH!”
This ladies and gentlemen is why I love Matt
Correction: Why *everyone* loves Matt
Matt bless your heart!😂 Your wife knows you work with crazy people so you should be okay. I've never cared about Valentine's day. But any excuse to get candy is awesome!❤
that girl in okc 😂 same
Guys I think I’m addicted
To WATCHING THESE VIDS😂
There's only 23 in the playlist trying to space them out
Yeah I wish they came back
All proceeds from your purchases of the Bless Your Heart buttons goes towards Matt's Valentine Day date with his wife, since he's done stepped in it this year. Lmao!!
“I WILL FIGHT YOU ON THIS PORCH!” Literally me
Hence the name
I usually agree with Matt however I’m with Callie low key. However other holidays go real big!
No card, yes chocolate. Always chocolate no matter what 😂
Also Matt saying his scared and calling his wife is adorable lol I hope they always call Lisa.
I live in the Cleveland OH area and MALLEY's chocolate covered strawberries are my go-to for Valentines Day. They set up 4 or 5 temporary drive-throughs just for the occasion. They have been around the area since the 1930's and all of it is wonderful. .
Tim Y. That sounds delicious!
This video only strengths my belief that Calli and Matt are really brother and sister. :) Now Calli, I must agree with Matt, going low key on V-Day is on the same plan as forgetting an anniversary. Any woman that tells a man to keep V-Day low key is just setting him up for at least a full year of never hearing the end of it. I am surprised about what you said about your V-Days in the past, if I knew the office address I would send you flowers.
I never thought about that! They could be siblings. That would explain the bond that shows between them. Although they have said enough things in other videos that I don't think so.
I world never tell my man to go low key unless I was contemplating getting out of the relationship. Men should take it as a compliment if she wants his attention and focus.
In the south everyone is -cousins- brother and sister
Not even close
The way her voiced pitched up when she said okay, was like I will be very disappointed in you so you better go all out or else😂
Team Calli! Show you love your partner everyday, not just the "Hallmark designated love day".
This is by far the hardest I've laughed for Back Porch Bickerin! Thanks y'all!!! XD
We are team "don't celebrate" and I am perfectly fine with it. 😁
$350!? I would murder my husband if he spent that much on chocolate and flowers. Def team low key. I know he loves me but I'd fear he is leaving me if he was spending money so recklessly!
Team low key or even no key! 😂 As Callie said, we should make each other feel special the whole year!
O, one more thing, Matt, you do know that Calli was setting you up to having to sleep on the sofa for at least a month, do not fall for the trap. :) LOL
"Everything you're saying today is a lie."
😂🤣😂
My wife & I have been together 14 years and we key it low key. Usually we do a different fish dinner (each year is different) and that's about it, maybe a movie if there's one we both wanna see. The most high key we've done is lobster tails while up in MA one year and that wasn't even that expensive.
We are so low key about Valentine's Day that I actually feel guilty for buying my husband a card this year. I absolutely hated Valentine's Day in high school, when I felt like the only girl who didn't receive flowers and candy. I wonder how many of us "low key" proponents had dismal Valentine's Day experiences when we were younger.
Sorry, just don't really care to go all out on Valentine's. Just another holiday to extort money from ppl. My hubby makes me a meal and I'm all good 🙌. Love the show 🤗💞
❤sweet! hubby born in NOLA, but we live in CA(me born here)..married 30 yrs! I luv both 💗's day 'low key, or not'! Hubby has been on brain tumor journey and holiday time he ended up in hosp~2ndtumor we didnt know of(but discovered, thats a blessing-its smaller than 1st had been)..so our Valentine's day is for us, and our kids🤗,we r grateful 👼. Health stuff sure illuminates love of all of us! 💜💚💛xo! Happy Valentine's day to y'all😊~
The wife and I agree...team Calli on this one. Valentine's day is a Hallmark holiday. Cherish your significant other all year round not just Hallmark and the calendar tell you to!
3:21 ... "that's fine" .... which means it isn't fine and he better go all out. :)
Never ever believe a woman when she says "i'm fine, or that's fine" lol
North: haha stupid southerners cant handle snow
Also north:OH NO A TROPICAL STORM WE NEED TO SOUND THE APOCALYPSE ALARM
The weather just beats the shit out of the midwest and Alaska is off in the background calling everyone else weak.
Let hear ya Yankees talk crap with its 100 and you close your schools, thats just a normal summer down here.
We never closed up school at 100F, we just turned on the AC? Lmaooo
@@JazzyCrumbles My school didn't have AC. We cancelled when it was over 85 (school policy)
Battleship217 literally every time the south gets 1 inch of snow
It's a Trrrrrraaaaaaappppppp!!!!!!! If you give 'em chocolates in October you STILL have to give 'em on Valentine's.
I'm not from the south, but I do agree with "Well Bless your hearts..."
Who wants to hear a cheesy pick up line? Say this to your date 😊
Did you just fart? Because you blew me away 😂
Haha
Warning: do not try this it will fail... miserably
Roblox Santa Claus Actually, if you have a good, healthy, fun-loving relationship with somebody, I think it's more than reasonable to use that pick-up line. I might just use it someday, but only after I've known them for at least a year. 😂👍🏼
Calli is on point. Show love all year long with little things here and there. Don't let a great marketing scam be the only reason you express love to someone.
These are literally the best. Need more. Calli vs Matt is great debates.
Ya’ll are so funny!😊😂😘
I think both are good. Let's go Texas!🇨🇱
Lone star state yee yee
Valentine’s Day is my favorite holiday
The point is to make your significant other feel special, and a lot of time, a really nice love note and something that is special to the person whether that be a favorite candy, extra time together like a walk or a favorite activity, whatever. as long as they feel like you really do love them, all that superficial stuff is not needed.
This one had me ROFL. Bless your hearts! 🤣
The silliest holiday of them all!
I LOVE Calli's fury at 1:23 !
My husband and I have a standing agreement not to do Valentine's Day. It's a made-up holiday. However he did surprise me one year with a coffee maker where on one side you can make a pot of coffee and on the other side you could make a shot of coffee and steam your milk to make a latte. And he brought it to work just kind of to show the people I worked with that he was all that and a bag of chips. I kind of agree he is all that and a bag of chips.
I'm a low-key gal, my husband and I don't celebrate Valentine's day (no card, no chocolate, no flowers, nothing). Our anniversary is in March, but even then, I guess I have low expectations, all I need is a dinner out and a game of putt-putt and I'm happy.
I'm with Calli, Valentines Day is another Hallmark created holiday. Yes I said it. Great vid hehehe
I agree with calli again. Valentine's day is one day you should treat here special every day
My husband does things for me everyday of the year. I don't need anything special on Valentine's day. I don't even remember the last time I washed my car. He does it all. Cars, yard, BIG bugs and dead things in the yard. He is an awesome man, husband, dad and now grandpa. I am blessed and am happy to cook him whatever he wants me to on Valentine's day.😍
It doesn’t have to be super huge but something nice but small (ie flowers, card, chocolates) and a nice date would definitely be more then appreciated by me 😂
These guys are good. Love watching your act
Team low key! My husband and I do not go all out for Valentine's day.
Those two...they are classic together.
Team "low key", keeping it special all year long.
I always agree with Calli this one included!
Hilarious!! Poor Matt. He's definitely got to take this year's Valentine's Day celebration to a grander scale than last year's. Buddy, you are going to have to rethink bickering with Calli.
Cause on the 14th, you may be camping on your back porch.
I feel like Matt is in a relationship and Callie is single
Brooke Fleming callie is not single she is gonna date me
Drew and Jazmín matt is married. She likes me
Drew and Jazmín yes I know her from my dreams
SuperHorseman22 what the heck
Brooke Fleming yes she is the woman of my dreams
For once, I agree with Calli!
If I had a special someone, I would want to do something special on Valentine's Day, even if it was just taking a walk together and holding hands, and then watching a movie on Netflix or something. Maybe going out for coffee during the day. I would just want to spend as much of the day with him as possible.
Flowers, chocolate and dinner are the BASICS!! Anything beyond that makes it that much better!! I’m spoiled to having a husband who writes me poetry. Maybe someday we could afford a cruise. ❤️
Low key: love all year ‘round!
“Now I’m going to have to go even bigger because of you!” 😂🤣🤣
I’m both southern AND Jewish so I gotta do it twice a year! I’m expected to do Valentines proper in February then later in the year, I gotta do something special for Tu B’Av, the Jewish day of love.
I’m not even supposed to celebrate Valentine’s Day but if I don’t, well I’m in the dog house that’s for sure.
I'm with you Matt...it's a trap! No one gets mad if you go all out...
I'm low key. I don't want to go out on valentines because everywhere is too crowded. Just cook dinner for me or we could cook and clean up together. Hell if they would clean the bathroom top to bottom for me I would be happy.
My hubby and I do stuff for each other all year round, however Valentine's day can sometime be big, but most time small. if it's big it's cause someone wants something that they won't buy themselves (but could afford to buy, just haven't pulled the trigger so to speak). Example: 1 year we just did cards and had a nice dinner to ourselves, and then another year I had been eyeballing an office chair, but kept talking myself out of it. Hubby went and purchased the office chair for me and I loved it.
She accepts a low key valentines. God i think i fell in love with that adorable lady.
Love your channel!
It can be sweet either way...go big sometimes when you can but not everytime to keep it special. Some valentines take it back to a blanket in front of the fireplace and have a picnic in your living room with some roses when you broke.
Calli is spot on.
I am a huge believer in thoughtfulness over extravagance. Quality over quantity. Take them to their favorite restaurant. make your own heart shaped box and fill it with candy they actually like. Make them a custom card and print it on nice cardstock. Or hide their favorite snacks all around the house and make a valentine's day scavenger hunt with a special surprise like tickets to a movie they want to see at the end
For me, all out because my birthday is less than a week before Valentine’s Day so we can just celebrate them together
Bless his heart
Valentines day is just another commercial holiday dreamed up by Florist and Chocolate makers and bad chocolate makers at that. if you need a holiday to show your love to each other you aint in love, your love should be shown everyday.
I usually don’t agree with calli but I do for this one for sure
I'm with Callie on this one. I prefer a quiet dinner at home to going out and candy is nice, but its cheaper if you wait a few days! 😂
If I try to go all out, I’m spending the next month trying to explain I didn’t do anything wrong. Nope, I know what my girl wants. Ammo. Lots and lots of Ammo. (I even know her caliber)
I'm OK with low key, hubby went to Costco today and walked in with flowers for me. 😍😘 That's plenty. A man who grocery shops an occasionally grabs a nice bouquet for me too. 😉💐😂
I completely agree with Calli.
Calli is hilarious in this...
I agree with Matt oh literally everyone of these lol
Chocolate on Valentine's day is really good but do you know what's even better? Valentine's day chocolate on February 15th at 50% off! 💰💰. That would REALLY make my heart sing!!!
Gonna have to agree with Calli on this one. Valentines Day is a made up holiday to create revenue for certain companies. Shouldn't need a government recognized holiday to show your love to your spouse. That's the kind of thing you should choose to do on your own. Really V-Day is the LAST day you should celebrate that on.
To put it simply, Valentines day is a sucker's holiday
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Love your channel so much!!! ❤❤
Team Calli yet again!
"all out" of course, as I like breathing.... yep
What's lower than low?? Husband and I don't do a thing on valentine's day. His birthday is the 5th, mine is the 19th. So we go out then when there is no crowds, noise and long waits. 💘💝💞
I am low key.
Hubby usually gets me a card and some chocolate (not necessarily the themed jacked up chocos), and maybe flowers.
I prefer to make one of his fave meals and spend time together away from the crazy crowd of "Keeping Up With the Jones" (that'll be a funny skit)
He's gotten me some nice gifts over the years, but he knows if all he can afford is a card and a Hershey bar then it is the thought that counts. We do little things for each other all year round and I much prefer a night out on our anniversary -- OUR special day -- than the commercial day of love.
I was expecting it be the other way 😂
I'm team "just ignore it and it'll go away."
I'm glad my wife doesn't like Valentine's Day...she loves the day after Valentine's Day when the candy is 50% off.
I'm team whichever one makes both people in the relationship happy! I personally like low key better, just spending time with each other with maybe a small present (like a stuffed animal or flowers) and dinner (not necessarily going out to eat, home cooked is nice too, but maybe make something you don't cook often)
My boyfriend and I agree that the real holiday is the day after Valentine's day when all the candy is 50% off
I will fight you on this porch! 😂🤣😂
Love Valentine's day!
Husband" Whats the biggest thing you've gotten on Valentines day?"
Wife " How long ago are we talking?"
Calli needed to have a boom box in the bushes during that phone call. 😂
Here in Ohio, they have Sweetest Day 🙄. Never heard of this until I moved here.
I agree with Callie. Low-key Valentine's day. I don't really care for it or Thanksgiving at all. I don't think a person needs a dedicated day to show love or appreciation or to hangout. But hey, for each it's own.
I Loooooove Mattttttt!!!!
1:16 BAM! Right there. That is why cheating is never worth it. Can you imagine dealing with the BS of not one, but TWO SO's? Ugh.
I agree Kali to much pressure for Valentine's makes everyone stressed.
Second comment love this video❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ keep up the good work💘
I'm with Calli.
Valentine's day is a holiday made for selling chocolates, cards and roses
Bless your heart :0)
Setting a limit on Valentine's day is like trapping yourself if you believe your wife doesn't automatically think that it is a minimum. We set limits on Christmas one year of $100 and she gave me a lamb skin leather jacket. Yes, she held it over my head for years, because I didn't exceed the limit.
MATT😍. U R my hero! GUYS: happy wife, happy life. Do the Valentine's Day as u can afford no matter what she says. Not just once a year tho, do it 4 no reason sometimes. 😍😍
I think that going low-key on Valentine's day is fine, maybe that's just because I feel like the only person on Earth without of Valentine every single year 😂😂😂. I can tell you now that any form of chocolate, I'm pretty sure all women LOVE so I'll take the chocolate and flowers 😂😊