Kingdom Marriage Vs Modern World Marriage | Gods True Design | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • čas přidán 22. 03. 2024
  • In a world where the institution of marriage is constantly attacked with lies, Christians must understand the important differences between Kingdom marriage and modern-world marriage. Join us in this enlightening discussion as we delve into the timeless principles rooted in God's Word that define a Kingdom marriage. Discover how Kingdom marriage transcends societal norms and fosters a deep spiritual connection between spouses, ultimately reflecting the divine love between Christ and His church. Whether married, engaged, or single, this video offers valuable insights and guidance for navigating relationships in today's culture while staying true to biblical principles. Don't miss out on unlocking the secrets to a fulfilling and purpose-driven marriage aligned with God's Kingdom agenda. Subscribe now and embark on the journey towards building a Kingdom marriage that stands the test of time!
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Komentáře • 262

  • @thetaniart
    @thetaniart Před měsícem +132

    I'm a Muslim but have never regretted hearing this guys preaching concerning marriage. I totally agree with his stand point on marriage from the bible. A lot of people misquoting and even abusing the bible nowadays. Image that there are even gay pastors in church.
    May Allah keep this man and bless him with more wisdom at the same time guide him and his wife till the end of there days.
    I wish I knew this guy about 10 years ago but Allah is the best of planners, He alone knows why I met him few years back. At least it was before my marriage and I'm proud to say part of his teachings are what is holding my marriage.
    It's an honor knowing you sir 🙏❤.

    • @omowunmiolorunfemi7213
      @omowunmiolorunfemi7213 Před měsícem +3

      God bless you!

    • @darlingtinanicholas2917
      @darlingtinanicholas2917 Před měsícem +8

      Fortunately Allah isn't God almighty, Come to christ and experience the true meaning of who God is

    • @flourishorji6681
      @flourishorji6681 Před měsícem +1

      Your good works and prayers won't get you to heaven as a Muslim. Repent and give your life to Christ dear one.

    • @user-ni2lo3sw5v
      @user-ni2lo3sw5v Před měsícem

      God is love. ​@@darlingtinanicholas2917

    • @Gracefulygraced
      @Gracefulygraced Před měsícem

      Thank God... More Blessings

  • @wigsclinic7479
    @wigsclinic7479 Před měsícem +95

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage. I am a kingdom person and I will marry a kingdom person.

  • @Mrs_VOW
    @Mrs_VOW Před měsícem +61

    Somehow I found myself attending marriage and relationship counselling programs long before i got married. It was like a social church outing for me once every month for over 6yrs 😅 Even after I met my husband and got married I’m glued to a few marriage teachers and pastor K&M is my go to atleast 2wice a week😁 God has blessed me with a kingdom marriage and I enjoy coming back to keep learning in order to sustain what God has given me. Maybe someday I will teach about this but until then let me sit at the feet of mentorship 🙌

  • @chinyereilonze1953
    @chinyereilonze1953 Před měsícem +18

    What a balanced teaching! I have never gotten bored listening to this couple.
    I love marriage cos I have had a beautiful one for 29yrs and pray the same for everyone

  • @harmonyayoba5049
    @harmonyayoba5049 Před měsícem +27

    The video script discusses the differences between traditional, contemporary, and kingdom marriages. It emphasizes the importance of running a kingdom marriage where both partners are equal and work together as one. The script also addresses misconceptions about gender roles and financial responsibilities in marriage, advocating for unity and mutual respect.
    Key moments:
    00:00 Marriage can be traditional, contemporary, or kingdom-based. Christians should aim for a kingdom marriage aligned with God's template for a beautiful and fulfilling union.
    -Different types of marriages: traditional, contemporary, and kingdom-based.
    -Many Christians run traditional or contemporary marriages, but few embrace kingdom marriages.
    -The importance of running a kingdom marriage aligned with God's template for a beautiful and fulfilling union.
    -The significance of understanding the context and details of biblical teachings, such as Jesus' response to the Pharisees regarding divorce.
    08:05 Marriage is intended to be between male and female as per the original design. Deviating from this design leads to confusion and challenges in relationships.
    -Marriage is between male and female as per the original design.
    -Challenges arise when individuals deviate from the original design.
    -The importance of maintaining the sanctity of marriage and not disrespecting the covenant.
    16:10 Maintain boundaries with exes to respect your current partner and prioritize your marriage. Husbands must be present and responsible for their homes, not neglecting their roles.
    -Respecting your partner by keeping boundaries with exes, avoiding unnecessary contact.
    -Prioritizing marriage by leaving parental influence and focusing on building a strong marital bond.
    -The importance of husbands being present and responsible for their homes, not neglecting their roles.
    24:17 Marriage signifies two individuals becoming one, not physical unity. Traditional marriages can perpetuate abuse and misinterpret scriptures, like promoting polygamy without context.
    -Traditional marriages can lead to abuse and misinterpretation of scriptures.
    -Polygamy advocates often cherry-pick verses without understanding the context.
    32:19 Misinterpretation of scriptures on leadership and submission in marriages leads to unbalanced dynamics. Understanding the context and not cherry-picking verses is crucial for healthy relationships.
    -Misinterpretation of scriptures can lead to unbalanced marriage dynamics.
    -Contrast between traditional and contemporary marriage dynamics.
    -Importance of understanding the context and not cherry-picking verses.
    40:23 Interpreting scripture requires considering the audience and context to avoid misapplication. Submission in marriage emphasizes unity and shared leadership, not dominance.
    -Contextual understanding of scripture is essential to prevent misinterpretation.
    -Submission in marriage signifies unity and shared leadership, not one-sided dominance.
    48:25 Submission in marriage is for unity, not superiority. Men and women have different roles for harmony. Misinterpretation of scripture leads to cultural biases affecting marriage dynamics.
    -Submission in marriage is for unity, not superiority.
    -Men and women have different roles for harmony.
    -Misinterpretation of scripture leads to cultural biases affecting marriage dynamics.
    56:30 Traditional marriage values mutual respect and understanding, while contemporary marriage can lead to gender role confusion. Both partners should appreciate and honor each other's contributions.
    -Traditional marriage emphasizes serving one another with respect and honor.
    -Contemporary marriage can lead to gender role confusion and emasculation of men.
    -The importance of appreciating and honoring each other's contributions in a marriage.
    -The scriptural context of respecting elders and treating family members with care and purity.
    1:04:39 In a Kingdom marriage, both partners are equal and work together. Traditional and contemporary marriage ideologies can lead to control and imbalance in relationships.
    -Traditional and contemporary marriage ideologies can create a sense of entitlement and control in relationships.
    -Men should not feel inferior if their wives earn more and should strive for equality in a marriage.

  • @elizabethfrancis9342
    @elizabethfrancis9342 Před měsícem +11

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage, I am a kingdom lady and I will raise kingdom children in Jesus name 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @uyamaducharles1979
    @uyamaducharles1979 Před měsícem +6

    Under God, I chose a kingdom marriage...a home where Jesus will daily be glorified!

  • @Joytotheworld01
    @Joytotheworld01 Před měsícem +31

    Marriage is a Beautiful Thing
    My own marriage will be a kingdom marriage

  • @boswells1422
    @boswells1422 Před měsícem +6

    I'm listening to this message for the 3rd time today, never heard it this balance before. God bless you Sir

  • @user-xi8jt8rp6o
    @user-xi8jt8rp6o Před měsícem +5

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage.I will married a kingdom husband and raise kingdom children in Jesus Name

  • @temitopeadu8585
    @temitopeadu8585 Před měsícem +6

    When you read the Bible, all details are important

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain Před měsícem +5

    Marriage is a sacred union between two individuals, a promise of love, commitment, and companionship. A wedding is a celebration of this bond, bringing families and friends together to witness and support the couple's journey forward. It marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with joy, challenges, and growth.

  • @eugeniaoranekwulu95
    @eugeniaoranekwulu95 Před měsícem +3

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name🙏🏽❤️

  • @lynnmothibeli325
    @lynnmothibeli325 Před 24 dny +2

    Every single time I visit this channel, I never regret it!

  • @liz9664
    @liz9664 Před měsícem +8

    My marriage is a kingdom marriage, hallelujah! ❤

  • @Elizabethomo
    @Elizabethomo Před měsícem +6

    We must run with God's template to have a beautiful marriage 😮, learnt something beautiful

  • @nwosunneora2817
    @nwosunneora2817 Před měsícem +4

    My marriage is a Kingdom marriage 🎉... God bless you sir.

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451 Před měsícem +7

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name amen. Thank you pastor Kingsley Okonkwo the gay issue will be far from our children according to Isaiah 54:13 our children will be taught by the Lord. I will marry right. The issue of Hakimi the footballer that couldn't leave and cleave😅

  • @EmeldahMachimba
    @EmeldahMachimba Před měsícem +4

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus mighty name

  • @olajideoluwabukolami2228
    @olajideoluwabukolami2228 Před měsícem

    God richly bless Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo and his family.

  • @patiencesika-ameyeye4468
    @patiencesika-ameyeye4468 Před měsícem +2

    Oh God I tap this anointing to be an active advocate of kingdom relationships in Jesus' name

  • @ekeminijibsy2522
    @ekeminijibsy2522 Před 13 dny +1

    I will have a kingdom marriage in Jesus name.Amen!

  • @jessejuangwa854
    @jessejuangwa854 Před měsícem

    Complete, balanced and expository!
    Thank you PK ❤

  • @victoriapaul-ameh
    @victoriapaul-ameh Před měsícem

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus Name! Thank you Pastor K for this sound teaching

  • @GreatestLuv
    @GreatestLuv Před měsícem +3

    God bless you Pastor Kingsley and Mrs. The world need and are waiting earnestly for kingdom people like you. All this madness about dishonoring the sacred of marriage most STOP. We need more kingdom marriage !!!

  • @nadinembu3654
    @nadinembu3654 Před měsícem +2

    Dear Lord, during this modern time grant us the grace to keep keeping your kingdom in our marriages IJN, Amen🙏🏾

  • @obasiveronica1554
    @obasiveronica1554 Před 29 dny

    Man of God thanks and God bless you for impacting our world. Most of our problems is so many men find it difficult to listen to this kingdom teaching, they are not patient enough to listen. Always tag them

  • @janetinnocent870
    @janetinnocent870 Před měsícem

    My marriage will be a Kingdom Marriage. Amen! 🙏

  • @stormship1647
    @stormship1647 Před měsícem +2

    This beautiful brother is getting better

  • @Belindahmuripu
    @Belindahmuripu Před měsícem +2

    I belong to the Kingdom marriage... thank you so much Sir, profound wisdom there.

  • @njabechristelle
    @njabechristelle Před měsícem +7

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage

  • @margaret.etukudo
    @margaret.etukudo Před měsícem +1

    God bless you Sir! More grace in Jesus Name🙏🏾

  • @margo4905
    @margo4905 Před měsícem +1

    You are a blessing to humanity sir. Thank you for what you do ❤

  • @joyomo3809
    @joyomo3809 Před měsícem +3

    Lord help me and my husband to do kingdom marriage Amen, tnk u so much pastor K u are such a blessing❤🤩

  • @harencedjofang7131
    @harencedjofang7131 Před měsícem +2

    I declare and decree My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏❤️ I wait on you Lord

  • @user-td5ux2zq2t
    @user-td5ux2zq2t Před 2 dny

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage in the name of Jesus Christ.Amen

  • @abayomitope5855
    @abayomitope5855 Před měsícem

    God bless you for this teaching. More grace to you sir. Pastor Abayomi

  • @voksari6834
    @voksari6834 Před 27 dny

    God bless you Pastors K and M. The Word of God endures forever

  • @ndivhuwotshivhase792
    @ndivhuwotshivhase792 Před měsícem

    Everytime I listen to Pastor Kingsley it's always a blessing, thank you sir for doing the Lord's work

  • @samuellawrence9039
    @samuellawrence9039 Před měsícem

    My marriage shall be a kingdom marriage Hallelujah

  • @estheremmanuel5937
    @estheremmanuel5937 Před měsícem +2

    Kai pastor k your sense of humour is something else😂 more grace sir.

  • @erimsnissi6228
    @erimsnissi6228 Před měsícem +3

    Pst k balance it all, it all falls down to Kingdom marriage 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @udeigwegrace2272
    @udeigwegrace2272 Před měsícem +1

    I had always talked about this and now Pst K is teaching on it....
    The Holyspirit is Awesome!!! Now I am Sure again that the Holyspirit Thought me.

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 Před měsícem +2

    This is so a powerful message. Thank you Papa for enlightening our understanding on Kingdom Marriage. 👌👏👏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✨️

  • @ifeyinwanwabasili6329
    @ifeyinwanwabasili6329 Před měsícem +2

    I receive my kingdom marriage.I will keep listening and studying God’s word only concerning marriage.

  • @attoaliceprim.843
    @attoaliceprim.843 Před měsícem

    Well said Pr. K, listening in from Uganda, I'm praying for that sweet kingdom marriage, thanks for the foundational knowlege of marriage very beneficail for us singles.

  • @Pharez85
    @Pharez85 Před měsícem

    What a WORD!!! #PK 👌🏽

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy Před měsícem

    What a word. Thank you so much❤

  • @mamokgethiqueeneth9075
    @mamokgethiqueeneth9075 Před měsícem

    How you taught about polygamy blew my mind 🙏🙏 Thank you for the teaching
    🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @itsfoda
    @itsfoda Před měsícem +1

    The word of God is complete ❤

  • @EmmanuelJosephOnyekachukwu
    @EmmanuelJosephOnyekachukwu Před měsícem

    Glory be to God ❤❤❤❤
    More and more

  • @Tmfoundationministry1212
    @Tmfoundationministry1212 Před měsícem

    Pastor k 😮what in the wisdom of God is this 🫡🫡I was blessed with this . Thank you sir ❤❤ my marriage will be a kingdom marriage 🙏🙏

  • @chizzyorakwue2923
    @chizzyorakwue2923 Před měsícem

    Scripture cannot be broken 💯

  • @drsiza
    @drsiza Před 27 dny

    Thank you for this unbiased teaching Sir
    Will definitely come back to watch again

  • @walterfoto4360
    @walterfoto4360 Před měsícem +1

    Pastor King sir please I want to be your disciple... You really inspire me sir

  • @victoirek.esther2641
    @victoirek.esther2641 Před měsícem +1

    Such a blessing ❤

  • @christinemaina4819
    @christinemaina4819 Před měsícem

    Wow!!! I am learning this bible reading criteria of picking bible verses selectively now,..and it's really blessing me,....I mean you cannot choose wat you want or what suits you.

  • @nnemekaani7177
    @nnemekaani7177 Před měsícem +4

    Good evening my Ferrari Pastor Sir. I love you personally

  • @estherasim
    @estherasim Před měsícem +7

    I dream for a kingdom marriage where God will be the centre of our home... I believe my marriage will be a true example of a kingdom marriage

  • @berniceketorwoley6096
    @berniceketorwoley6096 Před měsícem

    God bless you daddy, dear God help me have a kingdom marriage to the glorification of your name amen 🙏🙏🙏🧡

  • @augustineiheanacho9830
    @augustineiheanacho9830 Před měsícem

    God bless you sir for this wonderful teaching

  • @YvetteBinda
    @YvetteBinda Před 28 dny +1

    I pray God keeps inspiring you God bless you sir

  • @masilelacalsile9056
    @masilelacalsile9056 Před měsícem

    I'm intentional about having a Kingdom spouse and marriage.. learning and unlearning adopted traditional and contemporary template. When the time comes the Lord Himself will make it happen. Kingdom Marriage ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @osadebamwenosaiyuwu1785
    @osadebamwenosaiyuwu1785 Před měsícem

    I loved every bit of this, thank you very much MRS M

  • @mawiezramusausiohen8246
    @mawiezramusausiohen8246 Před měsícem +1

    I connect to this teaching GIDIGBA OOOOOO

  • @princessnaomi5924
    @princessnaomi5924 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much pastor k. I was blessed immensely

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 Před měsícem +1

    I will never be wroungly join in marriage lord 🙏

  • @patiencesika-ameyeye4468
    @patiencesika-ameyeye4468 Před měsícem

    I thank God for my marriage. I now know it's a pure Kingdom marriage. No wonder, we've been able to stand the test of time and still cherish each other. THANK YOU JESUS FOR DIVINE UNDERSTANDING OF MARRIAGE.

  • @njokeraisa9609
    @njokeraisa9609 Před měsícem +3

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus' name.

  • @ojooluwatominsin3935
    @ojooluwatominsin3935 Před měsícem +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name and we are rising kingdom children in Jesus name 🙏🙏

  • @chinyereotaka7517
    @chinyereotaka7517 Před 14 dny

    Wow! This is quite amazing. Thank you, sir.

  • @macDonalduzor
    @macDonalduzor Před měsícem

    The design of marriage is beautiful.

  • @jennifermbonuifeoma
    @jennifermbonuifeoma Před měsícem +2

    My marriage would be a kingdom marriage. In Jesus name amen🎉

  • @samichymes8745
    @samichymes8745 Před měsícem

    Respect! Respect!! Respect!!!

  • @patriciaiyawe1202
    @patriciaiyawe1202 Před 21 dnem

    Thank you Jesus Christ for your Spirit of Excellence in your son and servant, our man of God Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo and his amiable wife, a daughter of Zion. Jesus Christ is Lord Forever Amen and Amen

  • @ESTHERFATUKASI
    @ESTHERFATUKASI Před 14 dny

    I am indeed transformed after listening. God bless you sir

  • @peacedavid9446
    @peacedavid9446 Před měsícem +1

    On time 😊

  • @victoriaagu5002
    @victoriaagu5002 Před měsícem

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name. Amen

  • @Jayfavour
    @Jayfavour Před měsícem

    great message.I will run a kingdom marriages 💑. thank you Pr.K

  • @chisengachansa8499
    @chisengachansa8499 Před měsícem

    High five to kingdom marriage

  • @osastech
    @osastech Před měsícem

    I love you sir for exposing truth and original too us ❤

  • @chidumebiukaegbu722
    @chidumebiukaegbu722 Před měsícem

    Yes I was blessed

  • @ekezielucaschiamaka4911
    @ekezielucaschiamaka4911 Před měsícem

    Sir we celebrate the grace in your life

  • @estherobidile8454
    @estherobidile8454 Před 25 dny

    Thank you dear Lord cause am certain that I will enjoy kingdom marriage.

  • @anintasamuel5090
    @anintasamuel5090 Před měsícem +1

    Yes sir

  • @Ekuaaa
    @Ekuaaa Před měsícem +5

    "Can you imagine a president that is never in the country? 🤣🤣🤣😂😂 House bound (Husband) keeps the home together. Thank you PK

    • @Tuoyoede
      @Tuoyoede Před měsícem +1

      Like as soon as he said it, I just started laughing cos that one no work for us😅.

    • @asabosah2366
      @asabosah2366 Před 3 dny

      “Barband “ off me 😅

  • @ifechijoan9997
    @ifechijoan9997 Před měsícem

    I Soo love this message sir. God bless you 🙏

  • @barbarambidom1733
    @barbarambidom1733 Před 20 dny

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage. I am a Kingdom person,I will enjoy my kingdom marriage. Praise God

  • @maryclaretokonmah
    @maryclaretokonmah Před měsícem

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage🙏🏼

  • @cynthiaohabuiro3869
    @cynthiaohabuiro3869 Před měsícem +1

    My marriage will be blissful, kingdom-centered, and beautiful.

  • @VeeNarh
    @VeeNarh Před měsícem +1

    Woow. I have learnt so much and keep learning a lot from Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred, as a single lady from Ghana .
    God richly bless the two of you, with all that your heart desires! You are both blessings to our generation!

    • @ayanloladolapo6219
      @ayanloladolapo6219 Před měsícem

      I WILL WORK ON MYSELF TO BE THE RIGHT PERSON AND GET MARRIED TO THE RIGHT PERSON AND OUR MARRIAGE SHALL BE A KINGDOM MARRIAGE BY GOD'S GRACE. THANK YOU PASTOR KAY ❤🎉. MORE GRACE AND ANOINTING

  • @ashleydzemwa8812
    @ashleydzemwa8812 Před měsícem

    My Marriage will be God centered, a kingdom Marriage

  • @awasomthelma3380
    @awasomthelma3380 Před měsícem +1

    My marriage is a kingdom marriage😍we are kingdom people

  • @sheillahayre9474
    @sheillahayre9474 Před měsícem +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage❤

  • @chidumebiukaegbu722
    @chidumebiukaegbu722 Před měsícem

    I will have a Kingdom Marriage

  • @racqueal
    @racqueal Před měsícem

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name

  • @user-ii6kn6uo2p
    @user-ii6kn6uo2p Před měsícem +1

    ❤❤❤ Powerful

  • @HildaWendyAkello
    @HildaWendyAkello Před měsícem

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage

  • @davojh6947
    @davojh6947 Před měsícem +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage.... I claimed it

  • @adetonagraceiyanuoluwa7402

    I was really blessed......I'm running a Christian marriage