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- This is How Narcissists React Every Day to No Contact | NPD | Narcissism | Behind The Science
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder
They always try to come back. After a while, it is amusing. Predictable. Obvious. Eventually you will not care and block them. You will not care what they are doing or what they are thinking. It takes time, but you will get there, as long as you STAY NO contact.
Narcissistic people can’t stand to be alone because they hate their own company
With good reason.
They make good and sure everyone ELSE does, too.
Misery needs company!!
I've begun to realize this about those types. I like myself, so being alone is not a problem.
Too much time alone isn't good for anyone, however.
No Contact! No Contact! No Contact! It works 💪
Block them!!!!!!!! End of problem.
It truly seems I'm never going to bond with a real balanced man.
My relationships with abusive narcissists and ultimately a sadistic anti social personality disordered person have led me to gain a better understanding about myself and my upbringing which have caused my own personality issues that have drawn these predatory types to me.
You will never know him if you are not a well balanced woman bless
Yes. For some some reason I seem to attract the same kind of person. Over and over and over again. As an Empath, like a magnet they seem to be drawn to me. So I now am trying to turn my Empathic abilities back on myself. I need to heal. The progress is slow, but I will get there, and this gives me something to look forward to when I start my day.
Best of luck to you.
Thanks for your help. For me, no contact means getting out and staying out forever. They are dead to me. I don't want any closer from the narcissists. I have my own closer.
Wow this video is so true. I am so grateful I'm not an emotional person. Nobody can use my emotions against me. I have come accross a few narcissists and have learned a lot about them and myself. I won't tolerate bad behaviour and I'm happier on my own. Thanks for these videos.
Done that for 2 years and get a hateletter for Jul.. i am good and strong :) dont need a bad mother in my life :)
I love this video. I am EXACTLY going through this, it never ends either; they will string you along even if you don't want to be in a relationship with them anymore, judge/jury/executioner + god . It's disgusting behavior. They also use children as pawns for whatever they want from others; absolutely disgusting behavior. Demonic.
Forget about them and move on that's the best thing that you can do if you ever see them again
Walk by like you never met them or seen them a day in your life that's the best thing for you to do ‼️‼️‼️🙋🏽
The one time I shocked my ex Narcissist was when I told him that he doesn't look like he used to look. I saw the shock in his eyes. Narcs seriously believe that they will always look like they did in their early years. I saw this change his outlook on his face and he changed. This is how delusional he was. Working for me! How sad!😢
Very informative
I’ve had no contact with a narc mother. Haven’t seen or spoken since 2008. Years ago I went on a week long BAD drinking binge. When she saw the condition I was in she ran off and got a life insurance policy on me and named herself the beneficiary. After the policy matured she sent me the bill telling me it now belonged to me. Do what I want with it, she said. And she sent me the bill saying I could still make payments on it. That is only necessary only if she took loans out on it. Apparently she did. None of it worked. Then I started remembering everything else that connected the dots. I am completely done. Now I can spot narcs from light years away.
These people are the Alec Murdaughs, the Chris Watts, etc… be very very careful and when you discover what they are leave quietly. Keep your exit plan to yourself.
Spot On!
I am no contact for about 90% of the time and I dont allow myself to reach out to her. I know that closure won’t come from her and have accepted who she is and what she did, but I have also accepted the fact that I allowed her to play her games while I was unaware of what narcissism was and what she was actually trying to do. I’m done feeling shame for not having and asserting boundaries. I came from a narcissistic abusive childhood so there was no other way I was going to learn about this other than the hard way. Narcissism was the last discovery that I made after a very long line of investigation and research during which I made a lot of personal discoveries about myself and my family. No matter what happened, I needed to know all of this in order to grow. I’m glad I learnt this all at 40 when I still have half of my life ahead of me. I knew her for 25 years and honestly felt like she hadn’t aged at all in that time. Now I know why.
One year after the final discard it’s not so much that I no longer feel I need her for anything, but rather the quick realisation that she has not added anything of real, lasting value to my life. It’s not that easy to feel the pain of loss when you struggle to identify anything really valuable from the relationship. Sure I lost time, a lot of time. But I’ve no comprehension of what my life would have been like if we had never met. I wouldn’t be me……..and I like me! So in that case the time wasn’t lost and I ultimately got to where I had to go! I lost myself and my identity, it’s true. But I lost myself once before after 7 years of on/off relations with her before I (unknowingly) decided to go no contact for a decade, and completely reinvented myself and created a life for me. Unfortunately that is likely what reattracted her into my life, and so began the second wave which ran for another 7 years. If I reinvented myself once before then I guess I’m due a second reinvention.
If she reaches out to me then I might send a delayed but polite reply. But I don’t offer validation or praise. I don’t prioritise her at all anymore and I certainly don’t hold any false illusions of what happened before and I’m not letting her into my life. I will come out and ask her to explain a few past behaviours at some point because I think some things need to be said. But I’d rather say it at a time when I am fully healed and emotionally indifferent. I know I won’t take her back again now that I know. And I feel that by keeping that tiny amount of contact with her then she cannot easily re-write our narrative with her preferred innocent and blame-free take. I know deep down inside she won’t take accountability, but this at least makes up for my not having boundaries to assert during the relationship troubles. This also gives her a glimpse of my life’s progress and personal growth which is my closure. I don’t know if this will turn out to be a good or bad idea but I’m open to suggestions?
As long as you continue to keep yourself open, you risk more damage. If you want to make a statement and are truly ready to move on, you will block her from all access to you, seek support from those who have been through the same as you, and accept the fact that they are empty - she doesn’t care about what you say, she doesn’t care about your closure, and she will respond to any communication. with the intent to gaslight, abuse, manipulate, and lie to you again. And again. And again. And again. And again………. You are keeping yourself on the hook while she is on to the next. It is a long road to recovery but you cannot start while you are waiting for her.
Wow
You sure speak the hard , painful truth
I've had this cycle repeated way more times than I'd like to admit😢
I've only discovered npd or traits thereof in March of 2023
Still clawing my way out
Hoping to be out before our next anniversary in Feb
Together 17years.
Married 12
Thankfully no children involved.
"thankfully no children involved" 🙏
I’m Out 38 years, 2 grown daughters and grandson . He’s telling them all I’m Crazy 😜
MY GOD! YOURS WAS THE FIRST VIDEO, I CAME ACROSS, JUST NOW AFTER TELLING MY NARCISSISTIC EX-HUSBAND, I WAS GOING 'NO CONTACT' WITH HIM. I SWEAR HE WAS SO COMPLIANT THAT IT SHOCKED ME. BUT ON HEARING YOUR WORDS, I NOW KNOW WHY? THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH ❤
A. i😂voice man
I can't find advice. I am the Nana of narc son in law. He raged almost violently. Dropped his 20 yr mask. Abusing my daughter. I'm no contact, but that has cost me my daughter and her kids. 10 months on, how do I manage this situation. I was stupid. I just thought he was difficult. Help.
If you witness abuse call authorities.
I, the mother in law, was verbally abused and feared for my life, after 20 years of being ignorant of narcissists. Authorities will only intervene if the kids are in danger.
I can't prove that.
I went no contact for 3-4 months. I decided to go and see what going on , we were together 7 years at that point. Well. I walked into a apartment full of people ( homeless ). They didn't even know who I was , it was like the 7 yrs had never happened . We lived in same complex a courtyard apart on the same floor in different buildings I could see his balcony from my window . That was like a kick in the stomach, for him to have so easily started a whole other life , a life I knew nothing about.
I see now from these tutorials what and why he operates like he does. My Narc hates absolutely hates being alone so much so he surrounded himself with disturbed homeless , I don't mind being alone one bit . There were yes ...... other females , I think there always were. I was told by one person they had no idea about me . I asked him ( narc) why wouldn't you have checked on me , his response " I couldn't get into your building " Really? he could have whistled or called out my name it's not that high of a building. I see a lot of him in these videos , ALOT . What, what in God's name is the reason we all have ended up with these truly horrible people , Why? I have actually said " there is nothing , nothing I have done in my life to deserve this ." This karma. Nothing.
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I don't want the Xbox back once he devalued me we talked the last time was in 6 months ago last year 2023 in June he was no interest so I'm glad I am and I we were not separate ways but give him I got to give him strength that he does well thank you sir
Sounds like Ex
They just run to the next one, like a PuhC.
I need an answ
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