10 Agreements Every Couple Must Have Before Marriage | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo

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  • čas přidán 19. 03. 2024
  • Embarking on the journey of marriage is a profound commitment, and laying a strong foundation is crucial for a successful partnership. This enlightening video delves into the 10 pivotal agreements every couple should establish before tying the knot. From finances and communication to personal boundaries and future goals, these agreements are the pillars that uphold a thriving relationship. Join us as we explore these fundamental principles that can foster understanding, trust, and harmony in your marital journey. Don't embark on this lifelong adventure unprepared - watch now and ensure your union is built on a solid framework of mutual respect and shared values.
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Komentáře • 41

  • @titanimagalasi5139
    @titanimagalasi5139 Před 2 měsíci +49

    1. If we have any problems that are not going to get solved - Back down
    2. If we make it to marriage - no divorce
    3. Joint account- joint accountability
    4. Communication
    5. Secrets- no passwords
    6. Exchange parents
    7. No quarrelling in our home
    8. Intentional with our intimacy
    9. No body looks out for themselves
    10. Marriage would be word driven

  • @zizi5137
    @zizi5137 Před 2 měsíci +19

    So ladies when you date a man outside of God, you will use the principles of Gods kingdom in how you treat him, love him, respect him submit etc. and since he is not used to such he will be warry of you and think you are up to something. He will think you are trying to trap him 😂. Even more sad is you will be expecting to be loved as Christ loved the church, that he will also use God's principles to love you back. When he doesn't you will feel betrayed. In reality a man can't give you what he does not know or have. So don't bother yourselves with a man outside of God. RUN and save yourselves

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 Před 2 měsíci +19

    This pastor is just too equipped for the assignment . I knew you before I formed u in your mothers womb . You so anointed and the passion came across in your teaching . Love you guys . Keep changing marriages and relationship . 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Divorce was never an option . I love this agreement thing . This couple already knew God before getting married . This is a healthy relationship and not a toxic one .❤❤❤😊😊

  • @Tuoyoede
    @Tuoyoede Před 2 měsíci +7

    Hmmm that birthday matter, I'm someone that likes people who take initiative, it'll annoy me if I have to tell you everything I'd like you to do🤷🏾‍♀️.

  • @vivianumukoro8220
    @vivianumukoro8220 Před měsícem +1

    Listening to your messages has made me a better person. I remember last year val I happened to answer a few questions in a conference meeting for couples and single. I was called upon as a guest speaker to educate the youth that same day. Pst K and pst M are among the few men of God who shaped my life. I love you pst M. I am looking forward to attending this year, just us girls, and I am attending in person not online.

  • @ritajohnmark717
    @ritajohnmark717 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Communication is the life of any relationship.

  • @BishopG2009
    @BishopG2009 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Marriage will not give you what you don’t have

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Před 25 dny

    Women leave men's phone is wrong... valuable content

  • @siphathiswendlovu
    @siphathiswendlovu Před 2 měsíci

    Amen

  • @tolulopeoladimeji9246
    @tolulopeoladimeji9246 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I'm always delighted to listen to this beautiful kingdom couple! 😊. I deeply celebrate God's grace upon your lives Sir and Ma.
    I look forward to having a model marriage like yours 🙏💖

  • @BishopG2009
    @BishopG2009 Před 2 měsíci

    I agree. It takes two intentional people to

  • @PecJay4106
    @PecJay4106 Před 2 měsíci

    You guys are a blessing ❤

  • @IbiyeNgelale
    @IbiyeNgelale Před 2 měsíci

    I admire both of you , God bless you, more grace

  • @tomilolaadewuya
    @tomilolaadewuya Před 2 měsíci

    Blessed! Blessed! Thank you Sir and ma

  • @raquelassis4643
    @raquelassis4643 Před 2 měsíci

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @vivianizuchukwu1129
    @vivianizuchukwu1129 Před měsícem +1

    I love dis couples

  • @njuohrosita1898
    @njuohrosita1898 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I really appreciate you Ma and pastor K,you have really be of great blessing to me in particular and to the youths as a whole

  • @adj5767
    @adj5767 Před 2 měsíci +1

    All these things are correct. I've been hearing these strategies for dealing and understanding men since my childhood. However, if you're the type of woman who doesn't like to talk much or repeat yourself ad nauseum to a man, you will find marriage tiring and hectic. Women really need men not to require constant reminders and told things when they simply just need to observe and act on it.

  • @enobongernest8190
    @enobongernest8190 Před 2 měsíci +1

    The Lord continue to bless this family

  • @akedaphilips3195
    @akedaphilips3195 Před měsícem

    Thanking God for both of your lives ❤🙏🏾

  • @benjaminbenji6526
    @benjaminbenji6526 Před měsícem

    Marriage is understanding and trust

  • @ikporvivian5273
    @ikporvivian5273 Před měsícem

    I love 💕 this video God bless pastor k&M

  • @nazfav2757
    @nazfav2757 Před 2 měsíci

    It takes intentionity to make a marriage thrive. Thank you model couples for your teachings

  • @AnneKeds
    @AnneKeds Před měsícem

    This conversation has been so insightful and helpful. Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏

  • @chidimmalucy2754
    @chidimmalucy2754 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much PK and PM. I am definitely implementing this in my marriage.

  • @kwinthebaby
    @kwinthebaby Před 2 měsíci +2

    😂😂😂the “she’s strong oh” for me

  • @vivianizuchukwu1129
    @vivianizuchukwu1129 Před měsícem +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tee4ChristJ
    @tee4ChristJ Před 2 měsíci +2

    In some cases, the problem is that some pple change after getting married. They are open with everything they have before marriage, few years down the line, they say you have changed or something has changed and they withdraw and keep things from you or you start keeping things from each other. Phone is private bank account is mine, planned trips not discussed, separate future plans etc. How healthy can such marriage be?

    • @oneekamcogg1172
      @oneekamcogg1172 Před 2 měsíci

      We all change after marriage,the issue is understanding and knowing what causes the change and navigating through the changes together. Learning and unlearning what works and what doesn't

  • @Beauty-sw1dr
    @Beauty-sw1dr Před 2 měsíci

    My husband and I always fight, and divorce is always on the table. I don’t know if to leave or stay

    • @Fridasylvester
      @Fridasylvester Před měsícem +1

      You can pray and go for counselling or better still talk to your partner

  • @BishopG2009
    @BishopG2009 Před 2 měsíci

    Divorce is not an option

  • @ibifuronkpata5929
    @ibifuronkpata5929 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Even the ones i agreed with my husband after marriage, he decided to do his own thing😢.

    • @may-gg7yx
      @may-gg7yx Před 2 měsíci +1

      I guess it's easier if the man is also intentional with going with the rules not just agreeing to it because he wants to marry

    • @agboolaoluwayomi6192
      @agboolaoluwayomi6192 Před měsícem

      The Lord touch his hearts

  • @BishopG2009
    @BishopG2009 Před 2 měsíci

    Marriage is for two getters

  • @frankolaoluwadavid486
    @frankolaoluwadavid486 Před 2 měsíci

    Your analysis on saving is wrong. Even when Jesus say me n my father are one does not make the head or equal as God