How Much Should I Tell My New Partner About My Past Relationships? | Jenni's Corner
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- How much should I tell my new partner about my past relationship problems, and when should I tell them?
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I agree with this topic. When someone continue to talk about past relationships, it can make the other person feel as if they haven't fully recovered from their past.
Nope bro just keep IT short if they ask you you really tell them because you can build more trust
What if it's not relationships, though, but maybe an unconventional past?
I am carrying a heavy trunk of my past in my mind, and thought of telling all about it to the girl who will come into my life. But your advise made me to re-think, Past is past and gone, be sincere and tell it in right occasion and that also in short. I am feeling lighter after watching your video. I would have killed the beginning if i followed my rules. God bless you ma'am.
Satish Palakkal I like your comment. I've thought about this subject, like you. I believe it's important NOT to put your burdens on her. You can express bad experiences and emotions, but do so with a sense of ownership, strength and resilance.
Never tell ur past to anyone .
Coz in a case of argument it all comes out pouring back to u.
Past is past keep it there.
Really don't care about anything you has tell if not then not tell just be real in your side
Lying by omission is still a lie.
& what if your partner do the same thing after marriage will you allow this???? & He/she will also said that it was happened last night just forget it it was past!!!
Such a stupid thing that people are hiding past to build new relationship!!!!
Relationships built on a lie never lasts, so be truthful and trust thatvur partner understands it.
@@raavn0007true 💯
Wow how true. Love this.. Just don’t lie don’t matter how far you are in the relationship.
I don't think I should be complaining about exes or keep bringing them up. That's why I choose to complain in youtube is like my way of venting anonymously. That way I get it out of my system. I think I would only answer If he asked me especially about something. I would say the truth. Keep it short. Unless he want to know more. There is no much to say anyways. i would definitely not be bringing it up like it matters I want to forget he even exist.
thank you so much for this talk you just gave me a big relief 🤧🤧.
Thank you so much really thank you
Thank you soo much ❤️
Love you mam 😍☺️
Tq so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️ its true
Many guys I’ve dated talk about their exes good or bad it never works out for me
Ugh
The advertising analogy was very weak. If we are to be honest individuals, we shouldn’t listen to the tired common advice of putting on a facade.
unfortunately, most people can't handle honesty, so you gotta put on a facade.
@@deadbeats4417 It varies. That’s a very reductive argument.
Just coz its past doesn't mean its behind, history doesnt just reapeat it rhymes.
Being cheated on shouldn't be mentioned in a prospect relationship?
If you do best in present then your future gonna be great when you in future past matter god bless you
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Completely disagree you are a cumulative effect of all the experiences you had, as humans you can adjust to an extent however cannot change yourself completely, it’s always better to be honest from the beginning, the fact we started marketing ourselves as products is the reason why relationships don’t last, you can only repress so much before it starts overflow and becomes unbearable followed by resentment.
I disagree with that, I was in a relationship with a girl I really liked, then one evening told me that she liked sex so much she wanted to be a prostitute when she was younger, it stunned me but I didn't say anything, jump forward a few months and along with some more crass comments we had a fall out and all the puke she told me I brought it up, end of relationship, she said she was just being honest and that I didn't trust her, totally unnecessary so definitely do not over share your past, the past is the past and leave it there
Your awesome
How could I reveal everything to my partner about my past relationship... And we have good terms with their family and his family is ready to get us engaged but i was not ready as I was in happy relationship, but my bf cheated on me and I am not yet ready to start a new relationship but when time will come how will I reveal all about becoz I don't want to build my new relationship on the basis of weak base.... Plz let me know
Tell him everything and respect his preferences.
I dont want to talk about past relationships, but what if i want to open up about past hardships, insecurities, dark places ive been thru. I dont want to open up from the beggining, im planning to do it once we r six months or so together, but im not sure if i should do it. What if he didnt accept me? Or loved me less etc. id like to get ur opinion.
don't hide anything,
I swear to God hide it
😂😂
I have same question. Ans me..
Dont share anything about your past
I wanna know everything
In every relationship I treat individuals different from eachother so I would even be different with the new person. Different sircumstances so the past is erelevant if anything I thing my next man is gonna have the best of all. I'm more mature, I fallowing Jesus now, I have more life experience an I've learned from my mistakes.he won't even deal with the emature, rowdy, wild old me. I think the next guy is gonna get the best version of miss kar3n.😁😉😎🤠😇
I had a girlfriend.
We broke up.
It was a case of religious differences.
She thought that she was god, and I disagreed.
My gf .....But she's doesn't understand ...she still want to know what kind of things i did for her in the past...im sick of that 🥺😣
What i do ....plz ans me what i said to her
Really you feeling this because you are created bag of emotions and Carry that bag don't worry she rejected you or even select you just give answer when she ask you be real boy then you feel more comfortable and also think there is one person always for you
Truu
Your past actions define who you are as a person. Take responsability. Deal with it.
Idiot people be in reality it's simple don't tell 💯 first date just tell 10% now and after week and think this person are right to be in relationship then tell all things in short and calmly ok i has past relationships and yup it's intimate and emotional too it's don't work and tell reality because if you hide your Carry that emotional baggage in your shoulder and hade and after telling you feel relaxed and now nothing is between you and him or her even it's there choice too select you nothing matter one person go other person comes
Deal with your emotional baggage before entering a new relationship.
If a girl has over 30 sexual partners in her life she has lost the ability to pair bond to anyone...aka oxytocin burnout... Meaning she can't love anyone, that goes for both her husband and her child.
Be honest and responsible or risk a disaster and devastation for you and everyone around you.
But how do you ascertain that number? She probably ain't going to tell you.
Lies . This has been debunked already. Go back to the red pill side
Of youtube my friend
This situation is also valid for men.
@@berrytaste9766 No... Men don't pair bond the same way, they use deferent chemicals and they don't have a limit to how many people they can pair bond with. Humans are pack animals where there is only one adult male per pack, similar to wolves, lions, gorillas. Men are meant to either have multiple partners or non at all. Human physiology reflects that.
30 😂 After 3 she is for the street
I cheated on every girl except for you up until now because I did not get what I want.... short and simple... I have actually said that to my current girlfriend of 10 years
Then what happened ? What did she said?
@@shimmerygirl9332 she breakup with him because no one wants cheater
@@tridentgameing6192 how u know that ? ...n ye toh uske past ki baat h ... aur usne 10 yr baad q btayi
that's digging your own grave because past actions which indicate you used to be a serial cheater, show that you will do it again if you and your girlfriend go through a rough patch.
Completely disagree with her advice, this is like hiding some features of your life. Say it the way you feel like, there are people who will cut even if you shorten your story.
How much should I tell my new partner about my past relationship? Zero.
Nope in first date 10% and after you both think about to move forward in relationship then 90% like if you think she is best gf for you then if she rejected or select you it's their choice and move forward don't think anything because there is one person waiting for you
@@tridentgameing6192 no, don't spread this misinformation, most people are too caught up in their own feelings to sympathize with your past, when a fight comes up, they will use it against you and they'll hold grudges/resentment if your past makes them jealous.
Wait till you're in the motel room
Why so specific though? 🥲 I literally did just break up with my girlfriend from Paris